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DiscussionDietyz/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 11:17 PM
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I think this is a gray area because its hard to say that he "knew you thought it was his brother". I can easily see it happening, but I cant see how you would really know that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 01:08 PM
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I really don't care, everyone I knew just got put onto their parents car insurance to dodge the extra charge until they were 25 Men ages 19-24 cause ~90% of violent crime, we aren't meant for modern society, our bodies are capable of too much before our minds are ready to handle the world. Were all impulsive, savage, rapist, serial killers deep down, you should be proud of it. Good for the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:11 AM
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what types of women aren't the AWALT variety? The only ones I have met who really stood out from AWALT were the social outcasts who also weren't very attractive growing up or people who have only been in 1 single long ass relationship since their teenage years imo they just don't have enough experience to show the traits associated with AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:04 AM
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Its the reason mens car insurance costs so much more until you are 25
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 09:58 AM
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I don't care if people fuck my friends as long as they don't fuck my friends over. Seriously, this is why being able to have casual sex without being a dickhead is better than swallowing TRP. Everybody wins. You don't need to be a dickhead to be perceived as a dickhead. If you let a lot of things go unsaid and behave in a subtle or private manner its easy for people to see you as a dickhead My friends get mad at me all the time because my #1 phrase is "don't worry about it", I never tell people …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 11:26 AM
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Its really not as easy as you think, men in general are less social than women and therefore will have a smaller pool to select from. So having multiples isn't as easy as one might think, especially when you aim for people who know each other It doesn't matter if its just casual sex, you think people don't care if you try to fuck their friends or coworkers? Its a great way to not only hurt peoples feelings but to develop a negative reputation. Though that's mainly because I prefer to interact wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 08:21 AM
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Keeping my promises/doing things that I don't want to do If you knew me for long enough you would eventually realize that if I say "maybe" it almost always means no I also have trouble maintaining long term friendships, I move through people somewhat often and feel like im terrible at "reigniting old relationships", not sure why but it always feels weird and awkward trying to recreate an old bond. So some people become like internet friends who I pay attention to on social media but have no inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 09:51 AM
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I think that a lot of lying is neutral, people lie all the time just because they don't feel like answering truthfully or because they feel uncomfortable. I lie sometimes just to speed up the process or to maintain a certain standard, not because I have anything that I want to gain There needs to be actual manipulative thoughts put into place before the lie to make it immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 05:19 AM
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I would say a fair equivalent to women wearing makeup would be men who spend all their money on expensive things but are in debt and shouldn't really be flexxing that much for how little money they actually make Makeup is like wearing fake yeezys, driving a really expensive rental car, shopping at whole foods when you are middle or lower class, wearing a suit out for no reason, etc. Things that men would most definitely make fun of other men for doing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 05:13 AM
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Are you against the death penalty? Regardless of the crime? I take it we are not very similar people. I've always held a fondness towards vengeance and having the last laugh. I wouldn't say that i'm about that "take the high road" life, the only times I do this is because I know the other person will look like an idiot overreacting in the current situation if I do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 05:06 AM
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Is this true? I know he was fucking Mike Tysons wife a long, long time ago but I do'nt feel like looking into when he got "big" in hollywood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 05:04 AM
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Women care more about their companions value than men do, the difference is women are more flexible than men when it comes to the allocation of those traits But if we take a POS woman and a POS man both having zero other positive traits other than great looks as possible compaions I would say that looks are just as important if not more important to women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 04:58 AM
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If they keep it out of the workplace, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 07:14 PM
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"I would never try to dox someone just for having a different worldview." if their worldview involved taking rights and privileges away from you, you'd not only dox them but wanna see them die of leukemia or in a car explosion. No I wouldn't lmao A random persons worldview doesn't actually matter to me, its just an opinion and maybe fun to argue but thats it. Like if someone says something fucked up on twitter or makes a threat I don't care and wouldn't want anything to happen to them. I like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:05 AM
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You both said the same shit, but she has 5 upvotes and ur at 0
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 07:53 AM
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I'm not really sure if they got anything out of it, but I know they created a list of every reddit account to ever post on TRP to spread it to the other subs or so people could ctrl f to see if their boyfriend has ever posted on TRP I couldn't give you any specific examples, but its kinda like the "#votetrumpgetdumped" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 07:41 AM
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I think a great example of a purple pill guy is joe rogan, I know you wanted a forum but I would suggest you go watch some of his podcasts Search for the podcasts called "fight companion", they have no real topics, but they are entertaining and often share views that I would call purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 07:37 AM
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See this isn't really that normal though, I would never try to dox someone just for having a different worldview. I would never try to get someone fired for something or hurt their personal life because they have a view that differs from mine posted on the internet Its ok to hope for failure, but to actively encourage it is not ok(imo) If you post on TBP you just get downvote bombed and insulted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 07:24 AM
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It doesn't. However when TBP tries to encourage people to stray from TRP that is when that answer changes You can say its a joke sub all you want, but lets be real. People on TBP not only want to dox red pillers but they have a strong desire for red pillers to fail. Its not like a neutral POV from TBP side. TRP is not like "haha that's funny now let me carry on with my day", TRP is a thorn that dug itself into bloopers and wont go away. They want TRP to cease to exist, it cant even exist as a ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 07:15 AM
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It doesn't do that at all, in fact TRP tells TBP to do that all the time and they always reply with "its a satire sub, we don't offer advice" I have tried to make a BP version of TRP but it felt like such a big task and I was feelin lazy so I gave up. Also I felt like everyone from TBP would reject it anyway because it still preached selfishness and people are shit philosophies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 04:57 AM
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I don't think anyone would argue that, in both the sense of its size and views in comparison to mainstream media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 04:54 AM
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There are less acceptable males for the most attractive women and they are capable of extracting what they want without actually offering anything in return So yeah I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 11:34 AM
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They certainly become more alpha from the environment they are put in, facing adversity typically encourages alpha traits You could argue that the role they fill in society isn't alpha, but compared to most jobs people have nowadays id say its pretty high up there on the "alpha scale"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 11:29 AM
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I've noticed this too, its easy to be seen as "good" when you interact with people who have nothing to offer you. You cant really see much about someone unless there is something they desire from you This applies to all people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 09:57 PM
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Or someone whose endocrine system is completely fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 09:52 PM
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Where is your argument? I don't disagree with any of this My original point was just that a smart woman needs to be somewhat attractive before she gets credit for her intelligence. So intelligence might be attractive but it needs to be recognized first. You seem to be going way off track and I don't know where that quote is from
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:31 AM
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Elliot rodger didn't have followers or a cause(other than an emotional cause), any kid can be a hopeless nihilist on a killing spree nowadays But having legions of followers and killing people in a more personal way(not with a gun) in order to take what you claim is yours is much more telling when it comes to "alpha" traits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 09:16 PM
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Alpha and beta qualities are hard to define because they manifest themselves in different ways throughout our species development In the past a viking who raped, pillaged and was seen as a threatening individual would have certainly been a alpha male(its still like that today, look at urban culture). But as we become more civilized alpha traits started manifesting themselves around the laws that society enforces. So there are some alphas who are straight savages and others who follow every law a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 09:12 PM
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Not really true. Sure the number of people you will fuck is much greater than the number you will give commitment. But that doesn't mean dudes are out there trying to fuck/pay attention to everyone, its more of a hypothetical type of fucking "I would fuck those girls if it took no effort on my part" but if it takes any energy or time than a males standards will greatly increase
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 06:12 PM
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Yeah your right. Emotional intelligence isn't just compassionate understanding, manipulation is also an aspect of emotional intelligence. I would say that the more emotional intelligence you have the less likely you are to be genuine if there is something you stand to gain
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 09:57 AM
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All(vast majority) men would fail that if the standard to pass is the average womans "emotional intelligence" I don't think it would be a good thing to pass that anyway, it would mean you think too much of others and delay action Another useless form of intelligence is "spiritual intelligence", those people make me want to gouge my ears
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 09:42 AM
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The important thing to remember is that men are less likely to notice or listen to a woman whom they aren't attracted, unless in specific situations Intelligence is attractive but without physical looks no one will recognize your intelligence because they are busy paying attention to the sexier girls I would also argue that only some type of intelligence is attractive. For example, some people believe they are "emotionally intelligent", no guy gives a fuck about that, we see all women as emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:21 AM
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They are referring to monogamy and functional family structures. Enjoying the decline just involves pursuing your carnal desires and just focusing on yourself If a woman ever told you that you are "afraid of commitment" than you are probably enjoying the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 01:06 AM
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Isn't the original definition referring to when a man interrupts a woman? Did they change it to explaining something in a demeaning way? The problem with the word is that it applies a gender aspect when a very good % of mansplaining is coming from a guy who would have done it to males also Its just an attempt to silence people. Many people just love to argue, assume they are smarter than you and love to hear themselves talk, jumping to the conclusion that its because they are sexist is just sill…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 01:00 AM
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IMO Purple pill is similar to TRP in many ways but without stupid justifications or absolutes. Purple pill is acknowledgement that we are all selfish animals acting on instincts of self preservation and personal success. If something is good for us we will justify or "hamster" why we should do it, and that's totally fine blue pill is just "the mainstream" TBP is only mainstream verbally or in media, but purple pill is mainstream if we only judge people on actions Purple pill aligns with both nie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 09:19 PM
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I think BP people are much less likely to give advice in general because they don't want to hurt people feelings, the tbp person would probably give some watered down general advice that isn't really detailed or helpful IRL with people you care for and online are completely different situations Even I have trouble with it, you know when you just look at someone and feel like its hopeless, you tell yourself they are hopeless so you don't have to tell them what they need to hear. This is cowardice…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 10:05 AM
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Purple pill is already the most majority view, most people irl just use blue pill shit to moral high ground
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 09:57 AM
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I'm pretty sure the title applies to everyone, who doesn't want to feel superior to others? If you think this is specific to TRP i got bad news for ya I would say you are wrong, people in TRP dont want to feel better than you, they already do feel better than you. All they need to do is prove it to themselves, so they give themselves challenges based on things that society values. This is a normal aspect of being male, think how often you hear great men say shit like "i had to prove to myself I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 09:50 AM
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If you agree that TBP is everything that isn't TRP(which is the definition that OP is using I think) than that would make him TBP because hes a nihilist, terpers are existentialists Its just confusing because many people think of blue pill as "good" person and trp as "bad" person He had a similar starting point as many terpers but he developed in a completely different way/direction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:32 PM
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I think elliot rodgers was more "pre-TRP" who grew to beleive certain things about women that is similiar to some of the things you hera on TRP but without any actual motivation or ambition on his part to obtain his goals Long story short hes a nihilist who grew up being taught things that many terpers were taught(women are wonderful, etc), terpers are existentialists which is the key difference. It would have been best if he had become MGTOW We are gonna have a lot more of these types of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:26 PM
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MGTOW and TRP are are not really similar at all, the two reactions are the complete opposite. The only thing related between the two is the fact that it is a response towards women + societies view of men, but everything after that is different I really don't know why people compare the two or act like they are related. I know it can get confusing tho since some MGTOW guys post in TRP(fuck if I know why) MRA is another thing entirely. Honestly I don't think the MRA even knows if its an actual mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 04:34 AM
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The problem with these threads is that people put too much emphasis on how many people the person has fucked There's a big difference between doesn't fuck a lot of people and fails to fuck a lot of people or had to work to get to the point in which they could I'm sure you would agree that your husband could have easily screwed around if he wanted to without making any changes to who he was, correct? If so, none of this matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 12:52 AM
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I don't think terpers actually blame women for everything, it looks that way when you read the more emotional posters who are likely referring to a specific woman in their life. People tend to blame all the specific people around them, which will translate to "all women" when recollecting their experiences in a emotional forum post. Those posts are easy to point out and should be easy to decipher imo People who attempt to logically blame women for everything probably have nothing to feel good ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 12:44 AM
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I think people on their deathbed or people who have accepted death or hopelessness can act selflessly, but I agree with you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 09:07 PM
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Many people have an idea of a lineage or bloodline that is meaningful to their identity, if they consider those aspects to be part of their self than that behavior cannot be considered selfless Many other factors come into play like glory, pride etc. Just because something looks selfless from an outside POV doesn't mean it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 06:25 PM
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I was mostly just replying to you because you used the word "flaw" in a situation where it doesn't fit When people accept transgendered people, it won't be a mental illness IF people accept it, there is no right or wrong, its just whatever society(majority individuals) says its comfortable with and willing to accept Its best to think of society as an organism rather than something trying to achieve something specific
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 05:49 PM
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People confuse martyrdom and patriotism with altruism, they are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 05:26 PM
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We base dysfunction on how well an individual fits into society tho, your argument could also be applied to pedophiles and rapists We don't shape society for the minority, we shape it for the majority and to avoid chaos I'm not saying we shouldn't accept them if we can, just saying that you could classify them as mentally ill and it would be accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:56 PM
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I just meant to say if everyone worked out the super skinny guys would prob start trending or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:44 PM
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I don't care about society and i'm not altruistic. But i'm also a absurdist with nihilist thoughts during substance abuse. I would say im more of a selfish pleasure seeker Although I do greatly desire to be seen as worthy of society, but only perceived. I don't actually care about society, but I do care how it views me or how its rules effect me, beyond that I don't think I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:38 PM
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the most important part of your workout is the 3cc syringe full of deca, test and tren
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:31 PM
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If everyone does it, will it still be guaranteed to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:29 PM
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Impulsive and stupid people exist everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 12:23 PM
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The last girl I was attracted to was very deceitful and manipulative, the way she talked, dressed, and acted differed so much in different situations. She would play a good girl routine at her job for 8 fucking hours, different voice and everything, I honestly have no idea how she had the energy to be so fake. She could play any role. She was very masculine in the sense that she couldn't be fucked wiht, she was the most DGAF girl I ever met. This one time she dropped this bomb on me "if we get c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 12:13 PM
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You can understand the possibility of something but not trust that it is the truth, that's why I said if a woman can prove it than she shouldn't have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 10:22 AM
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Too many people are concerned with disproving TRP, that shit doesn't matter to anyone that actually reads TRP If you really wanna defeat TRP what you should be doing is creating an alternative framework that functions in the same way as TRP but with a different set of beliefs. Profiling, stereotyping and association are completely normal and shouldn't be frowned upon as much as they are(although it should be less based on gender/race, but we will not get rid of this in general). Sure, they are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 04:12 AM
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I think it makes them look like children. No doubt I was just saying that even when men avoid that type of behavior by taking away the offer, seeking an emotional outlet through facebook, or attempting to become okay with rejection through those "approach anxiety challenges" people still try to get men to not do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:59 AM
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Vulnerability is not the opposite of weakness, it is neutral I would argue that the important thing to remember is that women don't actually like vulnerable men. If they like you and you grow on them than they want you to become vulnerable. Being vulnerable in general is unattractive. Being vulnerable too easily is also unattractive Therefore it is clearly not the most attractive feature because it requires a bunch of prerequisites before it become attractive. It is only potentially attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:28 AM
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You were willing to do things you don't like for him, but not the current guy I know what you are gonna say. "I have grown as a person, I have more self respect now and wont let a man treat me that way. You should value me for my improved self respect because I value myself more". I understand this But us men cant see that in a relationship, they don't know who you were in the past, so it just looks wrong and deceitful from our POV. How can you prove that? If you can prove it i'm sure you will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:23 AM
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We are all violent, selfish assholes at our core. You just have to undo the domestication process A good way to think of it is like this, can you take a nice dog and torture it enough to be aggressive? If so, this also works on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:13 AM
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Arguably this makes it even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:09 AM
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I don't even like anal, but I would be offended if a woman wouldn't want to give me more than she had given to anyone else Maybe offended isn't the right word, but I wouldn't be able to trust her. I would feel like a replacement rather than an improvement, I have been in that situation before and its not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:04 AM
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Because they don't wanna ruin a good thing, ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:03 AM
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Its not because they were pretending to be nice though, you insulted them and they thought in their head "you think you're better then me?" so they insulted you. I know no one is gonna agree with this, but I think when women reject men its best to try to do it in the least insulting way possible Unfortunately I think this is unavoidable, not to mention I think its better for the guy to have this type of reaction than try to suppress it and later commit an actual violent crime based on those emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:44 AM
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This is a very good point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 05:38 PM
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I can smell the jealousy in this a mile away. You are very concerned with throwing shade, not a good trend to have in your posts. I wont even deny it, but that doesn't change any of the things I said Ultimately, a Chad will attain some sort of status and resources because he is a Chad. Why do you think this? Being a chad doesn't get you anything but pussy, anything else you obtain wouldn't be because of you being chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 02:47 PM
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BP overestimates how open minded, accepting and empathetic they are because they base their points on hypothetical interactions. In person I think we are the same, we all judge each other and make assumptions about who they are based on very little. TRP is just more willing to accept this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:57 AM
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We can throw photoshop and filters on anybody and make them attractive, the original picture is what we should put the most weight on And it's hard to say let's take a freakishly tall athlete and disregard his athleticism/sport accomplishments and pretend he's working at a grocery store. That's the point of chad, he can be dumb af and completely useless from a provider POV, hes just there to fuck. Giving Chad a bunch of other status points or resources defeats the purpose of labeling him Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:43 AM
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Chad is Chad. Chad is still Chad even if he works at chucky cheese. If you see the guy you originally posted in a grocery store is he still chad? No I don't doubt that being on a college sports team can get you pussy, but that doesn't make you Chad. Without the team that's just gonna be some big footed goofy ass white boy with ill fitting clothing draping off his boney physique(the first guy OP linked)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:48 AM
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I'm projecting? What you think i'm a 6'10 black guy who thinks 6'10 white guys are gross? I just stated a pretty common opinion. Most people think being above 6'5 is too much if you aren't black You're the only one who pictures that guy in your head when you hear the name "chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:14 AM
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Have you met someone who is 6'10 before? They have clown feet and look scrawny af, they look like really large children or aliens or some shit You can get away with being 6'10 if you're black, but not this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 05:46 AM
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Why on earth do you think that guy is a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 05:41 AM
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Getting what you want is always worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 07:02 PM
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Is it insulting? I feel you lack self awareness in my opinion as it is, and thinking that women on this sub telling their boyfriends that they don't need to compete with ex's is somehow telling them to compromise arouses my suspicions. I never said that. I didn't say that the woman said it was a compromise. I said that is the way males compromise, through competition. The alternative would be to just not date the girl Again, if competition is the most important part of life to you, then again, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 04:52 PM
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I feel your reasoning for this is because you have this disdain for women that an idea of them attempting to make them feel better and say, hey, you don't need to compete because it doesn't matter, and you look at this as something negative. This right here is just insulting. Maybe this is something people grow out of, because I didn't think I would meet a male who feels otherwise Competition is the most important part of life to me. I would say that I hover between existentialism and absurdism …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 04:30 PM
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As a deeply insecure person, attempting to deal with your insecurities by avoiding anything that makes you feel insecure doesn't work. You just feel insecure about different stuff. What works is doing the shit that makes you feel insecure, again and again, until you drive it into your head that there is nothing to be insecure about. This is a slippery slope when the things that make you feel insecure involve you taking freedoms from others I do agree with you in general though, just not in the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 04:03 PM
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How do you know they don't like men who try to make a compromise? Is it because your straw woman wouldn't theoretically do it? Women on this sub routinely say that they don't like when men feel the need to compete with their ex boyfriends, that is an attempt at compromise from his POV. Hes saying "ok this makes me uncomfortable so I will try to make it comfortable by experiencing it myself" You also would need to back up your claim of it being a main motivating factor for every great male in his…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 03:56 PM
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This isn't really an answer though Some men try to make compromises, you wanna know what those men do? They try to match the womans sexual experiences, they say things like "you did anal with him so you gotta do it with me". They compete with every ex boyfriend or fuck buddy she has ever had Clearly women do not like men who try to make a compromise, they do not like men who try to make things work or give them a chance. So the alternatives are either the guy can just avoid those girls(which to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:53 PM
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I can tell you that you shouldn't put your own insecurities on another person. Where should you put them? Don't you think it makes sense to avoid situations that make you feel insecure? Or do you think the man should be self sacrificial and make himself feel insecure and bottle it up to give women more opportunities? Because that sounds like the opinion of someone who is deep in the women are wonderful effect/ lacks sympathy for males. I don't blame you if that's true, I don't have sympathy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 12:31 PM
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The thinking, reactions and opinions, not the actual shit that they do. Im not saying everyone is a psychopath For example, the woman paints herself as a victim with the concept of "the cool girl", the cool girl is when a woman is so attracted to a man that she lies about who she is to make him like her more. She is a relationship pickup artist, but in the movie the character manages to create the idea that this is the males fault. In contrast, every woman IRL pretty much despises PUA while also…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:00 PM
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I wish women would go straight to this, I prefer to get a literal no or a serious decline than when women just kind of ignore you while acting friendly. Just seems like a waste of both of our time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 11:42 AM
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What strikes me as strange is that the woman usually just says she' not interested hoping he'll get the message, rather than leaving her alone, so many men do the classic ''it's ok, I didn't mean like that''. What strikes me as strange is why you care about this, why is it important to you? If you clearly have zero interest in this male why is it so important to you that he follow through with his attraction? I think its just that you care more about this woman getting an ego boost and attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 11:39 AM
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There is an appropriate social context You would be surprised how many men don't live lives in which they have that appropriate social context, or they just don't want to use that social context because the women in those situations aren't desirable to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 10:25 AM
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I wish that there was more movies with complex, accurate female leads, but I think those movies would paint women with a negative view compared to the normal view hollywood portrays. I think the best one of recent past was gone girl, you can not only learn a lot from that movie but also from the opinions people have of it I understand what you are saying though, movies about women aren't actually supposed to accurately depict them. It just depicts what hollywood wants us to view them as, or what…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 10:15 AM
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Female pickup artists are called "the cool girl"
/r/seduction05/05/16 09:35 PM
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Being genuinely nice isn't possible for most people, so there's no reason to even think about it. Lets all just be dicks, nice/pc people are dreadfully boring anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 09:47 AM
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I agree with this in specific situations. I know the feeling of becoming too invested and willing to do too much, its not a good rut to fall into Those men need to take the advice that women often give to each other, don't let people treat you like that, don't let people use you. If you aren't getting what you want, stop giving in and leave. Don't be a chump I'm more referring to orbiters, in your situation I assume the male holding the purse isn't actually fucking the girl, right? If they are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 09:17 AM
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Milo has a pretty good interview on JRE, its hard to dislike him imo I don't remember how much of the podcast was actually on topic, but I remember watching the majority of it so I must have been fairly entertained https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGL5eRw7rXU
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:45 AM
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It still doesn't matter under the context of TRP because TRP isn't a social movement, its not trying to change anything other than yourself. Its only a distraction to worry about anything beyond what works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 12:26 AM
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I think the "proof" part of TRP is not only wrong but not needed, I also think that "biotruths" are pointless, who cares if something is cultural or genetic or whatever else? If behavior A is present you respond with behavior B, nothing else matters. Justification is just something people obsess over, become complacent and waste all their time overthinking. Don't get me wrong, I can see why it would be interesting. But that's not the point and its detrimental to go any further trying to pry into…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 09:04 AM
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I think most people use the rating system based on competition between your own gender. Just basing it on if a guy will fuck you or not is flawed because that hypothetical example is taken in a 1 on 1 context. It lacks all the aspects of female competition Your number is relative to other women, otherwise every girl above a 7 becomes a 10. Which doesn't make sense because people can tell that a 10 is more attractive than a 7, but you're willing to fuck either if given the right opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 05:37 PM
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The easy way out is MGTOW, not TRP. TRP is a pretty big gamble if you ask me, either you succeed and add substance to your ego or you fail and grow bitter and resentful. Potentially worse off than before People act like seeing the world in black and white isn't the norm, all of our initial judgement are based around that. These internet posts revolve around us thinking of hypotheticals so we are more open minded than we would be in real life, real life interactions based on guts/instincts are bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 09:36 AM
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I think most of the women bashing is more to accept AWALT and ingrain those beliefs into your behavior. I don't think its meant to take any of the blame off of yourself, but I can see why it may be confusing Its impossible to read something and immediately represent it in your behavior, people work towards it through repetitive thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:14 AM
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I wouldnt say they are never altruistic, but it certainly isn't a common trait or inherent to them as alpha males
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:41 PM
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Alpha males are often more merciful than caring, this is a important distinction Also sometimes you are selfish in a caring way, like supporting people who you care about who effect your life. If you do something nice for your SO its kind of an investment or beneficial in some way for you, you can not consider it altruistic or anything like that I would say equating selfishness to alpha males is simplified but still far closer than any other generalization you could make https://www.youtube.com/…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:34 PM
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That's not necessarily the frowned version of nihilism, you can care about interactions and morality between humans while still understanding that we are not important in the grand scheme
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:29 PM
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There are tons of people who use tinder for ego, to chat while bored, to try to make friends, to fuck with you, or try to screen you for a LTR The amount of women who actually meet up with guys whose only intent is to fuck is deceptively small. Its one of the reasons guys act like assholes immediately or send dick picks, they want to filter out all the duds
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:52 PM
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I think if you are that beta TRP wouldn't help you much anyways. Your argument is only looking at nature and ignoring nurture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:24 PM
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Your right about okcupid, but everybody seems to have a tinder nowadays, even if they just use it to ego boost. I would say 80/20 is more like 90/10 on there tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:18 PM
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When TRP says the 80/20 rule you need to remember its about people, so if you fuck the same girl a thousand times it still only counts as 1. If you think about it that way it makes sense. The other good representation you could use is tinder, I bet the 80/20 rule is more like 90/10 on tinder I would say the vast majority of men (I'd say at least 85%) spend their youth having casual sex. This is so far from the truth, the majority of people in general get into relationships Its not to be taken as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:13 PM
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I think it may have been longer than 4 or 5 years but she doesnt admit to what I think the truth is, I think my brother only exists because my mom wanted a girl and she probably knew she was gonna divorce my dad but wanted to get the girl first(she reminds him all the time that hes meant to be a girl). She just waited till my brother was in first grade so she could have a full time job and get everything all planned out before moving out of my dads house. I remember when I told my dad I didn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 12:19 PM
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Its smart because it gives you an advantage, that doesn't mean its the right thing to do however My mom secretly planned her divorce over the course of like 4-5 years, she had my dad working on the house to get its value up, pushing him to work more hours and doing all sorts of shit just to get more money in the end. It probably would have lasted even longer, but she told me and I kinda blew her secret, 3rd grade me didn't keep secrets very well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:31 AM
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I don't think its very different in reality, shitty people act shitty. I do think men fall for rose tinted glasses more commonly than women because of the reasoning I used in my other post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:26 AM
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Some do, but men are typically more impulsive and wouldn't keep that shit wrapped up as tightly. Men typically only have 1 emotional outlet(if at all) so I don't think they could pull off that type of thing very easily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:25 AM
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Yeah what he wrote is stupid, hypergamy is often the idea that a woman will remain in a relationship even though it is over in her mind. She wants something better, but wont break up with the guy till she finds an improvement, most likely because the current living arrangement is better than being single. There's nothing wrong with the current guy for right now, but the woman is already aware that she is going to move on after she is mentally prepared for the breakup and finds another guy/ gets …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:15 AM
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I wasn't really saying that men wont betray you too, just that I myself can personally spot the types of men like that and avoid them. I have a friend who is a supervisor who told me that one of my female coworkers got me audited, this coworker had always been super friendly to me, and not just in a courteous way, she would always go out of her way to initiate our interactions. I can never tell which women are like that until someone else tells me who had been working with that person much longe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:10 AM
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I think the best context is that of coworkers, I have always felt that my female coworkers weren't as trustworthy as my male coworkers because the women who are snitches don't stick out as much as the males do. So its better to tread with caution around them The word "brown noser" only really applies to men, because that behavior is common among women, so common that you wouldn't use a term to point it out I don't think either gender is more loyal than the other, but women are way more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:48 AM
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And even if all you say was true, you kinda just lay back and accept the world, why not fucking right this inequity, don't just feed into it! Because the world is competitive and always will be Do you see feminists sacrificing anything in their personal lives to gain equality? I don't. They just talk, talk is cheap. It would be silly to do anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 12:31 AM
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Hypergamy doesn't mean you need to cheat, you could just break up with your boyfriend and move on to the next. Male loyalty isn't based around the partners desires or vision of the way things should be, males don't necessarily feel loyal to someone just because you are in a monogamous relationship, plenty of guys date just because they want to fuck something consistently. There's also the case of those individuals with very poor impulse control There's no way of knowing if someone will be loyal …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 12:22 AM
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That's because reading TRP implies that you aren't a natural
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 11:06 PM
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Whats a creative nihilist? Like the guy who dressed up as batman and killed everyone in that movie theater?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 11:03 PM
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I disagree with this, the left accepts strength and masculinity but only if its natural. In fact I think that the left is more accepting of TRP if you can pull it off because you will have less competition The far right has this anti hookup culture/forced monogamy thing going on that seems pretty lame to me I once heard someone in trp say "I would hate if everyone acted this way, but its good for me to act this way" which is the big difference between TRP in left vs right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 10:56 PM
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Yeah, a rp response to this would be to just not give in to female demands. Not to try to make everything equal or look for double standards. Life is unfair, don't surrender your advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 10:53 PM
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We all have a competitive mindset, we are all pressured to meet a certain mold for our physical looks and personality. I understand what you are saying, you mean that these women don't want men to change, because they want the guy who is naturally what they seek. But at the end of the day that still puts pressure on the guy to change, even if the girl already moved on So they aren't really encouraging change, unless they are talking about men as a gender and not a specific person. "fuckboys" At …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 10:46 PM
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When there are problems people look for solutions, the solutions would be 1.)give up on your desires(people dont pick this one very often) 2.)try to pressure the male into commitment by withdrawing whatever you had previously offered him(people try this, not the best results) 3.)move on (this is what people do when they have failed with the 2nd option in the past) 4.) just vent about it and do nothing out of fear(this one happens fairly often but will eventually transition into #3) So yeah, its …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 06:23 AM
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When women complain about a lack of commitment from the males part, I assume they want the men to change
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 12:01 AM
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If a guy will fuck with a girl but wont date her and she has a negative reaction because she isn't getting what she wants than I would consider that she wants the male to have lower standards Obviously she isn't gonna use those words because it would be insulting to her, implying that he is somehow too good for her. But its the same shit really
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 11:57 PM
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I think you could say this exact post in TRP and people wouldn't disagree, especially if you put a solution or helpful rp type advice at the end
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 11:49 PM
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I see it frequently, you just have to know what it looks like. It wont be friendly criticism or anything like that, it'll come out something more like "im tired of these fuckboys" or people will describe it as a "fear of commitment" It could be the type of company I keep, but if you know the right people you hear it nonstop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 11:47 PM
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This is where the problem comes in, they can fuck those guys but that isn't necessarily their goal. So they demand men lower their dating standards so the two match. The fact that men will fuck so many more girls than what they would commit to can be a real mind fuck for some girls It seems many men want women to lower their hookup standards and women want men to lower their dating standards At the end of the day this doesn't matter, men who are overly invested in social movements have their pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 11:31 PM
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Maybe you just aren't passionate about it enough xd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 05:12 AM
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It doesn't have to be a literal group, it could be a job, political candidate, friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 05:07 AM
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The key thing to remember here is that most Red pillers had to grow to see the world that way, a previous post pointed out that males in their 20s are known to fanaticism and adhere to a lot of cult like behavior. So someone exposed to the red pill is more likely to be an exception as most racists and sexists did not have to be convinced of their beliefs. So you couldn't propose it as a ultimate truth, more of a mixed bag That's what makes me think this study is less relevant in this case I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:21 AM
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its not the red hair that people dislike tho lmao But I get what you mean, association is strong. Its like how I automatically dislike anyone with the hatchet man stuff, because I assume they are juggalos. I don't even know if those 2 things are actually connected
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 10:30 PM
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I think that this is the fashion/modelling aspect that men don't really care for, some women have perfect bodies to model clothing but they will be far from preferred without clothes. Men don't care that much about female fashion, but I still don't think they would dislike it so much that they find it ugly Perfect models bodies are more like hangers, they are for displaying clothes. Only women really appreciate this Can you give your own personal example? Because I cant imagine that leading to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 10:25 PM
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Women aren't told what they need to do because it has already been drilled into their heads since birth, they are pressured their entire lives to maintain a certain standard of beauty. Women end up being supportive of each other because they know if you aren't doing what society tells you to do its probably out of insecurity or inability, so its best to just be nice. Unwanted advice isn't helpful when the person already knows everything you could tell them, people are supportive because its what…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:20 PM
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They would be fucking other men though, and for far less
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 09:37 AM
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The romanticized version would be something like "i dont feel the need to sleep around now that ive met you, i have no desire to do that anymore" I dont really believe in love the way people talk about it, im just saying what they would say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 10:14 PM
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I don't doubt that it happens, but I wouldn't say it is because of "love" because imo the romanticized version of love doesn't actually exist in any male or female. There are no selfless acts when it comes to a SO, even taking a bullet, its easier for a man to die than to go on living without his SO. If anything that would be a selfish act
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 08:37 PM
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I would say that when people refer to love they mean it in a romanticized way that doesn't come from any weakness, self doubt, or void that you need to fill. So if your sense of attachment to the person inhibits your own freedom it wouldn't be considered love because that is a negative thing. If you become dependent to the point that you do things that you aren't comfortable doing its not love etc. I also think love implies some sort of selfless type behaviors(even though I don't think its reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 08:32 PM
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Men want to be loved in an obsessive, worship type of way + the idea that you couldn't possibly feel that way about anyone else. To care for us more than you care for yourself. This is obviously unreasonable and like he says, unobtainable. Can I prove it? Not really, but i'm sure you could find out by asking women. Go find a woman who was mercilessly beat by her ex husband but stuck around stayed in the relationship for as long as possible. Now ask her "did you stick around so long because of lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 11:19 AM
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The problem with that is no one considers themselves to be a part of the "RP community", maybe you would but they wont personally feel that way. And if they do feel like part of a community than they aren't doing it right anyway, they are just bathing in hatred with a bunch of other like minded pricks. There is no real RP community because that would imply failure on their part to actually be RP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:55 AM
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Maybe i'm alone in this, but I think everyone who reads TRP has their own interpretation of it. I don't see TRP as a "group" or "movement", they are not allies or anything like that. So I gloss over everything that I don't care for, disagree with, or simply don't need. I take what I want and leave the rest on the page, so when people link things that others have said it really doesn't matter at all. I don't see TRP ECs as people who are leaders/respectable or anything like that, I typically don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:46 AM
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I don't think its manipulative if its true, but id bet some of these girls are just playing games to try and get to know a guy with a verbal contract type scenario. Sure, some prob just wanna cuddle but id say a lot of these girls would probably just do this as a "free trial". Personally I think its weird to want to be touched by strangers, but I guess some people would feel less pressure in this scenario than a normal meet and greet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:28 AM
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Honestly though we all know how that would end, that guy would for sure fall in love and start orbiting that girl I don't think its manipulative, but I also don't think its a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:25 AM
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I think its more about whether or not she gets away with it, better examples would be situations in which the woman earned her success rather than being born into it Alpha women are more likely to get away with their behavior, because they will probably break less laws. This leads to them having less respect and actual power compared to an alpha male tho because they aren't seen as threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 10:07 PM
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Man is the most domesticated creature in existence, an alpha male isn't a perfect drone complying to all the rules of our society, they are dedicated more to their own personal desires than to conform to what society wants. You only want to be domesticated enough to fit in, but not so much that it hurts your personal success So the best examples people tend to use will often be things that we are told we cannot do or are immoral, that's why people always use those types of examples. Those exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 10:04 PM
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Its not that they have to behave that way, but they must be capable of acting in that way. That is a big difference. Its abut making moves when it really counts, rather than being paralyzed by fear or hesitation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 09:52 PM
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Depends what you mean by alpha woman, when I think of an alpha woman I imagine a woman who has zero desire to have children and zero desire to rely on any companion, most likely moves from companion to companion often. She only focuses on her goals and doesn't act in a subtle way based on her physical handicap compared to males, acts as if she has authority even when she doesnt First thing that comes to mind is wonder woman from the movie batman vs super(because I saw it yesterday) I'm sure wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 09:48 PM
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I've always thought that the fact that vegeta never surpassed goku was pretty unrealistic. All throughout the show the idea was that in order to become stronger the best ways were to face a great challenge that is beyond your abilities or to have an extreme emotional response to something devastating. The show is meant to portray the fact that goku could outperform vegeta even though he had worse genetics and a positive attitude, which is okay at first because he had so much to fight for. Its th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 12:20 AM
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I think this post is more about how TRP treats women IRL, you are talking about the way TRP talks about women on a subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:15 AM
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I've always wondered why women seek after respect from men, because from my point of view the more respect you have for a woman equates to less possible trust you can have for her. I feel like its better to be 50/50 or to totally trust the woman and not respect her than to respect but not trust her. When men say respect they mean a combination of admiration, independence, able/capable, threatening, dominant and able to improve/take criticism. The more respect that you have for a woman the more y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:15 AM
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That's not really true. I think that we shouldn't be allowed to inherit money from our relatives, it would make people who are born from different classes much more equal. Equality doesn't stop competition, equality would increase competition between men and women, in the past gender was more segregated(competition wise) than now People who believe in equality are still gonna dominate others, but it will be based on something like intelligence, not skin color or gender. Equality of opportunity i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 07:56 AM
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idk man, I feel like the most successful people on the planet are all driven by a couple negative traits, the need to fill a void of never being good enough or holding yourself to the standards that you have for yourself(which are unrealistic). People love the humble athlete, why do you think someone on that caliber is humble? I saw a JRE in which they were talking about the personalities of the top athletes and how most of them are assholes with a lot of personal problems, you usually need a ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 07:28 AM
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i fucking hate that shit, my brother is obsesssed with that myers briggs thing and goes on forums with posts like "omg infps totes fall in love with entj !!!!" There's a pretty good post somehwere on reddit explaining why no professional takes it seriously, its just another zodiac sign type of thing for people to make them feel like they belong/someone else understands them Its funny that myers briggs has all these classifications of famous people from history, how would they even determine that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:00 PM
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I agree, they see them as people. But they also see them as people to be used, alpha males do not look at people and become emotional over something as silly as their skin color or gender, they don't need to justify their behavior by means of putting someone else down. They aren't the types of people who need to use "virtue signalling", they don't have that need to influence people into believing that they are good like many people do The most selfish people on the planet are the least racist/se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 11:55 PM
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Who cares, haven't you learned anything from James Franco? They hate us cause they anus. Facing resistance in life is a good sign
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:11 AM
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Women don't like rejecting men that they like(in a friendly way or people they have to continue seeing because of work or something) so they offer friendship more to avoid guilt. Its kind of a win-win for the girl, if you accept her friendship she wont feel so bad for rejecting you, if you reject her friendship than she can jump to "what?? my friendships not good enough for you? ASSHOLE!" in which she will most definitely experience zero guilt turning people down isnt fun for most people, only s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:06 AM
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You accuse me of making things up and than you put words in my mouth...? Here you want a link, I didnt actually read it. I could go scour tumblr or any Halsey interview for blogs defending image obsession and individuality but ill just get distracted by porn, puppies and 90s gifs so id rather not. http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-04-11/kim-kardashian-nude-selfies-and-empowerment/7310348 it is also about fighting for women rights, which is something you seem to despise, good for you. When did I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:46 AM
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I don't think many women actually wanna walk around topless, hypothetically they might want the right but most of those types of girls are just doing it for the thrill, attention and rebellious image they have of themselves in their head If anything they just want it so they can post topless selfies on facebook without it getting taken down or worrying about getting fired or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 11:19 PM
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I think it depends, some people have legitimate reasons to be stressed out and panicked all the time. Especially in your early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 11:17 PM
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You think I made that up? Well, I didn't. The rest of what you said is just an attempt to go off topic. I feel like none of your posts have provided me with any content
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 11:09 PM
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What's that got to do with choosing a traditional lifestyle? those are separate topics, I just picked a new one for that post to illustrate my point What does that even mean? Be specific. Men can't choose to be Instagram models because then women couldn't? I really don't see the point you're trying to make. It means that when a women is hurting other women but benefiting personally than it is still ok, because it is empowering. It means that the freedom of women is to be respected and never ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 08:02 PM
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That's just, not true... Why can't both men and women not be raped? Why can't both men and women be treated fairly in divorce courts? Why can't both men and women not face workplace discrimination based on their gender? You realize that this isnt exclusive to feminism right? Most people who aren't feminists still agree with this part, you are ignoring the social aspect of feminism which is the most debated part of feminism and its what we are talking about I don't even know what you're talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:55 PM
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Equally well is only a thing when you are comparing dramatic situations like lynching/rape etc If something is "equally well" for both sides than it means they must have had the same starting point right? Meaning it would have already been equal? Typically when something becomes equally well for one gender it becomes equally worse for the other, it cant be equally well for both, that's why I say "equality, on womens terms", because the equality itself isn't the important part If feminism was rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:21 PM
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Equally well and equally shitty are the same thing, equal is equal I'm against the number of women being raped but I don't think the solution is to go round raping lots of men. No one likes being raped, women on this sub have said that they prefer men who have a low n count. Its silly to try and compare those 2 things. One is a horrific act and the other is a preference in the traits of your SO. When I say shame I don't necessarily mean to be cruel towards those people, just to recognize that on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:02 PM
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An example could be something like sluts vs players, its not the best example but its the first off the top of my head On this subreddit BPers say it all the time and link studies, women prefer men with a low n count. So you have 2 paths to equality 1.) Men stop slut shaming 2.) Women start player shaming Obviously the 2nd path is the logical choice, because it si something that women and feminists have actual control over, it would be far easier to achieve and would be equal But when women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 05:49 PM
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I think part of being a feminist male requires you to take a bit of a backseat, shut your mouth when women talk, don't critique them, don't challenge or act confrontational, be respectful(the womans definition not the male version of respect), care more about their freedom than your own happiness, be super proactive in a way that takes responsibility out of the woman's hands(the bp way, not the rp way) I think that feminism inherently pushes female selfishness, so as a male you need to be less s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 04:59 PM
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Women are equal to men. That's all feminism is. This is such a simplified version of feminism, its more like "Women and men should be treated equally, but only on womens terms. If you disagree you are a bad person" I can think of a ton of things that could be considered equal that feminists would not agree with, if feminism was truly about equality than there would be aspects of feminism that make a womans life worse, but I never hear about those things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 04:51 PM
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Its unreasonable to date an asshole and try and get him to change if you knew he was an asshole from the beginning. One would assume if you date an asshole than you are accepting the fact that in the future he will also be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 04:06 PM
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eh, you could say that about a lot of things like stupidity or having weak impulse control
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:07 AM
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I think its more about the type of tattoo, like dotwork and blackwork were huge for a while, color was cool for a while but currently too much color is lame etc etc Sleeves that are themed are gonna become super cringeworthy soon, you know the sleeves that are just like a galaxy or a ocean or something Tattoos will most likely always be cool(unless scarification takes over or a newer type of tattooing) but not the types of tattoos, the more cliche it is the faster its gonna die
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:54 PM
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everyone has tattoos nowadays, just not visible tattoos who cares I prefer girls with tattoos and piercings, just not over the top in that ~body mod~ type of trend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:49 PM
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If you grow up with the right dad or role model than it is normal so it is assumed to be natural Why wouldn't they remember the good things that they actually liked about those guys and give out information I imagine it would be hard to teach because a lot of what they liked about those guys is linked with things that they also don't like. I'm sure its not even on their list of priorities since they don't know what it feels like to be a male or how men think. I don't think a single mom could pul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:19 PM
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Women teach men the things that they wish their alpha ex boyfriend had, but they don't think of teaching any of the things he did have Its like how single moms try and teach their sons to have the traits their father lacked, but they don't try to instill all the traits he did have because women assume those come naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 10:18 PM
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thats not why they do that LMAO, attention is king
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 06:41 AM
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People blindly hate each other for tons of stupid reasons, like who you support in the presidential election There's those who hate and those who don't. People who hate others typically don't have good reasons for their hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 09:26 AM
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saw it in fight club xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:52 AM
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This post isn't referring to a woman who doesn't want to sleep with you, its a woman who doesn't want to sleep with you right now but will do it anyway because she would rather give you what you desire so you continue giving her what she desires relationships are often very transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 08:17 PM
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There's some middle ground to that, painal and makeup/breakup/hate fucking sex aren't ever discussed but they are still kinks I get it, its seen as like some type of worship or obsessive type vibe + the power of knowing she needs you more than you need her(in her mind). I don't think the guy in the quote really pressures the women(verbally), the pressure is more implied/subtle, not an ultimatum. She wants to continue gaining whatever she gains from the relationship so when shes not in the mood s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 08:09 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:15 PM
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I think that people have a view that women must meet a certain physical criteria or they have zero value, its important to have a role model showing the opposite, someone who we can recognize as being great despite a lack of conformity. There are zero young women in that situation currently. It will never become acceptable if we aren't exposed to it, association and familiarity are very powerful if delivered to the majority of a generations population during adolescence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 11:49 AM
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Yea. However were comparing the present, not the past It depends how you are thinking, i'm only thinking about the actually rp/manosphere aspect. Trump supporters hanging outside of 7/11s are blue pill in my eyes, everyone in a walmart is most likely blue pill, along with all the people you are imagining being blue pill. So TBP is based on actual real world averages, I think its fair to say that a niche self improvement group probably beats out the average. If you are talking about the actual bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 05:45 AM
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But at the end of the day, I do it for myself. Girls always say this, but I don't think its a good thing. People are overly obsessed with image and individuality to the point that it goes beyond "doing it for men". Being conditioned for your entire existence to value yourself based on looking like an individual rather than actually being one(focusing on acts rather than things that are seen). Think of the girls who try to fight back by growing out their armpit hair, yet they have purple hair and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:47 AM
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Sometimes people put each other down in private or in their own minds to elevate themselves, i'm sure they aren't saying those things directly to women Anything to get ahead, ya kno
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:30 AM
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good post, AWALT is just another version of neitzsches "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." Its important for men to recognize that women are not like your mother, they are not obedient to you and prioritize your well being over their own, they aren't gonna take a bullet for you. They care for themselves the same way you care for yourself and you should recognize and respect them as a threat Notice I used the word resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:20 AM
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OP I feel like you are comparing a average RP guy with an above average BP guy SO I will agree with you, but if you make them both above average I think or both below average the answer becomes harder to answer. I also think that if the RP guy isn't known to be RP he will most likely be on the winning side in these situations BP guy: will trust his SO, BP guy: pretty confident in his masculinity. These are not the norm for TBP. Possible? Sure. But if you go outside and look at all the men in an …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:04 AM
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I have nothing against sluts, but I would never commit to them. They are unappealing, something about them reminds me of all the trashy girls from my hometown. Sluts are automatically unintelligent pleasure seekers who are trashy and are attracted to trash, it doesn't matter if its true, its what I associate them with so I couldn't LTR them simply because I dont see them in a positive light. I'm not gonna say anything negative to them tho, they are free to do w/e they want. I also don't get any …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 02:54 AM
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Tinder and okcupid are not used for the same reason tho, people are more inclined to care about personality on okcupid which means people will be more biased than they would be on tinder I also think the average age on tinder is much lower than okcupid, so the women are most likely less biased
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 02:38 AM
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What are the main parts you find ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 02:36 AM
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It is more complicated than this. During the blizzard a girl asked me to come help her sshovel snow and bring a shovel because she didnt have any So I brought 2 shovels, handed her one, and instead of helping her I just used mine to lean on while I watched her shovel her own damn snow. After a while I helped her once I saw that she was gonna do it herself instead of just using me. I feel like you can do nice things as long as you fuck with the girl while doing it, tease her a bit, maybe throw a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 07:46 PM
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Having a bias or being prone to identify with a group doesn't actually invalidate what the group says or does tho You still have to look at the specifics. I do agree with you tho, those fucking juggalos, bronies and obsessive dr who fans ughhh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 07:20 PM
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I don't think that the act is evil in itself, for me the concept of evil is more about why you do something than what you actually did Like I don't see terrorists as evil because they are doing it out of faith in their religion, evil is more about wanting to see others suffer and take joy out of their suffering. When someone commits an "evil" act out of self preservation or something similar I don't really see it as evil, regardless of the act If he follows through with his plan I bet hes not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 11:17 PM
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Hes saying a BP would settle down with the single mom afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 10:23 PM
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doesn't seem evil to me, seeing as he told them beforehand rather than just doing it out of the blue seems pretty solid to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 10:14 PM
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This is what you wish was true, most people dont care enough to hate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 04:32 PM
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Go on, continue with your thoughts. Explain the problem, the solution and why you think distorted world views are harmful From my POV distorted world views are one of the strongest tools we have when it comes to motivation and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:03 PM
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That's your problem, that belief of yourself. TRP isn't trying to teach you to be paranoid, its trying to teach you that it doesn't matter if a girl cheated on you because you like your life for yourself and you are way more important to yourself than she could ever be Don't live in fear, be DGAF. Shit happens
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:53 PM
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The problem isn't women, the problem is how terpers perceive women. It's a very distorted worldview. How is that a problem for the terper tho? I would say you are in the minority based on your claims of yourself. If a distorted worldview gets you what you want than it isn't a "problem"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 05:17 PM
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My mom may be similar to yours, my mom only believes in being beautiful in a classy way that isn't too revealing. She looks down on things that would be referred to as "sexy" and hates things like tattoos, piercings, etc. She hates women who do things to get attention, because she wants the attention and doesn't think the other girls deserve it Like shes not willing to sacrifice the way she wants to look/behave, but hates that other girls do it because she recognizes that what the other girls do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 05:13 PM
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This will give a feeling of betrayal, like she was a PUA pretending to be a good girl repressing her sluttiness to try and capture me. It doesnt even need to be true, i just need to perceive it to be true. She didn't have to lie to me for me to feel like she did real underlying issues against sluts, some form of prejudice Yeah thats what ive been saying, sluts = past experiences. But you sound like youre saying it in that trendy buzz word type of way that doesnt actually mean anything. This appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 03:23 PM
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its everything, random girls you grew up with, movies ,culture, family, hometown after already knowing and falling in love with a girl This is the equivalent to finding out the guy you love is secretly a terper. Your view of them is shattered, they betrayed and lied to you, you don't even know who they are anymore. They aren't the person you thought they were Perception is always important and you can never just isolate it to people from TRP to try to psych analyze them, w/e you say will apply t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 03:07 AM
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I think that you are too focused on the sexual history itself The more important thing is the perception of the women, if certain sexual histories illicit disgust than I don't think it has any connection to security. People are biased and desire a certain perception out of their companion, we respect/disrespect people and things based on random shit that happened during our upbringing I remember when I was a kid walking back home from elementary school I took a shortcut thru some shithole apartm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 09:14 PM
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the 2nd part is meant to be a blue pill critique i think, because trp never tells you to know your place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 09:10 PM
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I think that you are too focused on the sexual history itself The more important thing is the perception of the women, if certain sexual histories illicit disgust than I don't think it has any connection to security. People are biased and desire a certain perception out of their companion, we respect/disrespect people and things based on random shit that happened during our upbringing I remember when I was a kid walking back home from elementary school I took a shortcut thru some shithole apartm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 08:55 PM
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Who cares what other people value, stop trying to control everyone Everyone has their own desires and vision of their life, everyone has the right to determine their own standards. You would think that bloops would agree with that. I swear sometimes it seems like people want men to be blind and have zero preferences, we should all just be totally accepting of whatever falls into our lap and just smile and nod
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 08:25 PM
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The problem with girl game is that it would probably make you look sluttier if it was in anyway proactive, that sucks I think if there really was a lot of thought put into "girl game" it would be more about how to get the most attention out of social media without coming off as slutty The easiest way to get attention on social media is to just show off your body, I think the most acceptable version of that is the fit chicks. IMO fit chicks pull off the "im gonna show off my body without trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:28 PM
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But if you take a group that all disagrees with the same thing than they are bound to have a bunch of similarities in the way they think and other values/opinions of the world So you could make a general description of them that would be fairly accurate in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:04 PM
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Hes saying that TBP wants you to "be yourself" rather than "be who you dream of being" and encourages people to be complacent/unambitious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 12:55 PM
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I think that TRP is useful as a methodology, but I think the subreddit itself can be detrimental and encourage some people to become more emotional and deluded in a way that isn't actually useful. I think that some people become too focused on the information and aren't actually focused on themselves, they are thinking from the pov of Men vs Women when in reality TRP is meant to be Me vs World. TRP really has nothing to do with men but so many people dont get that, they wanna make everything int…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 12:35 PM
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When someone commits rape or murder it doesn't really matter, what matters are the factors that led them to being capable of committing those acts. I believe that in order for anyone to commit those acts they must have a lack of empathy and sympathy, the bigger the ego the more self serving you are, the less you think of others. Rapists and murderers are not concerned with their social status or that they are "deeply hated" because its unlikely that they would actually identify with your views o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:16 PM
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I don't think we share the same view of ego, ego has nothing to do with morality or respect for others At the same time I don't think when someone commits rape that they are disrespecting themselves, why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:05 PM
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I think that confusion is based around the fact that many incels want relationships, not just sex, so they would refuse to go to a prostitute But why do you think to rape a women you would need a lacking ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 08:56 PM
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AWALT is just an extra bias, we all have that "gut" feeling based on past experiences and AWALT is just extra bias on top of that for those who previously lacked those experiences. It is better to supplement yourself with experiences than to operate without them. Whether it will hold up or not is up to the women you happen to meet But at the end of the day it is purely reactionary, it requires you to do something specific that other women have done to me in the past. By recognizing certain famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 08:47 PM
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I think the guys who cant get laid would just go to a prostitute rather than raping someone You need a decent level of ego to commit rape, incels dont have that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 08:26 PM
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It doesn't mean she'll leave you when you get laid off or fall ill. I agree, because its hard to blame the male for these things, its different when its solely his fault for his troubles Men are 6 times more likely to abandon a sick wife. TRP isn't meant to compare women and men, its not about being fair. In fact its not about men at all, its more of a Me vs World type of thing. It just looks like that a lot because of crybabies in the sub who aren't actually focused on themselves. You can compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 08:01 PM
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I'm pretty sure I do this, while still also believing in AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:58 PM
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Because she will lose respect for you Strong women who provide for themselves are looking for strong males who provide for themselves, they are not looking for a mamas boy that they need to support. SHe needs to perceive you as functional and independent, even if you aren't Its not like career women are looking for dumb pretty boys who work minimum wage or strip on a pole in a torn tuxedo, they are looking for the same men the other women are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:45 PM
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Do you think that this also applies to respect? Because there can be no love without respect when it comes to a woman and a man I think that it can only apply to men who arent at their best during times when the problem was out of the mans control, if its his fault I dont think respect is maintained
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:25 PM
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How does that prevent RP men from understanding women Because if you believe that AWALT isn't a thing and we are all unique special snowflakes than you cant understand all women so how would that even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:23 PM
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What type of social circle are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 11:55 PM
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I think the reason you get down voted may be because when we talk about this topic it is always about a womens views of a seperate couple. If they are a couple than clearly the girl dating the older guy isn't creeped out by him, so those 2 experiences aren't that related I guess that girl could still be reminded of past events which could creep her out but its still stupid to verbalize her opinion like it matters or even makes sense in that context
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:03 PM
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I would say its gained a lot of popularity solely for the pursuit of attention on social media, rather than an actual fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 11:54 PM
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+1 for neitzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 07:15 PM
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To be fair I think that every fetish has increased in popularity due to the internet. Especially the ones seen as taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 08:21 AM
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did knifeplay exist back then? I've been seeing a lot of teenagers posting lingerie + knife pics and I had never even heard of it a year or 2 ago Its like the new trendy thing to do in selfies, it went from jewel buttplug -> animal tail buttplug -> hold a knife to my throat while wearing lingerie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 08:16 AM
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I think TRP is closer to the average person than TBP, especially if you look at hollywood and people below the age of 30
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:01 AM
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I think a big thing that is different is that TBP actually wants to shit smear people on TRP. TRP doesn't actually care about any individual feminists, it might reference ideas but nothing beyond that Doesn't TBP have a big list of every reddit account that has ever posted on TRP? I swear I saw something like that TBP(many, not all) genuinely hates redpillers and wishes them nothing but sadness and failure(they get off on it), TRP doesn't care about feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 11:58 PM
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IMO it encourages men to treat women as children, which isn't required to have sex or good relationships. It's honestly a strange thing to include in a dating ideology and I can't see the point of it. If there were 2 males, one of them treats women as equals(like other males) and the other treats them like children(the typical way men treat women when they are interested) than which one do you think would be received better? Remember, treating someone like a child doesn't mean treating them like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 11:15 PM
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Success in our society is typically agreed upon, not all individuals have the same criteria to base whether or not they want to be around you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:29 PM
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don't you think everyone would prefer to be around someone who is kind vs someone who is not? This is a poor way of determining things. You should not base it on "would i want to be around that person", you should base in the POV of that person and how much individual success they have This is one of the reasons a lot of people give bad advice, because they are thinking from their pov rather than the person who asked the question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 01:46 PM
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That's like treating all Muslims like they're terrorists, why are you basing your argument around the 1%. That's not what TRP is and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 01:43 PM
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toxic is just a buzz word for people who are overly invested in controlling the behavior of others rather than focusing on themselves I wanna be like if asap rocky and genghis khan had a 6'2 jacked baby with a neitzsche inspired state of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 10:41 PM
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Why should TRP talk about a bunch of traits that you most likely had prior to ever finding TRP? I'm willing to bet dudes in TRP had no problem being compassionate, they had problems getting their dicks sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 10:20 PM
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This doesn't work well for natural betas imo, you need some balls to push the envelope and it will most likely hurt your career/other interactions I think encompassing feminine traits would be hard for a lot of people because your family/friends prob would prob rag on you pretty hard for that unless you had always been like that, unless you are naturally like that it would be a dumb thing to do But i may be confusing what you mean by "feminine", the feminine guys I know are more emotional(mostly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 10:02 PM
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I think what he was trying to get at is that if you don't believe in TRP than who cares? It will just be a bunch of failures But since your response was that post I think the confusion here is that you actually do believe in TRP, you just want to protect women from their own desire. Or you just don't want males to value pump and dump lifestyles and would rather try to hold them down The truest thing TBP says is that you should elevate yourself, not put others down. That includes putting terps do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 09:20 PM
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TRP itself doesn't actually compare men and women to see who is "better", its just supposed to be a reference to behavior and thinking. When TRP says something about women, its not meant to be taken as an insult/offensive and its also not really supposed to be compared to men. Its just supposed to be heard and absorbed as factual in order to dictate your own behavior around that information People in TRP aren't always representative of what its meant to be, most times they aren't In response to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 09:02 PM
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My coworker grabbed my ass once, i didn't really care but i thought she was ugly so i just ignored it like it never happened. She didn't say a word to me for like a month after and it was awkward AF, even today we don't really interact with each other anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 10:55 PM
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Its rare that I think anything about the people around me, and if I do its something random about the situation/environment I'm most likely day dreaming about something completely off topic or looking at my phone If I think something personal about a woman it most likely means 1.)she is attractive 2.) There is something that sticks out about her. Otherwise I don't see you as a woman, you are just scenery. The things I think wont be related to TRP, most likely just something about what shes doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 12:10 PM
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I didnt say any, i said who isnt gross I think most men would agree to that, not just terpers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 06:27 PM
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I think most of those situations are like this: Girl is interested in sex from guy Guy perceives it as interest for monogomy, turns her down If he knew it was just casual NSA sex most of those guys wouldnt be turning that down, unless the girl is gross or he has too much on his plate already Interest from women tends to look the same unless the girl is super bold/forward
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 06:08 PM
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I think that women have more negative emotions surrounding competition than men do, so the more competitive the woman is the harder it will be for her to have female friends(unless they are no threat to her) Its way more common for women to hate each other over competition than it is for men, they lack the respect that men have for winners when it becomes personal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 02:15 PM
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I have heard similar things, my friend always complains about how much she has to use her fake voice 100% of the time at one of her jobs She had some other complaints about image being more important but I cant recall the specifics. It is a spa type of place that is very commission based, the commission + staff hiring mostly sexy girls is prob picking the girls who are naturally more manipulative and putting them all under the same roof is a big factor I know a nurse who tells me similar things …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 01:56 PM
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IDK why everyone thinks TRP tells you not to be nice, you can be commanding and nice at the same time I would say that TRP is more reactionary, it isn't like lemme walk up to this random person and act like a condescending cunt(although it isn't against that either). It puts emphasis on dominance/decisiveness and prioritizing your time/not giving anything for free You can easily do all that while still being nice and friendly, you just need to know when to pull back on the niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 12:47 PM
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What other mainstream sources provide that? Typically most mainstream advice is very defeatist in nature, which defeats the purpose of the advice I also don't think that much mainstream advice for males is accepted by women anyway, it just doesnt get negative attention because of things like TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 12:37 PM
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TRP is unique because it instills confidence through belief and theory, it teaches you absolutes so that you focus on yourself rather than trying to treat unknown women differently from each other so that you are capable of as much growth as possible. It teaches you to live your life based around your behavior, not others Imagine if you read a guide how to change your tires and the guide said "this wont work on all tires and i'm not telling you which ones it will work on!", you wouldn't be too c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 12:30 PM
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TRP is just feminism for individual men, but its the specific kind of feminism that says "you are oppressed so when you rebel its empowering"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 12:11 PM
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Yeah, none of that is relevant. That's because you perceive men to be a group, for the most part we aren't, we are competitive and care about ourselves There have been women who have sacrificed for the good of all women, that was their choice though. You cant expect men to make the same sacrifice You don't think that any individual is relevant, that's why I said previously that feminists want certain men to be martyrs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 12:29 PM
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I'm speaking from the POV of an individual and I happen to be a male, I don't think feminism is good for me. Feminism is something men have to earn, they need a sky high smv before they can portray those views or it becomes a negative aspect of their personality. You cant negotiate desire Its like if 2 people support welfare, one of them is a billionaire and the other is on welfare. We don't think highly of the person on welfare who supports welfare regardless of their reasoning while we see the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 12:17 PM
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I clicked it, just not on the links I've seen it all before. TRP and TBP both agree that you cannot negotiate desire. That alone puts a big whole in many things that feminists say about gender roles. I think that for feminism to truly grow, there need to be martyrs, and feminists want the martyrs to be men(rather than themselves), I don't want that role
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:51 AM
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its just a bunch of words tho, behavior and actual events are what really matter The majority of feminism is just moral high grounding that doesn't actually represent reality People need to actually do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:40 AM
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I think hes saying that since he is banned from a certain subculture because of his SMV it makes him bitter(nothing wrong with that, very natural reaction) So he seeks out women who would never take part in the "meat market" because they are like him but the amount of women who didn't play is a much smaller % than the men who didn't play so a dating pool becomes infinitely smaller for him In response women start lying and hiding their past, which leads to feelings of betrayal because that future…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:32 AM
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THis, you gotta embrace those competitive urges or you just end up searching for a woman who is like you(in the sense that she wasn't part of that meat market) and it will be tough to find what you're looking for. Its the reason so many women are so secretive about their past, because they know you are looking for someone who hasn't indulged in any pleasure seeking(and they probably regret that part of their life, so they dont care) The best medicine is just to become good enough that you get ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:25 AM
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The way I think of respect doesn't actually include acting respectful towards them. Like I think if you respectfully protect someones feelings by coddling them than you are actually disrespecting them To me it is more of being willing to listen to them and give them your critical, honest POV without actually trying to actively help them. I chose the answer "admiration" to describe the idea that I think you are actually a competent human being who can function on your own and handle your own emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 03:59 PM
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You always stand the chance of being outted as a terper tho, people talk about it on TBP all the time "omg this guy I really like reads trp so I dumped him" You want to distance yourself from TRP and have a positive image while still holding onto the benefits of it I also really value individualism so I naturally would want to say everything in my own words, but maybe other people don't give a fuck about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 11:12 AM
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A better public image
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 05:02 AM
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It kinda makes a bit of sense to me(when thinking about it, not in practice) Typically if i'm not possessive with a woman than I flat out don't give a shit about her. I only pay enough attention to not walk into her, she is comparable to a tree or building, just a piece of scenery. I'm even a bit possessive with my female friends who I don't plan on trying to fuck or date, possessive and protective are linked in my mind so you cannot have 1 without the other. So if you tell a guy he is dating a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:57 AM
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It kinda makes a bit of sense to me(when thinking about it, not in practice) Typically if i'm not possessive with a woman than I flat out don't give a shit about her. I only pay enough attention to not walk into her, she is comparable to a tree or building, just a piece of scenery. I'm even a bit possessive with my female friends who I don't plan on trying to fuck or date, possessive and protective are linked in my mind so you cannot have 1 without the other. So if you tell a guy he is dating a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:53 AM
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The guy said he wants to understand what women desire. I said he just needs to look around himself. I gave a hint that the cartoons (Family Guy, The Simpsons) do not depict real life about women's desires. Women are not happy with a grossly obese, sexist, obtuse, obnoxious and stupid man. Hope that's clear? How are these 2 things related? I don't see the connection you are making between these 2 You guys almost had it. The zen. The boundaries. The accepting that women have agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:45 AM
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I'm not that attracted to women who don't want to be owned, I also like my women to be territorial and possessive with me(though this can sometimes get very old and emotional draining given certain circumstances). I'm sure plenty of women would agree with me on this What would your advice to us be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:42 AM
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When I say there should be a next step I dont mean to give up everything TRP taught you, I don't mean to give up and become a BB, just to be more selective, be more rewarding of good behaviors, and use absolutes less than you had previously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:27 AM
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People really don't understand TRP, I never read the actual sub and even I get it. How many times do people have to say that AWALT is methodology rather than an absolute until you accept it? Think about it like this, TRP has an aspect of self improvement that involves a self inflicted hamster. People on TRP hypnotize themselves into thinking and talking in terms of absolutes, they know it isn't totally true, but they want to behave as if those absolutes are true in order to improve their behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 05:35 PM
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Because the money is worse now than in the past, and since its more accepted I think there are a lot more random run of the mill girls getting into porn. In the past the girls getting into porn were probably more experienced and had done other crazy shit since it was much more taboo, so they weren't as "revolted" by the acts they had to engage in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 08:05 AM
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When I was a teenager and found porn I found it through a porn review site called sirrodney, sirrodney fucking loved these 2 websites called "asstraffic" and "allinternal" and I trusted his judgement because we all knew that downloading porn from limewire was risky business, you had to search for specific titles or you would get viruses. Anyway these 2 sites had the same dude fucking the girls, he was this british guy who would kinda beat all the girls, step on their heads while fucking them, sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 08:02 AM
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Yes, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't fuck them, just that i'm not actively trying too(which can change given certain changes, like she breaks up with a boyfriend or something) I would say "just friends" certainly exists, but it can change in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 07:53 AM
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Thats a personal thing, the problem isnt if you find it empowering, the problem is when women try to force that belief down everyone elses throats. Just because you see it as a positive doesn't mean its wrong for other people to feel differently Do whatever you want and judge people however you want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 09:41 AM
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He built his career around his personality, plenty of fighters are as good if not better than him in the cage. But he has the psychological edge that most great individuals have. Its like being right on the line between unwavering confidence and delusion that leads to all his success. While still being humble in defeat and always willing to learn and better himself I think that all the greatest individuals have some void that they need to fill that keeps pushing them combined with an almost delu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 08:44 AM
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If you doubt what I am saying, just ask for the specifics and see how quickly the pull the "there is more to life than pussy card" on you. Ask how some 30 year old guy can sleep around with a lot of different women, see how quickly they say "oh but you're supposed to be above sleeping around, there is more to life than pussy bro!". Perfect deflection, because once you ask for the specifics, the guys on TRP have absolutely no fucking idea of what to say. So what do you do when you don't have an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 06:43 AM
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conor mcgregor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 06:12 AM
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im 6'2 and a girl recently asked me how tall I was, she thought I was atleast 6'5 to be fair she was like 5'1 so im a giant compared to her regardless
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 05:31 AM
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Putin, trump and mcgregor are the trio
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:35 PM
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Don't they say that nearly all self made, millionaire entrepreneurs go bankrupt like 2+ times on average? It just means he wanted to succeed so badly that he was willing to risk bankruptcy, I would trust him way less if he had never gone bankrupt. People who have been on both ends of the spectrum offer way better/more insightful advice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:33 PM
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Would u consider a guy alpha, if he can get laid easy in Asia, due to the population definition, but not in America? As long as he stays in asia sure, its all relative He may not be a "role model alpha" though, but for all intensive purposes he is living the life of an alpha and being treated as one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 09:37 AM
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The patriarchy is beneficial to the top people in power, they happen to be males because for the most part they are in power because of old world money, strong family ties/connections and old gender roles It does not benefit males and its not because they are males, so its not really a patriarchy. It is just a way to make money off the people who are willing to spend the most of it If women want to destroy the "patriarchy" than all they need to do is stop spending your money on things that suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 09:16 AM
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She's trying to explain to men that yes, they can be feminists, because ultimately its about men and women being equal, nothing more, and definitely not what the media has made it out to be that Terps love to cite. Why would a self improvement sub care about that? Can you explain in detail how feminism would better my life? I'm not against feminism, but I don't support things that don't support me and I've never been much of a team player I think the reason why people don't mind objectification …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 09:06 AM
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What car do you drive, what brands do you wear, how tall are you, how sexy are you, etc etc Then compare yourself to famous guys, you don't need to be equivalent, you just want to be closer than all the other males in your vicinity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:56 AM
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To take out frustration on people who you deem worthy, so there isn't any guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:48 AM
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This right here is the reasoning why many blue pillers actually use this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:43 AM
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That said, purplepillers aren't real. They're just RPers who are looking to separate themselves from the elemental flaws of their own movement, yet can't actually say the words "this is wrong." I'm purple because i'm gonna do whatever is best for me, but I don't actually give a shit about race or gender, only personal success. I think purple pill is more of just a superiority complex/selfishness + agreement that dark triad traits are useful - all the gendered/racial reasoning that TRP claims. Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:37 AM
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What definition of alpha are you using? Because many people define it based on your position vs the rest of the male population. If you use this definition of the word than he is undoubtedly alpha. I think you just don't want to call him alpha because you want to use someone who is a perfect specimen rather than a fat slob who acts like a 12 year old on 4chan. All alphas come in different shapes and sizes. Ultimately if you get everything that you want and outclass most of the population in powe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:29 AM
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Correct, I said boasting about it is most likely due to an insecurity. But either way it is still an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 12:50 AM
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Yes, as males we typically compete for the same women, the most attractive women that we all desire. When you compete there are winners and there are losers. What else would you call it if not an accomplishment? If you complete a goal or obtain a desire resulting in pleasure would you not consider it an accomplishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 11:29 AM
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Whats your opinion of the subtle-douche just got out the shower gotta brush my teeth and take a selfie picks with a towel around my waist pics? I hate those, take that fucking toothbrush out of your dam mouth and embrace the douche IMO you either go full douche with high smv or no douche, guys that try to go 50/50 just fail If you cant pull off full douche you gotta get people to take pics of you playing with dogs and not looking at the camera + toss on a nice filter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 11:21 AM
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It depends on the audience, most people adjust their diction and tone based on the types of people who they are around When im around certain people I start talking urban slang without even thinking about it I think a better way to put it is like this "men who feel the need to randomly boast about their accomplishments with women are most likely insecure". The way you put it is too simplistic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 11:07 AM
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If i'm being totally fair, I gloss over and disregard a lot of stuff in TRP thinking "this guys not trp, hes just butthurt and whining" So I can see why we would think differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 07:49 AM
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anger phase isnt really directed towards women, its directed towards society, self, environment, media, movements, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 10:42 AM
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The reason I don't think badly of the single person who fucked the married person is this: cheater gonna cheat. Might as well get laid, they are gonna cheat regardless, the specific person is irrelevant However if the person who fucked the married person is a friend or family member than I do agree with you, its fucked up that they would hurt help someone that they actually know and should care about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 09:39 AM
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This would be difficult to obtain I think, it is heavily affected by physical contact that men and women have. I think that in order for male physical contact and intimacy to become normalized the same would need to happen between men and women. How can you strip sexual tension from someone who is attracted? I think that would just lead to a lot of unsolicited groping How can people strip away the fear of being gay? That would be an insanely difficult task, I can only imagine it being obtained i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 12:23 AM
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This is what I agree with too, idc what other people do but I will subscribe to w/e gives me the most personal success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:23 PM
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Does TRP really endorse negging? Last I checked that was more of a PUA thing I prefer to just be generally insulting rather than do some pseudo compliment hidden insult bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 08:04 AM
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The most important factor is whether or not the woman knows why you approached her, that is what determines if she is stringing along the guy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:50 AM
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And the difference is what exactly? The difference is obvious, its the word "capable" Because what is there to say women won't like it as well? Clearly we have female UFC fighters. This is something i'm unsure of, competition between women is surely different from competition between men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 01:29 PM
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There is a big difference between saying that everyone loves violence and saying all men are capable of enjoying violence under the right conditioning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 01:19 PM
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I really like kickboxing, and I think if we lived in a world where killing was normal than yeah I would probably grow to love it. How many kills would it take for me to grow to love it? Dunno, i'm sure it would happen eventually tho, its a power/dominance thing. Its all about exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:42 AM
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Get your shit together. Get in shape. Buy grown man clothes that fit properly. Get an education and a real job. Become confident in who you are and stop acting like a cartoon version of Chad Thundercock. This isn't wrong, but it isn't helpful in the specific way that AWALT is I think the best way to describe it is like this. AWALT is like hypnotizing yourself into not caring about specific women. When you care less about them you interact in a way that is more in the moment and more genuine. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 01:24 AM
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Depends, psychopathy and sociopathy aren't really mental illnesses because in a less developed country they are beneficial to have. I also wouldn't count something like ADHD to be an illness either, as it only hurts us in the sense that we need to study There are far more socially awkward people who are so anxious that they are afraid to leave their home in the 1st world(with zero actual threats). I assume people are also far more indecisive in general in the 1st world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 01:03 AM
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If a woman is a stranger her identity is unknown and meaningless to me. Why would it be beneficial to try to tailor my conversation towards her? I know plenty of guys who do this and it doesn't seem to work out very well, if anything it seems cringey Its best to react in the moment, rather than to think too much while talking. React based on the moment and learn to lead a conversation, do not rely on the woman to carry the conversation Too many guys get obsessive with girls and think they are sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 01:00 AM
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That's just it, no one offers an alternative, so people are willing to accept the negatives of AWALT because it offers positives to them You can say there is an alternative, but if you don't lay out the framework than its a pointless statement Lets not act all mysterious I don't really believe in AWALT, I believe in "Treat all women like that". I think this is what many terpers actually use AWALT for. Just to treat women like they have no distinct identity when they meet them, because its someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 12:43 AM
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I think that men are fucked up by war because in todays world we grow up with zero exposure to it, then send adult men over to these situations after they are too developed In the past it was much easier for men to enjoy violence because it was much more common. Its the same reason that mental illness is far more common in 1st world countries than 3rd world, because we don't expose ourselves towards cruelty in our adolescence(atleast not most of us) If given the proper environment we are capable…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 12:36 AM
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I think that AWALT improves male behavior, too many guys believe in special snowflakes, or they are looking for a specific type of girl. No girl is special, don't treat em like they are I'm not saying that there isn't a toxic aspect of it, but I think that it helps you to care less about specific women which is very beneficial TBP always says that its just lifting and wardrobe, I never see them talk about how to psychologically think of women and how you should treat them in a way that increases…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 12:25 AM
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It just means that you need the right stimuli to enjoy violence, plenty of men already enjoy violence. We are all capable of enjoying killing under the right circumstances. Men kill out of joy, not anger If you don't think that about yourself that's just because you don't engage in any activities that would make that behavior more prominent. People who think they aren't capable of enjoying violence are delusional imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 12:18 AM
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You just aren't in the right environment, we are all animals with instincts intact. If you want proof take a fuckload of PCP, if you take enough of it you will lose all short term and long term memory, you lose all ego and identity and will act purely on instinct
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 12:00 AM
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Plenty of women are pretty good at this already, I guess you could make a buncha acronyms for it tho 1.) act/flirt like you are single even if you aren't 2.)show interest 3.)be sexy af 4.)when you want something don't ask for it directly, make up an excuse to meet or talk and than ask for w/e you want or lead the guy into knowing you need something Step 3 is the only one that really matters tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 07:33 AM
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If were being honest, that sub would be treated the way TRP is if TRP didn't exist. Women hated PUA way before TRP came along
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 07:26 AM
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I don't think it is, but I also don't care what other people post. I think people should feel free to say w/e they want, you don't see me trolling sjw sites telling them they cant say the things they are saying(although im aware there are people who do that) It also depends on your definition of what a hate speech is. For example, if TRP makes a post explaining the concept of AWALT or saying women are like teenagers than I don't see that as hate. It could very well contain some hateful language,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 12:45 AM
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Does your name refer to IV or actual oral like codeine or sumfin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 01:05 AM
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What would you say the main reason women have? I would say its competition between women + attention from males I would say its the same for men but the attention isn't so important, for men the competition is just the means to obtain power, money, influence, fame, respect and women. Out of all those things, pussy is the most easily accessible, which makes it somewhat of the focus of their competitive drive for most men. They recognize that they will probably never be famous, rich, lead a countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:07 PM
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What would you say the main reason women have? I would say its competition between women + attention from males I would say its the same for men but the attention isn't so important, for men the competition is just the means to obtain power, money, influence, fame, respect and women. Out of all those things, pussy is the most easily accessible, which makes it somewhat of the focus of their competitive drive for most men. They recognize that they will probably never be famous, rich, lead a countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:05 PM
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Its indirectly true, the motivation is to be the best, to be competitive with other males. Women are the most important part of the spoils, but obviously money, fame, power etc are all also motivating factors
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:03 PM
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This, people just need to do w/e they want instead of trying to control others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:00 PM
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My statement was meant to be really simplistic, If you win every race than you will have more in the end I don't really mean like actual speed completing goals, just that everything is a competition and there's always winners and losers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:05 PM
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AWALT is like the way you treat strangers. You don't fucking know them, so just treat them all like they are the same. I know some guys who always try to tailor conversations to specific women, like they make everything about her, stalk her facebook, she what books/music etc that she likes and than make all the dialogue specific to her and her unique identity These guys would heavily benefit from AWALT, just treat all women the same, react to them in the moment. The specifics of their identity d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:11 AM
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This is true, everything in life is a race
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:04 AM
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Would you say that loving a slut is gross? Or that love from a slut just isn't worth as much? Like she has less she can offer you? I think there's nothing stopping men from feeling attraction and desire to sluts, but they cannot offer the thing that makes the man want to stick around in most situations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 01:34 AM
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Its weird because girls will powertalk about how they never have and never will do this when talking to other girls(like it makes them superior to other girls), and paint it out to seem like girls do this out of insecurity or weakness when in reality they do it to get what they want The competitive aspects of woman vs woman is something I wish more people talked about, I find it very interesting and it seems like no one even wants to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:29 AM
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What do you think will happen if you dread game a psychopath? You would think that there would have already been a thread about that. Maybe its been done, you just don't live to tell the tale
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 09:58 AM
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female version of a PUA, yet somehow the guy is still in the wrong The movie is pretty good though, I like the way the characters happiness sways based on each others performance throughout the movie. The biggest misconception is that he was being forced into staying with her at the end. Its like neitzsche says, men like dangerous playthings. He came back from being complacent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 06:26 AM
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Historically sure, but lets not forget that in the modern first world we have child support. Lets also not forget that we have birth control. Either way, I don't see why it shouldn't be the same for both parties in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 02:08 PM
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You have zero idea of what TRP is based on this comment, TRP is a competition between men. How does making a group help me outperform the rest of my gender? TRP also doesn't try to change women, only to analyze When people complain about women who claim to be RP they are just being emotional, no need to complain, just play the game the way its meant to be played
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:16 AM
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My point is simple, if its ok for one than it must be ok for the other right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 10:47 AM
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IDK, I've met a couple of dudes who could be described as smart, funny, charismatic who were also totally unaware of how they are perceived, cringeworthy, socially retarded and don't understand boundaries And we haven't even gotten to physical looks yet I would imagine OP isn't as charismatic as he says tho, so I can see why you would doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 01:05 AM
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Depends on the definition of approach, women like to pretend they approach by showing interest in the most lazy way Eye contact + smile or anything like that is not an approach Giving a sign and permission for the male to approach doesn't count as actually approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:59 AM
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Why is it ok for a woman to be overly cautious with their social interactions, but not for men to do so too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:54 AM
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Men from TRP didn't have much power over women to begin with, so how can they lose what they do not posses? It's an extinction-burst even that's bound to happen as old dumbass ideas finally breathe their last deathrattle and are rightfully purged from society. It's like TRP is one last fart before people start being reasonable and begin acting like normal human beings. Supply and demand hasn't gone anywhere, competition hasn't gone anywhere, why do you think these things will cease to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:11 PM
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Lets not pretend that we cannot recognize some people as more valuable and desirable than others Its just an acronym
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:06 PM
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I never saw the feminist side of tumblr until I followed her on it, this was a few years ago Honestly I think that TRP and radfems can easily mesh, you har bluepillers say shit all the time about how they found out that a guy they liked reads TRP and then they broke up with him. So its not really the behavior of TRP that turned them away, because they had previously been attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:48 PM
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have you ever fucked a feminist? ya, she showed me that tumblr existed What's wrong with your dick doing all your thinking for you? Seems like a bad idea to let it do all the thinking, i would never use a condom if I did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 08:24 AM
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People have some pretty bad reasoning skills then. I also find severe acne to be unattractive. Maybe I'd still date a guy with it, or even a disfigured face, but that doesn't mean it is attractive. Employers might consider being regularly late bad, but an employee might be productive enough to keep the job. It doesn't mean that being late to work makes you a more attractive employee. That's true, but having acne or being regularly late has zero positives. The guy who has a high N count has a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 06:38 AM
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Except most men don't really have that much trouble getting laid Right, but most of them do have to settle or LTR if they want to get laid fairly regularly sleeping with copious amount of people isn't really an accomplishment anyone is impressed by Nearly every man cares heavily about this, a certain level of respect is based around a males sexual prowess Maybe if you truly are one of the men who just can't seem to get laid no matter how much effort you put into it. Lets not get emotional and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 06:28 AM
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promiscuous men have shown they hold some type of value, promiscuous women have only showed that they know how to open their legs If a girl you know sucks a couple dicks on a single thursday afternoon, would you think to yourself, "damn i bet she knows something I don't!"? No, ofc not. But men who manage great sexual feats in comparison to the rest of the male population most definitely could teach you a thing or two The woman doesn't really have anything to offer intellectually, the male does. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:14 AM
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I like giving girls their first psychedelic experiences with shrooms, lsd, random empathogens or dissociatives but I don't really have any desire to get into a relationship with a girl who does all that shit already. In fact I would avoid those girls for anything beyond casual sex Men feel the same way about sex, we want you to get wild and experiment with us. But if you already went through that phase it is much less appealing. What can you offer to me that makes our connection special in compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:09 AM
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The important question is this: does him sleeping with a ton of chicks invalidate all his other good qualities? Did those other good qualities allow him to get into your pants? Even if you say you find it unattractive, people may disagree with you based on how you answer these 2 questions. TRP says to judge on actions, not words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 12:56 AM
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To be fair i'm not 100% sure how I would react, my dick might end up doing all my thinking for me. But I would prefer to avoid a situation that involves too much thinking or planning, so it would only work if she was like my roommate, coworker or something else that I will naturally come into contact with, it would have to be very convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 09:31 PM
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Nope, and I think in reality I would avoid a situation like that if I had the opportunity. But if I hooked up with a girl and later found out she had a boyfriend or something that she had been hiding i'm sure I would get some feeling of superiority, inflated ego and joy from the whole situation. But I still wouldn't knowingly try to get into that sort of thing, especially if it was like some weird craigslist thing in which the dude wants to watch me fuck his girl. That is just too much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 05:45 AM
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O true, I do like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 05:20 AM
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Honestly a dude fucking an attractive woman is enough of a turn on that any extra content doesn't matter to me, I don't mind watching cuckold porn and at times it has turned me on more that normal due to thoughts from the bulls perspective but I don't really care that much. If other dudes like it I find it strange and a little depressing, but it has nothing to do with me so fuck it idc Honestly I think if I were a bull IRL I would feel bad rubbing it in his face like they do sometimes, even if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 04:42 AM
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MGTOW seems like a step beyond cuckolding to me(or maybe just a different path headed in the same direction), they both lack competitive drive and ambition from a sexual stance. Man vs Man is natural, mgtow and cuckolding both seem to disregard this and submit, just in 2 different ways. TRP acknowledges Man vs Man through many things like smv, the 80/20 rule, blaming yourself etc etc. Which is the reason why its the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 10:29 PM
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Better way to put it is this: she was damaged goods and whether or not she still is damaged goods is unknown. This is a bad position to be in because if you're looking for a problem with someone you are sure to find one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 10:25 PM
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By style mostly, like if you see a girl and perceive her to be a bad girl it may make her more or less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 10:23 PM
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That's gonna be tough for her, most guys will think one of two ways Either she perceives the other guys to be better than me, in which case the ego screams out "she thinks they are better than me????fuckin yea right fuck u bitch" or They think she was really insecure and allowed others to use her and didn't actually like being a slut, in which case shes damaged goods and dudes will run for the hills. Only captain save a ho guys will be into this, but those guys typically are low smv Both of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 07:12 PM
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I don't see drugs as a bad thing personally. For me I only accept women who have a high N count if they act like a slut. They need to show me who they are, not tell me Plenty of dudes get into relationships with porn stars, strippers, prostitutes etc. But you gotta see it from the start. If you act like a girl who was really slutty in the past but are reformed now than I wont be into it, I need to perceive you as a slut from the first impression and still feel attraction. If I perceive you as an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:37 PM
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I have seen this too, BPers calling tons of random dudes RPers when in reality those types of behaviors exist outside of reddit. You see that shit on facebook, those girls are just making those random guys out to be worse than they are to justify them not getting everything they want out of their social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:32 PM
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I have always been apathetic, I just call it realism. Typically I have a delayed sense of empathy because I pay zero attention, 5 minutes will go by and ill be like "fuck did I just say something fuckedup? woops" but the moment has already past so I typically only go back and apologize if the person matters to me Pretty much the same before and after, if anything I have become less apathetic but with a bigger ego I spent too much time with edgy people when I was a teenager, they were so impossib…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:24 PM
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Do you also feel this way about former drug addicts or people who have emotionally abused others in the past? The past is always relevant, dunno why TBP denies this For example, I wouldn't want to date someone who had cheated on someone in the past, doesn't matter if it wasn't with me But I see that you are purple pill, so maybe you agree with me and are just presenting what a BPer would say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:18 PM
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I agree with most of your post, but people judge your personality based on your looks, so its not that their personality is totally meaningless. Its just that their true personality is pretty meaningless for a random hookup, a falsely perceived personality can make a girl more attractive. But since its based on their looks I see why it would still be part of the physical appearance category. That's the x factor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:13 PM
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Some men have sexual fantasies so enticing that it overpowers their natural instincts(which are pretty repressed to begin with) I like cuckold porn ever so often, but from the bulls POV. That is natural imo because it is 3 of a males favorite things, a situation in which there is no commitment + pussy + competition/dominance over another male. Personally I think there is a strong connection between possessive behavior and protective behavior, so to me cuckolds are submissive in a way that makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 07:28 AM
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When people get married they have a vision of what their marriage is gonna be like, so they are not only getting married to an individual but also to an idea. You would be surprised how often people divorce just because their marriage doesn't look the way they wanted it to look, for some people marriage is only worth it if they are living a specific lifestyle within their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:15 AM
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I think zac efron looks way better now that hes on test and gh than in the picture you linked, but im a dude soooooo http://cdn04.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/efron-arms/zac-efron-shows-off-buff-body-at-the-gym-01.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:05 AM
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The same reason why men don't like girls who turn out to have a promiscuous past, the picture we paint in our minds of our spouse is delicate and a drastic change is always bad. Even if nothing has changed the perception has swayed to the other end of the spectrum most likely, they went from being biased for you to biased against you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:41 AM
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Yeah things can get confusing because TBP is not only a subreddit, but its also used to describe a stereotypical view of the world and also everything that isn't TRP. When I say it I just mean everything that isn't TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:57 PM
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Using urban slang(its only ok if you do it for fun as a joke), getting into physical fights with other girls, acting like you are single when you have a boyfriend/having a "flirty" personality when you shouldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:29 PM
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It might not actively make fun of them, but there is typically a slight amount of aggression towards them for asking any of those sorts of questions In that thread about half the posters tried to give advice which boiled down to hygeine + nice clothes, the other half were aggressively saying that he shouldn't try to better himself and that it was impossible to become more attractive which obviously isn't true. There were a lot of general stuff like "if you try to be more attractive than you neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:27 PM
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That is before the transition from BP to RP that im referring too, I recently saw a askwomen thread in which a male asked what he could do to be more attractive to women(mainly his girlfriend) and half the posts basically said "you cant, just stop". That is the type of male who will eventually find TRP That's where the analogy comes from, syrian refugees are very westernized, if they join a terrorist organization because we push them away than it is our fault
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 08:34 PM
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They are more referring to strategy, values and ideas rather than general emotion I believe. Being angry at women isn't what TRP is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:51 PM
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I think what he measn to say is that once they get what they want, it matters less to them. As long as they are getting the attention they don't care about it as much But obviously if they stopped getting it they would go back to what they were before
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:42 PM
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Scientology is actually very useful to famous actors, it has plenty of private resorts and spas that allows them to get away from the public and the media while catering and prioritizing all their needs. It just has to hide behind a religion to make the most money as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:28 PM
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This is similar to people pushing away Syrian refugees for being "terrorists", but by doing so you fail to realize that you are encouraging them to join ISIS ISIS: "See I told you! Its us against them! They have no sympathy for you, they hate you! When you act aggressive towards people who you should feel sympathy for and offer zero alternatives its obvious that they would drift towards TRP, this is why many RP people believe that people who actively post in TBP have some sort of desire to hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:20 PM
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The biggest problem with promiscuous women is when you didn't perceive them to be that way from the start, so when you come to realize that the picture you painted of them in your head is false it feels like they have betrayed you and had been lying to you the entire time This is true for many things, not just promiscuous women. If that's your past than the worst thing you could do is hide it. All former drug addicts learn this very quickly, for some reason women are very stubborn with this conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 08:54 PM
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When women start thinking that her husband only wants sex from her she is aligning him with all the douchebags she had previously met in her life, its a lose-lose for the guy because if you get what you want than she thinks all you want is sex and otherwise you maintain that you are better than all the douchebags but you are sexless. Its a very threatening statement to hear in a marriage, if you hear it than it may be too late because the womans views of you are already so negative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 07:52 PM
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I think its best to use the word "potential", everyone has potential but it is nowhere near equal and never will be But hard work beats talent This is simply not true, if you want an example look at jon jones
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 12:49 PM
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I know, women are less violent, more kind, more empathetic, are better investors,, live longer, have better memory, etc. To play devils advocate, those things aren't necessarily good from a position of self interest or world wide innovation/progress
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 12:41 PM
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We don't have equality of opportunities because of genetics and country of birth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 11:19 AM
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It wont put you into the top 10% or w/e I think we should define "get ahead" as you get messages from women on tindr or some shit like that, women chase you not the other way around If we just say success things are too unclear If its a competition, will those few things get me the gold? I would say that stuff would get me bronze sure, but not everyone will settle for that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 09:53 PM
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I think the op was more referring to girls who balance their chakras and go ghost hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:27 PM
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Crazy, fun and hot hands down. Crazy, blue haired feminist girls who love to argue are my forte.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:26 PM
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Sometimes yeah, other times its self hatred or hatred of beta males I think the "disgust phase" is the more natural thing to go through personally, lets not pretend that being disgusted by beta males is exclusive to specific terpers, its pretty common in young women too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:21 PM
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A long time ago a guy once gave me some good advice before I ever heard of trp. I was talking about some girl and he said "they don't rule the world man, don't treat em like they do". At the time this was very good advice for me, and you wont hear anyone say it if there are any women in the vicinity. Short and simple, no one matters more than I do. The guy was super rp, so I consider it rp advice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:17 PM
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I don't think it should happen, just clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 12:30 AM
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Its not really an approach, its an invitation to approach. If it was a true approach the guy could just stand there and stare at her and wait for her to wlak up, that aint gonna happen tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 11:50 PM
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I think TRP should encourage therapy in addition to the other core values it promotes, but not as a replacement like TBPers promote
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 11:42 PM
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Its both, you cant forget about high profile ambitious males who rub off on the rest of the population looking to also become successful. I do agree with what you are saying, just that hollywood is also a strong motivator
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:21 PM
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I agree with you, and its important for us to spread both of those messages so people are aware. Too many people have rom com expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:28 PM
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Its not that men want unconditional love in the sense that they can do whatever they want and still be loved. They want to be loved for who they are, rather than what they are or what they provide. Not for their status, money, current goals, current success, etc. Men want a true "ride or die". The best way I could describe it is men want the type of love that is shown in the movie requiem of a dream, they don't want to be loved if it requires them to be seen as a "provider", they want everyhting…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:23 PM
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to be fair, TRP is hard on everyone who isnt chad thundercock
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 01:00 AM
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Masculine men aren't suited for egalitarian based relationships because they don't keep score, they don't try to keep things even and they wont remember and inconsistencies in the "fairness" of the relationship. This will lead to them always having extra work or effort because they aren't keeping track like the woman is. This can often lead to situations in which it feels as if the woman is dominating the relationship. Men are typically either very selfish or very selfless by nature, woman are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 04:56 PM
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Depends, to me open and honest requires women to ask. If she doesn't ask and just assumes I would say its her fault, most women would disagree with me about that tho Most times guys just say nothing, nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:22 PM
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I feel like the OP is a bit deceptive the way its worded. Like sure you like guys who don't make you feel negative who also have all those traits. But that doesn't mean you wont fuck the arrogant alpha male who does kinda shit on you, the guy that the op describes is pretty rare so most girls will go for what TRP describes. In fact if TRP guy is more physically attractive id say that's enough to give him an edge over the guy in the OP. The guy the op describes wins with many girls only if everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:13 PM
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I don't think anyone give a shit about the military part, if anything I consider it a negative thing. The few women I know in the military are either lesbians or have an overpowering dominant personality with a huge superiority complex(if they were men they would be red pill) and have "redneck" beliefs Its weird, you would think that the women joining the military would be like liberal feminists who support equal rights. But that's the furthest from the truth, its all masculine lesbians or count…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 12:55 PM
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When you create your own moral boundaries you can do absolutely anything you want. Master-slave morality definitely isn't blue pill unless you are blue pill naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 02:36 PM
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You're right. I think some of them are adrenaline junkies looking for a thrill, but that's a pretty small minority. Remember I never called them crazy, only insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 08:50 AM
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We must have a far different definition of "revealing", to me revealing is like those homemade high waisted jeans shorts so short I can see your ass cheeks as you walk there are plenty f hot women who aren't like that, revealing doesnt equate to "everyone who isnt amish" or anything like you're imagining
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 08:43 AM
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clearly we need a new one cuz that aint working
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 01:25 AM
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There needs to be a universal safe word that everyone knows and recognizes, would make all these accidental rape type situations people talk about so much easier to navigate fuck the word can even be just "rape", just say it once i'm sure any decent dude will be like woah woah woah get away from me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:24 PM
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I know who my female friends like, but no reasons why other than "hes cute". As an adult with access to the internet and more experience it is obvious, but when I was a teenager I was clueless as to what women liked because I just took their word for it For example, I don't think many males knew how sexy women think their forearms are until they found out on the internet. Backs too. Other shit I can think of off the top of my head is like a man in uniform, reaching for something and your shirt r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 02:14 AM
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o correlation between mode of dress and insecurity. Some women dress revealingly because they're the exact opposite of insecure - hot and know it and love the attention. Correct me if im wrong, but isnt that still insecurity in a way? When your entire source of self esteem is based on validation and attention from others it forces you to behave in that way. You have no freedom if you want to remain secure because your security isnt based on an internal source. That model girl who did the really …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:18 PM
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Man is the most domesticated animal on earth, some are overly feminized during this process In the 1st world we don't face enough adversity, people are meant to struggle. Best advice I could give, join the military, join a boxing gym, force yourself into uncomfortable positions, never treat others like they have power over you unless they actually do. This is important for everyone, but it is discouraged for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:09 PM
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Women only really talk about that on the internet or in an environment that doesn't have any straight males. Sure you can go on over to twox and read some genuine opinions from women but it is very rare in person, and for the most part I think most of us grew up when the internet wasn't as popular as it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:07 PM
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"Yes men" like that are toxic long term, they just don't realize it because they are only thinking about the present
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:01 PM
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Your problem is that you only look at the people who succeeded in those situations, not the people who failed. That's what it is, a gamble based around your youth that could lead you to be perceived as a genius or crazy Don't think about someone who is genuinely special, think about people who want to be special(who are 1000x more common). They are the people who this is relevant too, genuinely special people are gonna act the way they wanna act regardless. The fact that you keep talking about y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:45 AM
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Go right ahead, people do this all the time, they are commonly called "tryhards", "fake", etc. I'm not threatened by your differences as long as your differences don't benefit you, because if they do benefit you than I also must do the same thing, that's how our competitive world works Its kinda like makeup, i'm sure in the beginning there were plenty of women who didn't wanna wear makeup. But that difference created so much of a benefit for those who were willing to use it that many were pressu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:14 AM
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You're right I got a bit offtrack thinking about some people I know. I would prefer if people saw the guy with the face tattoo as normal, like he didn't have the face tattoo at all, not pushing any boundaries, not edgy, not more attractive, not "artistic", not threatening, not overly masculine or overly feminine, I want people to treat him like they cant see it or they think nothing of it But I don't think that's possible. So its best to discourage it, because you are either encouraging it or di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 02:30 PM
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When you think of someone who is special you think of someone who is gay/smart/emotional? That's not the types of people i'm referring to at all. None of those things are unique I don't complain about people really, I just think of them as inferior, pretentious, attention whores. I wouldn't want to have to see more of those people than I already do. Its like an 18 year old with a face tattoo, most people would ay some shit like "how r u gonna get a job with that" but those people who need to beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 02:08 PM
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It wont make you cash if everyone does it, but if you are the most progressive and crazy you will have fame and the chance of making money off that fame Why do people need to feel special in order to feel important? The cause of this should be eliminated IMO. Accepting people is just a bandaid fix for a bigger issue, the behavior itself is a sign of a narcissistic culture obsessed with having an obscure, unique identity. Those people don't just want to be different, they want everyone else to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 12:10 PM
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Well whats the next step? If we all have a competition to see how edgy we can sound the next thing is to see how edgy we can act, I don't think that will end well. Its a form of conforming to non conformity if that makes sense, not sure the best way to put it When there is money on the line people will do crazy shit. But the thing is that its all fake and pretentious, I don't think that is a good thing to encourage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 10:39 AM
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Everyone hamsters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:22 AM
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People often say things that they don't actually follow through on, its the reason why TRP says to judge based on behavior rather than what someone says. The amount of people who pretend to be special snowflakes is way higher than the actual amount of special snowflakes who follow through. So it makes sense to assume those people are all talk until they prove otherwise It happens all over the place in life. Think about how many people self diagnosed themselves as mentally ill and act crazy becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 07:55 AM
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How would you define those women? dunno, best way I can think of saying it is "women that every man wants, women that every man pursues, and they know it". Monster egos on those girls They would never be described as nice or shy, not likely anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 06:32 PM
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I agree with you, but I also only pay attention to like 10% of women(at most) and all the rest are essentially just scenery. I only notice them just so much that I don't actually walk into them, their behavior isn't that important to me So at the end of the day TRP applies pretty heavily if you are like me and only pay attention to those specific women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:08 AM
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Because some things take some getting used too. You think guys are originally liked being called daddy? At first every time a girl says it you think of your own dad which is fucking weird, but you power through until you stop thinking of your own dad and eventually you get attached to it Fetishes can be like stds in that sense, you can leave a relationship with a new fetish that you originally had no interest in. Joe rogan has a funny rant about how he fucked a girl who would scream obnoxious sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:07 PM
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Why are you talking about the law? We are talking about the media presence and propaganda used to enforce social movements. You think that this is a racial issue and I dont The kid who got shot on the side of the street for nothing, now that's a social issue. But a criminal endangering a police officer and a store owner? I wouldn't put that one into the race category I'm not a judge, I also wasn't at the event and I cannot read minds. So why should I feel like I should judge him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:48 AM
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If I put a gun in your hand and send you out to enforce the law, would you not prioritize your life above someone who is committing a crime? If someone posed a threat to your safety would you not protect yourself? Remember, cops aren't higher level human beings or special in anyway, they are exactly like you and me Its a difficult job that no human being is fit for, sometimes shit like this happens. The cop should be punished but we don't have the right to judge him. Lets not pretend that we can…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:28 AM
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It's not a valid justification, but if you are in charge you must give police some room for error, as long as those situations aren't too frequent it should be accepted and expected I'm not saying there shouldn't be punishment for these cops, but lets not turn every little situation into a race war
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:19 AM
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Its also important to remember that we aren't dealing with robocop here, every cop is flawed in the sense that they prioritize their own safety over the safety of others. Logic would dictate that if someone is robbing a store in the ghetto than they must be armed, because the shop owner would be armed. Different people and situations illicit a different level of threat. It is racist to assume that a black male would illicit a higher level of threat causing you to react faster. However when it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:50 AM
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The movements that are supporting racial equality need to stop using criminals as their poster boys. It would get much more support
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:40 AM
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Guys wanna know that you love this aspect of them that is considered "gross". You want your SO to be your own personal cumslut. Girls who are turned off by cum are very insulting Personally i'm not into that stuff because I don't wanna pull out at all, but if I have to use a condom I want the girl to do something with my cum, doesn't really matter what she chooses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 10:48 AM
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This isnt really relevant to your entire post, but I hate the "cool girl" shit. Its just a female pickup artist trying to maintain a relationship that lacks chemistry and compatibility, yet somehow its the guys fault when the women changes all her behavior to suit him Its like if a PUA said, "you pressured me into being fake because otherwise you wouldn't love me"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 10:31 AM
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Yeah I agree, but the Op is right about masculine men typically being either selfish or selfless. Men who are in the middle, who keep score and try to indirectly earn affection in a barter system based around fairness are displaying much more feminine behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 05:13 AM
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The entire planet is insecure, well the 1st world anyway. I think the best way to answer this question is to look at nature, are these apes insecure? Are they possessive? That is the best place to find the real answer. Its important to also remember the difference between being controlling and being possessive Personally I think its more about ego + disrespect = aggression towards other males resulting in possessive behavior inspired by a competitive drive They could easily study this on gorilla…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:06 PM
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I think its more disrespect + ego = aggression towards other males resulting in possessive behavior inspired by a competitive drive The fear path + a non confrontational beta male is more likely to lead to depression(+maybe controlling in private or self sabotage) than being possesive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:01 PM
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I think being possessive and protective are heavily intertwined. So its weird when a girl says she doesn't like a possessive guy but still expects all the after effects of the guy being that way. I think when women say they don't like men who are possessive they just don't like the guy who is acting that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:57 PM
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Weird thing: I like showing off my wife/girlfriend and they like showing me off. I am proud and happy with them. I want to flaunt them. They know I value them and vice versa. Is that not a thing guys do ? There's a big difference between a girl who flaunts vs a girl who gives every guy hope and makes everything super competitive with her. Flaunting and straying do not feel the same You ended up with a literal attention whore and now you want to compare that literal attention whore to every woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 11:16 PM
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All depends on the girl. My ex would always skype with her male friends in her bra and panties, walk around without her bra because she wanted everyone to see her piercings, post lots of pictures on social media of herself in very sexual positions w/o a single picture of us. She had previously been a camgirl for a while, but in the beginning I didn't mind it because I thought she only acted that way anonymously with guys she didn't know. She was a feminist and to her everything that I was saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:18 PM
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This is a good point, but if were being realistic how much of the population is "emotionally healthy"? 5%? 10% maybe? Its more likely that someone will be assertive and controlling than just assertive. So I don't think it matters much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:36 AM
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I am upfront and honest by being confrontational and controlling, otherwise you can leave. I say everything that I want to say now, its just not an option or a question, more of a demand or vague ultimatum. Seems pretty fair to me. I'm sure if I was a woman and said the same shit everyone would agree with me, i'm a strong woman who don't need no man and i'm not afraid to communicate my needs! Don't like it? His loss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:30 AM
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Upfront, honest and assertive is the same thing as controlling and confrontational if you aren't willing to budge and its a "my way or the highway" type of situation. I represent all those traits when I want something specific, I just wont flex if it matters to me Same reaction, people will just use whichever set of words they want based on whether or not they approve of your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:26 AM
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I don't talk about things that I don't like my gf doing if it is spawned from an insecurity or is territorial in nature. But just because I don't bring things up doesn't mean those things don't bother me. I just let her have as much freedom as possible and every questionable decision she makes I will slowly distance myself a little more. I had a girl say to me that she wished she was like me, she wished she could just get over people in a heartbeat like it appeared I did. In reality it had been …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 07:58 AM
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TRP is a courting strategy/self-help guide, and feminism is a loose umbrella of several different political ideologies and movements with the sole common factor of pertaining to gender issues. In this context feminism only applies to the aspect in which people use it for personal gain, i'm not really referring to equality, i'm referring mainly to the competitive aspect that feminism promotes TRP isn't really about courting. Its more of a lifestyle focused on power, control, respect, authority et…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 01:16 AM
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That's because feminism encourages independence, self interest, having control over your own life/not relying on others any more than necessary, selfishness in the name of progress, be more judgmental of personal success and maintain (potentially)unrealistic standards etc etc. Very similar to TRP But feminism only encourages women to do that, the things feminism encourages men to do is different from what it encourages women to do. Feminism encourages men to become more beta so women can become …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 12:33 AM
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It's not a poor way to judge things at all. Your notch count is a poor way to judge things. those are both poor ways to judge things, i'm not saying that it isn't important Do you think Charles Manson is alpha? Imo, the main indication of alpha is status. the president is the most alpha guy in the country, it's hard to dispute that. Next would probably be wealth and education. Depends, to me an alpha male must prove that he cannot be taken advantage of. You must have power and control over your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:11 AM
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Overall, TRP is so obviously, at it's core, an ideology based on the hatred of women, that it's really, very difficult to take it seriously. What makes you think this? And in contrast do you think that feminism hates men? Because to me TRP and feminism are eerily similar in many aspects that involve self interest. TRP is the male centric version, feminism is the female centric version and atheistic satanism is the gender neutral version TRP and feminism have a bit of hamstering going on in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:58 AM
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My employer is fat and old Based on your definition people many people become more alpha as they age regardless of their personality and looks, that's a poor way to judge things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:42 AM
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A real alpha doesn't need anything external to get what he wants. Education and income are very important, but that's not what defines an alpha male. You are picturing a high smv beta bucks nice edit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 12:23 AM
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Women don't have access to jokes that involve them shitting on themselves, you cant be a female Louie ck.k because everyone will feel bad for you instead of thinking you are funny. Males get no sympathy so they can shit on themselves and we laugh at them. Which is why female comedians do better when they act really cunty, they need to get us to dislike them a bit before they could ever tell a joke that could be seen as sad. Its the reason why I think women are better off writing jokes than doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:53 PM
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I think its a bad idea to date rape survivors, its also a bad idea to date people who were abused, people who come from a broken home, people who are former drug addicts, people who beleive in crazy shit like ghosts/zodiac shit etc I don't understand why people think that just because someone is a victim you should give them a free pass to potentially destroy your life when you have better options. Its like how people say shit like "don't date someone who isn't close with any family", its not ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 01:01 AM
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I agree. To be an attractive male you must be perceived to have options, those who do not will be seen as desperate even if they aren't But I don't agree as much on the loyalty part, it could go either way I don't think you can easily judge loyalty with only 1 factor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 07:08 PM
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Anything can be a crime, we just make it up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 07:00 PM
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People consider you a pedo just for having the urges, even if you never touch a single kid a pedo is still a pedo. I think the op is referring to a pedo that just jerks off to anime or something because he said "hasn't committed a crime yet" Question: Would you be for or against pedophiles having access to virtual reality children? Im sure in the future they could easily create something that looks and feels like actual sex, but I imagine most people would be against giving those people access t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:16 PM
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I do this and it works a lot But other times it leads to me offending the girl, all depending on the way that she acts. Works well on girls who like to shoot the shit and "hang wiht the guys" but if the girl is really pc youre fucked Examples 1.) I jokingly referred to my mom acting like a whore every time she describes herself having a "flirty" personality. You call your own mom a whore and every girl is gonna nope right out the room 2.) A girl told me she once had 2 boyfriends. I did the thing…
/r/seduction17/01/16 06:45 AM
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women shit test to look for "success" traits and men shit test to see if you are a slut though for women it will most likely be very subtle compared to a male shit test
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:57 PM
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I've been in that situation a few times and I didn't like it either, but I didn't like it because typically in those situations I just didn't like the girl. A girl did it to me recently actually but I kinda blow her outta the water when it comes to looks so its hard to say whether or not it was the style of approach I think when women approach they tend to overshoot Not saying men don't do this, but I think males have more variety when they approach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 02:03 PM
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I don't believe in free will unless you have the ability to reprogram your personality, AI could have free will. We are slaves to our instincts, experiences and emotions Doesn't mean you cant create opinions tho, its just that those opinions and values will be biased My view is similar to TRPs view of the hamster, its just nature there is no reason to have any emotional reaction to it. Accept it and react accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 02:17 AM
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People are not really in control of who they are, its silly to condemn someone who is a product of their environment and past experiences as if they had any choice in the matter. I don't believe in free will and we all know hate breeds hate. If anything you are helping to create more of these types of people People who judge each other on morality and actually get emotional about it are so silly to me, its best to imagine everyone as a different species or a different version of yourself. We all…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 04:43 AM
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I think that blaming the actions of an individual on a subgroup is silly, extremists exist everywhere. Its not like trp is a bunch of posts about going out and finding a retarded girl to beat tf outta You shouldn't blame TRP for that in the same way you shouldn't blame Muslims for 9/11 I'm not saying there aren't people in TRP who use this same stupid ass logic, there are plenty of morons who say shit like "i wouldnt have gotten laid off if feminism didnt exist!!!" Another similar example, travi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 04:18 AM
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MGTOW doesn't care if you give up, it has no requirement of improvement, MGTOW doesn't really value certain traits in the way that TRP does TRP is about being ambitious and taking what you want from life, having the freedom, power and control to meet your desires. MGTOW is just deciding to try to minimize damage that you assume will eventually come
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 02:32 PM
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IMO from a hookup standpoint you have to peacock a little, muscular guys have that. Not saying skinnier guys aren't attractive as they also have access to tattoos, man buns, dyed hair etc etc other peacocking methods But I just think that the muscles are the best tindr way of peacocking because you maintain your masculinity and are more authoritative Example of skinny tindr god image: G-eazy, hes got the leather jacket 50s style, smooth image and slickback hair. But I think muscular guys will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:39 PM
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I saw a similiar post on facebook a few days ago. The women all said they liked the less muscular guy but many of them went on to say in the comments that it was because the muscular guy is too high maintenance and too into himself. Even though its just a picture they are judging him by his hypothetical personality. Many of those women also said that they would rather hookup with the muscular male but date the other guy. They are just saying what TRP says all the time, fuck chad then date bb Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:22 PM
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I think there are too mnay variables and people dont specifiy what they mean I think the best way to say it is what body would get the best tinder results, too many people think "date" when they are talking about which person they find the most attractive which skews everything. People associate a negative personality type to guys who are muscular which can also fuck up statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:12 PM
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Male obsessive truth teller reporting in, im rude as fuck all the time to random people. I don't think "is that an offensive thing to say?" I just say it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:03 PM
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I don't hate anyone, put me in a room with hitler and we will prob bond based off our shared love of german shepherds But I still want the most for me in life, other people don't matter enough to elicit hate If I was a woman I would be a feminist, the strong, independent kind who likes to shame people. We are both selfish and overly self involved. TRP and feminism is the same thing really, each gender just uses its tools in different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:54 PM
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That isn't an answer to my question tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:52 PM
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IMO you cannot force or convince someone to respect you, best to just not give a shit and focus on yourself. What other way is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:53 AM
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Its easy to phrase it like this, you could also phrase it like this "that person is taking you for granted and disrespecting you, focus on yourself, don't act childish like they do and maybe they will learn to give you the respect you deserve" "you should just accept things this way regardless of your own personal happiness" isn't a very good mindset to have either and its the opposite of dread, sure some dread examples are an overreaction and too extreme but lets be honest no one is really doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 11:34 PM
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Should we treat women who are prostitutes the same way we treat men who are thieves? Logically they are both doing those things for the same reasons and both are illegal, however people do not have identical views towards each of these situations obs sex slaves are completely different, i'm not referring to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 11:27 PM
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I agree with you mostly, but not that it is irrelevant. You are basically saying an attractive male cannot sabotage himself, trust me that ain't true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 05:02 PM
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So you don't believe that a attractive male could act in a way that would lead to less women being attracted to him? Like if he wanted to scare women off by acting insecure it wouldn't work and they would all like him regardless?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 01:19 AM
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I went the first 16 years of my life without looking in a mirror, guys don't care as much about that until they join the dating world and realize its the most important factor Back then i didnt give af about looking "cute", just about being metal and doing as much stupid shit as I possibly could. You should have seen my raggedy long hair, I was a crust punk before I even knew they existed I think it was from growing up in the jackass/wildboys/viva la bam generation as a white kid where everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:35 PM
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I know a girl who has a bf but on all her social media she is put as single and has zero pics of her bf like he doesn't exist She knows she wont be able to get guys to do shit for her if she has a boyfriend and will get way less attention. Tons of guys at our work buy her lunch or bring her a coffee or get her cigs w/e she needs em because of this. She even makes fun of them to me after they leave, like "he wants to take me out to lunch, haha, better bring that lunch here im not goin anywhere" I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:28 PM
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no, the balance of power is a spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 08:43 PM
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Certainly not as beneficial as test or tren, but when my tren runs out i wanna have a lot of a long ester already in my system so i started running it way early. Other thing i like about eq is I can keep running it during my cruise, just gotta make sure to give blood every once and a while I'm 6'2 so it takes a lot for me to really fill out, all the other tall guys i talk with say they blast deca/eq + atleast 1g test because the amount of tren they would need to fill out is pretty expensive in c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 10:39 PM
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deff underdosed, but not by too much vet eq is only 50mg per ml so i dont wanna pin that much and pharma tren doesnt exist so thats not an option
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 10:30 PM
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I'm currently taking about 1g of eq, 700mgs of tren and 1g test e and I would say you are wrong. Anabolics don't really directly promote aggression, however they promote competition, desire, motivation and risk taking which can easily lead to aggression towards other males when competing for women If I like a girl I cant even watch another male interact with her if I see him as a threat, makes my blood boil so I just look away since I cant justify doing anything based on those feelings. Though i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 06:46 PM
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TRP doesn't really want you to do a lot of the shit it says, it says you will do that shit guaranteed. If you truly did the opposite it would prob be a good thing in TRP eyes, but your only 1 person so it doesn't really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:29 PM
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The greatest love story from a male pov would be something like requiem of a dream. Not some stupid story about a millionaire Men want to be loved the way Jared Leto was loved, based on who he is rather than what he can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:22 PM
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you cant have 2 followers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:17 PM
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Do you think that a woman is more likely to fall in love with a male whose main goal is to be loved? Or the male who doesn't look for love and rather focuses his effort on himself? One of these males is the one you can follow, the other wants to follow you IMO it doesn't matter how strong and independent you are as a woman, you wont be attracted to the male who behaves like a woman from the 50s. The male can lead or maybe they can both be somewhat independent and both lead, but he cannot follow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:16 PM
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nice guys pick up some scraps here and there, but they surely do not have any control over the sexual market TRP has a desire to be one of the males who does. TRP is very focused on power, influence and desire not just getting laid. Getting laid can be the way you judge your success but it isn't the direct goal, the direct goal is more lifestyle and perception oriented
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:00 PM
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Varying degrees, the more I know/like them the stronger the feeling is. So hypothetically you could feel more protective over a friend than a romantic partner it would all come down to the specifics If its a stranger the feeling can vary based on how cute/little/innocent they look like. Like some girls I perceive as children because of the way they dress/act even if they are like 20 I would imagine that all guys would feel the most protective over women who they are romantically involved with wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 12:21 AM
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eh, a lot of bloopers seem to disagree with the assertive part they will always replace assertive with respectful IMO if you could only pick 1, assertive always wins I could also see them disagreeing with sexual boldness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:53 PM
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The way that a mother protects her child is the way a man feels about a woman, at least its the way I feel. IMO a large aspect of love is just the desire to protect. If you really wanna make my blood boil you have to go through a woman, not through me or another male. When I react to aggression from other males I feel a form of respect for them, like I cant blame them for competing and it will be more of a form of domination than violence. But when people are aggressive to women(or a woman being…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:51 PM
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+risk taking +competitiveness + possesive are the other big 3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:33 PM
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Women don't want some simpering boy, no matter how loyal he is. I agree, but if I said this people would disagree and call me a sexist. I also cant imagine anyone ever giving this advice to a male IRL other than another male
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:53 AM
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This is vague and useless and you know it Lets take an incel and give him some lsd blotters, a bag of shrooms, a glass of ayahuasca and a couple weeks to meditate. You think hes gonna come out of that and suddenly be the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:50 AM
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They aren't really pretending to want friendship tho, since every relationship involves an aspect of friendship. Its more likely that they are just scared to say that they want more than just a platonic friendship, its not some conniving little trick, just a lack of confidence. Tons of people start as friends, I think people just make up that excuse because if the girl sees the "nice guy" as a friend than she doesn't want to reject him but also doesn't want to date him. So the friendship is like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:07 AM
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Its also about the views people have when discussing, when people discuss TRP traits they want you to think of someone who is successful/professional because of those traits rather than just some angry redneck who hates women Bias towards either end is bad, there are terps on both ends of the spectrum I think another reason is because people like guys like bil burr and patrice o neal, and they wanna point it out that those views aren't as vile as they look on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 01:38 PM
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When I say "hurt" i dont mean actually harmed Example: Men like women who aren't slutty, this hurts women in the sense that they aren't free to do w/e they want without being judged. At the end of the day can anyone really argue "you cant judge me for that, because I said so, you have to date me you don't get to pick"? They will argue it anyway because there's many young women who are very into the "only god can judge me" way of living life Personally I think people should be as slutty as they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 01:17 AM
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I think when most people think of status they are referring to a standard of living. The most notable being an expensive, tailored suit , nice car, nice apartment, a job that is out of reach for most people Nearly everyone loves status. What male wasnt infatuated with the wolf of wallstreet? What women isn't infatuated with the high fashion and makeup shown on a show like the kardashians? But when it comes to men caring about the status of women I think it isn't as common as the other situations…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 01:08 AM
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Open borders doesn't mean viewers become willing to change their views, so it would just be trolling on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:59 AM
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Do you still not mind preferences when they are common? Like if all guys are like "i prefer brunettes" does your opinion change? I think most people who are blue oppose preferences when it is popular, at least if it hurts women in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:53 AM
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You have to see yourself as useful, if you are dead weight you deserve to be dropped and most likely will be. I know people like to swoop in with links showing people who take care of their handicapped spouses but idc. I've always had the viewpoint that I would rather die than be a potato in a nursing home draining my families resources, but you should think that way all the time not just when you're old We are all resources for each other, be capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:19 PM
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Its a gray area, can buy a decent amount of technology/clothes/w.e u want and have a place to live while being a slave to debt and student loans along with all the stress that comes with it It certainly wont feel like being rich
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:11 PM
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Women bring this up far more than men, ask any20 something woman the ratio of fuckboys to men. People might hate trp but they cant deny that in that aspect a successful terper is in the "man" category
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:06 PM
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I'm not sure why everyone doesn't understand the "douchebag" or "asshole". You understand that the douchebag or asshole who is genuinly a good guy but still shoots shit and talks like an asshole is different from someone who acts like a scumbag? TRP advocates that you should be playful in the way you are with close friends, the way all you and your friends make fun of each other is the same thing you should do around women. A lot of guys naturally tone themselves down and try to be overly nice r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:09 PM
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To be fair, everyone knows that fitness models need to become instagram famous to really succeed in their profession. They stand a lot to gain financially
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:01 PM
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If all other characteristics and variables are the same sure, but its best to assume that the male with more partners also has better traits in general, because that is typically the case Is there a study saying that women will sacrifice things in order to date the male who has had less partners? Or it only matters after all other needs are met? That is the question that will determine actual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 07:45 PM
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They live in a vacuum, throw a boyfriend into the equation and this friendship wont exist anymore. Either the boyfriend wont be chill or the doctor will be possesive I haven't seen the newest seasons, but didnt the doctor and the red haired girl makeout when she was engaged to that guy rory(i think he was called the immortal spartan or some shit)? If i'm wrong than my bad, my memory of that isn't so great Platonic relationships work when people aren't attractive, if those involved are attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:39 AM
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The goal of being desirable and having freedom to take part in male-female relationships is something we all want(except if your gay ofc) Why you want to separate it into different categories is beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:02 PM
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I think a true friend doesn't need to gain anything from your relationship other than just knowing each other, which is the part that makes this complicated A true friend doesn't involve monogamy, finances, etc. The things that you can do to jeopardize a marriage are things that you do with your true friends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:57 PM
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You don't have to give advice that you dislike, just advice that works. You are basically saying that the only advice that works would be considered a "shitty" thing to do. If you think that any advice that works would be a "shitty" thing to do than you are part of the category that thinks everyone should just "get it" and everyone should accept their position in life and not strive to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:49 PM
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only if the situation was "I was happy even though my husband wasn't" if you were both happy than this situation wouldn't arise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 08:07 PM
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https://theofficialmmanation.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/gabi-garcia.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:42 PM
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I mean they have emotional outbursts, not stoic in the least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:18 PM
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But those roles are typically good for men, so it makes sense to side with them. Feminists typically dislike the values society puts on them, so it doesn't make sense to stick up for them. How can someone simultaneously defend something that keeps them in shackles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 08:10 PM
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I don't think TRP advocates any of that, it just doesn't care if you do it. None of that seems very stoic to me, although i think "chill" is best and none of that stuff seems chill either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 07:46 PM
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Something women often say regarding this always confuses me. When women say "i dont wear makeup for men, I wear it for myself" like yeah you wear it because your entire self view and source of self esteem is looks based so of course you wear it for yourself. But women say it like its a good thing, like they made the choice to value themselves totally on that rather than it being a societal value placed on them. Why would you ever take pride in that? It is totally out of your control(and is not u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 07:37 PM
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I would say she could fall into 4 and 7, but not to the extreme of asian parents or anything. Shes also kind of controlling, but only verbally because I haven't really listened to anything she tells me in the last 10 years or so She has an image of me in her head that isn't really me, its what she wants me to be. But she doesn't live up to the other stuff on this list She might take up the rest of those traits in her other relationships, but not with me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 12:31 AM
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My parents aren't shitty at all, if you asked my mom for advice on women it would be really strange though as its all tailored towards her. My mom tried so hard to turn me into a ballroom dancer when I was a kid, she was also very persistent telling all her friends how i've never jerked off in my life and would never do that, even after catching me do it a few times. She still says that shit, and I have no idea why. Shes just super brainwashed by the oldschool, white, princess diana loving, "lad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 11:19 PM
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I don't think being emotional constantly makes you a beta, it heavily depends on the types of emotions displayed. Do you consider sociopaths beta? Maybe in an uncivilized area sociopaths would be beta but in our society its a hard claim to make
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 05:44 PM
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This is the type of advice that created nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 08:47 PM
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Well this is pretty unambitious, I don't think any great individual perceives the world this way What would Genghis Khan have amounted to if he saw the world this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 07:33 AM
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I think a very large percentage of sexism and racism isn't backed by hatred it is just trolling. I think most people are in neutral territory that I wouldn't refer to as sexist or racist, though they may still appear racist or sexist from the pov of a sjw We are never gonna get rid of people roasting each other, that 12 year old kid on xbox who fucked your mom will always exist. Racism and sexism are just default topics for these people, it isn't backed by hatred it is backed by the desire to up…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 07:23 AM
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I never said you were, I also wouldn't say TRP is even that useful for incels as they have dug themselves a pretty deep hole. Most men don't need TRP Everything is relevant, not everyone can be in the top 20%, so I would say that is incorrect. Depends what you mean when you say "need" tho. I would say if you wanted to live life as someone who is perceived to be an alpha male by others its wholly based upon role models, environment and the types of knowledge you personally choose to take in and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 01:48 AM
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Plenty of people who talk the talk will fail to walk the walk Its like people who link those inspirational quotes/morals/lessons on facebook and you know they will never actually live up to what they linked, in fact I would say most often those people are the exact opposite of what they linked and they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:16 PM
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This is why TRP says judge women on actions not words If everyone says the same thing and everyone does the opposite it really doesn't matter what they said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:31 PM
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trolllololol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:29 PM
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TRP is more about living like women do rather than just obtaining sex. Its about having enough desire that you make the decisions. Its about getting to a certain sexual social status that isn't easy to obtain as a male in our society. Its not necessarily about getting laid, how you get laid and dictate your life is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:24 PM
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unless there's money in the mix
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:28 AM
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Those are tattoos not makeup, I have nothing against tattoos but these make him look repulsive imo. Super cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 07:28 PM
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If you think that guy is "average looks" youre crazy, sure hes not obese but that's not all that matters. Yea hes got a look, but its not a good look, anyone can have a distinct look if that's all you need
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 05:51 PM
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I'm saying the incel and juggalo will be equally unappealing, but the juggalo still has some success because he is willing to date other gross people. The incel could easily pull those other gross people, they just perceive themselves to be better because they aren't as trashy as the juggalettes are. If stitches can fuck smokeshows there's no reason you cant fuck something relatively fuckable Incels don't necessarily need to improve themselves in the sense that we see improvement, just to change…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:11 PM
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get a expensive vintage watch with a leather strap, not a gangster watch covered in ice big diff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:12 AM
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the justification is to try to get away with as much as you can, its human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:22 PM
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Its okay because women don't care but men do(for the most part) so we can get away with it so we do. You cant so you don't, just differing opinions between the 2 genders If women wanted to make things fair, they would boycott promiscuous men, but promiscuous behavior implies positive traits in males. It would be stupid to boycott the best males so they don't. It isn't like that for men, promiscuous behavior in women doesn't imply positive traits, so there's nothing lost from boycotting those wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:50 PM
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Because women don't care, and men do. You get away with as much as you can in life. Morality and fairness don't matter. Double standards are ok as long as you can get away with them. Your desires are the ones that truly matter, you choose the path you travel in life. Don't let others dictate your behavior just because they don't think its fair If I could rob a bank and get away with it but everyone else who tried would get caught, I would rob that bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:46 PM
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Male incels are male incels because they aren't trashy(or trashy enough) in combination with their looks/personality. Lets be honest, we have all seen these walmart denizens who look like they just crawled out of a fucking grave, but they have a girlfriend and probably like 6 kids too. These people most likely cant spell their own name, but even they find someone who likes them I'm not sure if I have ever met an incel, but of the people who I think may be one they are all the same. They wear tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:34 PM
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I think its just about upbringing, the more spoiled a girl is the more she will be attracted towards rp. The more a girl is into hollywood/fame/celebs etc means that she will also most likely be attracted to the males with lucrative mindsets with a rp personality. Any girl on r/littlespace, etc etc I think the more a girl cares about height, the more likely she will be attracted to rp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 01:01 AM
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He said that to you to filter out all the girls who only use tinder for attention, a dating app/conversation tool with no intention of ever meeting, or just to stroke their ego. The amount of people who use the hookup app with no intention of hooking up and just waste your time is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 08:01 PM
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I think that people typically feel bad for ugly girls because they are ugly, but unattractive males are different in the sense that people naturally assume they also have a ugly personality and are creepy/dangerous. Unattractive males are threatening, unattractive women aren't So maybe you feel sympathy for those dudes, but they wont know it because its way less likely that you would interact with them compared to the unattractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 07:57 PM
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The issue is that TRP teaches you to treat every woman like she will actively destroy your life given the slightest of chances, so therefore you must take extreme measures as a man to control yourself and her in the relationship so that it never gets to that point. It's this premise that I, and many other dissenters have so much issue with. This isn't really exclusive to TRP tho, everyone does it in some way. People naturally assume most men who are strangers met through the internet are possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 07:48 PM
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People who are virgins(males) most likely never get to hug people, they never cuddle, never kiss, they have no form of intimacy. Many women tend to have some form of intimacy without sex, many mothers get intimacy from their children and have more open friendships Men get a larger % of their intimacy from actual sexual acts because it isn't as socially acceptable or comfortable for people to act that way with males in friendships. Saying that you don't care about sex is like saying you don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 07:27 PM
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I think when people say this they just mean "I was a natural asshole, just not high enough smv to make the most out of it". So a lot of the behavior that TRP promotes wasn't much of a change from before, just with added finesse, understanding and a higher smv
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:32 AM
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Ofc not, dread game is reactionary. If you are being mistreated you dread game, if you are being emasculated you dread game Dread game is used in the situation in which many people would say "communicate your needs". Its not something you do unless forced too, I personally have never done it because I have never had too but if I was married and my marriage was dying I would try it If someone doesn't respect you than "communicating your needs" isn't going to do anything, you cant just ask for res…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:22 PM
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I think women should do whatever the fuck they want, but they shouldn't try to force their values on men either. You cant force anyone to date you and you cant force anyone to fuck you. You choose your path and you deal with the consequences, don't cry when you cant have your cake and eat it too. Conformity is a thing for a reason. People have to be prepared to make sacrifices for their decisions in life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:08 PM
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A very common form of female dread is having a "male friend" who clearly wants to fuck her, the boyfriend is threatened because he understands other males but the girl doesn't care and just says "hes not like that hes just a friend, not all men are like that!" Have you ever performed this version of dread to a boyfriend? If your boyfriend wanted you to stop being friends with the competition would you do it? At the end of the day it doesn't matter what the girls intentions are, she knows that gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:05 PM
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I would argue that dread is more about new found respect, anxiety is just a side effect. It just so happens that its hard to have the former without the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:00 PM
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I think this is bad advice, I think its best to get into things not knowing anything about the person because you get a better idea if you truly vibe or not I have a friend who exclusively meets girls online, and he always looks into their interests and has a tailor made conversation with them only about shit that they like. I think its best to learn to talk to girls and just live in the conversation without having any crutches helping you(bringing up shit that you know they like) If it works fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 03:56 PM
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alcohol and benzos is better, you may black out tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 03:48 PM
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Its not really a thin line unless you make it one, there is a difference between teasing and playfully making fun of something over silly meaningless topics and being genuinely hurtful in a way that is more serious Its like the difference between a racist joke told by a comedian and a hate speech told by an extremist, sure you can say its in the same realm but they aren't on the same level and don't illicit the same reaction(unless you are the pc police)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 03:44 PM
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what does this have to do with trp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 01:51 PM
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No issue, TRP just states this as a fact and people don't like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:39 PM
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It says to play, joke, ignore, misdirect. If you think anyones memorizing examples and repeating things word for word you're wrong(hopefully, that individual would be an idiot)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:43 PM
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When you believe something is absolute and do not question it than it becomes part of your natural reactionary behavior, it shouldn't require any thought. PUA is fake in the sense that it is a persona, nothing more than an act. TRP isn't an act, the beliefs that they state are things that they actually believe. Its the reason people say "awalt" but if you ask any terper they know that there are outliers, the outliers aren't important though in fact acknowledging them at all may prevent you from …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:16 AM
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To be fair, Americans are the #1 terrorists. Its silly that we think brown skinned terrorists are immoral while we aren't. If a country bombed your whole family, friends and home you wouldn't be the same person you are now. Its like if you spit in someones face and act surprised when they hit you in the face. Not that i'm against war, some people need to suffer. We kill them so they cant kill us, but I don't think badly of them for doing so, I would do the same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:59 AM
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He may be wrong in the sense that some are more predisposed to having certain genetics/traits. But in todays world being alpha is just about facing enough adversity and having the right role models The growing epidemic of ptsd is the biggest indicator that most of us are coddled our entire lives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:51 AM
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Why do you think TRP teaches fake confidence? When you say fake confidence do you mean arrogance? Superiority complex? God complex? None of these are "fake confidence" PUA teaches fake confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:47 AM
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chill/stoic + capable of taking constructive criticism and not taking other people seriously is how you maintain frame You don't have to think at all, just play and have fun. No one actually thinks "omg is she shit testing me??" its all normal and internalized if you swallow the pill, everything is natural. The only people who have to think about it are people who don't really believe it, the people who think of it as a "trick" like a pua
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:39 AM
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I'm just saying that telling people what to do is shit compared to allowing people to think on their own. If you lead people to a belief and they think out the next steps on their own it will make more sense to them, they will feel smart for coming to the conclusion on their own which enforces ego and have a stronger belief because if they came to the conclusion on their own than its custom fitted for each individual. Good politicians do this, good car salesmen do this, psychopaths and sociopath…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:23 PM
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I agree with your entire post, but you cant just tell someone to stop being bitter, be kind or to become confident. That's not how that works. Its best to lead people to the answers to their questions without being direct, you want to point them in the right direction and have them create beliefs on their own Its one of my biggest complaints of feminism, it just has this inefficient, direct way of ordering beliefs instead of leading people to think in the same manner. Most people will typically …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:04 PM
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Its so weird that the concept of the "cool girl" like from the movie gone girl is pretty much a female PUA. Except somehow people twist this into the position of a victim, somehow its the males fault for the woman becoming someone else. Haven't heard anyone bring this up before either
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:20 PM
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Keeping your circle tight isn't super commonly talked about, but its there. All your friends are friends for a reason, they serve a purpose. You are right tho, people could go much more in depth with this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 01:00 PM
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Nope, I look like a far less muscular Andrei Arlovski In high school I did go through a metal phase and had arms like kermit the frog, not anymore tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 08:29 PM
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Are you sure its not the way you word the question? You are saying its not weak to feel vulnerable, but what if the reason you feel vulnerable is a weakness? Some vulnerabilities hold a lot more weight than others, I think that people are imagining someone who is vulnerable for something that has no impact on the girl. If that weakness effects the girl its a way different scenario I used to be hooked on benzos for a little bit of time, I made the mistake of buying a bunch of powder and taking wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 08:10 PM
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Nietzsche + LaVeyan satanism is pretty RP. However these aren't going to be as specific as you would like(has nothing to do with women, purely based on alpha behavior which is the way things should be imo). I think its best that things aren't too specific as it forces you to change and develop on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 08:00 PM
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Yes this is dread game, similar to women fishing for compliments on facebook. Everyone dread games in some way, people just don't like to see it on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 11:28 PM
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Because it is common to feel "dread" when you see others progress without you, anyone who has ever gone on a successful diet knows this. People feel dread and want to sabotage you. It may also give the other person a feeling of dread because you will do well without them, leaving them wouldn't be as big a deal to you anymore as your life is currently on the up and up. A breakup may now improve your life but in the past it would have hurt your life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 11:26 PM
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People always refer to power struggles like it is intentional. If you lack self respect, confidence and independence there will be a power struggle(unless you become 100% submissive and forfeit all responsibility so there is no resistance). If a male doesn't meet a certain requirement of "alpha traits" than there will be a power struggle whether intended or not. Both individuals need these traits, but people act like if the male doesn't have them than its ok(but if the female doesn't have them i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 05:50 PM
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Well its going to be imagination based, so I think its more likely that the imagined males would be those who live the lifestyle rather than just a single, casual sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:33 AM
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TRP describes chad as being an alpha male a lot, but in this context chad is just someone who lives a life involving casual sex. Its not about who the guy is, its about what he has in comparison to what the husband or boyfriend had. I don't see any reason why someone with a promiscuous past cant try to date anyone they want, but they should expect jealousy, its normal. How you go about dealing with that is up to you, but it would be stupid to expect it not to exist or try to wish it away
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:15 PM
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Usually it comes off from an anger pov from them but people will still perceive it as desperate/sad Wait till your older and you start seeing the "vague suicide posts", I see like 4-5 a year. Yeah they aren't really serious about the suicide part, but its still destructive to put that information out to all those people Just yesterday I saw a couple people posting things on this dudes page like "if internet explorer is brave enough to ask to be your default browser, you're brave enough to ask th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 11:39 AM
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I think when most people say this they mean 2 people in a relationship. For example, a woman may want to talk about her feelings or the way her day went, while the male may not want to talk at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:03 AM
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I think promiscuous people should marry other people who were promiscuous. It doesn't work well when a promiscuous woman tries to LTR a man who didn't have that(because he couldn't). If you have to sit in envy for 10 years and you hit some peak in which you finally have a nice job and meet a nice girl, that dude is gonna want that girl to be like him. Not someone who enabled all the dudes he desperately wanted to be. Its like if someone turned you down your whole life and than you lost 30 pounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 06:48 AM
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Indeed, once women feel sympathy for a man, they will never be attracted to him, or at least it is extremely unlikely (it does depend on the circumstances). This is what I have been thinking for a long time as well Every time I see one of those pathetic facebook posts in which a dude is complaining about not getting the relationships he wants I just think in my head "dude stop! You're making it so much worse!". Sure people will be sympathetic in the moment but they all look down on you now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 06:33 AM
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Leading you on and hoping you give up is favorable to rejecting you because they don't want to feel bad or you having a bad reaction Its a pretty annoying thing that is super common
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 03:54 PM
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He goes to big mma gyms with his girls just to hit mitts infront of pro mma fighters while all his girls lift weights in lingerie. Desperate need for attention/validation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:33 AM
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Some poker/pool halls are pretty seedy anti PC places. There's just something about being in a room full of hustlers who wanna fuck you over and take all your money that gets those competitive juices flowin I can understand the attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:31 AM
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If your personal issues are causing you to project things to the outside world and are negatively influencing your interactions, you're robbing only yourself. Not to mention just the general hate and resentment and anxiety that you carry around. It seems like it would be a lot more beneficial to just address the insecurity. Then you don't have to pretend and fake confidence, you can actually be confident. Real confidence > fake confidence, because fake confidence tends to crumble when you actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:31 PM
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I didn't say its true, just that its hard for me to believe otherwise. You may see examples like that in your upbringing/environment but I never see stuff like that so its not natural for me to think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:19 PM
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I feel like It would be hard for anyone to stick with me for my entire life unless i'm a rock, independent, successful, handsome, masculine etc. I don't know if this is the same feeling others get or just me but I think this is more likely I think it would be much harder for the average male to maintain a LTR till death if he refused to conform to the masculine beliefs our society puts on men. If I acted in a feminine, timid, complacent or unambitious way I don't imagine my relationships having …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 05:22 PM
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No, but do you think your theory implies that everyone in an open relationship must be totally secure or close to it? What else enables them to do that? If you were totally secure in yourself than you wouldn't find other sexual partners threatening, right? Personally I don't think finding things threatening needs to mean that you are insecure. I think you can have both, security and respect for competition/survival . If you find nothing threatening than you lack respect for the world, its not ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 03:05 PM
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I wasn't talking about cheating, just being in an open relationship. I also don't believe that anyone is truly secure in every aspect of their life, we are all just at differing levels of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 02:57 PM
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If it was motivated by insecurity would it really matter or change anything? I personally think pessimism and self worship are the actual motivators but if it was purely just insecurity than what is TBP followup? How does that change things? Would your new theory be " become less insecure and you will be ok with any sexual history, become totally secure and you become ok with cuckolding"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 02:38 PM
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I came here disliking TRP and also disliking feminism, so I wouldn't say I was ever blue pill but PPD is the reason I realized I agree with a lot of TRP ideas or values. The actual TRP sub is covered in shit most of the time and the sidebar could be much better The thing is that most people on the blue pil subreddit don't believe that TRP has any merit to it at all, while most of the blue pillers who post on PPD recognize that it does work on a large part of the population. They just identify as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 09:01 AM
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it was open for everyone, but i'm not sure if women were actually invited which is a very important detail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 05:05 AM
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This is true, it would make sense for feminists to push for males to wear makeup and have more "perfect" male figures in the media. I think this would help balance the outcome Its easier to equalize social pressure by putting more pressure on some than taking it off of others. If you think about it TRP is much closer to that than TBP is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 05:00 AM
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Is this something that you have to convince yourself of in order to justify your views
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:58 AM
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Someone else said that it wasn't a seminar from teachers. A group of female students were putting on this seminar and the invitations were through facebook. That seems a bit offensive to me, like your peers are assuming you are a potential rapist It would be different if it were directed by a unbiased professional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:49 AM
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Honestly getting a random "come to our don't rape women group seminar" is pretty offensive. If someone did that to me I would assume that they see me as a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 04:41 AM
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I didn't listen to the song, but don't you think only the most recent answer of yes or no is relevant? IMO if a someone says no 1000x times and says yes 1 time and you fuck than its cool But if someone says yes 1000x and says no 1 time and you keep going its rape
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 02:42 AM
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Good for you, its important to have a decent level of self respect. But just so you know the guy benefits from you discarding him quickly as well, the worst thing for him is to be strung around. So I don't think anyone who would use this method would be less likely to do it based on your post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:51 AM
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Does your generalization benefit you? Because many TRP generalizations are beneficial to create more attractive behavior Many(not all) generalizations on TRP improve the males who can internalize that belief. When you are doing it I don't see any actual benefits, its just to throw shade
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:44 AM
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Just because the world changes, doesn't mean the attractive traits change. Masculine males will always exist, the less of them the better it is to be one. If anything that is good for TRP as long as it stays niche, supply and demand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:07 PM
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Are you sure about this? In my experience most feminists I've met are really into art and having a unique identity. They may be anti masculinity but they still want to be a special snowflake. They don't necessarily want to rid the world of all masculinity, just the aspects that may be confrontational. This would close the gap between confident men and women, because women don't have as much freedom to be confident and confrontational because of a physical disadvantage. So they want to rid those …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:02 PM
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I don't think you will get many fucks offs, most likely just "no sorry" or "i have a boyfriend"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:46 PM
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Let's say a man is "hardcore dreading" his wife/girlfriend/female partner. He feels unsatisfied in the relationship, usually sexually. So he issues threats and ultimatums, saying he'll cheat or leave/divorce her if she doesn't do X Y and/or Z acts, acts which are usually sexual. Let's say this woman doesn't want this relationship to end, or the end of this relationship represents a huge loss to her, financial or otherwise. Dread isn't verbal, at least not verbal and direct. Dread game and ultima…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:31 PM
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They just say to go read the book "sex god method", I think that was the name I think its in the sidebar i dont remember I dont really read trp but I know I saw it somewhere on there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:37 AM
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Having a waitress hit on you is dread game regardless of what type of reaction you give Its just "passive dread game" like the type women employ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:32 AM
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Some little girls were asked in pre k "what do you wanna be when you grow up" and they said "I wanna be a mommy!". These woman are potentially the most manipulative because they view marriage as a personal goal rather than a connection between 2 people. Interview a few women about their "dream marriage" some woman will not bring up their husband at all, only the house, drapes, dog and kids. Living as a housewife can easily be a lifestyle goal for some girls, I think most of them tend to go the B…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:30 AM
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Sorry, but it's really, really not that complicated. Why don't you think so? It may not be complicated, but surely it is more complicated than being attractive as a woman. Think about it like this, any attractive girl can fuck a male celebrity if shes in the right place at the right time. She can most likely even date him if she allows him to do whatever he wants. He finds her attractive based on nothing but clothes and looks If you swap that to a regular attractive guy meeting a rich, famous wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:21 AM
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Posting relatively "sexy" pictures on facebook and getting a lot of "gaaahh baby your beautiful" is dread as fuck. But no one seems to care. I get it, that's my competition. Why is it ok for you to point it out but if I do it than its wrong I think a pretty common thing to hear nowadays is "i dont compete with other women". But all of these women still expect and encourage male competition even when in relationships Women just fail to see their own dread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:13 AM
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This is a great comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:10 AM
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I think everyone will agree with you, this is important. Although I feel like your tone implies that TRP cares too much about the other aspects of the sub and should focus on other things. Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:54 AM
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TBP aren't against aggression or hatred, they just need to justify it. They enjoy it really, its one of the main reasons they keep coming back to their sub, they relieve negative energy towards people who they deem worthy. In this way TRP and TBP are both unhealthy. Although in TRP hatred isnt supposed to exist, it merely attracts some of those people. While in TBP it is core for the reader to return to the sub over and over again. I think TBPers who post in PPD are actually by far the best of T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:48 AM
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Shes saying that she doesn't consider it rape but many people would
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 12:42 AM
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There are like phase 1 and phase 2 shit tests. Phase 1 shit test are just general small talk, job, education, social life, hobbies etc. Phase 2 are personality based, with focus on confidence level and self esteem We all do tests in some way or another, different people just have different focus/values
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:24 PM
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Sure there is, the women who fuck dudes who they are in relationships with. No one thinks you are a slut for fucking your boydfriend, at least I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:54 PM
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You mean, based around self-improvement? There's a whole, massive and still growing genre of books related to that, if that's your thing. Self improvement through dark triad traits, selfishness, lucrative mindset, seeing people as resources, seeing yourself above all other creatures, morality is defined by you rather than by society etc I think that TRP makes the same mistake Hitler did, they both try to encapsulate many of Nietzsches views but their focus and thinking is wrong. Hitler made the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:36 PM
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The male version of a shit test is more of a "slut test" and its not uncommon in fact im coining this right now, the slut test
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:12 PM
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When I say colder I don't necessarily mean cruel, what I mean is less emotional while having the ability to behave in a confrontational, assertive way. You need to prove(to yourself) that you are fully capable of cruelty, so that it means something when you choose not to be cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:07 PM
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Marketing. TRP benefits from them the same way feminism benefits from radfems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 09:23 AM
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Which is why TRP is chock full of misogynistic types because it fits their narrative. TRP didn't make them misogynists, it merely gave them a place to put their misogyny into words. And since TRP offers nothing new on the good advice front, it tends to fill itself with people with whom the bad parts resonate, since they didn't need it for the good advice. Which is why if a guy doesn't fit that narrative than it shouldn't matter if he has read trp, you can agree with TRP without fitting that narr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 08:06 AM
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You are describing PUA, TRP is meant to be a real change That's why it has stuff like AWALT, you need to change the persons actual beliefs to create a real change TRP is meant to make the reader colder, bolder, more lucrative, more confident and more independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 07:47 AM
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Wanting men to hold all the power at the expense of women's. What does this mean? If a woman is attracted to a RP male it most likely means that she doesn't want the power to begin with, so wheres the conflict?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 07:41 AM
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Because people who look at it without a purpose to look at it only look at the hate. Many people who go to TRP ignore everything that doesn't benefit them from a self improvement standpoint, meaning you can take away positive info from TRP without investing into the emotions that many of the posters display Emotions aren't like stds, you wont become misogynistic just from reading it Many people don't want men to even read TRP, even if they didn't take away any negative traits from it people don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 07:36 AM
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Obviously if you look at it from a case by case basis there will be all sorts of situations, but a man who can easily have sex without commitment from women(repeatedly) will be seen as a gatekeeper of commitment. Remember we are trying to make generalizations here The stereotypical guy who wont commit is far more common than girl who wont commit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 11:03 AM
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Well my views don't necessarily align with TRP, as I dont consider myself a member of the sub so I dont really care what other people say. I do agree with the TRP concept of a shit test because I believe that when people are interested in you many of their questions are judgmental and meant to establish whether or not you meet their standards. If you don't believe in shit tests than you believe that people stumble through conversation without motives? You believe that when getting to know someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 08:26 AM
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The underlining principle is APALT, as it includes males too. Men and women just have different sets of values, so the questions are different. Individuals may have specific shit tests that are unique to them. The only person who doesn't shit test would be a person that isn't judgmental at all and doesn't care about the other persons social standing, finances, education, goals, hobbies etc If you care about any of that when meeting people than you are shit testing. Remember, shit testing isn't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 08:15 AM
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I think if I wrote my version of masculine self improvement people wouldn't like it even though it isn't misogynistic at all. It is heavily based around Nietzsches views. I think any self improvement source that promotes selfishness with a lucrative based mindset will be seen in a negative light. For example, I also believe that dark triad traits are important, that has nothing to do with sexism or women at all but most of TBP still dislike it If I wrote a self help book it would be pro immoral …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 08:11 AM
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If they give up that easily than they weren't gonna succeed in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 08:06 AM
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Ya I agree, just saying. Its more that men have the potential to be the gatekeeper of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:58 AM
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betas can too, just not a large % of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:50 AM
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A lot of guys do this and go into ego defense mode and say some terrible shit. I think its best to have some good experience under your belt before you go the soul crushing route that is cold approach. You need to be in a very good place mentally with your life before you do cold approach Those guys you see on creepy pms or w/e are just totally normal guys, but they are seeking women to fill a void in their life and when she rejects them they need to defend their ego which results in anger This …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:46 AM
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TBP and TRP certainly has different values though, although I guess it depends on what you see as TBP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:43 AM
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Men who are capable of engaging in casual sex with women prior to any commitment are the gatekeepers of commitment All other men who cannot achieve this are the gatekeepers of nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:38 AM
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Learning male shit tests would server no purpose for a straight male. RPW may go over male shit tests, it would make sense to put it there so you would have to ask one of them. Idk why you think TRP needs to go over information that serves no purpose to the sub Males mostly just shit test to look for slutty behavior, women shit test more to judge your confidence and self esteem levels. There are also general shit tests all people understand about education level, income, job, level of independen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:23 AM
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Most people who hate TRP also hate those other masculine self improvement books, so a terp doesn't really have much incentive to go to a more PC source
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 01:32 AM
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How are shit tests misogynistic? You realize men say shit tests too right? Its just the idea of someone asking a question in a somewhat innocent way that doesn't sound like a big deal but in reality it is important to them and they want you to answer it in a specific way. That isn't specific to women at all, TRP just doesn't bring men up because there isn't much point Has a male ever asked you an innocent question about your previous sexual encounters or N count? If you answered in a way specifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 01:20 AM
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The average male is a beta so it makes sense. How much of the population do you consider alpha? 5%? 10% tops?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:11 AM
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Because the amount of people who don't commit crimes don't commit crimes because they aren't capable/aren't confident they would get away with it/have no desire to commit said act. The amount of the population whom is neutral to these type of things are huge, those are the people who are effected by those deterrents to greatly benefit society Its like a sexy dude gets more benefit for not cheating than an ugly guy. We know the sexy guy could cheat if he wants too. The ugly guy on the other hand …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:06 AM
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I don't think cheating has anything to do with a lack of respect. That just comes down to your own morals. People who cheat will cheat on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 03:04 AM
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just because a woman dates somemone doesn't mean her desires aren't in line with other types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 11:12 PM
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Obviously they would be taking a hit, but if you look from the pov of the entire human race than it makes sense to split up all the leaders. The feminist view point is typically that of a "for the human races best interest" viewpoint rather than a self serving viewpoint. At least that's the way they state their beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 11:09 PM
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I think some women who are submissive look like they are being taken advantage of but it is their preference to have little responsibility and be taken care of/looked after. Obviously cheating is an exception that no one wants(except cucks) but when you see a woman getting taken advantage of its possible that she doesn't see it that way at all. Its all about the details Do you think RPW openly advocates getting "taken advantage of" or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:26 AM
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The problem with RPW from a feminist POV is obvious, you are putting too much power over your life into someone else's hands which is clearly unfavorable. But some women want to do that anyway, so for them RPW makes perfect sense. I think one of the problems is that even though feminists don't want to live the lifestyle of the RPW they both desire the same men which gives those males too much power over selection. So they will just shame you with shit like "if you like submissive girls you are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:09 AM
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As long as shes not a tumblr feminist sure, I bet we would have a lot of common view points Hopefully she doesn't believe in balancing chakras and using energy crystals to purify her dirt weed while reblogging her daily astrological sign post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 06:05 AM
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I hate zero people on this earth, I don't even get how people hate others who haven't personally wronged them(even then I forgave everyone who ever wronged me), especially people they haven't met You should think of everyone else as just a different version of you, they are just an alternate version of you who grew up in a different atmosphere with different genetics prone to different things. How can you hate an alternate version of you who is clearly the way they are for a reason? I think peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 01:27 AM
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AWALT is more of a way to keep yourself from being too invested/beta. Just accept the way woman are and gain as much pleasure/enjoyment as you can during your short journey in this existence. Its also a way of making things less complicated, AWALT is useful because it easily translates into "treat all women the same" which is good for people who have little experience because they try and tailor their behavior to the specific person which is stupid and awkward Here's my hierarchy of importance I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 01:15 AM
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Apart from that, everyone and their mother IRL is calling me a selfish autistic who doesn't understand empathy and needs to be more compassionate and giving, especially to women. If the things they say of you were really true than you wouldn't be here saying it, as it wouldn't bother you. You don't really have to be "compassionate and giving" because the situations in which you must act that way don't come up very often in day to day interactions. If you are decent enough looking all you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 01:57 PM
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People don't feel bad for men so men can make fun of themselves and talk about how their life sucks. Female comedians cant do that because people just feel bad for them, its a huge part of comedy that is very hard to pull off as a woman Men and women both feel far more empathy towards women than men, there are female comedians that write jokes that would only work coming out of a males mouth so the good ones sell some of their jokes. There couldn't be a woman like Louie c.k, she would just depre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:45 AM
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Silent treatment/withdrawl is for rejection. She rejected you so you will no longer lead her, fair is fair. Dread is mostly for LTR that is dying because you are being emasculated/disrespected I know that many people think that respect is something that yoiu can just obtain by asking for it(feminists) but that's not true, respect comes from actions/behavior/attitude towards life and is based on an individual basis If I asked you to oppose dread what would be your answer? How would you get a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:36 AM
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If everyone knew what everyone thought there would be 2 categories of people 1)people I hate 2)people who think of random stupid shit all day that doesnt pertain to me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:30 AM
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I love my dog even though hes not me I still love him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:28 AM
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brad pitt did it for the sex, cmon we all know it aniston->jolie is prob a big leap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:24 AM
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I have zero problem with slutty women, I like them(especially in the current part of my life as I dont want a kid for a LOOOOOONG time). I would not see them as responsible enough to raise a child and be a good mother, I would also see them as more of a threat for divorce. I like to look out for my unborn childs well being and would very much like to be a big part of its life, as big as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:21 AM
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Why do you think that out of all the women that only those who ride the CC will be attracted to TRP. The amount of women who ride the CC are way below 25% so that doesn't even make sense. Although I do think that there are a lot of women who are like "internet whores" and have all the same behavior that TRP describes only they never leave their house(with no intention of leaving). Instead of getting dick they are getting likes and swipes. It would be interesting to see how much they align with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:13 AM
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You worry and think too much of others, focus on yourself. Think of women as followers or accessories first and companions secondary, a recourse at your disposal. Does she fulfill her purpose(whatever the specicifcs of that may be)? If so than whats the issue? Don't approach women expecting things to be equal, we arent 2 peas in a pod or anything like that. Its more like those fish that cling on to sharks which keeps them safe from predators. You are the shark, take the lead A bond cannot shatte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:03 AM
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I didn't say that, I said the ones who talk about it openly to random people are socially inept and the rest keep it to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 09:02 PM
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TRP is exactly like philosophy in this regard, the topics and thoughts aren't easy to talk about IRL because you don't have enough time to articulate your thoughts and most people simply don't give a shit about philosophy/cant appreciate it. They would rather talk about cats or drake or some dumb shit their coworker did. Its natural too never bring these things up, the people who do are the outliers who just don't have experience interacting socially
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 09:45 AM
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rear naked choke
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 09:39 AM
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TRP is fine with polyamory as long as your are the "bull" in the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 09:31 AM
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The truth can get hazy with TRP because of the placebo effect. But if it works for you than you might as well reinforce it so it continues to work + may work for others I care more about having definitive mindsets that push me towards my goals rather than the truth if the truth doesn't benefit me at all Imagine if praying was a consistent way to cure cancer or something, you can bet your ass religious people would go to great lengths to protect their placebo effect. Its the same reason TRP prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:38 AM
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I agree with you, If I wrote TRP material I would promote self interest much more. You should view yourself as Genghis Khan, you are the only person who deserves to vote, if you can seize something than it belongs to you. You create morality, you write the rules, others bend to you. This consciousness is the only one you are gonna have and its your only connection to everything in the world, the world does in fact happen to revolve around you I'm not sure why TRP went with this "male powa!!!" an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 01:05 AM
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TRP sidebar is important because there are so many fucking retards making dumb threads that shouldn't be seen as a representation of the ideals. The side bar is kinda shit though compared to what it could be imo Its like watching a sports game and instead of listening to analysts that were previously pro players you go listen to some drunk idiot in a sports bar talk about why he is better than every player on the team
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 01:01 AM
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I think that this is part true but not 100%. We all have aggression, violence and leadership in our genes, we all are capable of confidence given past success. Todays vision of an alpha is obtainable by most men given proper molding, but this is mostly because those traits are less represented than they were in the past. The more spineless our society becomes the more males have potential access to being seen as an "alpha", they will of course have to go against the grain and define their own va…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:54 AM
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Its easier to put someone who has natural talent into a bubble and make them act in a way that is socially acceptable than it is to ingrain traits into someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:49 AM
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Separates itself from all other "advice" which can be useful for instilling confidence which is obviously a key aspect to TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:43 AM
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Feminists talk about women having the choice to live with or without femininity, they also say that men must disregard masculinity and live without it. Notice women have the freedom to choose but men don't, how does that make any sense? Feminists aren't fighting femininity, they are fighting for the right to choose what they want to do and to be accepted no matter what decision they make. By this logic men should have the freedom to be as masculine or as feminine as they want. The problem with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 07:35 AM
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What do you define as mental health issues? Would you regard someone who has the personality of the Übermensch to have "issues" that need to be resolved? Or do you think that dark triad traits are beneficial in moderation? I have my own opinions but i'm not completely sold on them. I believe that the ends justify the means in the sense that the inspirational beliefs of TRP that cause the individual to become more attractive behavior wise are justified even though they spawned from feelings of su…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 12:42 AM
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There are winners and losers in life, in order to gain you must take from someone else Can you get away with it? That is all that matters. Life isn't fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 09:35 PM
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You don't have to actually know someone, you just have to feel like you know someone. Your mind can fill in the blanks for you sometimes based off of nothing but a first impression I also feel like I have to know a woman to want to have sex with her, I don't have to like her necessarily but I want to talk with her a bit before I can actually feel strong desire. Although if the infatuation is strong enough I can want to fuck someone even if I have only seen them interact with other people, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 09:30 PM
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I would say women get away with acting like teenagers simply because they are overly protected from society and are spoiled by males. If it was biological it would apply to all women, yet it is the most apparent in the most attractive women(for an obvious reason). Men would act the same way if they could get away with it. Its the reason why TRP says things like "women don't want responsibility" "women want to be treated like children" because in our society that is the norm, it just isn't accept…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 06:41 AM
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I never said lie to women, I just mean it needs to be sugar coated or worded differently. I also don't believe this applies to all women, but it is a good rule of thumb. I saw a video somewhat recently that held a similar view towards all of your friends rather than women that I thought resonated well with TRP. https://youtu.be/Z7dGdjie1XM?t=1m25s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 01:40 AM
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TRP believes that a woman that you are romantically involved with wants you to treat her as a child. It is your duty to lead, take on all the responsibility and to make the decisions. The obvious counter argument that people make is that there are women who do not let men lead. However it is very important to notice who these women date. Do women who are independent, leaders date men who are followers? Do they date men who are incapable of leading? Do they date timid, insecure men who need emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 01:20 AM
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Its the way they have sex. We are taught "once a slut always a slut" "cant turn a hoe into a housewife" etc. Do you think the girl snorting blow off chads abs is gonna end up being a good mother? We are taught that there is a correlation between slutiness, partying, drugs. If you look the part than why wouldn't I assume the worst? I think a big part of it is because in the whore phase(which im currently in) I find myself attracted to many negative traits. Impulsive, stupid, wild, aggressive etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 01:02 AM
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Insecurity is part of it, but deceit is the bigger motivator If a man perceives you to be a "good girl" you cant have a high N count, because we are taught that "good girls" are hesitant, have excellent impulse control and have different values when judging males. So you change the way the male viewed you and you are no longer capable of being the "good girl" or the wife material. TRP tries to teach men that these "good girls" don't exist, but even so it is hard to totally rewrite reactionary be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 12:40 AM
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It tells you how to gain success in certain areas, it never actually tells you to do that as that distinction is up to the individual. It gives you the tools to make a decision, the decision is still up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 09:16 PM
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fuck that. You fuck this girl and never speak to her again. Later she gets happily married and have two kids. Why do you think TRP causes this reaction? TRP doesn't dictate when you should spin a plate, when you should LTR or when you should pump and dump. That distinction is up to you. TRP is more about maintaining distance, independence, disinterest. It is a style that leads and maintains a position that has power/authority and is emotionally self sufficient while also self serving. In no way …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 10:26 PM
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TRP is a lot more complicated than people give it credit for. Think about it like this, you are internalizing reactionary behavior towards women based around your beliefs. But you aren't acting, you aren't thinking, you aren't a PUA. These need to be real beliefs, you need 100% confidence in what TRP says or how can you expect to be confident yourself? Imagine if a guide said something like this "some girls like this....some of the time, go get em!!!" can you expect anyone who reads this to beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 09:38 PM
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That's ridiculous. If TRp is producing mostly shit, the correct answer to that is to pare down the shit to the useful nugget if information. I have also rarely seen anything useful on TRP that I could not find elsewhere. People say you can do this all the time, but people from TRP don't care either way as both sources would provide the same info. If u wanna do that go ahead Why not cut out the hate so what they say is more accessible to everyone, your community grows and you won't have pointless…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 09:18 PM
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Hes saying that its important to be able to extract valuable, insightful or useful information from things that are mostly shit. If someone types out a page of hate, sexism and anger but they ahve a single sentence that is something true that you had never realized it before than you need to be able to recognize that and extract it from the sea of emotion that they created on the page. Everyone in TRP knows when to skim through peoples posts, because they are fueled by emotion and therefore only…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 08:44 PM
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Same reason I don't get depressed about the sun burning out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 12:51 AM
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I could go look around for some, it always has the same theme of "its ok because hes a fuckboy". I wouldn't say I follow the most mature crowd, regardless tho I see a lot of sugar daddy posts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 05:26 PM
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social media/hookup sites
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 04:01 PM
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I don't think anyone advocates cheating, people do however promote taking advantage of men to use their money and condemning all males who don't meet a certain standard of independence/wealth as boys rather than men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 03:41 PM
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I lean way more red than blue and even I hate that analogy. I think one of the problems is that our society teaches us that sluts are easy, this isn't even close to true since sluts are more selective than regular girls(in the sense of alpha traits). Women originally started this myth I believe, which led to a lot of bruised egos. If you operate under the idea that sluts are "easy" than every slut that wont fuck you is insulting you by not sleeping with you, she is telling you that you are infer…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 02:29 AM
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Ok, so let's get more women in STEM. So, if they face harassment or discrimination, should they not do something about it? Ofc not, I agree with you, they should do something about it I agree with you in every aspect except about who this responsibility falls upon. Like I said before, if we can have a female president than surely women have a strong enough position to change the world themselves. Why would I take that opportunity to prove their worth away from them? Its disrespectful to treat th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:44 AM
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People aren't entitled to a profession. People shouldn't be entitled to a profession, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. They just feel they should have the same opportunity as a man in the same spot in life. What's wrong with that? I agree as long as we are all held to the same criteria to obtain that job. Want more women in stem? Go get a stem degree. If you are swayed away from a stem degree because you don't see other women who have stem degrees it doesn't mean that they should change the crite…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:28 PM
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Everyone likes being chased, it is the position that has the most influential power and comes off as less clingy or desperate. TRP isn't about not approaching, you still approach but you maintain healthy distance and disinterest in order to try and maintain a balance between being chased while still being the authoritative, commanding figure. You are telling me what women like, why doesn't it matter what I like? Why do you think I should have to conform to your relationship style?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:28 AM
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Why settle for just being "good enough". I'm too ambitious and care too strongly for my ego to accept that view point from someone who is supposed to be the most important person in my life(other than myself) Its silly to try and argue that people shouldn't try to be the best they can be TRP is much more than getting laid. Its about living life in the way an attractive woman does with most males. Being desired, lusted and chased after(because of who you are, rather than what you provide) is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:16 AM
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You need to get better at shortening your posts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 03:14 AM
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Lets compare the old feminists with the new ones. Old feminists sacrificed their lives, went to prison etc because they felt passionately about their beliefs and wanted to benefit all women. They did the heavy lifting in a time in which we didn't think women could do that, the fact that they showed us what they were capable of is what led to their success. In todays world feminism is intertwined with a part of our culture that imo has hurt the movement a lot. Many people fee entitled to having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 01:42 AM
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Why do red pillers feel entitled to sex? Don't you think if that was true than they wouldn't actually read TRP in the first place? You could say "TRP feels entitled to sex if they have higher smv than the other males around them or TRP feels alpha males are entitled to sex" but I would say your statement is so simple that it is wrong. Not all Terpers see themselves as alpha or high smv, so you couldn't say your original staement about all terpers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 12:52 AM
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its important to clarify if you are a male feminist or a male feminist sjw as they are way different Some girls and women will have lots of sex with whoever, and others won't. That's life. I also hold this belief, but with everything in life not just sex. My mom taught me when I was very young that some people get away with things in life that you never will(when i was really little I would always try to come up with plans to rob banks, she taught me that some people get away with things and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 12:37 AM
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The only way for you to not manipulate people it to say exactly what you want word for word all day everyday prior to any behavior that is accompanied to that desire The difference is that some manipulation is planned, most is natural. People don't mind natural manipulation when they are the ones doing it even though its the same shit at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 11:23 PM
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would you not mind TRP if it said "not all women are the same, but you don't know anything about that woman so you should treat all women the same way like you do to strangers, any woman you are attracted to you should do X"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 11:20 PM
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Do you think TRP is more slavery to the ego, or slavery to greed/desires? I personally would say they are heavily intertwined but I cant imagine what those 2 different people would be like I do agree with TRP being slavery to the ego, but I think all men are slaves to their egos and not just TRP. A great quote zyzz once made when asked why he started lifting he said " to add substance to my ego" and it made me think of all the times men talk about "having to prove something to themselves" and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 06:28 AM
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If you had been interested in casual sex rather than a bf, would you have picked the same guy that you are currently dating for a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 06:21 AM
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Ty for the courteous replies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:20 PM
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Its not equal when a woman provides emotional support for a man who doesn't need it, and the man provides emotional support for a woman who does need it. At least by my definition that isn't equal, because the woman prioritizes the males who don't need it over those who do, they are judged by that merit. Its like pseudo equality, but in practice it isn't as equal as it looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:17 PM
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Not many women like real equal relationships. In an equal relationship I wouldn't provide any emotional support, as I don't receive any myself. In an equal relationship a mans dread game would match a womans passive dread game. I think that a real equal relationship would be seen as abusive because of this I think when people imagine a equal relationship they are imagining it with a man who doesn't need much from the woman, that isn't an accurate way of imagining it imo. Think about the male bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:13 PM
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I linked this in another thread, what is your opinion of it? The context of it is just the style of distance and disinterest that TRP portrays. I have a little "if we lived in a feminist world" part at the bottom, which choice would you pick? Is holding women to the same standards as men abusive? I just have a problem with the whole... being emotionally distant, not wanting to deal with her problems, not viewing her as equal. If that makes sense? This part is gonna be a little confusing from a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:00 PM
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I just have a problem with the whole... being emotionally distant, not wanting to deal with her problems, not viewing her as equal. If that makes sense? This part is gonna be a little confusing from a males point of view. Men are taught in todays society that our value stems from our independence, our ability to provide and by being self sufficient emotionally. I don't think it would be a leap to say that women prefer males who have the least emotional baggage and rely on her as little as possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 04:54 PM
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TRP keeps its offensive speech contained, it doesn't go around spreading it to other subs(ok maybe deadbedrooms a little, now u get banned if u do that) Its like women complaining about men invading twox, I don't go around trolling feminists subs or womens subs because it defeats the purpose of the sub. Getting offended by something doesn't give you the right to invade and troll the sub. Thats why PPD exists so red and blue can mix without fucking up the other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 11:41 PM
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I heard a girl say this: " I love boys with face tattoos, but yall trouble, i'm staying away from yall". The only thing keeping her away from those guys is the rational part of her brain, the same part of her brain that pushes her closer towards BB. If she reacted totally on emotion she would be all over those guys I would say that TRP is trying to captivate this same type of reaction. A close friend of mine is who is pretty good with women and VERY well liked/received(although never reading any…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 10:34 PM
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People with status are attractive yeah I agree, and many people emulate people with status which is generally seen as a positive thing. An easy example is expensive clothing. You don't think people who have similar behavior would be seen in the same light? I would partially agree with that, because it depends if you can pull it off or not. Some people can, others cant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 09:22 PM
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You make a lot of assumptions and pretty much ignored my post I listed 2 RP males and said that they have big female fan bases, all I ask is being insecure a requirement to liking those guys? My theory is that TBP just wants to insult those women to distance themselves from them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 05:58 PM
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You just pick up chicks who have low self-esteem and wonder why they aren't wife material. I don't know why people always say this, can you explain why everyone in TBP believes this? I would better describe it as youth, inexperience, "being a romantic" or a refusal to settle for BB due to standards(while glorifying hollywood materialistic culture) Do you think there are any women who are crushing on Chris Brown who dont have low self esteem? I'm not implying that TRP says you should beat women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 06:03 AM
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I dont think TRP is specifically conservative. For example, if you don't care how people behave unless they interact with you than I wouldn't personally call that conservative. At least not in a traditional controlling way that people typically mean. I would say its more "I am alpha, you follow me". TRP does phrase a lot of what it says based on gender, but its supposed to be taken in from a self serving viewpoint I've never quite understood the whole dude-bro power group mindset that some peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 11:21 PM
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I'm just saying that tyler was successful in areas that he hadn't previously been. I would say that a key viewpoint of people who subscribe to TRP is that its better to be tyler than the original jack. And that its best to be the culmination of both sets of traits. If you had the traits of the original jack, would you see tyler as an improvement? I think everyone in TBP would say no, while TRP would say yes. Do you think its possible for the first jack to become the second jack without the minds…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 07:34 AM
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I think by the time the woman has or doesn't have an orgasm she has already made up her mind on what she is going to do. Women might have far less orgasms in casual hookups but that doesn't mean that they base their decision making process on that. Its similar to what people say to guys with small dicks, "by the time she sees your dick she has already made up her mind" You could say "why do women keep pursuing casual sex if they failed to orgasm in the past?" and my guess would be that they just…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 06:48 AM
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Its not really anti RP, it says that RP is only the 2nd step. The final step in the movie was adding his beta traits and alpha traits together. All his success was from his RP side, but he needed his BP side to keep what he had gained because tyler was too extreme. The movie was basically BB->AF->AB So it depends what the individual subscribers goals are, do they wanna keep what they gain like jack did? Or do they just want to spin plates by remaining like tyler?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 04:02 AM
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He goes from being a beta to having a split personality that is RP, this gives him success with women and creates an authoritative aspect of his personality. Then he needs to kill tyler to create a balancing act because tyler is too extreme. Think of it like this BB->AF->AB or Blue->Red->Purple. Everything he gained in that movie was from his RP personality, then by regaining his beta traits in addition to his alpha side he was able to keep his relationship He never gets rid of the traits tyler …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 03:55 AM
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The question is why did they begin reading TRP? Those who do not leave the anger stage are part of TRP so they can blame others for their shortcomings, while those who do leave the anger stage genuinely want to improve their position in life. Not all anger stages are the same either. For example, I went through an anger stage at my dad for being a beta like 10-15 years ago when my parents divorced. Obviously this was way before I found TRP. People who blame women had previously blamed women befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:59 AM
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How many girls do you see who date dudes who are less attractive than them? How many tindrellas are fucking dudes who are less attractive than them? If you are only looking for casual sex than you only care about alpha traits and looks, sluts hook up with sexier dudes than if they could date because they can ignore a lot of other important things on their dating criteria I know it sounds strange because they probably have a higher N count, but the men who contribute to their N count will be sexi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:43 AM
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Depends on the way it was, in my example I was taking looks and smv out of the equation. That is still plenty enough to generate competition. It isn't really about not having incels, its about no male being sexually repressed meaning they get to live out their fantasies w/e those happen to be If we were all porn stars would anyone give a fuck? I doubt it But TRP is still pro slut shaming because the world I just described will probably never exist, feminists who say things like "don't you like s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:28 AM
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They propose that as a social norm, not 1 person If that were to happen in a society I think slut shaming would cease to exist(from men) because every male would be serviced so there wouldn't be any competition in that sense anymore. Slut shaming only exists because sluts are pickier than the average woman when it comes to looks(for obvious reasons) so its an exclusive club that only few men get to join. This causes envy between males and men don't want to commit to a woman who enabled men that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:42 PM
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I find the common BP position of this is how it is, because this is how it should be incredibly frustrating for this reason. There is no reason to think the world as it is is anything like how it should be! And also because when you argue back "that's not how it is" then they automatically jump to the assumption you are also saying "and this is not how it should be". I agree with this, I don't have to agree with the way the world is to try and be successful in it. You don't have to accept the sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:39 PM
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If someone pedestals women and than you teach them AWALT it kinda balances them out. Its not like people are as extreme as their recently developed views, their views are what they are trying to grow towards. Is it possible for them to go too far? Sure. But you could only see that in their behavior, not words on a forum I haven't heard anyone else pose a strategy to stop the pedestal, sure people will say "dont do that" but that's not really advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 01:33 PM
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nd push the rest of the problem onto everyone else (AWALT, feminized society, etc). They're not really taking responsibility for the outcome. They don't even accept the real outcome (women aren't hypergamous whores, they're just not interested in catshit, "be yourself" is good advice for people who aren't Timmy). See the reason why I disagree with this is because TRP doesnt see that as a problem, it sees it as a "truth". TRP isn't trying to change women and doesn't want women to change, it merel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 01:09 PM
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The wall is based around desperation, so it wont come at the same age for every woman and some woman will never experience it. Most of the time the desperation is to start a family within a certain time frame, so women who never want to have kids are less likely to hit the wall and if they do it will be at a later age. The more independent the woman the later the wall will come. The wall exists for men too, its just way less common and doesn't shift the priorities much(only potential shift is fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:10 AM
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Redpill says to blame yourself because you cannot expect the world to revolve around you, you cannot expect an entire gender to behave based on the values that you think they should use as criteria to judge their sexual partners and companions. Its better to adapt and be proactive in your life than to whine about how things should be different
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:03 AM
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You care about their suffering in the sense that you want to make them suffer, you are thinking of hurting others rather than elevating yourself. Selfishness is important, you should care about people suffering when you see it, but you should be so blinded by the focus you have of your own goals that its hard to see the suffering of others You can be empathetic while still blind to people suffering. Best of both worlds from a success standpoint Its like being a vegan. Sure the movie earthlings i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:29 AM
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How so? You don't think that you can make someone more desirable? Its the same concept of a "makeover" except for more than just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:26 AM
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Maybe your parents are right You shouldn't care so much about others, you shouldn't care about their suffering. Put more thought into yourself. You always talk about how you are in monk mode, but i think we have different opinions of what monk mode is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:23 AM
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Rapey? Creating desire is the opposite of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:21 AM
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Should you try to create desire in someone you are attracted to and only act/escalate through body language until it is clear that you are in a position in which you can command what you want in an assertive, decisive way. Or should you be 100% verbal with all your intentions and preemptively phrase everything as a question in order to respect the womans boundaries? Notice that the 2nd one seems really solid on paper? It sounds like advice many women would willingly give to men they know. But it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:18 AM
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Idk why everyone always cries about pushing through the lmr. TRP says "If shes playing hard to get, don't play her game and move on. If she wants to stop playing hard to get than she can have your time again" This seems pretty mature compared to many other options. People just don't like it because it takes a position of "I wont chase you, I will move on" and some women think they are entitled to being chased At the end of the day that is a key difference between TRP and a lot of general advice …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:56 PM
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How many dark triad red pillers are there? Because I remember when we all took that test like 1 person would be considered "dark triad" out of all the people who posted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:40 PM
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People are typically ok with that, do you think trumps supermodel wife is evil and immoral? I think most people would be like "you go girl, playa play, do you, etc"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:37 PM
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TRP says you should blame yourself for everything, how is that blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 03:52 PM
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I am always myself despite agreeing with certain rp theories Doesn't mean I go around spouting everything I think in my head like xemnas does. I've been doing it this way my whole life, I don't bring up my philosophical side because people aren't interested in it or fail to follow it so there isn't a point. Those thoughts are reserved for a select few who are simply easier to access on the internet. People Irl just wanna talk about fetty wap, the newest vine they are geekin over, their next meal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 03:40 PM
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You are confused, what you should say is women only want to have sex with men who are in the top 10%. I'm sure if someone released a bunch of tindr data we could establish this to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 02:25 PM
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Your relationships aren't based around lust. Many women do however base their relationships purely around infatuation/lust and that's what TRP is focused on. it takes months of knowing someone before I'm close enough to them to start feeling that spark. It should only take a few days for your mind to fill in the blanks(through fantasy/imagination) around the information you do know about him. A males first impression + halo effect is what many relationships are based around. Yes the friends firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:25 AM
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Hes not saying you will have sex with a guy 5 minutes after you met him, you will have a few categories based on a first impression though. Not saying these are conscious thoughts btw 1.) This guy could fuck me if he plays his cards right 2.) This guy isn't gonna get within 5 feet of my pussy 3.) If all else fails this guy might be able to fuck me if he commits and provides things that aren't related to looks, but id prefer someone else I'm sure there are more categories, especially when you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 12:45 AM
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I find myself agreeing with some TBPers(dstoo, dragoneslessh, bones and soemthing and a few others) on specific things, but I still see a lot of truth in TRP when it comes to identifying behavior/psych aspects. I would rather have my own pill than allow others to speak for me by identifying by a specific ideology because there's a lot of retards in random trp subs comment section. I will still defend the aspects of TRP that I agree with just to encourage discussion because people often say thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 05:58 AM
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It needs them for competition, you need to have losers to have winners. Its the reason why men respect people who try and fail over those who run from their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:46 PM
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I have a product that was wanted by many high status men, that must mean I got pretty damned lucky and/or I have higher status than I originally thought." And if she's with YOU in the long term, then she's actually giving you more sex than she gave them. The important question to ask is why do you have her now? If its the case in which she exclusively dated chads and you struggled until you hit a breaking point in your life in which you now make enough money to entice her than its totally unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:38 PM
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They put all their eggs into someone elses basket, it makes sense to behave that way. I'm not saying I would do the same thing if I were a woman(I wouldn't) but it does make sense to have that reaction. Those women expect their man to always know exactly what to do. Its a LOT like the "little/caregiver" daddy daughter relationship type. The only difference is that those people are accepting of the other relationship types whereas RPW isn't. They both behave the same way in their relationships. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:27 PM
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Nope, we have a group of friends but people are more attached to certain people in the group than others. So any ripple in the group forces people to take sides and it is constantly changing, and every time groups of people come back together they bring new people with them. So its always growing and shrinking or replacing people. People forget and forgive but then someone else will do the same shit and the groups are split up again just with a slightly different format from the time before. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:05 PM
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Is your mom the needy type? Overly emotional relying on your father and paying more attention to him than you? Do you ever feel like you had to compete with your mother for your father to pay attention to you? Are you more competitive or territorial than other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:58 PM
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When I say pretty big I mean huge, because it is always changing. I cannot give you an exact number because every time a couple in my group breaks up one of the two will start dating someone else in my group so everyone is always split up. When you and your chick break up one of your friends in your social group is gonna be her next boyfriend almost guaranteed. This is routine in my social life, the girls exclusively date people who are friends first, which could be a reason why I cannot imagine…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:52 PM
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My social circle is pretty big and I know all the women enough to talk with them about their lives, but I would never hang out with them without a group of others which is why I say we aren't close. I didn't go to college and honestly I don't go to bars very often as I try not to drink much which is why in my post I talked about the other men in my social circle, not myself. I cant even imagine it happening unless the girl is super drunk so I wouldn't be cool with it anyway. I don't know about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:25 PM
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Being sexy/born rich is the most privileged thing you can be The worlds not fair and never will be. Is it better to be born white? Yes. But there are so many situations exactly like this and it seems like people only care about gender and race while ignoring all the other factors that aren't fair. IMO we ignore all or pay attention to all, its stupid to pick and choose which ones matter just because we can visibly see it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:19 PM
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I wouldn't say I am close friends with most of the women in my social circle, but i have never ever seen them do this for any of the guys. Not saying it doesn't happen, but relying on that seems pretty stupid to me. Its certainly not a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:08 PM
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If you are content with getting women that want 100/0s for the rest of their life TRP doesn't think this at all, TRP recognizes that women think differently about different men. For example you might like some dude because hes funny, so you would expect him to be funny. Or maybe you perceive a guy to be confident and domineering, so you expect him to act in that way. TRP says that certain types of males have much more sexual freedom than others because the attraction is more lust based, just bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:53 PM
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Women used the "just be yourself" all the fucking time when I was younger Wanna know why? Because when they hear men giving boys advice they don't like the advice the men gave, so they say "just be yourself, don't listen to him" to try and overwrite any advice other males can give you. It isn't actually supposed to benefit you. I think a lot of women start giving their sons this type of advice as a preventative measure towards anyone giving them advice that would change their views, its more abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 02:13 AM
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I bet like half TRP subscribers are people who hate TRP and not actual terpers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 05:59 PM
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The one you will probably hear the most is Become friends with women just to be friends, keep doing that until a relationship falls into your lap This isn't technically bad advice, but it is bad advice to be considered plan A because it isn't proactive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 05:54 PM
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I think that the creep factor is also because when we look at people we either see them as sexual creatures or not-sexual creatures, its weird when someone kinda forces you to see them as sexual creatures. Does anyone else feel this way or just me? Its one of the reasons why attractive people have more freedom when it comes to having conversations about sex, if you are ugly and try to talk about sex i'm likely to cringe at you, because you are forcing me to think about you in a sexual manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:22 PM
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Competition is good, it makes winning that much sweeter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:17 PM
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I think just because people who are like that are probably called nice all the time by their peers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 04:08 PM
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There is a famous muay thai fighter who ran away from home at 18 years old to live in Thailand to train with the thai. He slept inside of this dirty gym and would clean it for the owners so that they would let him stay. He did this for a few years and once a month he would call his parents, as you can imagine they would beg him to come home, telling him that he is throwing his life away. He went on to become one of the most decorated muay thai fighters in history and now owns his own muay thai g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:44 PM
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when was that? where did you find this little excerpt? I think it was in the 3rd wave section of wiki but I don't remember Dear lord. TRP = feminism. How did I not see this all along! Alert the masses! I feel like you try to make yourself sound dumb sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:38 PM
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The first step towards greatness is being so obsessive that you cannot recognize anything or anyone other than your goal. The most successful people are either selfish or introverted. All those introverted people are selfish too, they just aren't perceived to be selfish because they don't put themselves into as many situations in which they could be perceived as selfish. Despising the world isn't the path to greatness because you shouldn't even recognize the world, it shouldn't enter your mind. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:25 PM
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A lot of people think that being passive equates to being nice, it doesn't. Nice is only a good trait when its in a person who is outgoing with a loud personality. Those dumbfounded, complimentary, nice people are universally liked. A truly nice person is still capable of being confrontational if need be. If you aren't confrontational in situations when you should be, than you are only nice because you lack the ability to be anything else. You shouldn't give yourself credit for that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:16 PM
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A lot of men getting laid who are feminine aren't really feminine. I like to call it "gentle masculinity", its when you have a masculine male who is so comfortable with himself that he adds feminine traits and hobbies to his identity and is open with them BUT he still has the masculine foundation intact. This is obviously the best that it gets, but if you take a male who has zero masculine traits and is purely feminine he will not be attractive to the vast majority of women. Having a sensitive s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:12 PM
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Feminism used to have this little excerpt in the definition "all girls have their own unique brand of feminism, they don't have to always agree". I would say the same applies to TRP If you agree with the majority of TRP but not everything you are still gonna be considered TRP. This will obviously lead to some indifference when it comes to opinions of members within the same group
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:05 PM
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I never thought of it like that, the desire to be seen and heard no matter the cost
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 05:57 PM
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Yeah I agree with this, its why the relationships subs has so many issues when a male dates a woman in which the male wants to enter his experimental phase but the woman already went through that and didn't like anything she tried and therefore isn't willing to go through it again. Sadly I cant think of any solution for this other than an open relationship, giving up on your desires or breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 12:58 AM
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Most don't, I think another big factor is seeing other women who get to date those men. Its all about exposure, social media probably has an effect on this as well. I do have friends who have downloaded that sugar daddy app, not that they did anything with it, but it shows the desire that they have. I live in an area in which any attractive girl can go down to the bay, walk in one of a few bars and there will be attractive guys who live in these expensive as fuck apartments on the water just wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 10:13 PM
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RP : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WRhbnN2ckY most of g eazy is pretty rp BP: Its hard to really classify BP as it isn't anything specific, but I would say that many BP people would be supportive of this type of behavior. You would think that a young, famous, positive minded, taoist hipster wouldn't get cheated on so much https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=660p4M1_le8 To be fair tho, the more successful a male becomes the worse the women he will typically meet. So it kinda makes sense that peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 10:04 PM
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Its like netflix, once you get a taste of it its hard to live without it. Many women get spoiled in their youth and it results in a growing desire for more. Its like men with sexual acts, once you give us a taste of something new it cant be just a 1 time thing If you dated a rich guy for a while it would be a struggle to go back to regular dudes, but if you have never had the experience than you don't have anything to compare to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:48 PM
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Why do you think that TRP is full of dark triads? You realise TRP suggests becoming more like dark triad which would suggest the idea that they aren't naturally dark triad. Otherwise they wouldn't need to make an attempt to be more like that I got pretty high on the Mach part tho, if you naturally had high in all 3 you wouldn't be on TRP you would either be in prison or a 3 piece suit knee deep in pussy I think one of the flaws with this study is it asks internal only questions, I think it shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:36 PM
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Narc 1.4, 9 Mach 3.2, 74 Psy 2.3, 30
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:33 PM
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bi + trannies, midgets, handicapped etc etc most of these people are just bi who are like "well i could imagine dating one of those people so im pan" but in reality its prob just wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:18 PM
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I didn't say its would make the friendship illegitimate or dysfunctional, but sometimes people like to pretend that the thought of having sex with a attractive friend would never ever cross their mind and they value the friendship so much that they would never ever be interested in casual sex even if it wasn't harmful to the friendship. Which is just wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 08:03 PM
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well it must be his dick looks weird, idk i got bored during the op and skipped ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:07 PM
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I think he means by unsolicited dick picks, not by dicks in general otherwise his dick must look pretty strange
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 05:42 PM
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Yes stoicism for TRP is about being perceived as stoic, doesn't matter if its totally true or not. Its the reason in TRP you can replace stoic with chill and have the same results. You arent being stoic to be stoic, you are being stoic to avoid showing insecurity or weakness Don't think that sub is about stoicism as a trait tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 04:01 PM
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They are using the 2nd definition of stoicism, trp uses the first. So I don't see the point of debate sto·i·cism ˈstōəˌsizəm/ noun 1. the endurance of pain or hardship without a display of feelings and without complaint. synonyms: patience, forbearance, resignation, fortitude, endurance, acceptance, tolerance, phlegm "she accepted her sufferings with remarkable stoicism" 2. an ancient Greek school of philosophy founded at Athens by Zeno of Citium. The school taught that virtue, the highest good,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 03:28 PM
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Maybe hes in his whore phase, and will eventually see you as his madonna. You never know. Many males experience this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 06:12 PM
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Well when you emulate it to make it apply to real life in addition to fiction you learn if it has any merit or not, why not give it a try? Are you not curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 02:29 PM
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Ask him if he will have sex with you, tell him you just need to cum and don't want anything serious. If hes single and you're sexy i'm sure we both know what his answer will be. There's a big difference between wanting and pursuing, just because a male doesn't pursue doesn't means he lacks the desire
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 02:14 PM
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Take your time, I appreciate it
/r/askTRP09/10/15 06:19 PM
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Society already tells men we are terrible, why do we need to repeat something we already know? My own mom told me all the time that she hates men, is it really important to repeat things that everyone already hears? What purpose would that serve? Your post dances around with accusations, but isn't saying anything specific enough to really create a debate. Not sure what you're looking to hear but ill take a stab at it Its important to remember that TRP is trying to bring women down off the pedest…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 05:48 PM
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I don't think many people could maintain frame while supporting feminism. I can imagine it being possible, but you would have to word everything in your own way and have your own brand of feminism that still resonates with women. I'm not into lying anyway so I don't see why anyone would do this, seems detrimental to me. You are saying that you should try to sabotage the rest of the population and settle for being a beta who gets laid through status, I say focus on yourself and try to be a bit mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:19 PM
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Only a few people care about spreading TRP, and those are the people making money from it. It's about personal success, not a movement. I'm sure rollo appreciates it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:09 PM
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I think every man in TRP would be ok if woman all started slut shaming men, I know I would. Women don't want to slut shame men because they recognize that being a male slut is a luxury and if they shamed those men they would be alienating plenty of men that they actually like. Men don't have this problem because being a slut as a woman is a choice, it doesn't imply a single positive trait. Its an important difference between male and female sluts that should be recognized
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:45 AM
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I know what you mean, some people just aren't cut out for TRP type stuff. If you cant pull it off than it wont be the best strategy, some guys are better off being a Michael Cera knockoff or try to appeal from a obscure style that comes off as rare. That doesn't really give you sexual freedom though, as it wont appeal to the masses, only specific people. I don't even like traditional gender roles, I have just accepted the fact that I don't really have the power to make those decisions in that si…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:04 AM
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Gay men who get tons of dick are sluts, women who get tons of dick are sluts Lesbian women who get tons of pussy are players, men who get tons of pussy are players I don't see any double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 11:24 PM
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This is true, but rememeber those red pillers were blue pillers in the past. So even when they were blue pill their personality wasn't exciting or fun enough to get what they desire, it makes sense to make changes in that situation Do blue pillers give other blue pillers advice that works? Because TRP wouldn't exist if that was the case
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 10:57 PM
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What kind of diversifying do you mean? TRP doesn't want to diversify into being attractive in BB territory. I would say that your style alone would close you off from some of the population which is best to just accept. So what other types of diversifying do you mean? TBP always says things like "TRP only works on insecure women" which I don't think is even remotely close to true. I think a better way to put it is TRP applies most to women who make their decisions heavily based around emotions r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 10:48 PM
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Right, because your worldview is how the world actually works? Maybe you just have a really juvenile circle of friends? Maybe they are not actually your friends and you are cherry picking? The places in which people are the most honest is on twitter, tumblr and yelling from the window of their car. Plenty of people who you know that are normal people would come off as juvenile the second they speak from one of those places That's because you are clearly not a guy worth chasing. (hint, TRP won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 08:33 PM
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You honestly believe that? Do you think men are out there looking for something specific, or just someone who is physically attractive without being annoying/boring/high maintenance etc? That's actually not reality. It's what TRP believes, however. And no, women aren't as vindictive as you paint them. I'm not saying I hear women say that IRL, but when I follow my female friends on twitter the type of stuff that they retweet usually revolves around them desiring a man to go out of his way for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:31 PM
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The option to do what? if they wanna "dominate the western sexual market" or w/e u said, maybe they just wanna date, its all up to them What? How is it "a lot more than just looks," for men? If women want to be appealing to men they need to work primarily on their looks(men care more about avoiding certain traits women may have that they don't like, whereas women look for specific traits), if men want to be appealing to women it is way more than just looks Why don't you just make your flair red …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:07 PM
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Are you sure that isn't the "friends first" style of dating, as in they liked him when they originally met him and being friends was like a free trial to decide whether or not they want to invest in him or not. That's not the same thing as developing a relationship through a friendship that had no infatuation from the start I don't mind the friends first style but its important to note that the womans initial perception of their friendship is the most important factor in those situations. Men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:12 PM
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And then, trying to conquer the Sexual Market sounds like something only a douchebag would do TRP is about having the option, everything else is up to you. Its the same reason a woman might want to be as sexy as she can possibly be, the only difference is that for men its about a lot more than just looks. TRP is about being desirable, having women chase you rather than the other way around and having as much sexual and relationship freedom as possible. Who wouldn't want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:01 PM
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They have high partner counts because they don't have a good dating strategy, its why many girls have changed to the friends first style of dating, rather than fuck first. A lot of those women also fail to recognize their own value, they think that just because they are sexy they can date some dude who is way out of their league. The guy isn't gonna turn his nose up to them, they haven't realized that men typically fuck down when it comes to casual sex. So when this high value dude loses interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:47 PM
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Its important to note that talking to regular women will not make you less anxious with women who you find yourself infatuated with, so that advice isn't the greatest(at least it didn't work that way for me). I got a lot better in that department just by being infatuated with a couple girls at once, so none of them were as important as before when I had only been infatuated with 1 girl at a time. Getting a new job that has a ton of cute girls is prob the best solution, you know nothing about any…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:35 AM
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I think Putin is way more alpha than Trump, but I still like Trump. I just imagine it being way more likely that Trump would actually follow through with his claims compared to the other candidates. Sure hes gonna create some laws that benefit his companies so he can make all the money back that he spent on his campaign, but as long as the country also benefits I don't really consider that a bad thing. Bernie seems like one of those people who focuses too much on the way the world should be, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:41 PM
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If no one perceives you to be an alpha, are you still alpha? I would say no. I never said sexy, masculinity is important though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:58 PM
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I wasn't implying that at all. Man buns, top knots, beards etc are currently seen as "alpha" while in the past they may have been seen in a different light. Culture adds another layer of what can or cant be associated with the image of an alpha, its not just traits. There are also trending alpha looks. For example. being tall is an alpha quality, its not a personality trait tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:38 PM
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when did I say quality person? reread my post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:30 PM
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posture, clothing, vibe are also part of smv
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:29 PM
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kristen schaal i the closest thing I can think of, the 30 rock character hazel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:27 PM
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Its way more than that when you take culture into account, you can be a confident beta. Alpha beta is just a spectrum related to certain traits, its about being a top end representative of those traits. Only a certain % of the population can be alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:23 PM
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"lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets" is pretty much the alpha bucks equivalent, the struggle against madonna whore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:21 PM
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4% of "business leaders" are psychopaths, then we need to determine how many of the remaining are sociopaths, then we need to determine out of the rest which ones have adapted to portray dark triad traits even if they don't have a predisposition to that behavior. Note that I said "the best CEOs" so we would have to determine a cutoff for which we determine how much of the top end we are basing this around. At the end of the day its gonna be a lot more then 1 in 25 showing dark triad traits the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 12:03 AM
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Probably not as much, as they learned to conceal their traits better than the drug dealer did. I'm sure they get laid plenty based around how much money/status they have tho, they could if they wanted to anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 11:47 PM
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http://time.com/32647/which-professions-have-the-most-psychopaths-the-fewest/ All the best CEOs are psychopaths, yes some great CEOs are just brilliant innovative guys who work as a CEO in addition to their original position (engineer,entrepreneur etc). But people who are pure CEOs require dark triad traits to continuously make more money every quarter. There's no way for us to know exact statistics but there's a ted talks that estimated a very high number that i'm not gonna quote because I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 11:42 PM
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married red pill, its a different subreddit but the people cross over and post in the other forums since a lot of the core ideas are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 11:32 PM
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That's mostly MRP, TRP is more "never get married"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 11:21 PM
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Some sociopaths have tattoos and guns, others wear a suit and tie. Different style, same traits The guys at Volkswagen who decided to sacrifice the environment for better mileage while undermining emissions tests are the same as the dudes on the corner selling dime bags
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 11:11 PM
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They say that some women learn to compete with their mother for their fathers attention very early in life and grow up to be more competitive and territorial than other girls. They normally have more male friends than the average woman
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:30 PM
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If I respect someone I wont sugarcoat anything, women don't always like that I'm not afraid to talk shit to any of my friends whom I respect when they are being a cunt or a moron. I'm not a yes-man and I think most women combine respect with being supportive regardless of their choices + behaving like a yes-man. I don't believe in the "im supportive of my friends no matter what, ride or die" I judge people more on their actions and the way they affect people I don't like those mutually parasitic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 06:38 PM
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If I just brought it up out of nowhere it would seem as if I care strongly and am currently talking out of emotional need, as if I had a viewpoint that was bothering me, like I have some need for people to listen to me or validate my opinions. If i'm trying to win people over without conveying any information and only personality than this wouldn't make sense. Seems weird when I imagine the way it would play out. That wouldn't convey any TRP theory. Doesn't sound very stoic or chill to me, sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 06:10 PM
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then please start doing this will all women. Ok I will, anytime a girl comes up to me and asks me about PP(shit tests are reactionary, they require the woman to ask the question) I will joke around instead of being serious. Although I cant imagine this coming up very often if you were someone they previously ignored, they would probably keep doing that and maybe talk more amongst each other about you having some context about why you are so off. if you were well liked, you would get some overt n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 05:57 PM
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ok, start telling women, with confidence, you don't support planned parenthood (or any other view that's unpopular with most women), and see how your romantic options plummet. if you use humor when you say you don't support planned parenthood, some might think you are joking, being all colbert, which will be attractive... so make sure they know you actually don't like planned parenthood. If I had to do that I would do it in a satirical way in which I was clearly joking, making fun of conservativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 05:29 PM
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I don't even know what a race realist is, I've never heard anyone talk about that before. My post has a lot more content than that little snippet you quoted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 05:08 PM
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TRP has a negative view because it isn't sugar coated, you can reword any trp theory and explain it IRL and people wouldn't make a big deal about it. If anything they would most likely agree with you Ill give you 2 examples of the most hated aspects of TRP that I see people complaining about Shit tests: Women have been taught their entire lives that strange males aren't trustworthy, they have been conditioned to the point in which when you ask them a question they don't care what your answer is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 05:03 PM
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I haven't seen the movie. I'm sure that the personality type exists(I shouldn't have phrased my last post the way I did) but I would imagine it is a tiny minority in comparison to the Machiavellian type. Think about how common it is to hear young people talk about the "hustle" or "grind", how common the "money over bitches, MOB" train of thought has become in adolescents. Its the most common topic I see on twitter on any given day. I wouldn't say comparing that personality type to TRP means much…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 04:41 PM
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I think most people who consider themselves "selfless" simply aren't materialistic and don't have as many goals or desires. Show me someone who is incredibly materialistic who is also selfless and I would be more willing to believe your pov. My line of thinking is similar to the Nietzsche quote “Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 03:06 PM
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That have a community feel? Not so much, but I would say that the makeup tutorial aspect of youtube has a pretty huge following if that counts. I think a lot of feminism discourages self improvement in the sense that you only have to do it if you want, "you are beautiful no matter what you look like". People don't tell men that type of stuff, "If you don't do X youre a fuckboy/real men do this X" type shit is way more common
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 02:23 PM
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Women can teach you how to become good with women, trust me. I have a crush over a girl who is in my league but something about her makes her out to be a 10/10 in my eyes and her friend is helping me with her, and I'm helping her see that she doesn't need to be as attractive as angelina Jolie was when she was 18, to be attractive to men. Help each other for fucks sake. I don't wanna hate on you or anything because you seem to be fine with the way you live but I once read something that makes a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 10:26 PM
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I don't think its a conscious lie they are telling or anything like that. I just think that traits that they are attracted to aren't traits that will also provide comfort and security. So they will verbally announce all the traits that will provide them with comfort and security but those traits don't actually cause any attraction or emotional connection. So those traits are only useful to them in specific men, if those traits are the only positive things about you than you are worthless to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 03:39 PM
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why not both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 03:14 PM
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Whether they represent TRP is up to you, I don't really care either way I was simply pointing out why people behave the way that they do. Its the same as radfems. You can use nearly any ideology or movement on the planet as a defense mechanism if the person hamsters hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 04:40 AM
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Many people become invested in TRP as a defense mechanism, they are using it for an emotional reason to place blame on something exterior rather than themselves. Other people are using TRP as a device to improve themselves. Some people pretend to use TRP as a device to improve themselves but just stay in monk mode as an excuse because they are afraid of failure. All those types of people will act differently. A lot of the misogyny in TRP is caused by the subconscious desire to take blame off of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 03:39 AM
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TBP is a mockery sub because it's fun to watch other people struggling and putting in so much effort in an attempt to impress you / control you / win you over / generally obsess over you. I don't think this is true. People in TBP aren't enjoying reading TRP nor do they think its funny. They just thrive off of hating on someone and getting out negative energy, but they only want to take out their aggression on someone who they deem "immoral" so they don't feel guilty, which is why they keep comin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 10:18 PM
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I've never been laying on a romantic interests bed when I would normally be asleep that I wasn't interested in having sex with. If there was no possibility or interest I would be at home sleeping you've never went on a date with someone you were on the fence about? I don't have sex in public places, at least not yet. The situation in your post is one in which you are attempting to get to know someone, not fuck them. Unless you are into voyeur
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 05:52 PM
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so it cause a month problem, and then you learned from that and never had that issue again? I learned what not to do from the experience, but TRP taught me why I shouldn't do it. Understanding the way other people think is very useful if you don't want to offend anyone, upset anyone and want your social interactions to go as smoothly as possible. do you really want to invest in a girl that is on the fence about having sex with you? Its not very uncommon for women to hold the position "I might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 05:21 PM
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When I was a kid my mom always told me that I had to ask for consent, that women really value that and a good man will always do it. So when I was a teenager I actually uttered the words "can we have sex yet?", as you can imagine this really set me back with that girl and it took about a month to repair the awkwardness that question caused. Verbally asking for consent is the worst thing you can do to a girl who is on the fence about whether or not she feels like having sex, it makes everything f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 04:58 PM
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Are you very honest with your SO about previous sexual experiences and partners? For example whether or not your SO is the best youve ever had? Would you try to protect his feelings if he asked these types of questions or would you be honest even if you knew it would crush him? Because many BP folks tend to agree that past sexual experiences shouldn't be shared. I think a truly honest relationship is too brutal for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:17 PM
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That same guy starts lifting, gets his eating in order, engages in his career and family? Spark's back. No dread necessary. That is dread game, just because it has the word dread in it doesn't mean you have to put others down. Positive dread game is still dread game. Anytime you move the scales of value between you are your spouse you are incorporating dread game, regardless of the style (positive, negative, coincidental or passive)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:12 PM
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some people cheat just for the thrill, but I would assume your post covers the majority of cheaters within a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 05:35 PM
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Its more of a situation in which they require you to make a certain amount of money and have a certain status but you don't actually get any credit for it, its only a prerequisite. Because the woman doesn't need your money, but you still have to have the ability to provide even if she never wants or needs you to. That viewpoint drastically cuts down the dating pool, people put a lot of work and time into their career so if it is used as a filter but you don't get credit for having it than many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:47 PM
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they would learn by word of mouth, so it would take a lot longer to learn, be less accepted(so you may have fear to try or ask) and would require more creativity on your part people would still do it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 06:26 PM
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I think he meant emotionally they don't benefit from the leadership role, men gain status, ego, etc from leadership roles. Women don't really benefit from that type of status, externally most people wont give them as much credit for being leaders like people do for men. If there's money and other perks involved that's all that really matters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 06:06 PM
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I think its sometimes hard to differentiate between empathy/care and pity IMO the best way to differentiate the two is if the act of caring/empathy makes the women view the man as less of a man and less willing to have sex with him than it cannot be considered empathy/care. For another males pov if the care/empathy makes you less likely to follow that male than it would be pity Is there a better way to identify pity vs empathy/care? I think that both men and women have a strong sense of empathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:50 PM
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Maybe because you believe that has a lot to do with why you strike out at the plate. I used to strike out at the plate because I didn't step up when I should have, and when I would step up it was when I shouldn't. I don't have that problem anymore. If I go out and ask a bunch of women for advice do you think they would give me useful advice? They would give me PC advice that sounds ok but doesn't actually make an improvement pffffff, another dangerous way of thinking. Men compete with men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 04:18 PM
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People don't give men good advice in real life in regards to social relationships, especially not women. Relationships are competitive, therefore the best advice cant be something that's commonly known(unless its hard to accomplish) because it would just be the norm If I ask "how do I be the man who women chase?" absolutely no one in real life would answer that question, even if they knew the answer. If i went around and asked that question I would get a bunch of useless bullshit answers, take a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 03:10 PM
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I feel like that stuff is pretty basic tho, go look at pictures of celebrities, subscribe to fitness channels on youtube, do things that aren't super commonly done like rock climbing sky diving etc, anything that you could imagine other people bragging about. At the end of the day just do w/e you find interesting, trp isn't trying to make clones All that stuff would just clog the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:32 PM
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By comparison women have more inconsistencies between their conscious desires and their subconscious desires. This leads to situations in which one will act in a way that is different from the way that they say they act. For example, a mans conscious desire might be "i want to fuck her while shes on birth control" and his subconscious/instinct would be "I wanna cum in her pussy and knock her up". These 2 things are pretty close. Women have a larger list of opposites when it comes to conscious vs…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:22 PM
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One thing that TRP does indirectly is it points out the inconsistencies between a womans conscious desires and her subconscious desires. It teaches you to react based on behavior rather than words, many men(regular dudes not just the nice guys) are taught that they need to do things and provide things for women in order for women to feel an emotional connection. This is a poor way to think about relationships, imo they should be based totally on subconscious/emotional desires(the other stuff com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 05:21 PM
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Changing someones perception of you has nothing to do with thinking of what your wife consciously wants
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 11:25 AM
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I find plenty of black women attractive, I think most non racists do also. There is a funny thing Jim Jeffries said that was something like "white women want to be treated like princesses and black women want to be treated like queens". The behavior of the "queen" is far less attractive to most men, if you avoid that behavior and anything that can come off as trashy or uneducated you should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:42 PM
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Its a picture of an attractive male, you would just assume that they are alpha. They could prove to be beta based on their behavior but the halo effect is still a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 01:43 PM
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I was saying it could be rephrased as "she wants to be manipulated under certain circumstances"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 11:42 PM
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I heard a woman post something about going over to a guys house at night and she told him that they weren't going to have sex. But she went there to have sex with him, she wanted him to make her want to have sex. She wanted him to turn her on, but she wouldn't have sex unless he could accomplish that goal(without saying anything other than we aren't going to have sex tonight, he has to figure it out on his own). I'm not sure how common that is but it sounds a bit similar to what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:05 PM
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I think the difference is that TBP says that men should create attraction in a dumbfounded way, like they aren't supposed to try to develop specific traits or make anyone like them it is just supposed to happen by accident. A lot of people in TBP seems to view the world as being more randomized without universally appealing traits, with every individual having a unique set of traits and no one is objectively better than anyone else Whether they actually believe that is up to debate, but many say…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 05:48 PM
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MRP is more focused towards changing a marriage that already sucks, I would imagine that TRP wouldn't recommend going into a relationship as a BB with no backbone and trying to change into a AB after the woman is already used to your behavior MRP is more focused on your wives specific perception of you while TRP is more broad, you are already in a shitty situation as a MRP while TRP is more of a blank slate self improvement situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 02:26 PM
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I don't think people like this could be self aware enough to go TRP and benefit from it, at least not at the age that this guy is at. Hes most likely set in stone with that type of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 01:47 PM
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You have to give up your culture and try a little bit harder than everyone else does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 10:08 AM
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Why wouldn't you just leave? I would have to leave every relationship I ever enter Dread game is bullshit. Women don't post pics on social media to make men jealous. Not everything women does revolves around men. And (whether it was intentional or not) is just self reinforcing bullshit. Whether you like it or not that does have an effect on your boyfriends behavior, doesn't matter if it was intentional. Is it so wrong that he may want to have the same effect on you? Also why is everything a powe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 09:22 AM
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You can say RP theories IRL, just not around women or white knights
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 03:48 AM
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I thought that anxious, shy girls dated anxious, shy guys, the confident, dominant males would date the confident, dominant women and the smart girls dated the smart guys etc etc Mid teenage years I questioned it but I really wanted to believe it, later teenage years I learned that being sexy and confident trumps every other trait you could possibly have and its not as related to similarities as I had grown up believing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 03:40 AM
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I agree both are need but not that they are equal, imo logical desires only increase comfort in the relationship. They improve a relationship but emotional desires create a relationship. The foundation is needed, once that is established logical desires become important. That's why I recommend focusing on emotional desires fully and ignoring logical desires until emotional desires are 100% met. Not meeting logical desires is less likely to destroy a relationship than not meeting emotional desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 03:28 AM
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This girl has an orbiter who is actually a pretty attractive dude, hes always buying her flowers and shit with cute little notes and she is always defending him saying shit like "some guys just do that for their friends, some guys are like that" but anyone who watches the way he behaves with her compared to his other friends can tell plain as day that they aren't just friends in his mind. She got a hand tattoo and this guy got a hand tattoo like a month later, I cant be sure that he did it just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 02:57 AM
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What do you think of my analysis of the nice guy and why it is unhealthy for a male to spend to much time worrying about logical desires of women. I would appreciate your input. As you have previously stated that you don't agree with me on this concept of prioritizing emotional desires over logical desires https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3kop15/is_patriarchy_to_blame_for_nice_guy_syndrome_what/cuz69oy "Honey, it's been a little while since we've been intimate. I miss being tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:20 PM
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DB are pretty universal, yea there are some outliers (birth control, ssri, weight gain) but i'm gonna say the majority of the time its just the fact that you have been fucking this same person for over a decade and aren't as attracted to them anymore. Communication is always important, if it was that simple DB wouldn't exist If you spend any time on DB you would know that the majority of the time women wont say this, who would want to tell their spouse that they aren't attracted to them anymore?…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:21 PM
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Nice guy syndrome is a result of the pedestal + taking things women say literally. For example, a female friend of mine recently retweeted something along the lines of "I'm happiest when I get to lay around watching HGTV all day and have people bring me food and slurpees. But really if you're fine af you can feed me fries." A nice guy hears this and thinks "Me + whatever she says she likes= she likes me and we fuck". Nice guys only appeal to a womans logical desires rather than her emotional des…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:02 PM
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TRP has plenty of hate but it isn't actually directed at the people they hate People in TRP are truly trying to better themselves and become more successful even if you don't agree with their methods, TBP on the other hand is just bullying. TBP seems much more negative than TRP from my POV, sure they mask it behind a "they are worse than us so they deserve this!" type of attitude but at the end of the day they are just obsessively picking on others with no real personal benefit other than taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 05:48 PM
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This is a good point, men who are in the middle(which is most men) are certainly likely to find women who share the same entitlement that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 05:38 PM
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I think you belong in TBP, not PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 05:36 PM
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Well based on how much the term rape has evolved I imagine some women have also come up with more situations that they would refer to as aggressive and violent. I'm glad that what you refer to as aggressive and violent is also what I consider aggressive and violent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:26 PM
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What do you consider "aggressive and violent"? When I get rejected I immediately cut contact and refuse to interact with that person, because it will only result in additional negative emotions on my part and I would rather not deal with that(I also feel good when someone feels guilty for making me feel bad, you made me feel bad so I don't want to allow you to try and make me feel better or anything like that). I have met people who think they are still entitled to social interactions or "friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 01:59 PM
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I agree with you, but the thing that I don't understand is why we need to create nice guys. If we give men advice/viewpoint that will hurt them if they take it literally than why do we give them that type of advice in the first place? I think the idea of "judge people on their behavior not their words" should be given to everyone when they are young. I think it would be a good thing to state how shallow everyone is in clear speech, so you will be fine even if you take things literally I have hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 01:43 PM
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If you thought women capable of logic, you'd just have a rational discussion rather than try to manipulate her emotionally. Do rational discussions turn you on? Do they create a biological response? Does the best sex you have ever had in your life always come right after you had a rational discussion? Do rational discussions push your body into fight or flight releasing adrenaline and increasing blood flow? You see my line of thought? Go watch a James Dean video that includes a lot of dialogue, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:51 AM
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There is no such thing as a bluepill ideology. Redpillers made that up to divide the world into us vs them. When I say blue pill I simply mean mainstream dating advice or ideas perpetuated in romantic comedies, soap operas etc. I literally just told you why people say that. you did tell me that correct, however that advice doesn't work I'm not going to deadbedrooms it's a TRP recruitment sub. Been there. TRP stuff is banned in deadbedrooms so I doubt that, most common advice in deadbedrooms is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 01:50 AM
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IIRC it was from a tedx called the sexless marriage or the sex starved marriage, I could be wrong about that because ive seen a lot of different videos like that posted on deadbedrooms/lowlibidocommunity I also don't know where you get the idea that other people think gifts are arousing. This is standard advice given to men, "she feels loved from getting gifts" i'm not sure who started this myth but it is mainstream bluepill advice The suggestion of a vacation is to reignite the passion by chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 10:19 PM
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Give it 10 more years before you say that, maybe it does work for you but for all of r/deadbedroooms what I linked is solid advice A very large % of women report feeling that their husband feels more and more like a roommate or sibling as they age, that they actually feel like sex with him is wrong despite still recognizing that their spouse is attractive. I'm sure you can imagine that isn't gonna be fixed with general advice people give like "buy her something! take her on vacation!" i'm not su…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 08:47 PM
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External validation for you, distance from her, the idea that she doesn't totally know you and there are still parts of you that are unknown, personal growth. These things happen to be attractive It can be very destructive if someone thinks that they know everything about you and feel 100% comfortable with your relationship, the usual results are laziness, complacency and a low libido. Have you ever been in a situation when someone tells you who you are or what you like, and they will actually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 11:51 AM
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Charisma is comparable to being a leader in a verbal/body language sense, not necessarily behavior wise though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 06:27 PM
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How bout you tell me what you believe would be the benefits that would occur for average males in a society that pushes promiscuous behavior out of both genders, you could easily change my mind if you say something I didn't think of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 06:22 PM
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TRP thinks very low of fetish cucks, but if a woman cheats on you and you forgive her than you are also a cuck The op didn't clarify which kind of cuck he was talking about but since hes talking about women liking it I think he means the kind without the husbands consent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 01:50 PM
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well then i would argue that no, in fact, these are not average men, but sub-average men, who shouldn't feel entitled to women who outclass them. My point is that high smv male sluts will fuck average women, if you reverse the genders that statement is no longer true. So in a really slutty society average men don't benefit from sluts and they aren't capable of being sluts themselves So AWALT, huh? Every woman is the exact same, they are all sluts, but just not a slut for you? All women want the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 01:21 PM
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Are you sure that's what a demisexual is? I thought it was someone who isn't capable of feeling sexual attraction towards someone they dont know intimately? Meaning they couldn't have a crush on a celeb and wouldn't be interested in porn right? Also I think demisexuals claim that their sexual attraction increases with closeness, meaning they will only become hornier and hornier as long as you two dont distance yourselves I don't believe that any human actually behaves that way, because if that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 01:01 AM
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I think you are confusing someone who is trying to gain external validation through attention and someone who is charismatic. I don't think you can actually imagine what an rp alpha is like(because they aren't all the same). You are picturing a male who is trying to make others believe he is a certain way to support his ego/insecurities, no one likes those people and they certainly aren't rp I think the way a woman would describe a charismatic guy is a guy who always knows what to say and can ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:11 AM
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who is going about things in a terrible way and then I see the "askmrp" advice is also terrible.. You're not entitled to sex with your wife. Or your gf. Not even blow jobs. That's just not how it works and pressuring her like everyone advised is a total turnoff. What did you present as an alternative? Because saying something like "you aren't entitled to sex" isn't advice, its a fact that isn't helping anyone. Advice is meant to lead someone to success, so advice has to have the end result of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 11:48 PM
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so, you're jelly of all the doodz who get the poon? Yes, I've made many steps towards being part of this exclusive group of men what I don't get, is we all want to get laid, and we all want good sex This is the part that isn't really true. It would be nice if everyone in the world was slutty with everyone, but at the end of the day no matter how slutty women become the average male is still just an average male. He wont benefit from an increase in promiscuous women, the top % of men will just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:37 PM
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I would argue that TBP isn't meant to "laugh" at TRP TBP exists because it hates TRP, and it gives a feeling of superiority and serves as an outlet to get out any aggressive energy you have towards people that you deem immoral. Maybe a small % of TBP actually gets positive feel good feelings of laughter and enjoyment from reading TRP, but not for the majority of the sub. And that chosen few has some weird tastes in comedy TBP is the same type of people who read the morbidreality subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:26 PM
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There is a difference between what women find logically attractive and emotionally attractive. Realistically women want a man who not only appeals to their emotional side but also their logical side. Although that's just a pipe dream for most women TRP only cares about the emotional side, because the logical aspect of attraction is merely the cherry on top of the cake. It isn't worth anything on its own The vast majority of women do seem to feel attracted to specific traits that TRP preaches, al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:16 PM
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Men and women have been deluded in different ways. Young women are pushed towards identifying themselves totally based on their looks and thinking that looks alone translates to having a companion who is great in every aspect(looks, career, maturity/alpha personality, etc) Men are pushed to believe that in order to have a successful relationship its more about your career, prioritizing her over yourself and having a passive temperament(this is what RP refers to as a BB)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:10 PM
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If men could be sluts(in the way women can be), all men would be sluts. If you are a male than being a slut is a privilege. And trust me, women slut shame men all the time. They just slut shame them in a different way. "He has commitment problems, hes a fuckboy" basically anything about choosing to remain a slut rather than committing. Women don't like male sluts based on their behavior, but they realize that everything about them that allows them to live a slutty lifestyle is a positive thing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:52 PM
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Its not a good or bad thing, just an instinct to fuck everything that look appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:46 PM
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"Be confident" isn't useful advice though, you cant just flip a switch and become a confident, charismatic dude. I would say that the confidence that TRP provides is from the things that are unique to TRP The belief that you are aware of the way women think and behave makes you feel one step ahead, which results in confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:42 PM
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Being a dick doesn't make women like you directly(not on a grand scale anyway), being a dick can make it seems as if you have self respect and backbone. You make other men look spineless by comparison Trust me there are tons of dudes who are dicks in a insecure type of way, no one likes those dudes. Some guys are confident dicks, it doesn't matter that they are dicks because at the end of the day you are confident and those other dudes around you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 10:12 PM
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This sounds like if it happened it would be beyond my time on this earth in which case there is no reason for me to care. There are so many variables to this its not worth thinking about. For example, if prostitution became legal in the usa that whole theory goes out the window I see that it is cool to theorycraft with because it can point out behavior based on the past, but I personally don't believe any of that shit is gonna happen anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:26 AM
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That sounds like the type of post I wouldn't bother reading
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:20 AM
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I don't even know what you mean when you say "civilization will fall" and I don't see anyone from TRP saying that. I think the best way to read TRP is to ignore every emotional post you read, best way to filter out the fake anger phasers Personally I think you are just looking for ammo to post on TBP, is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:15 AM
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A chad can be an attractive man in a 3 piece suit drinking whiskey or covered in tattoos on a harley, different girls have different tastes Chad isn't some generic cocky jock, the only thing all chads will have in common is confidence, good looks and a domineering personality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:10 AM
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Real anger phase is from learning about TRP, they are angry for not already knowing this stuff and wasting time acting the way society told them they should act. Fake anger phase is when you hate women prior to TRP as a defense mechanism and use TRP as validation, these guys most likely are perma anger phase and will never grow out of it I would like to say there is also a 3rd type anger phase. But this phase is more of a disgust phase, it is a disgust for beta males and beta male traits and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:02 AM
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Injecting unknown and excitement is what draws out lust, being a passionate person with a passionate partner, creates situations where your partner becomes 'new' to you in some way. Lust is more complex, and can be drawn out in more than one way (which, as always, will also depend on your partner as an individual). I agree with this, this is what dread game is based around Explain. Are you insinuating that there is no change in a woman's sexual attraction to a man with resources - particularly o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:10 PM
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When they aren't, they prefer "good dad" signals, like a less-masculine face. They can prefer those males sure, but this attraction is based around comfort not lust. generosity with resources is sexy to women. The word "sexy" in this context is not the way men define the word, this sentence is misleading from a males POV None of this is necessarily a bad thing, however BB males assume that their wife strictly prefers men like themselves. This is the main problem, they are uninformed. TRP never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 02:34 PM
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Women mostly describe their tastes logically, things that they recognize are important and needed for a healthy relationship with them. The tastes that are the most important though are the traits that they emotionally desire, it is much less common for a woman to verbalize these most likely because she isn't fully aware of them Its like they tell you what their favorite topping on an ice cream cone is, but not what their favorite flavor of ice cream is. If you don't like the ice cream than whet…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 02:19 PM
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What makes you think I don't believe in the gamma radiation turning me into a super hero too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 10:04 PM
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depend which ones you are talking to, im pretty sure most tumblr fems think of beyonce as a godlike figure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 09:58 PM
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don't harp on your insecurities. These are, weirdly enough, REALLY obvious pieces of advice. When I was in my teens this shit was not obvious to me at all, I always felt like if I was honest people would appreciate my honesty. This simply isn't true, people appreciate your honesty so that they can keep their distance from you but honesty isn't rewarded. I think PUA culture only exists because so many men aren't allowed to be honest with women for a while until they become more attached to each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 09:55 PM
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can you explain why dread game is bad or manipulative? because I think you are judging it based on the word "dread"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 09:42 PM
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No, JGL isn't anti TRP. Anti RP has to be somewhat of a hopeless romantic who pedestals women If you want an example of anti TRP its Ted Mosby from how I met your mother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 09:23 PM
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We insult each other in a playful, friendly way much more than women do, so its natural to assume some men would become better at brushing things off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:17 PM
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I would't call them poor ambassadors for not analyzing their audience and differentiating between who it is truly meant for and who is a lost cause. At the end of the day their message is the same. For those that make it a career goal it is a personal interest, so yeah you could say it represents rp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:11 PM
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There are many people who are new to TRP who are there only for validation, they hate women and TRP reinforces their hatred and gives them social theories that they can use to take blame off of themselves. All these people are in the "anger stage" except for them its not a stage, they are always gonna be like that. The real "anger stage" is when a guy is angry because of the actual RP theories, because he feels like he wasted time and opportunities because of a lack of knowledge. Those guys only…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 06:44 PM
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"Seeking help" and reading social theories aren't exactly the same thing, if that's how you define seeking help than any science related book or any time you learn from another is seeking help. When I say seeking help I mean in a submissive way that requires others to make up for your shortcomings. Seeking help is a negative trait for your needs, seeking help for wants or general interests doesn't really matter Laziness, melancholy, submissive behavior, second guessing yourself, being a dependen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 06:29 PM
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Yes, I began becoming more RP when I was very young because of my parents divorce. I have a bit of a primal disgust towards beta, emotional males. I feel superior to other men when I am self sufficient and they aren't, I hold a very common belief that "men don't ask for help"(i'm aware this is a self destructive trait but still believe it is important and most of society agrees with me from an attraction POV). Many men are naturally RP, not from hating women, but from being disgusted by other ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 06:01 PM
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The 3 people who come off the most TRP to me are Conor Mcgregor, Bill Burr and the Fitness model Mike Rashid. They aren't posters in TRP but they embody all the traits from what I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:49 PM
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The point is that to see who embodies TRP the best we have to see if they have those traits IRL. Anyone can read TRP, only some can internalize it and be genuine TRP. It has to be internalized and second nature in order to be "the reddest pill"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:40 PM
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Madonna/whore applies to me for sure, the types of women i'm physically attracted too and the women that I see and wanna have a LTR with are totally different. Madonna/whore is more of a concept than a strategy though, there isn't really a benefit to it in the way that some women benefit from AF/BB as a backup plan
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:36 PM
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"Be yourself" is good advice only when you also pay attention and work on your smv, if you take "being yourself" to mean don't improve and increase your smv than you're gonna have a bad time. I think the large majority of people who swallow the pill are still "being themselves", they just have new theories to base decisions on that impacts future interactions. But since those theories are perceived to be absolutes it is genuine behavior. The aspects of TRP that are the most misogynistic are also…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:19 PM
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The traits that TRP represents exist IRL, why else would any of this exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:09 PM
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we would have to see them behave irl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:03 PM
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"women are scum" theme isn't really as literal as it sounds Its a strategy built for men who lack backbone and internal validation to develop those 2 things. As a man its important to compete with men AND women, to learn your worth and develop a pursuit of self interest. Internalizing the fact that you are better than everyone else and they don't deserve anything that you aren't willing to give them is very helpful. TRP has a lot of layers of placebo that aren't meant to be taken literally but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:50 PM
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There's a big difference between not getting your ideal mate and a BB The reality is that there are people who would rather be single than to be a BB, there is nothing wrong with this. You don't have to be a martyr just because some woman couldn't get the dude she wants. If anything this woman only started dating this dude because of a bluff(most likely), and only stayed because it is a comfortable situation for her to be in and she couldn't get the quality of male that she thinks she deserves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:39 PM
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Dread game is something that becomes more relevant when you have been together for 5+ years. Self improvement can be very threatening in a relationship, it can often make a woman uncomfortable because the reason isn't "i wanna look better for my wife" its "I wanna look better for myself" When guys use dread game its at the point in which the woman most likely isn't that interested in sex anymore, its the main reason people use dread game. Because dread game can reawaken the chase through discomf…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:30 PM
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Sometimes even little things make a girl attractive. She can be chubby, have a weird nose, crooked teeth, but a nice smile and good hair and she will be attractive in my eyes, because I'm ignoring the little flaws and look at the overall image. if anything a single notable flaw makes you stick out and look cuter, that hayley williams tooth gap hnnnnnng
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:38 PM
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I don't think its meant to be funny, its meant to be insulting and demeaning They think insulting and demeaning people is funny, so I guess you could say they find rape indirectly funny. Its more about the context thought, I hope they don't find real rape funny and I don't think they do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 03:07 PM
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Chill with the homophobia Single mothers raise their sons to be the men that they would have wanted to date, all the traits that they like in men they want to recreate in their sons. But they have no idea how to raise a child to be the type of man that they like, they don't know how to instill those traits. They are also more concerned with raising a son who has provider beta traits, assuming the alpha traits will come naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 01:59 PM
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Sex positive TRPillers would be guys who are at the top of ladder already and want to live in a world of harems, but those guys already have that so they wouldn't be gaining much other than ease of access and they would be less controversial(think dan bilzarian) The sexual revolution is postitive in the view of women because they think "side chick culture" has zero correlation with the promiscuity of women. They think they can be sex positive without men becoming more sex positive which isn't tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 01:39 PM
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TRP doesn't advocate lying, if you get caught in a lie your frame is broken so TRP doesn't lie. What specific behavior are you not ok with? Because if you think TRP is based on lying than you are most likely confusing TRP with PUA which is totally diferent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 03:18 PM
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If TRP admits it is immoral and perfectly fine with that would you have any other criticisms? Or would it just come to an end at that point? Morality doesn't really matter unless you personally feel guilt from the action performed or if it is against the law. So those arguments don't really serve a purpose other than trying to get others to conform to your own personal morals and path in life(similar to vegans trying to force everyone to conform to their beliefs and lifestyle) TRP isn't really i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 02:31 PM
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Would you rather go into a relationship with low expectations and have some women impress you? Or go into a relationship with a romantic ted mosby type view only to be disappointed? RP prefers the former, BP prefers the latter(most of them, not all)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 02:23 PM
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Men call chads assholes because women calls chads assholes because they wont commit. We don't really think they're assholes, at least I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 02:18 PM
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Its good to see opposing points of view because it helps you internalize it if you were flaky about certain subjects PPD can help skeptics become more RP, at least it did for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 02:05 PM
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TRP is amoral, so when you critique TRP you should critique the usefulness of its theories and practices and present an alternative that would be more effective Criticisms based around morality of an amoral subject don't really make sense, but its the most common form of criticism people present
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 02:02 PM
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wrong post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 05:18 PM
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I think both sexes would want to remain what they currently are. There's lots of great benefits to being a man, but I cannot imagine a woman wanting to give up her friendships . Woman have much more open/emotional/honest close relationships that men have a much harder time developing We don't mind because we cant feel what the alternative feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 04:45 PM
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AWALT is a methodology, not science or an absolute. It is an internalized belief that will cause you to have more confidence in your game because you view your idea of the way that women think as absolute. It is also just to cause awareness of behavior that women are capable of under certain stimuli If you read a idea guide that said "this might work sometimes, we didn't actually try it, good luck" well fuck you aren't gonna be confident in putting that chair together now are you? The more confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 04:40 PM
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the gypsy pussy has dark magic don't underestimate it
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:21 PM
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"don't accept failure, don't accept mediocrity" would also be a good one
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:04 PM
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Netflix is way better than cable. But if I have never experienced netflix before I would be happy with cable. Even if some people told me netflix was better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 09:45 PM
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I don't want a virgin....I think it would be hard to find one at 25 who was attractive. Do you really think that everything someone says about their gender applies to them? That's a pretty red belief for someone who claims blue pill Lets just insult everyone, that's always good in debate forums
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 09:24 PM
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I think you misinterpreted what I was saying.... If she can identify what isn't good than she can only identify enough to know if it was bad, so that will prob result in bad sex assuming the guy is inexperienced which was the above situation. If she isn't good at communicating what she likes than shes gonna have bad sex. These statements have nothing to do with me I care a lot about what women want in bed because i'm very competitive with other males and have a strong desire to be the best you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 09:16 PM
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She can identify if it wasn't good, but probably isn't capable of communicating what is good, same result either way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:29 PM
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Maybe you are special? Because that behavior certainly isn't normal unless it was discovered in a drunken state
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:11 PM
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You wouldn't give the ugly guy the opportunity(the vast majority of the time anyway) to give you an orgasm in the first place though, so its more likely that you would fuck the sexy guy again and hope that this time he succeeds in giving you an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:05 PM
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From this line of thinking you can fully explain why an inexperienced man would demand a virgin, because she has no previous experiences to judge the man against other men based on his performance. Allowing him to gain experience over other men before indulging in women who already have previous experiences. Or you can find people who are open and communicate, but at young ages this is super rare in our society and there's no way to know if someone will be like that based on first impressions. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:01 PM
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Yeah, doesn't make much sense Maybe that's the biggest societal shit test of them all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 06:42 PM
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Well if you're portraying someone who isn't you than yeah I would call that deceit. I don't care if people do it or not, but its still deceit and wont last. In fact PUA are kinda funny, if I could fake a british accent and pretend I was on holidays I would most certainly do it at least once. However I would say that as a system it doesn't work very well compared to TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 06:12 PM
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If TBP and TRP men are different types of people, most likely the people they are attracted too and the locations that they find these partners would be different also. A little personal example, people often talk about sub vs dom but i'm most attracted to those "undercover sub" types of girls who say shit like "only a real man can handle me". The girl that is resistant but wants someone to make her submissive, these types of girls are cunty and will outright insult you and they want you to push…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 06:06 PM
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The thing about this is that people who are truly TRP don't act like the regular misogynistic posters you see in TRP You can easily point out people in TRP who are in the anger stages yes. But those people haven't internalized everything TRP has to offer. Someone who fully encapsulates TRP will just come off as disinterested while still showing some sexual interest. Regular people send mixed signals all the time though and TRP is a fringe movement so it wouldn't be very easy to identify The face…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 05:51 PM
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Why do you think PUA is better than TRP morally? PUA is deceit while TRP is just adding a few tidbits of information dressed as an absolute that will effect your viewpoint and decisions in life. At the end of the day once TRP is internalized its the way you naturally behave, as long as you don't choke up the pill by seeing a viewpoint that would prove TRP wrong In my mind PUA is way worse if were talking morality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 05:41 PM
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feminists prob not, but feminist-SJWs do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 09:18 PM
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Typically they don't understand how behavior or cause and effect work and want 2 things that conflict with one another. For example, expecting chivalry and expecting men to respect women as equals. These 2 things do not mesh with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 08:30 PM
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The biggest factor is how long you have known that person and how intertwined your lives are. This will obviously lead to people being more willing to advise and troubleshoot. My last post is always relevant, but it becomes less and less relevant the longer your relationship goes on. This is one of the reasons why the friends first style of dating is popular with women, they have access to your emotions before they commit to you. So if they don't like what they see they can back out without havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 08:22 PM
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who dated guys totally different from me in the past this is the best way to avoid af/bb, other than being af
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:41 PM
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Looks wise not really, clothing wise they are way different though. I think most guys prefer a girl who looks laid back, she should obviously have the attire for any situation. But ill take a girl in jeans and chucks over a woman who looks "professional" if they were the same in all other aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:32 PM
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TRP says that you should only share your negative feelings when they have been resolved, so its not like you are keeping secrets you just shouldn't confide or expect a woman to give you any advice emotionally. You should be emotionally self sufficient. I don't want to generalize too much but i'm going too. The vast majority of women enjoy hearing a mans emotion because it allows them to feel secure and comfortable in their relationship. Women enjoy being the person you confide in, it shows that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 04:29 PM
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Negative emotions are a no-no to TRP, you can show positive emotions preferably if its veiled within a bit of ego. TRP is fine with being emotional(even negative) given the right context like your mom died, a child is born, you got your dream job etc Whenever men withhold our standard negative emotions(like trust issues) and a woman can tell she will say something like this "I promise I wont get mad"(example of power talk) but you can be damn sure there's about to be nuclear war in your living r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 04:09 PM
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I agree, but many feminists believe that adversity in any form of aggression(even in a sporting event with consent) is negative for society and would justify it with some sort of "he feels inadequate why else would he behave like that" type bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:58 PM
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I agree, if they were grooming them from adolescence than that's fucked up, but you cant really groom a 20+yo I'm sure the sex positivity movement takes the age of consent into consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 03:26 PM
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Sex positivity is "an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, and encourages sexual pleasure and experimentation. The sex-positive movement is a social and philosophical movement that advocates these attitudes. The sex-positive movement advocates sex education and safer sex as part of its campaign."[1] The movement generally makes no moral distinctions among types of sexual activities, regarding these choices as mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 02:37 PM
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Are you sure about that? because I've heard feminists say people shouldn't shame them for being attracted to older men, so if that is sex positive than how is it not when from the males POV? Sex positive is pro anything sexual as long as consent is involved and its safe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 02:27 PM
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I don't think this is true, if you take a look at the military there are people who come out of it alpha who weren't beforehand. Being alpha(personality wise) is just about having a large amount of self respect, not being threatened emotionally by other people(emotionally self sufficient), and having yourself prioritized over others. Maybe after a certain age people can no longer develop that but many people can
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 02:13 PM
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The person who APPEARS to be the most alpha that is known is probably connor mcgregor. He wins attitude wise without a doubt, its prob better to have more of a balance between looks and attitude And the fact that hes a mma fighter will hurt him in the eyes of many
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 02:01 PM
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Honestly most women are very direct with their shit tests, it doesn't matter how direct the question is it is still a shit test. Men fall for shit tests because we don't think why she asked us a question we just assume that she was generally curious but that information she gained will be used to judge us for traits that aren't necessarily relevant (provider qualities aren't important in a fling). Some of them are trickier than others, especially the ones that are judging you for alpha traits ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 03:11 AM
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Passing a shit test doesn't mean giving the correct answer that the women is looking to hear, passing a shit test means not telling her any info about yourself that you don't want to disclose because you know the only reason she asked you that question is to judge your worth Its way easier to just avoid questions than it is to come up with new sneaky ways of gaining information about someone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 02:58 AM
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I think its more likely an attraction to a certain lifestyle, it works out for the dude either way as he is the one who provides the lifestyle For some girls its not enough to have a lot of money, its how you spend it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 03:53 PM
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I would say hypergamy doesn't exist in the honeymoon stage, but that's just my opinion. Hypergamy exists if a man gives it a reason too or if the women has ridiculous expectations from being regularly spoiled. TRP encourages men to prevent hypergamy from occurring by increasing smv and being just distant enough that the woman feels a bit uncomfortable without you actually doing anything wrong. If a woman loses respect for her husband, hypergamy is a guarantee. Not in the sense that she will chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 12:07 AM
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It is a normal occurrence for men to become complacent and a little lazy in marriage, to focus more on their children and give up a lot of their individual ambition for a family atmosphere. This is when hypergamy reawakens for many women. When TRP talks about hypergamy it is just a way to tell men "unconditional love doesn't exist, she will leave you if your smv goes down, it doesn't matter if she verbally tells you otherwise". This is the norm for marriages, that's why dread game was created. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 11:56 PM
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TRP isn't trying to prove it scientifically though, if it works in practice and can be used to predict behavior than its not totally necessary to prove why It would be cool if it was proven or dis-proven, but it is still useful if it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 11:45 PM
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How is prioritizing your dream in life selfish? If you consider that selfish than being selfish shouldn't be considered a negative trait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 07:44 PM
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believing that society is doomed because we gave certain freedoms to women and there's nothing we can do to change it Maybe a good chunk of people in TRP believe this but i wouldn't say its a TRP belief Thirdly , why would anyone want to associate themselves with TRP sub? No one wants to associate themselves with TRP phrases but if you phrase the concepts in a normal way I don't think anyone would be offended other than people who are going out of their way to be offended
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 07:42 PM
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Get a new hobby that matters a lot and you are passionate about(your most important dream in life), create a schedule for that hobby. Never reschedule that hobby, it takes priority over your companion(unless its an emergency ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 06:56 PM
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But if you "live like a redpiller" but disagree with the ideology than it just means you aren't aware of your behavior right? Or you just don't like the fact that it isn't sugarcoated or don't like it being verbalized because that makes you look shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 06:54 PM
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Shes talking about 3rd wave feminism not the traditional types of feminism 3rd wave feminism in america is mainly about making the definition of rape very vague, growing out your armpit hair, putting every middle school girl into a pair of yoga pants, and promoting promiscuous behavior while simultaneously shaming men who wont commit to those same women Ofc there are legit issues like violence and the fact that rape kits are sitting in storage, but the majority of the time 3rd wavers have to inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:08 PM
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Another important one is to be someone who actively travels to other countries, most people never get a chance to do this so not only is it super cool but you will have cool pictures, souvenirs, stories etc. People who are known to travel often feel less commitment pressure as well. Being too busy is a legitimate reason to turn down women who wants commitment which can allow you to still maintain a relationship with them if they enjoy your company, rather than taking the rejection personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:57 PM
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TRP values all those things, TRP also values having access to that woman once you do find her. Wouldn't it suck if you met her only to find out she only fucks chad? If anything TRP is about gaining sexual/relationship freedom by having higher smv and game than you had pre-TRP Sure there are some dudes that are career focused and just wanna get laid, and others who never wanna get married etc. But that doesn't mean TRP men cant value things beyond looks Its doesn't have to be looks vs personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:22 AM
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I once asked the askfeminist subreddit if there are any dating guides for men to become good with women without being disrespectful/sexist and their response was along the lines of "its not our job to help you get laid" This is how everyone feels even if they wont admit it, if you aren't totally self sufficient than you don't deserve any help
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:12 AM
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"withholding affection at times" is perfectly fine as long as its not at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:06 AM
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I agree with the notion that a "alpha female" needs to either date a hyper masculine male that puts all other men to shame, or a "yes man" But i'm also in the group that believes that relationships need a leader so I know some will disagree Whether that is the woman or the man who leads is up to the 2 involved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:53 AM
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The thing about TRP is that the outsiders view(of TRP) that women are inferior isn't really because they are women, we feel the same way about beta males. TRP is kinda like veganism in the sense that its a view like "if you aren't us, than you're shit" its not about gender as much as people think. I recognize the differences between men and women and treat them accordingly, but I wouldn't say there are negative feelings attached to that view, if anything emotional males are the only ones I hold …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:43 PM
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You know exactly what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:45 PM
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Its hard to say, just because you can memorize TRP and understand your interpretation of it doesn't mean that they have internalized it(which is the only thing that really matters) If its not natural than it isn't real/won't last, which is why I think people in the anger stage aren't really RP. Because the majority of them are going to be resentful and emotional for the rest of their lives, doesn't matter how much they read I think you have to be somewhat chill/unemotional naturally to really ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:39 PM
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IMO everyone has insecurities in their relationship, idk what kinda perfect world you live in Its only a problem when one side has all the insecurities and the other side doesn'tl, because that would obviously cause a power imbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:29 PM
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i have a leather skinned dick homie
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:22 PM
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If someone has an insecurity in the relationship that causes them to take on more of a workload it will have the same effect Just because someone isn't asserting themselves doesn't mean that someone isn't passively putting extra pressure due to said insecurity or internal paranoid threat of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:21 PM
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its a competition, so yes hypergamy would still exist all those traits you listed are relative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:56 PM
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You can trust someone and still understand that there is no unconditional love, which would most likely result in you feeling a stronger need to hold your weight in the relationship. But I bet it was prob 50/50 to begin with, so that feeling just results in a power imbalance I trust that my SO will leave me if I don't carry my weight. My weight if based on her past relationships in which it wasn't 50/50. Those experiences with other men will create expectations that I need to fulfill. Things get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:54 PM
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It is important how I am perceived by beautiful or successful people if I have something to gain from them. The gender doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:50 PM
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You can't be a true RedPiller and a liberal . TRPillers believe that left-wing politics have ruined society, that's an important part of the ideology. I believe that women should have the opportunity just like men, if they ruined something than they earned the right to ruin it TRP believes that giving women freedom leads to the fall of the society TRP believes that women corrupt men to be less masculine, which results in the downfall of society. If men aren't forced to become more feminine than …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:42 PM
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Why cant it be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:33 PM
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Women care about men who look functionally athletic, lets be honest no one gives a shit you much you bench or how fast you run. Performance doesn't really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:30 PM
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Those biotruths have an alternative purpose though, they provide you with something that you internalize as factual which will result in you becoming more confident in your interactions due to being more confident in your own methodology and beliefs You would need to replace those biotruths with something that would replicate that placebo effect in the same way. Something that says "you can have anyone because you're better than everyone, you know them better than they know themselves and they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:24 PM
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They don't need the same income, but I would say that they need an equal amount of career options in order to be equal Because in order for a relationship to be fair the fear of divorce also needs to be close, if one person is much more fearful of divorce they will inherently have less power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:17 PM
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TRP doesn't really advocate being a jerk to women, you might look like a jerk to the woman because she isn't used to men stonewalling her but it isn't really "jerky" at all For example, if you text back "k" women might call you a jerk, but that's just their selfish expectations. Or if you ignore a woman who is trying to gain something from you without giving you anything in return, she may think you are a jerk but this is totally fair. TRP advocates teasing women, sure. You might be perceived as…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:09 PM
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The only relationship like that I can think of are those insanely rich career parents who dump their child off on a maid so that they both maintain the opportunity to progress in their careers or those large lowish income family homes that are somewhat common with asian or latin immigrants(even in this situation it isn't common) I would say that the equal relationships tend to be either low income family structures that contain close relatives in the same household or high income in which they i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:54 PM
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Maybe some relationships could are equal, but 99% aren't capable of being equal based on many things like expectations, gender roles, individual financial/career success, higher and lower sex drives, hormones, childhood role models etc To pretend that equal relationships could be the norm is very foolish in our modern world, exceptions don't change that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:50 PM
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yea i did this everyday for a couple years as a teen, now i will only cum if i actually think about cumming ive gone for 5 hours straight without cumming before, i had a blister on my hand but not my dick thats the day I learned dick skin is tougher than hand skin
/r/seduction20/08/15 03:51 PM
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If they avoid all women who lack emotional maturity and they view all women as emotionally immature than they would avoid all women which they don't When TRP says women are like teenagers they aren't saying biologically, they are saying women have the luxury of behaving like teenagers and they still get what they want because men are thirsty. So that behavior is seen as normal in our society and TRP attempts to teach you how to deal with that immature behavior and take advantage of it for your o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:41 PM
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The majority of people who post in the comment section of TRP are in the anger stage, I don't consider them to be TRP. At that point they are only using TRP to validate their feelings towards women which isn't the point at all. I don't value anything they say for the same reason I don't judge jiu jitsu on white belts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:37 PM
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Teaching people to "push past LMR" is teaching them to rape. If someone is saying "no", that means no, even if you think she actually does want it. Depends what your definition of rape is, If a woman told me no and I told her to leave and we ended up fucking I wouldn't consider that rape. I don't recall seeing TRP using violence or threats to push past LMR, only distance/disinterest. I could be wrong though as I only read the sidebar and a few top threads, I don't judge TRP by the comment sectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:36 PM
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No, really, you guys do a great job of convincing them men don't really give a shit about them, unless they're from Stepford, and that otherwise, they're completely disposable cum dumpsters. Take a bow Yes, TRP teaches you that EVERYONE should be seen as less than you, it has nothing to do with women. TRP isn't really "for men", it is a subreddit that helps spread theories and help each other but it is still a competition between us. We already have that view towards other men, so it doesn't nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:32 PM
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See, you do come here for self-interest :) Where you get all this promoting rape talk is confusing to me though, I don't see any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:16 PM
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If you gain something from it that I didn't mention than tell me? I don't see people obsessively mocking Scientology(although they make exist). You must gain something emotionally from mocking TRP, otherwise why care so much? Is it the same heightened elitist attitude that becoming vegan often gives? When I find something that is ridiculous, I chuckle and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:05 PM
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They're actively avoiding women with more emotional maturity under the delusion that women are supposed to behave like narcissistic teenagers. This is MGTOW not TRP, totally different Many are outright paranoid paranoid is a upgrade from their unaware past self They're also scaring the crap out of men and women alike, which is only not an issue if you buy into their garbage. They are scaring the extremely small amount of women who read into TRP when they shouldn't be reading it in the first plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:01 PM
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Whats the new problem they are faced with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:51 PM
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I'd like to know why the redpill claims women are less mature than men, when men are far more likely to attack strangers and abandon their children? I mean, if we're going to stereotype based on the worst, why not look into the men who will kill you just for rejecting them? See this is exacty what TRP beleived before they were TRP They believed that men were evil and women were good. That belief is what caused a lot of problems. So it is important for TRP men to learn what women are no better th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:43 PM
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His point was that a BP man wouldn't continue to post or obsess over someone else's belief because if it i clearly bullshit than those lunatics aren't threatening to him in a competitive way. So what motivation do BP men have to continue posting? Rather than just shrugging it off and moving on? For women TRP talks a lot about women so it makes sense that women take it personally and can become invested in those interactions. IMO BP men who continue to post are either white knights or they are sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:38 PM
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Dread game is damaging. Manipulation is damaging. If you are equating that to having a "strong leader in a man," I guess we just don't agree on what 'damaging' is. Dread game is like the right to bear arms, sure it can be abused But that doesn't mean it is inherently damaging, its all about your style of dread game. It is silly to judge everyone's dread the same. TRP doesn't judge womens dread, we all just created our own spin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:26 PM
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It just requires much more upkeep to stay nice compared to other girls, the amount of girls I see that put in that extra effort daily is small. Other girls have more room for error and some can get away with being a bit lazy, black girls do not have this luxury they will come off as trashy if they tried to get away with what other girls get away with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:18 PM
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it would help them fuck sexier girls sure, but if you got really low standards it doesn't matter that much people want many things in our world so there's a lot of focus on, and its also a competition I'm sure all those fat dudes want to lose weight, they just fail. Im sure plenty of people would fail to catch a mongoose too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:12 AM
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fat dudes be getting laid with the fat ladies or the desperate ladies or other types of ladies w/e not sure what that has to do with this hypothetical mongoose based world we are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:01 AM
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so when red pillers say a word like SLUT, it doesn't really mean slut? I was mainly referring to AWALT, slut most likely just means slut depending on the context But some dudes think you're a slut if you're not a virgin so that word doesn't really mean anything specific, when a guy says slut he just means "i'm not comfortable committing to someone with that high of a partner count"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:08 PM
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If that was the only possible way to get laid than we'd be out there hunting mongooses. They would call me the mongoose king all straight men would, not just TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:06 PM
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Because when your ideology becomes internalized it only results in extra confidence if it is rock solid, if your ideology is based around "it might work, sometimes" you will come off as anxious because you aren't confident in your own beliefs Its important to remember that TRP isn't meant to be read by women, its by men for men. So it isn't meant to be taken literally, but living by a simple definitive mantra will garner better results No one is saying TRP theories in real life, so it is only ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:34 PM
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TRP is dictated by what works, so its really in womens hands If women start valuing other things than TRP will change, that's how it works I guess you could argue that what society values will be what women value, so you could say society needs to change in order for TRP to change. Either way it wouldn't make sense for TRP to change first, it would defeat the purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:28 PM
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She can, this works out for some couples. The key difference is that as a male you cannot plan your life to be this way. You may fall into a caregiver role, but you needed to be capable of fulfilling a provider role in order to get that chance. Imagine if a guy told every woman he dated that he wanted to be a stay at home dad, that wouldn't end well. Stay at home dads fall into that situation based on their opportunities, it cannot be your preferred option I know someones gonna pop in and be lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:24 PM
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they are losing (because they think they deserve more than they do), but they are also gonna tear that BB apart so its all about your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:18 PM
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It is important to use the literal translation for game reasoning, if you know you are going to succeed you are more likely to succeed/come off more confident. It is beneficial to think that way even when you know its more of a rule of thumb than an absolute truth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:57 PM
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The way that you imagine a RP man is false, RP men most likely won't come off as a cocky jock or anything like that. They come off more as disinterested, yes there will still be some ego but its TRP traits don't come off the way most people think You want to tease without being an asshole(at least not an unwarranted asshole). You want to show attraction while still being disinterested. You want to show confidence without seeming needy or desperate to fulfill your ego. You don't want to explain y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:44 PM
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The fact that men are capable of being manipulated is obvious, women do it everyday. So i'm not sure how saying the equivalent for women is misogynistic? We just don't verbalize it for men because its obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:35 PM
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Spinning plates seems pretty sex positive to me The annoying thing is that all this sexual revolution stuff feminists preach only applies to women, not to men. When a 24yo woman dates a 40yo man they applaud the woman and shame the man, this makes no sense. When a woman wants to be a slut, feminists applaud, when a man doesn't want to commit people lose their minds Feminism has created so many double standards recently and they claim that's what they are fighting against
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:32 PM
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Paternity tests can logically prove that the child is yours, but the man will still feel the same emotionally You must feel ownership over the mother in order to feel ownership over the child, as men don't carry the child and don't have a huge release of oxytocin to promote those feelings during childbirth Its harder to feel ownership over a woman that you perceive to be a slut, she feels wild and free. So her child doesn't feel like its yours, even if you prove it with a test you won't feel the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:23 PM
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This ones up for debate, I don't think either side has ever been proven correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:21 PM
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AWALT is saying all women are capable of that behavior(not that they will actually go through with those things), but if the woman has previous experiences of doing those things than it goes from being a possibility to a guarantee. Its much easier to desire something once you've already gotten a taste of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:19 PM
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They can increase how sexually attractive a woman is BUT only if she is sexually attractive in a traditional sense first, it can be the cherry on the cake but it won't make up for lacking a foundation. I say "can" but honestly most accomplishment or talent won't be attractive even if you are attractive. That stuff doesn't come into play until after you meet the dudes initial criteria, if you don't even meet the initial criteria its likely that the guy won't even notice any talent or accomplishme…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:13 PM
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being an alpha isn't really genetics, its more nurture based tumblr/feminism has for sure decreased the amount of white alpha males tho
/r/askTRP17/08/15 08:44 PM
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This seems to fly in the face the to notion that women are rarely in happy in relationship that lack a male leader, or that they lose respect for a man who is too emotionally open. If you never experience something it is much harder to feel entitled to it. It would be much easier to lose respect for a man who doesn't take a domineering lead/lose respect for a male who has an itchy trigger finger when it comes to showing his emotion when you have past experiences of men who did the opposite Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:51 AM
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this isn't as easy as it sounds, I don't have elite stalker PI skills does this just mean steal his phone and go through his texts? or googling his name? how do you dig through someones past?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 07:31 PM
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Anyone who excessively uses social media, anyone who has dated "alpha" males in the past, anyone who fucks with chads, anyone who uses the term "fuckboy", anyone who is heavily attracted to masculinity or emotionally unavailable men, etc A pretty significant portion of the population I don't think TRP would work on my female cousin. She was bullied pretty bad in school for being a tomboy and is super obsessed with anime. She dresses like a hipster amish girl and didn't learn anything regarding f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 07:22 PM
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As I understood it, the theory is that even if a low value women settles with a low value man, she never forms a healthy relationship with him. That he isn't "alpha" enough to make her happy. I've never heard this, when TRP talks about BB they are referring to women who once had high smv who had to settle for a beta after previously only interacting with alphas. This typically results in the woman feeling like she isn't getting what she deserves, that she was forced to settle for the beta due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 11:35 AM
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I don't think any TRP dudes are trying to knock up random chicks so idk what you're on about Its just a competition based around a desire that we all have. Money and sex are the most competitive outlets we have by far so you gotta give a little credit to those who rise up above the rest, at least I do. When TRP says anything along the lines of "embrace your genes" they are most likely trying to say "behave like a testosterone fueled male". Nothing to do with childbirth Do you believe that if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 03:32 AM
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if a high partner count is from a high smv than it a good thing if its from hookers or some shit than its assumed you have a low smv so a bad thing smv is what really matters when it comes to selecting males If a woman wants a non promiscuous high smv guy than she just has very specific standards, nothing wrong with that. If a woman claimed that lack of promiscuity was more important than smv in her companion than id say shes lying to herself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 03:22 AM
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thats bb true, you just need to add in what af is and that fact that shit tests are the way that you avoid questions that judge you on what you are rather than who you are the AF part is important because you need to understand how to live the life of an AF if that is your goal. It is important to not only identify women who are trying to manipulate you but ALSO how to avoid women perceiving you as a BB. If they see you as a BB it doesn't matter if you avoid their manipulation or not because man…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 03:01 AM
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I would love if people treated me like a child, my life would be a lot easier and I would get less flak cause I could just play it off rather than owning up to any of my faults. I would love a sugar momma who just told me what to do/was supportive of me so I would never have to think, sadly this reality doesn't exist for any man you could be the sexiest male model and your life still wouldn't be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 11:56 PM
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that's general advice young men give each other, doesn't have anything to do with TRP TRP is more along the lines of "Don't treat her special, don't do her any favors. She isn't special shes exactly the same as every other girl, if you're interested in her than show it. But never give her more than she gives you, you are better than her"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 11:02 PM
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When does TRP promise commitment? TRP is more of an unemotional stance that wont commit verbally and will dodge any shit test that would lead to commitment. That's not lying though I don't see TRP threatening to leave either, at least not verbally. You just dread game, which may implant the idea that you will leave but you would never actually say that Trp says to hold frame, if you said you were gonna do one of those things and did the other it would make you look weak. TRP doesn't endorse lyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:43 PM
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I cant remember the quote but It something along the lines of "I hate it when average or below guys talk to me, its insulting. Would you offer a job at Mcdonalds to Steve jobs and expect him to not be insulted?" It got a lot of upvotes in twox I think that we can all agree, a compliment scales with the smv of the person who gave it to you. There's a big difference between my mom telling me I should become an actor vs brad pitt telling me I should become an actor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 09:57 PM
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donald supporters would just rather have a totally honest asshole than an undercover asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 04:21 PM
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I'm not a feminist at all so that's ok. I believe in equality but not sjw style feminism. And again, its not about my dick. It is about people lying to me, using my dick as bait I don't like large movements lying to me in order to push their agendas
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:35 AM
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Best to go with a girl a couple times, once the regulars know you then you start going alone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:23 AM
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There was recently some trending hashtag that was something like #socialjusticemakesmewet it wasn't that but something similar. Feminists themselves make these claims, not me Which is why I bring it up, because it simply isn't true. Your views of the social or political world aren't gonna turn you into a panty dropper. But many feminist women claim otherwise. My original post was about feminity in men being seen as an improvement in men. If it is an improvement from a feminists POV than it must …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:19 AM
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Not everything has to be about your dick, bro. Notice how my posts have some actual content(or atleast an attempt at content if that's all you want to give me), while your posts are just insults. Why are you even here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:08 AM
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If you cant see the connection than I don't know what to tell you. If a male follows feminist agendas and it doesn't increase his smv towards feminist women than what is the reasoning behind that? My theory is that while people can logically see that we should have total freedom to express ourselves and live anyway we want, we still have a biological desire to live life in a certain way. So many feminist women talk a big game but their actions don't reflect their words. I'm not saying all femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:03 AM
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your emotions on why women are better with body language than men is based on emotions and not objective fact. There is a middle ground that you are missing, just because something isn't an objective fact doesn't mean its based solely on emotion like you seem to think. Do you think every educated guess ever made was purely based on emotion? Because that would be a silly position to hold. All theories have some bias, that doesn't mean there is no sense of logic applied By chanting "all women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 10:27 PM
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The way TRP says women survive is not based on facts but on confirmation bias. You don't think that the reason women are better with body language and deceptive language is because they needed that in order to makeup for the fact that they weren't as physically capable? If so, than what is your explanation that I seem to be missing The way AWALT is used is to shift the blame of failure for the RPer to a woman. I don't believe this to be true, as one of the first things TRP teaches you is that ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 09:49 PM
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I think it depends on the context, but if she brought it up out of nowhere than yeah you're right
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 08:49 PM
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When you grew up, did your parents have an equal relationship or was there a power dynamic? My mom wore the pants in my family, shes a super feminist but not the 3rd wave kind. Did your parents teach you any red pill truths, blue pill truths or anything about dating at all? If not, from where did you get your knowledge about dating? I learned a lot of TRP from my dad, not from him directly but from observing him being a beta getting divorce raped. I told myself I would never be like him when I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 08:23 PM
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So than what is feminism? Sacrificial lambs? SMV encompasses everything that we all care about in our society(money, looks, power, fame, leisure, experience) so if feminism will negatively impact that I don't see how the things feminists say hold any truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 08:07 PM
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TRP doesn't relate to morality, so using the word "nefarious" makes no sense. TRP says that women are survivors, they do what is best for them. Understanding the way they operate gives you an advantage over other males and allows you to be more comfortable in your social interactions. TRP doesn't think of women as evil creatures, they just speak a much more subtle language than men do. It is important to see their real motivations and desires rather than treating their words like they are men. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 08:02 PM
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All women are capable of that if given proper stimuli Notice how that sentence doesn't have a nice ring to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:59 PM
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Don't shame women for being part of the vast majority, that is naive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:58 PM
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If feminism says men can act feminine without being judged negatively for it than it is equivalent to saying being feminine won't hurt your SMV. So if it hurts your SMV in practice than it means you must be inferior(based on your feminity) because our society is success based The first men who embrace feminism in our culture will be martyrs. Not even feminists themselves agree with the things they spout, they see that it is logically sound but emotionally they don't agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:51 PM
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you cant expect a program to work when you havent even finished the download
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:48 PM
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wasn't the main reason feminism was created because it was illegal to wear bathing suits in public and women couldn't buy or smoke cigarettes? I imagine that came before the right to vote but maybe im getting my events mixed up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:42 PM
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You need to remember this is TRP you are talking to, we dont care what feminism SAYS we only judge feminism on the behavior of the feminists So if feminism says something like "men are allowed to act feminine" but than we only see super models dating the most masculine men than we throw that out the window as a lie. If you say "men can act feminine" but acting feminine is clearly seen as inferior to masculinity than wouldn't you agree it is a lie? IMO feminism claims the way that the world shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:24 PM
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I don't think RP dislikes swingers, they dislike cucks Because cucks are seen as completely spineless, pathetic, brainwashed betas big diff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:10 PM
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I think that the reason a male may be promiscuous exists in all men so you cannot avoid it(ego/spreading seed instinct/sexual validation/alpha self perception) The traits/desires/mindsets that would lead a woman to being promiscuous isn't default in all women, if you can avoid something that you deem negative why wouldn't you? I agree with you about the pair bonding op, but I think it would be more based on how impulsive the male is and how many opportunities he has currently rather than based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:09 PM
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you can do all the same shit, but you request it instead of her Tell her you are coming over/her to come over to your place to do X its rly not a big deal though
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:31 AM
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I think its a lot more than comfort, you're thinking specifically of a bb last resort situation correct? I think in all the other situations(alpha fux,alpha bux etc) its much more than comfort Women can sometimes project themselves into a story and feel the same way that a certain character feels about one of the male characters. My little cousin has tons of crushes on anime characters, but its not like shes attracted to the picture. She is attracted to the way that anime character made the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:39 PM
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Because women can be very attracted to the way men make them feel, which takes time to develop because it isn't visual. Which clearly makes it inferior to physical attraction but still necessary to have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 09:33 PM
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at the grocery store! Its one of those "like us on facebook" things, why they think anyone would want to like a loaf of bread on facebook to show all their friend their favorite brands is beyond me I don't think jimmy from down the street gives a shit that you only eat wonderbread
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:29 PM
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its hard to stop pressing that button man, even after I stopped using it I once saw a loaf of bread with the F icon on it and I tried to press it a couple times before realizing what I was doing
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:23 PM
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This has been linked before IIRC. Can't win with just a personality right off the bat, takes a while to form attraction that way compared to visual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:39 PM
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this is prob why bill burr and his wife havent divorced yet, because even tho they are complete opposites he stands up for himself and wont change his views and even a crazy bitch can recognize the value in that
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:37 PM
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when TRP says that they are referring to hookup apps or in situations where monogamy doesn't exist, not in general
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:03 PM
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The angry people in TRP aren't TRP yet, they want to be but if youre in the anger stage than you are still pre-TRP. Some of those people will always be angry and emotional, they can read all TRP shit they want it will never do any good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:01 PM
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Yeah, all men are programmed to be like that doesn't matter f you're BP or RP. Best to work on being desirable so the pussy comes to you, rather than chasing the pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:47 PM
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I find her attractive, but i am also muscular so that may be the reason I think some guys like submissive chicks so much that they are turned off by any noticeable muscle, not sure how much of a norm that is tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:00 PM
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im tall :P and i'm pretty sure there are plenty of wealthy trp guys, connor mcgregor or dan bilzarian are the first who come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:26 PM
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I think most men wish all women were like ronda, the problem is that girls like ronda think they are better and deserve more than DNBs Men wish it was the standard so we could have a girl like that, without her having an inflated ego/self worth/entitlement from not being a DNB Men just settle for DNB based on looks since girls like ronda are very rare, if we had access to the whole package it would be a different story+ EDIT:when i say "like ronda" i dont mean muscular, i mean "doesnt rely on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:15 PM
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I'm not confident in my ability to maintain a LTR, but I still want to have sex and close friendships so it is beneficial to have a few partners to prevent caring too strongly for anyone individually. I am not an optimist when it comes to LTR/marriage/etc. I am the type of person who would only get married if I knew for a fact that we would never ever get divorced, it cant even be a possibility. But divorce is always a possibility and to think otherwise is foolish I would rather wait for LTR whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:10 PM
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