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Dump the coward
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:46 AM
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Red pill is half the truth cause it’s only from one half of the reality. Example.. men pay a lot in divorce undeniably, but on the woman’s side she’s basically been at home for the duration of the marriage to where she has no skillful income source. This is in general. Those that want to live by only perspective will not benefit from either.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:17 AM
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You’ll never get it. You’re a woman and that’s the point. Don’t bother trying. Age doesn’t matter. It’s not your fault but you can maybe be the cure or push him farther into it. Refuting his perspective won’t win him over, it will push him farther into it. IF you care, take apologize for when even though it’s not your fault. when he argues a point agree. You can’t deny how he feels, dont discount his feelings, don’t make it about yourself. (This should go both ways). Treat him like a frustrated …
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 05:26 AM
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Life is difficult and the family unit has been beneficial for individuals coming together and supporting a household survival. Income to the household alone doesn’t ensure survival. So whoever is going to take up a responsibility of income to the household is in trouble on the home survival necessities domestic duties.., and vice versa. If both want careers and to create income both will have to participate in the household duties or one will have to do more, and in either case, someone if not b…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 12:28 AM
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people want benefits to being in relationships and not anything negative, whatever they think is negative. nobody wants to give without anything in return and if they are demanding it upfront it’s not very giving when they do give. There’s no hypocrisy to it, it’s seen as a trade off cause the redpillers don’t expect anything from a women if the man doesn’t have a career. “he doesn’t care about anything that doesn’t benefit him whilst submissiveness does” This is the telling hypocrisy. why do yo…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 12:55 AM
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‘Say to them ‘I’m so jealous of you, I never get that attention’, tell them how you feel ‘you guys are so attractive to women’ I think it’s bothering you cause you’re letting it sit on your mind. Be happy for them genuinely and say these things. It’s not like their lives are perfect. If you’re impressed by them (which is why you’re jealous) then say it. I would still hang around with them, if this is the only reason you’re not. There’s always someone richer, better etc. overcome this complex now…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 02:56 PM
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If op wasn’t an introvert you may have a point but, Realistically it’s not that severe. it needs to be a numbers game first, after that with no progression, then you have a point.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 02:14 AM
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Small gestures and playfulness. She will reciprocate back if she’s interested. If not you move on or step back. You might not be having the right conversation then.. The conversation will lead you and her through the flirting, playfulness etc. but keep talking don’t go silent.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 02:00 AM
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Oh like when has a rapist asked for forgiveness? Who do you think you are?
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 01:45 AM
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He doesn’t know social cues to ignore. As in his first sentence
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 01:43 AM
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Violating boundaries requires boundaries to be set. Boundaries come with a typical relationship beyond, Social cues phase. Stop going extreme in thought. OP is an introvert that needs to talk to women, and already feels like shite, cause of the fear he has to not do such
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 11:48 AM
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There you go with an assumption of straight to rape. WOW! Putting a lot of faith into OP! Who the hell do you think you are? Topic is social cues. You’re disgusting
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 11:43 AM
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Why would you want to do that?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 02:01 AM
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Listen man. You got to know it’s better to ask for forgiveness than permission. So go talk to some chicks and take some Losses. If you don’t want to listen to red pill or pua you got to do it yourself by trial and error and learn some hints. But it’s gonna be rejection and a numbers game. Quantity. Don’t spend too long on one girl, keep it moving.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 12:37 AM
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I wouldn't discourage him or anyone in their beliefs to the extent that no one is being harmed including themselves. If someone's beliefs are a problem for you in such a relationship, you should respectfully leave in a manner, such as saying something like, 'I don't think we are meant for each other'. Maybe he will find some red pill woman.. there are some out there, and maybe that will make him happy. Otherwise, you should learn to embrace more of what he is believing, maybe sit down and watch …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 03:09 PM
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people that ghost lack the ability to communicate. Do not entertain them by reaching out. Or the communication was sufficient to where they think they've made their point, for you not to talk to them again.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/24 05:09 PM
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he probably had a different idea of you in his mind, and that was destroyed, maybe not the count maybe just other things altogether.. when that vision is destroyed a partner can lose attraction. I know of some people who have to keep lying cause they know they can't expose the truth cause their partner's vision of them will be lost. Redpill term is 'to control frame'. women are usually really good at this. good luck on the next guy. If you want to be 100% truthful I would look for someone with a…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 08:07 PM
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Lower your expectations and it may be laughable how disappointing people can be.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 01:49 AM
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Therapy just basically continues a conversation you may have with yourself to get to a root cause and then you can think different about it.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 01:44 AM
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You. Care. Too. Much. Don't be confident because you think you have to. Don't try to get laid cause you think you need to. Go one day without forcing yourself to do anything and just do what you feel is you and not frustrating or miserable. Do this for 1 day and then see what you end up doing.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 01:38 AM
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There's no one method/idea of living that will make you successful in anything that EVERYONE can do, with a complete disregard for the products of one's environment... EVERYONE would be doing it. You can really mess yourself up by thinking just because one person did something, you can do the same and get the same results. And what you are witnessing with red pill promoters, is not the reality if it's being pitched to you and you only see the results, but not the cons.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 05:33 PM
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I started learning how to forgive, and then realized how the redpill is full of bitterness from people that don't forgive. Then they have studies they can find to back up some logic that leads them to believe they are on the right path. But it's still bitterness underneath. There's also no answers as to how to fix certain problems the redpill says there are with society. So it's just more questions and complaining. Whether there's a problem with a man or woman, you don't just say all these 'fact…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:51 PM
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yeah, I can see your fixation.. you seem bitter. You really have no regard for the relationship of OP as a whole and seem to fixate on OP themselves in an attempt to make their life better. It looks like you really have no empathy or understanding for anyone except one person in a two-sided scenario. You should check yourself when accusing anyone of abuse. Your profound language must reward your ego. I pray for your own sanity. You have no idea who I am or who anyone is here. You have no idea th…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 06:32 PM
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"When I refuse to discuss things because I don’t want statistics to be shouted at me instead of speaking about our relationship directly, he has a problem with that too." Yeah I wouldn't do that. Never ever block off communication to one another no matter the lies either of you say, if you're married you can't stop communicating. Maybe he's convincing himself and speaking to you for validation and if you don't communicate back something to change his mind it reinforces his ideas. Stop trying to …
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 02:09 PM
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"In previous generations, young women entered adulthood in a society that expected them to find a financially stable man who would support them through decades of marriage and motherhood. Over the 1950s and 1960s, that pattern gradually broke down, and today it is all but gone. " - This never changed on the man's side, and remains the same to this day. Women can change what they want, but the world isn't changing what actually exists because of their wants. Society requires the same from men as …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:08 PM
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Request for OP to post data and or link on this rate definition, or further elaborate. is the rate on certain ages? like annually? is it different for women?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 11:38 PM
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You already screwed up if this becomes an option you're considering. You most likely already chose the wrong partner. Both parties should be willing 100%. But chances are you screwed up and it won't be mutually accepted. These tests should be mandatory in the hospital setting at birth just to save the family court process and burden.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 04:44 PM
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Lower your expectations. Then there's no fear of missing them.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 02:53 PM
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I'd like to add, for men, IG and other social media is not used as much for dating compared to women. Whereas women can find dates easier, and faster on social media vs. men, so men go the specific dating app route. Note the disparity of gender on social media apps is not that great at all.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 03:38 PM
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Just be friendly and social, funny. not flattering, not seductive, but there may be a time for that. Just be an online friend like a pen pal. Put yourself in the friendzone and control the relationship, and if and when it seems right you control where things go.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 08:07 PM
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You 'survived' family court so from a Red pill perspective you are the male? Do you both now differentiate the title 'lovers' from 'life partners' as two separate things? Do you feel like you can leave this person?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:58 PM
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Link the to the post
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 06:06 AM
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Redpill men are not trying hard to date women. That would be a simp according to TRP. TRP describes the worst possible ways a woman can be, in order to deter them from a relationship. Its like a cost/benefit analysis approach to a relationship, and usually ends in a 'cringe' feeling for the man, to not even bother. However if its love, a man is looking for, then a cost/benefit trp approach is not gonna work. Find balance for your own sake, aside from what anyone here or from trp has to say.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 05:35 AM
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It takes a certain experience(s) to 'become a red piller', so It's probably well merited. No one is born a redpiller.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 05:26 PM
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Redpill has already been through the Forest Gump character and yes, to Jenny, he is a beta simp, raised by his mother, which is probably why he's a simp. To the President of the United States, he's a deserving medal of honor war hero. End of the day he is raising his son without a mother because he chose a destructive person, that never wanted a child and settled with him cause she felt bad that he was mentally challenged. No man is deserving of that ending, war hero or not... But forrest is too…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 04:04 PM
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"Western societies wouldn't accept bombing them into agony for moral reasons".. That is true, and also confirms the point. Where these morals, stem directly from western culture, and when they were so applied, to the case of Afghanistan culture, The mere fact exists that the western society war was unsuccessful and its attempt was inferior. Definitely does seem the superiority of Afghan culture did win, as it stands today. Go to Afghanistan and see who's in charge.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 06:59 AM
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This is how people that think like this can think its okay... Sharia Law does still exist today. Take a look at Afghanistan. The countrymen, who kept to their sharia law, defended themselves from several 1st world nations, and are holding their own as of today, with the U.S. as being the latest country to be defeated. The Afghanis that are now in power, might as well attribute part of their success to the way they have kept their culture (and sharia law), throughout their continuous fighting. If…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 05:19 AM
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how do you know what didn't exist if you weren't there?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:27 PM
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How do I get sex this way? Do you have a step by step guide? That's like my ultimate goal for a woman friendship. Just saying I just met a girl and we are friends now so how do I get sex with her?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/22 02:45 AM
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