Sorry you ladies, for not accepting compliments... I'm not sure why this demeans you? I'm count myself a powerful female who loves to be coddled and cherished... sue me! I will give those compliments right back.. in a good way!
I like being treated with respect like anyone male or female, i think that's a human response, but.. but feminists frustrate the hell out of me! I like a gentleman who will open the door for me, just for kindness, and these girls get all crazy, it's embarrassing for well-rounded, educated women who actually have common sense.
To give yourself to someone who cares for you, it's old advice, but when it comes down to it, why not take the leap of faith after YOU find them WORTH your time? Are you understanding me? I'm not good at completely communicating on this, and my heart is probably too involved. I HATE what happened to you. This post opened my eyes, I just don't want you to give up on love and friendship.