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No one is saying that dating preferences are completely spontaneous. How could someone be into a person they hardly know, especially compared to another person who has actively shown interest in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:34 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:52 PM
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Women can and do choose to be single, celibate, etc. for a number of reasons but that doesn't make them 4B. How exactly are you defining the 4b movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:34 PM
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Are you under the impression that feminism is an inherited trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:20 PM
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I don't play games. I don't have the fucking energy to. If I like a man (which I currently do, very much) I pour all my energy into figuring out how we work best together and how to make him happy. I just golden rule it- I treat him the way I want him to treat me. So far so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:21 PM
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Glad you could finally admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:57 PM
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You come off really happy about your shallow take on what is and is not masculinity. Love that for you. Bet you prefer they don't wash their ass too because that would be "cringe".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:39 PM
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She sounds lovely and you guys sound like a great couple. Hope you bot have a nice Valentines!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:42 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:18 AM
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Exactly. Some of these comments want sex to be an equation and are getting annoyed that it's not. (Now prepare for a possibly weird comparison) It kind of reminds me how I used to feel about creative writing vs a subject like math or science. I hated free writing out of fear that I put my best effort into it and people still hate it. I wanted specific rules that I could follow because I wasn't confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:26 PM
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OP's never read The Chocolate Touch and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:27 PM
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OP's never read The Chocolate Touch and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:27 PM
4

I'm 29 and have been trying on different pointy hats for the big day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:17 PM
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You sound afraid of being burned by all the shitty women you hear about by dudes. But do you ever listen to stories about kind women who support their partner? If yes, do you think about those examples as much as the negative ones? If no, do you think the reason is because they don't exist or because they arent as interesting/relevant of stories to single men who are struggling with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:51 AM
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Asking that is very Basic Bob of you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:27 PM
7

No...let him cook. We're almost in copypasta territory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:19 PM
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Whatever you say man. I think we have different ideas of vulnerability. It's something you work up to in a relationship since it's all about trust (i guess trusting that they won't eat your face? Is that a new slang?) I'm not saying to be vulnerable around women you don't know or haven't built up trust with. I was talking about it being a component of a loving long term relationship as a display of trust. In return for opening up, your partner cares for you and provides support. And vice versa. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:53 PM
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Those are all things you should do for your spouse though? You don't need to be mr tough guy in all settings. To have the capability to be the open, patient, kind man when it matters is incredibly attractive. It's part of the thousand reasons I love my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:59 AM
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It makes sense to me when you think about what it takes to have a loving long term relationship. It's more than just infatuation/attraction, it's something you put effort towards everyday, which you wouldn't do if you didn't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:46 AM
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Are you not an Australian citizen?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:22 AM
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Whose anecdotes will win?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:49 PM
6

Just seems a bit short-sighted on the man's part. Is she shocked the woman he married aged? That's inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:45 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:34 PM
2

These guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:33 PM
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Why don't you take a step into this century and stop getting off on your caveman / conquering fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:16 PM
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They're referring to yojr statement about fulfilling relationships being "a right". Which sounds like it would mean forcing people into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:32 PM
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Can you tell me a bit more about what it reveals about me? If I'm wrong I want to know how I can change
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:33 AM
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Can you at least understand where I was coming from with the analogy? Just because something bad happened to you doesn't justify bad morals. What does "getting out of the paradigm" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:43 PM
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Do you remember the first Incredibles movie? Where Syndrome's villain story was that he felt rejected by his hero and felt the only other way was to become a villain? The RP mindset feels similar. Basically, if women won't fuck you, then what's the point of being nice at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:14 PM
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You're championing women? Lol. If anything, you're establishing a precedent that anyone who looks at a woman is looking at her sexually. I mean, in your view, why stop at gyms? Your lack of empathy and black and white thinking is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:05 PM
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No one cares dude. Do you understand the difference between seeing something and staring at something? You should asume people are going to be wearing tight shit at the gym. If that's the reason you go, then you're only playing into OP's point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:34 PM
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You realize I agree that men shouldn't ogle women at the gym , right? But your title is literally "men shouldn't look at women". You're going to find that rule hard to enforce because people look at things. Then what do you do? Make all women cover up because you can't stop men looking at them? Do you see where I'm going? Let men and women exist together without assuming that one is trying to fuck the other. By all means, get rid of creeps. But don't assume they're a creep because they're a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:32 PM
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Do you understand my argument? I'm saying most men aren't creeping at the gym, they're just going about their business
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:26 PM
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I swear you had included additional rules for men earlier. Maybe I'm wrong / nuts. Anyways no one is wearing sunglasses in the gym and no ogling is an implied rule, but I don't have a problem with establishing those rules at a gym. Your camera idea is freaky as fuck though and is redundant to the whole ogling concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:25 PM
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There's a difference between looking at people and creeping on them. I never said men had to be blind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:19 PM
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Huh? I'm saying most men are at the gym to work out, they don't go to look at sweaty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:04 PM
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When you say "deserve to be loved" do you mean "deserve to be laid"? Why does someone (not just men) deserve to get laid? What should be done about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:02 PM
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Your solution is effectively segregating men and women because of all the hoops men would have to jump through. You're taking away people's rights out of fear which is generally frowned upon. Most men aren't at the gym to ogle women. Yes, some men do, but mostly people at the gym are trying to keep to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:59 PM
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This question makes me think about my current situation. My father passed two years ago and after taking an ancestry dna test, it turns out my father was not my grandfather's actual son. He learned this after my father passed and has stopped contacting me. He was the only one from my family left in my life after my dad passed and my mom went to jail, so it hurts. I get that he feels differently about me now, but I feel so lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:13 PM
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I think this guy means complaining about women in general. It seems like he's saying men can hate women even if they're in a relationship with one? Idk because, like you were saying, this doesn't seem like a fully-formed thought, let alone an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:07 PM
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These kind of guys confuse their own feelings for logic because they are so certain that their feelings are the "right" ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:35 PM
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What are you seeing on social media exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:56 PM
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Same. It has been 5 years since I've posted to any traditional social media platform. The hugely performative nature of social media definitely rewires your brain a bit. But both men and women chase clout and say/do some pretty embarrassing things to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:49 PM
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Lol I remember buying my husband (then-bf) one of those tape/aux devices for our "1 month anniversary". I don't know what it's called but googling it would be too easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:07 PM
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How is he being held accountable? How has his life changed an any meaningful way as a 'consequence' of what he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:41 PM
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Donald trump is a shit example for men being held accountable. He was the president
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:30 PM
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Yesss queen /s But actually you make great points that I was struggling to articulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:26 PM
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Lol yes we can. Arrogant men are more sensitive, shorter tempers, and prone to dumb displays of "confidence" that truly confident men don't feel the need for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:08 PM
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It's like the dudebro version of a knitting circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:03 PM
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Ohhh you're this guy who posts weird text screenshots to prove the existence of female friends lol Whoever sent you those texts is a bit much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:01 PM
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Good call out. Is he referring to facebook friends? Lol no one is friends with 300 people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:59 PM
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Thank you that helped my fried brain. I have seen a lot of this "but I don't benefit so...?" kind of mentality in this sub too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:09 PM
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I'm struggling to understand your point here, but I think it's just because I'm tired. Can you clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:26 PM
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What does this look like in your head? How would this be handled if a man wants the baby and the woman feels the opposite in your ideal world?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:08 PM
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In your "equality" scenario, women would be forced give birth or abort depending on the man's preference at that time. Forced medical procedures are significantly more violating than forced payment plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:55 PM
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In that scenario, the woman essentially becomes an incubator for 9 months and faces serious health risks whereas in the flipped "financial abortion" scenario for a man, he just dips out. So now we're back to it being "unfair", right? There is never really going to be a perfectly fair option in these scenarios, but women shouldn't be forced to give birth (or abort)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:48 PM
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Marionberry (oregon blackberry)!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:53 AM
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Beautiful. What kind of plant is that in the pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:10 PM
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Give up your uterus to the gov for the best of the country, selfish wench! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:42 PM
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Are you okay, OP? This is incomprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:14 AM
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I feel like you may be projecting because this is not how most adult women think and you're being unnecessarily condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:43 AM
1

It's an interesting argument. Since people can theoretically sign up for multiple sites/accounts at any given time, are they really limiting competition? Are they engaging in price fixing or discrimination that negatively impacts consumers? Are they restricting the availability of alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:47 AM
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Can you at least narrow down what stats you're referring to? Is this that gen z arent dating as much or 80/20 or whatever? There is a lot of data spewage on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:31 AM
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Can you expand on how it's not sustainable? And what you believe needs to be done to make it so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:24 AM
3

You said that mens attractiveness correlates to strength in an argument about women being more attracted to abusers than "weak" men. So it seemed you were arguing that women are attracted to the "strength" of abusive men. Feel free to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:17 AM
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Some nerds are great. Some are also abusive. So I don't see how this plays into your original argument. Does strength = abuse to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:06 AM
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But the abusive guy wouldnt protect her from himself and he's already proven to be a clear threat, so that doesn't really make sense. I also don't agree that weak men can't protect anyone even with your "weak" definition. Women aren't trying to set their dates up to brawl at the bar, so it's not like every guy needs to be a great fighter or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:52 AM
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Wouldn't abusive tendencies make women also not feel safe around the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:30 AM
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Did hitler put his best self forward? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:24 PM
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How does that have anything to do with women's dating preferences...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:03 PM
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Lol I'm glad people are calling that part out. No fucking way that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:48 PM
1

Top down or bottom up? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:44 AM
5

I'm imagining "bachelor chow... now with flavor!" from futurama
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:14 AM
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First, you're replying to someone else. I didn't say shit about wanting a leader. Second, Schrodingers cat was meant to refute certain aspects of quantam mechanics. Quantum superpositions only exist when not measured (when the box hasn't been opened),
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:06 PM
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You know the Schrodinger's cat thought experiment isn't about hypocrisy, right? Don't just take something scientific and say it applies to whatever you want. What are some of the way women want men to be superior? And what are the ways women want to be treated equally that doesn't match up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:23 PM
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Cracked up at the bus token imagery lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:54 PM
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And your argument is that if we teach them to be little assholes, then they will have no trouble getting into a relationship? Do we teach both girls and boys this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:46 PM
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The man is entitled to money owed under the employment contract he signed. Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:10 PM
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Lol I took a peek at this "chart" OP was describing in the video. Absolutely cracked up when I saw it was a fucking colored pencil doodle. Data visualization and interpretation is whatever we want it to be I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:21 PM
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I guess I'd chime in with a Haven't you people ever heard of closing the goddamn door?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:03 PM
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The Moms!!! Get em!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:58 PM
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I think you've hit the nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:54 PM
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How else do you honor the gods without a blood sacrifice? This is why people don't respect women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:08 PM
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When women vote == 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:04 PM
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I guess I don't understand your point now, I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:37 PM
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While its certainly not fiction, it shouldn't be used as a way of describing larger trends among groups. That's what quantitative is for, but quantitative also can't fully explain an individuals behavior. You shouldnt use individual anecdotes to make assumptions about the behavior of larger groups. And you shouldnt use large group data to inform how you think and individual would behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:32 PM
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Research benefits from both quantitative and qualitative data. Qualitative data is used both in an exploratory manner (to generate initial hypotheses, ideas, etc) and to provide a better understanding of the "why" behind quantitative data points. It uses smaller samples to go deeper whereas quantitative uses large samples to understand the over all trends. Using quantitative data to generate sweeping conclusions without understanding the "why" behind the figures requires you to take on many assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:02 PM
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I think we're doing just fine. Most people would prefer freedom and the responsibilities/consequences that come with it then to be controlled. It's not like there was less abuse in the "traditional" times". Abuse was part of how women were controlled
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:51 PM
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If that was true, why would they have started a relationship with someone they deemed unattractive though? Breaking up after getting bad vibes make more sense than a woman deciding at a later point that she now thinks he's too ugly to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:41 PM
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The inherent hypocrisy in a lot of the arguments I see here makes any attempt to discuss futile because consistency doesn't seem matter to them. They'll insist that their views are the most logical and rational, then refuse to engage when their logic is questioned because "women just don't get it" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:42 PM
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That doesnt prove that the women who ARE in relationships don't see their partners as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:47 AM
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So many percentages it must be fact. We were talking about women' attractions to their partners in relationships though so I think you may have flipped to the wrong page in your script. Though I'm sorry that you've convinced yourself to be upset with the women in your life because of The Studies That Show. The way you talk about relationships and other human people is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:34 AM
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Hi skeptical. You can make guesses about womens feelings all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:21 AM
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Lol sounds good dude. We'll hang back and let you guys have all the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:16 AM
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Lol I'd love to know what exactly that means and how you'd plan to enforce it but I'd hazard a gues that you're really just saying "it's not fair for me to be sad unless everyone else is sad too"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:51 AM
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Sure, yeah I agree with that. I broke my foot at the beginning of the year and my husband and I got into a lot of different indoor hobbies. Quality time is great no matter where
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:29 AM
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Don't you get it?? He called out their LIES that he dectected using REALITY.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:37 AM
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It's the red pill's version of sticking your fingers in your ears and screaming "la la la I'm not listening"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:28 AM
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I'd argue back that most women in long term relationships are attracted to their partners. Most women don't see their relationships as prostitution with more steps. Why would you even be with them if you didnt like / want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:17 AM
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Wow you just learned how statistics work. Not every woman cares more than every man, but maybe on average more women said they cared than the men who took the survey. My guess is caring about income would skew towards older women who probably arent on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:07 AM
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That's why she said it's her preference. She said specifically her family in general emphasizes education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:44 AM
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Why are you getting so upset about her own individual preferences? What does that accomplish exactly? It just seems like you're proving her original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:43 AM
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I would argue that's not the hard way. It's the easy way in the short term and then fucks you up in the long term. Working through your problems is 100% harder than pretending you don't have them and then realizing that you're drowning in them. I mean, I disagree. If a man isn't crying after the first scene in Up, I'm walking /s lol Men should cry when they're feeling it. It's a bodys reaction. The only emotion I get uncomfortable with from a man is anger and I'm admittedly not good at helping p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:34 AM
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I don't understand the point you're trying to make with this? Yes, wealthy and famous people are privileged and their life experiences often involve things that we could never do. I don't really understand the point youre making relative to your main post. Should everyone always get everything they want because they want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:22 AM
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Nah, I disagree. Men need to be able to talk about their experiences and feelings in a healthy way. When they lock it up is when they start resenting people and society. It seems it would be much better for men to learn how to communicate their feelings and for people (both men and women) to learn how to listen and acknowledge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:12 AM
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This sounds like youre saying that you think men can't be happy in a society unless they are restricting women's rights. Like youre pissed off seeing women having choices as if that's the thing that's holding you back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:06 AM
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But the reaction is the same. Thats just how people can get at concerts is what I'm trying to say. I know there are people who are definitely attracted to musicians they are a fan of, but that's not why they're screaming/crying for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:51 AM
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Are all the women at a Taylor Swift concert sexually attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:25 AM
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I could give less of a fuck if their job is 'cool'. The only jobs that would be red flags off the top of my head would be if theyre always traveling or if they're doing something unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:23 AM
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How is ignoring everything in between the two extremes a good way to prove his point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:51 PM
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Again, there is a whole world between only expensive trips and only sitting at home playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:39 PM
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You should clarify when you're talking about dating and when talking about long-term relationships where finances are combined. It would help me understand the context of your argument. It seems like maybe you're just not great at coming up with cheap date ideas? Just because they are cheaper than jet setting doesn't mean they have to be boring or repetitive. Maybe that mindset screws you over because you go all out early on in the relationship and that sets an unrealistic expectation? Idk. Why …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:36 PM
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Maybe you should have conversations about financial planning and goals with your long-term partners instead of shelling out if this is your actual experience? You have agency and if that's not what you want to do with your money, then communicate. But maybe its much more fun to be financially irresponsible while also shifting the blame on your partner. Also, that is not a famous quote? I don't see it attributed to anyone or any source when I google. Seems more of something old men who hate their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:36 PM
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No, no, you clearly don't understand. This childless guy has studied all about child rearing. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:35 AM
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Exactly. "Women aren't critical thinkers" lol. Plus the whole men and women are just so different! ! Men are smart and reasonable and women are dumb selfish babies! Then chalking up their lack of success to anything but their shitty attitude. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:51 AM
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Lol You tried your best and looks like a solid list to me. If its any consolation, your list will help me find a new game I can play with my husband!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:30 PM
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It does, doesn't it? Just pure stream of consciousness. Reminds me of when my eldery relatives forward me those chain mail messages absolutely packed to the brim with the most mid jokes and uncomfortable caricatures youve ever seen. Like, the content is out of pocket, but the ridiculousness of the delivery is almost endearing? (Almost)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:25 PM
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Was just going to say this! Too cute. Love the cheeks and happy eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:39 PM
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What kind of stuff did you learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:34 PM
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I looked up the tiger rug and they look awesome. Thank you for sharing! I bet its cozy af
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:25 PM
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Not judging you at all, but this kind of stuff makes me roll my eyes so hard. So cheesy. Like second hand cringe. I have a hard time believing that having thousands and thousands of followers is an appealing attribute to most adults. In those interactions it just looked like most of those people just wanted to be on camera? Probably forgot about the dude once his camera was out of their face. Happy to hear another take. This kind of clout chasing stuff always makes me feel out of touch because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:08 PM
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That's cool! What color/style is your new couch? Do you have other decor with similar vibes? I'm terrible at decorating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:37 PM
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Lol I chuckled at that line. You better rebut up or shut up, HomeworkFew!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:21 PM
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I've also heard they have cooties! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:53 AM
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I also found a study below that shows that women were about half of a standard deviation more agreeable than men and they are also more open as well. But like you mentioned, wouldn't those traits suggest that a person would be more open to discussing alternative views? Whereas if someone was more disagreeable, they might not be interested in entertaining opposing views. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149680/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:41 AM
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I am so sorry that you went through that trauma. I understand feeling guarded when it comes to disclosing what you experienced and you should not have to share those details up front when you start dating. Though I do hope you find someone you feel safe and comfortable discussing it with if you do ever need to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:16 AM
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I see what you're saying now, though it makes me sad. Like you said, I would imagine women in these relationships aren't happy either, since that "better than nothing" attitude is probably reflected in how they behave towards their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:19 AM
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Well you sound like a good boss! Your ex sounds like she was crazy controlling. 'How dare you stay up past your bed time!' Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:10 AM
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That sucks and I'm sorry you experienced that. Hope things are better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:36 AM
3

Why would someone be with a partner they dislike? That sounds like a recipe for a horrible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:33 AM
2

Why don't you say your whole argument instead of "gotcha"-ing in the most confusing way possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:25 PM
2

I hope your food tasted lovely!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:45 AM
2

What are some ways you'd like to see empathy expressed from the women in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:09 AM
1

Hot take
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:12 AM
16

Woah careful there if these guys could read they'd be very upset
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:15 AM
1

Settle down, sport. Women aren't the boogeyman you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:01 PM
1

Lol so they do it just because? I was at least trying to follow the dumb redpill "logic", but you don't even pretend to have any. All emotions. Women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:40 PM
1

Why would women try to hide their red flags then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:32 PM
2

Ah I see. Thank you. I assumed that at first, but I think the analogy made it more confusing. It's not like women are searching for hot tips on how to trick men into LTRs on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:38 PM
2

What. This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:07 PM
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I originally thought that a lot of women were just really into that new show with Jeremy Allan White
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:59 PM
1

Hey, its me, ur chad. One sex plz
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:53 PM
1

The only time the word lovers doesn't bum me out is when it's between the words 'meat' and 'pizza'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:51 PM
1

Just eat a serious amount of onigiri. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:02 PM
1

Exactly. Especially during hard times like illness, grief, etc. I also think, on the flip side, that sharing good times with someone you love is even more fun and fulfilling than alone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:25 PM
7

I mean people could keep listing examples and it seems like you'd just write them off unless they were valuable to you. So instead, what is it you value? Maybe LTRs and companionship isn't for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:22 PM
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