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I’m glad you’ve caught up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:19 AM
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I think you seem pretty miserable. Maybe you’re a victim of the patriarchal enforcement of gender roles and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:57 PM
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Because you don’t think women are capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:47 AM
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That’s produced by the way men act towards and speak about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:36 AM
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What’s produced out of thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:35 AM
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Is she not interested or just knows how poorly you think of women? Same as the women who start out in trades and are treated like garbage and bullied out of the industry by sexist types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:26 AM
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All of my children were delivered by female midwives, same as most children throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:19 AM
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Because you don’t seem to consider her - or any woman - capable of doing anything remotely technical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:23 PM
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Sounds like you don’t like each other or respect each other very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:05 AM
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I’m sure your mum never birthed you, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:58 AM
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Fuck AI. It’s an abomination. I hope you find something soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:49 AM
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It should be the norm, because nobody wants to be exploited. I mean, why are you in a relationship where you come home from work every day to fix the car and the pump while your wife doesn’t even pass you the tools and bring you a cold drink at least? Last time my husband had to do the gutters (my bad, I don’t do heights. When he’s unavailable, my 18yo daughter gets to climb ladders) I at least held the ladder, held my breath and cried once he returned to solid ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:23 AM
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Bruh. My father and father in law rarely cooked a meal or washed a dish, and my grandfathers would certainly never have done so. I much prefer my modern husband who was up for changing nappies, reading bedtime stories or sweeping the floor, same as I’m happy to mow the lawn or pluck and dress a chicken for tea. He doesn’t want the sole breadwinner and maintenance role any more that I want to cosplay being a 1950s housewife who’s scared of mice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:10 AM
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Because they don’t have to worry about that; they outsource it to their wives along with the bookkeeping and stockroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:25 AM
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So now women are supposed to be builders and site engineers on top of their regular job and housekeeping too? I’m supposed to be able to run a gas line and use fittings that you can’t even buy without a plumbers license? I’m expected shell out for bottle jacks to do my own underpinning next? We’re not all Sarah Beeny, and there’s a big difference between regular life skills like changing a fuse or rehanging a shutter and replumbing a gas line.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:39 AM
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I dare say there’s a decent bit of sunlight between diesel and petrol, regular and super, city traffic and freeway, paved roads and dirt roads, blah, blah, blah. Still not fucking about with anything not old enough to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:27 AM
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Yeah, full service at 30k, minor service in between. Annoyingly I’m on dirt roads so it’s filters every time on top of running the air compressor over them in between. I’ve had tradesmen try to rip me off; so I have taken it to their governing body/not used them again/taken them to their small claims tribunal. Same as if I get bad food or shitty service from a shop or got a dr who tore me during a Pap test.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:14 AM
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My regular mechanic has a surcharge for “if you worked on the bloody thing already”, so you must be more talented than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:05 AM
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Spoken like someone who hasn’t had to fix the work of a home handyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:27 AM
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15k is less than 30k, which is more frequent servicing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:45 AM
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Yes they should be compensated. When the other party is unwilling or unable to do so, then this burden should fall to the state as the prevention of poverty benefits everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:30 AM
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I certainly came across it. It was all Eve’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:27 PM
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That’s so bizarre. My firefighting pump and house pump are serviced yearly and are both 10 years old and working fine. Maybe things are just made badly in your country. My oldest car gets serviced every 15k - which is actually when you should be servicing unless you want to wreck your engine - and she’s been around the clock twice. I use a licenced mechanic but do need to tune and top up fluids and whatnot between trips. What’s not to love about a vintage car? My point: you only fuck about with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:23 PM
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That’s when it gets traded in. Or you use a licenced mechanic. A car is an expensive and dangerous piece of machinery and the idea that Billy Bob with his YouTube guide thinks he can keep a car roadworthy rather than a mobile hazard is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:15 PM
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Even when I lived in Athens or in Perth, ceiling fans and shutting the house during the main heat of the day worked fine. I think you’re just being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:10 PM
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Then you can pay later for a licenced trademark to fix your mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:04 PM
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Why would anyone fuck about with a swampy unless they really wanted to? Go buy yourself a fan or save up for a real AC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:31 AM
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You misunderstood me. I’m saying that charging you for their work is a tradesman’s livelihood. It’s how they pay their bills and put food on the table; that’s why you get charged for a job. You’re also paying for the fact that they served an apprenticeship and studied to become competent, as opposed to looking something up on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:29 AM
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You seem to be making things difficult for yourself on purpose. 30k service is covered under warranty. Buy a new pump if yours keeps breaking down. I hope you at least have life insurance if you’re jumping around on rooftops.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:14 AM
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Nope. That’s what a warranty is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:52 AM
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That’s their livelihood
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:36 AM
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There’s no way known my husband would fuck around with machinery. That’s what a warranty and licenced repair and maintenance services are for. Back in the day my dad would have, but things were built differently back then. I’m happy to service and tune my 1974 carolla, but a modern car? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:35 AM
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If he doesn’t want custody, why do you want to force him to take part in his child’s life? The woman I’m talking about don’t want dick; they know that the biggest danger to their children is a new lover. Women only household are about sharing the load, not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:02 AM
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All debate fallacies are well established and named.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:56 PM
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We stayed friends and I set him up with his now wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:04 PM
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Because they weren’t fallacies, you just can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:26 PM
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And when he doesn’t want custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:25 PM
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It’s been supplied by another poster, no need to double dip
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:07 AM
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I’ve come across a few of these; they make a lot of sense. Same as widows living together for company and help running a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:21 AM
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She’s pissed about it because he’s at home playing computer games and leaving all the housework, home management and the bulk of the childcare to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:15 AM
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Do nothing about it. You sit on your arse and want women to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:05 AM
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I’ll need a citation for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:57 AM
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Not these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:44 AM
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Given suicide rates are higher in men than in women, I would consider the log in your own eye first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:37 AM
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Everyone dies alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:04 AM
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Given the sheer amount of women - and men for that matter - who experience abuse, I could imagine it would be hard to avoid. My husband and I both experienced childhood sexual abuse through the church. We helped each other heal and look after each other. Sometimes damage is insurmountable, but throwing a blanket over everyone who has been abused is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:07 PM
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If a conversation is about something specific, derailing is rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:42 AM
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Derailing a specific topic about female rape victims is a dick move. Start your own topic about how male victims need more acknowledgment and support, how historical sex offences against boys need to be compensated for, how greater oversight is required within institutions like gaols and how the definitions around sexual assault need modernising. They’re important and need to be spoken about seriously rather than used as a derailment tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:51 AM
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I’m glad you acknowledged that second paragraph. Most men on here refuse to. My experience tells me that civilian casualties are under reported, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:00 AM
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Plenty of soldiers and a huge amount of civilians. All for the egos and financial interests of two old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:13 AM
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How many civilians are dying in Gaza right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:03 AM
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Do you honestly think that only soldiers are killed in a war?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:48 PM
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Which surveys are these? I’ve never seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:19 AM
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You would have to be one of the few men here who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:18 AM
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Just like you think that some homeless woman shouting at pigeons on a street corner has it easier than Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:13 PM
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Bad methodology is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:16 AM

That’s wildly fucked up. Where were your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:04 AM

In my experience, it’s usually women or non binary people who step up and help a woman who is being harassed. Similar with seats on trains, providing directions, moving wildlife off roads, helping old ladies cross the road, etc… I’m not saying that men never step up, I’m saying that they’re less likely to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:03 AM

No it isn’t. Girls play at sex looking for love and boys play at love looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:01 PM

It’s easier for women to get sex. Being pumped and dumped doesn’t equal being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:55 PM
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I work with lots of men who have needed that reminder. A couple of pints and all common sense and situational awareness vanishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:31 AM
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I’ve certainly come across old school sexists and the occasional misogynist within IRL leftist circles. Tankies were notorious for it back in the day, and there’s certainly plenty of apologists for Beria getting around. Construction unions can be similarly appalling in their opinions of women. I’ve not seen as much in anarchist communities, although benevolent sexism and the assumption that sex will be on tap is common. I’ve never come across an incel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:13 AM
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Very interesting, thank you for linking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:05 AM
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I must admit that I’ve never actually come across the anti capitalist arguments from incels. I don’t disagree with the arguments made, but this is the first time I have ever seen them. It’s always been the quasi left “redistribution of pussy” grossness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:59 AM
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Link me, because I found nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:17 PM
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Since when were incels left leaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:07 PM

As someone with adult children - it’s still mum that they cry to when they’re 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:21 AM

The 1990s is when the rot started. Think Reaganomics and Thatcherism, media deregulation, corporatism, Soviet collapse, stock market crash in the late 80s set it all in motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:16 AM
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I work for the coroner. A big part of my job is keeping people from ending up there, and that means following the evidence without bias. It also means making the jobs of first responders as safe as possible. You can’t ignore the evidence that suicidal men are frequently violent towards others just because it hurts feelings. One in ten is a risk that needs to mitigated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:21 PM
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Have you looked up any of my suggestions yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:39 PM
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We are. You just don’t want to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:37 PM
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Health professionals don’t treat suicidal people? Say what….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:35 PM
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Any person who is making threats about killing themselves or someone else is treated as potentially dangerous by first responders. Our safety laws are written in blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:34 PM
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By health professionals, not by responding police who have been called about someone making threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:10 PM
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We don’t want to fuck either of you. Or to become wage slaves. Use your big brain rather than your little one for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:08 PM
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Yes, depressed (post and ante natal depression) women reaching out for support are treated as criminals and potential murderers. Look up the Edinburgh test.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:59 PM
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Are you a first responder?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:55 PM
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In law enforcement, anyone acting out is treated as potentially dangerous. Think about how all guns are treated as loaded, then put yourself in the position of being a first responder to a situation where someone is threatening violence. You remember Desi Freeman? A first responder doesn’t want to walk into that blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:52 PM
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All of the above. Read the reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:48 PM
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That’s not what strawmanning is. Look up Arndt and see if she’s someone you would trust to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:46 PM
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Why would I defend her driveling?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:58 AM
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This is policy informed by family annihilations carried out by men. If violent, family killing men are less offensive to you than men being screened for signs of this, then you really need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:57 AM
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If families annihilations were gender neutral in incident rates, then this would be the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:45 AM
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Wtf are you living under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:42 AM
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The Bringing Them Home report and the Institutional Sexual Abuse Royal Commissions both covered children being erroneously removed from mothers who were considered to be a threat to their safety. The Magdeline laundries in Eire are another infamous example of single or depressed mothers having their children taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:40 AM
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What’s the difference between a social worker and a Rottweiler? Eventually the Rottweiler will give you back your baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:58 AM
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Lmao Bettina Arndt is where journalistic integrity goes to die. She’s a shill for Poorleen and Gina the Hutt and a pickmisha of the highest order. She’s like the skippy Samantha Brick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:47 AM
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Which is why PANDA screening is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:34 AM
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Yes she would. Why do you think Aboriginal women don’t seek health care for themselves or their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:33 AM
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As a post natal woman? Yes. Watched like hawks. It’s having the effect of women from certain minorities being reluctant to seek antenatal and post natal care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:30 AM
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Broken, lonely men are radicalised by powerful elites. They’re useful idiots and foot solders. Women are one of the flashpoints (along with the LGTBQIA community, immigrants, disabled people etc…) used by these elites to control the underclass of men. You are being used and exploited, but not by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:24 AM

The left want solidarity amongst workers and academics to flatten power structures and redistribute hoarded wealth to the starving. Sex is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:40 PM
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Yes. It’s part of the PANDA screening (post and ante natal screening) process for pregnant and post natal women until your child is two. You’re asked it at every single midwife appointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:18 PM
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Yes, those are certainly all words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:14 AM
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Given the former UK prime minister fucked a dead pig’s head, spaces without these types of men seem thin on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:12 PM

I’m claiming that liberalism is bipartisan, not progressivism. Being liberal doesn’t mean being progressive, being left doesn’t mean being liberal. Plenty of authoritarian leftists consider liberalism to be the thin end of the fascist wedge. Identity politics is a conservative creation designed to keep liberals fighting amongst each other rather than working together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:19 PM

I’m sorry to hear that. Toxic people and purity politics exist in so many spaces and ruin it for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:13 PM

Who made you the gatekeeper of feminism? Liberal feminism is rooted in working within patriarchal norms. Milo may have slunk back into the closet, but he was certainly gay and conservative at the same time. TERFs are notoriously conservative. Many like Posie Parker are more than happy to share stages with neo Nazis. Being conservative and part of an oppressed minority makes you stupid, but there’s no point in denying it’s a phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:38 AM

What makes you think that a regulated economy and socioeconomic security will create a political game?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:39 AM

Conservative feminists don’t want to dismantle the patriarchy; they want to prosper under it and benefit from it. Wanting more female CEOs isn’t a leftist position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:35 AM
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wtf, no they weren’t. Trade unions were violently suppressed, wages were slashed, public assets were seized and given to party officials, public funding was redirected towards private citizens, public services were abolished and heath and education funding was dismantled. Weimar Germany was progressive and liberal by today’s standards. Lassaize faire economics was a feature of the UK and American rather than continental Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:32 AM

Hitler? WTF are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:18 AM

Social issues are one part of the left. There are plenty of deeply conservative feminists, LGTBQIA folk and anti racists. Second wave feminism in the 1980s and 90s centered greed and corporatism. People like Milo Yinnopolous are homosexual and conservative. Anti racists of the Rudyard Kipling and Joseph Conrad philosophy are conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:57 AM

Did you read what I just wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:48 AM

The Democrats aren’t left by any stretch of the imagination. Americans need to move beyond a two party system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:47 AM
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I think you’re conflating leftist with liberals, tbh. Leftist positions such as labour rights, workplace protections, OHS, wage protection, housing affordability, universal healthcare, access to free education, better funding of education, healthcare and social support, disability rights and support funding and tighter regulations on financial institutions all benefit men disproportionately, as men are the ones falling behind in areas like workplace safety, health and education outcomes and hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:57 PM
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Why would I want a gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:36 AM
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Sure they are. They’re just different types of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:10 AM
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Laughing at your oppressors and making them look foolish is a source of power. Viktor Frankl and Primo Levi both wrote extensively about it as a source of maintaining one’s sense of hope and humanity from within Nazi concentration camps, but the notion is a perennial one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:25 AM
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The world isn’t a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:23 AM
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What is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:59 PM
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Government financial assistance is to stop kids from starving, hookup culture is male centric and there are no laws saying that you have to be any nicer to single mothers than to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:59 PM
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I’m Scottish. The shadow cast by WW2 still looms large, and austerity by the Tories has made it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:30 AM
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The only power that victims of oppression have is taunting their oppressors. This is an historical constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:28 AM
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Society doesn’t promote single motherhood as good, though. It’s overwhelmingly considered shameful, ghetto, white trash, welfare queen and creating criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:15 AM
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Why do you blame the parent who stayed rather than the parent who abandoned their family?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:18 PM
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Believing someone has the right to dress and identify themselves as the want to doesn’t mean that they’re obligated to find someone attractive. I believe that femboys, butch lesbians, furries, trans folk and flamboyant queens should be free to live their best lives without fear of persecution or abuse. That doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:29 PM
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Desperate people. Do you want a partner who is only with you out of desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:13 PM
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I had two grandfathers. One was a fantastic man and the other came home a traumatised wreck from the war and took it out on his wife and children. No help for veterans with PTSD back then. No way for her to escape his beatings. He drank himself to death and now his children and grandchildren carry the scars. DV causes inter generational trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:12 PM
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A cute barista is more than likely paying her way through her degree so that she can get a good job and be self reliant rather than being at the beck and call of someone like her grandmothers had to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:36 AM
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So start valuing how those families and communities are held together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:25 AM
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Not wanting to be enslaved isn’t causing division, it’s reacting to people who want to reinstate and expand pre-existing divisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:16 AM
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An excel spreadsheet isn’t going to destroy my body, tank my career, bite my nipples, shit everywhere, spew down my back, throw tantrums, etc, etc… Raising children is hard and devalued by society. I’ve had several of them , and it’s much easier to hold down a job than to deal with motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:13 AM
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No one reviles Mario’s brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:04 AM
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Provide respect and you get it back. Nobody willingly pairs up with a person who will disrespect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:56 AM
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She’s telling you how to move up from being unfucked and undesirable. It’s not her fault that you’re obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:52 AM
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Isn’t this how we ended up with Kylo Ren? Kids being raised by robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:57 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:53 AM
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The lack of a viable option outside of the duumvirate of R v D is a huge part of the problem. Americans are too brainwashed by corporate media to move outside of the status quo, though. Part of this is the stupidity of non compulsory voting and first past the post vote distribution. Part of it is defunding education. Part of it is disenfranchisement of marginalised voters. The idea that Trump is anti establishment is hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:59 AM
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Of people who voted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:09 PM

Yep. I was 40 when the paediatrician who was managing my son’s autism and adhd suggested that I get tested. It explained a lot of what hadn’t made sense when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:51 AM

Men are accepted into clinical trials at vastly higher proportional rates as women, too. IME women of “childbearing age” are routinely rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:45 AM

Improve your real. I’m a flautist. My real was pretty crappy when I first started, so I practiced and took lessons and learned. Your brother needs to practice and learn prosocial skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:10 AM

I believe that the grass is greener where you water it. My husband and I are each other’s cheerleaders and support staff. We do our best to make each other feel valued and make each other laugh. We are each other’s safe place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:24 PM
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My experience with men like this is that the girls are sending you signals but you’re missing them and think they’re just being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:54 AM
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My parents had a picture on their wall that read “you and me against the world”. Those are the best relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:48 PM
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My husband is older than me, and has some health challenges. Our main concern is ensuring his superannuation and life insurance will pay off our mortgage and go a ways to setting the kids up if the worst happens. I can’t being with anyone else. Maybe I would get a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:11 AM
1

It looks like I will be, as he was in a car accident and hasn’t been well enough to work since then. It’s not ideal and he finds it boring being at home. His friends all work. Social stuff is set up for retirement age men, so he’s not keen on that. We both hope that he’ll be well enough to return part time or casually eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:37 AM
5

Please. Men would say care factor and down a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:44 AM
1

Leftists aren’t about tolerant good vibes. You’re thinking liberals. Come back once you’ve read some theory or at least got your terms straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:21 AM
2

Collective action has been around forever. Neoliberalism is just a fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:58 AM
1

Well done. What sports do you play?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:55 PM
1

I’m married to someone who is too unwell to have sex. Sometimes you can do everything right and things still go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:53 PM
4

The population is going to collapse due to catastrophic climate change within the next 100 years. Building an economy around unrestrained growth is myopic and humans need to start making changes in preparation for this adjustment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:51 PM
2

How regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:57 AM
1

Honestly, anything that long would just feel like a pap smear. Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:56 AM
12

Having sex is awesome. Being expected to perform like a monkey at the zoo and ending up with cystitis is not awesome. It’s the unending expectation to not need a break and the entitlement to have constant access to your body that is the turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:32 AM
3

As can pregnancy, breastfeeding, being premenstral, menopause and just being tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:29 AM
3

I don’t like my cervix being bruised, thanks. 10 inches is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:27 AM
3

Because they don’t know any different, are young, are religious and believe pleasure is sinful or slutty, or have any number of other hang ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:25 AM
4

Have you tried it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:21 AM
12

Link your studies, because I think you’re mistaking correlation with causation in terms of political affiliation being inherited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:18 AM
7

No, men care about having a root. All this “mah pupulation collapse” is concern trolling dressed up as virtue signaling and we didn’t come down in the last shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:11 AM
-1

Because it’s a dangerous and dumb situation to put yourself in. Jane will be completely at the mercy of John’s continuing fidelity and his ability to hold down a job. Never mind the fact that households can’t even pay rent or service a mortgage on a single wage these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:31 AM

It’s a feature not a bug. I want the best genetics for my children, so I filter for the best man. That’s just how animals work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:00 PM
1

Who do you think is sitting at the top shitting on the rest of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:28 AM
1

I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:16 PM
1

Much more likely though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:41 AM
1

Attractive people are treated differently. That’s older than dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:56 AM
1

I’m just going by the behaviour I see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:55 AM
0

Potayto pahtahto
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:54 AM
2

No. I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:53 AM
3

There’s travel and there’s travel. Trips to visit family, go to a festival or gallery and days at the seaside are also traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:08 PM
4

What would the chronically online manosphere types be doing besides being online? Maybe lifting weights. With other men. Then shittalking women online and bootlicking Trump. Does that sound attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:06 PM
6

Do you want to increase your odds or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:02 PM
2

My mum and my grandmothers all told me to next time look at how he treats the women in his life. If he’s disrespectful to his mum and obnoxious to the check out girls at the grocery store, he’s going to like that to a romantic partner too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:18 AM
1

Marry and have a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:53 PM
-1

Go on then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:51 PM
7

The emotional part is largely to do with children and helping them learn to regulate themselves. Being the referee over squabbles, lost stuff, school drama, homework anxiety, pre game nerves, toddler tantrums et al is hard. Throw in a man who punches walls when he can’t set up an x box or screams at the dog for being underfoot and it becomes really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:47 PM
-1

Except that there canonically is. Read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:40 PM
2

As a 5’5 20 something back in the day, my wish list was: Willing to go surfing and swimming with me Willing to play doubles tennis with me and my friends Into music, specially folk, rock, classical and pipe and drums. Playing an instrument and dancing were a bonus. Had integrity. Was politically left. Was liked by my friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:06 AM
-1

And none of the ones I know do. Does my anecdote cancel out yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:52 AM
13

It’s been a feminist position since halfway through last century.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:00 AM
2

What happened when you said it last, using those words?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:20 PM
2

How do you usually reject someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:32 AM
2

Men like sluts. They just don’t like owning up to having caught a fish in a paddling pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:07 AM
3

Women don’t care about “no thanks, you’re not my type”. That’s fine. Women get upset about being harassed and bullied because of your idea of who we are. Big tits - slut shame. Blonde hair - slut shame. Turned you down because she has a partner - slut shame. Just stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:05 AM
1

This applies to so many situations. Pretty/handsome privilege pervades every aspect of life, not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:28 AM
1

Except that’s not what I’m saying. Preferring a particular type of partner isn’t misogyny. Being a shitcunt to people because they don’t fit your ideal can be. It can also be misandrist or racist, transphobic, or even just obnoxious. Like what you like. Don’t treat people who don’t meet your standards as subhuman or shame them. Surely polite indifference isn’t too much to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:27 AM
3

Yeah, nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:59 PM

Because you’re only looking at data since the 1990s. Look at how women have been treated throughout history. Do you honestly think that boomers were less sexist than the terminally online eshays of today?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:58 PM
2

Players in a compliment, sluts is an insult. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:58 PM

Men will still hate us. We can give up everything and men will still hate us. They always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:52 PM

If feminists gave an inch, the patriarchy would take a mile. What do you think men would do if women were at their mercy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:21 AM
6

What makes you think that feminists are pushing for men to be providers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:42 AM
0

People aren’t machines. What a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:40 AM
1

My then boyfriend taking a detour to his sister’s house to remove a spider from her bedroom ceiling was very attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:22 PM
0

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:43 AM
3

An otherwise ignored friend of my brother’s became hot property when he changed a tyre for an elderly couple in the pub carpark. My eldest daughter met her now fiancé when he helped her with getting another friend’s wheelchair down a flight of stairs when the elevator was broken. Being capable is hot. Being kind makes it hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:12 AM
1

Evil begins when we treat people as things - Terry Pratchett
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:14 PM
3

Depends. A person could be shy, have been a carer, have a disability, have been in a long term celibate relationship, have just not met anyone they felt that attracted to yet, etc… It’s a red flag if you build your personality around how much sex you get, be you a fuckboy or chaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:34 AM

No. It fizzled out over the summer after year 12 ended as we were both working and I moved away to university. He ended up marrying a lovely girl from the year below us and they have two kids. He lives in the town we grew up in and I bump into him and his family every now and then when I visit my mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:27 AM
1

Your reading comprehension is dire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:31 AM
2

Competence is extremely attractive. I first met my husband at a friend’s birthday party, and what piqued my interest was the fact that he had jumper leads in the boot of his car and was able to give another friend a jump start.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:15 PM
1

Where did I say she can’t have sex? I’m saying that the post partem period lasts for two years and that hormonal fluctuations are part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:52 PM
1

Why do you think women fought so hard for reliable and accessible birth control and safe and accessible abortions? Women don’t want to have to deal with the aftermath of pregnancy if they can avoid it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:12 AM
0

If you slammed together, that means neither of you moved. I’m not sure why one sex should or shouldn’t yield. Usually people kind of awkwardly step around each other and have a giggle before getting on with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:54 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:16 PM

Gestating and birthing your child isn’t a worthy medical issue in your opinion then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:29 AM

Two months? Nine months in, nine months out my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:41 AM

Are you prepared to accept that she might be working as hard as she can, and that you’re just going to have to be patient?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:40 AM
1

So nothing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:34 AM

Are you also working with her? I’m not just talking about chores here, I’m talking about understanding how she’s not going to be feeling attractive or comfortable in her own skin, could be touched out or in physical pain, and have no extra energy to wash her hair, let alone want to risk another pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:33 AM

What am I supposed to be suffering from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:44 PM

The postpartum window extends until two years post delivery. Hormones take a very long time to return to baseline, especially if she’s breastfeeding. It’s one of nature’s ways to prevent back to back pregnancies before the mother has recovered enough to successfully gestate any subsequent pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:42 PM
3

Get back to me once you have to care for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:39 PM
7

Babies sleep 18 hours a day? Lmao, have you ever met a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:04 PM

What’s not his fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:02 PM
4

You’re conflating correlation and causation. Once adjusted for income, there’s no difference. Poverty causes crimogenic outcome, not parental gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:59 PM

I’m ugly as sin, but not sure why that’s relevant. I hope your kids learn boundaries despite your efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:44 AM
3

God tier. Sure buddy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:27 AM

I’m sure she’s relieved to get away from you. How old are the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:26 AM
8

It falls apart because men can’t seem to understand that they need to parent their children too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:15 AM
44

The weight changes when one person is suddenly pulling more. Babies are a hand grenade thrown into a relationship, and when two parents are both tired, having to do more household labour and undergoing a massive readjustment, the person who’s also physically recovering will need to be helped by the person who isn’t still bleeding or recovering from surgery/delivery. This is difficult for some men to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:12 AM

So you nagged her for sex until she didn’t feel safe around you and bailed. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:07 AM
16

Dethroned dads are so pathetic. She’s bleeding, breastfeeding, caring for a helpless newborn and all you can think about is your dick? Fucking gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:06 AM

I’ve had men attempting to befriend me with the intention of it turning into sex/a relationship. I shoot this down, block and avoid. If they’re decent, I’ll manoeuvre them into a conversation with a single friend or coworker who is on the lookout. I wear a wedding ring. Than means don’t try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:30 AM
1

The main reason I’m in women majority vintage car and steam clubs is because in the pre-existing clubs, generally men don’t want women there. So some other women and I started our own. Interestingly, we’re getting quite a few men and boys defecting to our clubs because things are less competitive and more about the history and beauty of the machines we’re working with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:55 AM
1

Star Wars fans always hate the new stuff. Just look at how Jake Lloyd and Ahmet Best were treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:39 AM
1

How many times does it need to be pointed out that scouts opened to girls due to needing to rehabilitate their image after the systematic molestation of boys by scoutmasters and subsequent exodus nearly sent the organisation to the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:35 AM
7

The solution is for people to wake up and realise that they’ve been goaded into a culture war in order to distract them from partaking in a class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:17 AM

No. I have always protected myself. I expect him to have my back, and he expects the same from me. I would be furious and devastated if someone gave their life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:23 AM
3

Domestic violence isn’t class defined. There are plenty of abusive public school old boys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:01 AM

A large part of this is the neoliberalism pervading western societies these days. Men see everything as a zero sum deal, thinking that other people having rights and access to social mobility will decrease their own rights and social mobility. A union shop will make a workplace safer, improve pay and conditions, and improve job security. Men don’t want all of those advantages though, because other men will also get them. Women will get them, immigrants, religious minorities and people with disab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:47 AM
5

I would be much more likely to engage with him if I was sure he wasn’t concern trolling or just trying to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:47 PM
6

What do you think my beliefs about men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:46 PM
3

That’s a shame, but if he wants to get somewhere, he will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:44 PM
35

I’d politely disengage from the conversation and find something else to do. Life’s too short to deal with delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:43 AM
1

Don’t you have to self represent at small claims tribunal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:09 AM

I think that it’s a good example of every accusation being a confession.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:19 AM
2

Except that more women do die in the home front of wars. More women are raped and kidnapped and mutilated. Men are trained and given guns. Women are told to protect the home with their bare hands or risk fleeing, unarmed, on foot into hostile surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:01 PM
1

Read some Engels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:58 PM
2

Revolutionaries are grifters? Ok, now I know you have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:04 AM
2

Let me think; trying to put people back together while under fire and with no way to defend myself, or being able to defend myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:40 AM
3

Women have always worked. Your 1950s single income, middle class household is an anomaly. It only existed for a very small period of time in western, middle class, suburban areas. Undercutting wages is the fault of capitalist grifters, not working women. Who smashed unions? Reagan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:01 AM
1

Get yourself some praxis. You’ll soon find out who keeps the revolution going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:16 PM
1

I’m pushing 50. People pretend to be nice to hot girls in order to root them. That’s not being nice to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:12 PM

So why are you only blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:08 PM
6

No they’re not. https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/protecting-children-from-sexual-abuse/202305/educator-sexual-misconduct-remains-prevalent-in/amp
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:07 PM
4

Women have always worked. Being a scab is a gender neutral occupation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:03 PM

That women are inured from hardship. You are wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:01 PM

Most women are unable or unwilling to leave. I removed shrapnel from the face, scalp and back of an 86yo great grandmother who had shielded her great grandsons with her body. Their mother had been killed a week earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:56 PM

I saw just as many women as men when I was working in Donetsk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:52 PM
5

Of course it does. When women hate men, they avoid them; when men hate women, they kill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:45 PM
1

Have you ever been to a protest?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:42 PM
1

And I’m saying that people aren’t nice to us. Pushing any sort of illusion is immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:42 PM

Without some animals being more equal than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:40 PM

Yikes. That’s a lot of cash to splash on one evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:29 PM

Be born in the wrong place and you’re going to war. Do you think the bombs skirt around women and only kill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:28 PM
1

Women are under no illusion that people are nice to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:25 PM
2

I take it I won’t be seeing you at the next protest against the genocide in Gaza then? Don’t worry, we can all kick the shit out of the neo Nazis trying to block our protest without your whiny arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:25 PM

Men are. Wealthy men. That’s where your problem should lie: the rich people who shirk their responsibilities and leave the rest of us to shoulder the burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:22 PM

Why should a group of people try to appease those who despise them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:07 PM
11

Of course they do /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:06 PM

Keep scrolling to the right. The graphic moves. I have an iPhone 6. It doesn’t support TikTok. Who is doing what in you piece of rage bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:06 PM

No. Money and connections get men out of Ukraine. This is why we should be fighting a class war, not a gender war. Poor and working class women, disabled women, old women and women who have been drafted or volunteer remain. Women with caring responsibilities or working in essential services remain. You’re falling for a narrative designed to divide the working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:01 PM
2

I’m not a liberal. Us tankies don’t care who is guarding our back, as long as they are prepared to fight with us to the death. Liberalism is a gateway to fascism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:51 PM

Women are drafted into non combat roles, especially medical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:47 PM

The number of ex Russian and Ukrainian nepo babies clubbing and rooting around the EU is pretty equal sex ratio wise. Women aren’t in combat roles but you’re just as drive an ambulance or attend to wounded under fire and tell me how much fun it is. I still shit myself when there’s shooting on the tv and it’s been six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:45 PM

Look at the OP. It will show you in the graphic provided that women are drafted in the medical corps. Many of us are also drafted into catering and transport. Women are also caring for the disabled, elderly and infirm who can’t or won’t leave. 75% of positions don’t involve being given a gun, but you’re just as dead if a bomb hits your classroom or ambulance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:39 PM

Women have been fighting against the draft forever. The save our sons campaign saw many of us arrested during the world wars, Korea and Vietnam. Some women want the draft to be universal, most of us want it gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:34 PM

By other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:24 PM

Who the fuck spends $100 on going out to dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:24 PM

Who is fighting to keep the draft and to keep it male only?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:19 PM

Do you live in Ukrainian? Do you live in Gaza?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:18 PM

You forgot the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:13 PM

The women are overwhelmingly staying to defend their homeland or have been conscripted into the health corps. The women who left with children overwhelmingly did so on the insistence of their husbands and parents. A large portion of women returned to fight after securing elderly relatives and children safely abroad. Don’t talk about a situation you’ve never lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:13 PM
2

That’s not a leftist position. You’re confusing the desire to level the playing field with something nefarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:05 PM
1

I can’t logic you out of a place you got to with emotion. I’m not mad, just disappointed. It’s sad that the comrades I fight alongside of for fair wages and safe working conditions, for environmental protection and for an end to the genocide in Gaza think so little of me. But that’s ok, most men consider me a comrade, thankfully misogyny isn’t as pervasive in the left, and it’s easier to spot who you can’t rely on to hold the line beside you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:02 PM
2

Exactly. Clinton was a crony capitalist with a side order of hawkishness, which is what they wanted. The party machine fail to recognise that a woman is a progressive choice only if the woman herself is progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:53 PM
0

That’s nothing to do with hiding a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:33 AM
1

The Democrats certainly didn’t support him. I can’t see them as ever wanted to support anyone that left.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:31 AM

That’s sad. No wonder you’re all so depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:30 AM
-1

The infographic in the OP states that women are conscripted into medical positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:44 AM
1

Ahem. Which incubator of future soldiers. Women are vessels or unarmed medical and support staff. Women are conscripted into non combat roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:42 AM
2

Weren’t Pussy Riot imprisoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:40 AM
0

Protests about Gaza roll where I live to gridlock most days. Just about everyone is appalled by Israel’s unapologetic genocide of the Palestinian population. This has bugger all to with gender identity or sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:39 AM
1

He’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:33 AM
1

Hiding a pregnancy isn’t as easy as you seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:32 AM
1

Would the Dems have ever backed Sanders? He’s what Americans have always rallied against as communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:24 AM
2

Has America actually ever had a left wing party?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:22 AM
-1

What do you believe that actually is TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:19 AM

That the deaths caused by deliberate ill intent are overwhelming caused by males.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:30 AM

Which girl is saying what on TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:51 PM
4

His best mate’s wife and I organised the two of them a trip to the AFL grand final.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:52 AM
4

I’ll take my chances with a drop bear, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:22 AM

Laughs in coroner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:19 AM
1

I’m a widow. My children are all I have left of my husband, and you can take them from my cold, dead hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:24 AM
1

People said the same thing about rolling back Roe v Wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:14 AM
2

Do you honestly think that the current administration isn’t working towards that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:13 PM

No they don’t and no they won’t. They just have to do more than just show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:46 PM

My husband and I have four gorgeous, well adjusted sons. They know their value as humans and have no issues with socialisation and having a love life. We also have four terrific daughters, who are also well adjusted and winning at life. I know two people who have sex selected through IVF for daughters; my sister and a friend of hers. They met through a haemophilia support group. Their decision to have girls was a practical rather than an ideological one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:40 PM
1

What is happening in Gaza is genocide, and everyone should be appalled and protesting. This has nothing to do with sex or age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:20 AM
6

Apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:37 PM
8

Because we were 18 once, and we know she’s going to be treated like a glory hole if you get the chance. Older women protect younger women, because we’ve been there before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:00 PM
2

IWD is cupcakes usually, as is Mothers Day. Father’s Day is a BBQ. Is your organisation doing Movember, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:32 PM
2

We had a BBQ at work which was organised by the union. This is pretty standard for the public service in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:19 AM
1

Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:24 AM
2

Why would they? Everyone knows just how unlikely a rape conviction is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:49 AM

Would you want to be locked into a contract with a man who could rape you whenever he wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:37 PM

The pandemic and Trump presidency turned the oven up regarding the desire to rely on other women rather than a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:30 PM
4

You don’t think she was pushed to marry? Lmao, that woman had a spine of steel to stand up to the pressure she was dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:28 PM

They certainly did. None of the girls I did my degree with had children until their mid to late 30s. They copped a huge amount of flak over that. My daughters (in their 20s) don’t get anywhere near the amount of hassle that my nieces dealt with just 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:27 PM

Female working class solidarity isn’t taking anyone towards a two tier society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:23 PM
5

I don’t think you understand the movie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:19 AM
1

No. Boys need more 1:1 instruction, smaller class sizes, more hands on practical learning, more play based learning and more room to explore issues spatially. This costs more money than our budget setters are willing to allocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:59 PM

There is a huge amount of concern regarding the poor performance of boys at school. Unfortunately, the majority female voices of teachers, educational researchers, allied health professionals and integration workers are dismissed by the majority male voices in charge of the budget bottom line as being not as important at another tax cut for the wealthy. The men making the decisions would rather that boys fail than taxing Bezos or Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:48 PM
1

Not to the same extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:51 AM
1

Talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:49 AM
-1

So you like them for lying to you? That’s bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:50 AM
0

And yet men form the core of every conservative, reactionary, libertarian and fascist movement ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:45 AM
1

Why is that a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:16 AM

Now you’re just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:12 PM
0

We know it’s reality, we also know men have a vested interest in trying to gaslight us that it’s our fault that they behave badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:12 PM
1

That’s exactly what happened with Brock Turner. You blamed her for his behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:10 PM
1

This sub was wall to wall manosphere and red pill support for him. You all thought he was hard done by and she deserved it for being drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:09 PM
1

Same as every man complains about a psycho ex. People are cunts to those they’re falling out of love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:41 AM
1

The consensus was that the “me too” movement was trying to destroy a promising young athlete. If you were around then, you’d have remembered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:39 AM
1

I’ve had several accounts on here. I also remember it happening. His behaviour was minimised and justified by males from Donald Trump down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:25 AM
1

Not as often as males think. Mostly women prefer a night in with girlfriends to a dramatic arsehole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:24 AM
2

He was defended to the hilt on this sub and in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:14 AM
1

Seven weeks! Wow, such a depth of experience and insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:12 AM
1

Yes. Everybody should be kind and considerate towards others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:11 AM
0

Those men don’t change because they don’t need to. Their behaviour is condoned by males.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:09 AM
2

Personally I don’t think unwilling or unsafe males should be chased for child support. It’s much safer for a mother and children to be able to cut all contact and be supported by the state. Brain dead people call that communism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:08 AM
-1

It’s much easier to blame women for male behaviour than to be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:05 AM
1

All people have abusive potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:05 AM
1

Being timid doesn’t make you a good person by default, and just because you’re not bashing men doesn’t mean that you won’t bash a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:03 AM
1

Men hamster every violent or abusive incident as deserved (she asked for it) or not actually abusive (Brock Turner only had two minutes of action).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:01 AM
2

Unborn foetus for now. Until men want to move those goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:57 AM
2

Provided that his decision leaves enough time for her to legally And safely access abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:56 AM
1

Because the nice guy isn’t nice, he’s just timid of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:10 PM
0

Who do you think should be paying to feed your offspring if you walk out on your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:07 PM
4

Of course there is: defer to men, don’t be alone with strange men, don’t wear or do anything to provoke men, don’t anger men. Women are expected to manage male feeling and behaviour and are blamed when men behave badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:05 PM
9

Start shaming them for their behaviour instead of blaming the victims of their abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:02 PM
1

It’s only biologically akin to food on a population level. Your genes in particular being passed on or not is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:38 AM
1

You have no idea what anarchy is. Go read some Kropotkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:31 AM
1

And being exceptional is exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:18 AM
3

No. I don’t usually volunteer the information that I’m a woman though. IRL I have a gender neutral name (think Sam or Chris) and don’t use a title or pronouns on my signature, so people assume I’m a man and don’t try to stand over me or argue anywhere near as much as when I used Mrs or she/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:14 AM
4

Beyond reasonable doubt isn’t beyond a shadow of a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:47 AM
2

My poor spelling doesn’t negate the point I’m making. Pick up The Origin of Family, Private Property and the State. Also, have a think about why working class people are oppressed before you start sooking about communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:56 PM
2

Read some Engles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:09 AM
1

Let’s see if she feels the same way in a few year’s time while she’s still doing all the chores and childcare and he’s up the pub with the boys. Reciprocating is what is needed, not martyrdom at the alter of male approval. Having said that, my idea of a dangerous “pick me” is the woman who places the wants and feelings of men/a man above the needs and safety of others, particularly her children. Making your husband lunch on a Saturday afternoon or making sure he has an ironed shirt for Monday is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:05 AM
9

Heavy alcohol. No one wants to be dealing with a drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:56 AM
3

Men and women sacrificed everything for the revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:42 PM
3

My crappy spelling doesn’t change the point I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:47 PM
3

Working for a wage is being a parasite off the state? How did you arrive at that conclusion? As for being a loser? That’s a strange way to describe one of the most powerful and influential men of his generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:33 PM
2

Yeah, tell that to Rosa Luxembourg.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:30 PM
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Lenin was financially supported by his mother and wife. He was also reliant on his wife and mistress to act as spies and as negotiators. Your failure to understand how the middle classes joining with the proletariat being a cornerstone of Marxist theory is strange. Look at where Robespierre and Dantante came from. Stalin didn’t come from the gutter. His father was a small businessman prior to his death leaving the family impoverished, but they were later supported by a patron, and Stalin obtaine…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:26 AM
4

Kiddo wouldn’t know Engles if he popped up in his stew.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:10 AM
1

As long as the gearstick doesn’t fall out; they’re a bit prone to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:05 AM
3

30% of the population voted Republican. Lenin was ubermench.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:59 AM
1

The Cosworth or the GT?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:10 AM
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You’re a leftist, yet you don’t comprehend that women are half the revolution? Who supported Lenin so that he could be a professional revolutionary?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:58 AM
1

I liked the rush of adrenaline before heading out, and the getting to know someone new. I was also keen to do outside stuff for dates, and a trip to the beach is good no matter who you go with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:43 AM
1

Thousands of women are also killed by men that they reject. Not to mention women who are killed by ex partners, stalkers, obsessed coworkers, fathers, brothers or sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:22 AM
1

Being privileged isn’t being exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:51 PM
1

I came up with quotas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:59 PM
1

You’re saying that a suggested, unenforced quota is more powerful than generations of entrenched privilege. Uh huh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:11 AM
1

There are positions that women need to be considered for, but quotas are guidelines, not set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:30 AM
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Your assumption is that these women didn’t get there on merit. Not rewarding poorly performing men isn’t favouring women, it’s rewarding merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:46 AM
1

No. Men have just been decentered a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:04 AM
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It also requires the opportunity to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:50 AM
1

This is demonstrably untrue. Women are considered to be lesser than men, and treated accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:10 AM
2

So there aren’t twice as many ideas stolen from men, like you first said then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:08 AM
1

Which great idea or revolutionary breakthrough has been stolen from men by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:58 AM
2

In many cultures, yes. In conservative parts of your own country, yes. Until a generation or two in your country, yes. In terms of cultural hangover, still emerging. Change takes a long time, and an oppressed group doesn’t catch up on centuries of exclusion overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:57 AM
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Men are allowed by society to do more exceptional things. It’s not possible to be exceptional if you’re not allowed out of the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:56 AM
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Men have the opportunity to be seen as more than a parent. Men are seen as people, not just birthing vessels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:48 AM
1

Have you ever experienced the inside of an institute for the criminally insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:32 AM
1

I think that if you look into the evidence and research behind the raw data, read the testimonies of frontline workers and read beyond the raw data and government releases, you will get a more balanced understanding of who reoffends and why. Exposure bias is certainly a thing, but I was certainly surprised to find that the “common wisdom” was selective data presentation and romantic notions about honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:54 PM
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There are a couple of factors: Rape is notoriously hard to even bring before court. Rapists will frequently be convicted of other types of violent crimes though. There will be accusations of SVO, but nothing that has made it beyond the cop shop. Also; they tell you. The idea that rapists don’t last in jail is a myth. Rapists who annoy their celly or other men in the compound will have their crime used as an excuse to target them, but by and large crooks don’t care because they don’t see rape as …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:38 PM
2

No they’re not. I work within the criminal justice system, and SVOs are notoriously hard to rehabilitate. That’s why post release orders and supervision orders exist. It’s also why post release communities exist. Rapists, particularly violent ones, or those why prey on children or other vulnerable groups, invariably offend again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:18 PM
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Being insane and spending the rest of your life in a psychiatric institution is hardly getting away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:25 AM

There’s no such thing as a good person: everyone exists in shades of grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:53 AM
1

I’m sorry to hear that. Family can be heavy weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:23 PM
3

That’s a big assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:34 AM
3

What was your parents’ relationship like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:33 AM
1

I wasn’t describing bad social skills in my post though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:03 AM
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That’s outdated and incorrect. Systemising, compartmentalising and pattern recognition look different for women than for men, historically speaking. Your grandma having all her yarn ordered by colour, thickness, wool percentage and weight, or her buttons or spices in labelled jars, bottled seasonal produce stored by type, year and size, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:13 PM
3

Never assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:56 AM
4

Quite some time? 6 to 8 weeks after someone’s last known period isn’t very long, especially if she’s got an erratic cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:39 AM
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Abortions have always been widespread. Safe abortions not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:34 AM
2

Except that there are ways of getting around a law that is poorly enforced and full of loopholes. Do you know how much child support is collectively owed at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:32 AM
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You’re acting like men don’t walk out on their children and refuse to pay child support all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:44 AM
2

Dolphins and sea lions engage in homosexual rape, while elephant seals engage in paedophilia. Do you want to be dumber than a seal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:30 AM
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If women weren’t slut shamed for initiating, it might be something they’d consider more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:21 AM
1

I’m saying your statement above is incorrect. Having half works better than having nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:17 AM

I thought this was about colourful hair, not Binx herself. I suspect her attraction leans more towards women, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:15 AM
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Behind the bastards did a good episode on it if you’re interested in learning rather than being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:13 AM
1

She got fined though…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:12 AM
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Things aren’t as dire when one person is still bringing money in. You’re asking for a couple of months pause on your mortgage rather than being unable to put food on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:57 PM

In your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:45 PM

Why? Usually a deliberate false alarm results in a fine. It’s not like they couldn’t have continued their meeting at another venue or after the scene was cleared, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:44 PM
1

Oh I’m not saying handmaidens didn’t exist. Look at morons like Laura Loomer and Pam Bondi. It did start as a male centric movement, centred around sexually frustrated young men struggling with their sense of masculinity though. History rhymes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:46 AM
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I have no idea how much sex he did or didn’t have, but the modern manosphere is very much in lockstep with neo Nazis, much as the OG Nazis were propped up by conservative, sexually frustrated and entitled young men who felt insecure about their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:44 AM
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The white feather movement was a Great War idiosyncrasy caused by the country being under siege and literally starving. Women weren’t allowed to fight, and were understandably frustrated by watching their children starve while able young men refused to help out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:27 AM
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Plenty of women are still fighting and supporting the fight from the Ukrainian home front. Women send their children abroad with elderly parents in order to stay and fight. Almost all the medical staff I worked with over there were female.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:15 AM
4

TIL Pillipe Petaine was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:05 AM
1

Being educated makes a woman want to invade Poland?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:51 AM
0

So the bright hair works well as a screening tool to keep the MRA types away then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:00 AM
0

What were her exact words and actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:59 AM
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She yelled at some people during a protest, then got death and rape threats, got doxxed and got stalked for several years. Super overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:42 AM
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That’s red hair though, not blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:36 PM
1

If you think your rights aren’t next, you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:19 PM
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It has nothing to do with human bodies adapting. When sex isn’t worth the risk, women won’t have it with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:52 AM
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No. It makes it less likely that she’ll have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:45 AM
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Given a large percentage of abortions occur within marriage, removing abortion condemns families to poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:34 AM
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I recognise the dismay too. It’s also what you’re seeing in these women, just presented differently. Even within a marriage, people aren’t wanting children. A household needs two incomes to stay afloat, jobs are insecure, housing is increasingly difficult to afford, consumables are skyrocketing in price, we’re facing an environmental catastrophe and living in a time of political unrest. Bringing children into that isn’t something a lot of people want to do right now. Throw in the fact that mothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:52 PM
1

What job do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:53 AM
1

Because killing the brute was the only way to escape from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:08 AM
1

What was the percentage of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:53 AM
1

What job do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:38 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:07 AM
1

Would you want to be starting a family right now? I certainly wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:02 AM
1

My point went completely over yours, that is. I appreciate that you’re angry and lashing out, but the person you’re going to hurt most is yourself. You need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:27 AM
1

So is it 90 or 95? What job do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:21 AM
1

IT is notoriously misogynistic, so there goes your theory that indoor jobs aren’t feral
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:27 AM
1

We shouldn’t need to. America’s circling the drain these days, and prostitution rates go up during times of dearth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:12 PM
1

Stop gatekeeping and women will stay. All the girls I went through uni with moved sideways after a decade at most because of hostile working conditions. As in having to stand guard for each other at the toilet and barricade their bedroom doors. One friend had to beat someone off with the tripod of her theodolite. You shouldn’t have to do that at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:31 PM
1

We need population contraction because Earth can only support a finite number of people. The best way to do that is to incentivise families to only have one or two children. Give parents options outside of the home and have a robust social security net so people aren’t reliant on adults children to care for them. I’m a big hypocrite with half a dozen children, but families like mine should be rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:23 PM
1

Sure, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:07 AM
1

Except that they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:06 AM
1

That horse bolted in the 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:05 PM
1

Hate isn’t rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:03 PM
1

Anyone who clicks on the link can see that you’re wrong. Go sit down before you hurt yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:56 AM
1

Oh dear, you sound a bit too emotional for a conversation. Go lie down for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:55 AM
1

Firstly, the Encyclopaedia Brittanica article starts with “Gamergate, an online harassment campaign…” so you’re caught out in a lie right off the bat. Secondly, nobody has ever said that women are solely responsible for OHS. We certainly were part of it though, so that’s another lie of yours I’ve had to correct. If you can’t carry on a conversation without lying, then there’s really no point. We both know that everyone following this conversation can look up what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:26 AM
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Sigh, getting emotional and using bold text doesn’t erase the fact that you’re incorrect. I lived through Gamergate, and I experienced how men behaved. It was never about ethics. It was revenge and gatekeeping. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate https://www.britannica.com/topic/Gamergate-campaign Don’t try and whitewash your dirty behaviour. As for OHS and why we have it? Thank women. https://www.britannica.com/story/radium-girls-the-women-who-fought-for-their-lives-in-a-killer-workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:58 AM
1

Gamergate was a jilted ex boyfriend siccing his psycho buddies on first his ex, and then other women in the industry. It was gatekeeping and jealousy, and I lived through it, so you’re on a hiding to nowhere trying to gaslight me. Where are Roosh and Milo now? Both were pretty stupid to think that neofascists would actually accept them. Title 9 was about opening previously shut doors to women. It wasn’t some conspiracy to oppress men. Men actively gatekeep women out of higher paying jobs, more d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:31 AM
1

Rising grocery prices have more to do with grocery store chains profiteering than farm workers being paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:54 AM
2

My poor nephew freaked right out when he saw one of my chooks lay an egg. He had no idea where they came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:53 AM
1

They exist. They’re just not reported on Fox. Arsenic tastes mildly of almonds and is easy to procure. Cyanide is found in stone fruit pits and can be extracted in a backyard still. https://retrospectjournal.com/2024/03/03/aqua-tofana-bottled-revenge-of-the-17th-century-wife/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:46 AM
1

So you’d rather men be killed than having to make themselves a better person?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:34 AM
1

It’s a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:10 AM
2

Of course the Democrats are grifters too. The entire American political system is a shitshow of vested interests and corruption. You have a choice between crony capitalism and neofascism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:06 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:03 AM
1

Look up how the rate of male murder victims within marriage dropped after divorce became more accessible. Strychnine in his tea used to be the only way out of an abusive marriage back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:30 AM
1

Most men don’t do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:24 AM
5

Then they need to think more and fight the brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:24 AM
2

Women are currently choosing average guys. Ordinary people choose other ordinary people every day. I also doubt that oppression of women will make them want you. They’ll just live with each other and avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:23 AM
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One, you’re wrong, and two, correlation isn’t causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:20 AM
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Swap brother for sister. Throwing away both is still stupid and irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:19 AM
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Think about it as being like birthday cake. If your brother and you were both given a slice of cake, are you rational throwing both his and your pieces on the floor because you wanted only you to have some?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:05 AM
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Except that this type of thinking isn’t rational. You might think it is, but it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:27 AM
6

Except that there isn’t any population decline. There is a birth rate decline because people don’t have so many kids for one or two to survive. There are more people alive on this planet than there ever has been before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:26 AM
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Except that we’re not experiencing a population contraction. There are more human beings on earth today than there ever has been in the past. We’re experiencing lowering of birth rates, largely driven decreased child and infant mortality rates, industrialisation and urbanisation. Feminism is correlated, not the cause, although women being able to access healthcare, education and paid employment certainly helps with keeping from needing to have a dozen children to keep themselves from starvation …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:12 AM
4

Hurting yourself in order to hurt someone else, and creating a lose/lose situation isn’t rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:02 AM
1

Most of the violent criminal gangs are white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:47 AM
5

If America had compulsory voting and prevented rampant disenfranchisement, things would look very different too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:47 AM
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Not sure how that’s relevant, but crack on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:45 AM
4

The trees kept voting for the axe, because they thought that since its handle was wood, it was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:41 AM
3

Ok, let me try this again. The money spent on keeping people healthy, educated and employable is paid back several times over in prevention of treating the fallout of the lack of healthcare, education and employability. People who commit crimes brought about by poor education, healthcare and employability are much less prone to recidivism when they are rehabilitated rather than just punished while incarcerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:34 AM
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So you’re telling me that men aren’t rational and don’t care how much they get hurt as long as someone else gets hurt potentially more?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:30 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:06 AM
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I lived through the 2000s. Also through the 1980s and 1990s. My high school refused to allow girls to take higher maths, physics or computer science, as it considered to be taking opportunities from boys. Gamergate was entitled men gatekeeping video games, not because they were oppressed. They were used to privilege, so anything approaching equality felt like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:04 AM
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What do you mean there’s no such thing as free healthcare and education? Keeping people happy, healthy, educated and employable is what stops us needing to spend so much on care for people with chronic and disabling illnesses. It lowers the risk of being incarcerated or unemployed. Absolutely there are people who need to be locked up forever. Rehabilitation of people who were stupid, impoverished or made a mistake is much more socioeconomically sound than turning them into chronic criminals thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:51 AM
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TIL nursing, cleaning, social care and teaching aren’t dirty or dangerous. You also realise that it’s men gatekeeping the highly paid “dangerous and dirty” jobs so women aren’t employed, I’m sure. Also, not a liberal. Liberalism and libertarianism is what caused all of this stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:42 AM
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Women cooperate with men, just not men who want to harm them. A man going around saying “your body my choice” isn’t going to make himself popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:38 AM
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https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/why-2020-biden-voters-sat-out-2024-1235318121/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:35 AM
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Fuck neoliberal feminism. Capitalism is a skirt is still capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:30 AM
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You haven’t accomplished anything though. You’ve just fucked yourselves over out of spite. History has a funny way of repeating itself, so just watch your rights get eroded. The return of grinding poverty and deaths from starvation and exposure. No access to clean water or medicine. 18th century child mortality rates. Dickensian workplace practices. What’s worthwhile about any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:29 AM
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They do. That’s a large part of Engles’ writings, how women are oppressed by men as well as by the bourgeois. It doesn’t mean that men aren’t going to be utterly fucked over by Trump though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:03 AM
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We’re laughing because you think it’s going to end with our rights being taken away. You’re next, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:38 AM
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You need to read more, young man. Humanity has skated close to extinction several times since we swung out of the trees. We’re also the most populous we’ve ever been, so nowhere near extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:37 AM
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Men and women are, historically children were too. If Trump gets the labour reforms he wants, they will again. Do you honestly think that the waitresses being paid peanuts for long hours on their feet copping abuse or the nurses wiping bums or cleaning out wounds are living life on easy mode? The teachers getting assaulted by students or dealing with bodily fluids when a student throws up or wets their pants are enslaving you? The carers and cleaners mopping up and scrubbing toilets are your opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:35 AM
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The thing is, we are laughing. Know why? Because Trump isn’t going to do anything to make things better or easier or fairer for you. You are just useful idiots for him to grift off, but you refuse to see it because it’s easier to fool people than it is to get them to acknowledge that they’ve been fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:27 AM
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Men didn’t vote against the Democrats. The election was pretty close once everything was counted. Trump won because people who voted Biden abstained from voting for Harris. Voluntary voting is stupid, and leads to political polarisation within democracies. It’s a relic and soft gerrymander and needs to be done away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:56 AM
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Leftist platforms like organised labour, fair pay, safer workplaces, breaking down of enforcement of gender roles, free healthcare, free education, dismantling of the military industrial complex, prison reform to promote rehabilitation rather than retribution and environmental protection oppress men? That’s completely daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:51 AM
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So you’re cutting off your nose to spite your face then? Sounds rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:48 AM
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I’m not the person claiming to be a slave here. Men and women are all enslaved by the bourgeois. Keeping people fighting each other instead of overthrowing the corrupt system that keeps us all as wage slaves is why the boot is on your neck. It has nothing to do with Susan next door wanting to access safe and affordable access to contraceptives. It’s the bourgeois, the people like Trump, Musk, Clinton, Epstein, etc… who are keeping you down. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:47 AM
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Same interests and best interests aren’t necessarily the same thing. Working class people often vote against things like labour unions, universal healthcare, universal suffrage, higher marginal tax rates for wealthy people and proportional taxes for multinationals. Look up the concept of the lumpenproletariat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:41 AM
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Firstly; population fluctuations are a constant throughout human history and prehistory. Secondly; in a world of political instability, climate catastrophe and economic collapse, why is feminism your bogeyman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:38 AM
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Women’s rights being safeguarded make it less likely for the world to be burned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:05 AM
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Except that they don’t realise that it’s grifters like Trump that cause this unfairness. Lumpenproleteriat is the term for working class people who vote against their best interests because they don’t understand or don’t care about the bigger picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:04 AM
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That’s the “trust me bro” school of economic theory I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:03 AM
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That’s also a contributing factor. Ask yourself why, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:02 AM
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You’ve stumbled face first into the point that women aren’t paid enough. Teachers, nurses, early childhood educators and veterinarians are extremely poorly remunerated for the work they do. Jobs done primarily by women are devalued purely because women are considered inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:43 PM
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You’re acting like women aren’t shamed for being frigid or old maids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:50 AM
1

Dating issues for my sons will be eclipsed by the myriad of social, environmental, political and economic catastrophes we’re stumbling into.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:46 AM
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A father not caring about his children after he loses sexual access to their mother is his fault, not anyone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:34 AM
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People thought other authoritarian leaders were jokes before they took over too. Stalin was described as a grey blur, and Napoleon as a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:17 PM
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I prefer the onlygrans concept where old ladies teach young men to sew on buttons or cook dinner for themselves. My mother in law is a priceless asset to her grandchildren with that type of thing when I don’t have enough hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:14 PM
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Sex and gender are different things. You can change your gender, but you can’t change your sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:05 AM
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Trump isn’t dumb. It’s an act; people are too busy laughing at the fool to realise that they’ve been fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:02 AM
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Defunding police? That’s never been a policy by anyone. Redistribution of police resources needs to happen, but nobody has the spine for that. Gender affirming care of minors isn’t policy so much as it’s not actively discouraged, but there’s no such thing as sex changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:04 PM
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Guys are competing hard for tits and arse. Look for substance and live your values. You’ll find an empathetic woman volunteering at a soup kitchen or animal shelter, not on onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:33 PM
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Do you know any women as friends? Or as workmates?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:31 PM

Those of us who study history can read the signs. The removal of rights from marginalised groups, the dismantling of the fourth estate, interference in the market for the benefit of the ruling elite, the enmeshing of church and state, and we’re about to see a military purge. People are being taken from public and incarcerated without charge. Do you remember how that went last time? Look up Horst Wessel and see what is trying to be done with Charlie Kirk. Talk with your elders, they’ll have heard…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:29 PM

The idea that the American Democrats are leftists is absolutely ridiculous. They’re centre right at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:23 PM

Lmao, that’s why all the leftist places get banned I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:17 PM

Aren’t you a funny little pizza cutter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:42 PM
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I said what I said. It’s a shame that so many people who slept through history class as school are now making the rest of us what it repeat itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:46 AM
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Then say leftists. FYI, the American Democratic Party are neoliberal crony capitalists, not leftists. If they were leftists, they would actually be accomplishing something rather than watching their country slide into a fascist dictatorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:24 AM
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So they kill themselves for fun then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:01 AM
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Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:58 AM
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She’s not. This is how partners behave. We love and support each other. It goes both ways, my husband was my rock when my sister died, and I cared for him after a car accident meant learning to walk and talk again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:50 AM
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Since when have liberals been anti social media? Liberalism is about the invisible hand of the free market directing society, not about imposing regulation or censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:17 AM
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Practice is part of it. Having the courage to move past bias and convention is another. Liberal v Leftist is a bit tricky for some people to wrap their heads around, but it pertains to the role of the state as opposed to the market. In a liberal democracy, the state is a guide, allowing the free market to direct (for want of a better word) itself and therefore direct the economy. A leftist state controls the economy, sets prices and regulates the cash rate. The social dynamics don’t differ in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:29 PM
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Men tend to be liberal until they have to put their money where their mouth is, I’m afraid. FWIW, I’m a leftist, not a liberal. I think equity of opportunity should be enforced and robust safety nets should be in place to catch those who can’t support themselves. It’s not going to happen until we have a revolution and burn identity politics to the ground in favour of working class solidarity through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:04 PM
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Men get favourable treatment regarding opportunities to work. Women are expected to care for elderly relatives as well as their own children. Women are the jam in the generation sandwich, whereas men aren’t expected to take on any caring responsibilities and can work accordingly. Let me put it this way: you’re asked to work late. You can say yes, with maybe the caveat of calling home and asking your partner to put your dinner aside in the warming drawer under the oven. Your female colleague? She…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:35 AM
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Someone caring for elderly parents and young children doesn’t have the opportunity to work the kinds of hours and seek out higher duties like an unencumbered does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:14 AM
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Male nurses are also much more likely to have a wife at home handling the domestic front. He only does one day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:05 AM
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What makes you assume that women are never better than men at a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:04 AM
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I interviewed 75 people last time there was an opening in my department. A popular career path means we get to be very picky. It also involves cadavers in the interview, and most people don’t do well with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:03 AM
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I’ve worked with women who can diffuse a situation without a sidearm being unclipped, and I’ve seen men getting the shit beat out of them because they think the solution to every problem is to throw hands. Physical strength is only one tool in a person’s arsenal. Those of us who work in dangerous environments every day know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:53 AM
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Nobody in your team knew how to use a forklift or trolley?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:47 AM
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You don’t need to take my word for it. The cycle of abuse is a well documented phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:03 PM
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Unfortunately it does. People seek out what feels familiar, and for victims of abuse, the love bombing of an early abusive relationship feels familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:34 PM
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My job is figuring out how people die. It’s tragically common. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7476782/#:~:text=Key%20findings%20include%3A%20(1),adults%20who%20report%20experiencing%20multiple https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00148-003-0177-7
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:00 AM
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People who have grown up with abuse often find themselves in abusive relationships as adults. This is a long established phenomenon. I’m a little shocked that you aren’t familiar with the concept of intergenerational violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:41 AM

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Incel-related_violence https://www.newark.rutgers.edu/news/study-reveals-how-incels-become-violent-extremists https://researchportal.murdoch.edu.au/esploro/outputs/journalArticle/A-Crime-Script-Analysis-of-Involuntary/991005540488707891
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:52 PM
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Yep, that’s the way it works. It’s not just a drug culture, but a crimenogenic one. College dude is out of his depth and needs to stick with bourgeois college girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:12 PM
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Friend’s ex or sister, ex’s friends or sister, siblings friends. It all gets a bit tangled when we’re talking procriminal behaviour and attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:32 PM

Elliot Roger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:27 PM
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lol no. There are plenty of people who only know DV, and that’s where they stay. The partner may change, but the abuse remains. It’s almost always an intergenerational phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:26 PM
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Are there any conditions around this surrender?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:22 PM

Absolutely. Capitalism shits on us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:32 AM

I think two things can be true at the same time. Being able to make yourself more attractive with makeup and clothing is much more available and socially acceptable for females than males. The flip side of this is that a woman or girl is going to be judged much more harshly about her looks than men or boys are. Much higher rates of eating disorders hold this out. The strict enforcement of gender norms hurts the men wanting to be beautiful, as well as the women wanting to be judged by things othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:13 AM
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That line of thinking is exactly why post war governments created welfare states. A cohesive society is one where those who can’t look after themselves are cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:04 PM
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Yes. This is a ticket out of intergenerational poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:01 PM
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When was the last time you worried about being murdered by your date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:46 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:38 AM
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So you like the idea of the elderly and disabled dying of starvation and exposure?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:36 AM

When no taxes are collected, how will these men drive along the road to meet a woman? What do you think your taxes pay for? Good grief libertarians are braindead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:35 AM
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Men worry about a woman laughing at him; women are worried about a man drugging, raping or killing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:27 AM
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A university is a larger, more prestigious institution, often containing several colleges within it’s campus. There’s a greater focus on research and development compared to vocational and undergraduate education.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:16 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:12 AM
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I’m not going to judge people for being prepared to do what they need to in order to survive or to better themselves. Just because I’m not prepared to do something doesn’t give me the right to look down on someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:58 AM
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I wouldn’t do either. We all have our limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:52 AM
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And I went through med by delivering pizzas. All I’m saying is that sex work is an option that some people I knew took, and that I don’t think any less of them for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:02 AM
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Going to University is a time honoured way of dragging yourself out of poverty. If you don’t get a scholarship, you need to work to pay your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:48 AM
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Do you think the people scrubbing bathrooms, making telesales calls or doing night fill at the supermarket enjoy it either?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:43 AM
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I’m in favour of a UBI and fully subsidised healthcare and education, so you’re arguing with the wrong person about the banality of the worship of money. Shaming people for selling their body to survive or get ahead in life is puritanical nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:38 AM
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I’m not sure if the OP, or TRP in general, has the capacity to differentiate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:24 AM
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Why is that funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:05 AM
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Some do, some don’t. In my experience, being attractive and able to hold an intelligent conversation were what kept young women being hired as escorts. Sex was a low end job, and not something the university girls put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:04 AM
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Did you have any female friends at University uthat weren’t being supported by their families?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:27 AM
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Escorting is being someone’s +1. Big difference between that and streetcrawling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:26 AM
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University rather than college, and escorting rather than turning tricks. Being a pretty, intelligent young thing on the arm of a businessman pays much better and is much less risky than streetcrawling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:52 AM
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Yes. As a University student, it was relatively common as a way of paying your way. Don’t fool yourself that it’s only women, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:17 AM
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Because that’s the policy their lives and the lives of their families were arranged around. There’s similar outrage for raising the pension age from 65 to 68. People push back when the terms and conditions that they based their retirement on get changed. Personally, I think that retirement age shouldn’t vary according to sex. The way Corbyn tried to sell this fell flat though, like a great deal of Corbyn’s platform. You might want to take a look at who was invested in making him unelectable and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:55 AM

Do you understand what grandfathering in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:26 AM

If you read the link you provided, you will see that the opposition was about the pension age not being grandfathered. Women who had planned on retirement who were suddenly being made to push back plans at no notice. There was also a general antipathy towards Corbyn to confound the issue. It’s now a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:12 AM

Women in Australia and the UK weren’t opposed to equalising the official retirement age. There was generalised opposition to the retirement age being lifted from 65 to 68 for everyone, and opposition to the idea of people who had become too frail to work not being allowed to access the pension early.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:45 AM

Maybe the voters in Argentina should stop voting in such regressive regimes. Men can retire at whatever age they want too, they just need to fund their retirement until they’re eligible for a state pension.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:17 AM

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/State_Pension_(United_Kingdom) Laws from the country I grew up in. Legally, you can retire whenever the heck you like. Accessing the state pension for either sex isn’t possible until you’re 68.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:15 AM

The legal rights in the country I quoted are that men and women have the same retirement age. If your country is regressive, then you need to examine why lawmakers want to remove women from the workplace. Being forced into early retirement isn’t a privilege any more than being denied retirement is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:08 AM

Mum’s 73 and still working. She’ll die in harness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:42 AM

https://www.actu.org.au/media-release/women-pushed-out-of-work-early-due-to-taboo-menopause-issues/ https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/like-ants-on-my-skin-women-are-retiring-years-before-they-want-to-this-may-be-why/846v1z3bu
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:39 AM

Isn’t the retirement age in Australia 68 accross the board these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:35 PM

I have mixed feelings on this. Good on him for gaming the system, but undermining the validity of transgender people is a dick move. If this person’s transition involves hormonal treatment, then they will experience the symptoms of menopause which are the reasons for the earlier retirement age for women. Improving the treatment of menopause will mean that women are able to stay in the workplace longer. Improving the social welfare structures within our communities will allow both genders to reti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:33 PM
1

Look at all the statues from the antiquities and the renaissance. Almost all of them are of beautiful naked or scantily clad young men. The male body as an object of beauty is only less pervasive now than historically due to homophobia. Beauty standards are dictated by the male gaze, and if men were more attracted to men, men would be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:33 PM
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Do you throw your socks at the wall to see if they stick, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:43 AM
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Have fun wearing dirty clothes, young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:01 AM
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I’m not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:03 PM
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Who’s in a good place financially in their 20s or 30s these days? I don’t envy the kids trying to make a go of things these days, it’s ridiculous how much the cost of living has ratcheted since my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:10 PM
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My collie and I can check out things that go bump in the night quite adequately. My husband tends to sleep through them. He slept through a wombat knocking the back door in and blustering around the hallway during a thunderstorm recently, which was very impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:06 PM
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There aren’t financial benefits to marriage beyond what would be present in a de facto union.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:01 PM
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When I was married? If we wanted to live together openly (rather than “in sin”) and have a family. This is certainly true for conservative families and those within certain social circles. My kids can live with a lover, but if they want children? There’s got to be a ring first. For girls that’s a legal contract that there’s a father responsible for their child’s welfare, rather than a flakey baby daddy to piss off without leaving a forwarding address at the first sign of colic or teething.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:59 PM

I’m the only “first wife” left in my husband’s circle of friends from university. It’s bizarre going to a function and talking with all these girls who are similar ages to my daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:40 PM
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I can’t say I’ve noticed a huge difference. I currently have a bitch who humps other dogs. She’s boss sheepdog and makes sure the others all know it. Annoying AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:23 AM
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Dogs hump no matter if you fix them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:32 AM

Except that it’s not. But if you want to be obtuse, then crack on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:06 PM

You need to understand the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:54 AM
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It’s the whether you say something before or after the fact that’s the difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:36 AM

100 years ago, my grandfathers and their brothers all met their wives in church or through friends/family. His family had to approve of her, and her family had to approve of him, otherwise you eloped and left everything and everyone behind. Successful men had wide social circle, a well thought of family and steady employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:28 AM

Being rugged and capable doesn’t exclude being progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:18 AM
7

Women aren’t blamed for being raped? Roflmao. You have no fucking idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:30 AM
2

Women voting for Trump is like poor people, LGTBQI people, disabled people or CALD people voting for Trump. Lumpenproletariat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:19 AM
11

Have you ever lived in a conservative community or congregation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:25 PM
4

Do you have a source for that meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:24 PM
5

The difference is that women aren’t having sex with the undesirable men either. Men want to fuck a hot, fast woman and marry a chaste woman. The hypocrisy is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:11 PM
3

It’s a lack of attraction, not insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:09 PM
1

It was as much of an observation about young men wanting to root around then marry a virgin as it was a joke. It was calling out hypocrisy and warning me to not put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:57 AM
1

Yo granny is the new yo momma
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:47 PM
1

That’s why those types of sayings hold true over the generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:43 PM
-2

That one hit home for you, didn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:36 PM
0

He isn’t in the above post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:35 PM
-4

There’s an old joke that my granny used to tell me: Q: why do men prefer virgins? A: because they can’t handle criticism. It’s all about coddling their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:57 AM
0

Imagine if you could have a preference without being vile towards the women who don’t display the preferred characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:54 AM
2

He’s a root rat. Held in the same kind of opinion as one holds a randy Billy goat or the kind of dog that humps your leg.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:31 AM
4

Most women are like this. Some of us have issues with the abusive nature of the porn industry, but almost all of us don’t care that our partner notices hot people. Us women also notice hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:37 AM

Tell me you don’t understand economics without telling me that you don’t understand economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:16 AM
1

People are amazing. We are where the falling angel meets the rising ape. Some people are cunts. But those are the exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:51 AM
1

What’s dystopian about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:47 AM
1

Dogs are better people than people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:46 AM
2

I dare say women would just find comfort in each other, and maybe adopt children if they needed to be mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:42 AM
0

Women seeing the world as scarier comes from a lifetime of being socialised to be wary of strange men lurking in dark, isolated locations. Men aren’t socialised to be wary after childhood. A dog makes a better protector than an unknown or untrustworthy man. My border collie is braver and more loving and loyal than any person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:10 AM
25

Given that women have already “flown” (can and do survive without male permission to partake in the socioeconomic sphere), it’s really seen as a non issue by all but a few loudly needy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:22 AM
1

It was 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:29 AM
1

<image> True. Not much room in that back seat to pull a root, I’m afraid. There was a panel van version, so you might have more luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:34 PM
1

I work in an industry that deals overwhelmingly with dead bodies. All the CCTV isn’t there to stop theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:44 AM
1

Not that car. This one. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:29 PM
1

As a woman, I’m telling you that you’re talking out your hat. Also, it’s a 7, not a 77.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:15 PM
1

Women with taste do. A man who has the patience, resources and motivation to care for a vintage car is going to take very good care of the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:46 PM
4

I’d figure he wasn’t interested in maintaining contact and jog on. I do it myself in situations where I have no interest in talking to anyone there again (train rides where the person opposite wants to make small talk type situations).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:18 AM
4

I don’t believe it for a minute. Men want a root. That’s it. Alive isn’t even a necessity for some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:04 PM
6

Grossed out and turned off rather than offended. It shows that he’s a desperate root rat looking for a warm hole. That’s not attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:24 AM
2

Feminists are generally very pro not insisting on unwilling men to pay for the children they sired. It’s a massive flashpoint for domestic violence and financial exploitation. It’s should be the role of the state to care for the vulnerable, not force them to be at the mercy of a potentially abusive parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:52 AM
1

Which women are these?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:33 AM
0

1:1 rates. Caused a massive scandal when Queen Victoria realised everyone worked topless due to the heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:41 PM
1

Satire written last century by someone who was absolutely brutalised by men. Also extremely mild compared to common manosphere rhetoric by people like Paul Elam or Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:49 AM
1

Do so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:29 AM
1

Who’s the paedo? Release the Epstein files…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:27 AM
3

Using a sex toy while fantasising is very different to actually wanting to be in a situation where you would have bad sex with a rotten person. We’ve all read The Hobbit, but do you really want to find a dragon?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:27 AM
5

Is there a popular sex trafficker woman that’s popular right now? Who is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:24 AM
1

I had just been reading about Erin Patterson, tbh. Swap out mushrooms for jellybeans or jammy dodgers if you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:22 AM

Cry harder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:55 AM

Be being attracted to and feeling safe and secure with the person a woman is having sex with. Or by using battery operated devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:54 AM

And women can organically consider a love of Trump or Tate to be a massive red flag and avoid you like the plague. When you tell people who you are, don’t cry when they believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:30 AM

Do any women like Tate? Maybe stupid or demented ones do I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:28 AM
3

I was just spitballing regarding the first two. They’re probably garbage. My personal “theory “ is that neoliberalism fractures society, and loneliness is a symptom of that. Women are better at filling that void platonically than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:26 AM

Why are you so buttmad that a hot successful guy who says positive things has been suggested as an example of positive masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:23 AM

Not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:35 AM

What’s extreme about two of the central figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:32 AM

He’s a successful actor with the courage to put his money where his mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:15 AM
2

Maybe heterosexuality isn’t as hardwired as we once thought it was? Potentially women are evolving into an animal who only tolerates male attention cyclically? My guess is that young women get all the support and non sexual intimacy they need from their girlfriends, that they don’t want to hobble their professional trajectory by having children, and that they’d prefer to be the star of their own show instead of the supporting character in someone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:07 AM
6

She’s explained herself already
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:59 AM

I think avoiding a potentially dangerous situation is sensible. Especially when putting yourself into that situation holds minimal appeal, regardless of potential danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:54 AM

If a tiny fraction of mushrooms were toxic, wouldn’t you prefer to know that they existed than to be ignorant?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:46 AM

Bradshaw, George and Kenney all do. Freeman has previously, as has Pascal. Scott Pape is a good one if making money is your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:33 AM

I don’t. I call it displaying situational awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:58 AM

Being aware isn’t being scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:50 AM

Garbage. They’re just the easy, empty calorie ones that your social media algorithm directs you towards. Men like Pedro Pascal, Keanu Reeves, Morgan Freeman are positive male role models for the celebrity culture lovers. Men like Rob Kenney or Dr Alex George are positive male role model influencers. Rory Bradshaw is fitness is your thing. Sir David Attenborough if you care about our natural environment. Use your favourite search engine to look up any of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:42 AM

The posts on here and around the manosphere in general have made me much less sympathetic to male cries of loneliness. Why would I sympathise with someone who idolises someone like Andrew Tate or Donald Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:23 AM
1

WRX?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:24 AM
2

Owning and maintaining/restoring a classic is a hobby. Rallying or show and shines are a hobby. Owning a wankermobile isn’t a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:20 AM
1

One of my workmates has an Austin 7. It garners plenty of interest, but only from the fathers and grandfathers of the girls he wants to attract. My husband drove a Camira when we met. I liked it because I could dust him in my Escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:18 AM
7

Some are, some aren’t. Some occupations tend to attract dreadful people, so a woman working in civil engineering will deal with a different variety of dickhead to a woman working in telesales, and both will encounter more sexist fuckwits than a woman working in social care or NFPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:19 AM
2

I think that people who choose to work in the sex industry should have fair wages and conditions, OHS considerations, penalty rates, sick, family and annual leave, as well as a pension fund and union oversight. I think people who find themselves in the sex industry against their will should be liberated and compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:00 AM
11

Except that we’d prefer a cup of tea and a good book to some red pill schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:43 AM
11

I think this may have been true back in the day - I was certainly told by “well meaning” people to let the boys win or they’d never like me - but today? Nah. Possibly it’s just a good way of weeding out the neurotic, insecure types.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:30 PM
1

I take it you can back those claims up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:42 AM
1

Oh dear, now we’re threatening social Darwinism. Nothing like a bit of Nazi ideology to try and convince us all you’re being rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:55 PM
1

That’s more to do with cost of living pressures and socioeconomic penalties for motherhood providing a disincentive to reproduce. A market led economy isn’t going to solve the same problems that it created.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:45 PM
4

So your solution is to threaten women with violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:12 PM
1

Muh great replacement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:11 PM
13

Your threat about the majority of fighting age men being single, so watch out if you mock them is a threat of violence. Threats aren’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:17 AM
9

Fighting back against your oppressors is completely different to threatening a group of people because they don’t want to put up with your shit any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:07 AM
7

Threatening people isn’t going to invoke their kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:52 AM
3

I see that reading isn’t your forte. Hopefully the law catches up with you before you actually kill anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:51 AM
12

Making threats won’t make anyone want to touch your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:27 AM
1

That’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:41 PM
2

Except that it isn’t. Earth’s population is the highest that it’s ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:33 AM
1

Nope. My weight has fluctuated through several pregnancies, and I’ve always preferred solid men. Nothing terribly muscular, maybe what gay men call bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:56 PM
1

You have made your way into your position by emotion. No logic will sway you. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:52 PM
1

Who is looking after the children? Who is caring for those who can’t care for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:43 AM

Unarmed, helpless civilians are the overwhelming casualties of war. Who was killed by agent orange? It wasn’t just soldiers. It was mostly women and children. Now it is the children of those initially affected, who are being cared for by women. Nobody says that men don’t suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:29 AM

I wouldn’t do it, but I don’t see a problem. Some people just want to be scandalised perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:22 AM

Everything you have just type is garbage. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:21 AM

How old were you when you got together? A 15yo with a 24yo is a much bigger deal than a 30 yo with a 38yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:12 AM

Americans are completely unhinged. That’s all you needed to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:10 AM

And they lose their lives. Innocent, unarmed bystanders are the overwhelming victims of wars. Why is that even controversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:10 AM
1

You just said my comment was a strawman, then literally repeated it as your opinion. Pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:57 AM
1

TIL, there are currently no women performing caring responsibilities anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:16 PM
1

Says you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:15 PM
2

That’s a bloody big sook for someone who’s never had to get his hands dirty. How about you come over here and find out, you big Jessie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:52 AM
1

Of course. You still don’t understand affirmative action though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:50 AM
2

I see women cops regularly in my workplace. They’re less likely to spew at the sight of a dead body or bits of body than the blokes are for some reason. More likely to see women than men screws dealing with the aftermath of a code black, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:48 AM
1

That’s not being a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:45 AM
2

Downvoting me doesn’t make you correct
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:56 AM
2

Is it free will if you’re being actively discouraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:23 AM
1

The feminist push for women working in trades has had patchy results. A decent part of the problem is men in the industry not wanting to work alongside women, and being actively hostile about it. One of my cousins is an environmental engineer, and she spends a great deal of time and energy preventing the men on tools from trying to assault any of the female chainies or apprentices. I’m not talking hazing here - although that’s fucked up too - but things like dragging girls out of portaloos or tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:21 AM
2

Except that we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:51 AM
1

Tell me that you have no idea as to what DEI actually entails without telling me that you have no idea what DEI actually entails…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:50 AM
5

You can live a good life without healthcare? lol. That’s too stupid to even take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:04 AM
3

Your mum never cuddled you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:01 AM
0

We’re not fleeing you shitcunt. Those of us who need to take the old, the young, the frail and the sick out of harm’s way have been allowed to do so. Many return to fight for our home afterwards. Wind your ugly neck in about things you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:58 AM
2

And when you break your leg?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:40 AM
4

Population crisis my arse. It’s a correction due to overpopulation, and it needs to be worldwide. Living standards and female emancipation needs to go global so that humanity doesn’t destroy itself. You also forgot to answer the first of my question. Who taught you to use a spoon? Wipe your arse? Blow your nose? Get dressed? Read and write?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:34 AM
4

It’s strange that you think that there are no skilled women, and that women are incapable of learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:30 AM
3

Because I’ve been fixed, just like the cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:51 AM
1

Who has a list? It’s sex and dating, not grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:45 AM
11

Yes, you are completely and utterly wrong. The bizarre notion that men built “everything” is childish stolen valour from a fantasy. Who taught you to feed yourself and wipe your arse? Who delivered you? Who taught you to read and write? Who has been doing that since society began?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:39 AM
8

There’s a precedent for all men suddenly being unavailable. Guess what? Everything trucked along just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:31 AM
7

By definition there are more people at the bottom (enslaved) than at the top (depur). Those at the bottom also have the ability to withhold their labour and passively resist. I’d like to see you try and square up to some of the women I’ve worked with in law enforcement. You would shit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:07 AM
8

You’re just butthurt that you can’t actively oppress women in modern society. I’m sure you and your ilk will try, but you can’t put a genie back in a bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:58 AM
10

And if not for the women who are also employed in the industry. You don’t operate your tools with your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:55 AM
3

Why the fuck not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:53 AM
5

Yes. A friend of mine is a once a fortnight parent as she’s an orthopaedic surgeon, while her ex and his wife both work part time in general practice and are primary caregivers for their three kids. People carry on like she’s six Hitlers for knowing her limitations and not having a tug of war over her kids just to uphold obsolete gender stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:43 AM
4

There’s a great deal of “hold my beer” in premature male deaths and disabling injuries too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:36 AM
6

Not after 30, I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:25 AM
1

Blurred lines is gross, and he was cancelled for his behaviour too. He’s revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:35 PM
1

Scotland
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:35 AM
1

Mozart is probably still laughing about Cosi fan Tutti.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:26 AM
1

Bwa ha ha, I loved this as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:23 AM
1

Wait until you get over there, boyo. You’re just a plastic Paddy until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:19 AM
1

I’m just not sure how this is man hating. It’s about her ex. He’s a man. He’s not men. It’s no more hateful or sexist than Justin Bieber’s Love Yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:17 AM
1

https://www.aic.gov.au/publications/tandi/tandi429 Australian link, because that’s where I’m living for a couple of weeks. I’m sure it will be a similar story in other western democracies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:15 AM
1

Are we only allowed to talk about new releases? Do we just get to hand wave away Axl Rose singing about raping someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:16 PM
2

Sexual assault, not rape. 1 in 3 girls, and 1 in 7 boys. Overwhelmingly by men known to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:15 PM
1

Just a gentle warning; Irish women will put up with way less disrespect than American women will. They’re also much more prepared to throw hands, and to do it in the same way their ancestors did to drive off the Vikings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:14 PM
1

Yanks are prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:55 AM
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Do you honestly think that they don’t? I took my daughter and her friends to see James Blunt and Ed Sheeran in Manchester a few years ago and they both talked about their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:54 AM
1

I think you’re misunderstanding what I’m saying. Some types of metal are wildly misogynistic. Others aren’t. I’ve never felt unsafe in a punk club or at a thrash or screamo gig. I have felt really on edge and unsafe at hair metal/cock rock gigs back in the day. I would trust Angus Young with my daughter. I wouldn’t trust Sebastian Bach with a blow up sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:49 AM
1

Given 1 in 3 girls are sexually assaulted before the age of 18, I think you need to reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:43 AM
1

Because misogyny is an ocean compared to the tiny puddle that is misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:42 AM
1

Lmao. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:15 AM
1

Classics aren’t mainstream? Yes, calling someone a whore is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:14 AM
1

At a friend’s birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:53 PM
3

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%207%3A3-5&version=NIV
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:03 AM
1

If someone is crying on the floor, how much control are they in?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:57 AM
3

Why don’t you think that any of your female friends have spoken about bad experiences with men around you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:55 AM
1

“While you can”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:17 AM
2

4.5 yeas on the bottom. Parole isn’t guaranteed. Stop misrepresenting things if you want to be taken seriously. The idea that you don’t know a single woman who has had a bad experience with a man is telling on yourself a bit, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:11 AM

Should you concern yourself with the log in your own eye before you comment on the speck in another’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:04 AM

There’s metal and theres metal. Cock rock like Motley Crüe or Guns n Roses have a different outlook than classic metal like Black sabbath or Iron Maiden. Megadeth being misogynistic is frankly the least of their problems, whereas AC/DC being misogynistic would be a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:58 AM

Getting “called out” doesn’t mean shit. That song still gets regular airplays and boyo is laughing all the way to the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:36 AM
1

If someone is telling you to fix your eyes and get up while you can, what do you think their intentions are? The devil has the best music, no matter which way you slice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:51 AM
1

MCR’s I don’t Love You.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:56 AM
2

So fix your eyes and get up, you better get out while you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:08 AM
2

I used to love her, but I had to kill her…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:11 AM

Because you seem to be shocked by what is a pretty meh song. How is it worse than “Vampire” by Olivia Rodriguez or even “Eye of the Tiger” by Katy Perry. I dread to think what you’d do if you heard some Lily Allen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:10 AM
2

On the radio in the last half hour this morning: Under my Thumb by the Rolling Stones, Every Breath you Take by The Police, I write Sins not Tragedies by PATD…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:07 AM

WTF? Go listen to the radio
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:10 PM
1

There is a veritable ocean of songs by male artists complaining about their ex. I doubt that I could have commercial radio on for 15 minutes without hearing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:48 PM
72

Pop star writes an unflattering song about their ex, the horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:53 AM
4

No they’re not. They’re part of the spectrum that human relationships exist on. I’m sure unconditional love exists, but it would be confined to those who have only ever known and felt love. Maybe dogs and some small children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:26 AM
5

Be definition, if something occurs then it can’t not occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:22 AM
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Go speak to some child protection workers or animal rescue services and see what they have to say about children or animals being loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:36 PM
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A quick perusal shows that a person has a greater chance of meeting exercise guidelines if they are relatively better off, have finished secondary education, live in urban environments, work fewer hours, are younger and don’t have childcare responsibilities. I suspect socialisation also plays a decent part in who gets to kick a football and who has to help with chores. I’m going out on a limb here, but I think socioeconomic factors are just as, if not more important than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:12 AM
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Very interesting. A breakdown of why would enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:48 AM
3

Cite them then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:29 AM
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We do, just differently. I could just as well be saying that most men don’t work out because I never see them in my group fitness or Tai Kwon Do classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:24 AM
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I have no issue with being the sole or primary breadwinner in my relationship. I have been in this position before over the years when my husband has been studying, between contracts or recently when he was recovering from a health issue. My problem is with coming home to him having played Age of Empires all day and not even bothered to feed lunch to the kids or wash the dishes from breakfast. He was very quickly clued in that in lieu of illness, letting kids eat biscuits and watch tv all day ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:05 PM

Tell me you know nothing about history without telling me that you know nothing about history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:55 PM

And how are you going to achieve that by defunding them? If they have fewer resources, they won't be able to choose their staff as well, they won't be able to equip their staff as well, they won't be able to monitor their staff as well. By paying for services instead of the ridiculous quasi military kit used by the modern police force. We need to be proactive in our social care instead of reactive when that social safety net breaks down. Lowered birth rates are also due to lower rates of teen pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:53 PM

What am I admitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:47 PM
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Defunding police isn’t getting rid of police. It’s about having officers of the law and community policing and services instead of soldiers of the state. Anarchy is where there is a flattened power structure, not no rules. Lowered birth rates are also due to lower rates of teen pregnancy and lower rates of infant mortality. I’m not sure why that is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:17 PM
2

Democrats aren’t left wing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:12 PM
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Yes, organised labour and refusing to be forced to sell your body and your life to corporate overlords is so repulsive to men. Men have never, ever wanted a fair day’s pay for a fair day’s work, to be able to vote for their own political representatives or to be able to enjoy holidays, weekends, sick leave, medical care, freedom from political or religious persecution or freedom of association. No siree! Men all just want to grind and die for their corporate gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:12 PM
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Do you know what anarchism actually is? Do you know what defunding the police entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:05 PM
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If the state disappears, it will fall to the broader community to take care of those who can’t take care of themselves. This is how humans and society have functioned since we came out of the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:04 PM
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It’s a crying shame that it wasn’t taught enough at schools to stop us from repeating the mistakes of last century.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 09:32 AM
1

It’s not nature. Girls are socialised to behave, be quiet and to respect adults. Boys generally not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:16 AM

A “strong independent woman” of the “boss babe” corporate ladder climber variety isn’t going to find anyone attractive unless they are also upwardly mobile and kicking career goals. She’s likely to consider a quiet, progressive man to be a bleeding heart dirty commie, and will stand on him in her scramble to get ahead. She’s better chasing Gordon Gekko types, and he’s better chasing after a gentle, progressive woman who cares for orphaned wildlife and works to live instead of lives to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:22 AM
2

Being able to write your name in the snow would be cool, there’s no way of denying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:15 AM
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Growing a beard and moustache would be awesome, I’d want to try out all the styles. Being able to reach the clothes at the bottom of the washing machine without having to hang half out of it would be good, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:13 AM
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I think plenty of them also just enjoy whinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:09 AM
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I work a dangerous and physically demanding job. The men and women that I work with couldn’t give a fuck about the sex of their colleagues. The only issues that I have had have been practical ones (needed to buy a she-wee because squatting can mean ticks or leeches in unfunny places) or clothing ones (women’s fit PPE is necessary for the safety of women shaped bodies). Anecdotally, it’s the non dangerous positions like engineering or IT where men get all neurotic about girl germs in the office a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:07 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:30 AM
1

I’m not seeing any proof of any of your claims yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:18 AM
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You haven’t provided me with any proof of any of your claims. Cough up or admit that you’re full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:53 AM
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I’m awaiting your proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:33 AM
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I don’t have an opinion about whether feminists care about their children more or less than anyone else. It’s your job to support your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:18 AM
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Cite all your sources for every claim that you’ve made. Go on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:24 AM
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You made the initial claim, kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:57 AM
1

https://www.aljazeera.com/amp/features/2016/10/4/remembering-the-battle-of-cable-street
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:56 AM
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No he didn’t. It was the Irish dockers who stopped him from marching at Cable st. He wanted forced unification and Sinn Fein to be slaughtered by the black and tans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:17 AM
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Cite proof for your second claim sil vous plait
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:12 AM
1

The very one. Would you have preferred Chamberlain though? How about Mosley?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:54 AM
1

But neither of them went there. Was their children dying punishment for them, or just an inconvenience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:52 AM
1

How about Thenardier?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:19 AM
1

Link these irrefutable studies that you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:15 AM
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It’s the worst system there is, apart from all the rest according to Churchill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:14 AM
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What point are you trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:14 AM
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You’re going to have to cite your sources when making a claim that 90% of science jobs are done by men. You’re also going to have to back up your claims about abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:13 AM
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Yes you are. That’s the beauty of democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:11 PM
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He was. He was the hero of another story, and one that I wish Hugo had told. He also couldn’t reconcile the Valjean he knew in prison with the reformed Valjean whose souls had been “bought for God” by the bishop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:10 PM
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Except that it’s not. It’s dependent on who has the better lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:09 PM
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So if a referendum was passed , you mean? Men and crumb maidens would be keen on pushing that one. Never underestimate the international misogyny of conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:43 PM
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Women have birthed and raised every single human being you see. Women have held society together for millennia. I’m guessing that you want a list of inventions made by women though? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_inventions_and_discoveries_by_women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:41 PM
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That has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:36 PM
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That’s not how the legal system works. It’s also not how humanity works, just ask inspector Javert. Stars, in their multitude…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:36 PM
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You’re entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:34 PM
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Because it was founded as a penal colony and the descendants of those crooks are now running the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:22 AM
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Manslaughter is when intent to kill can’t be proven. Not because of someone’s sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:03 AM
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That’s for experts to decide, not you or me. Have you seen her LSRNR assessment or her FIS report? Also, as I said earlier - we have a legal system, not a justice system. We also can’t keep people incarcerated beyond the end of their sentence, and therefore they need to be rehabilitated in order to become someone’s neighbour, employee, person next to you in the lift, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:34 AM
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I grew up in the 80s and 90s. Romanticism was lipstick on a pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:15 PM
1

How’s that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:14 PM
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4.5 years on the bottom. Parole isn’t a guarantee. First (admittedly horrific) offence on someone who will be relatively easy to rehabilitate, is remorseful and minimal recidivism concerns sounds acceptable. Remember that we have a legal system, not a justice system, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:13 PM
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You need to prove intent to kill for charging someone with attempted murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:54 PM
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He told her to do it, so she did. Malicious compliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:52 PM
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Men don’t vote in Australia? Are they all held ransom in a drop bear lair?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:47 PM
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Men and women are both enjoying the benefits of modern society, which was created by people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:36 PM
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That’s not what she said. Stop being defensive and sooky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:35 PM
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It always has been. The difference is that it’s vomited all over the internet rather than confined to the pub or a CWA meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:34 PM
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Bullshit. What does refusing to see a dr about those chest pains before you wind up in cardiac arrest have to do with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:25 PM
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Men who harm women don’t get life sentences, lol. Look at how many people this shitstain raped and murdered before being put away for life. 8 years for five murders shows you just how little a woman’s life is worth. https://www.theage.com.au/national/victoria/timeline-the-dark-past-of-adrian-bayley-20150320-1m3sda.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:44 AM
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Australia hasn’t had the death penalty since 1952. Life without parole is exceedingly rare and confined to extremely dangerous and unrehabilitatable individuals such as Julian Knight or Martin Bryant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:36 AM
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I’m saying that according to the books and comic series, Anakin could feel his mother in the force and feel that she was happy and contented. That has nothing whatsoever to do with my thoughts regarding slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:26 AM
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Anakin declined, as he could feel her in the force and could tell that she was happy. Obi Wan even offered to leave the Jedi order to help him, but Anakin decided that if she was happy, then he should leave her be. I personally think that Obi Wan should have taken Anakin’s dreams of his mother more seriously. We don’t know if Anakin wanted to find her though, or to just say that he was worried about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:26 AM
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Toxic masculinity is when traditionally masculine behaviours are taken to the extreme, and end up causing harm to the person displaying them, as well as to those around him. My go to example is positive masculinity is caring for those less powerful than yourself (this isn’t exclusive to men, but is seen as masculine). This warps into toxic masculinity when people overrule the autonomy of others and call it protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:21 AM
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Anakin found her easily because he knew what questions to ask, and he wasn’t an off world stranger asking nosy questions of someone who didn’t want to comply. He could also feel her in the force, and regularly did so did so during meditation. You’re not the human equivalent of a nuclear weapon. A Jedi is an unbelievably powerful being. You’re just a person, and your need to be possessive affects you, not an entire galaxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:13 AM
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Because they couldn’t find her. Padme sent Sabe, with backing from Obi Wan and Quinlan Vos, to find and free Shmi from Watto, but couldn’t find her. Jedi aren’t allowed to form attachments. It’s too dangerous for anyone that powerful to have mixed alliances or to not be able to control themselves. Anakin couldn’t master himself. He was a slave to his emotions and wants. He was an entitled brat who thought he was the chosen one and that the rules didn’t apply to him, which is why he fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:05 AM
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The Jedi took children who were offered to them. They never kidnapped children. They provided training for force sensitive children whose parents were unable to provide it. Children were also free to leave and return to their families. Obi Wan was imprisoned and enslaved on Bandomeer. He watched his best friend get murdered by a school bully turned darksider in front of him. He was abandoned by his father figure on Melidia Daan. He watched his father figure murdered in front of him, then held hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:45 AM
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So did many people. Obi Wan was enslaved, tortured, terrorised and forced to watch helplessly as loved ones were slaughtered in front of him. Did he ever turn from the light?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:29 AM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:22 AM
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Anakin put himself there with his own greed and refusal to examine his fear. He killed defenceless children because he was too chicken to ask for help in case he was judged. No sympathy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:09 AM
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I’m sorry that you can’t understand what I’m explaining to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:32 AM
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If you would be happy to live in a society where might equals right, then you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:40 PM
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So when you can’t browbeat someone or a group by what you - the ruling class - considers to be logical, you consider force to be the next rational step, and that thinking otherwise is childish and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:29 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:25 AM
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You can’t be guilty of an act that you were coerced into or that was done while you were in an altered mental state. Sure, some women are pro circumcision. The overwhelming majority of the push to mutilate baby boys comes from men. You know this. Focus your attention on fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:45 PM
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What would happen if all the wives and mothers stopped doing the second shift?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:57 AM
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Lobby the fathers and the religious leaders, because they’re the ones in power, and the overwhelming reason for these decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:51 AM
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American feminism is much more liberal than everyone else. Same as everything in America, really. European feminism had the weight of the post revolution abandonment of women in France under Napoleon and the USSR under Stalin. Women kept everyone fed during the wars, kept industry afloat, cared for the sick and wounded, and defended the home front only to be sent away once the fighting stopped. Women being treated as “the opposition” and being told that the solution is to submit more isn’t going…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:49 AM
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An exhausted, post partum mother is easy to steamroll by a determined father. You need to concentrate your efforts to where the power is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:35 PM
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You’ve spent 10+ years fighting this and still haven’t realised that the most significant factor in infant male circumcision is that dad is cut and wants his son to be like him? Yikes. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3576965/#:~:text=Parent%20opinions%20on%20pursuing%20elective%20circumcision.&text=The%20results%20suggest%20that%2C%20although%20multiple%20factors,is%20in%20fact%20the%20most%20important%20influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:54 AM
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A small number of men fought alongside women. That’s not on dispute. They also waited a couple of decades to return the favour. Women have stood shoulder to shoulder with men, only to be abandoned. That’s why women are gun shy about taking up male centric causes - historical precedent dictates that we’re going to get used then abandoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:40 AM
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It’s not women who want to circumcise boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:34 AM
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Women fought for universal male sufferage, the end to compulsory military service, labour rights, workplace safety laws, prison reform and any number of other causes which primarily affect men. Where were the men when women needed support for our rights to vote? To be paid equally? To be allowed bodily autonomy? crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:37 PM
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The fact that you’re talking about removing rights by force leads me to believe that you’re not mature enough for a rational conversation regarding the privilege of being a member of the status quo. You were born benefiting from these power ups. Have you heard the term “born on third and thinks he hit a triple “? That’s middle class white men when compared to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:09 PM
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Lmao. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:01 AM
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Very few soldiers hurt civilians? Ok, we’re done here because you have absolutely no fucking idea what you’re talking about. Get back to me once you’ve read a bit of history and current events.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:41 PM
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No it doesn’t. We are just more sympathetic towards male veterans than towards the women and children they slaughtered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:27 PM
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That war doesn’t only affect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:23 PM
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Come back to me after you’ve completed your medical degree, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:22 PM
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You’re a fucking idiot who has absolutely no idea as to what it’s like to stitch together or resuscitate someone who has made a crack at killing themselves. You should be ashamed of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:03 AM
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Yes. My issue is that Americans assume that only male soldiers and not men, women and children civilians are affected by war. Innocent bystanders are slaughtered by armed male invaders, with only rudimentary weapons and their bare hands to defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:00 AM
1

Women attempt suicide more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:53 AM
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Do you live here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:52 AM
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Women were raped before being killed. Pretending that only men are affected by war is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:51 AM
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Women kill themselves less frequently than men because they use less violent methods of suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:57 PM
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Women go wherever the fuck they want? That is complete and utter garbage. If enemy troops roll in, everyone dies. Boys die, men die. If they fight, they have a chance. If they surrender they die. You are too young and uneducated to remember the Holodomor, but you need to learn. Russians will kill everyone in their path on Putin’s mad quest to be the new Tsar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:53 PM
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You need to name the problem in order to rectify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:47 PM
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None of which gets anywhere near the hate that unattractive women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:46 PM
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No they don’t. You are talking out of your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:45 PM
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Potentially attributable isn’t a slam dunk by any means. I absolutely hope that you don’t spew this hateful garbage near anyone who has lost their baby to SIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:44 PM
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Straight out of high school? Yeah, nah. I’d want them to have a sound grasp of physiology and pathology before I let any of my students near a cadaver, let alone a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:41 PM
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Women in non affected areas, sure. American women didn’t die in Vietnam or The two world wars at the same rate as men. The only women who survived behind enemy lines are the ones being used for sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:27 PM
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Link those studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:48 AM
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The fuck they are the same people. Do you have any fucking idea what Russia has done to Ukraine historically? Do you have any idea about how occupied people are treated? Jesus take the wheel, this is unbelievable. As a woman and a feminist, I know how women are treated behind enemy lines. I know how men are treated. Men will be killed and women will be raped, then killed. This is how invading armies behave and have behaved since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:48 AM
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Go on then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:46 AM
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Because the default is being a bangmaid for an ungrateful slob. No one wants to be a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:44 AM
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A high value man is one with integrity. Everything else is window dressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:41 AM
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The notion of pink collar jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:40 AM
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And men shame women for small tits, big tits, saggy tits, big nipples, pointy nipples, being fat, being skinny, flat bums, round bums, dying their hair, cutting their hair short, being ugly, being tall, being short, being red haired, having loud voices, having squeaky voices, etc, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:36 AM
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Do you think that the Russian annexation of Ukraine and the subjugation of her people would lead to a better life for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:31 AM
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Dying overseas my arse. Women died in their homes, their villages and on the street defending their homes from foreign invaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:22 AM
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When a girlfriend and I were cornered walking home from school by a group of men, we screamed and fought together. Neither of us would ever have abandoned the other to a rape gang. Thankfully they decided that there was easier prey to catch and gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:16 AM
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There’s nothing neurotic about being vigilant in the face of consistent endangerment. Women need to be - and are constantly and vociferously harangued to be - alert and vigilant because the only thing that will happen if they’re victimised is be blamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:12 AM
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It will be obsolete when teaching, nursing, cleaning, secretarial work and caring attract as many men as they do women, and are considered professions rather than callings or women’s work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:52 AM
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Are you honestly trying to say that SIDS isn’t real? That’s an unbelievably fucked up thing to think. Like absolutely revolting. Please educate yourself because that’s disgraceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:49 AM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:32 AM
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Where did you pull that 99% from? Your arse? Do you know what happens to a society that refuses to learn history? Because we’re watching it happen right now with the implosion of the USA and the rise of the extreme right. It’s such a shame that history has been devalued so much that people have no idea as to the outcome of the previous two tariff wars and the events preceding each of the world wars. As for jobs? My office employs an historian with a background in cultural anthropology in order t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:31 AM
1

You’d be happy for your surgeon to learn on the job like it was the 1800s?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:16 AM
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If you have been given centuries of head starts and power ups, then you need to understand that those are now needed by the people that you have always maintained an unfair and artificially inflated lead over. Current affirmative action is allowing people to catch up and create a level playing field. The end goal of affirmative action is for it to become obsolete. Unfortunately, given girls are still routinely barred and strenuously discouraged from post compulsory education, and from higher pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:10 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pink-collar_worker
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:36 AM
1

You’d be happy with some rando designing your roads or doing your surgery I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:34 AM
1

Big difference in political views between different departments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:28 AM
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My husband didn’t have the opportunity to attend university, so I supported him through a bachelor of civil engineering. I personally couldn’t be with someone that I didn’t consider my intellectual equal. Having said that, there are plenty of pink collar workers (nurses, teachers, bookkeepers, education and health support, social care, etc…) who marry blue collar workers. He’s a chippy or a sparky and she’s a kindergarten teacher or a vet nurse are super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:24 AM
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Understanding the process of writing is extremely useful in both teaching and library science.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:15 AM
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So you have never studied history beyond high school and you’re telling everyone that it’s useless? Do you have any idea of what university level study of history entails, and what career paths it opens?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:14 AM
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No. It’s because being feminine is seen as trading down. Tomboys are girls that levelled up and femboys are boys that levelled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:17 PM
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We need to remember why women aren’t working the same paid hours as men. Women shoulder the bulk of caring responsibilities. Elderly parents, small children, disabled family members, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:09 AM
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Think of it as like when you stop getting good power ups or bonuses when you’re the leader in a console game. Where I live, there are a lot of extra support schemes (from free accommodation to subsidies for fees and textbooks and even lower entry requirements) for students coming from rural communities. This is because it’s understood that between the commute, the long hours at home, and the lack of cash flow available, these students would otherwise miss out on higher education opportunities. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:33 AM
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Except that it is the literal definition. It’s what feminism is built around. Do you think that women are as human as men? As worthy of dignity and self determination?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:12 AM
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Feminism is the radical notion that women are human beings has been the cornerstone of the movement since inception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:29 AM

So much this. When a crook is getting close to his end date, these women quickly disappear. A jailbird boyfriend with nothing better to do that write you love letters is much safer than a real life ex con boyfriend in your house getting drunk and violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:33 AM

Given a large percentage of the prison population is on the spectrum, I think you’re drawing a false equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:29 AM

It’s the very definition of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:39 AM

Because she is one feminist in the very broad church of feminism. Think of how other feminists don’t like TERFs or SWERFs. Have you read bell hooks or Roxanne Gay? The radical notion that women are human beings is much greater than one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:46 PM
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Who is talking about punishing anyone? That’s a bizarre notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:36 AM
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She’s a literal eugenicist and a proud supporter of Slavery and genocide. She had one sound idea - women need control of their own bodies - and the rest was dross. What is your point in bringing her up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:54 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:27 AM
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If you understood the weight of history, you would understand the shadow it casts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:08 PM
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I was appalled when everyone - including my husband - assumed that I was going to circumcise my son. I’ve just given birth to a perfect 7lb 4oz baby and you fuckwits want me cut the end off his dick?!? Fucking no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:54 AM
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Have you read them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:02 PM
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I personally prefer Rosa Luxembourg, but I’m not the one giving my little sister advice on how to sort male wheat from chaff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:38 PM
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So, you haven’t read any theory and have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:33 AM
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Read the theory, look at the material conditions we are living in, then get back to me. I’m not going to engage with people who don’t understand what they’re talking about because they haven’t read the theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:45 AM
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Why the dirty delete? Why are you conflating material conditions with “the economy”? Where did you get the idea that the patriarchy has been destroyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:46 AM
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Please explain how you reached that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:20 AM
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Of course you do, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:18 AM
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As my son said to his younger sister, never date a man who hasn’t read and understood De Bouvier and Engles respective works on the intersection of class and sex based oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:11 AM
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It’s a shame you haven’t visited r/history, because then you’d understand what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:25 AM
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These books were relevant a decade ago. Tastes seem to have changed since COVID. We all want self rescuing princesses now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:10 PM
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They’re marketed towards people. Women are half of all the people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:06 PM
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People like easy, cheap garbage to provide a quick hit of endorphins. Reading a trash novel instead of a good one is like eating some sweets instead of your dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:09 PM
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Possibly sci fi and fantasy need to stop being lumped together as one category, given the popularity and market saturation of talented young female fantasy writers. Some boys only affirmative action to search out the next Harry Harrison or Douglas Adams? Just need to make sure they’re not the next Neil Gaiman I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:25 PM
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They’re bestsellers because they’re the literary equivalent of empty calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:21 PM
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They/them have been pronouns forever and the only people whinging about them being used are sad fossils. The NYT hasn’t been leftist since Nixon. What is problematic about three winners in a row being female? Although didn’t you just say Zhao was they/them, not she/her, rendering that last point moot anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:03 AM
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Since when did feminists like either of those? Modern young feminists tend to gravitate towards female power fantasy figures like Sarah J Maas’s Throne of Glass/ACOTAR protagonists or Margaret Rogerson’s holy warrior women. Even Rosalie Ham’s Tilly the tragic heroine wrecking revenge is more popular amongst the feminist coterie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:58 AM
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The power of advertising and peer group pressure is never to be underestimated, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:49 AM
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If people didn’t like it, they wouldn’t buy it. Plenty of books sink without a trace despite being pushed by publishers as the next big thing. Look at JK Rowlings books published under a pseudonym. No one thought they were any good and they’re only talked about because she’s newsworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:25 AM
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Nope. Plenty of women in literature creating the man she wants to be with (think Lady MacBeth) seeing potential in troubled men (Sybil Vimes) loving a gentle man (Amy Pond), rebuilding a broken man (Isobelle Fisher) and just enjoying any available dick (Nanny Ogg).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:03 AM
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How did you arrive at this conclusion? Which media outlets specifically are interfering in the free market of literature promotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:54 AM
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Which is why Sarah J Maas, Margaret Rogerson, Jay Kristoff, Tea Leone, Katherine Arden and Xiran Jay Zhou, Holly Black and their strong female leads are all so unpopular I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:19 AM
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Is it the dressing gown?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:13 AM
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We’re primates. Everything is politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:11 AM
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Mary Sue/Marty Stu fantasy, too. We’re all just human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:17 AM
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Most young woman fiction these days is romantasy stuff where the powerful, beautiful protagonist finds a similarly powerful, attractive partner. Mills and Boon and 50 shades are yesterday’s culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:04 AM

Why glom into a chain you don’t understand kiddo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:42 PM
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Do you understand the implications of historical precedent, disadvantage and oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:41 PM
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Of course they took it. Please read some history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:51 AM
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Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:51 AM
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Big difference between a 22yo renting with friends to someone who wants a family and a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:49 AM
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They’re short term measures designed to correct historical disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:57 AM
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Where do men fit in this scheme of yours? Also hunter gatherers or subsistence farmers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:44 AM
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Read what I wrote again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:43 AM
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I made an accurate comment because those of us who have studied history know how precarious rights and freedoms are. Given you seem to be conflating Tsarist Russia with post revolution USSR, I think you need to read a bit more. Look at how Stalin and Napoleon both wound back the rights of women and you will understand how rights need to be defended, not merely acquired.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:55 PM
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What do you hope to achieve by doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:49 PM
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I’m not American, but please tell me how anyone can afford to cot with their feet and move interstate in the current economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:46 AM
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$60k is hardly making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:45 AM
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To what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:44 AM
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Are you telling me that women no longer farm? Or are you saying that farmers shouldn’t vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:44 AM
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Lmao, you have no idea. Teaching pays peanuts for the workload, there’s fuck all career progression outside of administrative roles and it’s treated as glorified babysitting by outsiders. If you think teachers make bank then you are absolutely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:04 AM
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Napoleon rolled back rights for women that the Sans Coulottes had brought in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:50 AM
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My grandmother had more rights to bodily and reproductive autonomy under Lenin than women in America have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:57 AM
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Carrying a baby and going through labour is much more than just the delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:50 AM
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Once feminism ceases to exist, those rights will be taken away. Look at how the erosion of labour unions and outlawing of organised syndicalism has rolled back workers rights, conditions and remuneration to the Victorian era.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:49 AM
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If I was widowed or my husband left me; absolutely. Otherwise, not a chance, not ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:07 AM
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Culture war to distract us all from class war? Who’d have ever guessed…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:44 AM
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Given the biggest reason for women being unsafe is men, then maybe they should provide protection by all staying away from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:59 AM
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I’m a firefighter who was in turn out for weeks on end over the Black Saturday fires. Courage has nothing to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:50 AM
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Old creep is never attractive no matter how good looking he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:21 AM
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You’re avoiding the question and it’s getting silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:54 AM

The rights of men and women are highly class and race based. A cis white woman from a wealthy family is going to be treated much better by the law than a poor, black, transgender one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:16 AM

Women are statistically much more likely to remain loyal to an employer, to do unpaid overtime and extra duties, and to cover higher positions at lower pay. Why would you pass that up for the sake of a couple of months leave once or twice in their entire career?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:10 AM
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Truth is intrinsically fair. If you swapped women for men in your OP, would you consider it constructive criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:02 AM
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Do you think it’s a fair or kind thing to say to men is the point. Remember that the American president and VP are both very much vain, makeup wearing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:52 AM
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Men have been conditioned to think that their appearance is all that matters and they don’t work on their personality or inner qualities. Women who chase men only make this worse because it inflates men’s egos. Men wear makeup, put lifts in their shoes, only work out their top half in place of developing any functional fitness so that they can post flexing pictures on social media. They get likes for this on instagram so they then think the whole world revolves around them. This only makes them …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:43 AM

Do as I said and see if you find it hateful you sniveling little coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:24 AM
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Liberals aren’t leftists. Go read some theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:58 AM
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I didn’t make the initial comment. You need to reflect on whether your OP is a critique or just a word vomit of misogyny. Reverse women to men in the text and see if that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:48 AM
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That’s demonstrably untrue. I think you need to spend some time on your self imposed exile doing some reflection on what constitutes critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:41 AM
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It became no longer taboo to talk about our bad experiences with men who we had thought were better. Those co-workers, uncles or fellow commuters who were considered to be good people. The Bill Cosbys and George Pells who had a lot of social capital. FWIW, I was living and working in Berlin at the time, in an industry where every square inch of the workplace is covered by CCTV due to the sensitive nature of the job, and even then certain men would do obviously sketchy things with people who were…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:22 AM
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Show me evidence of it ever happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:26 AM
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You are the one who doesn’t understand what grooming is, and it’s the kind of misinformation that you’re peddling that puts kids into dangerous situations. Please speak with a psychologist to help you untangle this before you endanger others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:21 AM
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Citation please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:03 PM
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Citation please?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:02 PM
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Who is defending “groomers “? Grooming is where paedophiles groom children to become sexual partners, btw. I don’t see anyone here defending that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:01 PM
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Agree with this, although I never heard about the Biden thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:46 AM
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Where have I defended “groomers”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:11 AM
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42 thousand people diagnosed doesn’t mean 42 thousand people operated on or even treated following initial diagnosis. It may look like a big number, but it’s also under 1%. It’s a smaller cohort of people than those born with six toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:06 AM
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“Giving kids” isn’t what is happening. There is an exhaustive psychological analysis of any person wishing to undergo gender transition. If and only if this process is satisfactory, can anything more happen. The alternative is forcing people to live as someone they are not. Given the tiny number of people that this affects, and that the fear and paranoia has led to disabled students being unable to transition from school to work because the program had the word “transition “ in it and was theref…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:23 AM
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Of course kids do stuff for attention. That’s why there’s thorough psychological evaluation before anything happens. You’re acting like a person walks into their GP’s office and leaves with a script for puberty blockers or their penis in a bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:53 PM
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Show me where I said “too dumb”. People vote against their best interests for plenty of reasons (social conformity, appeal to authority, fear, consumption of misinformation, misplaced aspirations and general disinterest, amongst others) besides stupidity. I’m going to leave your fear mongering about transgender people alone, because we both know that the tiny minority of underage people who receive gender affirmative care is being used to stir up moral panic at the expense of vulnerable people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:27 PM
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I think that a gender neutral society is adjacent to a society where other forms of bias and discrimination are removed. I can’t see any of that happening until the dialogue moves from culture war to class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:13 PM
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I’m not sure how you derived that from my comment. Can you unpack that for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:10 PM
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I’m not an American, so didn’t have to partake in an election of capitalism v fascism. I’m not sure how any democratic policies supported mutilating children, internalising misogyny or rascism though. Care to link them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:09 PM
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I think that commentary about women “voting wrong” is similar to commentary about any marginalised group voting against their best interests. We live in a liberal democracy, and that means allowing people to make decisions that fly in the face of their welfare. It’s frustrating seeing people punching themselves in the face, but the alternative is less palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:35 AM
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Why would anyone want to be paid less for doing the same job? That’s bizarre. It also has nothing to do with immigration or birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:21 AM
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Disagreeing isn’t being butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:49 AM
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How many jobs require you to lift heavy things unaided these days? Women are pushed out of and discouraged from blue collar jobs by culture, not aptitude. What gives you the idea that women aren’t able to cope with the stress of leadership positions? What gives you the idea that men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:48 AM
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You may believe that men are naturally leaders, but I don’t want to be with someone who is in charge of me. That was a job for my parents, not my partner. Housekeeping and childcare isn’t 50/50. I’ll take an uneven chore split over the alternative though. If you want to stay home all your life, then that’s your choice. My MIL did; she raised her children, volunteered for charitable causes, and now helps out with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. She found fulfilment in that, and I’m hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:25 AM
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I prefer being able to vote, own my own money and not be forced to rely on a man for basic survival. I love my husband, my children and my career. I don’t want to be forced to remain at home after my children have reached school age, and to be forced to submit to my husband rather than love him an equal. I want my daughters to be able to access education and career opportunities the same as my sons. I’m not saying feminism is perfect. Nothing is perfect. But I’ll take radical notion that women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:04 AM
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Firstly, I love my husband and don’t want to be with anyone else. Secondly, I don’t want my children’s inheritance compromised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:04 AM
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Men root lower SES women than them, but they don’t marry them. People overwhelmingly stick to their own social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:33 AM
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I’m a leftist. My husband is more liberal than me in a live and let live kind of way. I couldn’t date a conservative or a classical liberal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:57 AM
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Your link doesn’t work. Can you repost it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:13 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2023/07/12/voter-turnout-2018-2022/ Did you read your own source? The largest percentage of eligible voters didn’t vote. A shooter only has to get lucky once. Musk has to get lucky every time. You’ll also see just how loyal the armed forces are going to stay when their pay and conditions are routed, as we’ve already seen with the DVA. If men are too neurotic and fragile to cope with being asked to put their wank bank out of the common areas, I absolutely doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:57 AM
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Same here. The biggest struggles my brothers had were in non girl related areas like “hold my beer” moments of stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:31 AM
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You are conflating liberals with leftists if you think the left aren’t armed, and given the majority of Americans didn’t actually vote, you can hardly say that he even has popular support. Calling wanting to work “invading “ and “colonialism” is neurotic. How many men wanting to put girlie pinups on the wall would be happy with Magic Mike posters?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:04 PM
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I’m talking about when I first entered the workplace. White men from public schools (that’s private schools to you in America) owned and ran everything. They were incredibly hostile to the idea of hiring women or people from the colonies. As in violently hostile, following women into bathrooms, grabbing them and slapping them hostile. Forcing them to engage in physical contact hostile. Black men were beaten. Old boys in charge didn’t want to hire anyone who wasn’t one of them. Talk to your mothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:04 AM
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People want to employ people like themselves, and making accommodations for people who a different (wheelchair ramps, ladies bathrooms, no playboy pinups in the tearoom…) is seen as too difficult and expensive. Why put yourself out for a category of people you consider sub par and don’t really want to interact with if you don’t have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:42 PM
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Non compulsory voting is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:35 PM
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Thatcher was vociferously anti feminist. Shapiro claims to belong to the manosphere. There’s certainly been no MRA condemnation of the inhumane working conditions faced by men in Trump’s workplaces or the Amazon shop floors.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:08 AM
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Invisible disabilities are easier to hide. One of the best assistants I ever hired had cerebral palsy. Prior to diversity considerations being brought into practice, his resume wouldn’t have even been considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:48 AM
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The left demonizes the bourgeois. The oligarchs and grifters like Musk, Trump, Bezos or Murdoch who fuck us over. The fact that certain men overwhelmingly own the wealth and power to oppress others is incidental to this. You need to realise that you have more in common with the woman working beside you than you do with Joe Rogan or Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:38 AM
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Of the people who voted. Over half of all Americans didn’t vote at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:34 AM
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Trump is a major proponent of idpol; without it, he’d be getting killed in a class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:32 AM
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What would you call Shapiro and Crowder if not manosphere influencers? Paglia and Farrell haven’t been relevant in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:31 AM
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Selective service is a rankly stupid idea that undermines armed forces morale, undermines general faith in our government and is stressful to young men and those who care for them. An all volunteer force is adequate during peacetime, and a universal draft is a reserve option if and only if the home front comes under attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:22 AM
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We’re watching the USA doing this in real time. Women barefoot and pregnant is part and parcel of the political agenda that demonises LGTBQIA people, refugees, organised labour and freedom of religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:46 AM
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Except those are hardly unique to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:34 PM
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I think you’re hurling abuse, then I think she’s hit a nerve. Before you sook, I’m not a Democratic voter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:40 AM
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We all still have to read Macbeth in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:55 AM
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It’s much easier to be considered safe enough to befriend if you’re gay, friends with brothers, or taken. A woman not interested in a relationship can certainly shy away from making friends with someone who looks like they have ulterior motives. As my grandmother used to say “boys play at friendship looking for sex, and girls play at sex looking for friends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:37 AM
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What makes you think I believe any of those studies? Self reported studies should always be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:17 PM
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Where do you get the idea that nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:24 AM
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Try a different dojo. I practice judo and it’s 70% female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:27 AM
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I’m sure some people feel under the pump to settle down and breed. It’s much less common now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:12 PM
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No women allowed at your dojo? No women in your outward bound society?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:10 PM
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What are you into that makes your life such a sausage factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:08 AM
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I work hard at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:42 AM
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Girls nights you entertain each other. That’s how friendships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:42 AM
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You would choose a friend that had things in common with, you enjoyed their company, you shared values and ideals with. Add attraction, and that’s what you’re looking for in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:41 AM
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Much more sex happens in Inverness. There’s nothing else to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:38 AM
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So you’re that rare of a person that almost no women have anything in common with you, and those who do are being persued relentlessly by armies of men? Not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:37 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:34 AM
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Nope. They’ll still show up on the pages of other people who interacted with them, or via the wayback machine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:34 AM
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Online self reported statistics regarding online dating isn’t comprehensive or that trustworthy. I’d also suggest that a man and a woman would often have different opinions on what constitutes being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:33 AM
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Look at all the other decisions made by cautious, sensible women. Someone who drives a carolla, deadbolts her doors and windows at night and has comprehensive insurance is going to date a man with similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:31 AM
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It’s moving beyond it to realise that life is more than who the popular girls had sex with in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:17 PM
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See, that wasn’t so hard to show your sources, now was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:15 PM
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Of course they’re not acting like adults. They’re as bad as the men whinging about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:06 PM
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Women these days prefer to be single than with a man who doesn’t add to their lives. You aren’t competing with Chad; you’re competing with movie night with the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:04 PM
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So why are you having a rage boner for women you’re resentful of instead on considering women that you have things in common with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:02 PM
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Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:00 PM
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I’m in my 40s. I have plenty of life experience and know plenty of people. Some people have sex with lots of partners. Some don’t. Most people have one or two serious relationships before deciding on each other. People pair up because they like each other, and part of that is being sexually attracted to each other. Do you choose your friends because the look good on paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:59 AM
8

Sure there are. You just don’t consider them as you’re too busy hating on the girls on TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:55 AM
-3

So you don’t have a source. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:52 AM
-1

Look on their socials. What goes up never comes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:52 AM
2

So do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:49 AM
5

It’s called growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:49 AM
16

Because the idea that everyone sleeps with at least three people is stupid, and the idea that people only end up with people because they look good on paper and aren’t attracted to them is also stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:37 AM
12

I didn’t sleep with any men before my husband. I kissed a couple of them, but nothing further. We married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:32 AM
4

Bitterness is stupid and destructive and will poison all your future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:30 AM
9

So don’t chase after reformed party girls. You wouldn’t have anything in common anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:30 AM
0

Not doing your work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:20 AM
11

These are different women. Cautious, sensible women go for safer men, and party girls go for root rats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:19 AM
10

When I was young and single? Someone like my dad or grandfather: intelligent, honest, empathetic, courageous, politically left, gentle and caring. I found such a man in my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:17 AM
-2

Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:09 AM
2

So your issue here is that you think that some other man will have sex with a woman before you do, not that you will never have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:25 AM
19

The idea that average men don’t end up with average women, have average lives and make average children is stupid. Get off the internet and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:51 AM
7

A good percentage don’t think what they’re doing is wrong. They consider it to be justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:17 AM
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