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so ultimately this person you knew was a fool as he got caught. not so smart there, was he. as for the rest of em, did they get away with it? you didn't mention. still, i'm afraid we're getting off topic with the bank robberies. indeed i would rob a bank if i could get away with it tho if that's the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:15 PM
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i have travelled kinda somewhere. Very Hard : Miami, LA Hard: Zurich, Stockholm, New york Normal : Warsaw, Prag, Minnesota Easy : Medelin Very easy : Phillipines/Thailand sorry, confused here. you have travelled to these place or you just guessing? did you shag in all of these places? i have done my fair share of travelling; on that list only NYC. didn't shag a local, but i know i could've. it's a sociable city. everybody fucks and the transport ain't bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:14 PM
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if you can rob a bank and successfully get away with it, hell yah it's smart. that would take unbelievable skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:51 PM
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anyone who can get free money is a smart person, man. if i've learned anything is that money is everything and people are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:18 AM
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emotionally I can't really justify being with anyone who isn't intelligent, funny, compassionate, ambitious (not necessarily in career but in self-improvement) and curious about the world. that's just a list of adjectives and could mean anything tho depending on your standard; i mean my cousin who's married to the woman working the till at Walmart who practices yoga and laughs at Bill Murray thinks she's a proper genius. you'll only know you're too picky if you reject women who reasonably fall i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:13 AM
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is this an actual change my view? cuz it doesn't look like it. afaik haven't seen anyone arguing the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:24 PM
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self control for what? religious reasons or misogynistic ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:20 PM
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A women’s dating sexual past collided with her married-with-kids present when the Bad Boy ex she can’t stop fantasizing about crashes back into her life” so did she end up with that bad boy or did she stay with her husband and kids? i would shit my pants if it was the former. fantasising means nothing. lots of people fantasise over things they don't really want, ffs how much porn is dedicated to fucking step moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:34 PM
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you'd have to be a fool to turn down a beautiful woman just because she has a higher body count than your ideal, are you kidding me?? i fail to believe any man would do this in practice unless he's super religious and/or misogynist. anyway, personally i've never asked a woman her body count; i don't even know my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:35 AM
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Male beauty standards are much harder to meet than women's it's easier for women to be good looking, that's for sure. they have all kinds of tricks they can use, makeup including foundation to cover up their zits, hair weaves, push up bras, high heels. men can't use any of that shit without being called gay. good news for men is that there's not as much pressure to look a certain way. most of the lads i go to uni with just roll out of bed and go to class and they don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:51 PM
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My friends and I have our own GroupChats where we collect especially heinous things men have said online about women or girls. We also share those with other women and girls we know. y'all have toxic behaviour, i'll tell you that for free. thing is you're actively looking for this stuff. if you seek, you will find - Jesus said thousands of years ago. it's confirmation bias/hate watching. Do you guys think the same as me, in that reading all that stuff makes women afraid/hesitant/ too worried abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:43 PM
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Idealy I would be looking for a FWB. you mean a fuckbuddy, right? cuz fwb means you're friends first with the added luxury of sex, like you're actually friends in this situation. How feasible is it for an average guy? How do you look for it? it's very feasible if you have female friends. but you don't want that, right? it's primarily just a shag? well i used to fuck a lot of women i worked with in the restaurant/bar industry. great place to meet young and single women. easier than a dating app i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:00 PM
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For example he first sees a woman and says she has a butt, boobs, etc. He doesnt make assumptions on her personality. on what planet? as a man i definitely judge a woman's personality and more just by looking at her. if she looks frumpy i assume she's shy and/or has low self-esteem. if she's got tons of bright orange tanner and ugly-ass fake nails on i assume she has no self respect. if she's got her hair tightly in a bun and wearing a brown pant suit i assume she takes herself seriously. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:10 PM
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My wife and I are on the outs, and I don't know if we will survive as a couple how long have you been thinking this won't survive and what have you done to preserve your marriage? i am not divorced but i used to advise clients on divorce proceedings and i know it can be an expensive choice in more than one way. if you think you've done everything to save your marriage then maybe consider a trial separation?
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 07:50 PM
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which jurisdiction do you live in? divorce doesn't just happen over night. in some jurisdictions you have to remain living separate for a period of time. bear in mind there's also no law that says you must get a divorce if you live separately, so don't think you have to decide the whole world overnight. if you separate where are you going to stay? if you divorce what assets are you going to have to split?
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 07:42 PM
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personally have never asked anyone their body count before we started fucking or gotten into a relationship; don't even know my own tbh. but seeing how this trend is rising only on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:28 PM
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Can two people get married but still live in separated homes with their own money, furniture, income and houses maybe if they're fucking rich. most people are not and find they must share, especially if they have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:05 PM
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What if been thinking is that it would be more beneficial to have kids with a woman and basically achieve marriage but without the legal documents. how do you basically achieve marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:00 PM
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i live in the UK and the support here for eating disorders is fucking ridiculous. two of my mates have anorexia and can't get help to save their life. literally. no medical professional takes them seriously when asking for treatment. it's like who the fuck asks for help for an ED if they don't have it??
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:16 PM
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i mean i get the most wood when i watch women's footie but athletic types aren't a dealbreaker. So who is pushing this skinny/fat narrative? women. the answer is always women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:49 PM
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i want to agree on this because the women i know who are into traditional gender roles do tend to be submissive and financially reliant on their male partner - they have to be because they can't take care of themselves. better yet, this man they are looking for doesn't have to be a rich lad by any stretch. all the tradwives i know hook up with very average lads. Whereas for a girl to value your money as a guy, she has to at least believe in traditional roles to an extent. i don't agree with this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:19 PM
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body positivity is not about promoting obesity and telling people to be fat, its about saying its okay to look how you are and not hate yourself for where you are at. the body positivity movement is only telling women that it's okay to look how they are so it can sell them stuff. lol it's allll about selling shit to consumers. if they're not ashamed to be size XL then they will buy that XL clothing. they will buy those pads marketed to bigger women. they will buy that makeup because the size 16 …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:49 PM
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which jurisdiction? this is factually incorrect in the three western countries i have lived in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:39 AM
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it's not cheating if both parties agree to it tho - then it's just a contract. cheating involves ignoring the terms of the agreed upon contract and doing shit without the other party's awareness and approval. ofc cheating becomes a whole lot less thrilling when you have approval but whatever. This was from "The Lead Attorney." who this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:37 AM
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interesting. shit, and he was looking after the kids? do you have a source?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:23 PM
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well why would you marry or get into a civil partnership if the risk is paying spousal support. you'd be a fool.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:22 PM
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unless you become the primary caregiver of the children and she's the breadwinner, and why would you do that.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:13 PM
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wdym your tenancy ends next week. did you give your notice to the landlord? are you on a fixed term tenancy? can you extend your tenancy so you can stay there? your spouse may want you out but she can't just kick you out herself. you have legal rights, especially if your name is on the tenancy. see link below https://england.shelter.org.uk/housing_advice/private_renting/joint_tenancies/relationship_breakdown
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 06:37 PM
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christ, that blog post starts off with a whole lot of poor assumptions, trying to make single young men sound all poor and lonely and suicidal and the decline of civilisation. meanwhile, the research showed only half of young single men are even looking to date - the other half of that 60% are enjoying being single and have other priorities. for convinence, see below: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ also, the definition of 'sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:23 PM
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assuming this is true (because cba to fact check when reddit is fucking with me. anyone else reddit is fucking with?) you must realise that disappointment is in relation to expectation; hence, if you don't expect much, you won't be disappointed and vica versa. it's likely then that women have higher expectations with their friendships and when said friendship can't meet that expectation they feel less satisfied/more lonely. no, friendship isn't about giving compliments so reckon the op is off th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:36 PM
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ffs normalising sex work at its finest.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 07:41 PM
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Nearly everybody will Jump ships if the next Option is WAY BETTER then her old, for example. wins the most obvious statement on the internet. like if you could choose between a cheque for £1 and £1 million which would you choose? stop taking the piss. in real life the situation in the op would never ever happen tho. if you date 5s you're not equally attracting 10s. sorry Cinderella, it's just not happening. bearing in mind here, Sara is 'dating' Joe. they aren't in a serious relationship nor are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:34 PM
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what's 'daddy issues'? does that mean you want a partner to replace your father? in that case yes. i know someone like that. she's fucking a 60 year old man and she's 24 with a toddler. whatever makes them happy tho. he's got some solid pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:40 PM
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thank you for sharing. my best friend was raped at 13 by another boy on the playground while a group of boys watched. he's never gotten over it.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 10:18 PM
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good for you mate! men who voluntarily desert their sons can kiss my ass.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 10:15 PM
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most sports are completely neutered institutions? what sports are you used to - Nintendo Wii?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:26 PM
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yep. me and my brothers had heaps of mates from a young age, many through sports and church. meanwhile i watch my sil's kid who is 'shy' and coddled, and barely forced to go outside. setting the kid up for failure indeed not teaching him social skills and giving him an iPad to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:22 PM
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friendships being secondary to romantic relationships has not been my experience. nope, far from that. always had heaps of friends at school, work and sports. far easier to make friends than to get into someone's pants. men who don't value friendships as much as sex i reckon live/lived in socially isolated situations, likely glued to their computers and now don't know how to make friends. they still need to starve off the loneliness tho and they do know how to downloaded a dating app; seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:15 PM
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Considering that women have more and more freedoms not only to divorce men they don't want to be with, but also not to marry them in the first place, why aren't we seeing marriages becoming more stable? because women have more options? this indeed makes sense that marriage is less stable. where it's very hard to get out of marriage because of legal and social restrictions, there will be less divorce. tl;dr more options = more marriage breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:28 PM
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For example, when I tell married female friends about my struggles, they seem genuinely surprised. Some would say „just get on a dating app, I have friends who get all kinds of dates there, must be very easy“. this sounds like bs. did your friends find their spouses on a dating app? somewhere around 99.999% of the people i know who date or are in relationships or married did not meet their partner or whatever on an app. btw what's OLD? edit: nvm. i got the acronym
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:07 PM
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Genetically nothing explains the discrepancy. it's not genetics. there are far more better looking women because they take care of themselves more. they have all kinds of tricks they spend money on like makeup and hair. they have more options when it comes to clothing. they probably eat better on average. most lads i go to school with just roll out of bed and show up for lecture; meanwhile the girls, for the most part, actually put some effort it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:11 PM
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"I'm going to get my life back on track, get my degree and keep on being a law-abiding citizen," Wint said. glad to hear such a spirit of perseverance. well done, lad.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 11:43 AM
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how can unreported cases be measured since they're unreported? i'm not suggesting crimes don't go unreported; i just don't understand this.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 11:33 AM
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when this finally gets on the market i reckon it's going to take a long time for men to get on board, at least a decade, because few will want to be the guinea pig and little point in risking it when women can take the contraceptive pill. once it's had a few years under its belt i'd absolutely try it unless it makes you batshit crazy the way some female contraceptive pills apparently do; might be better just to get the snip.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:25 AM
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Any way what do you guys think are women on the internet just outliers and not a good representation of women as whole not outliers, no. but not a good reputation of women as a whole because what happens is the same type of women with the same interests, same political opinions etc will flock to the same corners of the internet. so now, for instance, if you look around r/ twoxchromosones, they all have the same ideas so won't be a 'good representation of women as a whole'. this isn't limited to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:32 PM
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Fix the date, the location, and be persistent. i agree with fixing the date, time and location when asking someone out, but not because it seems 'masculine' or like a 'go getter'. i prefer this method even when my platonic female friends ask me out because then i can give an easy yes or no, rather than trying to negotiate something i may or may not be that interested in depending on the circumstance. 'wanna watch a movie tomorrow?' well maybe, maybe not. what time, what movie? where? being vague…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:33 PM
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Any time someone will try to orbit a girl before making a move wdym orbit her? orbiting doesn't mean looking for friendship...right? if orbiting isn't genuinely seeking friendship with her, then yes - it's a waste of time and a turn off cuz women don't like that fake friendship shit. jmho from listening to my flatmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:42 PM
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so? what does that have to do with what i said or the op?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:09 PM
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men aren't interested in becoming fathers but it happens anyway, somehow. get a vasectomy. insist on condoms and use them correctly ffs. and don't cum in every vagina that is open to you. not every vagina is worth it. These things are a huge factor in fatherlessness which most people here agree is a big issue. because that child didn't ask to be born. you want to abandon your son because 'life's not fair'? all i'm hearing from these conversations is that men don't give a fuck about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:03 AM
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it would be beneficial to men if they didn't put pussy on a pedestal and make pussy their idol, yes. is that what you mean?
/r/MensRights15/02/23 11:43 PM
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confused. what's the problem here? this is great for men if their partner doesn't want to share property.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 11:38 PM
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valentine's day revolves around women. who cares. if it makes them feel special it hardly costs anything, plus two days before she was making me sandwiches for the super bowl which she did not watch; it's called being in a relationship. But what are women expected to do? put out. And how many women actually also reciprocate the gift and the dinner? they always give a gift; they love that shit. they even buy themselves something like pink panties and do their hair fancy, things men don't do or sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:52 PM
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A survey in the UK found the second most popular reason for women not having children is that they can't find the right partner. The first reason was that they just didn't want kids. Wanting to focus on their career was way down the list. that survey is too misleading. look at r/childfree: when people say they don't want children it's for a multitude of reasons, not just one. of course the top choice in that survey is going to be 'not wanted children' cuz the answer incorporates a number of moti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:42 PM
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it's because women in Australia don't work. women only make up 38.4% of all full-time employees while making up 68.5% of all part-time employees. it gets even worse when you look at salaries and leadership positions; women hardly participate. it's not a progressive country, lads. women just want to live off men and make babies. https://www.wgea.gov.au/publications/gender-equality-workplace-statistics-at-a-glance-2022
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:17 PM
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Female consumer habits, entirely dictated by themselves, consume an enormous amount of highly profitable products: fashion, accessories, shoes, makeup, cosmetics, treatments, jewelry etc cost oftentimes pennies on the dollar compared to their sales price, and are constantly in need of replacement to keep in vogue if not for functional reasons. not to mention the hair. ffs so much money spent on hair and hair removal. it's ridiculous that women buy this shit; it's not like men get anything out of…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 07:56 PM
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it's the same problem in the porn industry. the only way women are going to lose sexual power is if men boycott women who sell sex; you can't sell something that no one wants.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 07:48 PM
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Men should enter marriage as virgins to increase the stability of the marriage and their marital happiness So men who are still virgins have the best conditions for future marital happiness and stability if they eventually find a woman to marry right away (ideally before first intercourse). this is not accurate. this is ignoring the fact that the man is only one person in the marriage. so what happens if he marries as a virgin and his wife has had sex with other men before him? she's going to ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:09 PM
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Serial monogamists who have fling after fling month after month are the worst i've never heard of that definition before; always thought serial monogamists were those who went from one long-term relationship to the next, afraid to be single. fling after fling could just be an unwillingness to settle down and not get too attached to anyone, but they only fuck one person at a time. been there done that, so wouldn't presume that person who has fling after fling is 'giving their heart away'; i surel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:23 PM
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i agree. absolutely useless to focus on being a victim to circumstance or things that happened in the past; you can only play the cards you are dealt with - hence, acknowledge the present and make a plan going forward. Nobody likes you? Reframe to "I don't think anybody like me right now. But I'm learning how to make friends" disagree with this tho. i don't give a fuck if anyone likes me.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 10:41 PM
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I was once explicitly told "Hey you're gonna be meeting my roommate Becca tonight AND YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO HIT ON HER" probably because it's her roommate and she doesn't want to hear you fucking in the next room. who cares what she thinks. it's only a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:18 PM
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hell yah
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:25 PM
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not sure about masculinity, but yeah team sports is great for mental and physical health. been playing footie since i was 5.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:10 PM
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this isn't new; the idea originated in 1920s Soviet Union, now mainly seen in eastern countries like Japan, Taiwan, China, Indonesia, Zambia. least western capitalism is smart enough to know menstrual leave is not justified. if women want to be in the workforce they need to be prepared to work - not take a full day to tend to their vagina.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:06 PM
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no, i'd rather cum on her tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:57 PM
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Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”? i've only read the opposite, that sex is something men do to women - ie men give it to her (figuratively and literally) and she takes it as the subordinate. this is theory by feminist and law professor Catharine MacKinnon (had to read it for law school). not saying i agree with this, but that's the theory and it's well famous. The obvious answers are that women are biologically predisposed to being more selective as they carry the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:15 PM
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holy cow. woman is 64 - she needs to retire. what the fuck is she doing?? it's not ageism; it's bad surgery. surely there are heaps of female celebrities over 60 with better surgeons. Michelle Pfeiffer, Jane Fonda, idk. however, it's equally fine to accept you're not 40 anymore. woman - you have a lot of money; sit on the beach and chill or something.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 04:06 PM
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dw women have a disproportionate interest in studying academic law, but this does not translate into working in the legal profession; only 52% of lawyers are women and only 35% are partners, ie senior positions. women think they want to do law but in the end most of them are not cut out for it. https://www.sra.org.uk/sra/equality-diversity/diversity-profession/diverse-legal-profession/#:~:text=Overall%2C%2052%25%20of%20lawyers%20are,up%20from%2045%25%20in%202019
/r/MensRights08/02/23 06:38 PM
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who cares if women are sold these romantic fairytales; it benefits men who favour traditional gender roles and women with low body counts because it trains women to believe they are emotional and that sex for them shouldn't be casual - it should be about love. if sex for women is not casual and about love, they are less likely to sleep around. better than feminism. all that victim blaming is rather disturbing in the op tho. how about the problem isn't women but all those toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:42 AM
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my 23 year old sister-in-law started dating a 60 year man this last year and is extremely happy. he's even left her 25% of his will. re Leo/Eden oh that woman definitely knows what she's doing; well done her. didn't even know her existence until their relationship was mentioned on reddit. ffs as if she's a victim here; she's making bank on her 15 mins of fame. if i were her, i'd do it too. pay off some of my student loans and shit.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:17 PM
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Because what if a deal breaker for you is conventionally considered ~shallow~ ? looks might be a dealbreaker but it doesn't follow that that's the only thing one is attracted to when finding/keeping a partner. some people require said partner to be good looking and funny, and ambitious and religious, and whatever. does that make them less shallow? even if it didn't, who cares. it's your life; do what makes you happy. ps this isn't an actual cmv, right? cuz there's no argument in the op.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:04 PM
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what's a content creator? someone who posts a pic or a video?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:16 AM
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this evolutionary thing ended a longggg time ago tho when polygamy was no longer in fashion and monogomy became the jam. no, men don't wish to impregnate everything they see anymore cuz they don't have to for survival. when they're beating their meat to all that porn they're not fantasising about impregnating all that puss, guaranteed. society does say tho that viewing women as sex objects is perfectly acceptable. 1 10% of men get 60% of the matches on dating apps. Women are literally competing …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:12 PM
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what did she say? i can't read the article.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:28 PM
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i guess, but all the beautiful girls i went to school with grew up to be massive losers. they all got like six kids and wearing yoga pants to Walmart.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:23 PM
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the porn industry indeed needs to go. how sick is it to be jerking off to feminists.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 06:49 PM
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i concur, it's great. presently sleeping with my best friend and had a few fwb in the past, all successful. confident i would still be friends with my past fwb too had i not moved country and lost contact with them. it's not for everyone tho; you gotta be really certain there's no chance of romantic attachment, otherwise it can get messy (so i hear). me, i was very good friends with these women before we started knocking boots so that's why it worked for us. from general observation tho, unfortu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:38 PM
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How does that not make sense? because evidently young women are indeed willing to and are having casual sex - 31% of millennial women in fact. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/how-attitudes-about-sex-have-changed-since-the-70s-2015-6%3famp so if 31% of millennial women are willing to have casual sex but lots of men are complaining they aren't getting any of it (not even the hot celebrities in your madeup scenario, apparently) then surely it goes to show women are having casua…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:57 AM
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Men drastically overestimate how easy it should be to have casual sex with women especially on any kind of regular or frequent basis. it's because they watch porn from a young age and think that sex with heterosexual women is that easy - you just have to show up to fuck. then they experience the real world and actually have to put in effort. wtf There seems to be a pervasive notion that women’s standards are too high for access to casual sex but they really aren’t. very few women are interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:39 AM
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As an aside, she is not only clearly in love with him, but she is getting lifted out of poverty and living a lifestyle that 90%+ of local men could never provide her, plus she has a man who has "status" in her culture. so she's exactly like every woman in western culture - only difference is she lives in the east. seriously, do we really think if lad had no money and no status she would be giving him that pussy and her passport? no way in hell. she wouldn't look at him twice. but when women in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:18 AM
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•Telling a white lie about your life, such as slightly embellishing your job description or hobbies to come across as more exciting/unique. jesus christ, this is child's play. ofc i embellish my job and hobbies; i assume she does too. •Lying about having shared interests or values to establish common ground. dependa on said interests. some might be harder to pull off if it entails knowing facts or making up a story to go along with it in order to sound believable. values i can find common ground…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:30 PM
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depends. what's her body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:22 AM
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There are men who pay for it directly by visiting a prostitute, and then there are those who pay for it indirectly through paying for dates, buying women stuff and also through their time and energy. no. not every man pays for sex. personally have had plenty of one night stands and my two long-term girlfriends in the past had their own money, didn't need mine. fwb is also grand but mind you you actually have to be friends with this person and not only want to get inside their pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:38 AM
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Further instances of this could have been avoided if anyone had told me the female coworkers thought this was an invasion of their personal space which jurisdiction are you in? i can only advise on employment rights in mine so double-check your area, but i would think they would be similar. if there are allegations of sexual misconduct you have a right to know about them upon first instance and be informed about the investigation as this affects your job and any possible disciplinary actions. yo…
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:50 PM
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i used to work in immigration, specifically family-class sponsorships. no one coming from a poor country is trying to sponsor someone from a rich country to come and live with them in their poor country. they're trying to move up. 1) You’re assuming that’s the only reason foreign women would have sex with PBs yes because they could just have sex with anyone outside their door. it's easy for women to get laid, it's not a challenge. don't need to sponsor someone from another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:23 AM
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The haters like talking out both sides of their mouth. They say the foreign women are just taking advantage of passport bros but then also say that the men are taking advantage of the poor “desperate” women. So which is it? both. but does that make you feel good as a man that the only reason a woman wants to fuck you is because of your passport and she will leave you once she gets it? you're so desperate to get laid tho you'll take it. surely this cannot be good for one's self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:32 AM
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Many men today are choosing to just do the minimum for themselves. this is the problem. many men are choosing to just do the bare minimum, but they still want women to give them what they want. it doesn't work that way, lads. if you put minimum effort in you're going to get minimum return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:31 PM
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no, can't get pussy is not a neglected public health problem. to be a public health problem would mean it's the responsibility of public bodies to alleviate it. what's the government going to do to fix the fact young men put pussy on a pedestal and lack game to get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:57 AM
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A 2009 study has indicated that a man's personality has no role in initial romantic attraction, which is necessary for mutual escalation. Instead, the primary predictor of initial romantic attraction is physical attractiveness [1]. apologies if i am blind. please can you quote the part of the source that says a man's personality has no role in initial romantic attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:08 AM
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fathers won't have to pay child support if women have children thro IVF, that's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:37 AM
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But now there’s the caveat that the woman they want to date has a child, that as a tax payer, he has paid for. With enough financial support (such as maternity leave, free IVF, low cost child care) where do you live that a single woman without a partner can get free IVF treatment? that's not the case in Canada, the US or the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:29 AM
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from the op: A recent study showed: the average age that humans had children throughout the past 250,000 years is 26.9. Furthermore, fathers were consistently older, at 30.7 years on average, than mothers, at 23.2 years on average, but the age gap has shrunk in the past 5,000 years, with the study's most recent estimates of maternal age averaging 26.4 years. yes and i notice the above conveniently edits out the last sentence/conclusion of the paragraph, which is - The shrinking gap seems to larg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:00 AM
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men don't prefer prostitutes tho. does it not make men feel more shitty about themselves if he has to pay someone to fuck him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:29 AM
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the average woman has a better chance of getting laid because the average man will fuck anything remotely interested in them. she smiled and she's not obese, hell yah let's fuck. the game would change if men had higher standards. if women have all these sexual option, then men only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:26 AM
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mental health services are a joke. where i'm from takes half a year to get into counselling and in that 6 month wait you're dying a slow death, and i am not a weak person by any stretch. i do everything on my own; never lean on anyone or ask for help otherwise. everyone has their breaking point tho. most men who tried to kill them selves sought out professional help but never got it because men get ignored our block in most country's mentil health services who refuse to help them on most cases. …
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:33 AM
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oh my god, that's awful. shit. yeah my best friend was bullied and raped as a kid too and i see how it fucking haunts him. were your parents not supportive or why didn't they seek a lawyer? i know it's a painful process tho and it feels like it's not worth the battle. it fucking sucks that this is the system we have to deal with or suck it up ourselves. yeah i also had another stalking experience where lad would sit outside my house and followed me around town, no joke. he was also a pathologica…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:07 AM
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funny you should say that, he has experienced serious stalking too (unrelated matter) and so have i, as in breaking into my email and hiring a private investigator to find me, i shit you not. it's fucked up. i can barely be online now because of my paranoia. what's your experience been like?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 09:28 AM
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not only my best friend but i know what it's like to not be taken seriously myself. sounds like you too. don't back down. it's bullshit and we all know it.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 03:19 AM
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my best friend was raped by another boy on the playground while other boys watched. i don't think any of the women in his life took this seriously enough. makes me sick.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 02:51 AM
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men need to get off dating apps; it's so toxic for their sell esteem. they think they have allllll this choice and it should be soooo easy to get laid, but obvs this is not the case; all the whinging proves that. in practice these men are playing small fish in a fucking giant pond. what are the odds one is going to stand out in that crowd and with a profile/pic that says virtually nothing about the real them and mimics everyone else's (?).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:31 AM
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Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. so i guess lots of women don't care to live up to men's standards; that's ultimately the complaint here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:37 AM
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that's fucked up. surely this was fraud and not done legally (?) was she just grabbing names out of a hat?
/r/MensRights22/01/23 02:37 AM
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Physical attraction means from either side of the fence means that there will always be a hidden intent. She or he will always be open to a relationship if you're down for it. physical attraction ≠ romantic attraction tho which is required for a proper relationship outside of fwb. i mean sometimes no matter how physically hot one is the spark just isn't there or the timings not right, or someone fancies someone else more. i know, i am friends with plenty of very good-looking women, some i've eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:48 PM
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no. If a man was not married to the mother of the child, he has no obligation to pay support for the child, and has no legal right to custody or visitation with the child, unless he is legally named the father of the child, through an order of filiation or an acknowledgment of paternity. https://ww2.nycourts.gov/COURTS/nyc/family/faqs_paternity.shtml#:~:text=If%20a%20man%20was%20not,or%20an%20acknowledgment%20of%20paternity. to get an order for you to pay child support she would first have to fi…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 09:17 PM
0

about getting boys? how? Jennifer Lopez broke up with fiance and would-be third husband Alex Rodriguez and five seconds later was dating Ben Affleck (whom apparently she's now married to). if you look at the dating history of Halle Berry and Jen Aniston they're never single for long either. if you need more examples i'm sure i can find you them.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 11:14 AM
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Because I see proof of what I believe everywhere (online, in media, in interviews with older female celebs, and elsewhere)...and proof of what she says (that I am wrong) nowhere, except by her word. you're hyperconscious of this age+beauty thing - that's why you're seeing it everywhere. headlines that confirm your beliefs and fears will stand out like a sore thumb, drawing you in. and the more you read them, the more it confirms you are indeed correct so you keep doing it. that doesn't mean what…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 10:37 AM
1

totally. my sister-in-law who is 24 is dating a man who is 60. facts.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 04:43 AM
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i agree - feminists get too much credit, then and now. we want to give credit to where credit is due then we must look to those who are running governments and the judiciary. it ain't a bunch of feminists.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 07:39 PM
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^ This. google Jian Ghomeshi, he's a Canadian radio celebrity who proved he didn't rape his accuser because she texted him the next day.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 04:28 AM
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because you assume men to be sexual predators and you support these double standards?
/r/MensRights15/01/23 06:37 PM
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wdym, you've never heard of this? that's why terfs don't want trans women in their 'women's only spaces'. because they see them as men and therefore they must be sexual predators. edit: that's why, as the OP has noted, transmen don’t get as much hate from TERFs, cuz they believe they are women and therefore not a threat or a sexual predator.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 06:19 PM
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because terfs see trans women as men and like all men, of course, that makes them sexual predators. ffs give me a break
/r/MensRights15/01/23 05:54 PM
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i agree with all the comments regarding appearance; that fake shit looks like trash. but you should care about a potential partner's job and earning potential and if they can live independently of you. cuz if they are dependent on your income, you might be financing them and any children you have together after your relationship breaks up. it's not worth the risk.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 12:38 AM
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if men stopped swiping right on everything it would change the game. we need to have higher standards than just the average pussy.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 05:47 AM
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jesus christ. what a sick fuck. grooming gangs have been a serious issue in the UK and she exploits this - for what reason. facebook likes???? meanwhile the men she accused had waited over 3 years after their arrest to be cleared at trial. wtf from the article: in court Mr Sandiford [the prosecution] pointed out the similarities between some of her claims and the plots of the Liam Neeson film Taken and the BBC drama Three Girls. Mr Ramzan [the defendant] suggested his accuser had lifted part of …
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:50 AM
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and even when i think of men who kill themselves , usually they don't look like the ones who i have sad live (like no friends , no family , no money and etc...). after almost a decade of generalised anxiety disorder, ptsd and on-and-off severe depression due to sexual abuse i seriously attempted to commit suicide six times last year. tried to seek help many times over the years; no one takes you seriously when you don't look like someone with issues. most days i want to scream.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:47 PM
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oh ffs. from the article: Psychologists have developed the stereotype content model, which proposes that people tend to perceive men as competent but not warm, and women as warm but not competent (Glick and Fiske, 1996). People also perceive male-dominated jobs as requiring more competence and female-dominated jobs as requiring more warmth (Cuddy, Fiske and Glick, 2008). As these stereotypes are associated both with individuals and jobs, it is highly plausible that employers discriminate applica…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:34 AM
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two out of the three suicides of these men's daughters were driven by depression under our two year lockdown; they couldn't take being caged like an animal with their lives being turned upside down. yep, lockdown killed many people in various ways just to prevent the minority from getting a fucking cold. thanks Tories https://www.3dadswalking.uk/
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:36 PM
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to be honest i think this might be true cuz why would anyone be interested in a C Lister who no one cares about and says desperate things to stay relevant? this woman is a nobody
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:21 AM
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Is there a Way that I could help her realize that she is going down the wrong path I understand that we basically have no future together but I still care about her enough for her to get better no, it's not a matter of convincing her. she - with a substance problem - needs to come to her own conclusion that her behaviour is toxic towards others and herself. sadly, for some people it takes a lot of rock-bottom behaviour, self harm and abandonment before they get there, but she is not your respons…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 06:57 AM
2

reasons i don't watch porn. porn is just throwing women more money than they deserve
/r/MensRights04/01/23 09:38 PM
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it's impossible to measure actual criminal activity because much of it goes by unreported. all statistics tell us is how many convictions were secured; they don't even necessarily tell us how many instances were reported that didn't go to trial cuz there wasn't enough evidence to attempt to prosecute. hence, statistics must be treated for what they are and not what we hope them to be. the other thing is just because there wasn't a conviction doesn't mean a crime wasn't committed; it just means i…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:55 PM
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mate, you can't let the faculty staff run you out of uni. did you make a complaint? are you going back? my ex also has narcissistic personality disorder and it ruined me too so i feel that. have long-term mental health issues as a result and have been in and out of therapy for years. hope you're taking care of yourself; it's important.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:40 AM
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I fully support lifelong monogamous relationships, with lifelong commitments. I see them as healthy and an ideal environment to raise children. this is assuming the relationship never ends tho, right? because if it does someone will still have to pay child support for young children and to avoid dividing property you can never live with your lifelong partner; you need separate homes at least in my jurisdiction (UK), otherwise, even if there's only one legal name on the property the other can ear…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 10:59 AM
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I'm making a proper document hightlighting some moments people on the internet were unfair to men as compared to women, do you have any examples of such instances? i think i understand where your heat is but i don't understand why this matter tho. who cares about random people on the internet? have you seen people on the internet? there's far more uneducated opinions than not.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 05:10 PM
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men can be feminists
/r/MensRights30/12/22 10:15 PM
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care to explain then? edit: my bad. source: 'The contraceptive pill was developed during the 1950s by American scientists led by Dr Gregory Pincus and with the support of women’s rights campaigner Margaret Sanger.' https://peopleshistorynhs.org/encyclopaedia/birth-control-on-the-nhs/#:~:text=The%20contraceptive%20pill%20was%20developed,pregnancy%20and%20therefore%20offsets%20conception.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 10:07 PM
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holy cow. welp i don't live in America or South Australia. use your brain to assume not everyone does nor does the history of voting rights in South Australia transport to Wyoming. different countries and different states, mate.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 10:02 PM
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the introduction of the contraceptive pill for one. without it myself and others might be a father a few times over. voting rights for the betterment of democracy.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 07:12 PM
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you sure abortion is available this late? idk american law exactly but i know some places won't perform an abortion after 20 weeks unless carrying the pregnancy to term is a health risk to the mother or the fetus.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:16 AM
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Canada's law is gender neutral, actually, so all genders can be convicted of rape (altho in law Canada calls it sexual assault and there's more than one level depending on the severity of the crime). New Zealand and the UK are guilty of this tho; only men can be convicted of rape. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/cj-jp/victim/rr14_01/p10.html
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:00 AM
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i had to report a doctor once for sexual battery. as a nurse he'll be a part of a nursing association (whatever it's called in your jurisdiction) where you can report him for misconduct. they'll interview you and conduct an investigation and if deemed there was misconduct he'll lose his job.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:24 PM
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men who don't reason logically need support from other men too and also need to hear different opinions, otherwise their only option is echo chambers which is dangerous. if that happens they'll never develop and learn to be logical because echo chambers only enforce existing ideas.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 07:34 PM
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exactly. men enjoy women for sex, not sports.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 02:10 PM
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Is it because if we stop encouraging the men to pursue commitment with women the marriage and relationship market collapses as a whole? i reckon singlehood should be praised more, but it only works for those who have great friends in their life; that's why women tend to be more content at being single than men because of their friendship groups. this gap is what we need to address somehow; need to identify the root of why men make less close friends and work from there. perhaps if men changed th…
/r/MensRights25/12/22 08:35 PM
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this has to change. my best friend was so physically abused by his father when he was a child that he barely has any memories of his childhood now due to all the trauma. there's no shame in being a victim of abuse, lads.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 08:17 PM
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Yes I understand the state puts the child's welfare number one, but why can't the female carry that burden if she decides to keep it? the fact of the matter is, in Canada anyway, this is not a matter of case law that can be brought before the court. Canada is bound by a number of human rights treaties including the Conversation on the Rights of the Child which includes the right to life, survival and development (article 6) and binds adults who make decisions on budgets, policies and laws to act…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:27 PM
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from the article: According to the US Bureau of Labor Statistics, men account for only 3 percent of preschool and kindergarten teachers and 13 percent of registered nurses in the US. ridiculous. if there's going to be a campaign for women to pursue STEM then equally there should be a campaign for men to pursue elementary school teaching and nursing. i mean why not?
/r/MensRights23/12/22 06:36 PM
2

yikes. i do not use dating for anything more than sex.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 02:25 PM
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good for you leaving her destitute; i would've done the same thing. absolutely ridiculous this pornified culture we live in.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 02:16 PM
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people are assholes, can confirm. on December 27th i will have been homeless for 11 months.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:07 PM
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what the actual fuck??? sickening. hope the prosecutor applies to the court for those 14 and over to be tried as adults.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:33 PM
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seriously? you thought all lawyers are ethical? i'm not a lawyer but i am a law student. when we studied sexual offences there was be a ripple of laughter from lads all over the lecture theatre; they thought sexual assault was hilarious. fyi at least half of them have no integrity and go into it for the money, mate. that is all.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:54 PM
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Johnny let her off easily. 100% classy bloke
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:40 PM
1

there was a highly publicised case around my parts (Ireland) where a man was acquitted of rape. his defense lawyer argued that because the victim wore a lacy thong that it was evidence that she wanted the sex. at trial the defense lawyer argued: "Does the evidence out-rule the possibility that she was attracted to the defendant and was open to meeting someone and being with someone? "You have to look at the way she was dressed. She was wearing a thong with a lace front." https://www.google.com/a…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 02:57 PM
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i'm confused. are you calling sex workers 'cunts'? because you know this is what they are, right? a sex worker is a woman who uses and abuses other men to get what they want, who prey on the loneliness of men to steal thier money yet you want to sleep with one anyway? why would you want to pay money to have sex with someone you hate?
/r/MensRights18/12/22 06:55 PM
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men and women use each other for different reasons. don't listen to feminists who judge you; you do you. my best mate's sister is in a relationship with a man 35 years older and they both enjoy it.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 09:50 PM
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i don't get it. you don't like looking at sexy women?
/r/MensRights17/12/22 05:58 PM
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Meanwhile a lot of women can literally use up their men's savings for pure selfish indulgences such as getting their nails done, for a long nite out with the girls, go out partying and drinking, etc. And if she wastes those savings, dammed to hell for the guy. i would never pay anything for my woman; i have my own bank account and she has hers.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 01:07 PM
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indeed. prenups are not automatically legally binding where i live (UK).
/r/MensRights16/12/22 11:42 AM
1

I would never want to lose any children I have and while I know that if I pick the right girl it won't be a problem, it's too dangerous imo to risk it. good, and if you want children in the future you could look at adopting as a single parent. be mindful tho that you can avoid paying alimony upon divorce if you marry someone who makes equal or more money than you.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 11:41 AM
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'searches for the word increased by 1,400% after Ketanji Brown Jackson was asked to define it in her confirmation hearing.' that's amazing.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:59 PM
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i have no idea, man. male police officers should obviously be paid more than female officers.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:34 AM
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yes of course. only problem is it's impossible to get a rape trial done before the last trimester. in my jurisdiction anyway it takes an average of 357 days for a case to get all the way to the criminal court, and an average of 178 days in court to get to an outcome. https://www.stuartmillersolicitors.co.uk/how-long-after-being-charged-take-court/ to get a medically-assisted abortion then a doctor would simply have to trust the patient if they claim they have been raped.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 06:55 PM
1

Masculinity, also called manhood or manliness, is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles associated with men and boys. There are several communities in loads of social media platforms that teach you how to be a man. yes of course, but i wouldn't look to social media. too many freaks out there spreading a bad message of what it means to be man. too many men on social media participating in the oppression olympics and hoping that women will save them.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 02:50 PM
4

what kind of attempts?
/r/MensRights13/12/22 10:38 PM
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Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Reciprocity was associated with more frequent violence among women (adjusted odds ratio [AOR]=2.3; 95% confidence interval [CI]=1.9, 2.8), but not men (AOR=1.26; 95% CI=0.9, 1.7). i'm not sure that is such a good source since when you do the numbers women are by far more likely to be the victim…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 06:25 PM
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Will new Australian laws targeting "right-wing extremism" be used to shut down men's rights forums no? not unless it's a forum for terrorists. is this a terrorist forum? did you read the article where it says changes to terrorism law?
/r/MensRights12/12/22 12:48 PM
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can confirm; i used to live there. shockingly sexist and racist to boot (not everyone ofc, but moreso than other countries i've lived).
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:44 PM
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can't read the article. who wants to ban male helpline operators? why do they want to do that? wow, that must be a hard job. personally used to work at a charity which gave general and legal advice to clients, one area being family law. was very difficult to hear real people on the phone suffering through relationship breakdown and abuse. i couldn't do exclusively domestic violence i don't think.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:40 PM
0

i'm so confused. why do you think these men wanted a traditional woman? traditional women don't ghost men; is that what you are suggesting?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:12 PM
2

This "worst of the bottom, best of the top" mentality is constantly pushed on men (throughout any time period), and can be seen in areas of conflict and danger like the military and police, both of which exist as a means of tempering "toxic masculinity", yet altogether continue to insist that men exist not just to keep women safe, but to police other men through violence, force, and other elements of "toxic masculinity" i don't get this. you want the military and the police force to be filled wi…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 12:50 PM
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wonder what her husband thinks.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:35 PM
3

pregnancy i guess and someone reporting you to the police. hopefully it can't be enforced for the most part because 'hopefully' one would need actual evidence and not just rumors or suspicions; that would be quite sick.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 06:33 PM
4

this is ridiculous. a ridiculous breach of human rights and sick to think that anyone would report premarital sex to the police. can you imagin being a woman in this country if she has premarital sex and accidentally gets pregnant? guess no choice but to get married very quickly or shove a coat hanger up herself.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 06:26 PM
3

my dad taught me to never ask for help and it ruined me. Now- social media is constantly saying “ it’s okay to not be okay” or “ Men need help too” so my questions is does that only apply to mental health? no, but it's a primary concern because mental health problems can last for years without treatment and can ruin a person's life.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 01:45 PM
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and don't have children
/r/MensRights07/12/22 11:37 AM
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for this to be taken seriously by parliament should it not explain why the current law of perverting the course of justice with a term of up to life imprisonment is insufficient? https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/false-allegations-rape-andor-domestic-abuse-see-guidance-charging-perverting-course#:~:text=A%20person%20who%20deliberately%20makes,subject%20to%20public%20interest%20considerations.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:44 PM
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disgusting.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 03:39 PM
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i wouldn't want an army of women fighting a war against an army of men. they would definitely lose. that's why they shouldn't be drafted
/r/MensRights04/12/22 06:51 PM
1

My HR manager told me to keep everything "confidential" problem is how am I supposed to defend my reputation while being silenced? which jurisdiction are you in? if you think you've been treated unfairly then you should be able to raise a grievance at work; that's your first step and you don't need a lawyer for it. guessing you're not in a union?
/r/MensRights03/12/22 01:33 PM
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did you read the article? it said - 'Women also felt disproportionately responsible for childcare arrangements, and more likely to leave work for their children. This is likely a symptom of a broader issue, wherein women are expected to bear the bulk of child-rearing, despite having careers. In the same ABA study mentioned above, 54% of female lawyers stated childcare was their full responsibility. The same was true for only 1% of men.' see? it's not about wanting to go see a concert.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:44 AM
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yep, see link below. it's an american source but similar laws can be found in other jurisdictions. https://www.manderslaw.com/do-i-have-any-rights-to-my-partners-house-the-legal-rights-of-unmarried-couples/
/r/MensRights30/11/22 06:37 PM
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and don't live with your partner because they might obtain a beneficial interest in your property. best not to share anything.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 10:22 AM
2

Just because I "politely" disagreed with certain aspects of her new age "religion" she chose feminism over what should have been a long amazing love story. i would not morn this relationship, mate; it would never have been a long amazing love story unless you and her agreed politically and in my experience people who view themselves as victims and play the oppression olympics never change. just be glad this only lasted five months.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 10:10 AM
1

She always tries to guilt trip me and wanting to know if I want her to take a DNA test. so she's offering to do a DNA test? take it man, what's the big deal? get it over with so you can plan accordingly. my best friend's sister doesn't know who her dad is because the potential father refused to do a DNA test. you don't want to be like that dude.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 10:16 AM
6

no, i hate my last name. i'll take hers.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 10:07 AM
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it should be rape, but in my jurisdiction anyway (UK) it currently isn't. similarly we had a case where a man lied about having a vacectomy to have sex with a woman and then got her pregnant. ultimately a judge decided the lie did not cancel out the woman's consent to have sex. don't ask me. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-49127545.amp https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8555169/amp/Amateur-boxer-55-lied-having-vasectomy-resultant-rape-convictio…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 10:46 AM
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who lets their girlfriend be a stay-at-home girlfriend. he's either a very rich man in need of a servant or a cuck.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 08:12 AM
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1) Are rights "nautural", that is something inherent to each person regardless of age, race, status, etc and merely recognized by civil govenrments or are they actually privileges that are granted by the government and thereby subject to change/removal? no, rights are not natural; they are a social construct given to you by those in political office and/or the judiciary and which change from time and place. for example, a person did not have a right to abort a fetus in America 1972 but then had …
/r/MensRights26/11/22 07:02 AM
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kudos to you, mate - this is excellent advice. i know i never forgave the person who raped me and it ended up ruining me, to the point i couldn't handle my mental health issues, attempted suicide many times since my trauma - 7 times alone in 2021. got so out of control with my depression i couldn't take care of myself and am now homeless. moral of the story: unforgiveness is like drinking poison yourself and waiting for the other person to die. don't be me; be OP.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:53 AM
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i would suggest you first google male guardianship law to start with because Qatar is indeed very much a patriarchy. in a nutshell women there are first the property of their father, then they are the property of their husband. women have to obtain a man's permission (usually their father’s or brother’s) to marry, to travel, to get educated, to get some forms of medical treatment. they have zero rights to their children, even upon divorce or the father has deceased. if another male relative is u…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 06:34 AM
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If you aim to have children then you are accepting there is a 50% or so chance the child will be a boy. And that boy will be brought into a world that fucking despises him simply because of an immutable characteristic assigned while he was still a fetus. i don't plan on having children but this is exactly why i would never abandon my child if i accidentally created one, especially if it's a boy. sons need their fathers; i have a responsibility to protect my son and be a good role model for him.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 08:43 AM
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downvotes aren't comments. and everyone knows subreddits are a big circle jerk
/r/MensRights20/11/22 11:34 PM
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a hundred comments yelling at me? where?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:38 PM
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wow. what a choice, to live with your domestically abusive partner or stay in a shelter. have you ever stayed in a shelter? this is like asking if you want to be shot in your left nut or the right nut.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:28 PM
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indeed. i think that's because heterosexuals women are still expected to be wives and mothers who sacrifice their career for their families, so they look for a partner who can be the breadwinner. can't wait till that's no longer the case.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 08:04 PM
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well yeah, this is nothing new. notice sex between two women was never illegal; only sex between two men was ever criminalised. well the article in the op says it's due to gender norms and the ideology of traditional masculinity, right? homosexual men meanwhile are viewed as feminine, a social faux pas, cuz men are supposed to be masculine. see link below also for the relationship between homosexuality and femininity. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7432091/
/r/MensRights19/11/22 07:01 PM
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no. speaking as a homeless person i would rather live with an abusive person than starve and freeze to death. what are you saying
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:44 AM
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no why would i think that? what does the article say, then.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:39 AM
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oh i see by my downvotes that y'all haven't got the gist of the article and haven't read it. just another opportunity to blame women speaking as a homeless man, btw. homeless for the last nine months
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:01 PM
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did you read the article or is this just another chance to whinge about women and take the victim
/r/MensRights18/11/22 10:18 PM
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find it bizarre that this is posted here since the article is talking about women's issues and why they stay with their domestically abusive male partners.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 10:04 PM
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it was hard to read because even tho i accepted the cookies the cookies page wouldn't disappear (beats me). from what i gather this is a great service for survivors of sexual violence. the organisation doesn't declare itself to be a men's rights campaign because it doesn't want to make this a gender issue, is that correct?
/r/MensRights18/11/22 09:29 PM
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who talked about the right to cheat? the article was about self esteem
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:00 AM
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wow. mens rights.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 12:31 AM
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i wasn't being sarcastic tho. cheating on my last partner made me feel great. you need an explanation otherwise it's sarcasm?
/r/MensRights17/11/22 11:12 PM
1

why?
/r/MensRights17/11/22 11:08 PM
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that's unfortunate. i loved cheating on my last partner; it made me feel great.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:32 PM
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The judge in the case said that this has to stop diversity is great and all but not at the expense of other people and that choosing skin colour, gender etc., is fine if it is to break a tie, but it should not be the primary reason for a promotion. that's the law in the UK, indeed. is this where this took place?
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:29 PM
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elementary aged students found her only fans page? jesus christ, what safeguards does this website have? honest question because i have never googled this thing.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:25 PM
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If women are entitled in divorce to half the fortune that their ex-husband entrepreneur made over the years because they contributed equally to the business by being married to him, shouldn't then women be liable for half the dept of an ex's business when he didn't do so well? the question is not so simple; depends on the type of business structure. if we're talking sole proprietorship where the business is not its own separate legal entity, then the business' debt is personal debt and joint mar…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:39 PM
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where is this, is this an american thing? question - how can i fight back against this? if this is not considered an openly racist policy, what is? what's the law on this where you live?
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:48 PM
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i would never marry someone who earns substantially less money than me and gives up her salary to raise our children. disaster waiting to happen should the marriage not work.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 02:17 AM
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Posts like this ruins the mood, from few days I'm stumbling across these kinds of post, and seriously man, I'm just done with all this. I regret using reddit for this. you need to be selective with what you pay attention to. i used to purposely read things that i knew would piss me off because it confirmed what i was already mad at, like i got off on hate watching. it's not healthy tho for anyone.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 07:35 PM
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think it stems from parents; they tend to be more protective of their little girl because they think someone out there will hurt her and 'boys always think about sex', so she grows up afraid or at least suspicious of other people, particularly men. well i know when i was growing up my dad wouldn't let my sister do the same things as i was allowed to do.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 06:04 PM
1

indeed! so what's the point
/r/MensRights10/11/22 11:32 PM
1

apologies i hope to clarify. i hate abortion because there is potential there in unborn cells; i also hate the social fact that men regularly abandon their biological children, so if you're a pregnant person stuck in a hard place, what do you do?
/r/MensRights10/11/22 11:25 PM
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i'm a law student and had to write a paper on abortion law and so i see it as a legal issue and nothing more than that. the fact is abortion has been happening since the beginning of time; it's just that when it was criminalised it was procured in dangerous ways, the most common method being drinking poison, throwing oneself down stairs, or putting dangerous objects inside one's cavity. none of which i support. hence, while i hate abortion, criminalising it does not prevent it from happening whi…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 10:50 PM
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i find this a bit confusing. so a woman has to be seen as good looking to get higher grades? dang. sucks if you're a woman and not good looking.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 08:26 PM
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we need default 50/50 equal shared parenting like many first world countries like Australia and Brazil have. do you mean parental leave or parenting beyond that? i'm assuming the former?
/r/MensRights10/11/22 05:57 PM
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yes ofc it's abortion privilege, assuming abortion is legalised. i suppose then men have will-never-get-pregnant privilege. i sure as hell would never want to experience child birth, i'll tell you that for free.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 07:43 PM
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that has got to be the biggest horseshit i have ever read. wiping the laughing tears from my eyes some people choose to be single and/or have casual relationships because they like it; it fits their lifestyle. why is that so hard to believe.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 07:00 PM
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christ, what are you going to do? have you contacted a lawyer? Now I understand why many women don't speak out against their abusers for fear of retaliation yep, that and the fear of not being believed and if it's criminal the headache of all the hoops you have to jump through to convict the harasser. and if you want a civil suit there won't be a point in going through with it if the harasser has no money you can sue for. seen this with my friends.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 04:44 PM
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for some reason i couldn't access the links to know what Ms Baxter said, but anyway i don't think we should have international women's day either. like what is the point; are there events or something? not around me there isn't.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 05:08 PM
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well totally. a teenager doesn't need a full-time babysitter so wtf does mommy have to be at home all the time; not sure man thought it all the way through. plus she's a solicitor and he's an investment banker - they can certainly afford childcare ykwim. jesus christ, i used to work at a law firm where one of the lawyers had four children and still managed to make partner. you can do both.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:22 PM
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wow. i only read the op, i didn't know she makes that much more than him. holy cow that sounds like a mistake to be out of employment till their youngest turns 18; a little excessive i would say. welp good she found out now before the wedding, not that he could make her quit her career but that would be one hell of an argument.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 07:52 PM
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I wanted to ask if most men expect their wife to essentially quit the job they have to care for the kids. no, i don't think most men expect their wives to quit their jobs. maybe in an ideal world that would be nice but i reckon it's not financially feasible for most men in 2022. women do tend to sacrifice their careers when they have children tho because they need time to physically recover after giving birth, then they breastfeed, and if you do this more than once you can be out of work for a f…
/r/MensRights06/11/22 07:30 PM
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idk if women are affected the most in those examples but i do agree that it's in women's interest that men are healthy and have support systems in place. if one part of the body is broken it affects the rest.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:57 PM
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not just men tho, strangely many women have been on the list including Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Aniston, Rhianna, Gal Gadot to name a few. don't ask me why it's called man of the year.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 06:35 PM
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GQ used 'icon of the year' in the past.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 06:31 PM
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yep Jennifer Lopez was on the list in 2019 and Jennifer Aniston in 2005 so...
/r/MensRights05/11/22 06:26 PM
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thanks. i know things
/r/MensRights05/11/22 12:19 AM
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it's not a myth and i do not have a history degree - i study law. LLB. bachelor of laws. i'm guessing you didn't get around to reading the link i sent above from Harvard Business School regarding coverture? William Blackstone - the one you quoted - was describing coverture. until 1870 women were regarded as additions to their husband's property. her legal existence was merged with his. any property these women possibly had they lost the right to because it became his property. wives were not eve…
/r/MensRights04/11/22 10:28 PM
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sorry i'm not sure i follow. i'm not comparing rape in marriage to rape outside marriage, is that what you thought? my point in the last paragraph is addressing the fact that the OP's trying to argue that before 1991 rape in marriage was illegal; it's just that it was called 'assault' - hence, feminists shouldn't complain. it's just a word. my argument is if it's 'just a word' then likewise men in the UK shouldn't complain about rape law. here, fyi rape is qualified by having a penis, so women w…
/r/MensRights04/11/22 08:01 PM
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The reason, as mentioned earlier, why marital rape wasn't considered rape wasn't because women were property (they weren't) but because when a man and a woman married, they became one person, and consented to sex for their entire life if they were to spend their life together. 18th century British author Sir William Blackstone wrote in 1765 in his book on English law that by marriage, the husband and wife were legally one person yep, that's the doctrine of coverture. that's why wives were indeed…
/r/MensRights04/11/22 06:17 PM
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no worries. in arizona grandparents have visitation rights. see link below for more explanation. https://www.simonlawgroupaz.com/how-to-apply-for-grandparents-rights-in-arizona/ if your brother's ex is refusing visitation then your mom can file a petition to the court. you don't have to do this with a lawyer, just need to find the right form. i don't live in arizona or even the states for that matter so don't want to tell you which form it is. perhaps there is a free legal clinic in your area or…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:47 PM
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I'm asking this because I saw a couple of posts involving a man who was raped by a man, and the comments are filled with men making fun of the victim. that's disgusting. reminds me my best friend was raped by a male classmate when he was 13 while a bunch of other boys watched. yep, boys and men use rape against each other as a form of humiliation and intimidation ('make you my bitch'). no, i don't think men call this out enough; rarely do they even address it. why, idk. maybe because it would ho…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:22 PM
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As a father in the state of Arizona, what are his options? who's got custody of the kids? even if your brother's ex-wife has sole custody she cannot legally just relocate to another state. she must notify him 45 days in advance and give him 30 days to file an objection with the court. https://www.arizonalawgroup.com/child-custody/child-relocation-move-aways/#:~:text=A%3A%20No.,they%20choose%20to%20do%20so. Another factor is my Mom, (The boys Grandma) she hasn't seen her only 2 grand children in …
/r/MensRights02/11/22 05:55 PM
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you are using an old definition of the term tho, 25 years old in fact. the incel community has changed since 1997 to where now incels prescribe to a specific ideology known as the black pill. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1097184X211017954 the link above is from an academic paper, not the media btw. 'Incels essentializing discourse on masculinity is employed to both protect and justify misogyny in virtual spaces and beyond. Here, incels are participants in a larger environment of…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 06:52 PM
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Now, with modern dating apps, they have access to NUMEROUS tall, attractive males at their fingertips. i don't do dating apps but from general observation they do more harm then good, especially for men and their mental health as it looks like there's all this choice because of the sheer number of users, but in reality now you're just a small fish in a fucking gigantic pond. very hard to stick out there, so men swipe right on everyone and everything hoping to catch something and bombarding women…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 05:10 PM
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most understand that they can lose alimony if caught cheating, interesting..which jurisdiction? i study law in the UK and worked in family law in Canada and cheating is a grounds for divorce but has zero effect on spousal support or other finances. the courts don't care if you fucked around.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:14 PM
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well i don't live in the US but i know it's quite religious in the southern states at least and so marriage would make sense since simply living together and having sex would be sinful, right? you don't need to be married to get screwed over when your relationship breaks up tho, so long as you share property and have kids with this person; indeed cohabiting people do have rights and so do children. what is the other option tho? if you're a heterosexual man don't share any property and best to be…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 03:36 PM
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can't read the article without a subscription. do you have another source?
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:37 AM
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'one juror had viewed social media posts made by the alleged victim dating back 10 years.' thank god something you posted on social media a decade prior that is not relevant to your trial cannot be used as evidence. scary to think tho in the day of the internet how many jurors do their own research and don't get caught. probably happens all the time.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:27 AM
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how did she discuss the case. did she discuss the facts from the case to the media? edit: not sure why asking a question is getting downvoted
/r/MensRights27/10/22 03:29 PM
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what did she say that could be contempt of court?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:46 AM
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i can't see the video as it says it's private?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:43 AM
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she's waited 3.5 years for this trial to be heard so no wonder she is frustrated. not only that but the accused has a right to a fair trial without 'undue delay' (at least where i'm from). wouldn't want to be accused of a crime and then have to wait 4 years to be cleared of it. can't find a source that says Higgins called for an end to due process. if someone has one i'm curious to see it.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:42 AM
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apologies, i wasn't trying to insult you. i genuinely wanted to know because it just doesn't seem like date conversation. idk
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:41 PM
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Plus like vegans they tell you and it’s pretty obvious i agree that it's pretty obvious when someone is a feminist, but they don't tell you directly. also, it is evident that often people misidentify others as feminist when they really are not. not too long ago someone on here said all women are feminist. certainly not true, lots of women are not. btw you usually know when you're with a vegan because they order the vegan option on the menu; don't need to tell you directly.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:37 PM
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just wondering if you ever gotten laid by asking a woman her opinion on the gender pay gap. that sounds like cringe to me
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:06 PM
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i don't know man. many people who call themselves feminist have never read feminist theory, could not name a radical feminist. i know, i go to university with them.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:00 PM
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i'm sure if you talk about politics in general it's going to leak out and you will find out if you see eye-to-eye on political issues. doesn't have to be a direct question like 'what are your thoughts on the patriarchy'.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 07:55 PM
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Anyway the next day she asked me for $30 for plan B and I sent it to her on PayPal but she keeps refusing to show me a receipt or even confirmed she took or bought it. Just talks about the money and is super non chalant and not caring that she’s possibly pregnant. And the fact that the PayPal payment is taking 5-7 days to send cuz it’s an echeck is making her act more crazy. It’s been almost 48 hours now and I’m starting to freak the fuck out. sorry i don't understand. if the payment takes 5-7 d…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 01:59 PM
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my ex earned more than twice as much as me; never again will i choose to be in a relationship with someone who earns outside my financial bracket. the potential for abuse is far too great because it causes a power embalance. at least, in my experience, the person who earns more gets more say in financial decisions and will try to use the fact they earn more to guilt trip you on occasion. should have known better since i've seen this with my parents.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 01:51 PM
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most of those quotes there have nothing to do with physical violence towards men. the only one i can see from it is the Andrea Dworkin quote and i would have to read it in context to understand the meaning behind it; for all you and i know it could have been a hyperbole. would you care to expand on her quote?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:19 PM
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i want to engage with this but i can't because i don't know if Andrea Dworkin has advocated violence or you have misunderstood. can you give a source and/or expand on that? only thing i know about Dworkin is her position on pornography which is not relevant here. i've never heard of 'kill all men' in feminist theory. who said that? and idk you tell me which feminist said the male population should be reduced to 10%? sounds like you made this up tbqf. could you give me an example of feminist char…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:58 PM
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yes, i'm saying you cannot hold that view and call yourself a feminist at the same time because there is no feminist theory that says domestic violence like that is okay. trust me, i study law and i have read feminist theories on criminal law and criminal justice cuz i had to for school and feminism does not advocate for your mom's behaviour. to your second para, that BBC documentary is not about feminism - it's about domestic violence perpetrated by women. just because a woman is in it doesnt m…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:47 PM
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you mean like charities that help women specifically? is a woman's shelter organised feminism? thought that was just a shelter any woman feminist or not can have access to if they are homeless. if you are reluctant to give an example to back up your opinion it makes me think you can't think of one.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 02:49 PM
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wdym. majority of women can't even vote on feminist policies as they are not in political office, so not sure what you mean by that. also, my source is a credible one.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 02:37 PM
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sure. as in theory written by academics and political or legal experts; something you'll find in a library as in philosopher Simone de Beauvoir or law professor Catharine MacKinnon. not some random nutter's opinion on reddit as they may not know anything.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 02:35 PM
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All women are feminists because feminism only benefits women. this is factually incorrect. the majority of women do not identify as feminists. https://www.ipsos.com/en-us/american-women-and-feminism and i know heaps of women personally who are far from feminist. my entire extended family in fact and loads of men and women in church. re your mom, that's terrible she holds that opinion but no where will you find a genuine feminist theory that says a woman can hit a man and it's okay unless it's in…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:59 PM
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what is organised feminism? sorry, which organisation is this?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:49 PM
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Should I agree with her because she’s my mother and cares for me and provides for me? well no, of course not. but you can hear her out and if you want to say your opinion then do so. i mean, what's the problem here? i disagree with my parents all the time; none of us take it personally. not trying to convert anyone either tho.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:39 PM
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The key is that whilst there is a need for men to talk, and this is increasingly the case, the responsibility should not primarily rest on their shoulders. It should primarily rest on society, employers and professionals to understand better the ways men communicate, and then to listen, ask and act. i agree, we should be looking at prevention - not reaction if we want to reduce the number of male suicides, and in order to do this blame societal attitudes and its influence along with the lack of …
/r/MensRights15/10/22 06:32 PM
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Unfortunately, our efforts to fundraise have been met with a lot of abuse from lots of people. This includes family members, former friends, and of course tons of strangers, who have mocked and ridiculed us for being in this terrible situation and needing help. what do you mean, are these people blaming your spouse for being sick? you know if that's the case that's sick, right? everyone deserves treatment. what kind of healthcare system do you have access to that makes it necessary to have to fu…
/r/MensRights15/10/22 06:14 PM
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“It breaks my heart that we have made men feel like they have to be so tough that they are not allowed to be vulnerable, that they can’t say that something has happened to them,” says Mangas. “We have set people up in our society, our community for failure.” indeed. my best friend was sexually assaulted on the playground by a boy in his class when he was 13 while a group of boys watched. never reported it for the reason above and it's destroyed him mentally and physically to this day. this failu…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 05:21 PM
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the stereotypes of homeless people are a real shame. personally have been homeless for nine months now and no, you'd never know i am homeless just by looking at me; don't 'look' like what you assume a homeless person looks like.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:04 PM
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whilst i appreciate the twitter user is trying to distinguish love from sex i personally wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with a sex worker as i don't support the industry.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:26 PM
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not to mention all the women in the porn industry selling their souls for a few dollars. the industry should be abolished.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:20 PM
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i mean in the UK at least the reason abortion was legalised is because of men. a man submitted a bill into parliament and then men voted to pass it into legislation. if men stayed out of it this would never have happened.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:58 AM
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The only reason incels have a bad rap (1/3 of men aged 18 - 30 are incels by the way it's actually an extremely large group so you can not use one or two crazy individuals to demonize the whole) i don't know where you got this number from but surely this is an exaggeration. being an incel is more than just being involuntarily celibate; incels have a specific ideology, namely that they believe women have too much power and blame women and society for the fact that they can't get laid and hate the…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 04:20 PM
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amen. i think men in general need to have higher standards, not just swipe right on everyone and everything
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:56 PM
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OP said he is in Australia
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:16 AM
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so true. the legal definition of rape needs to change in this country. the definition of rape is far too narrow which means too many rapists are getting away with it.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 09:07 AM
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that is ridiculous. everyone is responsible for their own sexual pleasure. i am responsible for mine - and she is responsible for hers. no one owes anyone anything and personally always get off in bed.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 08:55 AM
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They are not radical feminists however, and are open to hearing other perspectives. However, they will not change their stance. sounds good to me. i don't need to be with someone who agrees with me on everything; that would be incredibly boring. man likes a challenge and a woman with strong opinions. is she hot? does she make a decent living or have at least ambition for one? can she make me laugh? do we want the same things regarding family are all of far more importance.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 09:14 AM
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don't know what it means by 'walking into' a male mental health crisis tho. this isn't brand new information? the mental health services are an absolute joke in the UK. few years ago i had two urgent referrals from professionals to get me into treatment after i was in hospital for 5 days from self harm and it still took me 7 months to get into temporary treatment. Jesus christ, you're not taken seriously here. expected to do it all on your own until you absolutely crack and are near death on the…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 03:07 AM
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that's ridiculous. obviously patriarchy benefits men! anyway, glad to see men's uprising once again. stand up for yourselves, lads
/r/MensRights26/09/22 02:44 AM
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it's not good for a child to grow up without a father, especially for boys who need a secure and strong male role model whilst growing up. i also don't understand how anyone can live with themselves knowing they abandoned their own flesh and blood but i guess it happens all the time. don't know if there's a general consensus on this but yes, it does seem that many men's right's advocates are fighting for their right to abandon their child.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 07:37 PM
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don't think echo chambers are good for anyone. sorry, how is this helpful in any sense?
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:42 AM
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no i don't think so. it's not about your gender or what you did and not do. regardless of gender you will not be believed of what happened to you; trust me.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:35 AM
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did you contact the police
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:15 AM
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your story is so interesting and completely different to my upbringing. Men tend to let the kids go more on their own, keeping an eye on them but finally letting them get their own experiences on the world. That's a big contrast on mothers who will always protect them and try to put them in a bubble. no, my father was completely overprotective, not allowed to do anything and if i was a minute late past curfew i was in massive trouble. Dad's way to show love is also different, we tend to actually…
/r/MensRights22/09/22 08:45 PM
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of course they should! children need their fathers. sadly, too many are abandoned by them, literally or emotionally.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 08:31 PM
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indeed. vast majority of the couples i know met in real life through work, school, mutual friends, church etc. only know two couples who met online and that was a fluke. i don't do dating apps but from general observation they are bad for one's mental health. too many fish in that pond; hard to stand out from the crowd and impress anyone.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:22 PM
1

Assuming the wife is a stay at home wife and the husband is the bread winner in the relationship, I heard that the woman can take up to 50% of his total assets. That has to be bullsh*t, right? Like, there's no way a guy who's made 10 million dollars prior to even hearing about the women, later marries her, gets divorced, and now he has to pay 5 mil? If that really were the case, how does such preposterous law continue to exist? no that's not true. generally anything owned before the marriage is …
/r/MensRights22/09/22 12:52 PM
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yes they have to follow it if the facts are similar; that's why it evolves slowly over time; many decades in fact. 50 years in your example indeed. a judge cannot avoid precedent and 'ignore it altogether' as you stated.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:53 PM
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you didn't answer my question? i was stating how the common law works. you know judges in the UK as well are bound by precedent and can't just ignore common law decisions, right? why do you think they can?
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:10 PM
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This is very useful to update outdated laws such as in the UK, where there are laws like it's illegal to walk around in public with a salmon, or to clean a dirty rug barefoot in public. Judges can interpret those laws to either amend or ignore it altogether. sorry, i'm not sure what you mean here. judges in the UK are bound by precedent; they cannot just 'ignore' case law. could you give me an example of this? asking as a UK law student. common law indeed continually builds on itself, slowly cha…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 09:33 PM
2

i think it's unfortunate that it is a gendered thing. have seen many men self-conscious about their skin (acne. especially my older brothers) and foundation and powder can cover it up well.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 09:15 PM
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yeah i get that men are not at fault. if the majority of women decided to boycott makeup then heterosexual men would have not much choice but to put up with it(?). And PSA. We know how you look without it. only thing is men often don't know when women are indeed wearing make-up. the 'natural look' often takes a lot of make-up believe it or not. and i have seen comments online saying 'ooh she's not wearing make-up, so natural' when indeed she is.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 08:31 PM
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are you a law student? have you ever studied criminology, sentencing and the justice system? the subject is women and law. the treatment of men in court is a whataboutism and you will certainly fail if you go that route
/r/MensRights18/09/22 01:47 PM
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