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Where did this commenter say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:54 PM
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Settling: I want chocolate ice cream, but I can’t have it so I’ll eat carrots and dip. Compromising: I want chocolate ice cream, but I can’t have it so I’ll eat vanilla ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:03 AM
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It’s the flair 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:00 AM
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What is the debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:51 AM
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What about tall men? If a 5’2 woman only wants to date men that are 6’0+ would you not say that seems more like fetishization than just plain old attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:29 AM
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It just a classic case of cherry picking data, and then using it to play a game of internet telephone. I can almost guarantee most of the people who reference the study haven’t actually read it themselves. Women usually only swipe on 20-30% of profiles, however the same profiles are not being disliked by all women. The 8 primes I swipe left on aren’t the same ones my friend will swipe left on. While only one profile out of 100 was "liked" by more than 80% (22 out of 27) of the participants, 38 p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:12 AM
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You could say this about every single stereotype, to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:47 PM
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Most men forget just because female aging is less “accepted” by society, doesn’t mean men don’t get wrinkles, receded hairlines, pudgy stomaches, etc as they age. Me and my friends dated older men and let me tell you when most women say they like “older men” they probably mean 3-5 years, maybe 6 or 7, but no young girl is pining after a 35 year old when she has access to young fit men with full heads of hair and more time to workout. The only girls I know who have settled down with men who are 8…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:23 PM
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Even if that sampling is biased, most research agrees with those numbers. Other reports such the 2021 UN report have similar numbers at 97%. ActionAid also took several polls in different countries which ranged from 75-89%. And although theres no data, I’ve never been catcalled by a boy my age or even one a few years older, it has always been older men and I’ve yet to see a women who doesn’t agree. Take from that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:49 AM
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The Girl Scouts of America notes that 1 in 10 girls is catcalled before her 11th birthday. Surveys conducted by Cornell University’s ILR School reveal nearly 85 percent of American female respondents report facing street harassment before age 17; nearly 70 percent before age 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:34 AM
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That one where someone commented about something they’ve noticed increase and on why it could happening? Just so we’re on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:42 AM
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Did someone say that? I must have missed it. Or are you just spewing weird shit that would be better suited for your journal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:37 AM
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Do you know how much cheating happens at the office Lmao. Probably more than festivals. You’re argument boils down to skimpy = can lead to cheating. Got anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:07 AM
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Club culture is not just about men getting laid. Women dress as much for themselves and other women as much as they do for men. By your logic, festivals (the sluttiest places imaginable) are just a chad free for all where men go to pick up as many babes as they can, and the only reason women go is to get hit on. However festival culture is mostly about having fun, dancing, meeting people, doing drugs, listening to music, etc. Clubs are pretty comparable but to a lesser extent, men just can’t com…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:50 AM
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Porn literally makes men feel self conscious and unhappy with how they look (44% who don’t watch vs 78% who do watch). But you’re so right, it can’t possibly affect how you view yourself and other people! Men just too big brained!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:54 AM
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Well I haven’t. I’m sure they exist. Don’t know else what to tell you bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:47 AM
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Your responses are mostly just creative writing. So let’s say I date a guy who is wealthy. His wealth is one of the things that attracted me to him. I could say the only reason he shows that he’s wealthy (wearing nice clothes, owning expensive watches and driving nice cars) is so he can attract women. So now that we’re together, him continuing to wear nice clothes and drive nice cars becomes inappropriate. Why would he need to wear a Rolex if he’s with me? If he goes for a drive or out to eat, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:41 AM
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This subs name should change from purple pill debate to purple pill diary. Most posts are just creative writing mixed with bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:51 AM
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Ok fair enough, I suggest you work on your reading comprehension. Especially in a debate sub. And yes that would make me uncomfortable, you’ve described a highly specific and very inappropriate situation that does not reflect reality. If your girl is wearing a mini skirt and a sheer crop top to go hang out with a large group of males alone that’s highly inappropriate, and believe it or not everyone (women included) would think so. If my man wears a shirt that shows off his arms when he goes out …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:34 AM
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The equivalent is marrying a rich man and getting upset that he still drives his BMW and didn’t trade his Rolex in for a watch from Amazon. 99% of the justification as to why a woman shouldn’t dress “skimpy” is because they are doing it to get attention from other men, which means they don’t value or respect the relationship. But somehow spending money on and jacking off to other women is totally acceptable. Getting attention? Big no no. Giving attention? Suddenly men don’t have a problem. Do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:31 AM
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Men do it too? Most infamous criminals get married in jail. Period. Susan atkins? Married in jail. karla homolka? Married her lawyer. gypsy rose blanchard? Married in jail. Jodie arias? Planning her wedding. It’s so weird how men want to clown on women for doing the same things they do, and then do mental gymnastics about how it’s different because women can get sex easier lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:01 AM
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Clothes lead cheating. Only fan? Not much. Not real! Ooga booga. Was that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:48 PM
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Where!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:45 PM
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This is pure mental gymnastics. Because getting sex is easier as a woman, just being a woman means you’re in a predicament to cheat. So are you saying you won’t date woman in general lmao. Where exactly do you draw this imaginary line? (And all people who cheat do it because they wear leggings and a sports bra to the gym, ok bro, you’ve cracked the code.) So a guy paying for only fans to jerk off to women he finds hot is “not real” but a woman wearing a skirt is “real”. Totally. I did have fun r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:42 PM
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Where is the nuance exactly? I’m very interested about how these situations are so astronomically different, it equates to a blowjob vs making a sandwich. I can’t wait to read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:19 PM
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Using that logic the people in the porn are benefitting via the man watching it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:07 PM
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Men: “why would I want to date a woman who wears mini skirts, it’s obvious she wants attention from other men!” Also men: “not jerking off to porn while I’m with someone?? ME??? Fat chance lolololololol”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:34 PM
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You keep repeating the same thing over and over again. Is this purple debate or purple pill diary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:49 PM
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That’s not how it works lol. If you really wanna get into it it’s 39%, so not most actually. And yeah men look at stats and say nope, which is fine. Women can look at stats and say nope, which is fine too. Whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:44 PM
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Ok, so it’s that high for one demographic for women (It’s still 70% btw). And 80+% of sexual predators are men, so it makes sense that women don’t want to date by your logic. So you guys are hypocritical, which is totally fine btw, but don’t expect to be taken very seriously is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:33 PM
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So 70% has turned into 90% now, that checks out. Coming up with creative writing prompts based on tip of the iceberg statistics is like crack to you guys. And yeah I agree, do whatever you want, but maybe stop whining and crying about how you much hate women in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:02 PM
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This is unhinged lol, no wonder it’s so hard to take men seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:15 PM
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I’ve never cringed this hard before, doesn’t feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:49 AM
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At least 5’6.5, but at that point he would have to be very stocky (I’m 5’9). Must have career prospects (I have a degree). Has to make me laugh. Must be fit. We have to be friends and not just a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:18 AM
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They have a higher success rate. For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:06 AM
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Men say they don’t get hit on, but also know exactly what it’s like to be hit on. And then pull out the old “it makes too much sense so it can’t be true” fallacy. You’ve never been with someone who’s trying to be funny, and feel the difference between them and someone who is genuinely funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:40 AM
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You seem mad bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:59 PM
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The average age gap is 2 years in the US, and globally it’s only 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:22 PM
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It’s not really an insult, sorry I hurt your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:02 PM
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Ummm sure, those women are rapists and should be punished? You said something and I asked for proof, no need to get so butt hurt that you can’t provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:01 PM
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Men under report sexual abuse, however even then 86% of male rape and sexual abuse is committed by other men, not women. Sexual abuse is not a man vs woman issue, it’s as if men forget they can also be prayed on by other men as well. Even if it can’t be proven that women sexually predate at the same rate as men “just because”, there is no where in the world where men and boys are being gang raped by women on their way to report a previous gang rape. There is no where in the world men wear anti-r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:59 PM
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Too bad we’re not talking about child murder or abuse, or these would be good articles to use. The person in question stated that women sexually predate more then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:48 PM
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This is comical. Don’t spout shit you can’t prove. Link that they commit these crimes MORE than men, or just admit you’re wrong and talked out of your ass for no reason. I’ve literally stated I agree that they do it, and I agree they don’t receive the same punishment, yet THATS what you keep “proving” to be over, and over, and over, and over again. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:24 PM
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I said it wasn’t the best analogy, if you can’t look past “one is illegal and the other isn’t therefore that is the only conclusion to draw from this”, don’t know what to tell you bud. In the situation OP mentioned, they never say that anyone else would know what the man is being accused of, just that they would take the child to be examined. There are no legal consequences in this scenario if that’s what you have such a big problem with, just ones for your relationship which is what I said. + T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:20 PM
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Your article states they commit these crimes, I never disagreed. You said they commit them more than men, which is what I’m challenging. You haven’t given me anything so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah…and?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:10 PM
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So women commit rape/child molestation in a higher rate than men in the education system. This is what you claim, I’m asking for data. Or are you agreeing that your “proof” *is a few media articles like I stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:08 PM
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Whatever way you look at it, letting your partner know you don’t trust them even partially will not have a positive effect on your relationship. And a paternity test it’s a “cheating test”, you can cheat and not get pregnant, you can cheat and have an abortion, you can cheat after you have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:35 PM
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Being hurt is one part, other things mentioned is that you shouldn’t have kids with someone you don’t trust, and that it could have a devastating effect on your relationship if you being it up. If someone established they would like a paternity test prior to having a child and the woman consented, that is a situation like your test. It’s not the same as springing it on someone. Let’s just forget what OP said. What if you took your girlfriends kid out for ice cream after you two had been dating f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:24 PM
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I think you just missed the point. OP is not saying cheating and being a pedophile are one in the same, which is what most people on here are getting butt hurt about for some reason. So close minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:11 PM
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Sure the analogy wasn’t the best, but people are missing the point. Use your imagination. The point is to show that you, in that situation, would think “wow how could you think that about me, I would never do something like that and it hurts me that you do”. Whenever this comes up in the paternity argument people say “lol tough shit, women cheat all the time so you can’t be upset”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:04 PM
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According to what data? A few articles you’ve read? Men on here really miss the point, they pass right by “women can be just as bad as men” and head straight to “women are actually 5x worse then men! Every negative behaviour men exhibit women actually exhibit it even more!”. No wonder it’s so hard to take y’all seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:56 PM
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The average age gap is 2 years, but on here it turns out every 35 year old man is just rolling in 22 year old poon. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:39 PM
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Listen, nobody smart claims there aren’t issues men face. But as much as you want to make it seem like men are being herded into concentration camps, men have all the tools needed to fix their issues at their disposal. They make up the majority of CEOs, judges, politicians, journalists, directors. Just look into it yourself because I think you’ll find that a lot of the shadowy villains you guys seem to talk a lot about are actually other men. If men actually worked together they could probably f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:21 AM
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The red pill used to be about ugly people not being able to get dates because they’re outliers, and I know a few men like that irl and it’s sad but they are very rare. Now it’s all about how you can’t even look at a women because you’re 5’9. I’m pretty sure most people on here aren’t even gen Z. Idk why there’s so much evidence to back the things I’m saying, and I feel like I’m coming to some pretty logical conclusions, but most people are content with coming up with these ridiculous theories be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:30 AM
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Not quite the case. Before Covid, 39% of men were single (roughly the same amount as women) during Covid it shot up 24%. The only logical conclusion which could explain this (according to men on this sub), is that most women realized they all wanted to date the same chad and the average man just isn’t good enough anymore! Its crazy that tinder chads have existed for years prior, and that didn’t really affect men getting into relationships. It’s not like dating apps just don’t work for a majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:08 AM
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So why are men easier on women? Why are men harder on other men? Because if most judges are men, and men get harsher sentences, what can you logically extrapolate from this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:59 AM
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Can you honestly not list any reasons about what contributes to male loneliness that isn’t directly women’s fault? Like is that so impossible? Men take data from a grand total of 2 studies and use it to expel their inner rage through what can only be described as creative writing, at best. If you show them an example of something that isn’t “women bad”, they refuse to believe it even if you show them evidence. And then call it “just world fallacy” which basically means “something makes too much …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:27 AM
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Wow another post about the vocal minority. What a new and refreshing take!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:03 PM
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Um…so? I’ve known multiple people in many different branches of academia that have shared this problem with me, and Reddit seems to agree. My experience is just as valid as yours so let’s get that off the table. So you seem to be the anomaly here as far as I’m concerned and so fact that you disagree with me so heavily makes me not really believe you. Like seriously, I’ll censor the email and post it if you so desire, it’ll be hilarious! Like a comedy movie! And what does that mean “know what men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:44 AM
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Reddit search “please shower” and get back to me. Seriously. Tons of posts made about classrooms in male dominated fields, and male dominated spaces stinking. If you remind me tomorrow, I can send you screenshots of emails my friends in engineering have gotten from the prof saying “remember to shower!”. You’ve never smelt a man in public? Weird, you must not go out a lot. You think these men are getting any action? Probably not, and I think I mayyyyy know at least part of the reason. This ties i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:10 AM
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Sure datings fuck up but do you not think that a study done on 1 app with 30 participants years ago maybe shouldn’t be taken as gospel because you could sure come up with some whacky conclusions and do some creative writing if you wanted to. Focus on not contributing to hookup culture by using these apps and do things that normal people are supposed to do and maybe you’ll see some success, because plenty of people don’t but how exactly are you gonna meet them. I dated a red piller once for like …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:52 AM
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I mean the majority/minority within that 60%. For example, this includes men who do not want to date. The chads. That eliminates men from that 60%. Why would you count men who sleep around as part of the “loneliness epidemic”. Then there’s bad hygiene issues, having no friends, not going to school, being autistic, and just being an unlikeable person etc. And you’re left with the real % of men who are actually single because they are so unattractive that nobody wants to date them. I know a couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:16 AM
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Of course there are men like that suffering, I’m even friends with a few! But the men who are single that do everything they can are the minority, not the majority. Men see a big number like 60% and start frothing at the mouth and logic goes out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:48 AM
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If you’re open to discussion and not a hateful person, not really sure how any of my previous comments aimed at hateful people not open to discussion would matter. Best of luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 AM
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I was actually being very generous, 0.4-4% of pedophiles are women. So it’s closer 96-99%. Why exactly don’t you think it’s that high, and what data do you have to back this. So what do you think about most appointed judges being men? And also this “While the percentage of males incarcerated for each category always exceeded that of women, women were more likely to be sentenced to jail for robbery and assault than were men; men were more likely than women to be incarcerated for property crime”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:31 AM
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Well obviously that would help, I guess? I just don’t really know where you’re going with this or really how to answer to be honest, because this is kind of complex. I’m an attractive women so tinder “works” for me, ie I get matches, but it doesn’t “work” for me because I’m not looking for casual sex. And before you say it’s bc I go for chads, I swipe very liberally because I’ve met all my bfs/sps IRL and almost all have been less attractive than me so I’m not very harsh. So tinder “works”, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:23 AM
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“A relationship will not fix your problems” =/= “you should never be in a relationship until you have fixed your problems”. You should not put all your eggs in the basket labeled “relationship”, it’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:26 AM
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I think 100% of all people could benefit from being with the “right person”. But the reality is that not a lot of relationships are good. I think it’s dangerous for people to think that a relationship will fix their mental health because it’ll make them more likely to accept bad relationships and bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:33 AM
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*A good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:00 AM
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I guess that depends on what you mean by dating apps “actually working”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:58 PM
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So the court system is biased again men. In some areas. Rape, sodomy, compelling prostitution, creating child pornography (essentially), and sexual abuse all carry shorter minimum sentences than robbery or arson, and depending on if it’s (I) or (II) you can get probation for all of these. Can’t get probation for arson or robbery though. So it looks like courts have more sympathy and more punishment for property loss than they do for a rape victim or a sexually abused child. At least 95% of pedop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:50 PM
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Then men need to stop blaming women for their problems, and actually talk about what’s really causing a male loneliness epidemic. Tell me about mens mental health, or men under preforming in schools, and I’m all ears. Tell me it’s all because the 10% of tinder users who are real women didn’t like their profile, and women’s lives are soooooo easy, and you’ve lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:23 PM
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I’ll read this and get back to you, thanks for linking the article!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:52 PM
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Do you have any data to support this, or is this just a feeling you have deep inside. Maybe you just aren’t good at picking partners, that’s what the consensus is when women are in relationships with bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:33 PM
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I understand that, however I get upset as well when women are generalized and villinized for what men struggle with. I also find it strange that you keep mentioning over and over how nobody wants to debate or knows how to debate, but your the one who does everything in your power not to debate. Anyways I wish you well!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:53 PM
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Of course. But when using the 34% vs 63% statistic, most men act as if the majority of these men are only single because women are picky, disregarding tons of issues that are super prevent among men which impact male dating wayyyy more. Do you believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:41 PM
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For you to give me some data that shows that men struggling with dating are exactly like my first comment, and still struggle. I don’t feel that that’s accurate, so do you have anything to back YOUR claim up. Or am I just supposed to take your word for it? What exactly do you want because I think you may be on the wrong sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:33 PM
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You are hypocrite, your reply to my first comment was condescending. Don’t get so butthurt. And I find a hard time believing that, sorry. Do you have any data to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:26 PM
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Bro what are you doing right now, you didn’t understand any of what I said so I’m trying to figure out why. Try debating and understanding peoples points instead of getting butt hurt. If you don’t understand something maybe don’t rely, because you’re the one “using a whole bunch of words to say nothing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:19 PM
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I think you need to use reading comprehension bud, my comment was not addressed to you specifically. May I ask, is English your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:14 PM
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Let me break it down for you since you’re struggling. You said not all lonely men are inadequate. That’s probably actually the case. Is there anything else you need help with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:06 PM
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If you are an average looking, nice man who is educated, not autistic, hygienic, and has an active social life where you have friends and hobbies, and don’t depend on an app that is supersaturated with bots and men as your only form of communication with women, you are the minority. Not the majority. Men who ignore all the real reasons for male loneliness are lying to themselves and each other. Edit for grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:01 PM
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Men need to be more honest with themselves about male loneliness, maybe then they could get a bit of sympathy. The only problem ever mentioned is that they don’t get matches on tinder. Yeah, on a platform supersaturated with men that is working against you unless you drop tons of money. They never mention men under preforming in schools and higher education. Never hygienic issues. Never mental health. Never rampant capitalism. Never social isolation. Never Covid. If only those bitchy women would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:55 PM
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Are you telling me you wouldn’t criticize a woman who did this? Let’s say, prioritized taking selfies and putting on makeup over their responsibilities and family? Shit like this is why it’s so hard to take these arguments seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:12 PM
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Sorry but this is a bit too all over the place for me. Now we’re getting into…feminism, insecurity, and your bosses love life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:31 PM
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Your response was basically “well men don’t do that”, not sure how that response implies that men and women are the same? Yeah thats true. And most of the time a man is described as creepy, he is creepy. Most of the time when a man is reported to HR, he actually did something wrong and isn’t just the target of a stuck up “crazy” women. Most of the time, most things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:40 PM
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Stop acting as of society sees men and women the same. Women are seen as weak and emotional, so obviously a woman crying isn’t gonna be looked upon the same as a man. Now take something like being assertive, in a man it’s a great quality and shows he’s confidant and a leader, in a woman it’s seen as bossy and bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:05 PM
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I see, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:07 PM
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Sorry but I’m not quite sure where you’re going with this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:04 PM
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If a man walks up to me and says “you looked so good I just had to come talk to you” I would be much more receptive to it than if he said “those tits are amazing!”, regardless of if he followed up with asking what my favourite colour is. In both situations I am well aware that I’m being approached because I look attractive, but 1 response has tact while the other does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:57 PM
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It would be entirely dependant on the situation. But ideally I would prefer something less graphic regardless of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:52 PM
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I’ve never heard any woman say that men shouldn’t be attracted to their bodies, but that they shouldn’t use a woman’s body (and what she’s wearing) to justify leering, harassing, or insinuating that they’re “asking for it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:35 PM
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The majority of couples in western countries have an age gap of 2 years. Even globally it’s only 4. So the fact that men can “just get with” much younger women isn’t exactly panning out. When women in their 20s say they like older men they mean ones who are 5 years older, not 38 year olds with receded hairlines and an un-toned physiques. Of course men in their 30s will be attracted to women in their 20s, but will now be competing with other men in their 20s (and getting out competed). Maybe that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:56 PM
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I feel like a lot of these perspectives get disregarded because they’re never about addressing parallels between men and women, they’re mostly about trying to prove women are actually worse than men. It brings to mind a post someone made here a while ago about how more women than men were sexual predators. Just shuts down any chance of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:18 AM
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I always expect these types of posts to be made by a man who’s like 5’2, but 98% of them are made by men who are only a few inches shorter than the average man and still taller than the average woman. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:43 PM
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One of the most privileged places in the world? I think it’s great here. For men and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:51 PM
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Both sides do the exact same thing. Both sides. The only thing is that women haven’t had nearly the same impact on society and how society is run as men. Men want feminists to start with fixing male issues, many of which they themselves created, and then focus on female issues secondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:44 PM
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I think you’re just saying that because of your strong desire for this to be an echo chamber where men whine 24/7 about how terrible their lives are and how it’s all women’s fault. Western men don’t have it half as hard as they cry about online, that’s my point. And what exactly do you think is happening to women in war torn countries? Do you think they get a check for a million dollars and a Mercedes? You think they won’t get blown up because they have a pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah, I guess most men here don’t have any women in their social groups and aren’t surrounded by them in their daily lives. My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:51 PM
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So let me get this straight. You want women to have a sense of camaraderie towards their fellow western men, and make men’s plights their own. But it’s fair game for most men (on this sub at least) to dunk on western women and compare them to “superior” women in other countries, relate all of western societies problems back to them, and pine for times where life was better for them and worse for women. So why are western men not happy that western women don’t have to live like the vast majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:39 PM
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Someone asked me to compare benefits MEN have that WOMEN don’t? Bruh what.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:21 PM
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I love being in the west, the west is great, it’s men who are crying about it so I’m not sure what your going off about. Someone asked me to list benefits men have that women don’t, read the first comment in this thread and use your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:19 PM
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No. It’s because men want women to admit that they’re heavily privileged, that their lives are perfect and they live in utopia, while men live in hell. So why don’t they do the same thing, why don’t men open up their perspective and realize that they actually don’t have it as bad as they hem and haw about all day online. Why don’t they compare their privileges to those of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:10 PM
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First of all, I grew up in Poland. I’m polish. Second, Your comment is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:07 PM
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So why should I care about mens plights, when they don’t affect me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:04 PM
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Why does this argument always have to be focused on women in the west? Why don’t we use the global scale for once? The sentiment being pushed is that women have it soooo easy and men have it soooo hard, which is nice when you get to cherry pick who “men” and “women” are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:56 AM
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Do you think women are more globally privileged than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:43 AM
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Globally? Or do you just want me use the most privileged places in the world for my list?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:43 AM
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As if men hate things that benefit them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:42 PM
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I’ve noticed that shorter girls want to be with taller men, most of the woman I know that are 5’8+ (including myself) are more open to dating men that are the same size or shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:19 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:48 PM
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Highly insecure women value and crave male validation above all else. I don’t know what fantasy land you guys live in where fat ugly chicks exert so much power over their hotter friends, because sorry but it’s not reality. The less attractive friend is often the punching bag of the group not the puppet master. In 95% of actual cockblocking Instances its the more attractive women of a group stopping men from dancing with their less attractive friends, even if these men are in their friends league…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:30 PM
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My uncle is a passport bro, and I love his wife and my nephew. I’m glad he found love in another country, nobody really has a problem with that. But you can’t simultaneously say western women are immodest, slutty, greedy, have no traditional values, etc when the top passport bro countries are the ones with the highest amounts of prostitution. Most of these women are no different than the western women they insult. Passport bros just refuse to admit that it’s about who is willing to put out. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:30 PM
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I’ve know women in both categories, but most of the women I know are A.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:29 PM
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Stellar argument, my mind has just been blown. How exactly have you come to this conclusion? Now take into account that I never said it never happens, but I’m interested in why you think the ugly and fat friend has so much power over her attractive friends that they’ll seek her approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:06 PM
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Bro you’re the one who mentioned cockblocking in the first place. I pointed out how in most cases these cockblocks are in cahoots with their friends, ok sure that doesn’t make them cockblocks, yet YOU still called them cockblocks. Your response is stomp your feet and cry over definitions and then come back hours later to write another comment while continuing to say nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:19 PM
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They’re perceived as a cockblock though?? You seem to be really hung up on definitions rather than actually discussing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:46 PM
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Bro….wtf are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:38 PM
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They’re “cockblocking” the man who is trying to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:32 PM
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As a woman who’s been the cockblock and the cock-blocked, there is an understanding between the two 99% of the time. The fat unattractive friend body checking you because she’s jealous her 8/10 friend is getting guys is a meme. The 8/0 friend either has a bf or doesn’t want to dance with you, because if she did she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:15 PM
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No, there is almost always an understanding between the cockblock and their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:10 PM
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You said rights until you edited your comment to say privileges :). You basically just say times were better for men when men controlled absolutely everything, so it’s hard to take these types of arguments seriously unless you actually explain why that system was right for everyone, not just men. Why am I supposed to pine for the good old days when I wasn’t treated like a human with value other than providing sex. What privileges did women get to compensate for that? Not being able to go to scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:00 PM
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Idk what this has anything to do with my original comment. What rights have men lost? Did women create this system? This is a societal problem that who created exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:34 AM
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Ok my mistake, so how do you alone feel about women basically saying “boo hoo” to male related issues like sexless-ness. I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:22 AM
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If this is men’s attitudes then stop getting mad at women for not sympathizing with problems they don’t experience or understand. This subreddit has now become redundant. Good hustle everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:46 PM
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This is often a problem because some men cant comprehend that a woman isn’t necessarily dressing provocatively solely for male attention, there’s multiple different things that go into how a woman dresses beyond “other men will think I look hot!”. Some men get this, and have no problem with their girls dressing however they want. People always say it’s about respect, but if my boyfriend doesn’t find it disrespectful then I’m not doing anything disrespectful. They think their girl looks hot, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:56 PM
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In my experience women get less horny and their moods change when they’re actually on birth control. This is why women often take multiple birth controls to try and find a good fit, which takes years. It’s not as simple as “oh, your pregnant! You no longer need to be bred!”, it’s an unnatural process that affects your entire range of emotions. Women are happier, hornier, and sometimes more energetic when they aren’t on any birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:41 PM
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See, yeah this is true and I’m not saying it’s right, but most women have a hard time believing information that goes against 95% of what they’ve experienced. Everyone does this. I’ve been dealing with constantly being bombarded with sexual attention from men for years, when it started (when I was like 16) I believed these were innocent interactions. 95% of the time they quickly escalated into being bad/sexual and then I felt trapped because it seemed like I was entertaining it and was a “tease”…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:11 PM
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In 90% of relationships I’ve seen, after the “honeymoon phase” is over the woman will want sex once every few days but the man will still want sex 1-3 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:03 PM
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Amen. Men really think women will turn into old hags at 30 and they’ll turn into ryan gosling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:24 AM
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Bro this is cap, or you’re the luckiest man on the planet. I know tons of women who can actually orgasm from penetration and even they complain it’s still hard and most can’t do it without getting finger blasted anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:18 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:12 PM
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I’m not a single celled organism, so my train of thought isn’t that I have to pick a side when both are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah, nice guys are talking about why women in physically abusive relationships aren’t dating them. This is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:55 PM
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Stellar “Tell me what I want to hear or you’re gaslighting me” play. And nice doesn’t mean opens doors for her. Women mean nice to her. Just because someone is rude to you doesn’t mean they’re rude to their girl. They can be funny, charming, confidant, and fun. But you want women to go for the boring guy because he’s…. Nice to you? This isn’t exclusive to women and dating, I know plenty of people with a friend that I don’t like or who are rude, so everyone’s not supposed to like them because I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:29 PM
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Ok so…. You’re talking about men who are attracted to fake superficial women, and people saying fake superficial women are not an accurate representation of what women want, is “gaslighting” men…. Into thinking women don’t want to date assholes? I’m just not sure what you’re talking about to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:55 PM
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This is a trope. Barely any genuinely nice, sweet girls with good personalities are with total dicks who abuse them. 98% of the time the woman is either extremely insecure and negging works, or you just think confidant man = douche. I would rather be with someone who I have a lot in common with and is funny, fun, but kind of a “dick” than a boring guy whose only quality is being nice. The question a lot of people should be asking is if someone’s materialistic/superficial and only cares about loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:18 PM
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It’s because people on here always compare “ugly man” and “hot chick” so they can whine about how unfair their lives are. I knew a 2-3/10 woman who lost her virginity at 25 after being on tinder with barely any matches for 6 years, and then got ghosted right after. She’s never been on a date, never had a bf, never been approached, and most men are rude to her or make fun of her. But according to everyone she has it sooooo much better than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:46 PM
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People will make up anything to go with their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:14 PM
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We just have to agree to disagree. People can want to look sexy because they want feel sexy. If you’ve never looked in the mirror and thought damn I look good without wondering what other people will think then that’s sad. Sure everything we do is for other people to some extent, but it’s not as black and white as that. You stick to the prudish places, I’ll stick to the fun titty out ones. Duces ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:09 AM
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You can know and not care, what is so hard to understand about that. You can know your outfit makes you look sexy and feel good in it without doing it to turn men on. Is your mind blown? Some men can’t wrap their head around the fact that women don’t shop, put outfits together, or frankly do anything to themselves without thinking “men are gonna think I’m SO HOT”. Because I don’t like tan lines. Because the things I WANT to wear look sluttier on me than someone else. Because it’s hot. Because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:42 AM
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You can literally shop for your granny’s souvenirs with your dick and balls out and grab a bite to eat in multiple French resorts, beaches, and boardwalks, i would think that goes beyond just a little sun bathing. I’ve been to raves and street parties in Denmark where chicks have had their tits out and nobody gives a fuck. Nigerian tribes, idc that it’s not major, that’s just moving the goalposts. I just don’t understand. You call me an angry feminist, get super butthurt over 1 comment, don’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:19 AM
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There are plenty of places globally where nudity and/or breasts are not sexualized. Pointing out what dynamics? That men are attracted to women? Yeah. I said they are, I asked why that should matter. And did I hurt your feelings by saying “some people” with my slut statement? Or do you just not wanna respond to anything I asked? And no the clothing point is not exaggerated. You don’t shop for women’s clothes and you probably have no idea how difficult it is to find items that are cute, stylish, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:40 AM
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Yes of course! And no, body type is more important to me. I like thick and stocky builds, which are very hard to find with people that are taller. I’ve been with 2 men that were over 6’0 and I was probably less attracted to them then my current boyfriend, or my 5’7 ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:20 AM
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Bold of you to assume I’m a radical feminist, just points out that people on this sub can’t wrap their heads around what a non black/white issue is. I guess I should have called you an incel by now! But I’m curious, what discussion are claims like “women dress to turn men on” trying to start? Have I missed some sort of poignant and well thought out points? I’ve pointed out de-sexualized societies that do just fine regardless of apparently impossible to overcome “male and female dynamics”, and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:13 AM
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Then it sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:20 AM
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Respect for what? For who? What is disrespectful? Tons of places around the world have de-sexualized nudity, why are men in these places able to control themselves, but somehow you can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:13 AM
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I’m not mad at nature. If I wear a skirt and a man checks me out I don’t care. But you should be able to see a woman’s body and not harass her, leer at her, get a boner, or demand she cover up. Either you’re cavemen that can’t control yourselves or you’re not, pick a lane. Christ I would hate to see you at a nude beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:08 AM
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Your body changes the way clothing looks on you, that’s what I meant to say with my anecdote and that’s what I’m saying now. It can be tits or asses or hips or weight or height or thigh circumference. No goal post has been moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:03 AM
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We can agree to disagree, 90% of women don’t get dressed every day with the intention of turning on men, that’s just a byproduct. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:58 PM
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Weight, height, boobs, and asses are outliers? What???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:55 PM
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How are these outliers? A women’s height, weight, boobs, and ass all change the way clothing fits. I’m 5’9 and 95% of skirts become mini skirts on me. So I should try me best to never wear skirts? How about I’m just allowed to wear a skirt without someone cumming in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:52 PM
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A tall woman (me) has a very hard time finding skirts/shorts/dresses that aren’t extremely short, so I shouldn’t wear those because it turns men on? A very curvy women will have a hard time finding clothes that don’t show off her assets, so she can’t wear most clothes because it turns men on? I’m not allowed to wear a swimsuit to the beach that gives me the least amount of tan lines, because I detest tan lines, because it turns men on? Your body, something you can’t control, changes the way clot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:48 PM
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Why isn’t this same standard applied to men? Why are women supposed to hide their bodies just because it arouses men. Boo hoo. If you can’t see a tit in a bra without creaming your pants that seems like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:37 PM
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I have a friend with a massive dump truck ass and massive tits (all real) and she can’t find a bikini or a dress that doesn’t do exactly what you describe. So what exactly are women like that supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:31 PM
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Yes height matters, but it isn’t as extreme as people on here make it out to be. If you’re 5’7+ you probably won’t have a hard time dating, 90% of all my friends boyfriends/dates have been around 5’7-5’9. At 5’6 - 5’5 it might be a little harder but not impossible, my boyfriend is 5’6 and I’m 5’9. Under 5’5 is when it gets pretty difficult, but it would be the same for a woman who’s 6’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:24 PM
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To be completely honest I’ve never met a woman who is like this, and the women I’ve met with higher standards realize they need to re-examine them very quickly. The only women I see talk like this are insta-models or OF girls men invite on podcasts to make fun of. The narrative that 90% of women are waiting for the top 0.0000001% of men is a myth people push to explain why men aren’t getting laid, rather than examining actual reasons for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:02 AM
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This is exactly what happened with sex-ed in schools, a massive group of people are outraged that the education system is “teaching kids how to suck dick!!!” when that’s not actually what’s happening. I see more people screaming online about how if they even glance at a woman they’ll be accused of rape than people actually doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:59 PM
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Real life is not a tik tok video, stop using a few cases of crazy women and applying it to the majority. It just screams that you’ve never interacted with a woman in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:59 PM
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What is your definition of success?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:34 PM
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Yes men need to put in more effort than women, there’s a multitude of reasons for that. You can put in work and get results, or maybe no results, but you can’t cry about not getting results when you don’t put in work. And the second thing you said is just cope. If a woman likes you they like you, stop making men out to be losers no matter if they succeed or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:30 PM
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Not every man is horrendously ugly, that’s a very small % of the population. People on here like to act as if you’ll die alone if you’re not a male model and should just give up on everything, which is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:07 PM
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Yeah that’s what I said in my first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:03 PM
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Yes? Because you can increase your value by having a good personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:01 PM
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I would love to see all the comments that say a cave troll can get tons of partners if he’s nice. Women say looks aren’t the only thing that matters, ie you can make up for not looking like a male model if you have a great personality and are charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:54 PM
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Yes, I know plenty of men that have a list of “crazy” or “toxic” exes. Sometimes these are the only women that put up with their own toxic behaviour, or are more fun, or are crazier in the bedroom. I was not talking about people who have 1 or 2 partners in their lifetime who treat them badly, there will always be people who seek out excitement and conflict. That’s not specific to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:43 PM
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Oh is that what you meant? Yes that’s true, but I wouldn’t say that is specific to women. I know plenty of men who are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:23 PM
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Exactly whose exes am I supposed to look at as evidence that all women like being treated like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:10 PM
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Where is this evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:55 PM
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No, a study found the longer a couple knew each other prior to dating the less matched they were in attractiveness. I personally only started dating my last 2 boyfriends after being friends with them for 3+ months and I was not attracted to them at all physically when we first met. (Source: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797615579273)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:27 PM
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You know 3 couples with a 15+ year age gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:38 PM
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This is unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:34 AM
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I find the narrative on sub to be getting a bit out of control, I agree with some things that are posted but most men approaching women to be friends is authentic??? Sorry, but hell no. In my 25 years of existing I’ve only had 4 men out of hundreds make an attempt at genuine friendship rather than piece out within a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:40 AM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:45 PM
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I’m not quite sure what this has to do with my original point that data which goes against the “Reddit status quo” is scrutinized, while data that doesn’t is given the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:30 PM
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Most data regarding societal aspects is self reported, but that doesn’t stop people from making observations about trends when they suit their beliefs. More single men = women are picky and their standards are too high, men obviously want to be in relationships and women don’t. Maybe all these men are actually in relationships and are just lying, maybe more women than men are actually single but believe they’re in relationships. I guess we’ll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:40 PM
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Data that supports my view/statement = REAL, Data that doesn’t support my view/statement = FAKE.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:25 PM
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People are really quick to jump from more single men = more picky women who only want chad. The amount of single men went from 51% to 63% in just over 3 years, a change of 12% in that short time is pretty massive and it’s not because more women suddenly discovered that instagram and attractive people exist. The rise of technology, a shift in priorities, and isolation due to Covid are probably the most important factors that people just choose to ignore as to why more men are single nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:20 PM
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What you’re basically saying is that women shouldn’t suffer the consequences of their actions….because their actions have consequences? Should men be sentenced more leniently because they could be sexually assaulted in jail? No, they did the crime and have to do the time. Cheating is an optional activity, if you choose to do it knowing the risks then thats on you. If you’re afraid of the consequences then don’t do it. Everyone wants to have their cake and eat it too but that’s not how the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:13 PM
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I’m 5’9 + 160 lbs and I’m 1/2 her size 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:12 PM
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When I met my ex-bf I was not attracted to him at all, like 0%. He was a chubby baby-faced Indian that was 2 inches shorter than me. He hit on me at a club and after I turned him down he was very respectful and we become friends. By hanging out with him for a few weeks I saw how funny, charming, ambitious, and interesting he was which developed into a crush and then into a relationship, and I became insanely attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:45 PM
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