DifficultAnt23 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Why is it always the same story? “money is not real”. Had a chick, former colleague, say that. New car; personalized license plates, single mother. Up to her eyeballs in debt. One day she dropped by unannounced and asked for help to balance her budget. After working through all of the line items, she wasn't willing to cut a single item to balance her budget. A couple of years later she asked me out -- an easy nope.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/24 07:07 AM
5	Jelly Your brain literally has to unwire, not unlike detoxing from an addiction. They've found that the dopamine centers light up in the MRI similar to cocaine. It may take a year, or two, and then come through and process it all and see clearly. Avoid alcohol and drugs, self-harm. Channel your agony into work, gym, meditation, friendship, community.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/24 03:43 AM
10	I cheated, now the guilt trips are relentless She's virtue signaling to get superiority with her family, friends, your friends, and the court. Nothing you can do about that; but in this day and age it doesn't carry the significance like it did a half century ago. The marriage died a long time ago and should have been closed out then rather than getting more financially entangled. Now end it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/24 06:52 AM
3	She pulled the plug while it was my weekend with the kids Pull yourself together for your kid's sake. They need a functional, good natured, productive father to mirror and learn from.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/24 09:39 PM
9	Really regret my partner. On the other hand, something to consider, a baby/toddler/kindergartner raised by his mother is much more confident and mentally healthy than sticking a child into daycare. Plenty of studies support this.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/24 09:20 PM
1	Divorce rates in reality seem off from the commonly cited 50% statistic and I know several Boomers on their third marriage. and my brother in law's folks recently divorced after 45 years. hard to get a grip on how you define your statistics.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/24 03:15 AM
2	I’m pretty sure divorce is nearing. What can I do now to hedge a little bit of money now to protect myself? Doesn't make sense to contribute to the retirement fund that she'll likely get half of. She can't be bothered to save towards retirement from her income. .... After getting divorced then triple down on your retirement.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/24 02:12 PM
2	Female here - Absolute Hypocrisy of my female neighbor It's sad that western women destroyed marriage (yes there's awful men, and yes there's happy marriages). 8,000,000,000 people on the planet don't give a F about you, soit's sad that the two survival buddies go at each other's throats.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/24 01:38 PM