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Field ReportDifficult_Ad_8299/r/seduction04/04/22 09:17 AM
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11

15 freaking years dating around? I’m tired just thinking about it
/r/seduction10/06/25 01:57 PM
6

Fucked me up to be honest
/r/seduction10/06/23 08:32 PM
4

Way better than “pay for it”. You’ll gain nothing by paying for it, you’ll gain everything by going out and freaking doing something
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:30 AM
1

Can we define high body count? 1000+? 100+? 10+? 1+? Tbh It’s a matter of competition, jealousy and ego. Because most girls can basically have sex at the clap of their fingers whilst most men can’t. The answer is: if that’s a red flag for you, then it is. If it’s not, then it is not.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:56 AM
11

Get the he’ll out of here with your purity. I want my girl dirty as fuck
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:50 AM
6

No, high value men care about what’s important for them and how to follow their intrinsic value. If body count is not a factor that correlates with their values they won’t care. If it does, they will. As simple as that.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:50 AM
2

Fucking hell this what motivation and determination look like.
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:58 AM
6

Go into a choir, lord choir girls are divine
/r/seduction21/08/22 02:15 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:57 AM
1

It’s not
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:51 PM
1

Boring questions are part of the job. The key is to ask one boring question on which you can jump with interesting anecdotes. For instance, if you ask her a question like "hey what's your next holidays?" or something, then you can either jump on your super-cool next holiday and try to relate with her or talk about a past experience that made you feel super happy or is super funny, etc
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:51 AM
1

This made me laugh so hard because I have a friend doing this. It never ends with her saying let's bang though
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:47 AM
4

Talking to people and focusing on self improvement?
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:09 AM
1

What the fuck did I just read
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:25 AM
-6

Yeah so that’s probably the thing at play here. Old doesn’t work for you because you’re better and have more practice at cold approaching :). Doesn’t mean online dating sucks though
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:23 PM
-5

Doesn’t it just show you suck and need to improve at online dating? My stats are better than yours but I don’t jump to conclusions
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:26 PM
1

Same
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:36 PM
2

What the
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:59 PM
0

A couple of weeks to go on a date it’s boring. I know I won’t vibe with someone through messaging, I need to see the person. If we don’t see each other for a date after a fry exchanges I’m out, except in extreme circumstances like holidays and stuff
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:33 AM
46

In my 20s hook up we’re bad. In my 30s they are good
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:32 PM
21

Man this is clear. She didn’t feel your kissing styles were compatible according to what you just said. That happens, move on.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:31 AM
15

He is a 10/10 without social media
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:19 PM
9

CAN confirm the 30es are amazing
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:56 PM
4

Can you please not approach girls at the gym? At least freaking wait for them to get out of there…
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:16 PM
-8

This is the answer. Fcking hell the number of defensive incels in this sun is skyrocketing. Life is a game Fcking play a bit god damn it
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:14 PM
2

Wtf just own it? Do you want to be with a girl that looks down on the biggest part of your life? Seriously people..
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:42 AM
2

Look, if that is true, there’s no chance you are not hit on by man. There is something you don’t tell us here. Maybe you smell bad, maybe your teeth are awful, maybe you’re never getting out of your house, idk but something is fishy
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:10 AM
1

Focused on my career as hell, didn’t see the time passing by / minimised the issues in our relationship (I was unhappy sexually, and it was basically a take it or leave it). The change of job made me realise I needed to move on.
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:54 PM
13

Oddly specific
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:02 AM
1

Bad advice
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:35 PM
1

At all age. You're probably not a "good" man (whatever that means) although you think you are.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:09 AM
2

5 dates a week… I don’t know how you guys can keep up the fun in so many dates, still listen to the women and make sure she is engaged in the conversation to seduce her in the end. Seems to me you should work on that first.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:20 AM
8

Just moved into Geneva and I’ve built one from scratch. Firstly, you need to know that you must dedicate a good chunk of your life to that. It takes effort, energy and is not easy. Few tips that helped me: - find what interests you in life and subscribe on meet-up (or whatever exists in your country). I love sports so it’s easy for me to meet people around a hike or a badminton, paddle, basket, football match etc. (You can see my previous post how I’ve built some friendship and hooked up with a …
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:48 AM
5

Your perspective on sex is quite interesting. You make the assumption that sex is bad for woman and good for men because they just have to exist vs us who have to put the work. Fair, but whats the point? Aren't you looking for someone who is witty, share the same values as you, willing to be loyal to you and can seduce you for the next 40 years? How is sexual past going to affect this but positively if she's open minded to experiment and has experimented in the bedroom? With others and now for t…
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:18 PM
1

Same same. My confidence now compared to my 20 yo is through the rough though
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:52 PM
1

No
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:23 PM
2

I need to accelerate my game. You're good, my first dates are longer than yours seem to be. 1 to 1.5h as you listed above is fast as hell, what's your success rate with that? I'd imagine you often go for a second date? ​ Probs my sexualisation is not good enough yet - been out of the game for so long damn it
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:05 PM
2

Ah the famous cooking together, love that shit it's fun and it works
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:02 PM
1

7/5
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:05 AM
8

Stop being dumb please
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:35 PM
11

Send a dickpic to show dominance
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:36 PM
2

Hang in there! The amount of these posts is way too damn high :/
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:25 PM
7

Fcking hell - 180cm and the guy thinks he is short… what the hell is happening to society… I’m a dwarf per these standards
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:23 PM
7

“I like weird! Normal is boring. That’s why we click you and I”
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:46 AM
165

Different phase in life will require different action to be fulfilled. I’ve had 3 long term relationships and I’m done with commitment for the moment. So i fuck. And Holly hell I love watching different woman switch their gaze to the “ima eat you alive” one. And every damn woman is different and they are all so freaking sexy when they bring that look on their face I can’t resist. And no matter what you think, this is what I need atm
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:14 PM
2

Youre overthinking most of this. As the one said, when you build the tension you can ask her if she wants you to do anything that she craves for such that uou make her cum first . Sometimes she'll just say "do whatever you want" and its fine. Stop seeing sex as a competition to make a girl (or for you to) cum. See it as an enjoyable moment between two attracted people. For the rest chill out. Not find the whole? Tell her "guide me inside of you, my hands are too busy" whilst you firmly grab her …
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:52 AM
2

You’re a legend
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:25 PM
3

This. Movies make us believe mystery works whilst its fun, confident and light headed thats best
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:04 AM
3

The way I sometimes go for consent is that I wait for a blank in the conversation. I basically stop talking and just dive my eyes into hers with a sexual gaze. At some point she’ll stop talking, I wait a bit for the tension to install and then drop a “before we do X, there is something else I wanna do” and I get closer to her but let her make the final move. We stay a bit on my couch then I would stop making out, look at her, then drop a “I want you, how about I carry you to my bed?”. If she say…
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:35 AM
4

Oh god I laughed so hard
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:30 AM
2

This is not seduction advice and they do well to delete your topics you on this. If you cannot work on it, what's the point of putting it in a seduction reddit? Go to redpill or whatever
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:12 PM
5

Youre so on point's! I'm more affected mentally by rejecting someone than being rejected for whatever reason. Especially after having sex
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:45 AM
0

Why the fuck is thzt allowed in this sub-reddit? Isn't there a reddit for breakup or something? Fcking hell man...
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:42 AM
17

I like the second one!
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:44 AM
1

So this is what the seduction subreddit is now? A bunch of kids oneitis after 1 hello and 1 gaze from a bartender? Seriously how is that related in any way to seduction or lifestyle development??
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:29 PM
0

I don’t know why you get downvotes tbh
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:27 PM
6

What the fuck is that ego war story. If I want to text her I’m gonna text her
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:20 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:32 AM
3

Oh boy the ones telling her to leave... there might be plenty of reasons why she didn't want to have sex that day, just take it with a smile.. say that you respect her choice even if it gives you huge blue balls because you find her super attractive, maybe if you can't control yourself ask her to sleep on the sofa and try to see her again after your both slept. Clearly she's attracted so the second time will be the good one!
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:02 AM
8

Not a good approach. Better to have some chit chat and you take her number.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:32 PM
7

5/7 for the try
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:28 PM
2

Some examples: - if she talks about you and her as friends, quickly drop whilst maintaining eye contact “oh I don’t want to be your friend” - After a while and in the middle of the discussion drop a “you’re cute” (or any short type of compliment that shows you’re attracted to her) with a big smile then continue the discussion like nothing happened - play with your gaze. Women sometimes tell me at some point I switch my gaze and it looks like I want to eat them - body language, turn a bit towards…
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:41 PM
1

Read my field report - I’m in the same situation as you although living it completely differently. It might give you idea on how to build a new social circle whilst alone
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:33 PM
48

This is a very bad reason to go through all that. I am short and it does not prevent me from having women. But you do you.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:02 AM
17

But why?
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:56 AM
5

I second with beach volley! Sun + sand + fun = heart
/r/seduction03/04/22 10:24 PM
11

If you're interested I can write a field report when I have time on how I've built one of my social circle, met an amazing wigman and slept with a beautiful girl all thanks to one hike (the first sunny day since I arrived in a new country where I expatriated) EDIT: It's posted https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tvxmyw/fr_building_a_lifestyle_in_a_new_city_ep_1_hiking/
/r/seduction03/04/22 10:22 PM
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Hiking
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:02 PM
9

Body language of an oyster probably! Learn about how to convey confidence
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:56 PM
2

Oh my god this is tiger king level bio
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:17 PM
18

I stay away from them. I have values I don’t want to compromise - but that’s only my choice.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:16 PM
1

You in love or you want her sexually only? Do you cherish your friendship or you don’t care? Depending on the answer either you leave her alone and stay in the friendwone or you just go for it with a flirty comment
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:55 AM
1

Is it creepy? Yes Is it not gonna work? You don’t know. I once met a girl who met her boyfriend of that time exactly like that so, take your chance buddy !
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:41 AM
5

Man get out of your head it’s a joke…
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:37 AM
3

Cut all toxic people of your life. That’s my motto, and that guy my friend is a toxic mofo.
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:03 AM
1

Twice - slept with a 50 something when I was 19 and my boss when I was 25
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:06 AM
2

You probably need to start working on your personal development prior to approaching other people. Know your own worth, get at least one hobby and one sport. For me what worked best was hiking. Now I'm going to group hikes and i talk with everyone there, get to know people. There is always one (or several) person with whom I click, from there on you build the relationship and they'll introduce you to their friends. And once you have fseveral groups like that you can start being the mix matcher. …
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:35 AM
6

I would go for a playful second degree comment like "yes girl haha have I told you I'm a lesbian BTW? ;)" or some weird shut but that's my personality I take everything second degree
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:27 PM
2

Yes and sometimes even better! Some women will be intimated by a lot of messages before the date, as they’ll be afraid not to know what to say during the date. Now it doesn’t hurt if you have some private jokes to send some stuff in between two dates. I always try to set up some such that I can send a weird shit every now and then for maybe an hour prior to going to bed, to initiate a bit of a flirty mood
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:40 AM
3

I find it actually way easier now than before. Women crave other ways of meeting men than dating apps, so in any circumstances of life it seems easy to get at least a first date.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:34 PM
1

This is well written and I laughed as hell
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:37 PM
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