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Well, they are swiping right on you for some reason. Financially independent women don't have to look for a meal ticket, so maybe they are just attracted to you?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 11:29 PM
1

You have to find someone else that drives you. No job is really what is killing you here. Women are just where you are projecting your lack of purpose.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/25 01:52 PM
0

No, I'm not talking about "the red pill's definition" of anything. I'm talking about how the phrase is commonly used. And no I don't want to be with someone that is toxic towards themselves either.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 06:29 AM
-2

The phrase "daddy issues" specifically refers to the resulting destructive behavior. If it didn't affect their behavior now, then it wouldn't be an "issue". And what horse do you have in this race?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 05:56 AM
3

I'm not desperate to be with a woman. I would rather be alone than deal with someone who is toxic and destructive.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 05:44 AM
1

So what?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 05:28 AM
1

Whatever patriarchy said that only exists in your head my dude. Go outside and you will see plenty of guys with dogs lmao.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/24 12:03 PM
1

Don't need luck babe 😘
/r/ExRedPill06/11/24 03:38 AM
1

I submit to your thesis on redpillers. Carry on doctor.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 05:03 PM
1

If all red pillers demanded that all virgins slept with them on the first date, then you would have a point. But I have not seen that to be the case. Red pillers tend to purposefully (or subconsciously) pursue the women that they disdain so they they can justify their abuse of them. They don't even interact with the women that they actually value due to their own insecurity and self loathing. Asking a red piller how they would treat a woman that they see as valuable is like asking me what I woul…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 03:25 PM
1

Where is the contradiction in what you just said?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 03:10 PM
5

As a tall fat guy, it sure seems to me like short skinny guys get all the chicks 🤷🏻‍♂️ If you have a defeatist attitude, then whatever you lack will always be your excuse.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 02:42 PM
1

Because of the separation between virgin and non virgin in their heads. Virgin = valuable and worth treating well, wife material Non virgin = trash and only exists for pleasure, should be grateful to even be in the presence of the redpill man The contradiction would be if they expect the virgin to put out on the first date. But that would require them to actually go on a date and not just argue about fantasy situations in their head.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 06:48 PM
1

Those seem like the same belief to me. If they believe that a woman is a slut, then why would they want to spend time and money on her if she won't put out? I am not defending these beliefs. But they don't seem contradictory to me.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 06:23 PM
0

Yes that's also good advice. This wimpy attitude usually comes from people who have been spoon fed their entire lives. Get off of reddit and go do something that makes you feel grateful to be alive.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 06:51 PM
-1

Go get some pussy bro. Nobody stopping you.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 04:17 PM
1

There is a difference between being polite and doing too much. OP is obviously doing the latter, which women are repulsed by.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 05:28 PM
2

Well I think you should think about what you want women to want you for, and make that more visible.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 10:05 PM
3

Well, I'd suggest avoiding all that. You aren't required to divulge everything about yourself on the first date. Are these all women you meet on apps?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 09:43 PM
-4

That makes a lot of sense, and I've experienced a lot of the same. They all want an exclusive relationship right from the start which is crazy as I barely know these women. This tends to happen when you lead with your success in order to attract women. If that's all you have to offer, then women will treat you like a bank that they want to exert control over. I think you should try to channel some of the energy you had in your younger years. Your masculinity should be what attracts women to begi…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 09:23 PM
3

It's good that you are confident and describe yourself positively, but somehow it must not be coming across the same way to women. Do you have any idea why that may be?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 09:03 PM
3

I'm a gentleman in every way I can be. I treat women with respect, open all the doors, pay for all the meals, walk on the outside of the street and I love being attentive and communicative and supportive. This tells me you are. In general, women willing not appreciate getting this from a man who is willing to give it to any woman, just like you wouldn't be that excited about sex with a woman who would give it to any man. The women you date probably think you are safe and boring.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 08:56 PM
5

Sounds like you are still stuck in the nice guy complex.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 08:51 PM
1

Don't argue with people. Especially people on the internet. Talk to people in real life. You are living in a twisted fantasy land that these people have created to fool you.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 11:44 PM
0

So do you actually want to discuss the topic?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/24 04:41 PM
0

I meant elaborate on how this is related to the black pill. Also for the record, OP mentioned race. I'm not here to debate definitions.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/24 03:59 PM
0

Feel free to elaborate.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 09:36 PM
-2

Feel free to elaborate.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 03:33 PM
-11

Is that what he meant? That seems pretty illogical, since the whole concept of e.g. looks maxing is for those that they deem "genetically inferior" to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 03:06 PM
-18

Feel free to elaborate your point. When I say "killing off a race" I do include indirectly through controlled reproduction.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 03:01 PM
-22

No. None of the things you mentioned have anything to do with killing off a race, unless you'd like to elaborate a specific point.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 02:53 PM
1

No but your fedora is
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 07:23 PM
1

Yes please dial 911 on a redditor 😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 04:26 PM
1

It's reddit buddy. You don't have to respond. You just don't have anything else to do with your life so you come here to posture.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 02:48 PM
1

Feel free to throw out your education, job title, and salary, to prove to me how big of a boy you are 😉
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 02:06 PM
1

Correct on both counts!
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 11:40 AM
1

They do! And they give me a lot of money for my ideas 😄
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 11:22 AM
1

You just admitted you don't understand it 😂
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 05:33 AM
1

Basic biological programming is what keeps human society functioning. If you can't see that then you just don't understand the world around you.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 05:28 AM
1

You need to think a little harder about what motivates people then.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 05:21 AM
1

And why should they care about the concept of the nation?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 04:44 AM
-4

So miserable you can't even form a coherent thought. Tragic.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 11:03 PM
-2

And why does some average British schmuck care about trade restrictions?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 12:31 PM
1

Pretty much all of them. Why do you think men go to war and not women?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 12:06 PM
-3

Buddy, I'm not talking about how things should be, I'm talking about how things are. When was the last time women went to war to protect their source of sex?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 11:03 AM
1

Lol, so being gay is a choice? Don't be so bigoted.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 08:12 PM
-2

It means that the downside of random sex for women is way greater than it is for men. Then they don't want it that bad. Men are willing to endure literally anything for sex. If a random hook-up for a man meant he would be looked down on, would probably have an unsatisfying time, and might be murdered, men wouldn’t seek random encounters either. Well, it does. And you say this as if women don't seek random hookups anyway.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 08:05 PM
-6

Men ARE willing to put themselves in any amount of danger to get laid. That is basically the entire plot of human history.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 08:04 PM
1

That's just regret lol.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 06:42 PM
1

It's not a choice lol. It's a curse. That's why post nut clarity is a thing. We are willing to sacrifice everything else in our lives for some tail.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 06:27 PM
-4

Women want sex as much as men. But most women want sex within some kind of established relationship. That means they don't want it as bad as men.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 06:20 PM
1

Biology? Men are wired to lust for women.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 06:18 PM
1

You seem to forget you said this. I can see why you’re such a hit with the ladies. Pro tip, gaslighting doesn't work as well when the conversation is recorded in text. I guess it is just normal for you. And I know you are going to play dumb and act as if that wasn't an insult. Yes, I can see through that too. Now go away.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 09:05 PM
1

Gaslighting too huh? Yes I am sure your bf is so happy 😂
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 09:01 PM
-1

It was pretty tame compared to your direct insult. Are you often rude to people and then surprised when they defende themselves?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 08:57 PM
-1

And I am sure you are insulting strangers on reddit because you are such a lovely person.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 08:48 PM
1

Lovely. My entire viewpoint of the world is changed.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 08:45 PM
1

No idea who that is, but the answer is because you watch it and spread it.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 12:06 AM
1

Regardless of that.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:32 PM
1

Like I said, it depends totally on how you define gender. All of your statements presuppose a definition of gender that aligns with what you want to prove.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 06:04 PM
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Transgender studies are certainly a scientific subject. You confuse science and liberal arts. I am quite curious what studies you have to back up the notion that gender is as simple as penis and vagina Gender is just a word. It can mean whatever you definite it to mean. "Studies" are totally useless on this topic, since your "study" will reveal that the word means what you already defined it to mean. The question is, what is a USEFUL definition? The problem with the leftist definition is that yo…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 05:15 PM
1

Wow I'm convinced 😂
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 05:05 PM
-1

Well that's the point, isn't? I'm the one that will be making more, so I will be the one getting fucked.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:46 PM
-2

You cleverly skipped finances.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:35 PM
-2

Lol, do explain.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:25 PM
-1

This is what we call survivor bias.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:21 PM
-1

I mean... they would know, wouldn't they? It's a political agenda and not a scientific subject, so no. They link studies. Cherry picked studies that don't even back up the point you are trying to make. This is a typical strategy of the left. You appeal to scientific authority, even when it is totally illogical horse shit.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:20 PM
-1

Most relationships don't work out Exactly, so why should I waste my time?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:08 PM
-1

Center for Transgender Medicine and Surgery Give me a fucking break. And no, pop sci top 5 articles do not count as scientific sources.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:07 PM
-1

stepmom Lol
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:06 PM
-1

Being happy in the honeymoon phase of a non-committed relationship is not ground breaking 😂
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 03:48 PM
1

You better hope not. Never in your life will you be totally free.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 03:47 PM
0

Please cite some of this "science".
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 03:46 PM
-3

In that case, how about we also remove the power that the courts have over men? Since you seem to accept the idea that marriages don't last, then why the hell should I be in one?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 03:43 PM
-1

Where are all of these magically happy people?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 03:41 PM
-3

Same to you.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 11:21 PM
-4

I know. You only see in black and white. The vast majority of humanity can't understand statistics so don't feel bad.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 11:18 PM
-4

No, that's not the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 10:04 PM
-4

Unfortunately you are making a classic fallacy. Making statements about averages is not the same thing as make statements about every individual. Not everyone is average, but understand what happens on average us still useful for understanding the world.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 09:07 PM
2

It should be very easy for you to destroy me with your superior intellect then!
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 03:17 PM
2

Okay, go bang Sydney Sweeney then.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 03:13 PM
1

Or maybe you just want to resort to personal attacks when critical thinking makes you uncomfortable?
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 03:08 PM
0

Wrong on many counts. I said exactly what I meant. Think harder about your own views instead of trying to psychoanalyze mine.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 02:57 PM
1

The point of the red pill is to point out the negative "reality" about women and dating in general. So by that definition the belief in leagues is a red pill belief. This is just idiotic. Observing objective reality isn't inherently negative. I hate to break it to you, but Sydney Sweeney is out of your league, and Marilyn Monroe was out of your grandpa's league decades before "redpill" was even a thing.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 12:54 PM
6

Since when is huberman part of the manosphere?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/24 08:45 PM
1

The point of a tik tok video is to get a reaction out of you, not to tell the truth.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/24 09:20 PM
3

That's another good feeling to let go of.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/24 06:49 PM
5

You dont need encouragement. You need to learn how to let go of useless feelings. If a feeling does not serve you, it is okay to let it go. It takes quite a bit of introspection to really understand this.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/24 06:39 PM
-5

Turn on the Olympics and you can see a few.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 12:37 PM
-11

Not technically correct....just correct.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 12:22 AM
-23

It might be attractive in general, but the vast majority of women cannot keep up with a disciplined man.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 06:12 PM
-3

I fit most of that, but the very little free time is exactly why it is hard to find a partner.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 06:11 PM
7

Looks might be significant, but it's never 100%. For example, I can immediately tell that you have a dog shit defeatist attitude that women will immediately find repulsive.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 03:17 PM
0

Okay, now you can explain how "pump" and "put" mean the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 03:23 PM
0

I didn't say pump out
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 10:50 AM
5

It took you mushrooms to realize this?
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 02:21 AM
0

What does that mean
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 09:57 PM
-4

What does that phrase have to do with an oil rig?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 09:36 PM
-8

So you've NEVER put out on the first date?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 03:38 PM
9

The point of any given tik tok video is to get your attention, not spread Truth.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 03:24 PM
1

Then what's the problem?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 09:12 PM
1

You are contradicting your own premise. Does this hypothetical person want kids or not?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 08:46 PM
7

Sure, I had that FOMO for many years. After enough experience with women, I realized I am not actually missing out on anything. This brainwashing that young men have is really tragic though. I think it it comes from Disney and such bullshit. Many of us waste our lives fearing we are missing out on something. Someday you can make your own life and a woman may add to it, but a woman can never magically fix your life for you. So go make a life for yourself first. Join hobbies, build a social circle…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:49 PM
10

I can tell from how you talk that you have no actual knowledge of socializing and your head is just full of bullshit from the internet. Forget all of this crap you think you know, go spend time talking to people in the real world, build friendships, live a full life.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:27 PM
5

Indeed, it really just takes up too much time to be worth it. Once every 2-3 years I date a girl that I happen to meet naturally, other than that I mind my own business.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:20 PM
8

Okay, be alone then. Doesn't bother me.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 10:16 PM
10

So the problem is just that you don't have social skills. Join groups, make friends, practice talking to people. It really isn't that hard.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 10:01 PM
3

If you truly do not care about looks, then it would not be hard at all for you to hit on a woman who is not conventionally attractive. Less attractive women with fewer options are less likely to care about your physical appearance as well.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 09:24 PM
0

That's only hypocrisy if you believe that all of those people are equal.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 04:13 PM
0

It's not hypocritical if you believe that men and women are different.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 03:33 PM
1

Stop giving a fuck.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 09:50 PM
0

Physical attractive matters, a lot. In fact, it makes up the majority of most relationships, even if people don't want to admit it.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 09:07 PM
1

Where does the Bible say that?
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 10:20 PM
1

Do you think that the majority of people in relationships do not truly love each other? Of course not.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 04:29 PM
1

Define "real"
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:40 AM
1

This has nothing to do with red pill. Don't waste your time on addicts. Simple.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 02:46 AM
1

Thousands of men (and women) volunteers are choosing to join the military, you mean. So what? The fact that lower class young people are taking the best deal they can get doesn't absolve the warmongering elite (like Clinton) from responsibility. I mean, I'm talking about right now, obviously. And for me, America, where I'm from. This is what is called cherry picking. Also you seem to be ignoring the massive amounts of civilian casualities in every war. Lol, no I'm not. I'm also not ignoring the …
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 10:16 PM
1

Yet we don't have a draft, and thousands are still being SENT to die. Alternatively, pick any location and any time period. Who is SENT to die?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 09:10 PM
1

You really can't figure out why the draft is totally irrelevant, even though you exactly stated why? This is like trying to convince Patrick Star that the wallet with his picture in it is his.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 08:12 PM
1

Not that the US has had a draft in most of our lifetimes anyway. It's really convenient when someone points out why their own point is irrelevant.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 07:48 PM
1

Nancy Pelosi and Hillary Clinton?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 10:34 AM
-5

Who gets sent to die in war?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 01:53 AM
9

You can get paid a lot to be a hit man or human trafficker too.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 12:39 AM
1

I have great female friends, but they tend to be older. My favorite coworker is a sassy and outspoken middle aged lady but she just quit 😪
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 03:08 PM
-13

Nice zinger. Unfortunately you totally side stepped the point.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 03:24 PM
1

Gotta work on them social skills my guy.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 07:45 PM
4

Correct.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 09:25 PM
-2

It does though. Sexual competition is fundamental to the history of life. This is not a new or wild concept.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 09:11 PM
-5

The evolutionary drive to reproduce with the highest quality mate. How is this even a question?
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 08:12 PM
0

All of the men that wanted to be with her but didn't get to be?
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 08:11 PM
1

Lol, of course not.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 01:40 AM
3

So since 30 years ago is "recently"? Maybe you just feel guilty about how you treated other people and should stop projecting it on to "society".
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 12:22 AM
3

I'm 32, and I've been hearing it pretty much my whole life. It only seems recent that we would tell little boys to man up or/and don't be soft or cry. Who is "we"? Is that really a first hand account?
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 12:09 AM
10

How does "society" teach men that? I hear constantly about how men should cry and express their emotions more.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 01:56 PM
2

If anything, my problem is that I am too egotistical.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 01:02 PM
2

Well how would I know? Like I said, I don't have anything to give you there other than my perception.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 12:45 PM
2

Which one? If you mean the former, I'm not going to list my resume. If you mean the latter, I'm not sure what I'm supposed to give you other than my perception.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 12:43 PM
8

On paper I should be a desirable man, but in reality I'm not. This causes distress, and I looked for a reason to explain it.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 04:32 PM
0

Yes
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 09:19 PM
2

I used to have similar feelings, more so about other men than women, but I get where you are coming from. If you truly want to have a growth mindset and be the best person you can be, then you should only hold on to thoughts and feelings that help you towards that. Being bitter towards other people is not doing you any good, in fact it is actively holding you back. So just let it go.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/23 04:38 PM
1

I know the idea of people thinking for themselves really rubs you the wrong way, but I get to decide for myself what is worthy of judging someone for and what isn't. Stay mad about it.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/23 04:24 PM
1

Show me where I said you said those things 🙄
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 12:06 PM
1

So you don't actually believe in the no judgements thing, you just want to control how people think about you. Got it.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 11:10 AM
1

Lol, so it's okay for you to judge me?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 11:01 AM
-2

I can still judge them. I'm free to perceive others as I want. Stop trying to be the thought police.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 07:50 PM
-5

Judgement is how we make progress. You should judge everyone. Set standards for yourself and everyone that will be a part of your life.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 04:08 PM
1

That's has to be one of the dumbest thing I've ever heard, since soccer is probably the most popular sport for women world wide. The problem is that you are depressed and lack confidence.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:20 PM
0

A fish cannot teach you how to fish, a deer cannot teach you how to hunt, and a woman cannot teach you how to attract women. The issue is not that OP just doesn't know the right algorithm for hitting on a woman. He is depressed, antisocial, unattractive, and pathetic. No woman can fix that for him.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:04 PM
1

I'm sure it is, but it would be very expensive, and it wouldn't be that helpful.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:50 PM
3

Get a hobby that involves something other than looking at a screen.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:48 PM
0

What's your goal?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:47 PM
2

Unless you are hideously deformed, you can put a small amount of effort into your appearance and be ahead of the majority of men. Yes, physical attractiveness matters. This is nothing to act so gobsmacked about.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 06:34 PM
0

She said. Because she finds him physically attractive. Which is hilarious.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 06:56 PM
6

That advice isn't bullshit. You just also have to develop confidence and social skills.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 03:06 PM
1

Rage, rage, rage. Still, nothing changes.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 02:13 PM
1

I'm dead serious. You might understand after a few more years of pain and misery.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:53 PM
2

Spend the rest of your life crying about it and be miserable then. Doesn't matter to me.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:47 PM
1

What I said bro was true. It's also true that you can't fly because gravity is real. Do you spend your time lamenting that fact as well? Right now as Society we do great work with analyzing gender roles and gender expression and where they come from You are so lost you don't even have an inkling of it.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:44 PM
1

I did, it's just the same thing that every confused young man says so it's not that hard to parse. Best I can do for you at this point is hope you follow the path on your own. https://youtu.be/d5E2AQKuCyU
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:38 PM
1

And how much good is it doing you to whine and cry about it?
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:27 PM
1

No one really sees you doing this and it's a emotional thing that's abstract so it's not like you're going to win points for it either. What anyone else thinks about it isn't the point. The point is keeping your own center and emotional stability because it directly benefits your own mental health and strength.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:22 PM
1

Accepting it and asking accordingly doesn't really change all the problems and frustrations that come along with it. Yes, it does. Learn to not let what you can't change affect you emotionally. This is the superpower of the masculine that few learn any more.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:09 PM
1

Yes, there is a double standard for men and women, including a lot more issues than what you have mentioned. They have advantages that you don't, and you have advantages that they don't. Accept it and act accordingly.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:01 PM
1

Not sure what you're trying to say there bud.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:55 PM
1

Women aren't going to fill any of these holes for you. Find your value and meaning elsewhere.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:23 PM
0

Maybe you can also Google "consistency in masculine roles across cultures", and gain some knowledge bro.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:17 AM
0

Yeah I'll just go Google "wtf is this arrogant prick on reddit talking about"
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:00 AM
1

I am curious specifically about what information you think you have that backs up your point. If you don't actually have any, you can just say so 👍
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:47 AM
1

Okay?.....
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:46 AM
1

Some links would be fine.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:14 AM
1

Okay. How so then?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:51 PM
1

You're very good at ignoring facts that you don't like. What happened to correlation does not equal causation? Yes, the divorce rate is trending down a few percentage points following a peak shortly after the housing crisis. Good thing we are not naive enough to take such a simplistic univariate analysis seriously.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 09:36 PM
1

Yes, I understand, but again, this is old data and new data is suggesting otherwise. Feel free to provide some proof. All it shows is correlation, not causation, That's true of every study on social topics. But, so what, if the correlation gives me some reasonable guidelines for decision making? and newer data is showing that the number of sex partners is going up while divorce is going down. What happened to correlation does not equal causation? Yes, the divorce rate is trending down a few perc…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 09:11 PM
1

Here is the original article with a bunch of citations. There is a ton of proof on this topic, you just don't want to believe it. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X231155673#bibr13-0192513X231155673
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:54 PM
1

Yes, including the part I quoted in my last comment, that you refuse to acknowledge. That's called cherry picking. Seems like you have some vested interest in the data not being true?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:06 PM
1

Cherry picking a bit aren't you? Seems like you have a particular bias on this topic. From the article: Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce So would it behoove me to pursue women with less than 10 sexual partners or not? And women with only 1 partner have the confounding variable that many of them are probably from religious cultures where divorce is frowned upon. Citation needed.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 07:19 PM
1

I think it’s ideal for any man I don’t think you're in any sort of a position to make a statement on what all men should do. Worry about yourself kid.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 07:05 PM
1

The data is pretty easy to find, and no it's not about birds. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability#:~:text=Women%20with%2010%20or%20more,the%20least%20likely%20to%20divorce.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 07:01 PM
1

So I am just as likely to have a successful marriage with a woman who has slept with 1000 men as I am with a woman who has slept with < 5 ?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 06:51 PM
1

Then why is your argument that it has to be true for men? You are shifting the goal post.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 06:39 PM
1

Okay, let's assume that number of sexual partners has the exact same negative effect on the pair bonding capability of both men and women. Given that, should a man be looking for a woman with a high or low number of sexual partners, for the sake of a long term committed relationship?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:16 PM
1

That line of reasoning would make sense if this were a competition to determine which gender is better or worse, but it isn't.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:03 PM
1

And yet in all of these conversations, there are always multiple people complaining about "but men". The rebuttal you just raised is ALWAYS the rebuttal, and somehow you still manage to think you are the only person to ever raise it.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:43 PM
-6

Are any of those really different, fundamentally?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:57 PM
2

It really wouldn't be that difficult with the trash they keep around.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:14 PM
-1

In every single discussion like this one
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 02:38 PM
-2

They literally do.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 12:09 AM
-1

than men That's really not the question.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 08:06 PM
2

It's hard man. We seem to be wired that way. In general I would say to focus on where you WANT your self worth to come from. Work? Other relationships? Hobbies? Charitable acts? IMO it's important to have a mix. Find your purpose and focus on it.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 07:44 AM
6

Huh?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 11:30 PM
7

Not with that attitude.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 10:10 PM
1

Stay busy with something other than video games.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:49 PM
7

Women are attracted to different men for different reasons.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:48 PM
2

Yes. So what? It's also easier that you were born when you were and not a thousand years ago.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/22 05:18 PM
-1

There are a few different common reasons. It is genuine complaint It is a shit test They complain publicly to really just advertise how attractive they must be since people hit on them so much A combo of the above or maybe other reasons.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 07:29 PM
-4

Turns out the individuals that make up groups have different opinions. Women who complain constantly about being hit on do not represent all women. Most women enjoy the attention (even the ones who complain about it).
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:37 PM
1

Twox is extremely delusional in a lot of ways.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:14 PM
-2

You're just not going to get very far calling people nazis. It's been a bit over done.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 05:17 PM
2

That you feel things are unfair? When did I say that? Impossible to have a discussion on this sub without people immediately insisting on what I must believe.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 05:20 PM
1

And ignoring it isn't going to make it go away.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 04:59 PM
1

It's of interst to men who have trouble dating, feel it is unfair, and feel disenfranchised. I agree that their response is too destructive, but pretending that their complaint is just a non-issue isn't helpful.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 04:33 PM
1

An array of half-truths don’t exactly make a truth. Lol I didn't say it did. I just said there was a kernel of truth in there somewhere, which you seem to agree with. " Hot women have options" shouldn't be a truth that anyone gets upset about.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 03:50 PM
1

I still believe in some of the basic ideas. I think there a kernel of truth to it that they have sort of gone crazy with.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 03:27 PM
3

You are too focused on women. You need your own purpose. As long as women are your prime directive, you will never be happy.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:29 PM
1

So that you can get real treatment instead of asking strangers on a niche subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 03:44 PM
1

We cannot diagnose you. Get off the internet and go to a psychologist.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 03:42 PM
3

Way too complicated to be useful, and probably also not all that accurate. Would you like to ask a more specific question about the problem you are watching these videos to try and solve?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 04:58 PM
1

Exactly why it was a silly question to begin with. Glad you are finally catching on.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 09:51 PM
1

XY. Boom done.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 09:49 PM
1

That there isn't a test.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 09:42 PM
1

You know very well what I mean, you are just looking to make a woke political point.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 09:37 PM
1

There isn't a test where a doctor can take some of your blood and look at it to say if you're "a man" or not. There literally is but OK
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 09:16 PM
1

To me giving up seems easier and less of a headache. If I truly gave up, I would be able to move on and focus on enjoying life in other ways. I would have less pressure to go to the gym or earn money because I would only do these things for women. I do think that you are too fixated on women, and you need to figure out what makes YOU happy. A woman can be a complement to a life you have already built, but a woman isn't not going to waltz into your life and save you. You SHOULD go to the gym. Sto…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:17 PM
1

Yeah, that's WHY you get to work. Most people are underdogs. Get the fuck over it.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 08:07 PM
1

Are you the same dude that I talked to a while ago? Why are you still bitching instead of working?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 08:00 PM
1

I have a wee baby group I share my ramblings with. Why don't they comment then? Too expensive?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 02:53 AM
1

That's a lot of ranting to justify being overweight.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 02:43 AM
1

You mean, people like you? All I did was simplify what you said. If you have a problem with the truth of your own words then get mad at yourself.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:54 AM
1

No it just requires you being a little less defensive.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:21 AM
1

Well we all seem to have assumed it Yes, the group think here is very delicate, and it's pretty detrimental to what this sub is trying to accomplish.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:21 AM
1

I am neither lmao this sub is ridiculous. Y'all can't even handle a miniscule amount of humorous pushback.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 11:58 PM
1

Homie I didn't say that either. You are raging at me for an opinion I don't even have. You realize I'm not the OP right?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 11:57 PM
1

I said literally zero of that 😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 10:51 PM
1

Talk to uglier chicks. Brilliant.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 10:30 PM
1

I didn't text her that I was "fighting a dragon" to be quirky. I texted her that because I thought it is a much more fun conversation to have instead of telling her what I'm studying. You were literally trying to be quirky. Anyway, totally depends on the chick. If she enjoys engaging in some performative role play, then great. If she is a normal person trying to actually get to know you better, then making up random stuff isn't actually all that useful. You seem to be afraid that the fact you we…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 10:28 PM
1

What do you want?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 04:00 PM
1

That's literally the core message of a large portion of RP content creators.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 06:10 PM
1

There’s this girl at work, Don't shit where you eat. always gives me vibes like she WANTS me, but I feel like because I push and pull a LOT with her she does the same thing back to me. (She has daddy issues) She always gives me eye contact when passing me, I always see her watching and gazing at me, she always flirts with me, asks me questions about me, and tries touching me. Yesterday she teased me about my car and how I probably “fuck it” and asked me if I would strip for car parts. Then told …
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 04:42 PM
1

It's amazing how RP the upvoted advice in this sub is sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 04:40 PM
1

That's because he actually gave a definition of femininity.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 04:38 PM
1

My personal definition is ”things men do”. If you are a man then masculine activities are the things men do and how men are. Then it's meaningless and we might as well not have the word.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 04:38 PM
1

Why are you asking us instead of him?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 04:36 PM
1

Go to the gym, watch your diet, get work experience, gain new skills, expand your social circle. Which part of that is bad advice?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 09:27 PM
1

so why they don't try to improve themselves? Self improvement is central to a ton of red pill content.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 07:55 PM
1

Running is for pussies. Go do some jiu jitsu.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 02:06 AM
1

Okay....who the fuck is it? Any actual proof that he is who he says he is, in terms of age or experiences? Because he writes exactly like I would expect a bored horny 16 year old to write.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 10:16 PM
-1

Have you actually verified your identity anywhere?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 10:11 PM
0

This shit is retarded regardless of who he used to be.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 10:10 PM
10

The sub has really gone to shit. Just incel teenagers upvoting fan fic.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 07:54 PM
-1

This is God awful. This shit needs to be banned.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 07:53 PM
1

You want genuine desire from a woman who is with you on your terms. Men don't communicate their terms to women through words. If you can't indicate to a woman that you want to fuck her without saying it then your game fucking sucks. Realistically, she knows this the second you approach her. If you say FWB, you won't have the "what are we?" question. She knows she an FWB. Any woman who explicitly agrees to this the second you meet them is trash. Absolute gutter trash. If that's what you are looki…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 12:40 PM
0

Your success rate will be much higher if you don't explicitly say FWB. A huge number of women want it, but do not want to be slut shamed for it. It's pretty easy if you are just more indirect. Give them the excuse to say "it just happened".
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 11:33 PM
0

Same to you bud. Do something with your life other than party and come back when you have something substantial.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 04:30 AM
-1

You provide no value in your life. Get your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 09:46 PM
3

So go get some business experience and come back when you have something to talk about? I promise this sub does not need more teenagers writing fanfic about how they were the cool one at the party.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 12:46 PM
23

You are overcomplicating the concept you fucking dork.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 01:30 AM
73

You are making good points, but using one of the biggest movie stars at the time as an example of someone who can attract women despite not being qualified in terms of money and status is just....interesting.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/21 03:27 PM
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