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| – | CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still singleThanks! Were both extremely happy .^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:37 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still singleMine dont care either 😂😭 this post feels so odd to me. Im gonna dress how I dress regardless. Half the "scandalous" stuff I buy to wear is specifically FOR him tbh. Men in public are creepy and approach me like Im single to hit on me while I wear mens pj bottoms, a 2 sizes too large mens shirt, and mens shoes. More than when I wear nice stuff honestly. Tell me what about that would make me appear single? Lol. Im getting attention from randos regardless. In fact i get more when dressed typical, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 05:14 AM |
| 0 | CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still singleMy partner and I would be married regardless of what we did or didnt wear. He could wear nothing but underwear full time and Id not feel any way about it. And vice versa. Were allowed to leave the house in whatever we want bc we feel comfortable with each other. To me it just seems like an issue with not feeling secure in a relationship and if either party decides they cant deal with it, from either side, they should split up. But demanding someone adorn their flesh prison in specific things whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Where is a man supposed to go in order to meet you?I'd say no. He can ask for contact info to pursue a general relationship with me, platonically to get to know me though, and we can go from there. An outright attempt at romantic or sexual relationship off the bat is a polite decline. Internet and telephones exist for a reason so it wouldn't be a "never going to see each other again" situation unless he wanted it to be. I'm always glad to give my digits and socials though and maybe "go out" as in hang out as friends after vetting a little first … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend/husband the best looking partner you've ever had sex with?I'd never trade and I tell him all the time. He is the most attractive. Mine has been my biggest crush since I was in 7th grade. He was older than me and while he was the hottest shit walking to me, he is not at all attractive - by the conventional standards and he's aware and makes comments about that often (I argue it HARD bc those standards mean nothing to me in regards to him, he's flawless in my eyes)... So that got to be my dirty little secret in middle and high school bc I was partnered t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Where is a man supposed to go in order to meet you?If you're looking for sex, apps. If you're wanting a serious long term thing and a life partner then I recommend befriending women in public. Like actually making an effort at making friends with them. In my specific case a man could meet me as a potential partner literally anywhere (I'll strike up convos with total strangers and it doesn't weird me out if they're friendly, I'd say it's fairly easy to get a foot in the door and be involved with me, just start chatting in public and we can stay i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If you’re over 25 and still a virgin, you need to hire an escort or have an ONS alreadyFelt. Also: That's understandable and I hella respect your decision. Stick to your guns and don't settle! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If you’re over 25 and still a virgin, you need to hire an escort or have an ONS alreadyWeird mix of pan/demi If I'm being honest. Edit: I just realized this is probably veering in the "do either of you put out?" direction. In that case my answer is asexual does not = low libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 09:41 AM |
| 7 | If you’re over 25 and still a virgin, you need to hire an escort or have an ONS alreadyImo a virgin man is extremely high value for that fact alone, it's hella bonus points. He didn't degrade himself to go hump everything like any dog or rabbit can just bc society and boners said to. Also the lack of bedroom experience, goes directly to his first partner. Meaning teach him however you like. If marriage is the goal that makes him the perfect candidate. I married a virgin man. He was a virgin until 26 or 27. He has been the most wonderful partner in every other aspect and an absolut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | If you’re over 25 and still a virgin, you need to hire an escort or have an ONS alreadyNah. My hubby was a virgin until 26 or 27. He was a friend of mine for half my life and always said he had zero interest in dating and sexual gratification as he's ace. He always said he just wasn't ready and didn't exactly care to bc sex wasn't a driving idea to him. He didn't "think it was cute" he just had no interest, and therefore should not have been pressured or forced. He was well versed socially in high school, we had a great friend group and everyone else around town knew him and vice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:35 AM |
| 9 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?I hate this question because the honest answer is when I was a toddler. Like from Im guessing 2-8. After that stopped it was 12 onward, by random adult men. All my friends were anywhere from 15-22 ish from then on bc kids my own age hated that I was autistic and traumatized so I was "weird"... but alot of the dudes were always weird af all the time and I just shut my mouth and dealt. I remember my 17 year old friend setting me up on a blind date at 14 or 15 years old(I was for sure in my first y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive?Idk. Why are men unattracted to insecure women?? Probably the same answer. People like confidence/security traits over insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather your partner cheat on you with a tinder hook up or cheat on you for money?Money. At least hes putting that back into our expenses vs money spent on an affair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 07:37 PM |
| 3 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Pretending to be kind then being a total shitbag after they got what they want. Women likely would not have slept with them if they had been upfront. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?Big agree. Im a woman and have been saying the same since always bc I realize we have the upperhand amount of privilege in these situations and short of a piece of fckn rubber that can fail or be sabotaged, men get no say. Then mothers bitch about the fathers lack of interest. I understand bait and switches happen an insane amount but if hes been upfront about his wishes the entire time youve been having relations and made an honest effort to be safe and take preventative action, dont complain b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 07:16 PM |
| 23 | Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented?Ideal for me as well. My time here is limited. I dont want kids and dont want an absent partner bc theyre putting everything into a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | If sex was saved until marriage, do you think it would stop most of dating issues?No. Lots more divorce tho imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:18 AM |
| 7 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.Right? Just fundamental incompatibility. Im punk/alt but not as a look, punk is a belief system/way of life for some. People who dont have the same core values/beliefs just dont vibe and arent compatible on fundamental levels most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?5 and 5. I have no reason to lie, bc the only man who ever asked me and had a number lower than or even anywhere CLOSE to mine is my husband, and he doesnt care either way. The other dudes wouldve had no room to talk about high body count, so typically Ive got no shame in my game when men ask 😂 if they even start with me I throw it right back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Sorry, the body positive movement ran out of space.Personally I care about it just the same when its insulting a mans body too, men are also people just like I am so its shitty when ppl roast them for shit they cant help. I take up for em when I can but the thing for women is, when we do we get called pick me ass bitches for doing so 🤷♀️ its a lose lose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?No. I havent. Quite the opposite in my personal experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:18 AM |
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