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| 0 | Why (as a guy) you may not be getting success on dating apps..! | Resources | DigLucky3112 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:24 AM |
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| 5 | How to back off after being needy, without seeming like you’re playing games ?I think that's it you want to cap it off on a positive note for you, to have it as it was, but that will lead you to chase an outcome and that will make you reactive etc and lower value ultimately. You may need to swallow your pride and accept it maybe over but you will continue interacting. That should give you a better frame to work from. And things may turn round, i believe it can be salvaged but you'll need to let it go *(really let it go) to see if it comes back Practical steps if you need … | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:11 PM |
| 21 | How to back off after being needy, without seeming like you’re playing games ?Main problem: "I now need to win her back over." Wrong mindset, what you mean is you want to be the type of man she would fall for and chase?!? It may already be over. You maybe in the slow decline phase where you're essentially splitting up and every thing you do will have a diminishing rate of return until its over. But there is still hope! First you should not lean into someone who is not leaning into you. Give her ALOT of space and "do you" and allow her to come back into your life or if she… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle itSoak it up! | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | things were going great and I told her my love for her❤️ | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 11:51 AM |
| 202 | things were going great and I told her my love for herBro you shot your shot, you should be proud. Now you now the deal you don't have to wonder. No-one ever feels worse for someone telling them they have feelings for them, it may not be reciprocated, but its a good thing. Give it some time and i'm sure it will return to normal (ish) as long as you're cool. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 11:22 AM |
| 12 | hair flick behind the ear.Women tend to preen or groom themselves subconsciously when they're attracted to someone, by flipping back their hair to fluff it or smoothing it down | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 55 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesThis is what porn has done to people, if she doesn't come round looking like a hookup hotshot she's not down.? She was DTF IMO, but your attitude drove her away, i would of been more turned on with the baggy clothes, easy to slip off..! | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Think I fucked it by texting backNo your good bro, just that you seem to REALLY like her and your mentally tripping over yourself! Its obv because you think this girl is awesome (which im sure she is) the thing is you need to trick your brain to think she is less attractive than she is so you can act normal around her and have a chance of turning it into something. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 9 | Think I fucked it by texting backYou didn't fuck it up but your attitude might. Imagine you have NO interest in this girl bar some good funny conversation, how would you act.....go! | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:41 AM |
| 4 | What’s the oldest woman you’ve slept with or biggest age difference with the woman you hooked up with?Sheeeeeeeeesh, don't feel too bad heard this one comic say at 16 he lost his virginty to a 55 yr old. I have to sleep with the lights on now! | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:54 AM |
| 17 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?This first bit should be in r/funny i can only imagine the responses you got! You should be real gentle and say that she doesn't have to but you think it would be really sexy if she shaved down there! | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:36 AM |
| 8 | why doesn't game translate well within america?European girls respond more to comfort, American girls respond more to status! | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:55 AM |
| 113 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"Don't qualify yourself, say stupid shit like "Because i have the 3rd best parrot in my neighbourhood......!" | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Do you think this boy likes me?'If you snap each other, you obv's like communicating with each other. Just be real casual, just say hi, nice snap the other day then walk off. You don't have to get into a long convo or anything. Just get comfortable saying hi, then a bit of chat, then some more over time! | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 08:16 AM |
| 9 | Do you think this boy likes me?You're gonna have to talk to him IRL! (scary i know) Its cool tho, he wants you to talk to him! | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:55 AM |
| 53 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like meIf you honestly thinks she likes you ANY sign of interest should be met positively by her. I would test the water by sayin things like "your my fav customer etc" "always look forward to delivering pizza to you" "bet your husband loves you ordering him pizza" - oh you haven't got a husband, oh that's interesting, yes i will come up for a minute.....time to fuck! | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 195 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?Bro trust me girls come back around regulary! | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Passed a shit test, I got some laughs...she felt rejected?Depending on the ages your talking about i.e you and the cougar. the only thing you did wrong was react to a cougar (older lady) the same as you would a girl your own age. Older woman there's no immaturity, no toilet humour its mostly sexual inuendo, just interpret that she wants to fuck you the whole time and your just taking your time. Younger girls it might have been a shit test and you could have teased/bust her a little bit for it and done the normal. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 100 | why is online game stacked against men?A study analyzed the differences between male and female behavior on Tinder. The study demonstrated the men liked 61.9% of women on Tinder and women liked a mere 4.5% of men on Tinder. This study is illustrative of the fact that women are the selectors of sexual selection The Pareto distribution, also known as the 80-20 rule, is a “power-law probability distribution” that demonstrates how 20% of people in an economy typically accumulate 80% of the overall income. This 80-20 rule occurs across nu… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | She hesitated after I asked her name. Would that always mean a "no"?Maybe she likes you, thats why she flustered! | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:43 AM |
| 4 | My(20m) unhealthy obsession with older women.I would say older women expect maturity first, so no younger silliness. Also 20 is still quite young for a guy still, depending on how you look (baby faced or not) you will have to work on your game, the usual grounded male energy combined with some mature but fun conversation. Then after that its just a numbers game until you find you groove. Just keep approaching knowing it will happen and there's plenty of them out there! | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Setting the tone for messages on dating apps when you have a fuccboi picture?Yes, its about authenticity. If you see a lion, you expect it to roar, if it squeaks you will be surprised and you will think less of the lion because its not acting how you would expect! You can either get all "fucboi" in your convo's and try and make it work or you can be more yourself and see what happens, who knows you might meet a quality girl who likes you for you! | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Help. What is romancing someone on a date look like to you?Romance is treating someone who likes you to a good time. Romantic gestures are just shows of affection. If you already have attraction all you need to do is just build comfort while continuing to escalate physically and emotionally! | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 08:42 AM |
| 0 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginBro it just means that for your first time you might want to start of slow. I would just go on some dates and get to know the girls (and be honest) rather than trawling tinder for MILFs for your first time! A woman who is in her 30's and is 10 years older is more likely going to be experienced and looking for experience and maturity etc *(not all the time) so to date a guy 10 years younger might be a challenge for them anyway and to be a virgin aswell might just be too much for her. Having said … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginHAHAHAHAHA You are definitely a virgin, stay strong playa, your day will come!😂 | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginI think what happened was you went into multiplayer straight away when you should have done the tutorial first! | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:40 AM |
| 5 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)indecision the inability to make a decision quickly a wavering between two or more possible courses of action | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 25 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)Bro i think you've nailed the top 3! Thirst Lack of confidence Indecision So the top 3 attractive qualities would be Abundance Confidence Decisiveness | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:30 AM |
| 2 | is the dating world superficial or accepting?While attractiveness is not unimportant its lower down the list for most woman, who class personality triats like sense of humor, intelligence, passion (not the sexual kind, but an active enthusiasm in a pursuit), confidence, generosity. as more important when considering a potential mate. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | I’m a grown-ass woman, and I’m scared to ask this man out. Someone convince me to do it anyway!!Firstly..... IF done right, everyone like being told someone likes them. Secondly, im at that place where i personally don't even care if you like me back (it would be nice) but i just like you and want you to know...I LIKE YOU, take it or leave it but i'm digging it! Finally "I’m not into the whole vague date-not-date “let’s hang out” thing. I’m too old for that" you're only 30, that's exactly how it should be in the beginning, then you can go stage 10 clinger after that if you need to! I would… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Potassium in small amounts https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201112/can-potassium-help-treat-adhd-and-sensory-overstimulation https://medium.com/publishous/fixing-your-brain-a-guide-to-balancing-neurotransmitters-72649aab40b1 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | What kind of girl do you think is the girl elaborated below?Sounds like a regular girl..! | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 20 | Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girlIts called pre selection, its essentially why children only want someone else's toy! | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:37 AM |
| 3 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledI think that would be an awesome thing to say and you should have no problem with getting things goin after that (great story aswell) I (personally) wouldn't say that "i should've introduced myself last time" as it (might) look like you've been thinking about the last time you met and it ment alot to you etc.. (nit picking) But you could just say "Hey there,. I’m Edson, what’s your name? etc... or even go up to her when she's working out and say "hey i was looking for some marshmallows have you … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:19 AM |
| 8 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”Time to Fuck | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 23 | Starting a conversation is my #1 problemYour approach anxiety is rooted in the fact you think that you haven't got anything interesting to say to an "attractive woman". I'm sure you have got plenty to say, you just need to lower the bar for how good what you say needs to be. If a little kid rolls up i'm sure you've not no problem being funny and cool. Talking about stupid shit. Try that next time you see an attractive girl..! Of course the first woman and the first hour is the hardest, that's the same for anything you want to do, that… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:38 PM |
| 2 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?I've got a classic you can use, wait until she does something nice for somebody, like a little gesture and then say i bet you make your boyfriend very happy! Then you will usually get an indication of whether she has a bf or not by her response! | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Hahahahaha | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:20 PM |
| 18 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Sounds like it could of been used as an opportunity for a joke if nothing else! If it was me i would of done a silly dance move or grabbed her and kissed her or something wild. If she didn't like you she could of ignored you or walked away, Prove yourself sounds like an invitation. Personally it sounded like she wanted to play with you without looking easy.... plus she was probably a bit drunk and had her ego stroked by those other dudes so it might of come out a bit cocky than maybe you would g… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Hi I 18M just started talking to a girl 18F (that I kinda like). Any advice?Just be normal. Don't try to impress her instead try not to do or say stupid sh*t Most of the time all you've got to do is be chill and friendly and it will happen anyway! | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:18 AM |
| 42 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.https://usustatesman.com/economics-of-dating-2-the-brutal-reality-of-dating-apps/ A study analyzed the differences between male and female behavior on Tinder. The study demonstrated the men liked 61.9% of women on Tinder and women liked a mere 4.5% of men on Tinder. This study is illustrative of the fact that women are the selectors of sexual selection The Pareto distribution, also known as the 80-20 rule, is a “power-law probability distribution” that demonstrates how 20% of people in an econom… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Does oral sex(or more specifically face-f***ing count)?If you're a Virgin then No if you're not yeah it counts! | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Couldn’t perform after a date last night. Is that typically a deal breaker?If that's is the case (great you're in the exact place you need to be) I would say to her, why don't we see each other again but sex is off the table and then if you continue to see her i would say no sex for a month. That way you get used to being around her, get rid off your anxiety and see if you really like her. And she gets to see a guy with out her thinking its just for sex and see if she likes you!. WIN WIN | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityIf u think you can....ur right.....if u think u can't ......ur also right! | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Overcoming sexual insecurityBRO UR A VIRGIN | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityOMG so you're just imaging how bad it could be! Studies? what studies? what? DO BETTER BRO "No bc they have immense social status, money and fame" exactly its nothing to do with there dick! the money has very little to do with it, but fame and social status are very similar. So u know social status is important! what are you doing to improve your social status! | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityThere's no objective view of reality, its subjective! if those things have happened to u, then i can see why u think the way u do. But if that is the case its more like a few unfortunate events, that are not representative of reality (and may have had more to do with other things) have skewed your view of reality. And it seems to be holding u back, the only person that is hurt by your world view is you and no-one is benefitting! You need to widen your experiences to see it can be different. Do u… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 10 | Overcoming sexual insecurityYou've got an actual women spitting facts and you're just choosing to ignore what might help you. What about lesbians? do you think ur the only guy with a small dick? there are guys smaller than u getting p*ssy! Getting women chasing there small sick down for another taste! It CANT be about the size of ur dick. Does it matter? About as much as everything else....if u care...they care....if u don't care...they don't care! What stops a bigger man pleasing her? The fact its my turn now! whats to st… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps for men are a game of chance where the odds are against you, even for attractive menIt perfectly conforms to the Pareto principle. the 80/20 rule The top 20% of users get 80% of the dates | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | I got rejected, right?Well that’s sounds awesome to me! But fwb i would assume would be mostly setup by the guy and the girl goes along with it. For a girl to set it up it plays with the man / woman dynamic of the man chasing the women and the woman having to protect her modesty but giving it up because the guy has temporarily earned it. Now this is only really relevant for younger people 18-30 as the older you get the more men become more open to more equal relationships! Basically as I see it you only get to allow … | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 10:41 AM |
| 5 | I got rejected, right?You don’t know what’s goin on in his life. But you have setup a casual sexual relationship, maybe he’s busy, maybe he’s not. It’s too early to tell unless you know this guy, what’s goin on. My advice, stay icey, you’ve invited him over, he said no, that’s cool..he’s now in the category of we will only talk when you chase me. You didn’t get rejected either, sex for a lot of guys in casual situations is the end of process, a completion of a desire. Where as I imagine with women it feels like the s… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Not being comfortable with approaching women due to height?Ok well you should do this then, close your eyes imagine your 6ft+ you see a girl...you approach...it goes well! Now open your eyes and go and approach because you’ll never be 6ft but you can certainly feel like you are and that’s all that matters! No one cares how tall you they just care that you care, if you don’t care no one will. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Had sex for the first time and couldn't finish.That’s very common, try again and don’t worry about it! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | It seems my problem, after all, is too much libido,https://medium.com/publishous/fixing-your-brain-a-guide-to-balancing-neurotransmitters-72649aab40b1 https://renuerx.com/general-health/5-supplements-that-help-to-boost-your-mood-increase-serotonin/ | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:32 PM |
| 3 | What do you text in-between dates?Just tell them that you’re thinking of them and if they wanna talk I’m outside in the bushes! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Average looking guyhttps://youtu.be/YwzR7Rp6IWs | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:16 PM |
| 9 | Not being comfortable with approaching women due to height?Real talk if he was 4 inches taller he would feel the exact same as he does now! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Tinderhttps://youtu.be/akwtccfsqs0 | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | It seems my problem, after all, is too much libido,You need to up your serotonin! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | online openershttps://youtube.com/shorts/V-1X3V5vNvA?feature=share | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:08 PM |
| -2 | I can't take this anymore.That’s helpful 👎 | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?Nobody cares whether you’re skinny/fat, tall or short they wanna know if you care..if you don’t you’re golden....ESPECIALLY with women. Women are the most forgiving and adventurous when it comes to this stuff. The most important thing is, if you can remember from grade school anatomy, girls don’t have dicks, so they don’t NEED to be physically attracted/aroused by someone to have sex, unlike a guy. That doesn’t mean that they don’t want an attractive partner it’s just not needed. And most girls … | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:05 AM |
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