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You are not using any sources yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:39 PM
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Still a preference - and preferences that are not yours are not your problem, so why care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:21 PM
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It's just a preference by some men. You can in fact just ignore the preferences of the other party. It usually helps though, to meet the preference of your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:06 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/18h7k9g/how_heterosexual_couples_met_oc/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:23 PM
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Tragedy of the commons is a thing, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:30 AM
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It’s really important that incels get offline and cultivate real-world friendship groups, because that’s the way most people actually form relationships It's probably the best solution objectively - but what Costello doesn't mention, is that the trend is going into the opposite direction. What's the point in going out looking for women, when the women don't go out? Every day thousands of men set out to search in dating forums to find the holy grail of meeting women irl.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/26 11:48 PM
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Ah yes, always very annoying when the "female surplus porn story" does not address the moral dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:59 AM
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Regardless of OPs circumstances, is throwing ad hominem shit the only thing you are capable of?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:26 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201704/do-beautiful-people-have-better-relationships So according to these studies, being good-looking may make a person a more desirable partner, at least at the outset of relationships — but it's certainly no predictor of whether a relationship will be happy or long lasting. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/07/170714072218.htm The study advanced existing research from the Meltzer lab that found marriages tend to be more successful an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:13 PM
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Women are free to stop swiping after their very first match and resume swiping when it comes to nothing. Anyways I know, your argument is something else, but it's too much of a low iq take to engage with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:15 AM
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Don’t Underestimate Good Hygiene. *writes most text about fashion*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:51 PM
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Women get to choose. All they need to do is just not choose those boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:02 PM
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Sorry, we only allow anecdotal evidence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:20 PM
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Your premise of a "tainted" pizza is already false. As if every man they dated but didn't find attractive would cause them "actual harm".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:41 PM
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I can make up weird analogies that fit my narrative too. Men would eat something that's not really their favorite - just so they don't starve. Women would rather starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:35 PM
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The odds would be astronomically bad if men were as picky as women while retaining their current options. Women complain from a point that is several realities above that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:07 PM
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AKA "I made it the fuck up"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:11 AM
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I think I've gotten pretty good at recognizing Lilith posts from the caption alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:23 PM
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Most people are not compatible with most people. This is just a fact. That's not a fact, but your opinion. Just look at small communities. They get along fine even though those people do not possess the opportunity to go through hundreds, if not thousands of potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:24 PM
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The thing is theres more young women than men...population wise there's actually more males up untill around 50 Bit of an oxymoron here eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:33 PM
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It's a bit like an inverse of Halo. You start attributing negative traits to them as reason for their virginity - just like you did in this post. I mainly see guys mock other guys for being virgins And it hurts them little, because the insult is coming from another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:42 PM
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Where does this belief come from, that women willing to date down in age are the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:08 AM
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No point in arguing about a big pile of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:29 PM
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Why doesn't everybody pay their share?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:56 PM
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braindead take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:08 PM
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Good point, now let us compare the rise by sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:42 PM
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Men don’t want to put in the work to meet women’s expectations. Perhaps because they are getting less for having to work more?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:18 PM
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Young men seem to complain online, blame women, and not work on themselves as much as they did when I was young. Why are young men different now? Wouldn't men be less enticed to work on themselves when women were less choosy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:49 PM
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pre-date assessment. E.g. when you see him on a dating profile, out in public, etc. Brand clothing or custom made suits, vacation pictures in exotic or expensive locations. Being rich opens plenty of new opportunities to become more attractive or makes existing paths easier. - personal trainers or surgery for example And I see no issue with going to a restaurant To pay no regard to the cost of activities is a sign of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:02 PM
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modesty for men has conventionally been a virtue It's only a virtue when it's about things that are considered flashy. Do you think men are considered flashy when they invite their date to an expensive restaurant or concert under the pretext of "I'd go there anyways cause I always wanted to".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:25 PM
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much of TRP is based on anecdotes? It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:35 AM
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There's a block button. Women usually use this function quite liberally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:32 PM
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These are old numbers, they surpassed 50% last year. https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:12 PM
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Those are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:43 AM
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This is such a shit study. They come up with one bogus profiles of people with each category. Then they let women and men rate them (although genders of bogus profiles are always the opposite gender). By giving your subjects profiles, instead of looking into the lives of actual people dark triad people, you are obviously getting biased responses. For example a man who lies a lot to get with a women will have more success, but obviously the point of all that is that the woman does not know about …
/r/BlackPillScience24/11/23 12:17 AM
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Entry rejection at clubs happens much more often for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:20 PM
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It's a shite anaology trying to equalise the very different hardships of dating. It's devoid of the numerous details of dating such as female privilege or power imbalance. It paints the majority of male suitors as "bad", but the integrity of any female suitor is never questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:41 PM
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https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/ It's above 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:43 PM
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You got some evidence you want to provide is with or are you being victim of your own fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:24 PM
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Am I missing the sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:42 PM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:08 PM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:47 PM
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What I found most fascinating about the male reality calculator, with women aged 18-27 - 7.9% fit my standard, but when I include overweight and obese women, it goes up to 26%. Are 2/3 of young non-married, childless women actually overweight?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:57 PM
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old man yells at wall
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:47 PM
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They are all meeting in video games obviously. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:42 AM
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natural selection at work Your point? Is natural selection something we mustn't defy? Should we let all those born disabled just die, because that's just natural selection at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:07 AM
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It seems as if social media is twisting your view on how men rate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:48 PM
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Both men and women have fucked up dating. No, men dropped their beauty standards while women increased theirs. The big "screw up" in dating today is solely based on women being unable to wield the power they have on the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:55 PM
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People on this platform who start their argument with "This is so true" should not be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:01 AM
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look at r/dating or r/dating_advice - lots of women for a website thats only 25% female
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:24 PM
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I interact with a variety of people from many different cultures. Doesn't mean you are getting a good sample size of society. perusing vastly younger women This one on the other indicates that you may be meeting mostly older men >30 years of age?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:29 PM
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Perhaps you can not see those who struggle, due to your social setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:27 PM
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Good news for future male generations. Less picky women are more likely to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:50 PM
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​ i think FWB is the best approach Everyone likes FWB, until they can't get any FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:33 PM
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Most men are lonely because they are so obsessed with casual sex instead of making genuine connections. They think that just because they cant get casual sex that they are lonely. [Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:10 PM
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Do you happen to have two examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:42 PM
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An unsuccessful man will not become more successful by upholding his high standards. What is your counsel to those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:22 PM
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is this another step in like evolution where some people can bear being alone and others cannot? That's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:33 PM
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I believe most guys come to TRP looking for casual sex, not dating monogamously, so like the money status part isn't totally helpful Prove it - your entire argument is based on that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:41 AM
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In my experience as an above average height woman (but under 5'8), men are just as heightist as women. Anecdotal evidence detected. Argument rejected. Uploading statistical counter evidence... beep boop https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/blog/dating-statistics/how-tall-are-you-really/ being an extra inch shorter decreases the odds of her liking him by 40% ​ if she is taller than him, an extra inch decreases the odds of him liking her by 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:33 PM
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Why would any woman here ever agree with such RP talking points?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:23 PM
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There's no logical frame for your 50-50 conclusion. The gender ratio is irrelevant regarding the total amount of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:12 PM
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if online dating reflect real life, then dating sites would have 50-50, gender splits, but they don’t. Please explain why they would have to be 50-50.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:35 PM
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The trend was already there. The pandemic just sped it up. I am looking forward to this year's update.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:57 PM
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Not true: <image> https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:40 PM
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Men: "Stop rewarding men who exhibit shitty behaviour, just because you find them superficially attractive" Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:58 AM
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good options or viable choices Do men have them more?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:34 PM
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To fire a loaded gun is a much more convincing argument than just claiming to have a loaded gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:23 PM
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None of those things are relevant to the discussions - unlike your profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:02 AM
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OLD is infamous for unattractive men having zero chance and unattractive women still getting hundreds, if not thousand of dating opportunities. Given the fact that over half of all new relationships nowadays are now formed through online media, I think it's safe to assume that a lot of unattractive men are left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:19 PM
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Far more ugly women date up, than ugly men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:00 PM
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Just because gay men are obsessed with looks, doesn't mean that ugly gay people don't date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:59 PM
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Cause it's caricature. Speaking from personal experience. I`ve talked to dozens of men with low opinions of women, but so far I have only come across one guy who bought into Tate's bullshit and that guy wasn't getting any women anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:39 PM
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It's impossible to take your question serious with that hypothetical backgroundstory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:07 AM
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"Most women aren't on dating apps" - If you knew the stats, you wouldn't have said that. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1252q48/how\_heterosexual\_couples\_meet\_data\_through\_2021/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:15 PM
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The "Andrew Tate mindset" at work: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JjclHBDLkrw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:04 PM
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Don't date shitbags. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:21 AM
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Cause women are the bottleneck when it comes to the survival of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:29 AM
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You figure that everyone finds the same thing attractive? [...] I like short, fit, educated guys The memes are writing themselves, ha! When women stop always making themselves out to be "not like the other" perhaps then they see why men all strive for the same ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:02 PM
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Nasty messages pile in no matter how innocent your profile looks. I'd rather have that than the radio silence most men experience on OLD. "Nasty messages", boohoo - that would leave me absolutely unfazed considering how much positive attention I'd be getting from hundreds of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:39 AM
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No point to be obsess about something and become miserable when you can't change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:57 PM
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If women had similar optical standards for men as men have for women. We'd have solved the incel problem by 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:57 PM
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High percentages of single adults is usually not a preferable state of affairs. I also strongly doubt, that most young people prefer being single over a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:11 PM
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"Historically" women were oppressed for most of recorded human history. Perhaps women's rights aren't really that important too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:35 PM
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Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:00 PM
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You forget the part where male relatives would murder or beat the shit out of rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:36 PM
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Young Ukrainians can have all that easily. All they need to do is learn the language of their host country. In Germany we have over 1 million Ukrainians and they are "notorious" for being model refugees.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:16 AM
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"This person has a high score in STD prediction."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:24 PM
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Uh, oh...
/r/BlackPillScience11/02/23 01:10 AM
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Cause it's mostly those with a strong wish for children who will be having children. Birthrates are collapsing in developed countries, but those with a strong wish for children will have no trouble getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:01 PM
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Ironically the pill and increasing living standards will cause humans (women in particular) to evolve towards a stronger desire for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:56 PM
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Men don't do the same thing. Loyalty/exclusiveness is more important to men so they also look for women who are more likely to be loyal/exclusive for them. How much your partner is attracted to you is a decent predictor for loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:02 PM
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Below in whatever they perceive men as below. Usually Status, Money, Looks, Height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:34 PM
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Women on average are repulsed by men "below" them. Men know this and tend avoid such relationships as they naturally come with higher risk of cheating, break up or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:04 AM
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Working out still contributes to better mental and physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:13 PM
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Least delusional BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:39 PM
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I can see women dating down more and more You are falling for the most common fallacy when discussing dating topics. You base your opinion upon anecdotal evidence instead of actual data.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:54 AM
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Is it possible to find men that prioritize personality and compatibility over looks? That depends almost entirely on your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:06 AM
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Cause its fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:27 PM
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You sure it was God and not the man doing his thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:04 PM
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You claim to be 17. I think there's still a lot of time for you to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:01 PM
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I`m not talking about the men enjoying their harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:21 PM
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Gorillas live in groups called troops. Troops tend to be made of one adult male or silverback, with a harem of multiple adult females and their offspring. - wikipedia What do you think happens to the surplus males of Gorillas? What do you think would happen if the majority of men had to face the same fate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:10 PM
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We’re all human and we are all still cavemen when it comes to our biological imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:51 PM
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I find it disturbing young women, having those rich opportunities to get up, are taking such low wage jobs. Some people just prefer to preserve their dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:43 PM
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All? No. Too many? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:12 PM
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When you are desperate for something, you will start to cling to the slightest bit of hope. Wishful thinking is no joke. What if he/she is real? What if I can make it? What if my stock actually goes up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:11 PM
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Violent men wouldn't be problem in dating if women had zero tolerance for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:00 PM
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Don't choose violent men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:36 PM
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71% of people in that study are overweight or obese and have 2.5 +-1 intercourses per week. Age of people +30 years was 85%. Sounds like married people to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:45 PM
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The last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:18 PM
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Do you just like to make shit up or are you willing to share some facts that support your thesis?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:07 PM
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Clearly you haven't attained the taste of freshly polished boots yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:23 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what you should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:34 PM
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Usually befriending people helps getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:24 PM
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So how would you vet a man if you were a woman? Getting to know them, their friends and most importantly their set of values. Too bad that usually means you can't jump into bed with him at the 3rd date (or earlier).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:51 PM
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Statistics I've seen tend to put the ideal around the average height difference between men and women in that country (funny that). Mind sharing it? A 21 cm preference for a taller partner is not the average height difference in Germany (13cm) and Netherlands (12cm).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:40 PM
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That's not how it works. Tall men are more attractive than short men, even to short women. Men become even more unattractive when they are shorter than her. https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/blog/dating-statistics/how-tall-are-you-really/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:02 PM
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Then why do women cross culturally prefer taller man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:09 PM
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- Gold Digger - Obsessed with Sick kids - I was rude Please elaborate on these meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:20 PM
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Your "shitty men" are less likely to be successful in patriarchial society, because potential in-laws care even more about men's economic situation than the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:34 PM
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Did you only read my last line? Also, pls define your highly ambigious term of "shitty men" before you use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:18 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:47 PM
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in patriarchal societies, lazy, unambitious men breed anyway and still marry women because women had no other choice You know what also happens in patriarchal societies? Families have a voice in who their children marry and being lazy, unambitious and poor are probably the worst traits a male can have in the eyes of parents - even before being violent. So no, those men do not get to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:41 PM
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I was just giving some examples. Your examples just happen to be so basic and common, they have become a meme because they are bullshit. "Just shower", "Just be interesting", "Respect women" There are plenty of short, balding, ugly men in relationships. Plenty is how much? 10%? 20%? The majority? All of them? How do you know? Just because there are some, doesn't mean it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:56 PM
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Are you really surprised if women don’t want anything to do with you if you only talk about yourself, have bad hygiene, and/or constantly bring up sex? And those are just the tip of the iceberg. Are you projecting your own experiences on men in general? What if none of that applies to the men in question? If a man is short, suffers from hair loss and has an ugly face, there's nothing really he can do about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:38 PM
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Whereas men on the other can rest easy knowing that the women they’d dating likely wants to be involved in a long-term relationship Still, the difference of LTR suitors for women and men is astronomically large in favour of women. Your whole premise is neither logical nor funded on any kind of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:20 AM
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I don't see a reason, why anyone would complain about the dildo being too long. It's not like we are talking about some unhandy >30cm long pole.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 11:45 PM
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It kinda makes sense to buy one longer than needed rather buying one that's possibly too short. The girth is not far off from the median.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 11:01 PM
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I can't believe I actually looked it up, but here I am. This site has a figure showing dildo size distribution by gender.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 10:47 PM
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pls ban low iq posts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:09 PM
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it's a toy that's shaped like the inside of a vagina Do you actually believe that or are you just taking the piss?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:58 PM
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Male privilege makes being male the better choice overall. Drafted Russian and Ukrainian men may disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:58 PM
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For someone who has has been here for 2 years you have learned absolutely nothing. All your conflicts are so easily to dismiss it's not even worth discussing again. There's a discussion about them every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:44 PM
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Yes, I speak for me personally and I consider myself far less desperate than some of my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:17 PM
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Ugly women have no problem getting laid, therefor "men only notice attractive women" is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:00 PM
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Is there any threat of somebody invading Switzerland?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/22 01:47 PM
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Is it that difficult to have your first few dates in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:18 PM
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You can't seriously believe that every single abuser alive has model-worthy good looks. Not everyone, but on average they will be better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:52 PM
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But it doesn’t mean average and below people don’t pull the same shit all the time. They literally can't pull the same shit all the time as an attractive abuser. The tolerance for their actions is lower and it is harder for them to find a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:10 PM
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Good looking abusers will get away with more shit though. They are also obviously less likely to reflect on their behaviour, since they don't have a hard time to find another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:58 PM
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The chance of meeting women is one characteristic of popular clubs. Therefor many clubs will turn down men to ensure a "good" gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:35 PM
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Yes it is, ever been clubbing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:56 PM
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If a man take a wife and this woman give her husband a maid-servant, and she bear him children, but this man wishes to take another wife, this shall not be permitted to him; he shall not take a second wife. Code of Hammurabi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:38 PM
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How can a man expect me to have sympathy for his issues when he won't address them himself? Men can't exactly "address" hairloss and facial bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:51 PM
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Church girls also don't get with any man who is not some borderline brainwashed hardcore Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:52 PM
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A man reaches his physical [...] prime in his 30s lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:09 PM
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Bumping into the rich, handsome millionaire that falls madly in love with you So basically leeching?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:34 PM
17

It's funny how someone who never joined the army or went through conscription wants the men who came after him to be locked up in barracks for "few years". It kind of reminds me how most women in Switzerland voted to continue the only male conscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:11 PM
6

I want to know why OP would ask such question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:10 PM
2

Hetero men and women will have similar averages because it usually takes one man and one woman to have hetero sex. So where is the big surprise? Funnily you did mention the high difference between the median values, but you just ignored the implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:31 PM
6

Just another high of low iq posts in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:47 AM
1

No re-rolls!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:33 PM
13

You are onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:57 PM
25

There is one factor that 90% of incels and guys here that are struggling have in common, they don't like women, they just want one. How do you know that? Have you got one of those long-range personality detectors?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:24 PM
6

We can't empathise with you Then learn it. Equal rights became a thing because men empathized with women's situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:21 PM
4

The number one country of unfaithful adults tells us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:31 PM
1

The mods could have closed the thread for various silly reasons "too much incel talk", "probably fake" or whatever they could have come up with, but no - they just had to shit on OP and call him insecure as closing message. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:01 AM
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Well, I am now even more convinced you misunderstood the point. The quotes in your caption address a just world fallacy that's often repeated by women in online spaces. It's not about men's presentation. The argument purely exists to show the contradiction of women being with abusive men and women supposedly being able to "sense" misogyny in unsuccessful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:35 AM
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You missed the points of the quote. So let's try again - Riddle me this: How can women end up in real abusive relationships with misogynistic men, yet at the same time claim to be able to automatically sniff out misogynistic men from their body language/appearance alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:10 AM
14

TLDR: Touch UV-light for more testo
/r/BlackPillScience06/08/22 06:22 PM
6

are lacking in self worth and have a lowered view of your own self image That's just like your opinion man. Perhaps men just enjoy not having to put up with the demanding attitude of many women 24/7? you’re looking for an easy target, which also isn’t admirable If that's the case, so what? Is it wrong to have sex with people who are "out of your league"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:19 PM
6

men to blame for holding the bar so low? What's wrong with men having low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:56 PM
54

There are ugly women that get no matches Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:00 PM
11

Life is not Auschwitz. To extend the dynamics of an extermination camp onto life in general is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:38 PM
2

Fantasies are manifestations of one's desire though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:37 PM
4

People who live on communities usually know or find out who sleeps with whom. Dating within your community was pretty common until a few years ago when OLD was picked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:03 PM
6

vegan restaurants, art galleries I'm sorry, but how?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:13 AM
0

Your suggestion is based on your argument that average girls are not approached as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:56 AM
5

my own anecdotal experiences Your argument is fairly weak if it's entirely based on anecdotal experiences. "what can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:15 PM
1

While that may be the case I think there's more to it. Women do not have to assume responsibility for their dating choices and thus are less likely to reflect on themselves in that regard. There's no "don't stick your dick in crazy" for women. Male dating advice is fairly well established: work out, look good, appear competent, etc. Women's dating advice is generally just a shit show like FDS/RPwomen or selecting for certain traits. However the selection of a partner itself is never questioned. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:51 PM
11

As if those men have that many opportunities to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:40 PM
5

I think the issue is most women here on PPD aren't trying to understand the male perspective but rather twist statements or make up strawmen to fit their own personal agenda. This means they try to find whatever reason to justify men's suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:27 PM
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You have theories, but you are not mentioning any evidence to support it. However your reasoning that women file more for divorce because divorce paperwork is a household task is kinda funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:38 PM
3

You can probably Google it. If it was that easy, I wouldn't have asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:59 AM
1

The amount of people meeting online is rapidly approaching 50% so it could have surpassed by now or reach 50% in the next few years. You do know how a majority works, right? Well, it's a relative majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:43 AM
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Also not a primary way of finding a relationship online, that comes in 5th after OLD on 4th. Like, it's a dating app and they come in on 4th. Can you link me the data?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:37 AM
2

How does that dispute OPs argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:10 AM
2

So the rest is most likely social media like Instagram. Is that much of a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:08 AM
1

All I see is a graph going straight up. I strongly doubt it became completely flat within the last 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:07 AM
2

women have higher neuroticism and anxiety/depression rates and attempt suicide more often We don't know, if those differences in depression rates are caused by men not seeking help or being unable to seek proper help. Suicide attempts are tricky too. Men commit suicide more often and dead people don't attempt suicide again. The worst statistics are usually dominated by men: Violence, suicide, homelessness and early school leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:14 AM
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machine learning models found that the traits listed below, in a mate, were among the least predictive of happiness with that mate. [...] Race/ethnicity Religious affiliation Height Occupation Physical attractiveness Previous marital status Sexual tastes Similarity to oneself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:15 PM
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Their greatest rival is now the capital of Greece, while they ceased to exist - so kinda yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:34 PM
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if you are in places where there are lots of dingle women Tell us of that mythical place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:24 PM
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Because an ugly woman’s dating problems are pretty much identical to that of an ugly man You are delusional. An unattractive women can go on OLD and get dozens of serious advances from men within minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:45 PM
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I can't empathize with women's dating problems, because I'd switch them for mine any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:14 PM
3

It really isn't hard for unattractive girls to sign up to online dating services.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:06 PM
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I don't think so. Tall men may just be much more indifferent to height differences in comparison to short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:33 AM
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I have a fat ugly male friend that managed to be in a relationship with rich and good looking woman. [...] They have broken up recently though I wonder why. That aside, hypergamous tendencies can be observed in pretty much all dating areas. Height preference is probably one of the easiest to observe. female preference vs male preference
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:55 AM
2

Works until the losers start stabbing you in the back. They have nothing to lose after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:01 PM
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If you want to shame men for going for younger women, then why not shame women for going for older men? The whole thing is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:08 PM
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Yes, I did. She probably didn't search properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:00 AM
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It's always the same complaint in one way or another. "Men in their 20s don't want to commit" is the common slogan of women looking for an LTR. They try to shift the blame for their misfortune away from them and frame men as immature. However thanks to various statistics (and testimonies from men in their 30s) we know that women in their 20s overwhelmingly go for the top percent of men and by "top percent" we are not talking qualities that make for good boyfriends, but simply looks, status, mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:31 PM
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zero men I found attractive wanted relationships at this age fixed that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:02 PM
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lol I was never like "her face is ugly but her butt and boobs make up for that"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:18 PM
2

There's actually some data and a thread on men having sex in Universities and it certainly doesn't support your thesis: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ntscbc/new_data_from_the_telegraph_indicate_that_levels/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:58 PM
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I just told you your anecdotal evidence alone is useless. What you see is your perception of reality - which may be entirely different, cause you are not seeing the whole picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:45 PM
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In college, all kinds of guys get laid. I know this because tons of my attractive female friends get so stuck on physically unattractive guys. lol no - your anecdotal evidence has no meaning by itself and may even be misleading (apex fallacy).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:01 PM
2

More women having degrees extends into after college, cause blue collar workers are not attractive to them. Anyways, same dynamic of a soft harem happens in colleges. It's actually far easier for the top men, since a good amount of women are more open to FWB and Polyamory. The women after college then write blogs about how men bad, because none wanted to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:42 PM
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You know those men who have kids from multiple women? That's how women share the top men - even if they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:29 PM
6

Ever heard of single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:16 PM
3

I can only speak of my own experience, but I've been attacked by drunk men multiple times for no or miniscule reasons such as: being on the same bus as them, arguing with their friends, being taken for someone else, standing in their way and shielding a friend from an attacker. Some men when drunk are just looking for a fight and there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:37 PM
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LoLers/DotA 2 players *angry chess noises*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:28 PM
3

Yes: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1948550615584196
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:10 PM
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I used the percentages on 2020 US population. https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/2020/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:24 PM
2

There's a higher percentage of single women because there are more women in that age bracket. In total numbers, there's 1.4 million more woman age 65+ in relationships, than there are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:55 PM
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If combine those percentage numbers with the population numbers of 2020, we can find that there's still excess partnered women in the millions in every age cohort except for 50-64 where it's only 100k of excess men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:55 PM
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There's an excess of total women in relationships in all age cohorts except 50-64 - and guess what: The difference there is only somewhere around 160k more men in relationships whereas age 20-29 has an excess of almost 4 million more women in relationships and 30-49 is about 3 million. There's also an excess of 1.4 million women in relationships in the 65+ age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:50 PM
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I knew that would come up. The mean age gap for relationships in the US is only 2.3 years, so I don't find that argument very convincing. Regardless, let's follow your logic. The disparity has to even out somewhere. It can't even out at the lower end, so all the accumulated single male overhead has to be equalized at the high ages, where there are more single women. So I did some numbers taken from here: https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/2020/ If I didn't miscalculate, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:53 PM
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51% of young men are single, but only 31% of women are. Someone is being cheated on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:43 PM
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4/10 men are not getting any casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:02 AM
1

Watching TV is waste of time. Reading novels is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:52 PM
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then what is this? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kohj2c/the\_okcupid\_data\_doesnt\_show\_women\_message\_ugly/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:12 PM
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you probably have something deeper going on that you should figure out before finding a partner. That's like pure speculation based on your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:43 PM
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I am talking about people whose reason of unhappiness is the lack of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:08 PM
1

Nah, what if a partner is missing in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:42 PM
5

So how does that work with people missing a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:20 PM
1

Yeah well, one might as well have a talk about that - just like people talk about sharing housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:45 PM
1

It doesn't say that though. Agreeing on household duties is not the same as agreeing on childcare duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:15 PM
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If women want men who do their 50%, perhaps they should choose men who are willing to do the 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:59 PM
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It's called Social Darwinism and its consequences have been a disaster for Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:33 AM
5

finding a sucker to actually stick is not easy and it's even harder for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:34 AM
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it was always because the woman initiated it It's almost comically easy how I didn't even have to read those long paragraphs of your personal anecdotes, cause I can just find the reason for your delusional thoughts at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:32 AM
2

So people can shout out their personal opinions using sophisticated argumentation techniques such as strawmen and anecdotal evidence - quite literally unbased opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:27 AM
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There's a massive amount of depressing data out there. One can only hope to be in the winning group or among the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:59 AM
5

I think we just witnessed the famous coping mechanism of aging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:15 PM
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Not only are most mens dating profiles trash Just like most profiles of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:51 PM
4

Why don't women police men? They are the ones to decide who gets to jump in their bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:29 PM
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A good looking man is sanctioned much lighter for misbehaviour than your average man. He is less inclined to refrain from abuse and cheating. As a result, when looking for an LTR it is rather irrational to aim for good looking men if you can't provide exceptional value yourself (e.g. by being very attractive). But that all doesn't matter to you anyways, cause your sexist premise assumes all men to be predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:21 PM
6

Perhaps then go to a more trustworthy kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:08 PM
1

many men use manipulation and dishonest tactics to get women "many" in how many? 0.01%, 0.1%, 1%, 10%, 50%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:42 PM
7

I somehow doubt he is mentioning that he is living with his parents on his online profil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:01 PM
3

So is shaving my neck hair or monobrow, yet I do it naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:55 AM
4

If "some men are doctors", and "some doctors are tall", does it follow that "some men are tall"? is a question on OkCupid and so far I have not seen a single woman answer it correctly. Turns out, I am not the only one who is confused about my peers lack of logical thinking, regardless of gender and it even transcends continents! Strangely it would bother me quite a bit if my date could not answer that question correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:54 AM
2

What's left then? Money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:54 PM
1

There's an appalling amount of posts and comments that are purely speculative or have no data to support their argument. Anecdotal evidence has always been a rampant plague when it comes to dating discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:51 PM
8

There's something ironic about having low standards, but then the person you are seeing manages fail those few standards through their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:19 PM
1

The delusion of some women in this sub is something out of the ordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:48 PM
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There are countless of young men looking for an LTR on OLD and not few are decent looking but will be left behind the moment a good looking male comes around. To suggest that every option on OLD is shit is just ridiculous, especially if it's women who are choosing to match this so called 'shit'. Women choose poorly and don't reflect on their actions - that's where the impression of 'shit' comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:35 PM
1

What kind of community do you have in mind, where such thing would occur?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:04 PM
2

Go on, explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:51 PM
1

I came here because I'm fk depressed about the fact that if redpill is correct, I'm pretty much screwed Nobody is stopping you from believing in miracles. After all, it's a very popular strategy for people attacking RP arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:19 PM
2

The ugliest women receive more messages than the bottom 90% of men. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kohj2c/the\_okcupid\_data\_doesnt\_show\_women\_message\_ugly/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:11 PM
4

I have yet to witness a mixed online socializing community, in which any female member did not magically became friends with a large number of members.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:10 PM
3

Are women being ignored online?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:00 PM
5

"ARE YOU STUPID, HE DOESN'T JUST SEE AS A FRIEND." Your mom is right. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:38 AM
0

Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:12 PM
12

This can usually be solved by some weight loss, a better haircut etc. One does not simply fix the bone structure and also, hair loss is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:37 PM
3

most guys don't go to the gym, most guys don't meditate or journal, they don't do NoFap and they don't do self improvement Those are some lame ass hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:11 AM
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It does. It takes a bit more than being pretty and having casual conversations to find a life long relationship. Hence, if I don't date someone intensively I may never know if I am about to miss out on someone. Wasting my time on a few dates is a risk I am willing to take for a search that can take years and for many people never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:03 PM
5

The possible reward of a life long partnership is worth enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:49 PM
5

Then let me ask you this. Do you believe people who expect this kind of exclusivity from the start are "insecure, jealous or controlling"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:40 PM
6

Every therapist I have ever had told me not to date just one person exclusively until I get to know them better. And that was their personal opinion or a well funded professional take on forming relationships - supported by a multitude of strong arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:28 PM
5

You accepted that. You went on a date with them under that. No I did not. If I notice that she is dating someone else, I stop pursuing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:25 PM
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it means they only like the idea of me and not me as a person, I'm afraid I can't quite follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:17 PM
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under accepted conditions There are no "accepted conditions". There are only expectations from each other that can be different. Obviously I'd be a fool to reveal all of my expectations. I'd make myself vulnerable to deceit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:15 PM
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I don't know. That's up to you to decide. I just explained my reasoning above.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:06 PM
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There's 0 commitment or exclusivity in dating. That's just your interpretation of dating. Just as everyone, I am entitled to my own way of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:03 PM
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It looks like insecurity, jealousy, and control for someone that you went out with once. That's not a good look. To me it looks like "expecting mutual respect" - I am giving all my attention to you to find out if we are suitable partners, but you don't. Why would I want to date someone who doesn't take dating not even closely as serious as I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:54 PM
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Men love to underestimate how much their presentation would effect a womans perspective of them Perhaps it's women who underestimate how much a mans presentation affects their perspective of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:58 PM
10

And a lot of people would probably agree that self improvement will make you more attractive, yet it's the most important part of the "red pill space".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:48 PM
24

Yet you claim most men are against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:08 PM
19

Internet forums are not good representation of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:56 PM
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Only a small minority of men (those subscribing to red pill ideology) are not happy about it, outside of redpill most men are okay with the current dating scene, infact most men are against redpill. How do you know it is only a small minority? How do you know "most men" know about "redpill" and are against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:50 PM
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Nothing to see here - just another post full of strawmen and false/unproven premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:30 PM
22

Literally never happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:10 PM
1

I do recall Bosnia, Albania and Romania. I think OP just suffers from some kind of bias. I'd even argue there are far more European countries with safer cities for women than in Croatia. Although I find her thought of not being harassed because she is too ugly compared to Croatians somewhat amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:38 PM
2

I don't quite get what you are on about. Is it wrong to act according to what is considered morally right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:18 PM
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It's funny cause a relative of mine who has traveled a lot to the Balkans was appalled of strangers touching her in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:12 PM
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Woman wear make up and trick men into thinking they are beautiful. That aside, it's common sense to keep your mouth shut about controversial topics in the early stages of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:01 PM
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Because it is laughable easy to avoid the danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:41 PM
11

when they will also go for more ‘favourable’ opportunities if they can That's just a malevolent imputation. Imagine cheating on your wife because you think she would do the same. ​ as well as new priorities (love, family) Yeah, well I'd rather prefer someone to whom those priorities are not new. Among other reasons it indicates the willingness to value, keep and contribute to a relationship at the cost of missing out on short term pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:45 AM
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Well of course almost everyone would like to have a hot and fit partner. Men are just much more willing to compromise. Also notice how "tall" and "provider" are either not changeable or require effort, while "low n count" and "no kids" do not require any effort because they are the default state.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:23 AM
19

women having these standards are terrible even when men have similar ones Standards such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:09 AM
49

why are you angry about it? Why do you frame the desire for relationships in which both parties put in equal effort as something negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:03 AM
5

Why don't you elaborate exactly how Marxist ideas are applied to sex and race?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:09 AM
12

Move on. There's no reason to invest resources into courting a woman who is not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:24 AM
26

That's literally how men end up in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:30 AM
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So it's easier for women who have a low self confidence or have a bad mental health to be in relationships No, it's because their gender makes them desirable for many men regardless of their faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:04 PM
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extensive research Please cite your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:14 AM
11

I think forgetting about dating would do them good. lmao, yeah "just" forget about dating. Who are you to know what's it like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:40 PM
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I suppose OP comparing men to objects devoid of thoughts and feelings does speak for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:08 PM
1

A good dating app won't have paying customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:05 PM
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Such a poorly constructed argument. The 80/20 rules derives from dating apps. People who are not within your age range sit in the bus, but do not appear on your dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:16 AM
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When the top percentage of men start rewarding the smart, ugly girl who can talk intellectual, you’ll have more women striving for that standard as opposed to looking like a bimbo Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:05 AM
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they make baby mama's they never fully commit and are low energy / low investment, it's no pleasure to be around them How do these things go together?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:49 PM
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Do they realise how rare those men are and that a lot of women chase them? No they don't, because they never have to take responsibility for their dating choices and thus do not question the dynamics of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:28 AM
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OP must be a troll, no way I can imagine this delusion to be possible here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:43 PM
2

Gimme a masculine women with masculine physique. As long as she doesn't look like a female body builder, it's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:37 AM
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/thread This shit is just too funny. A woman only dating top men of Tinder is surprised by their lack of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:55 PM
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Sex is a requisite for a relationship. Many men already have difficulty surpassing this step, while women practically start out ahead. That's certainly not having the "same options". Whoever is the gate-keeper of sex is also the gate keeper of relationships, because sex defines a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:54 PM
1

I'd generally stay away from such people. No good comes from dating people with an absolute denial for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:48 PM
2

I am not quite sure I understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:20 AM
4

Most women get most men, but they don't want those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:58 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:14 PM
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Look up Percentage_of Finnish_at_least_two_sex_partners. It's also somewhere in this sub. I can't give a link, cause my source is banable. Another one here: "Although we found no change in median numbers of sex partners [for men], we found significant increases in the numbers of sex partners reported by the top 5% and 20%." "We found an overall statistically significant increase in reported lifetime opposite-sex sex partners overall for men in the top 20% from 12 in 2002 to 15 in 2011–2013 (95% …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:22 PM
4

The data points have a quite large variance. So I wouldn't put too much value on men having a few % points less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:52 PM
5

It's almost like "few men get most women" does not just apply to OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:50 PM
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Given how all OLD services suffer from a lack of women, women would find partners or hook up through reallife more often than men. Covid barred them from doing that for now. If the ratio between man and women does not drift towards pre-covid levels after the pandemic, this theory would probably be debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:21 PM
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My hard, crass, country boyfriend doesn’t appreciate my ways.. and finds my conversation exhausting. He said he doesn’t like my language vernacular and has commented I’m too prissy for him. So why didn't you get a bf who appreciated your ways? Seems to me like you both chose to bond for superficial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:37 PM
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If one can not endure his situation, it is only natural to desire the appropriate change of that situation. That aside, young men are not obsessed with "sleeping with hot women" as op thinks. You look around r/dating or incel forums and you will find men mostly complaining about receiving zero interest from any woman in their age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:20 PM
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you can still live well and enjoy your youth (incels have plenty ofcopes, remember) without the love and sexual attention of a woman. [...] have sex with and date hot girls in youth. I did, and it's worth a shot. Funny how you preach something you have not experienced yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:05 PM
3

Did you ever ask a man about feminism on a date? And what did he say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:21 PM
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Ah yes, China, where the ruling class imposes strict surveillance on the population because millions of men without family practically working as slaves have nothing to lose. The Chinese state also shames women for not marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:58 AM
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You should have a look at the paper. lol
/r/BlackPillScience18/10/21 07:00 PM
2

They also view Xi Jinping as the GOD of the new world. wat?
/r/BlackPillScience17/10/21 02:32 PM
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I think you could spared yourself that site long analogy and reduced it to that one sentence. I think the lesson here, is that if a woman takes a completely passive approach to dating, she’s only going to keep meeting the same kind of guy over and over….the aggressive “pistachio” guys who approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:59 PM
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They are ugly and correlate with short term thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:44 PM
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That’s just one example there are plenty more disadvantages women have in the SMP I can name. If being called a slut was your best example of a woman's disadvantage, then the other problems must be even more miniscule. If you think bone structure is the only important thing in attracting women, then like my post stated, you still don’t understand a mans value Mutual physical attraction is the most important thing when finding a partner and for men in particular that contains face, height and fra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:16 PM
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get too many comments on her social media photos to be called and entitled slut If you are so much afraid of that, just disable comments or don't be on that kind of social media at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:05 PM
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but a women will be called a hoe And that is a disadvantage how? The majority of people in western society live anonymously in large cities. Anyone can be as slutty as they can get and still present themselves before a new partner as the virgin Mary. man can level up A man can not "level up" his bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:57 AM
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Not quite sure how this is related to "men-bashing propaganda"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/21 10:05 PM
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She does casual dating and without exclusivity. She never actually pursued an LTR. She now wants a family before 34. That's a bingo - or a fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:41 AM
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Who is he talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:56 PM
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This, plus friends - social contacts in general. Therapy is thrown around too often as some sort of magical problem solver. Having no social contacts is a factual problem and it is not easy to find new friends once you are an adult.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/21 06:18 PM
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Reddits ban policy has always been akin to a tragicomedy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 08:52 PM
2

It’s a very very dangerous choice of “profession” in the US. Illegal business has the tendency to attract violent and shady people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:59 PM
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Or maybe because they find themselves more often in more desperate situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:46 PM
3

End of WW2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:51 AM
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I am trying to imagine how OP interviewed his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:00 PM
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Sometimes, I am not sure, if some posts here are satire or actually serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:04 PM
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If that profile pic is anywhere close to your actual looks, it's certainly not your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:49 PM
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It's a coping mechanism to fulfill their revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:37 PM
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I am confused about what OP is trying to tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:43 AM
2

On OLD most men are treated as interchangeable options who are expected to do all the work, on the other hand a minority of men gets away with anything due to their looks. Thanks to their inherent position of power in the dating market, women can change that - which also works in their favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:26 PM
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Can you teach women to take up responsibility on the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:36 PM
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There's a difference between having sex each week and having sex once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:32 PM
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A small minority of men is with the majority of women. Time is a parameter you have to keep in mind. One man is in a relationship with two women for six months each. Therefor each women is in relationship for half of the year, while a second guy is not in a relationship at any point. Why do you think many men feel like dating becomes easier in their 30s? - It's the women who want babies and search for long lasting relationships, thus taking men off the market permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:41 PM
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they want to date a fun slutty girl first and then marry you. This may work for high value men, but it's a rather fruitless strategy for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:47 PM
2

May I ask for an example - with source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:17 PM
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Dresses modestly, doesn’t sleep around = subpar Where did you hear that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:04 PM
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Noo! As atheist you are supposed to put people into Gulag and Concentration Camps, lack any moral values and have a proper neckbeard!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:49 PM
3

God is just too forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:39 PM
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I'd have to be brainwashed myself to enjoy the company of other brainwashed people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 03:51 PM
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Ofc he looks "above average" - the linked website even explains why: Why are the resulting average faces generally beautiful? One reason might be the fact that by calculating average proportions unpleasant asymmetries and irregularities become levelled out. Moreover, by blending together several faces wrinkles and pimples gradually disappear. As a consequence, the skin looks younger and perfectly smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:22 PM
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Yes they’ll get sex/really low quality dates from men who aren’t even attracted to them. Kinda their fault if they date above their smv. has to worry about getting assaulted men are more likely to be assaulted, but ok At least ugly men don’t have to worry about being assaulted If you are a short man and appear weak, you are very much a prime target for unprovoked physical attacks. Ugly men can be valued in society with their other traits. And so can women. But I think for women it’s worse. Ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:12 PM
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So basically everything you a man should do even before going bald - except now every point is mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:25 PM
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Men are much less likely to catch STDs off women You got any numbers on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:29 PM
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I can only imagine how many young women go down this route to get financial relief. Good for them, no? Easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:34 PM
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A man doesn't want to fail or look like a loser before his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:28 PM
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Who doesn't like being strong, powerful and have the ability to be independent? It keeps options open.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:19 PM
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That kinda contradicts your statement from above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:55 PM
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The perceived social awkwardness is heavily influenced by looks. Better looks --> higher tolerance for awkward behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:29 AM
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Call me once they've discovered bone-changing and hair-regrowing make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:41 PM
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You are basically asking in bad faith and it's way too obvious. How do you expect to gain any useful information like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:14 AM
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They lose their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:11 PM
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in LTRs obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:41 PM
2

Poor reading comprehension. No, you. You completely missed his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:32 PM
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Let's just hope Lilith will get it. I think you are being overly optimistic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:57 AM
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And there it is, women's favourite argument: the personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:39 PM
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There is no dating problem. So the statistics about skyrocketing male loneliness and online dating are all fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:21 PM
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unattractive nerds think that they have near zero chance with all girls so they should just go for popular girls Where did you hear this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:36 PM
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Are you serious? Most hobbies men have do not have a balanced sex ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:51 PM
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And that is shaming men who prefer to date/have sex with virgins. Oh boy - I once mentioned on a German YikYak clone how I'd want to have a virgin girlfriend. As a result many users called me creepy and disgusting and it didn't stop when I mentioned that I was a virgin myself. However few other users mentioned that they felt the same way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/21 10:25 AM
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Incels.co r/TheRedPill, r/MGTOW None of that provides any conclusive evidence for your claim. All those sites are small samples of specific groups. Create a survey and have several thousand men take part. Perhaps that will allow you obtain some proof. Plenty of average looking men have happy healthy fulfilling relationships. And you know that how? Did you ask them? Are you keeping a secret spreadsheet about average looking men in happy healthy fulfilling relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:02 PM
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Many of them don't have the character traits needed to attract or keep a partner, ie social skills, conversational skills, tact. Please support your thesis with something more than a baseless assumption. A lot of them don't understand what it takes to have a long term healthy relationship The term "Chad" is commonly refers to men who are attractive to women on a rather superficial short term basis (looks, appearance etc). Those men have many options. Having many options does not incentivise sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:27 PM
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Could you please link the study?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/21 11:04 AM
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Women participating in the survey were also asked to indicate how strongly they approved or disapproved in principle of infidelity by either sex. Two in five women (41%) considered it to be ‘always wrong’. oof
/r/BlackPillScience18/02/21 12:30 PM
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It's still a whole lot better than no dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:34 PM
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They probably only refer to cases of 'good emotions'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:10 PM
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It's clearly because having a daughter is the most cucked thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 12:22 AM
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A source would be helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:43 PM
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If a woman makes it obvious that she is open for dating, she will find men who are interested in her. The easiest way is through online dating. You can have a picture of a tin can and still get matches and conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 05:12 PM
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"What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 04:39 PM
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Assertive men are connected to high testosterone and they are attractive to women. But you don't really want an assertive man when bringing up a child, as he might care less for the child.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/21 03:11 PM
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There is evidence that men with lower testosterone often engage in more prosocial, generous, and empathetic behavior than men with higher testosterone. Our team of researchers was the first to identify, in the Philippines and subsequently in other contexts, a relationship between lower testosterone in men and the amount of child care they do. In a large project that tracked men in their 20s over five years, testosterone levels dropped significantly when men became partnered fathers. So men need …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/21 02:42 PM
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It's almost like men don't like to share their non-pc thoughts in real life out of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:41 PM
1

Little maturity? Yes. Young? No. The USA is furthest into what capitalist democracies will eventually degenerate into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:05 PM
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Look at the women in Ottoman's harem they had to be beautiful to be a part of it. Because they were the women of a single ruler who ruled over an empire of million subjects. leftovers were left there to perish without their men providing for them or sold into slavery where she would get pregnant and thus producing offspring continuing their line. A few thousand years ago the male inhabitants of Iberia were wiped out by invaders, while the female line continued to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:17 PM
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If a woman was ugly most likely there will be no takers for her and her genes end right there. There will always be takers. When Germans and Soviets marched into each others land, they sometimes didn't even spare old women and little girls. Same thing is happening with African rebels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:51 PM
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You didn't even bother to pack your strawman into some kind of joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:03 AM
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The real tragedy is how the Met through Friends bar is basically a big fuck you to all men searching partners outside OLD and clubs after 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:54 AM
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It stems from stories of women that go like this: "I used to have a boyfriend, but then I found out I am into women." Like bitch, how can you be lesbian and still have a boyfriend out of your own free will?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:34 PM
1

Please don't assume that your very own dating strategies apply to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:19 PM
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As someone who isn't photogenic or attractive Don't worry, there are more than enough non-photogenic men on any dating app who will be most interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:14 PM
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men simply have no interest in me Try out OLD and have your mind changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:14 PM
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Women approach men they like Just gotta be in the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:52 PM
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The thing is those nice guys are also aggressive assholes, they are just worse at hiding it. This is pure speculations based on the "just world" fallacy. Your argument follows the belief that nice guys who can't find a woman are not truly nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:00 PM
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Share your wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:00 PM
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So does that mean women in medieval ages were secret doms?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 01:11 PM
5

"Allahu Akbar!" - *insert gun, explosion or decapitation noises*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 03:08 AM
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let them know your available Hundreds of men let any young woman with social media/OLD know they are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:59 AM
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Can't make poor choices if you don't have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:43 PM
1

I'd rather have people be less obsessed about cosmetics than indulging in this never ending race of beauty product consumption. Wash/clean your body, cut your hair and nails, wear proper attire and don't stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:59 AM
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That would be a bit tricky since everyone has quite differing opinions on what is average (as seen in the graph). You'd have to pull a profile from the data set, but that might prove difficult for privacy reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:07 PM
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Visual enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:50 PM
7

Well, yes, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:43 PM
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More intelligent people make better long term decisions. Render me surprised. More experienced people make better long term decisions. Render me surprised. A lot of career women go for children in their 30s, so it is not surprising to find more stable marriages where many children are born. It's usually agreed upon, that women in their 30s have higher standards which is why many men who do not meet the requirements have an easier time dating younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:50 AM
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The number of Indians I’ve known in tech positions is way higher than those cleaning toilets. Probably because you are not living in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 12:47 AM
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Tinder based It's OkCupid based and OkCupid puts a big focus on finding partners based on their personality. It follows a more natural approach to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:50 AM
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Connecting the issue to a wider reason why some young men struggle with sex and dating given the hormonal impacts obesity has on the body Go into any Incel space and tell them how you are an Incel because of obesity. You will get a lot of hate and contempt, rightfully so. Women are also not excluded from obesity. In fact, in most countries they form the greater share of obese people, yet they don't seem to have much of a challenge in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:55 PM
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Although that's ridiculous, why don't all men there do testing due to the window they have just to be sure? They don't want to ruin their relationship/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:16 AM
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How is it related to male issues when the numbers clearly show a female issue? Your post does not relate to any talking points on this sub and one might think you are looking to trigger comments of relativization in order to denounce the people on this sub as hypocritical.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/20 01:51 PM
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Those are clearly some staggering numbers, but given the gross difference between sexes I must wonder how that is not more of a female issue. See rule 1.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/20 01:15 PM
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As of 2013 the VW Golf was the 3rd most built car in the world. Given the amount of produced units, it can often be bought at used car dealerships. I saw the meme on a German image board and wanted to see if it resonates somewhat with a foreign audience - apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:27 AM
5

Damn vikings stole all their beauties!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:03 AM
4

You still owe me the name of several successful polygamist societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:14 AM
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The lack of logic in your reasoning is astonishing. I wouldn't even know where to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:04 AM
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There are plenty of polygamist societies that functioned completely well, not sure if you know much about the topic. Care to name some civilizations where polygamy was common in all classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:58 AM
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This is corroborated with studies that looked at what gender reported the most infidelity: also mostly men. It is not surprising to see more accounts of men cheating. After all the top men live in a harem and they are probably responsible for the majority of those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:27 PM
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The Data linked from the UK by another user has something interesting to say about Gonorrhea: Men who have sex with men accounted disproportionately for 55.2% of all gonorrhoea diagnoses in 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:54 PM
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Ironically the girl he cheated on me with looks like my big toe Or perhaps she had something else to offer than beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 12:26 PM
1

I was at Zrće.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:34 PM
5

Honestly lock us together in a room for two weeks and we’re coming out with a shit load of raunchy inside jokes I can 100% guarantee they do not feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:58 PM
5

Desperation. "What if she is genuine? What if she is actually into me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:41 PM
1

Did you ever visit some of the partying hotspots in Spain, Italy or Croatia?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:56 PM
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The researchers then asked women to indicate which of the adjectives used to describe John were ideal for a date as well as for a long-term romantic partner. They found that only one woman out of the 50 undergraduates in their sample actually identified “dominant” as one of the traits she sought in either an ideal date or a romantic partner. For the rest of the dominant adjectives, the two big winners were confident (72 percent sought this trait for an ideal date; 74 percent sought this trait fo…
/r/BlackPillScience02/09/20 01:04 AM
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Sometimes Incels find a girlfriend and they happily tell us about it in the Incel forums. Unfortunately they are often met with hostility and gatekeeping, but that's beside the point. So far I have never seen anyone of those people say how therapy allowed them to deal with their problems. However, there a regularly posts about how the op went to therapy and it "is a scam".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:48 PM
5

Therapy for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:31 PM
1

That's easy to say when you belong to the gender, which gets love unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:21 PM
0

The posts are from men who care about low n-counts. Naturally they will address women. Women usually care less about n-counts, so you will find less posts about male n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:45 AM
2

Well that's the point. She doesn't and neither does he.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:00 PM
2

She got to enjoy herself getting "pumped and dumped" while her MrNiceGuy got to enjoy the benefits of loneliness and sexual frustration. Why should he feel sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:16 PM
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more boys than girls, 35 it’s even, 40 about 100,000 more women than men. Every year past that the difference widens. The gap is not that big and it doesn't widen that quickly. It widens in the 60s https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/2020/ Think of it this way. 30-40 years ago young men in high school would compete with other men by being in shape. This typically resulted in female attention. Today they do it by “likes” and groveling. [CITATION NEEDED]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:19 PM
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You might find this one interesting which I found linked on [REDACTED]. We have data on approximately 1800 women and 1800 men who participated in 84 speed- dating events organized between January 2004 and October 2005. Table 1 presents the summary statistics of these meetings. The average size of an event is approximately 22 men and 22 women. Most events do not have exactly equal num-bers of women and men, but the difference in numbers rarely goes beyond three. The median participation fee acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:33 PM
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eu4 etc Dating requirments of a women would have been the very last thing I'd expect this to be mentioned. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:12 PM
0

But can he dodge police bullets?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/20 11:53 PM
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What men need to know is that saying "women are emotional" is not a license for women to be human, it's a CRITICISM. They are gaslighting us, setting us up for failure. I think you are mixing two different kinds of "being emotional". It's bad to have your emotions take over in situations of immediate danger for example or simply when composure is required. It's not bad when you are opening up to someone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/20 10:17 PM
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When civilizations started to emerge by people becoming sedentary, the "top" men got all the women. However this didn't stay for long. I'd argue that "low status" men posed a security risk for the top males, since they had no reason to cooperate with them and outnumbered those top males. That's where marriage comes in handy. In theory it secures a stable provider for women and a steady source of sex and offsprings for those males, who are not the absolute top class. Men would no longer be compet…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/20 09:39 PM
1

I wouldn't be surprised if this statistic had the same problem of men and women lying about themselves. It also does not take into account, that the pool of ever-married men is smaller. So it would naturally be biased towards high smv males who are obviously going to cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:10 PM
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Once that's done though, most people come out ahead, having learned about people being human, knowing more about what to look for, having a better appreciation of those who are kind and generous, thoughtful, etc. It's a fairly rare person who doesn't improve with experience. That is pure speculation. We know that women are more likely to reject low-value males if they themselves are rejected by high value males. I believe it's pretty much the same dynamic here. It's not surprising that older wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:29 AM
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Yes, shame on those ugly men trying to get laid with their attempts to showcase their personality. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:18 PM
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If there's any chance you are considering possibly liking her, you should say it at minute 0. It's called OLD and it's not working well for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:03 AM
1

Isn't it kinda pitiful to value your own worth by looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:19 PM
8

So many crimes comitted by disgusting sexhavers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:33 AM
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They look exotic but also kinda similar to white men. They have an significant hair and beard trimming culture. So it kinda works out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:34 PM
3

Who told you to give up what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:59 PM
2

I can live without sex [...] but if I’m having sex... Do you perhaps see the slightest bit of contradiction here?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:24 AM
1

This whole "low smv men only want high smv women" has been debunked again and again by various studies about attraction and amateur experiments ("Pigwoman"). It's the other way around and I am surprised there's actually still people around in this sub who believe this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:13 PM
1

You gotta take away that stuff from women too or else there won't be much change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:33 AM
3

No one owes you anything. I don't recall him saying anything being owed to him. I don’t feel bad about not caring what men want. We might as well just not care about your experiences as a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:31 PM
2

Doesn't seem to be very successful with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:00 PM
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I think you are missing the point. In your post you imply that your income should benefit you in dating, however men usually don't give a fuck about your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:06 PM
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I make 128k/ year, software engineer. That is not a positive thing, when you are looking for partners as woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:01 PM
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No one said that men cant sleep around in their 20s. My guy friend in #1 is doing exactly that. Hell, 2 girls ASKED HIM for a 3some. That's where you are wrong about many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:17 PM
4

explain how that is related to simping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:43 PM
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What about: HOBBIES PERSONALITY MORALS WORK ETHIC That would mean increasing your standards. I doubt that's a viable option for men with non-top smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:19 PM
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from the book summarized by me: p. 37 ALLBUS-Datasets (1980-2005) 60,4% of all Men 18-30 years fall under definition of single. Women had a single percentage of 35,6% p. 39 you can find the statistics referenced in the post title men n=1388 19-21 -> 28.8% 22-24 -> 18.1% 25-27 -> 8.1% 28-30 -> 8.4% women n = 1281 19-21 -> 15.9% 22-24 -> 6.7% 25-27 -> 5.1% 28-30-> 2.0% In the book it is also mentioned, how they were trying to find a sample of "absolute beginners" and their leaflets attracted a lot…
/r/BlackPillScience06/04/20 07:46 PM
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that number is slightly greater than the female rate https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide Having a ratio of 4:1 or 3.6:1 is not "slightly greater". There's a significant difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:01 PM
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Women attempt suicide more than men. Of course you end up with more suicide attempts, if the other group in contrast to yours succeeds with every of their attempts. Makes you wonder why men are so much more determined to die than women. The leading cause for suicides is depression and guess what? Being lonely, sexually frustrated and having low self esteem are some very effective causes of depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:45 PM
2

Suicide statistics may disagree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:06 PM
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It's safe to say that male attention, as a whole, really isn't validating. This is basically your point and I strongly disagree. Not only is it still validation, it's also the opposite of constantly experiencing rejection. I would even argue that validation and rejection are so inherent normal for each gender, they cannot comprehend experiencing the other. That's why men can still remember compliments from years ago and women go crazy when rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:06 PM
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what they say they like ≠ what they actually like
/r/BlackPillScience22/02/20 01:24 PM
9

The biggest problem: In a marriage, you’re mixing your assets together with another person. Who the fuck wants to share assets with someone who does nothing but look pretty?! Lol Then don't share assets. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:51 PM
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What if I told you, that you missed the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:29 PM
4

It would kinda suck, if you discovered that you two are sexually incompatible, after the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:33 PM
2

Will Chad also have to wait 3 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:29 PM
4

It can actually be the difference between being in college or having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:36 PM
1

Who is more likely to have more resources, life experience and masculinity in comparison to a 20 year old girl? The 20 year old man or the 25 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:09 PM
8

If ER is an example. Why don't we have Incel shootings on a monthly basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:44 PM
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If a guy has any options at all, it's not like that'll be the last option he ever has The amount of options over a given time is far too low for many men, so that they could afford to just jump to the next option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:09 PM
2

Does a man have to justify his preference for non-cc riding women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:31 PM
1

How did you meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:37 PM
17

Make up: -10 on age
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 07:09 PM
1

Especially single men are rivals when it comes to dating. If the man can't offer anything, why would I welcome him to my circle of friends. But when a women with the same lack of competences appears, I can still hope to date her at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:58 PM
5

I have literally never witnessed a male express his discomfort about certain women because they were too loud and expressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 10:50 PM
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Women are socialized to not try to be the center of attention, to not be loud, to be polite and quiet, and usually treated like their dumb. I am sure you can point at some few examples that commonly occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 10:36 PM
1

Isn't having sex before marriage against your catholic faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:27 PM
2

What kind of engineer? Your salary is abnormal high. How did you get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:02 PM
2

What kind of profession do I have to choose to be making 128k a year at the age of 24?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:52 PM
2

Who is more likely to sacrifice themself? There's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:53 PM
1

It is not required to show your face or be very attractive if you want to sell used underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:09 PM
5

I am pretty sure that doesn't stop men from becoming fathers, if they want to.
/r/BlackPillScience09/11/19 08:45 PM
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Our findings suggest that this could be partly explained by the increasing importance of personality characteristics for men’s probability of becoming fathers. lmao
/r/BlackPillScience09/11/19 08:01 PM
11

Women either have to overcome their hypergamous nature or stay single by their own choice. I guess we all know what's going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:48 PM
7

Why is he your Ex now though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:34 AM
1

Well, I think your statement can be true and false depending on the interpretation and the viewpoint. Looking from an outside perspective there's no problem for women because there are more men than women with age below 60. Looking from an woman's perspective, if she can't deal with the drop in quality men (which I believe is hard to do because of heavily involved emotions), she will have problems in her dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:11 PM
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Exactly, it's just that when their smv plummets into the dark abyss of the late 30s they will be confronted with the horrors their actual looksmatch. As long as you are not in your late 50s I can pretty much guarantee every women in western world at least one partner. It's just that their match may not live up to their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:51 PM
2

all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:40 PM
16

oof
/r/BlackPillScience28/09/19 07:18 PM
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I am too stupid to understand the headline. So in that study self-esteem is not correlated with the attractivenes of males?
/r/BlackPillScience28/09/19 06:53 PM
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Last but most important thing to tell a guy: be realistic. Dont be that guy who says “I want a girl to love me for my personality!” while only pursuing really hot girls who have nothing in common with you. This assumption that supposedly many men only pursue really hot girls is utter bullshit and proven wrong again and again, most notably by online-dating statistics. In fact it's the opposite. Women will try to go for men above their league and men have little problem with women of lower SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 01:55 AM
3

Didn't the least attractive women on OkCupid get about just as many messages as the most attractive men? I mean, if women orbited just as much as men, there should be a lot more interest in those high tier guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:04 PM
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Men will usually find no attraction from wealth of their partner hence they can't understand why a wealthy man is attractive to a woman. Suddenly finding attraction in someone because he suddenly got wealth, implies that she is attracted not to his character, but just his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:02 PM
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Homosexuality is not increasing. The amount of people who come out of the closet is, because it's more acceptable now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:48 PM
3

I don't think the term "superficiality" is a good way to differentiate between the two states. I believe that attraction by the economic status is also somewhat superficial.
/r/BlackPillScience23/08/19 04:59 PM
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I'd attribute the less sex for women to social media too. Social media reduces real-life encounters thus reducing the amount of potential partners they are meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:03 PM
1

Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:43 PM
1

Since I am not living in the US, I cannot answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:34 PM
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Having a high n count might mean, that I may be exchanged just as quickly as all the previous men before me. Since "good" woman will naturally have a low n count due to their effort and commitment to keep a relationship running, I'll have a better chance to find a "good" woman in the low n-count group. How to validate? No idea - but I think you should usually be able to grasp the general direction in which she is tending.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:42 PM
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And men lie too...
/r/BlackPillScience03/07/19 01:49 AM
1

Yes, location is highly important. Women often slightly outnumber men in many cities. Poorer regions such as the rural countryside have less women. I don't know how it looks like in the US, but this map of Germany shows the amount of men per 100 females in 2011 in the age 18-29. This one 30-49.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 01:05 PM
2

Mind providing some proof for your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:44 PM
1

First of all we know that men tend to inflate their numbers while women tend to underreport them. Keep in mind, that it's the average of women between 16 and 74. You'd probably have much higher numbers, if you only asked women between 20 and 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:41 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8joia1/giant_black_pill_research_and_studies_compilation/ http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1077801211424555Women who were physically or sexually abused in the past are more likely to enjoy violent or degrading porn. Women like jerks, men like nice girls http://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269Women like jerks, men like nice girls. http://archive.is/ZGvcF https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs40806-0…
/r/BlackPillScience23/05/19 12:29 AM
12

Ever heard of something called "outlier"?
/r/BlackPillScience21/05/19 06:49 PM
6

I find the lack of metric units triggering.
/r/BlackPillScience08/05/19 11:39 PM
3

That's pretty low though.
/r/BlackPillScience05/05/19 10:56 PM
5

Of course I compare myself to them - but that doesn't mean I'd have to care about their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 09:24 PM
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As a hetero man I couldn't care less about what other men think about me, after all I care about what women think of me, because I want to be attractive for them. All the things you've named have a negative influence on a men's attractiveness towards women. It's pretty much proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 06:48 PM
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Wether it is a problem or not is up to you. Absolute freedom or collective harmony, pick one. Women's biological tendency for hypgergamy is the cause of the unsymmetric distribution of sex. no common agreed way for men and women to get together and be a couple Are you referring to the lack of means for men and women to meet/get together? If that was the case, the rate of celibacy would increase equally fast for each gender - but that's not the case.
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/19 08:00 PM
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These people are so oblivious to the major changes in dating thanks to social media and the strong push for women's empowerment within the last 10 years. The only thing she got right is the decline of social interactions due to technology.
/r/BlackPillScience01/05/19 08:18 PM
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If you are average looking, you should have no problems attracting men unless you want to go for the top men. Most men are not going to cold approach you though and they will try to wait for the "right moment" to ask you out. So you might be under the impression of being less desirable. Dating men who cold approach you or are greatly above you in looks, carry quite the risk of "pump and dump"(or cheating etc.) - if that would bother you. I am under the impression that you value appearance too mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:16 PM
1

It sounds like you focus greatly on your appearance and wait for a man to approach you. Is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:03 PM
2

Isn't that also a way of settling down, if someone commits to relationship for such a long time with the end-goal being marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:49 PM
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who will these men partner with? The 72 virgins after they blow themselves up. Being lonely, shunned and sexually frustrated in a liberal society is fertile soil for islamic terrorism.
/r/BlackPillScience20/04/19 09:36 AM
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If Chris Hemsworth had two different personalities It's not about different personalities. A confident and courageous man is not necessarily a criminal, but in order to be a criminal you have to be confident and courageous. Loyality is something women don't know about until he proves to be disloyal. Same with loving and sociopathic. A women won't know until she finds out the hard way.
/r/BlackPillScience04/04/19 01:45 PM
1

Kinda depressing reading about all your self-improvement only to end up with this...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:25 PM
2

Tfw you ignore women and they ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:03 PM
0

Your comment makes no sense. An EU army would provide greater security for their territorial integrity.
/r/MGTOW15/11/18 12:31 PM
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I'd like to point out that the refugee problems are often exaggerated, since they are only present in concentrated areas. Also Denmark and Norway have a pretty though stand on refugees. Pretty much all countries in Western Europe have problems with immigrants though. Prefab buildings are found all over Eastern Europe but they are rarely as bad looking as the Banlieues. Other alternatives I could think of Slovakia (close to Austria, nice for hiking), Slovenia/Croatia (close to Austria, Adriatic C…
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 07:33 PM
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Have you taken a look into Baltic and Scandinavian countries? Especially Estonia is the kind of country with western attitude (low corruption, low crime), but still relatively poor. Also, what are your criteria towards social activities, jobs/income, taxes and social security?
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 06:11 PM
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