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| 2 | Trying to slide into DMs with girls you went to school with.Well, tbh the cold approach is way more risky and likely to fail imo. I think generating a normal conversation first is better. Otherwise you come off as just another horny dude. If you had a good connection before and it's reasonable to think she'd remember you and your person-to-person dynamic well, then it's more likely to work. But don't be throwing in flirty lines off the bat out of nowhere. Obviously, seduction is an art, not a science, and you should treat each case differently. | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Trying to slide into DMs with girls you went to school with.1) Generate a real conversation then as her out or 2) cold approach. Cold approach is going to work better if you had a decent connection back then. | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | I know for a fact that the girl I'm seeing is into me. We've done a lot of stuff except sex, and I just don't know how to proceed with the deed. Help me.First of all, tossed this importance of her being the first for you out the window. You are putting that sex on a pedestal, and it's not good for you. Or for her. Second, there's a lot of euphemisms and slaying ways of saying sex. Pick one that sounds funny, or that you know she'll feel comfortable hearing, and ask her next time you guys are getting heated if she wants to do that. I'll say this for women, they do have to deal with a sexist social system in our modern world. When it comes to sex,… | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 12:16 PM |
| 6 | Should you avoid hitting on someone while they’re working?Generally speaking, I think your friend has a point. Being real, a lot of girls who work in retail are working the male customers because they know that you like the attention. | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Is it beta for a guy to be in an open relationship for both sides?If you're in an open relationship I feel like that alpha beta stuff doesn't really apply as much. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 11:58 AM |
| 8 | First date shooting pool?Games and physical activities are killer first date options. Gives options for physical touch, body language, and also for them to retreat and take some space when needed | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Has money/status become more important to women?I read your post a little bit more carefully, and while I still stand by what I said, I would also say that it's optimized for everyone, not just women with money-prioritized dating mindsets. Remember, this works for you too. Something I would also say is that the types of people that are comfortable on and that use dating apps are not always likely to be the kind of women that you want to date. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Has money/status become more important to women?I would say that's probably true, and a phenomena that's tied more to the internet, and is reflected across multiple areas. Think about it; back in the day, if I wanted to buy a table, let's say in a big city, I couldn't just search the whole city for a good table store and then check out every table in there. It would take too much time now. Now I can use the Internet to search for every single table store in the area, check reviews, and then even check out the selection of the stores that look… | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Girl refused to say byeIs there a question in here? | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 14 | Knees touching when sitting side by sideAgreed, as a guy it also takes the edge off. You can make it playful too, just be creative. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that it's common for men to like penises, women who have penises and trans women porn? After reading online I now believe it's very popular. I feel like most just accept this, so how do I stop myself thinking this means vaginas are not liked anywhere near as much as penises are?I'm very confused by the way you phrased this, but I think there's a variety of men that like a variety of things. There's no shortage of men who like vaginas though. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 70 | You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anywayThe art of dating and seduction is like playing basketball or soccer or any other sport. You're going to suck a lot in the beginning, but the only way to start winning games is to suck while you train to get better. Do you think Michael Jordan or Pele knew every time they started a game they were going to win or not? No. But they played for the sake of their team, for themselves, and for the experience. Everybody loses, including winners. But the difference between winners and losers is that win… | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl turned date into a double dateI see I see. Then be chill I think, things sound good so far! | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl turned date into a double dateOkay, that makes sense. I guess it depends then. Depending on how well she knows you, turning it into a double date may be a way to keep it light and less pressured, while still being able to get to know you and spend some time together. She gave me also feel a little bit safer and more comfortable with other people there as well, specially if it's the first date. It's a good tactic sometimes to give the girl a little bit of free rein on the first date and not push too hard. On the other hand, l… | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl turned date into a double dateWait so did you go on the date or not | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 156 | Misconceptions about Having HobbiesThis is so on point | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 11:52 AM |
| 2 | is it okay to heart react the picture of a girl i like on facebook ?This is how I think about it. Would it be weird for you to give her a very enthusiastic verbal congratulations or supportive response in person? Is this post really appreciate, or that's a very universally awesome life event? Then yes. Otherwise, just like it. But at the end of the day, don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted after not taking her home after a date (for a good reason). Whats the best way to approach a follow up without sounding like a simp?I don't think there is one, mate. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be dominant without conflict?You can be dominant by refusing to be drawn into conflict. Only cowards seek a fight; they need to prove that they can win. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverYou've got to walk the way, not just be on it my man. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverI feel like your awareness of your feelings about this are a sign that you are well on your way to getting more fulfilling relationships. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Girls getting curious...If you're new, she's 200% trying to move things along since she has no friendship to risk. I'm going to point out everyone else in this thread pretty much saying the same thing. Otherwise, enjoy watching some other dude fuck her then. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Girls getting curious...I guess for context, is she shy? Do you share many of the same friends? Is she attractive physically, in an objective sense? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Girls getting curious...Dude there's a difference between "I like you" and "lovey dovey." Obviously there's push and pull. But as you say a girl takes her time - when she's ready enough to ask, don't waste her time. I mean, you don't have to say it in a deadpan "I like you" delivery, add some spice as appropriate. But you telling her you don't like her or avoiding the question is a great way to get a friendzone ticket. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Girls getting curious...A girl is going to a respect a guy who is straight up and honest about what he wants. Playing coy and trying to disguise it is going to turn her off extremely fast. Girls have enough trouble trying to not come off as interested to guys that they aren't interested in, that if they are trying to find out if a guy is interested and he's playing coy they can just throw you back in the water. If she's asking, she's probably interested. Shoot your shot or let someone else take theirs. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 05:50 AM |
| 2 | When hate is incorporated into one’s defined identityLol this isn't the worst article I've ever seen but it's definitely in the crapbasket stack for sure. | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Is it ok to not want casual sex as a guy?The only beta thing to do is to force yourself to be something you don't want to be. If you're not trying to bump fuzzies just yet, that's not beta - it's alpha to stand for what you want. Go for sex if you want, and if you don't, that's ok. | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Going on a first date with a Tinder girl whose sister was best friends with my cousin. How do I approach this conversation topic without killing attractionBuild the attraction first, then talk about this. it doesn't seem like a huge really important topic to deal with. It's not like her sister is your sister. | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | [32 M ] bald and alone...want to go to clubs but I'm thinking I'm too old...I second this one. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | [32 M ] bald and alone...want to go to clubs but I'm thinking I'm too old...First off, I know it may be hard to see it this way but there's a lot of women who are attracted to a man who is bald. It's more about how you rock it and your confidence in your own skin. Have you checked out facial hair styles for bald men? It's a cool aesthetic if you accept it. Second, it's an understandable feeling about the clubs. I am totally there with you. There's no east answer, but I would say 1) confidence counts for a lot 2) a lot of women are attracted to an older man. The differen… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 03:08 PM |
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