Digital-Beard Archive

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24	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. Bro I’m going to say this in a way that may make me come off as a ‘Dick’. That isn’t my intent. But I’m going to verbalize it the best way I can so that nothing I or anyone else here has said, leaves any questions as to how to behave here. Don’t fucking act any different than you did before. This means DON’T talk to her more, DON’T smile at her more, DON’T read into the fact that you hooked up. Do absolutely NOTHING more than you did prior to hooking up. In fact, it may work better in your favor…	/r/seduction	13/08/22 06:35 PM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? I have made a move. We made out etc etc. but she acts like nothing happened and won’t set another date. Yet still is flirty and sensible stuff.	/r/seduction	17/12/19 06:05 PM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? I seem to let her do it? How should I be handling it?	/r/seduction	17/12/19 03:54 PM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? I like the detail here is helps a lot! Couple questions though. She used to text me a lot but rarely now. And the times she does text me, when I reply she just doesn’t respond. As if she just texted me to see if I’d reply. So Should I not initiate texting to her at all? if she doesn’t text me agin after I’ve left her on read last night, I still shouldn’t reach out or reply? We see each other several times a week since we work in the same building. That’s when she’s flirty/touchy and makes commen…	/r/seduction	17/12/19 05:14 AM
2	Is this a test or am I missing something here? Appreciate you taking the time man	/r/seduction	17/12/19 12:02 AM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? That’s the key. Being able to adopt the mindset of not caring despite being really into her. I think that honestly would have an impact	/r/seduction	16/12/19 11:49 PM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? Yeah that’s what I’m thinking. My only concern would in blowing her off that long she loses whatever interest she had to begin with. I do like this chick. But I’m done initiating everything and having to play games constantly that keep me feeling ontop. Right now I feel like she’s got most of the power and knows it. We work close together though so that part will be difficult	/r/seduction	16/12/19 11:25 PM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? Yeah as much as I’d like to text her I think it’s smarter to not buy into it before she can prove she’s gonna invest at least as much as me if not more. I can’t keep being the one asking out, showing interest and texting. The no contacting for a long time is a bit tricky though lol we see each other 4 times a week. Our companies share and work in the same building. Hence her being able to flirt and get to me so much	/r/seduction	16/12/19 11:23 PM
1	Is this a test or am I missing something here? Lol I’ve literally told her that I want her. And with how stand off-ish she’s been the last few days I figured I’d over done it and was being too needy. We’ve made out but she acts like nothing happened. Just confused by what she was trying to accomplish with the picture. And she’s left me on read so much in the past that I worry if I actually do reply to her text, even hours later. That she’ll just not reply and then I’m back to being the one working for her if that makes sense	/r/seduction	16/12/19 11:10 PM
2	Is this a test or am I missing something here? Because of how back and forth she’s been. I’ve been straight forward. Probably too much so. She flirts a lot but hasn’t agreed to going out again. Then I just don’t know why she’d send me a picture of another dude playing pool? She rarely texts me and I have to actually try not to over text her or initiate everything. Which is why didn’t reply. She leaves me on read all the time. Couple that with the confusing intentions of the picture I just felt like it was smarter not to reply. But I AM here …	/r/seduction	16/12/19 10:54 PM
1	Women are attracted to..... My issue is I work closely With her in the same building four days out of the week, so it just makes it extra fucking difficult to not care or not wonder, flirt and get validation through her. I want it too much and I know that’s my problem. Instead of putting energy towards moving on and not caring, my mind uses it all trying to find ways to get her chasing me or want it enough to make a move	/r/seduction	13/12/19 11:46 PM
2	Women are attracted to..... I can and do have that attitude all day long with other women. That’s the thing, I’m actively seeing other girls but I just can’t get HER out of my head yaknow. And I’ll what actual actions I need to take to turn this into my favor. It’s easy to say “women like mean who’s feelings aren’t clear” but idk how to convey that in the moment	/r/seduction	13/12/19 11:15 PM
3	Women are attracted to..... This is the part I struggle with the most! I know it’s amazing advice and I wanna follow it so bad but I always find myself fucking up with it somehow. For instance I’m really into this girl that works in the same building. Been flirty/touchy. We go out and end up making out but then she tells me there might be someone else and she needs to get her shit together. And now we still see each other most of the week and I just don’t know how to keep myself at that perfect mysterious distance where I’…	/r/seduction	13/12/19 10:38 PM
1	What would you do here? This is what I needed. I know what I need to do, but it helps so much to get some confirmation that it’s the right way to go about it. I appreciate you for taking the time	/r/seduction	06/12/19 04:12 PM
1	What would you do here? Yea man that logical voice is the way I need to go, unfortunately while it’s the wisest of the voices it’s not the loudest. It’s a daily struggle to keep myself in check not texting her, not being overly flirty or approach her just to feel some connection.	/r/seduction	06/12/19 03:18 PM
1	What would you do here? I like this. But should I even bring up her ghosting me last night at all? I want this girl to want to text me regular again and obviously to follow through on meeting up. Preferably on my terms. But I don’t wanna come off needy or relinquish any power in this situation since it’s already confusing enough. So do I not mention last night or her lack of reply and NOT text her without her initiating or just bring it up myself	/r/seduction	06/12/19 03:17 PM
1	What would you do here? Yeah I had asked her if she was already out and where	/r/seduction	06/12/19 08:11 AM
1	Mixed signals from girl with boyfriend. Valid point my man. Much easier said than done though.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 04:43 AM
2	Mixed signals from girl with boyfriend. Idk, that’s the issue. When we’re at work she’s not changed at all, still comes off flirty and gives me mixed signals. The difference now is she knows For sure I’m into her and hasn’t reached out via text for several days. If all she’s wanting from me is validation then I don’t want to feed into that bs. But I have no idea if that’s what it is, or if there’s genuine interest and it’s some sort of test.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 04:42 AM
1	How should I proceed with this girl. Looking for advice It was a shock because up until she’d sent that text she hadn’t mentioned a boyfriend at all... I wouldn’t do anything with her unless and until they split up. Like I said, the only reason I’m pursuing is that lately she had been complaining about him blowing her off and possibly cheating. I’m not trying to get her to cheat on him, but rather build the attraction to the point that once they broke up then I could pursue in full	/r/seduction	25/11/19 10:46 PM