Digital-Hermit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Let's get a reading list going srsly	/r/seduction	11/07/16 08:50 PM
1	My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring. Cheers!	/r/seduction	07/01/16 09:45 PM
1	My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring. Definitely. Positively reinforced passion goes a long way as well, people are attracted to the blend like moths to a flame, but that being said it's nigh impossible to fake. In many situations it really has to be genuine.	/r/seduction	07/01/16 09:45 PM
2	What music do you play, once at your place with a girl? Thievery Corporation. Something chill we can talk to, as well as get down to. I'd recommend "Culture of Fear" (Album and the song), and "Richest man in Babylon"	/r/seduction	07/01/16 08:05 PM
1	My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring. Links?	/r/seduction	07/01/16 08:03 PM
2	My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring. Even if you aren't interested in the person themselves, you can find things to connect over. Pop culture for example is a goldmine of material, I can't even count how many people I've connected with over taking about Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones and Star Wars.	/r/seduction	07/01/16 07:48 PM
2	My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring. "It's better to be interested than interesting." You can do as much as you can on your side of things to improve your chances of someone finding you attractive, but until you learn to make real emotional connections, and more importantly make other people FEEL that connection, you are shooting yourself in the foot. Learn to empathize with people, and be interested in hearing their story for the sake of hearing their story or their perspective on the world, rather than following some ulterior mot…	/r/seduction	07/01/16 07:45 PM
2	A seduction and video game comparison Constantly looking at where you can improve is so key to learning any skill.	/r/seduction	09/10/15 10:38 PM
1	When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date... That's the thing though, you're ACTING interested. You really need to be into the conversation. I remember the saying "It's better to be interested than interesting."	/r/seduction	28/08/15 06:40 AM
1	When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date... A man's role in a conversation is to start the conversation and see what she has to offer. Sure it's good if she's asking about you, any conversation should be a give and take not just one sided. But your goal should be to validate what she's saying through your reactions in your conversation "Oh really? That's so interesting, tell me more!", facial expressions (surprise, awe, disgust etc), and body language (mostly to do with the way you angle yourself toward them, generally if you angle your h…	/r/seduction	27/08/15 10:39 AM
1	How I get over feeling judged And will anyone care or remember that you had enough balls to talk to a someone else in a few years time? Hell no	/r/seduction	27/08/15 10:30 AM
3	Need advice on how to make conversations more "fun" Talk about pop culture, rag on her for liking certain shows and make cold reads on her preferences, eg "I can't believe you said you like Game of Thrones but watch Pretty Little Liars, I didn't have you pegged as that type of girl"	/r/seduction	27/08/15 10:18 AM
1	Night life in Santa Cruz Could go bowling, go to/take some photos of landmarks.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 05:52 PM