DigitalFriendForLyfe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	I had to post what this guy sent after EIGHT YEARS	#JustLVMThings	DigitalFriendForLyfe	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 04:34 AM
1	Is there a way to warn a woman of abusive behavior when you see them with your ex IN PERSON?	FDS RESCUE MISSION	DigitalFriendForLyfe	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 03:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
100	I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this? Many (I’m talking like 80-85%) of my friends are married to HVM. Honestly, if it weren’t for their presence in my life I wouldn’t believe they exist. I have dated one ZVM and unfortunately that was the best I got. Haha. 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 02:27 AM
40	Strategy/ Mentality Shift Suggestion: How about we stop thanking men for acting like we’re the catch? I just attended the PDGA World Championships, and the WORLD CHAMPION, Catrina Allen, took the time to thank her boyfriend for “putting up with her”. My goodness, gal, you’re a 2x world champion nobody should be putting up with you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 04:51 PM
39	FDS should apply to ALL MEN IN YOUR LIFE, not just dating situations. Ladies, I just cut off my dad two days ago. I feel like this post was a sign I made the right choice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 01:14 AM
128	Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormative It just makes me think about heteronormativity for men. They want so badly for us to be like "the boys" to the point where you have to ask... are you sure you're only into women?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 06:48 PM
27	Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship. Can we add this to the handbook please? This is gospel. To elaborate on this point, if the dude uses the word "ultimatum" in his speech it's a red flag. 🚩Yes, boundaries can be seen as ultimatums, but I cannot control another person's behavior. My boundary is what behavior I will tolerate from others before I make an action. The word ultimatum is unfairly used against women trying to set their own terms, and perpetuates the narrative that we are supposed to feel bad for having limits. Stay aware…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/21 05:48 AM
11	Sexism in Medicine As a woman with recently diagnosed endometriosis, this hurts. The first time the pain was bad enough for me to be afraid I was brought to the ER because I thought my appendix had burst. Their report concluded that I was constipated and glossed over the finding of a 2.5" diameter endometrioma found in my right ovary. Luckily my sweet (female) friend who brought me to the ER is the daughter of a (female) nurse. She insisted that I should get a second opinion. Luckily my (female) OBGYN saw my ultra…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 09:41 PM
6	This, seriously. SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE GIRLS IN THE BACK	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/20 05:04 AM
18	Has anyone read this? Home Body by Rupi Kaur. Thoughts? Oh my goodness. I recently cut off my NVM father and he has found a therapist that only forgives his behavior. It's absolutely maddening and and engrained form of gaslighting. I'm so sorry for what you went through, it's awful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 03:33 AM
9	Why girl, why?! I had an ex that hid his relationship status from me. A friend pointed out to me that he showed as single from her profile and thank goodness. Please let her know.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 05:23 AM
7	What? Should I ask him if he can take me on his bike to a field he knows? The low effort I swear, this was his SECOND message to me! Oh but don't call it a date!! We're just hanging out and seeing if we vibe, y'know? Be chill dude. 😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 09:10 PM
14	The reason you've been negged explained here My favorite part was at the end, guys. The whole “a woman’s only card to play is her physical body to manipulate your lust against you”... They don’t know we smart, too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/20 01:03 AM
1	How to deal with depression from male depravity? What I have to do is take a step back from these kinds of men and seek male company from the good men in my life like my brother and close friends. It reminds me there are good men out there and a good example for what to look for when I’m trying to find a man of my own. ♥️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/20 02:09 AM
1	What got you here won’t get you there What is the book?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 07:50 PM
14	Stop elevating Negative-Value Men in FDS. Thank you for posting this. The content on this sub lately not only has been a slew of disparaging posts about ZVM/NVM but also a slew of disparaging posts about pickmeishas. What people are failing to realize is that pickmeisha is a tool to educate people instead of insult people. Like others I was considering unsubscribing. Appreciate you bringing back a positive and uplifting message to a community of women who are here to support each other.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/20 04:46 AM
7	Run at the first red flag, Queens DUDE I HAVE BEEN THERE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 12:12 AM
16	I had to post what this guy sent after EIGHT YEARS It’s all the same shit because it’s all the same script. He doesn’t miss you, girl, he’s bored. Blocked.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 04:34 AM
2	Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood work This thread is so fucking funny. I could sum all of your comments up in one image.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 04:27 AM
2	Your partner’s friends disrespecting you is 100% because of the way he speaks to them about you. Same goes for his family, y’all. If you’re getting a weird/mean/standoffish vibe from them, he’s sharing negative aspects of your relationship with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/20 08:28 PM