Diligent_Bookkeeper7 Archive

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3	Is it hypocritical for an experienced man to want an inexperienced woman? During my young twenties, during a break-up, I was an immature douche and said I wanted to marry a virgin to my soon-to-be-ex. She replied something like, “With what you like/want in bed, you really don’t.” It struck me that she was completely right, and I then didn’t consider it again, and if anything, avoided dating arenas where virgins frequented. TL;DR: I realized I wanted to eat my cake and have it too; I wanted a highly sexual, fun, freaky girl who was that way but only for me. It was ridi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 07:41 PM
1	Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did? Communist China is currently committing genocide. Is there a single Communist country that hasn’t violated what we in the west consider human rights? Aren’t those behaviors consistent with Marx? (Honest, not rhetorical question.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 03:00 AM
2	Is the attention women receive from men the equivalent of being bombarded with food choices? I would say she is pizza rather than steak. But I don’t get food poisoning, so it’s much better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 02:55 AM
–	Women want trad for thee but not for me She works from home. I know it looks that way, though. She is horrible at communication, and I’ve always wondered how sincere they were.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 02:49 AM
–	Women want trad for thee but not for me Maybe. But I love my son and want to see him everyday. She whipped out divorce before we were parents, and while taking it seriously, I wasn’t all that scared and didn’t change what she didn’t like. Recent events have shown she loves me, so I’m confused, but she isn’t the best at conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 02:46 AM
1	Women want trad for thee but not for me My wife and I are a blend of traditional and modern. Before getting married, we discussed divorce was a ‘only when necessary, last resort option.’ She’s threatened divorce for startling low infringements where as I never considered it for my irks between us. I now no longer am trying to get her to stay at home and putting the full financial responsibility on my self. I love her, and I’ve found she loves me, but I’m weary of ever trusting her like that again. Too many mommy blogs and other outsid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 05:38 AM
1	The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussion I’m surprised there’s not much push back. Among the many couples I/we know, our relationship is one of the few where the man is hornier. In the rest, it’s the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 01:20 AM
2	What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions? This is really a spot on list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 04:17 AM
6	Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent Men After I ended a serious relationship with an unstable, manipulative woman, I remarked to a friend, “I think I was with her so long because it seemed normal to be because of my mom.” He IMMEDIATELY responded yes as if he had been holding it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 02:28 AM
3	Is the attention women receive from men the equivalent of being bombarded with food choices? I’m married too. It’s an interesting sub., and it makes me appreciate my wife EVEN MORE.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 01:09 PM
3	Is the attention women receive from men the equivalent of being bombarded with food choices? As an analogy, this really does fit. I’m a man, and my first serious relationship was unhealthy and abusive, but she did whatever I wanted in bed AND WAS GOOD AT IT. My wife is lovely, wonderful, and healthy, but even though she tries, she can’t touch the sexual level of crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 01:07 PM
2	Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control. Is asking for body count on the first date common? I don’t want to know: don’t tell me. I don’t know my wife’s number: it’s probably higher than mine; I’m a weirdo who had to learn socialization and she is much more conforming and socially adept. It’s also easier for a woman. Don’t ask: don’t tell. The important questions: are you going to participate in the varieties of sex I enjoy/need? Will you be loyal and seek longevity? Those are important questions. Come on guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 04:04 PM
1	Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control. As a man, I don’t get this at all. If I like someone or even attracted to them, and even if neither - as happened once - if I am intimate with someone, I am curious about them. I want to know them. Otherwise, how soul-less!? I might have a dirty, dingy, damaged soul, but I still have one. Guys, have some depth. Otherwise, I don’t understand existence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 03:58 PM
1	Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control. I understand this concept, but I don’t personally understand it as a man beyond something simple such as type. For example, I like large or larger breasts and either a non-flat butt or a not homely face. Some extra cushion? That’s an expected cost for the curves. Guys: keep the REAL standards in mind, even if strategic: if you’re the best she’s had, is she likely to look elsewhere? Does it REALLY matter? Is she enjoyable to be around? Good conversations? That’s hot. It’s not difficult. Women ten…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 03:54 PM
1	Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control. I do not understand a rejection of desperates or doormats. Maybe because I’m middle-aged, but I would be MORE than happy to have to work less for more blowjobs. I’m tired of the game. I want a cheerleader. I attempt to be and want to be a cheerleader for whoever I am with: ISN’T THAT THE POINT! I want to make you special: I want you to feel like a queen. Just tell me how and make me feel like a king. It shouldn’t be that hard. PARTNER: it’s in the definition. Edit: For a desperate or doormat, it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 03:36 PM
0	Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control. I was traditional conservative leaning, and I thought my wife was too, until she threatened to break-up our family for rather frivolous reasons; we had discussed divorce prior to getting married and agreed it was very serious and only a last resort. I don’t think immediately getting another (but somewhat lower paying) job in a new career - a career (sales) which could have made more money for us and potentially kept her home - after being laid off from a stagnant salary job I both hated and was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 03:29 PM
1	Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did? There are people who consider the Viet Nam war justified and honorable (while acknowledging dishonorable things happened there). It’s just a forbidden opinion is normally only heard in conservative spaces. (In short: fighting Communism/ stopping the Soviet Union, China, etc. we will fight to stop the spread.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:48 AM
1	Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did? Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:44 AM
–	Bluepill ideology really only works for those who have lived charmed lives Wait. 63%!? Is this a reliable statistic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 12:28 PM
2	CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women. Can’t anyone buy an over the counter one and then secretly use it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 01:58 AM
3	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 01:35 AM
1	Why is it that the men here who fail think they are the most enlightened? I’m burnt out, sick, and tired at this state of life, but I had moments of charisma, normally when assisted by alcohol. I also never lost my childlike and intellectual curiosity. I’m romantic. I’m hyper sexual. I tend to hyper focus on a woman and sex: women (and men, but especially women) love attention. I’m not boring, but I’m too intense for many people. Im also a mediocre person. I picture a lot of these guys as normal, boring. Nothing exciting. But good guys who would make a good spouse. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 02:58 PM
5	Why is it that the men here who fail think they are the most enlightened? I’m in that category. I’m currently in my late 30s and have been with my wife for ten years. When I was young I was told, repeatedly, by people of different genders, specialities, ages, and races, I was very handsome/above average in looks. As a former fat kid, I didn’t believe them/hyper focused on the weight. My insecurity and utter lack of social skills is cringeworthy, and my wife has mentioned she thinks I might be on the autistic spectrum. I had zero luck with women. I had plenty if means …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:30 PM
1	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. Honestly, with the exception of my wife, every girlfriend I’ve been with reacted well if I cried; I’m not a crier by nature, so it only happened once or twice (if at all) with each. During a very intense fight where “divorce” was thrown around, I felt like I was going to cry and let myself thinking - based in past experience - it would deescalate the situation. It did, but she became a snotty brat about it. It was surprising in the moment, but it makes sense now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 01:35 PM