DimensionVegetable37 Archive

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–	Feminists and leftists/liberals can be the most mis*gynistic people Studies have shown AI able to pick out liberals/left from a single photo of a person based on the fact that they look more unhappy. It's also shown that left leaning people are are less open to new ideas or discuss anything with people outside of their viewpoint. The irony of the left is that they are in fact the bigots they like to call the Conservatives. Only difference? The religious nuts of the old days had to grow up and provide for their families. Compared to them never wanting to grow up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 12:44 AM
1	As long as women expect men to pay for dates, men will always expect something in return. The biggest issue is that women don't seem to grasp. Most dates are not an enjoyable evening for men. It's a stressful interview. Even women trying to date other women have admitted to this. Having to pay for the chance to painfully pull teeth to get to know someone who is looking down on you for any reason whatsoever to throw you away. It's awful. And it's absurd how many women judge on the smallest shit. Oh, you wore a brown belt with black shoes? Ghosted! But make sure you pay $150 tonight. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 10:29 PM
–	Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing. France has pushback because men were leaving cheating wives. Jamaica made it law because of how many women were cheating. The fact that this is even a discussion is stupid. Women have no problem giving all her data to social media and post everything to the public. But lord forbid a man know his child he is responsible is for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:44 PM
–	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights I don't see what the big deal is. No really. You get charged just for holding your child when it's born. Blood work and so on. Yet for some reason a DNA test is out of the question? I think it's sick and outright disgusting that women would literally steal a man's income, lie to him. Destroy his life in divorce and have that man thrown in prison. Just to force him to raise and pay for a child that isn't his. That flat out robbery. The only excuse I see women give is a "trust me bro, offending my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 04:36 PM
-2	Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it. Wrong. If you look up the statistic or what women want in men. Height, age range, race, income. Most women are looking at 5% or less of the total population. And this doesn't even account for personality and looks. Or even if the men are gay or not. I easily represent 2% of the population at age 35. But because I'm not 6ft I get swept to the side. If I was ? I would be in the .02% range. Again before counting personality and vibe. When I travel women in other countries it's a night and day diffe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 05:34 PM
-2	Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it. Majority of the taxes that pay for those things are men. Men don't volunteer because men we aren't welcome places alone. If we don't have support, why would we be comfortable going to places to offer support? Same reason male preschool teachers aren't really a thing. Men are ridiculed for being in those places. Men don't openly care about mental health because the very system of it shames men. Therapy is well known to be very female leaning. Shelters for the abuse deny men. Even the police arres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 05:27 PM
8	Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it. Male self esteem is directly tied to his looks. Even when personality is accounted for. The better his looks the higher his personality was ranked. Directly tying the two together. To build self esteem, confidence and charisma you need positive feedback. So the men who were hot back in highschool were able to say and do whatever they want with women. This he has confidence rewarded to him by women. While everyone one was treated like dirt. Even saying hi could have you mocked and ridiculed. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 05:17 PM
1	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves Women have an instinct to seek status over other women. This is amplified when there are higher value men for women to compete for. Self sexualization increases and does polygamy. Social media constantly feeding women attention and information about super hot rich men pushes women into that mindset. Every like in her world is a raise in status. Hench why you see women join dating apps just to collect matches. To rank herself as worthy of these men. But she ends up getting pumped and dumped. And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 04:46 PM
11	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves Old fashion chivalry has nothing to do with women. The Gallant Knight was the ones who treated women extra. Today those men are called Simps. There are plenty of simps around not having any luck while women complain about there not being any simps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 04:34 PM
0	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves Studies shown that on Campuses of there were less men of high value. Women would sexualize themselves more online. This also counted true in cities with larger gaps of wealth aka famous rich people. This also lead to a higher culture of polygamy. The opposite happened when the men appeared more equal. You had a culture aimed towards more monogamy. Showing that things can be normal. But as soon as you drop in a few outliner men. The women flip the script and all chase the same men. As a man you h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 04:00 PM
4	Women, what do women need to improve? Because men can't vet a woman until after he has already invested time and money getting her out on a date. Women don't approach or do any lifting in the early stages of dating. Men have to treat women with a score of 100 and then subtract. Women start men at zero and add. Men can't have an attitude, act distant and make a woman gain his trust. Because then he wouldn't get a fucking date. He would be deemed an asshole and so on. It takes weeks before a man is able to see it the girl he is dating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 05:45 AM
2	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists Guess what? Men couldn't vote unless they owned property either in EU. It was property owners who had the vote and the head of the Home was the voter since they were the ones Paying taxes. In the USA? Men couldn't vote unless they signed up for the draft. You know, that world war that happened while the feminist were at home safe? Women weren't paying taxes, so they didn't have a vote. Plus what does voting have to do with anything? What does women voting do today? Voting is nearly pointless bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 08:44 PM
1	Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases? Or perhaps look at the real women who actually lived as men and say the exact things I've said. Norah Vincent would say otherwise. She was treated poorly by women because they believed she was a man. When she told them she was a woman? They were nicer and more responsive to a relationship. Men have to perform. Even a simple task of walking up behind a woman in a sidewalk. Walk too close you're a threat. Walk too far and you're stalking. Walk too fast you're a threat. Walk fast enough to past her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:50 PM
4	Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases? While that's a nice thought. That's the last thing a man needs to do. The friendzone happens because the man is thinking like a woman. It happens based on what she says she wants. A woman can walk into a room and be welcomed and hugged by others. Men literally have to prove to everyone first they aren't killers. Men have to perform to bring comfort to those around him before even engaging in conversation. If he fails? He is a creep. Can be anything as simple as having tired eyes from working 80h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 05:26 PM
2	Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases? I personally learned from experience. (35). The madonna complex is real. It's a bit more difficult because like I mentioned society has gaslighted men. Imagine society as the wilderness. The most brutal and strong take all the spoils. All the messaging you see by women pacifies you. Makes you weak. While ironically women want men who are the opposite. Women do these to create an environment where they have power. But women still want a man who's able to dominate. So as a man you have to follow y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 05:18 PM
9	Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases? The friendzone happens when you decide to listen what women say they want versus what they actually do. You see this a ton with younger people in their 20s more so. As a man society and women gaslight you. You're constantly told that you wanting sex as a man makes you a creep. Makes you an asshole. Women want respect loyalty and commitment. Women will complain day and night about how they want men to actually get to know her and so on. So what do you do as a man young, naive and caring enough to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 04:28 PM
–	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists Because it was always women to this day that shame men. It was women who pushed the societal messages or women being emotionally superior than men. It was women that pushed the messages that women want flowers, pure intentions. It was women who marked men wanting sex as bad because sex should only be for those they love. That men are pigs for looking at swimsuit magazines. The entire new of men doing grand gestures of love was pushed by women. So when women have more power than ever to be equal,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 06:33 PM
–	Attraction cannot be quantified. Discuss. A large sum of money and large amounts of fame say otherwise 🙃	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 06:03 PM
18	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists This also comes from how women treat men when they are younger. Confidence comes from positive reinforcement. The hot guy in highschool had plenty of positive reinforcement so he was able to be confident. Just walking up to a woman and asking her to fuck was a liable strategy for him. No effort. The less attractive men were able to live in that world. Even if they did self approve and become more attractive later on, those early years are essential in building confidence. Which still doesn't mea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:52 PM
–	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists This is something Ive been trying to say forever. I always said that the "patriarchy" is the largest funded conspiracy theory in the west. The more you look at the current choices and actions of women today you start to see why the past why it was. A set of social norms that grew over time to ensure society would continue based on the behaviors of women. Unless equality was forced via slavery women wouldn't ever do the things needed like men do to keep society functioning. Men have been gaslight…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:43 PM
0	Does the Madonna complex cause relationships to get ruined? If she finds you attractive you're first message can literally be "wanna fuck?" And she will respond for hours on a dating app.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:38 AM
2	Does the Madonna complex cause relationships to get ruined? I had the same problem. Issue for me is I hate it when women perform their desires. It kills it for me because it feels soo faked or force. After awhile I feel like an asshole or that I'm using her for sex. As a man most of us are gaslighted constantly by women to not talk about sex. To not be sexual because we are assholes if we do because that's all we want. So if we do meet a woman we finally can indulge in that kind of stuff and she likes it. Well the other 99.9% of encounters that turned in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:28 AM
3	Would you sign a prenup where your husband would require that he gets a custody if you initiate a divorce without him being at fault My brother didn't get custody of his son when his wife cheated. She was in the Air Force and was over seas. My brother traveled everywhere with her to watch and care for his son. Then she got deployed in Asia somewhere. Came back 6 months later and wanted a divorce. My brother left with his son. And she was rewarded custody even tho he was the one caring for him. And she also didn't lose anything in divorce. Even tho she was the primary bread winner and my brother was in the position most women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 01:24 AM
-1	why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously? That's bias. Tunnel vision being shamed language for being focused. Men are able to hyper focus on a single task. Anyone with a real job knows being able to focus on a single craft leads to higher quality work. Vs not focusing leading to jack of all master of none. Every great mind was hyper focused and dedication to a single purpose. Hench why great monuments were created. Because men dedicated themselves to a single purpose. As for high stress? The highest stress jobs in the world are all 99% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 08:42 PM
5	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? Women and feminist are the ones calling men Incels. Not Incels. It's shaming language used to insult men. Look across the reddit post. You will see women insulting men as Incels. Not men proudly walking around saying it. And my point still stands you dolt. Women are shaming men for not having sex by calling them incels. While those same women are saying sex shouldn't matter or be used to determine a person's value. You can't fucking insult a man for wanting sex when you shame and insult him for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 06:27 PM
-1	why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously? You don't ask prey how to hunt. But the hunter has a better understanding of the pray than the prey does of the hunter. That simple. Men are logical. If something works that's what they do. If something doesn't work, the advice given doesn't work and the one giving the advice doesn't follow it... Why would men listen to it? Testosterone in the brain processes signals differently than estrogen. And when it comes to processing emotions, testosterone is quicker and more efficient. Hench the long ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 06:09 PM
-3	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? There is no getting to know a woman before proving yourself to her. You sound like a dolt. The very moment a man walks up to a woman he is judged by her. He has to invest money and time to talk to her. He has to to push forward to get a date. If he just sits around doing nothing he ends up in the friendzone or she will date another man. No man is going to waste time and money getting to know a woman who is constantly talking to and dating other men. So you expect a man to sit around getting to k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:57 PM
5	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? It was a term referring to being celibate involuntary. Women are the ones who say body count shouldn't matter and that sex shouldn't determine a man's value. And it's also women who say men just want sex. But it's women who literally use incel as an insult at men. Insulting men based on his ability to have sex by saying he doesnt have any. So it's women judging men in his ability to have sex to mark him as inferior. While at the same time saying sex shouldn't determine a person's value. So which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:51 PM
2	What do you have against men who have android phones instead of iPhones? Woman ghosted me after she saw my bubble wasn't the right color and mentioned it. So yes it's real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:06 PM
1	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? When women who are 4/10 refuse to date men below a 8/10. And 3/5 men haven't had sex in a year. It has nothing to do with men sleeping around. 80%+ of women are all sleeping with the same 5-10% of men. Mind you the term incel literally insults men for not having sex. So you can't blame men wanting to experience intimacy more than once a year. Then at the same time insult them for not having sex as inferior. Which is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:02 PM
0	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? Because men have to invest and pay to prove themselves to even get a date with a woman before ever getting to see those red flags. Women literally just sit there and pick the bad dudes because of his red flags. Which man is going to be smoother with words with women? The man who sleeps around or the man with a good job who studies a ton? A man can't tell when his gf will cheat on him or have a bi polar attack until after he has dated her a few times and got to finally see her medicine cabinet. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 04:55 PM
7	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. This is so off beat. Here's the reality. Men spend their entire life being gaslighted by women. Constantly told to treat them like equals. And as a man the moment you look at women as equal. Hold them to the same standards and accountability to themselves, society and their futures you quickly see it's all nonsense. Literally expecting the same of women when it comes to loyalty, respect and effort is a literal hate crime in today's world. Wanting women to be skillful and talented and smart inste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 03:58 PM
0	CMV: women have gotten so used to poor treatment, many don't know how to respond when treated well Women do not like simps. That simple. Women like status. Money, power, fame are all things that come from a status. Having status is how women compete with other women. Instagram is the battleground of status for women. When women marry a dude of status she often uses it as her own like she accomplished something. So your question. Why do women like men who treat them poorly? Because men of status have options. She has options. Treating her well is what simps do. Women don't like simps. Simps ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 11:43 PM
2	So should 20-25 year olds be trying to only date 35+ men? 35 male here. 25 is the lowest for anything long term. Casual dating or fun or whatever. Sure. Whatever. But I have zero faith in any woman under 25 not cheating or wasting my time with games. But what it she's super driven and we both have compatible skills/goals and she ends up sticking around and pulling her own weight? I would allow it. But I ain't looking for it or holding my breath. 23-24 is pushing it way to much. I would be super annoyed.26-28 is a better range. 30-34 is pushing it just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 11:36 PM
–	What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating? Women demand to be on the same level as men. So men let down a ladder for them. Women climb up it and complain that you aren't higher than her. If you do climb up more women get mad and demand you set up another ladder for her. And repeat until she climbs up higher than you. Then she burns bridges behind her and belittles you for not being on her level. After she falls down she then develops empathy. And guilts you into sharing what you have with her. And when you give it to her? She then leaves…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 09:51 PM
12	It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something. If a woman has one drink. But buys you 30 drinks, drives you to her place. Ties you up. Has sex with you. And the next day regrets it. The man is a rapist. It's stupid logic. When women do these things. The lies I mean. It's a form of power / forcing reality to be how she wants it to be. Men shrug off a bad hookup and go on with their lives. But women have power being a victim. It's called Cry Bullying. And it's a real problem. The higher status you are as a man the worst these victims get. And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 09:31 PM
1	“80% of women date 20% of men” is BS Dating and Marrying are two different things. Women will date a loser for a few weeks or hookup. But the longer term becomes a smaller % of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 05:41 AM
–	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. My Ex tried this shit. Turns out 99% of the mess was hers. I cooked for myself and cleaned as i cooked. Everything was dried and put away Before I started eating. I did my laundry and put it all away. I kept my areas clean and everyday would reset things back to where they were before the next day. Including the dog toys and bedding. I didnt use the living room and my office / work / project room was always clean because at the end of the day I put everything back. I washed the carpets biweekly.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 05:37 AM
3	Women have a tendency to victimize themselves by framing past relationships that didn't work out as involving "manipulation" or "abuse" When the Only Fans bubble pops you are going to find MANY more unable to accept their choice of being an Online Prostitute and they were all "Victims".	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:40 AM
3	Women have a tendency to victimize themselves by framing past relationships that didn't work out as involving "manipulation" or "abuse" Women will ALWAYS do that. She will always be both a victim and empowered at the same time. Its a lack of accountability and society unwilling to punish women for their behavior. You often hear that girls mature quicker than boys. Her body might. But honestly most women dont age mentally past 16 until she reaches her mid 30s or 40s. You see this when women start looking into "hobbies", Yoga, Meditation and shit. Develop an ego about how mature she is now and doesnt have time in her life for nega…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:38 AM
5	Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a woman As a dude. When I lived my GF. She never had to cook. I cleaned after myself. I did my own laundry. The issue? Dudes like us have a disciplined mindset. So we clean as we cook. We clean up areas after we use them. And we treat every area of the home with a purpose. Women who complain about doing those things generally have messy kitchens, messy bathrooms. Leave everything dirty til later until it takes an entire day to clean up. You complain about cooking. Then you will complain about eating the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:04 AM
1	"Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beings There is a difference between being useless and being dead weight. If a dude has his shit together he wants someone who supports him and to grow with him. Dating a loser gf who just drains his bank account. Gets in his way and literally holds him back by getting mad at him for going to the gym or studying while at the same time demanding him to have the status to begin with is a chore. Women don't seem to get this. They demand the world of men. Men want like 3 things from women while women want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 08:45 PM
0	"Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beings Agree. Honestly if we judged women's lives like we did men you would quickly see women are losers on that same merit. Watching Netflix and social media isn't a hobby. Consuming content and entertainment in public isn't any different. Women waste money on the most useless shit. Women just react to things and demand more things to react to so she can take photos for Instagram. Waste thousands traveling to a place, react to a view of some trees. Then go home without any knowledge or skill gained. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 07:36 PM
1	Western Women are the luckiest What progress is that? In every country that claims to be equal Women arent taking the jobs required to be equal and are actually pulling away from fields like STEM. Every attempt at equality and progress for Men is beaten down by women. Alimony, DNA testing a birth, Draft. Women groups keep fighting things. You cant have a society where Women can pick and choose the benefits of what they want. While at the same time force men to stay in their roles. Even the women who claim to be liberal and fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 02:02 AM
–	Do you think there’s a lack of good men? No there isnt. The issue is many women SAY they want a relationship. When they dont. Being in a relationship is about having goals, building a life and moving forward. Youre a team, you took an oath to one another. To most women thats work they dont want to actually put in. How many people have you met that say they want to go to the gym, learn a new thing or go to school. But they dont. They drink, party and have no real reason to grow up. Women do this constantly. Women say one thing to save f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 01:50 AM
–	The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotaging A Good Option vs a BAD fun option. Its referring to positive influences vs Bad ones on your future. A Good man will be emotionally supportive, loving and stable. A Calm easy life that grows and builds. A Bad man will be fun. Lead to drugs, drinking and time wasted. Good for a quick dopamine hit. But in the end you are damaged and unable to really build a healthy relationship after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 01:38 AM
–	The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotaging Exactly. The issue with being a Good guy is the fact you are working harder for what shes giving out and has always given out for free. Women have pushed for society to brainwash men for decades by pushing these love stories onto them. Teaching men to be good Husbands and providers. It was always women pushing the idea of love before sex because she wants a real connection. She wants love and effort. And what did she do to all those men who lived by those ideals? She cheated on and used all them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 01:34 AM
1	Isn't one of the other factors behind the current dating crisis also somewhat that we're living in a culture of arrested development? Even the most hedonistic and adventurous of relationships, still require sacrifice and responsibility, which is antithesis to our umbribled hedonism and escapism The way I see it. The current state of things is mostly a woman's problem. Women demanded to be equal, but refuse to take on the accountability that comes with. The roles and resources those roles has for men to perform those roles has been cut in half. Jobs men would have are now filled with women. Which literally cuts resources off from men. Same with education and so on. But at the same time women still expect men to do the same if not much more with less available to them. Instead of women t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:32 AM
5	Cake and eat it too? Remove alimony and divorce laws that simple. Those accuse men of cheating up front do they not? Jamaica made paternity test mandatory for a reason. Because cheating was crazy high. You can't have laws that force men to raise other men's children when a woman cheats. By that stupid logic women should have to pay for children a man has when he cheats. And go to prison if she refuses to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:00 AM
–	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. I've seen this first hand. The worst part is women demand you to take them seriously, put effort in and build a connection. But will ditch you without a moments notice over any little thing. Even if that thing is you putting in effort. It's a huge issue because you can't take anyone seriously. Her words mean jack shit. Her wants and needs mean nothing. There's nothing there but a waste of time and money. She just drops you with no notice. Even when you didn't do anything. She doesn't like your b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 07:04 PM
17	Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them? I was raped as a kid. It was a woman. And I was stuck with her for over a month because my mom was in jail and left me in her care. At 5 years old. You have zero clue what you are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:57 PM
15	Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them? There's research that's harder to find. At one time it was actually linked to a site that had all the stats side by side. Was a great resource for this stuff. The study showed that little boys were actually raped more than girls. Little girls might have gotten more attention. But boys were pushed into sex more. 47% of the rapist were women. Which is nearly half/half ratio. The main reason you don't see these stats is because it goes against the Bias that women don't do bad things. Most of the cr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:54 PM
–	Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serious Dating was pretty straight forward about 15-20 years ago. Outside of the obvious hook ups at clubs,bars,concerts and festivals. Dating was as simple as asking her out. Going on a date. Then go on another date and taking the time to get to know each other. Women didn't date multiple guys. It was pretty forward that you were exclusive after a few dates or had sex. If it didn't work out? You try again with someone else. That way you weeded people out quicker by focusing on one. Vs today where you s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 04:51 PM
–	Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women? Jealous. Flat out. When men give younger men advice it's always to help men NOT make the same mistakes they made. When women give women advice? It's to make the same mistakes, if not worst. Older women are not looking out for younger women. Just like women. In the west aren't looking out for foreign women when men go over seas to look for wives. Those same women dated older men when they were younger. Who do you think is paying for all these younger women's OF accounts? Who do you think pays the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 02:44 AM
2	CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women. ...how stupid is this. It cost you $45 to hold your child when it's born. How is adding $20 to the bill that is mandatory an issue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 07:00 PM
-5	Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness. Wrong. The real problem is women don't speak the fuck up. Women like to act like the exception defined the rule. Go over to the lesbian sub. The issues men have with women are shared over there as well. It's a women problem. Women can't seem to comprehend that men base their actions on logic, results. Meaning there is a large proven pool of experience and data to prove that. This is what the patriarchy is. A set of social norms based on what worked and allowed society to move forward. Women coma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 06:57 PM
-2	Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness. The real truth is. Everything you ever read, heard or seen in society about women being caring emotional and good. Has always been a lie. The reality is the reverse. Men are the deeper ones. Men are the more caring ones. Men are the romantic ones. Men are the loving ones. And men's feelings are shown to all. Women, children, men. Yet for some reason we are all taught the exact opposite. Women are much more shallow than men. Women don't care about anyone but themselves the majority of the time.wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 06:36 PM
1	JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat) Fame/Status is the Highest thing you can have to attract a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 06:08 AM
0	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? Women hate doing ANY kind of emotional Labor or ANY kind of labor for the men in their lives. This is also proved in research showing that Mothers react negatively to her SON expressing emotion VS her daughter. While the father treated both children the same. ( In Canda a very Liberal country ). This same mindset is show whenever a woman becomes the breadwinner. Both can have the same income but the moment she makes more, even if its a $5k Raise. The wife looks down on the husband and begins to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 05:44 AM
2	Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable? The secret to women is to understand they go through the world acting like a Karen asking for a manager. Meaning if she acts like a victim society will do whatever she wants. This is why women are awful with power. And the reason feminism doesn't work. Without forced drafted equality women will never learn accountability. The type of experience needed to grow up. Women will take advantage of dates. Act like a victim of something wrong. Then expect you to still pay. On repeat, multiple men. Then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 12:42 AM
-1	No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with. Funny being I have a wife and two GFs. ( wifes idea ).Guess what? The Exception doesnt define the rule. For every woman Not like that there are 1,000 more who are.Just like how magically there are thousands upon thousands of grown womenscreaming for underage justin bieber. Screaming for team edward a story of a 100 year old pedo stalking a little girl in school. Actions speak louder than words. Marketing and capitalism knows this. With women holding 80% of consumer debt AKA credit cards. Twice a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 06:39 AM
1	No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with. I think most of Womens standards and the issues you see pertaining to that is a self-inflicted circle jerk. Women were given the rights and freedoms, and their first response is to abuse the power without any self-reflection. You would think with all the knowledge and tech. Philosophy and access to education and history. All the studies of women being emotionally superior with their ability express feelings and empathy. We would see women doubling down on loyalty, dignity and peace and pushing s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 04:36 AM
1	Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives? When given testosterone treatment men tended to become more right leaning. Left has become increasing female. With the majority of the messaging being "men are bad and toxic" Left leaning women seem to complain about not finding suitable male partners. Because men on the left don't show the same qualities men on the right do. The whole being a provider and protector and being family oriented becoming more important to women as they age. Things feminist scream are sexist to men on their side. Men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 02:39 AM
2	Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable family Idk where you are located but that's a lie. Depending on the age group changes that even more. As a man myself who's spent most of his 20s trying to build a relationship with women. I released later on in my 30s I'd rather stay single. Sure I may be "anti social". But that simple means I don't rely on the attention of others to be secure in myself. I'd rather work on the qualities that make me more attractive. Than rot away having a woman drain my resources and time dry. I'd found that most wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 07:56 PM
6	Ever notice how it's always AI girlfriends in the news? Why not AI boyfriends? And society actively tries to keep men from using their advantages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 07:51 PM
2	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? You shouldn't look to keep your options open when dating. There is a difference between a blind coffee date and an actual date after weeks of talking. Women don't like to actually make choices and realize they benefit from just blindly letting men pay for dates and take them out. Dating becomes a hobby rather than a goal of finding a relationship. If i go on a date. I already found her attractive. I already am interested in her. And 98% of the choice is already made. Dating is just to find out h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 10:27 PM
1	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? This is true and it's how women accomplish things. They complain and demand everyone else around them to solve the issue for them. You actually see this in politics. The right leans towards a male viewpoint of less government. More self accountability. Doing it yourself and being able to use the power of the position you worked towards. And more men vote right. Even when tested giving men testosterone treatment. They were more likely to change from left to right. And when you look at the left. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 10:20 PM
1	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? Dating happens leading into a relationship. Even those who date still shuffle though multiple men before picking one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:51 PM
1	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? Or maybe you need to grow up and spend more time being an adult with an objective fact at reality. Your brain isn't even finished developing. The very fact women struggle at dating when they literally just have to exist speaks volumes. A 12 year old boy does better at spotting a good man than a 30 year old woman. And those facts come from women themselves. You don't see obese men. Fat faced with eyes sinking into their eye sockets. Gut sticking out. Can't breathe. Arms looking like infected saus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:50 PM
2	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? Depends on the dude and what she's wanting at the time. Women will literally reject you for wanting a serious relationship. She wants to keep her options open and have fun. Then decides she wants a serious relationship. And now you're the asshole for not committing to her on her schedule. She will hookup with a guy twice. Then demand a relationship. Or even tell other people she's dating them when they aren't. AND this from women who literally screw around rejecting everyone with excuses because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:44 PM
4	CMV : Women have become introspective about their dating dynamics with men, but ironically over the wrong thing I see the opposite. It's no different than astrology. Many of these new ideas women use to judge their dates becoming increasing superficial. Ask Norah Vincent.....oh wait. If anything there's a large influx of demanding more instead of self accountability and reflection. You see liberal women demanding men to be liberal while at the same time confirming to male gender roles and images. Pretty much trying to cherry pick men's emotions to be whatever women want at any given time based on her own …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:34 PM
1	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? The majority of men in his 20s do date seriously. And the more seriously you date the Less dates you get from women. The only men who don't date seriously in his 20s are men all the other women are chasing. If a man has 6 baby mamas. No job and is hot. He will get more dates than a college graduated man with a job no baby mamas. Proof is the fact he has 6 baby mamas. And each woman knew that and still made that choice. But swiped right on all the other dudes. If I told anyone I was dating with i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:03 PM
7	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? And it's those same older women who wouldn't bother with you when she was younger. Women expect to have all the fun and privilege all her life. But men are denied fun most of his life. And now when your older they expect you to still not have any fun because she should be entitled to what you built.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:58 PM
2	Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them? The only complaints I see when it comes to the age gap is from older women. I myself when I hit 35 found myself getting dates and interest from women 20-25 regularly. But when I myself was 20-25 I wouldn't get any dates. I spent most of my 20s single because of that. I've dated women older than myself now and they get mad at me for dating women 2-3 years younger than me. And women who rejected me back in my 20s are extra rude when rejected because I don't want to be with them now after they reje…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:55 PM
5	CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin ice The labor at home never accounts for the work men do around the house. Fixing things, carrying things and so on. And it leaves out the amount of work men had to do to prove themselves in the courting process. Most women divorce because of feelings. She isn't being entertained enough. Which again isn't a man's job to give his wife purpose in life. Notice how when men give women a purpose in life and in the relationship with clear goals and focus. And women seem it bad. But when men allow women to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:40 PM
1	What's wrong with average men? Average means the norm. Not under or lacking of anything. When a dude wants an average girl she isn't ugly. She isn't over the top either. The Shire from LOTR is a good image of average. The idea that average is negative comes from a position of power and privilege. So if 10 women rate themselves a "10". That would make them average. With #10 being the average. 10 x 10 = 100. 100/10 is 10. So the entire point of #10 being above average is negated if they are all 10. Ironically these are the same…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:36 PM
0	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. I agree with this 100%. Why? Because I'm still growing out of the mindset that was pushed onto me growing up. I still feel bad whenever I try to be selfish or judge women on the same merits I as a man have always been judged for. Even when it comes to sex. Women have no problem using me for it and openly admitting to booty calling me. But I myself feel awful for just using any woman for sex. I hold myself to a standard of actually caring or willing to try to build a relationship with women I'm h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:38 PM
1	Men are disingenuous in the dating market Honestly I dont see the issue? Women want Attention and Validation. Men want some form of Intimacy. Women use dating apps, social media and life to get their fill of it at any time without effort. But men? Mens basic needs arent met at all. Men easily go months, Years. And if they get a one night stand? it took a ton of work prior to get it. Can you blame men for "just wanting sex" when they are starved from all other forms of love in general? Sex is generally the first form of love they can get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 05:50 AM
4	Modern Western societies are still very traditionalist, but only when it comes to the views on men. Women on the left Want the traditional man. But can't get past the fact that those men are on the Right. Its always a case of those women being unable to give up their power to be with those men. And the men on the left that are an option, She doesnt respect. Or she will make them weak and thus what she doesnt want. It's a case of social programming putting women in the role of leader that they don't want. But don't want to admit it. They want a man to be a man and lead, but do everything in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 05:38 AM
2	Modern Western societies are still very traditionalist, but only when it comes to the views on men. Look at the word "Manchild" and how common its used even by those who are "Liberal". At its core you get what? A man who hasnt dedicated his life into serving the needs of one woman and building a family. Prior it was considered a "Bachelor". But now with a shaming twist added to it. But you notice the same concept isnt as common or ever used? A 'Womanchild". But the same logic would be a woman who hasnt dedicated herself to one Man and building a family. So why dont you see that term used? Noti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 05:31 AM