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It boosts their ego too much, and I won’t have it 🤣 I just remember why we broke up, he would’ve behaved better if he still wanted some type of relationship with me. Also, staying friends prolongs the time to heal and it’s not fair to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:32 PM
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If you have stocks or other assets I would 🤫. You two aren’t married, it’s not his business and might give him courage to sponge off your hard work. I don’t even tell who I’m with that I have stocks, jic they ask me to teach them (I’m not trying to build them up before they proved themselves)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:48 AM
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No it’s the perfect time to start looking. I wouldn’t worry. Every woman would tell you relationships in your early 20s was a waste. They have nothing to offer you. At least some have careers now so there’s that. Tbh they won’t really get serious until their late 20s I enjoy my time alone because I know once the right guy comes things will go fast. And I better not get cold feet lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:41 PM
1

Omg I cut him (the guy I was seeing) some slack because yeah, it was a difficult transition time but he got used to not showing effort and I now believe it was just an excuse. Your are only two months in, but it’s up to you if you want to weather it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:15 PM
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Tbh I would prepare to move on. Been there done that. It’s fine when it’s the beginning and there are no problems but over time it will take a toll because you can’t solve problems the same way, you will never be able to hug it out etc. I would never go into a long distance again let’s put it that way. Alsooo there’s a post on here about long distance. There’s an issue where men do this because they don’t actually have to put in work like you would in a normal relationship. Calling and texting a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:55 PM
11

Omg same! The idea of being with him forever scared me too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:16 PM
14

Yeahhh. Happened to me. I was so caught up whether or not we were going on the right direction and if he saw me as someone that he’d want to spend his life with, until I was like wait a minute... do I even want him for the rest of my life? The answer was no lmao The fear it struck in me to think that this man couldn’t really handle stress or responsibility and how he’d probably be completely useless in the household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:14 PM
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It was a weird message as well. Women can’t have a good marriage and a career? Or was it saying that we need to remember to have balance in life. Either way I was annoyed too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:22 AM
11

Her husband in this movie annoyed me so much. He was a huge man baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:30 AM
4

I recommend seeing the movie John Tucker Must Die. It’s a chick flick, but it’s about two women who are being cheated on gang up on the guy to make his life miserable. It’s a funny movie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:29 AM
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I guess there are lots of ways to see it. She was a pickme, also manipulative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:52 PM
8

Remember “Pole” aka Paul? That dude was weird but the apple definitely didn’t fall far from the tree. When he left to Brazil his mom gave him a ball of her hair to take with him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:03 AM
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Girl let me tell you a funny story. About 5 years ago some guy that wanted to date me mentioned he like to be spoiled (lmao just smite me) I was just like nope, nah, never happening. I think I actually wished him good luck in finding that and I ghosted him weeks later. Fast forward to 2019 and I see him single, eating with his buddies at some restaurant while I was walking by holding hands with my boo (who actually liked picking up the tab and agreed to spoil me) Dude! like I wanted to laugh bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:08 AM
3

I know right! I just hauled 3 bags and a cute dress and I’m thinking like, wow that was easy. No lvm could do better than me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:01 AM
4

Who’s even out there buying ps5s for their dude? I’m confused lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:59 AM
1

Huh interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:39 AM
1

Can I ask? Where do you go that you get a good sample size of rich and dusties at the same time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:31 AM
3

I agree, your style has a lot to do with it. I also avoid looking trendy. In my experience, dusties still look at me but I can tell in their face they know they don’t have a chance (the face someone makes when they want to say something but they don’t) I remember these popular twin Youtubers were talking about only the ghetto men like huge elephant asses and busts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:28 AM
3

Mm I always assumed the “average girl” could be a pickmeisha for the same reason you hardly see 2 hot people together: they are used to being catered to by the opposite sex. So they bump heads simply because they are both expecting the other to go above and beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:24 AM
1

As the saying goes, I hope she gets picked lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:22 PM
3

Libfem era 100% Don’t blame you, the brainwash was everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:54 AM
1

Can I just assume something? Are you from the millennial generation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:51 AM
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On the first comment I was like okay... and then I saw it was a whole ass thread. I’m not even relishing on it, I’m just like c’mon girl really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:48 AM
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I know right! That was the first thing that came to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:47 AM
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Even if he gave her a ring pop they would still go all in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:46 AM
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Its sad that she veiled her anger with a light hearted "tee hee" the proposal was bad. An even then you have a scrote saying oh you are entitled/every woman would kill to be in your shoes/he spent his a lot of his hard earned money (she never said how much the ring was). This is the problem, they actually think that we are dying to be married to them. barf no thank you, you basic zvm! ​ EDIT: omg that comment was made by a pickme. She reveals that her husband made a subpar proposal as well (it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:43 AM
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Its even funnier when they use the motto "shes not yours, its just your turn" Im like okay dude, keep playing yourself. Obviously red pill is super unstable that even they know every woman will walk out at some point. But I guess its just cope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:31 AM
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Them along with red pill don’t have our same definition to hvm. Red pill thinks an hvm (or high smv man) is a stone cold stoic plate spinner lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:08 PM
9

Tbh it’s been a long 20 years. I feel like it will dry up this century
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:49 PM
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Yup, we can agree that about the same amount of women and men are single but who is loudest about being alone? Hint: not women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:27 PM
14

Girlll I know my ex wanted to say those type of things to threaten me (just the way his texts were edited and you can tell they were choppy like he erased it partially and wrote something different). But he knew I would agree 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:18 PM
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Yeah let him take you on dates and properly court you and then when you had enough....NEXT! Unless you feel like you would fall for it, in that case... just stop answering him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:29 PM
9

Another one bites the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:18 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:04 AM
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Yeah don’t bless him with convo. He should’ve acted right when he had the chance. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:58 AM
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Not only sex. Could be emotional labor, he’s lonely or just the ego boost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:52 AM
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Remember that you don’t owe him conversation. He should’ve acted right when he had the chance if he wanted to still be in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:42 AM
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It’s going to be hard, no one said fds was easy. But later down the line you will feel proud that you walked when you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:39 AM
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I’m more on the conservative side so I tend to get the future fakers. They know I’m not going to do a fwb and or a casual short term relationship so they say they are serious, but do his actions show the same thing? Nope! Fortunately there are little milestones that you can gauge whether or not he’s just talking out of his ass. Last ex tried to hold on to me by saying we could live together maybe some day (notice the maybe and the arbitrary time line?) AFTER we split. Sorry, I’m not that despera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:32 AM
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I guarantee you he will start to call you at some point. We’re on a keto diet now sis, no more carbs 🍞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:30 AM
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Don’t start 😂 that hi key triggered me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:17 AM
3

Unfortunately they somehow rationalize that relationships are fine in their rhetoric. So one more idiot group to dodge I suppose. They were never going their own way, they were sent their way lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:16 AM
4

This drawing makes me laugh because you can see the bags under his eyes from watching porn all night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:14 AM
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Also there are shorter timeline events that you can check up on such as how long have you been together vs have you met his friends, family do you just in general feel close to him as you would an old friend etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:40 PM
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🤔 I don’t know about female friends. We are different from men, we can make a new guy friend and have no bad motives or feelings. Them on the other hand 👀 just notice how they all say man and women can’t be friends. Idk sis. The only exception was if it was a couples friend group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:37 PM
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Well he did go to the school of hard knocks 🤔top of his class I presume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:28 PM
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Hm probably a future faker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:26 PM
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I’ve seen more and more of these tik toks being posted by young women. Get ready for the future scrotes, you won’t be able to use these tired ass tactics you used on my generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:24 PM
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Showing off? Just ew what a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:43 AM
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Did he expect you to comfort him? lmao into the bin you go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:45 AM
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I wish we could have a counter for how many dusties have been left in the dust this year #kickhimout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:35 AM
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Glad I didn’t see, would’ve gotten super triggered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:23 PM
3

Must of hit a nerve because that was perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:17 PM
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Low effort basically, we don’t entertain that sort of thing here. Before I left my lvm he slacked over time and sometimes he would open a convo with “hey,wyd, etc” left him on read because those don’t deserve a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:36 AM
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Let me tell you, this will get worse. I agree with the other ladies, take this time to distance yourself and get ready to leave. He showed that he isn’t willing to put in the effort. A similar thing happened to me where he knew he should be doing more, he did it for the first month and then back to no communication. It’s not worth it, you will get more attached over time and you will also start to resent him more and more. I was so much happier when I left. In both scenarios of being with him or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:31 AM
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Dudeeeee if they only knew what we actually looked like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:11 AM
5

Note to self: if I earn a large inheritance, keep that to myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:44 PM
3

The mad libs had me dead 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:47 PM
10

If a guy says it I’m thinking, yes I know but you probably think that of anyone. If a girl says it, I’m beaming the rest of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:00 PM
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Nope. This is up there with that movement in the 2010’s where we were supposed to be sensitive to men and not use the phrase “man up”. Does anyone remember that? Let’s bring that back cause they really do need to man up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:54 PM
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No that’s too hard, just watch porn instead - pornbrain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:52 PM
13

I worked for a few months and got a similar return lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:45 PM
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It’s like they figured out that the moment women can hold property and a job we will no longer put up with their bs and it’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:37 PM
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Girl. I don’t even need to read past the first sentences. #kickhimout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:52 PM
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Oh my word. He is definitely talking to other women on kik. It’s notorious for sexting tbh and online distance relationships. I would dump. I didn’t even know what this app was until I found my ex on it. He super denied that he was on it until I found him lmao Also the guy you are seeing probably has a girlfriend/wife. His excuse makes no sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:43 PM
2

Honestly I’m a so bored of them making sex comments on everything. I can’t scroll on the front page without seeing one. Reddit is literally the lvm hall of fame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:35 PM
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Sending him a photo of the milkshakes would be completely savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:04 PM
14

Not looking too bright is an understatement lmao Even now they are pretty loud about not having women. For every single man there is about 1.5 single women yet you hardly hear a peep from us. They were pretty much doomed the moment we were able to work and own our own property. They were able to use manipulation and social constructs to keep us accepting low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:14 AM
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Fortunately, if they are being thrown away early enough, “games until it isn’t” wouldn’t be such a threat since we will be long gone by then 🏃‍♀️💨 🧎‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:23 AM
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Love it. The new generation of young women is going to be savage! Not like the hardcore lib fem sex positive generation I had to go through. Literally rolled my eyes through the whole thing but unfortunately a lot of women fell victim. Not anymore 🙌 I love how lvms always say we are fat and ugly but every time we see a video of a woman preaching fds they are above average by far lmao stay mad scrotes 😹 I can foresee porn sickness going to an all time high (even higher than now) since they won’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:18 AM
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I bet she felt empowered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 08:22 PM
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A lvm can not magically turn into an hvm. If he does so for a woman, just know it fleeting. He might walk the walk and talk the talk BUT they always revert after he thinks he’s locked her down. An hvm would not string along a woman, his time is just as valuable as hers. Just how exes ask for a second chance, they might be good for awhile but they always return. Because being high value takes a lot of effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:07 PM
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He’s still in high school, so still a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:07 PM
42

Wtf! Literally just smite me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:54 AM
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Ex lvm had his for 3 years after they broke up. He told me he deleted them after we got together.. yeah um thanks I guess 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:08 PM
3

Yes, wherever you work with children or government (security clearance) don’t throw it away for some scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:06 PM
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Literally all about power. He could easily pull up any one of his porn sick websites but somehow that was better even if it’s the same parts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:02 PM
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Meh, I don’t see a reason to. If you stay friends you still give him access to your attention etc. If he wanted you in his life he should have treated you better. Put you first, he doesn’t add value to your life so so don’t feel sorry for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:36 PM
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I knew I’d get this comment. Fair enough, but I have seen guys write like this when I went to high school. They definitely had the tools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:17 AM
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Also, don’t date these guys who don’t speak proper English. It’s super low class, don’t give your babies these genetics please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:11 PM
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😂 girl you did not have to go in that hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:28 PM
12

I feel bad for women residing in those countries, nvm/zvm men just literally funnel to their area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:15 PM
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They are probably aware. I can’t even imaging having to deal with a porn sick child what world do we live in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:11 PM
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Yup, I remember boys watching this in class in middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:08 PM
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That’s a good question , there was a post on here you can still find that talks about the probability of man willing to settle down so you can gauge if you are wasting your time. For example, a guy you dating in high school is very likely not to be your future husband- waste of time and energy. College graduate, 26-28 yrs and has lived on his own for some years? He probably is more serious than a 30 year old man who is still doing his residency. (I think the post is called something like: Why do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:59 PM
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I say it’s a red flag, theyve been talking for weeks and he can’t make a commitment? Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:08 AM
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😂I was about to say, where is all this good dick they speak of 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:41 AM
2

They are afraid tbh. If every lvm/zvm/nvm were dumped, almost all men would be single. There have been so many posts here where women here ended up dumping theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:12 PM
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I’m more on the middle ground. He has to have lived one his own and there should be and engagement with wedding date. Living In is perfect bait for a future faker. Ex lvm dangled that’s above my head so he can string me along for longer, didn’t work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:40 AM
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Negging. Block and move on. Feeble attempts that are straight from the lvm rulebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:28 AM
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Omg I’ve only had 1 guy do it right. And it was pure insinuation. Otherwise 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:24 AM
1

Nope no just no. I don’t do charity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:20 AM
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Before I read the whole post I was like watch, he’s going to add her back. Different lvm, same story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:16 AM
1

I caught that too, also she wouldn’t say she wants to be spoiled. We quietly see how he reacts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:54 PM
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We have awoken! From the deep slumber we call the feminist wave of the 2000s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:42 PM
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It’s pretty bad now and I can’t even think how bad it is for her generation. If I can throw in my one piece that I felt was a very positive thing for me was to wait until adult hood to commit to a man (bf/gf). You may want to talk to her about that possibility, just throw it out there see what she thinks. She can get to know boys and truly see what they are about without putting herself under emotional risk. I realized that If I would’ve dated when I was in college and god forbid high school 😦I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:29 AM
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Girl I literally said the same thing the other day. I’m way too zen to try and be with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:46 AM
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What helps is knowing that it doesn’t matter who you are, they are lvm, they did and will do the same to the last women and the next. Also, see: scrotation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:26 PM
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Don’t you love when they don’t tell you the whole truth? Definitely try to get as much truth out of them as to why their ex left 🤦‍♀️ but probably of little use since they usually ultra scrub the story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:22 PM
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A lot of the times they hate us cause they can’t have us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:08 PM
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In a sense in the beginning it was good for me to see the different examples of how men can be lvm but after awhile (even now I resist to look at this sub for too long) it becomes too much. Like I just become utterly disgusted by men. There is so much good content here but the fact that its so easy to find examples how a lot men are subpar, unfortunately it becomes the main thing being posted. This is also the reason I say away from r/relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:20 PM
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I’ll bet you my life savings it’s directly related to his low effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:40 AM
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I was thinking about this the other day: Remember the old joke that sex stops after marriage, and implies the woman doesn’t want to have sex anymore since she already “trapped” him and the deed is done? The dead bedroom sub scares me so much because the moment you marry you can see that lvms can turn into nvm or possibly hvm to lvm. Makes sense why FDS preaches that you must learn to walk at a moments notice. You can read on this sub that they complain about their fee fees all day but in reality…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:36 AM
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I felt the same. I was ready to see someone else soon after. But at the same time I was way too zen to want to risk potential lvm. Like yes you can cut them off quick but it just lowers morale, I’m way happier just being. Slight feeling of loneliness or hornyness here and there doesn’t even hold a candle to what lvm can put you through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:47 PM
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I did the same. I hear men take a year plus to get over us and it took me one week. However, I did cry a lot during the relationship and literally knew it was game over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:34 PM
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It’s funny because they try to make it seem like they have the upper hand. Red pill purely based on manipulation tactics to make it seem that way. Mgtow is pure cope that men can live without women comfortably. Men fundamentally need us. It’s the reason why women would rather be alone than with a trash man, while on the other hand they will take anything because they know it’s better than nothing (forever gfs,least likely to initiate breakup/divorce) I always get this random flashback from eleme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:47 PM
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I’m actually worried they are going to try to find her personal social media and go all 4chan on it. Can’t trust these scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:25 PM
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ALl fDs usErs aRe JUSt pOSt wALl uGLIes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:23 PM
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I just came back from reading this. It’s so disgusting how she’s like teehee he got me there 🤡 like is he a child that he needs to be entertained like this? And the comments equally nauseating “ well he found a loophole hardy har har” just stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:09 AM
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That’s so crazy. Never heard of that one, it’s like you become immortal in his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:19 AM
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There’s perks to this. If he hasn’t been sexually active at all in any form, health wise you are safe. I just have to say careful that he isn’t out there trying to lose his v card ASAP. But if he’s been displaying hvm qualities and you’ve been following fds, I wouldn’t be too worried since you know more or less what to look out for. I don’t see any red flags in anything you mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:12 AM
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I wouldn’t worry about them using this against us. If fds is followed to the T it will be hard for them to get by even if they read this sub everyday. It’s just too much effort to duplicate, and that’s the whole reason they were lvm in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:53 PM
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I was not prepared to read that last sentence 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 09:50 AM
2

Right!?? I felt the same. Like a big black energy got removed from my back. When I started to wake up zen, I was like wow never felt better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:05 PM
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If there is anything this sub taught me is to remember that You really can’t pickmeisha your way out of problems. Being more understanding, patient, more accommodating would not work, men literally take it and run. Don’t blame yourself about the “not giving him space”. I did the opposite of what you did and man did that backfire, we became more distant and made it so much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:54 PM
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I like the part where you mention giving him too much leg room. That’s one of my problems I’m way too lenient with everyone. Give him some leg space and he will literally man spread very single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:30 PM
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And it’s funny that at the same time the constantly put black women’s appearance down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:49 PM
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I know right? Remember the whole movement of getting people to stop telling a man to just “man up”? Gosh we really need that back. Some men do not know how to be men. I’m tired of having the stronger back bone/bigger balls. I had the same moment, I was just like I really don’t believe in you anymore. I really don’t believe you can be/do anything lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:47 PM
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Some girls do it for attention others it’s intimacy when you guys have to be apart for a long time. All I know is 100% risk and 0% reward. They ruined it for themselves , we ain’t doing that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:46 AM
2

That’s true but I only suggested because someone said to do it where she’s protected. JIC I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:42 AM
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I also suggest waiting an arbitrary time frame as he might put 2 and 2 together based on the timing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:39 PM
6

Girl like I’m so tired of the “I didn’t mean it”,no you baboon, you said what you meant but didn’t like the consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:34 PM
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This is all terrifying. You know how the old trope goes with women withholding sex after marriage? That just got me thinking. Right after marriage, they probably showed even more lvm qualities or possibly turned into a nvm (lvm/nvm definitely know how to dry up a vagina). Leading to all the sex stopping in in the relationship. It’s scary because you really do need to know how to walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:00 PM
5

Honestly I would be too BIG mad to do that, im the walk out now type of gal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:23 AM
3

GIRL! Say this louder! Sadly I can relate but atleast I was on my FDS game (talking to other men) before I dropped him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:19 AM
8

dude look at his posture lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:14 AM
6

Also I want to point out that there are different reasons why women become/are pickmes, I’ve come to realize. Could be due to “cool girl” syndrome, narcissism, low self esteem, attempt to put down other women, also we are generally nurturing/forgiving which doesn’t help. But I’ve been able to rehabilitate myself by understanding that the reason I had some pick me tendencies didn’t come from trying to be the cool girl or wanting to one up other women it was just because I felt like was a kind thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:12 PM
4

It was funny though, once I started ignoring the bread crumbs on the floor he kept throwing more frequently. I was like nah, I ain’t no chicken, I don’t want that trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:14 PM
5

Yeah I experienced this with bread-crumbing. It’s almost like they start putting you in the negatives when it comes to attention and affection. It was weird, when I was single and not taking to anyone, I rarely felt like this, I didn’t seek male attention. I craved it more when he breadcrumbed until I leveled up and was like wait a minute, I got no time to wait around for his absent ass and sparse texting. That’s why when everyone tells you to drop him on the first red flag, DO! Don’t let him pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:04 PM
6

Im so glad I never sent any. No reward + high risk. That's so disgusting you had to fear that he would do something like that. I can see why yall are saying nudes are not only to help them pull their dicks but more importantly a power play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:05 AM
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Not too much though, sis is still leaving paragraphs 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:22 PM
7

If only they put in this much effort in the actual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:59 PM
5

These type of posts scare me, being married to an lvm sounds like my worst nightmare. I was reading the front page yesterday and I came across this post where an lvm boasted about being able to play even more video games after his son was born (I guess he was watching him at night) He described how many games he went through when his son was a baby. All I can think of is wow, he literally did not do a single thing but sit on his ass playing games while his wife or maybe even forever gf did all t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:43 PM
3

I would be like... okay...I care not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:38 AM
21

If he believed that in his heart, he wouldn’t be so mad. Dusties can stay mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:11 AM
17

Lmao what does your dad say, I’d love to hear his salty words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:04 AM
1

Oh 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:55 PM
5

Obvious ew, but I want to play devils advocate. You think they post that to solicit services from prostitutes? I heard there were a lot on OLD especially tinder. Even the most feeble Cum brain would try to veil his true intention with lies. I have the feeling he’s not looking for normal women....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:48 PM
21

Yeah, I started implementing this. There are some nuances to this but I like that fact that I will never say I wasted an X amount of years on one guy because I was looking at other options as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:44 PM
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He’s not even in the top 90% 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:40 PM
34

They are still hanging on to the trope of old man, young woman. They forget that these are CELEBRITIES. Either they have stacks of money(likely isn’t cheap) or looks like Leonardo DiCaprio. And then the minority: old abuser manipulates in order to land a young woman. Idk girl, they are in for a rude awakening. Lots of women are getting careers so money isn’t something we are going for....so muH ReaSOURces won’t help them at all. In terms of attractiveness... I compare my similar aged colleagues …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:28 AM
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Straight from India, hell no. This includes the ones with recently migrated parents. But ima play devils advocate, there are some in my field that do not look the stereotypical Indian like at all, I was so shocked they mentioned they were, to the point that I’m still shocked.... nice as well, BUT they were raised on the US. I haven’t gotten to know them that well, they might still hold the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:22 AM
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I think you’re fine. 22, you have lots of time left. It’s been said men date seriously around 26.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:09 PM
28

“So long broke men” 😂 Remember the trope where the woman leaves the man when he loses his job? It’s funny because Only until I went through it I REALLY saw what this was about. It’s not about the job or the money it’s because so many bad traits come out when they lose a job. They They even start resenting you because you are thriving. Ex lvm started complaining a lot (made comments on how women had it easier with job hunting), he mentioned felt weird hanging out cause I was the one making money.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:19 PM
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No cause remember they are cheap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:03 PM
2

It’s a really good feeling, like everything is right in that moment. Smh hard to come by though, literally completely turned off once the ugly lvms head rears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:12 AM
1

Yeah but let’s not forget a lot of the desert is spoiled. Needs to go right to the garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:09 AM
4

And then when they end up with crippling depression “WhEREs MuH suPPorT”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:05 AM
2

Omg I hate the “asking too much” when the struggle with the bare minimum. There was another post here that said something like “you’re not asking for too much, you are just asking the wrong one”. Live that quote. I’m sorry that your situation is this serious where you are living with him and can’t just ghost and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:02 AM
2

Maybe, but it’s more probable that he wouldn’t get a match to try this on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:52 PM
4

😂dude, he must be the bitter type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:51 PM
2

Just think about how you saved yourself potential years, one lady in here said something that I still tell myself which is that you have to find peace in knowing you filtered out an lvm. And there honestly is peace to that, no more “what if’s” “maybe I could’ve done something” “ maybe he will change “ No. never. They will remain lvms, for you and the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:20 PM
14

Oh my god I laughed too hard cause I read it at the same moment I was feeling guilty of being vib already 3 months in the new year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:32 AM
2

And they say we aren’t the prize 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:13 PM
7

First of all, get the “wasn’t good enough” out of your head. Time and time again we see that no matter how pretty, smart, and god forbid nice, compassionate - it doesn’t matter, these will not make an LVM treat you well, never! You have to keep remind yourself everyday that he wasnt the one. He could’ve never given you what you needed. Keep telling yourself that, it’s honestly the truth and he did you a favor (as cliche as that sounds) we all read the nightmares women go through by being married…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:41 AM
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I think she means that there have been some GLARING red flags from the get go where you just know he’s not it. In reading FDS i can gauge which one will definitely not do right off the bat so I can see where she is coming from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:32 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could see their comments, the utter SALT that would be spewing from the screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:24 PM
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Honestly yeah, there are still a lot of post there mentioning girlfriends or trying to get a girl. I’m like son,please go away ain’t no one want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:13 AM
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Keep vetting. And if he leaves because of it-good. He woulda probably treated you bad in the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 01:43 AM
2

I assume in your marriage you run into problems/disagreements. From your standpoint of being with a HVM what are some normal stuff to run into? Cause I’m really confused y’all. Most of us are used to LVM issues/problems. Or is it to the extent of how he responds to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:20 AM
4

I bet he means lower it to the earths core
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:43 PM
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I can’t tell if my post is getting downvoted cause scrotes got mad 😂but it’s the truth. It’s not our place to sympathize their situation when they are not capable of providing us with security in all senses. To male lurkers: STEP UP OR STEP OUT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:17 AM
7

But no, that would be too hard 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:33 AM
15

Wow, I loved this analysis. I never really split hairs on why single mothers are demonized to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:25 AM
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I kind of get why they get mad. They probably can’t eat the rest of the week/ make rent if they splurge $20😂 I guess it is a little upsetting if we can’t afford the things we want 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:42 PM
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Just sent her a link to this sub, that’s the only advise she needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:35 PM
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I was thinking something similar the other day. I always noticed how a scrotes often comment that’s it’s hard to find a women to be with and I can see that with how rampant porn sickness and ED is. With FDS in place, oh man, that will skyrocket just because LVM do not change, it’s who they are. They won’t suddenly put in effort so they will resort to addictions. Woo we! Isn’t that some shi right there. I honestly do think FDS has a shot at mainstream just because in a sense it will be the one to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:28 PM
3

The moment when he starts acting like the prize 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:12 PM
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Or the flip side, they know she’s out of his league but feels the need to one up her so feel above her. That’s quite a phenomena if I do say so myself. Man, I never felt the need to be charitable to ugly man In the first place but now I’m like... wow that’s just another reason to not even look their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 11:46 AM
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Good on you for cutting your “loses” early. But if it was me I would’ve just left him hanging, not responded anymore. If you felt like he was pulling away and clingy it’s probably because he was not too interested and would definitely neglect you in the long run . At least you know where he stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:05 AM
3

Oh my god I flashed back so hard with the “I usually don’t do this”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:52 AM
1

It honestly reads like a missing dog post 😂 Yes come collect your lvm he is lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:44 AM
1

LVM are not created. They are born.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:35 AM
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Yeah they screenshot, copy, whatever and have their own servers where they distribute them for free. I don’t advocate to play ourself like that. I saw something disgusting the other day. There is some famous twitch streamer and she sells risqué photos. There was one where she was in the bathtub filled with water. The water was colored red so it can cover specific areas.....but they started passing it around trying to edit it so they can see her fully nude. They actually did accomplish that by ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:34 AM
5

They judge because even they know they are trash and can’t believe we slept with them anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:57 PM
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Oh my god same, I’m like I really want to but they haven’t proved themselves worthy or they start pulling lvm shit that just turns me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:56 PM
5

Utilize the scrotation. It really takes the edge off. Date more than 1 guy. Let him text you, if he doesn’t text in 1 week well you got your answer there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:46 PM
1

Reported. You didn’t read the manual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:52 AM
2

That story went downhill quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:52 PM
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I always ask what happened in their last relationship, this is definitely a tell all and get ready to accept he will do the same to you. Ex GF was: “Needy”: he will neglect you. “Easily upset” : he will not take responsibility and will often let you down. “Disrespectful”: if she protested in anyway or criticized him in a way to let him know somethings wrong, he makes it clear its his way or she’s being “rude” I will edit this later when I have more time to add more bullets but you probably alrea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:28 PM
8

I know people always use this insult when someone is unattractive but doesn’t really look like a thumb but this guy...he definitely looks like a thumb😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:15 PM
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If he did not make the move and it’s been years, you can definitely assume he’s lvm. He already took himself out of the game because he knew he wasn’t qualified. I’ve heard through the grapevine than an attractive guy wanted to be with me but never talked to me despite having very good opportunities. Before FDS I was bummed but then I’m like wait, he literally took himself out because he knew he would never meet my standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:12 PM
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He ain’t joking sis, he’s just testing your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:46 AM
14

Oh my god. Little things like this really do go a long way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:44 AM
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Honestly you’ve probably heard of this before but whenever they complain about us saying things like psycho, needy etc. it’s really a projection of how they failed. My ex lvm had the audacity to tell me I shouldn’t be so needy when I just wanted to spend more time together. LDR, he literally failed to do the minimum. When he said that I immediately flashed back to when he told me after we got together was that his ex was needy. Nope you bum ass, you just failed to do the bare minimum. To answer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:17 AM
13

Oh my god that’s so scary. The lvm reared it’s ugly head after so many years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:08 AM
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When I got out of college and entered the workforce I quickly noticed this week 1, I saw how many men there were standing around goofing off with their buddies. (I work in a male dominated field) All my life I heard the guy works hard and should go home to a clean home 🤡. They hardly working sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:22 PM
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Yup. Happened to my mom. But all the kids including me disowned NVM father (🤡).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:16 PM
11

I have to give my report for engineers in the wild. They tend to be CHEAP, makes sense when you realize their whole function is to get a problem fix with the most minimal resources. Also anything software related, they tend to always fit the dorky, weird lvm stereotype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:56 PM
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Parents had a flower shop. And yes they have the audacity to send a $100+ arrangements to side chicks and nothing for wife. They told me some LVMs would come in with their wife one day and then came back another day alone and ordered a flower delivery to another woman. Also flirted with my mom at the register while picking up flowers for their wife/gf. The absolute audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:07 AM
6

She’s said she’s half Russian and I think she said Swedish as in nationality not ethnicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:01 PM
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They are, there are respond videos addressed to her. They can stay mad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:04 PM
2

I’m not too into that Russell Stovers chocolate crap but I’m hoping the chocolate covered strawberries are on sale the next day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:33 AM
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We’ve all gone over this sis, there really is no F in FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:23 AM
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Yeah I made the mistake of LDR (pre fds, there is a good post about this here) puts him in a good spot to act out low value behavior with out being detected that easily. I thought it meant my guy really liked me if he was willing to do distance than break it off. I’m pretty sure it’s an ego thing, he just likes the idea that I’m there but he doesn’t have to put in the work. Calling and texting are low effort. From what I can tell from your post: dump him. he’s going hot and cold already. It’s se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:16 AM
6

He would probably even cheat on the pick me bot lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:34 AM
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I’m writing this off as a “loss”. No excuses. I’m not stressing over it, I have his replacement already ;) But I’ll keep that in mind for the new guy ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:10 PM
2

Likely the father was a HVM himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:02 AM
4

Thanks I needed to hear this. But I’ll try not to bitch too much lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:47 AM
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I just look at top rated. I think mods should delete those. Actually I think those users get banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:47 AM
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I don’t engage with them aside what’s necessary or small talk but I don’t call them out on LVM behavior/actions either even if it’s mega repulsive. I just silently judge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:43 AM
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I’m in the same boat. It’s really make it or break it. 2 days from Vday and he hasn’t said a word. The only thing that can save him is if he’s waiting for it to be a surprise. I decided as well that I shouldn’t need to remind him/hint at anything whatsoever and what he thinks of me will shine through at end of the day. He did say he wanted to see me Saturday cause last week something happened that we couldn’t (ldr), but didn’t specify if it was for v day or anything. I’m kind of toying with a fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:41 AM
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He has not said anything yet so it better be him just keeping a surprise. He asked to see me Saturday because LDR and we both work. I’m kinda hoping a mod will help me out on this one. Should I bring it up as if we are doing something for v day? I’m fine if he wants to push the date the next day as long as it something special. I know I can ask but I want it to come from him so I know his intentions l. I’ll update later buttt he’s likely going to say “you didn’t mention it so I though you didn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:12 AM
6

Like honestly, how can you ever expect to look good while with an LVM? They complain that we look worse over time but its literally them taking our life force and beauty away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:13 AM
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Its been nice that sometimes the mods do respond to these posts on the thread and correct them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:44 AM
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Yes and seeing all those sides to him may take awhile. I'm glad this was posted because its super dangerous if other women see these "HVM" stories and use it to apply to the person they are seeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:40 AM
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Oh my god yes. Even posted it last week on another thread to warn everyone. I am STILL vetting mine, and will continue because that's the only choice they left us with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:36 AM
1

Probably from all that hot air smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:14 AM
5

To be fair, these photos are often retouched. But it's funny because even if they worked on the current photo, he still looks like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:12 AM
4

Also, I have to say I see a lot of posts where HVM gets called out too soon and listing some basic HVM things that he does. Could be a LVM pulling out his bag of tricks in the beginning. Just out of the best interest of members refrain doing so because they may find themselves in the same situation and find out they are duped later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:48 PM
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oh my god your last paragraph had me dying. Definitely ask to do things they find degrading so they can remind themselves how it feels like to have boundaries pushed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:44 PM
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Im against gift giving for men on Vday (or in general). Something about it seems...well unnatural. smh its our holiday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:03 PM
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Just a reminder to keep standards high this Vday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:01 PM
7

Oh my god, same here but his gf seems like a pickmeisha at the end of her rope. Literally disgusted at the sight of him motioning her to pick up the whole check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:43 AM
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Yes this totally destroys all their "What do women bring to the table" fee fees. Forever girlfriends/shut up rings are solid proof that women have inherent value. They would waste both of their times because he knows its better than being alone with themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:23 AM
2

I would have to disagree with "the man pays only initially" part. I think our strategy of a reliable long term partner is improved by having him continually invest since the stakes DO get higher for us as time goes by. (I would not include his time as an investment, we have guys out here spending decades with women they don't want to end up with)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:29 AM
2

I fully expected a pickmeisha in the comments saying she ticked every item on the list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:45 AM
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I think the best way to know is to spend time in the redpill sub. For each man you date (even men around you), look for behaviors that seem to align with red pill ideology, and recognize the ones that do not align with red pill. The whole "breaking frame" is a good one to check. For example, how do they respond to certain situations? If there is a lack of reaction in where in they should have been remorseful, comforting or shown any type of emotion? If they continuously don't, either they are an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:03 AM
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