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Dating After DivorceDinnerNo2341/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 11:51 AM
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Doesn’t make it right. Going to hold off
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 08:52 PM
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And happy for you on all those positive changes
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 08:44 PM
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I agree with you on this. It doesn’t seem feasible
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 08:40 PM
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For the right girl, I’m sure you could give your all
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 02:25 PM
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Definitely. Antidepressants reduce your endogenous ability to make said neurotransmitters like serotonin, which isn’t good. New experiences make new brain patterns. Do stuff outside of your norm. Mix with new people whether at dog parks or somewhere else. Travel. Do a cooking class, volunteering (good mood booster), etc.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 07:20 PM
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Congrats on making that step. What do you think would get you out of your depression?
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 05:05 PM
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Hope you’re doing better
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 03:13 PM
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Agreed. It’s not the kids’ fault. If you decide to have kids, you have to stick it out for them
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 03:04 PM
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Absolutely. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 09:29 AM
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Agreed. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 07:54 PM
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Yeah and true. I think so too. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 06:36 PM
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For sure. You’re right. Thanks so much
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:59 PM
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You’re totally right and glad you told it like it is. There’s a lot I’m not seeing now and this is great advice. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:48 PM
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It’s mandated in Australia for some before you can divorce
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:47 PM
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This was great. Read it twice. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:46 PM
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Thank you so much
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:43 PM
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Also, I felt that “separation towards reconciliation” part. Just cause I’ve seen it many times in this process and feel bad you went through that rough time. Sounds like you’re only continuing to improve which is uplifting
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 03:32 PM
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Very helpful. Thanks so much and ha, I liked the emotions line. So true and I definitely want to follow this path and keep acknowledging the emotions with my own therapist
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 03:25 PM
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Lol. Thanks so much man and will do! That’s a great intro as well. Rooting for you as well. Appreciate it
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 02:24 PM
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I’m sorry and totally understand
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 02:14 PM
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Correct
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 02:11 PM
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It’s a legal requirement for some separated couples to attend counselling before they are eligible to file for divorce with the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. Depends on the length of your marriage
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 01:13 PM
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I filed, not her and I get it’s a weird question. Just feeling unsure about it is all and if it’s too early
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 01:04 PM
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Thank you. Def can uncover wounds. I agree with the last part. I get that it’s an odd question, but just feeling some type of way morally about it. Idk. That’s why I came here, so thanks
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 01:03 PM
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I already filed. This is the first step in NSW, Australia
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 12:00 PM
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100% agree, especially sentence 2
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 12:55 AM
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Well said
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 12:14 AM
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It doesn’t have to be for religious reasons. I wouldn’t want a child out of wedlock
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 07:05 PM
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What you’re saying is totally valid and true. Meet women doing hobbies. At the dog park maybe, church, community events, etc
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 12:21 AM
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this is invalidating. it's important to acknowledge emotions and let them move through you and manage them. not acknowledging them slows down the healing process. it's important to be honest with emotions to heal faster.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 06:56 PM
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Yup
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 07:07 PM
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I’ve seen a couple of women in here acknowledge that divorce for a man can be very unfair.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 11:56 PM
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Obviously, but it was out of line and I won’t stand for disrespecting a woman. You too
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:54 PM
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Doesn’t mean we stop being gentlemanly. “…look where that got us.” -means we got with one wrong woman. So we should be sour and treat the rest badly? Is that not the same line of thinking as what we perceive the women’s group to be like? That line of thinking is flawed and I’d encourage you to think about it. Sometimes, women need a guy’s perspective on things. Sometimes, men need a woman’s. Not all women are out to get all of a man’s money or whatever bad narrative you have tied to them
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:47 PM
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Absolutely
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:40 PM
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Then, we shouldn’t stoop to the low of the women’s group being intolerant of guys. Let’s do better. I haven’t noticed any other women, but okay. It’s not gentlemanly for her to get attacked no matter what. I don’t like this form of your answer either, but even this would’ve been better- “we don’t typically answer to women here, but you’re struggling so xyz” and then she’d move on
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:26 PM
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Ya, it’s one woman. It’s harmless. Jeez. Check your own anger towards women instead of deflecting your issues onto her. Where’s the entitlement? I see these kinds of questions all the time
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:20 PM
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That’s not what she wants, nor came for. Such an immature answer. Provide advice to a woman in need or keep scrolling. Where’s the empathy?
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:16 PM
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That’s not what she wants, nor came for. Such an immature answer. Provide advice to a woman in need or keep scrolling. Where’s the empathy?
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:13 PM
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Yes and maybe
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:32 PM
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I agree with asking her really what’s going on. I would also like to address this whole thing about sex declining in marriage. If two people are very much connected, there’s not going to be an issue. I know many happily married people and that’s just it. Happily married people will not be having this issue, so it could just be that the people here are not marrying the right person.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 04:28 AM
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Big generalization for SAHMs. This is an actual job and not all are snakes
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 09:22 AM
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Marriage is worth it and the bad stories just mean the person they married changed for the worse. Not everyone does this and not all women are out to get all your money.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 06:35 AM
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