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| 3 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentI think deep down the vast majority of men fear false paternity. Until very recently in human history men couldn’t be certain their kids were really theirs. Therefore men care a lot about being physically desired by their partners. When you tell a man they are husband material it can be inferred that they are the safe, dependable, boring guy that is a good partner as opposed to the guys you lust for and have one night stands/ affairs with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 07:58 PM |
| 3 | What is the equivalent of America Ferrera's famous speech in the Barbie movie, but for men?My biggest criticism with the Barbie movie is the character Alan. It teaches young girls that they can have a platonic relationship with the shy nerdy boy and it won’t blow up in their face (I.e. she just wants to be friends and he falls in love) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:05 AM |
| 9 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioI don’t think that friendship and a romantic relationship are the same. You may have a lot in common with somebody and really enjoy their company but you don’t want to date them. Attraction is partially about shared interests/liking each other’s company but also involves physical attraction, and a spark etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:39 AM |
| 10 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioWhat I’m getting at is she just sees him as a friend and only a friend but men misinterpret friendly female interest as romantic interest and then develop a crush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:28 AM |
| 21 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioI think what happens is a girl and a guy start out as friends, talk about their shared interests, hang out etc. The guy notices how much she likes spending time with him and something in his subconscious is triggered into thinking she must like me and she would be a good mate and and then he involuntarily develops a crush on her. It’s not that anybody’s being evil or manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:25 AM |
| 0 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?I don’t think it’s a man/woman thing rather all humans are a bit egocentric and hypocritical. We all want to be picky with our partners but hope others will not do that with us. It’s probably evolutionary, those that felt they shouldn’t be judged on their qualities may have approached more/higher quality mates and succeeded. There’s a study saying if men approach women out of their league there’s an 18% chance of succeeding, which isn’t bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.Men have an inherent fear of false paternity. They don’t want to be tricked into investing resources into a child that isn’t genetically theirs. For most of human history there was no effective birth control so if a woman cheated there was a high chance of false paternity. Also, for most of human history there was no way of checking paternity. Therefore, the best way for men to confirm paternity is to select women who did not show traits that suggested promiscuity. As for the comment on women no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Yes, if they have money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?If a woman or a man has a friend they know is infatuated with them, they should cut off the friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?People are getting mad at guys who end up in the friendzone because they think that guys are trying to lead a woman on by saying they want to be friends but really want to date them. Guys often will start to hangout with girls and as the friendship develops guys misinterpret friendly interest as romantic interest and something in their subconscious tells them “this girl likes you, you should like them back” and then the guy becomes infatuated. Also, whatever gender someone is, we should have mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?I think you need to be insane to think that the patriarchy still exists today. The majority of college graduates are now women and I think in most elite professions (apart from engineering) the majority are women. If you believe in patriarchy you have to believe the world is run by a bunch of misogynistic men who are responsible for modern medicine, the atomic bomb, microchips, space exploration etc. but can’t keep women out of prestigious institutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 11:13 PM |
| 17 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.I think a lot of men are instinctually weary of being call husband material (or something to that affect) because of alpha f***s/beta bucks. Guys don’t want to be the victims of false paternity. Therefore for most men it’s really important that their partner is physically attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:48 PM |
| 44 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?I have this theory that just as Dads don’t want their daughters dating Mums don’t want their sons dating. Toxic Dads may want to assault their daughter’s boyfriends but toxic Mums do something more insidious. They mould their sons into a guy who they know other women won’t be attracted to (I.e. shy, passive, compliant etc.). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Why are some women so fond to pitbulls?They’re very late term abortion providers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:55 AM |
| 11 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.I think in this day and age we are trained to always want something better. Sometimes that’s good, for example if you are dissatisfied with work you can study to get a better job. But that constant desire for more leads to us finding faults with our partners. I think in previous generations people were taught to be grateful which made it easier to have long term, happy relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:10 AM |
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