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| 1 | Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With GirlsAnd you're getting downvoted! This sub has gone to shit with posts like the OP. I haven't face-palmed this hard for awhile, it's genuinely frustrating for me to see garbage getting 1,000 upvotes, and your comment is -4. Women don't give a shit about how great your life is going. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 01:39 PM |
| 37 | The Power of Sexual Energy (and how to harness it)Excellent work! This is truly the key that I think is the hardest to find for most men. What you have written here is so important, and is basically what helped me finally understand "the game". It seems crazy at first, and it's a big step out of the typical male comfort zone to start implementing this, but it is the step that is needed. "There is a fine line between being a player and being a creep. That line is seduction." -Wayne Gretzky | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With GirlsThank you. This comment is so much better than this post. Think about it like this: if you spend all this time "working on yourself" that's time you're not spending working on getting the girl. A lot of men need to get out of their own heads for a minute and stop focusing on what they want. Instead, think about her. Think about what she wants. You are absolutely right, the most important thing is the way you make a woman feel when she is around you. To me, that means I want to make her happy, I … | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayAnd I'm stealing your car! | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 09:41 AM |
| 10 | She is rooting for youI love this. I am so sick of these guys inserting their pity party into our bro-downs. And for the guy above you - the ugly neckbeard subhuman guy - stop feeding it: The depression. It needs to eat to survive and you keep feeding it. It's like snuggling a warm fuzzy blanket of razorblades and broken lightbulbs. It feels good to feel sorry for yourself, it feels good to know that you were dealt a shittier hand than the rest of us, so keep basking in your self imposed shit-storm. Someday you will … | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 08:51 PM |
| 63 | She is rooting for youVery nice. I've always said this as well, starting today. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 08:40 PM |
| 0 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Alright.... A lot of guys start out with horrible approach anxiety, so it's good advice to tell them to embrace rejection, doesn't hurt as much as regret yadda yadda yadda. You are past this point, so congratulate yourself for advancing as much as you have. You can approach, take rejection and hold a convo. Good. But your game still needs a lot of work, so don't give up, read up! You can always learn more, the process never ends - don't forget this. A lot of guys get the girl and think they've w… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 09:13 AM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Hahaha | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | My struggles of being in the bottom tier of menHey, you're kinda funny - so you got that going for you - but it's all self-deprecating humor, which doesn't help much with the ladies, but it does make people laugh and feel better about themselves. On top of that, your physical appearance also sounds quite comical. I suggest getting into standup comedy. It won't pay very well or help your self esteem much, and you will likely develop an alcohol dependency. But somewhere down the line you will get a pity-fuck from some dirty, drunken, bar whore… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Do women get intimidated by a good looking , confident man?Yes, they are intimidated. This is a good thing. Think about a beta guy staring at a chick he thinks is hot. When she looks up at him and notices he is staring, he will lower his head and look away, because he is intimidated by hot chicks. So when they turn away, keep staring at em. I bet they will slowly start staring at you again. If they see your eyes are still on them, they will quickly look away, and probably smile and blush. They think your hot. Tension builds attraction, if you catch a gi… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 07:13 AM |
| 2 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?Sounds like crippling social anxiety, and a horribly negative self-image. You also seem to be placing the women on a pedestal. Why should they have a higher value than you? Keep in mind that most women feel the same way as you and often times even lower self esteem. I know that is hard to believe, but it's true. Remember, they are human beings and crave the same attention and connection that you desire, and in most cases will be very nice, even as they are rejecting you. Also, you're taking thin… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 10:40 AM |
| 13 | Full transcript of a conversation i had with a 9/10 at a bar and how i managed to get her number in less then 5 minutesLooks matter to a degree, but what's more important is your posture, eye contact, quick witty responses and how confident you come off as. The OP did a really great job here. My only advice to OP would be to take it a little further next time and add a little physical escalation in there. Especially cuz you had her laughing, hold her arm whole you tell a joke, graze her hand etc. etc. Do this and next time you will be telling us how you took her back to your place in under 5 minutes. Nevertheles… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What if we stopped caring so much?Why is it necessary to sexually harass women when you flirt with them? I don't get it | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What if we stopped caring so much?This is why I love that old saying "fake it til you make it" in the beginning you suck with the ladies and don't have a clue what to do. "Just being yourself" is the worst thing you can do. So you start watching some videos and reading material about game and go out there and start applying what you've learned in your everyday life. It is painfully akward for you and doesn't feel natural at all. You aren't being yourself, but you start seeing the results you want. Slowly but surely you get more … | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What if we stopped caring so much?It sounds like you're about to reach your breaking point. That can be a great thing. I felt just lime you a few years ago and then everything started to click. What do you do for a living? Maybe you can get a part time job at a restaurant or somewhere lots of pretty girls work. That way you can work on gaming them and you will have plenty of time to mess up and try again etc. etc. Of course work is typically regarded as a terrible place to hit on women, but if you only get the job for this purpo… | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 08:40 PM |
| 5 | How did you get better at sex?It's a great way to do it, and you are exactly right about her needing to be wet. I think what men need to understand is the timing. You have to work for a while before you can start working down there with your tongue. And I mean work in the "God, I love my job" kinda way. Foreplay is all about building it up and then bringing it back to zero. This is the way to drive a woman wild for you. (By the way, you sound like you know what you are doing. I just go off on tangents like this.) Oral is ver… | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 08:55 PM |
| 26 | How did you get better at sex?Go slow. Make out. Look into her eyes. Build the tension that sparks the attraction. Hold the back of her neck. Be gentle. Start slow. Always give a little then pull back - as in, don't just keep making out endlessly. That ruins it. It will get boring. Instead, make out with her for about 5 seconds, then pull back a little, stare right into her eyes, and playfully say, "i knew you were a fun girl?" Then smile, and give her a little kiss on the cheek, get up and go to the bathroom. Give her a cou… | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 08:42 PM |
| 26 | How did you get better at sex?Hey guys thanks for all the messages, I can only write so much at once on my phone, so here's another block of love juice. Everybody keeps saying oral sex. Well.... Oral is great for making her cum but it has to be in the right context. Think of it from the girls perspective. Eating her out is the most intimate thing you can do to her. And yes, it can feel amazing, but... She needs to be comfortable with you. And all us men should keep our standards. Don't just go down on any chick, especially i… | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 06:39 PM |
| 148 | How did you get better at sex?Forget about your dick. Most guys think it is the main event, I look at it more like the encore. Don't even think about putting it in her until you've made her cum, preferably at least twice. Something that hasn't been mentioned yet is that once you get her going she will start cumming harder and more frequently. So if you make her cum once, don't stop there. You wanna blow her mind wide open before you blow your load. There is no need to rush things or feel rushed, women want you to take it slo… | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 02:07 PM |
| 13 | How to Get Laid on The First Date (Complete 5 Step Guide)This is really great stuff, but I think I'll stick with the D.E.N.N.I.S system. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...I think Mr. Dink had a hard-on for Doug. That guy makes me nervous. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...Well, I mean come on... We're talking about Patty Mayonaisse here. She's worth it, bro. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...I'll back you up here. And I'll also be brutally honest and add that most guys suck in the sack and they have no idea. And that is the women's fault, because they always lie and reassure us how amazing we felt. But you're absolutely right, if you are good in the sack all game gets thrown aside, really. You could be wearing sweatpants with you hand down your crotch smelling of beer watching sports and the girls will still be chasing you, trying to claim you as theirs. Ok, maybe I'm being a little… | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Need advice! How to I get started in game?Get good at sex. If you are good in the sack all it takes is one girl, because she will tell her friends and before you know it you will have chicks chasing you, trying to get that good bangin'. If you get good at sex all the resr will follow naturally and you won't be fakin' it, you will be makin' it. If you want any tips feel free to PM me. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Social DefeatSelf sabotage. You've failed before you have even started. You have no confidence. It's hard when you haven't had any results. But you gotta just try harder my man. Fake it til you make it. It works, man. Fake it, you might get a chick all the way to naked in between your bedsheets and then just completely blow it from there and give her the worst fuck of her life. But this is not a failure, this is a success! Take baby steps. It might take 100 girls before you make it with one. Every interactio… | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | How to touch?Physical escalation bro. Start from the safest and go from there. When you laugh with her put your hand on her shoulder, for like 2-3 seconds. Always gauge her reaction. If she looks pissed or grossed out, she is not into you. Likely, she won't have much of a reaction or she will touch you back (good sign!) So escalate. There is a touch for every situation. If she looks upset, put your hand on the middle of her back, lean in and ask her if she is ok while maintaining strong eye contact. If you a… | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 04:09 AM |
| 2 | How to make good conversation with women?Think of it like this, a beautiful woman gets approached multiple times a day by guys like you. When you're walking over to her you are likely nervous, anxious, and repeating "don't fuck it up, don't fuck it up" over and over in your head - whereas, she is calmy sizing you up, thinking "let's see what this guy's got" most females will at least give you a shot, unless they're in a commited relationship, which is why rejection shouldn't concern you, it's what is gonna happen most of the times you … | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 03:48 AM |
| 75 | is it over if a girl mentions her boyfriend in a conversation?Keep your cool, be a respectable gentleman and just be friends with her. Have fun and be flirty, of course, but never push it too far because... Well, she has a (supposed) boyfriend, right? This way you are not placing her on a pedestal and refraining from slipping into any needy type behavior. It will show her that you are your own strong confident man, and you are not bothered whatsoever by her relationship. This attitude will make her want you even more. So to answer your question, it's not n… | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 03:31 AM |
| 3 | The more game you think you need, the more insecure you areThe premise is flawed. What you consider to be "game" is not what I consider to be "game". I think game is improving one's social interction skills. There are different schools of thought here. I never was into any of the approach peacocking stuff. I can see your point in regard to that pua bullshit. Real game is being respectful to women and not using them to validate yourself imo. It's respecting yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 09:59 PM |
| 3 | The more game you think you need, the more insecure you areIt seems like we're just arguing semantics. The definition of skill is "the ability to do something well; expertise" That's why they are called "social skills" | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 09:02 PM |
| 10 | The more game you think you need, the more insecure you areSome of us never had a male role model growing up, or father figure. Some guys are totally clueless when it comes to women, but still have what it takes - they just don't know it. Some are born natural players, others are made. To me, "game" is really just psychology. Understanding female psychology and how women's minds tend to work will get you farther than any canned lines or approaches. And finally, it takes a lot of balls to ask for help when it comes to this stuff. Nothing wrong with tryin… | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Approaching helpCompliment her on her necklace, her tattoos or her sense of style. Tattoos are great because people love to talk about why they got them and what meaning they have. Also a great way to start physical escalation, if she has a cool ring or bracelet on and holds her hand out towards you try lightly grabbing her hand "to get a better look" Focus less on the outcome and more on just having a fun conversation. Number closing or date closing isn't required to be a successful encounter! | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 17 | How to Make Your Girl Feel Goooood!!!Very interesting stuff. Do you have a program that I can pay hundreds of dollars for? | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 08:58 AM |
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