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Insane… literally That level of solipsism is psychotic. ... Russia weaponizing rape The women are safer in these apartments. ... Women on the front lines.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:45 PM
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Do you still believe women are human beings? OP didn't answer, so I'm guessing he never saw women as human beings. "One of my life long best friends who is a female woman texted me ... " She said a shitty thing. As people do. Not a good friend. "An acquaintance who told my friends to stop talking to me ... " ... and they did? What in the actual f*ck? These are bad friends. I'm assuming a mix of men and women. "I called someone a cunt ... in writing, and now my friend group won't talk to me." "A …
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:19 AM
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Do you still believe women are human beings?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 09:28 AM
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Start calling "them" the Christian Taliban. Every time. ​ That will get their attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:37 AM
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even have the same exact smug smile on when they think they "got" you. "Duper's Delight."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:53 PM
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They feel entitled to us and everything we do or historically done, our bodies and our labor, and they see us rejecting that entitlement as abusive and traumatic. It's not. It's dismantling their entitlement. We are dismantling their entitlement. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:45 PM
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All religions are written by men, for men, to control women, children and slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:39 AM
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Unless a large group of people decide to act against what they really want and/or attracted to (sacrifice), everything will remain the same. No, given two generations (about fifty years) women will breed the ugly guys out of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:24 AM
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Women are a monolith in what they find attractive. ... Men are more varied in what they're attracted to and are more willing to compromise. Men were never willing to compromise -- for hundreds of years -- and now women aren't willing either. No one wants to settle for ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:21 AM
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but the majority of women cannot orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Yes, we can as long as the man is good-looking. We can't orgasm with ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:55 AM
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As a woman I certainly wouldn't put penis size in the top 5. In my experience men with larger penises have been worse in bed - I assume they think that because they have a larger penis they can put in less effort. Women have different size vaginas. Some women like smaller penises, some like larger. Girth is important. Too long and no woman likes her cervix pounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:50 AM
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What women want (the female gaze): Face first Then body Then size (penis) Then personality. Way down at number four. Same as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:31 PM
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They have women throwing themselves at them, Bill Gates made passes at half a dozen women and they were so horrified at his awkwardness -- and, I dare say, homeliness -- that they bowed out. Money does not overcome lack of looks and social style.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:16 AM
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It is so simple that they think they’re not attainable and bitter about it? Pretty much. If he doesn't "attain" you, he whips up this story in his mind that you are a cunt. He's bitter and angry. If he does "attain" you (your husband) he hates all the side-eye and ribbing (real or imagined) that he is out of your league so he whips up in his mind that you will be unfaithful, so he cheats on you first, or tries to drag you down with words. He's bitter and angry. I'm so sorry, but it's not you, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:56 AM
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Why can't animales leave us alone? Manimals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:34 PM
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Especially if she’s boosting his ego. We are so fucking done with boosting men's egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:10 PM
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... how happy will they truly be, single, alone and with all the money they'll ever need? Pretty darn happy. Honestly? I think you're projecting. If men grow old alone it's not about sex. It's -- how will I find someone to clean my toilet, wash my clothes, make my doctor's appointments and be my social secretary? And fix my boo-boos? Women already know how to do that for themselves. It's going to cost you upwards of $50,000 a year to hire each position individually (clothes washer, nurse, housek…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:45 PM
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I get that telling people what they want to hear is a nice thing to do, but it ain't honest. And that same behavior is also directed towards men - blowing smoke up their ass and telling them they're "great". Men, on the other hand, get labelled as overly blunt about their opinions. Your language about the difference in genders is too soft with rounded edges. Women are socialized to be polite. We've even been smacked in public by our parent for being too honest. Boys don't get that. You aren't "b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:02 PM
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Men were lied to, by other men, and by women. By male researchers and producers selling something. A dream that never was. And now we are trying to to tell you the truth, and you label us more shallow than men, "Because at least men were honest about our shallowness."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:50 PM
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So what’s ridiculous is the few men thinking they can be ugly, have no money, no status and attract plenty of women. And what’s annoying is that when women DO say what they want ... men will come out of the woodwork to shame us about it then these same men turn around and blame US for lying. ^This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:47 PM
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... women don't frame and view looks in remotely the same way as men do. Women are socialized to be polite. Men aren't. When we get together and talk about men, ALL we talk about is looks. That talk gets zipped when a man walks into a room. Also, women are covertly racist while men (there's that lack of social skills) are overtly racist. But the amount of racism is equally divided among men/women. Women do not value dating money and social status. We make our own. This is the trope that you beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:44 PM
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I honestly think many men are simply delusional and don’t have proper social skills because this is really common sense. How is it women get the memo and not men? It’s really just something you want to believe not some rational conclusion you came to from observing real life human interactions. ^ Exactly. Studies have been done on stupid people and they show that they are too stupid to be aware of their stupidity. Incompetent people are too incompetent to be aware of their incompetence. And so o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:37 PM
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This whole ugly-man conspiracy argument would be convincing if there were not countless men who grew up hearing from their sisters, mothers, female colleagues, friends, and mentors that looks don't matter (as much) to women, that any guy can get any girl with the right personality, Your mother told you that because she loved you and didn't want you disappointed. Your sister told you that because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. Your friends, well ... their your friends. What are friends fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:38 PM
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When the hell did women ever say we don’t care about looks or money? We never said that. \^ This. WE never said it. You are talking about books and movies. Publishers are men. Producers are men. They never asked women what we wanted, and listened to us. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:35 PM
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... and women like slightly older men that have acquired resources. This is still true to this day even for women with jobs. Even working women prioritise his income, then his status and finally his looks This reality is denied by women past their peak hoping to get lost male attention. It's simply not true and scientists are pushing agendas -- to the point of fudging data (lying to get the next grant.) When I was in college, I wanted to fuck the young bucks. A man even five years older than me …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:32 PM
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No, you haven't. WE have, Hollywood hasn't. Hollywood has (until recently) been run by extremely ugly men (Weinstein, et al) and they purposed the tropes that women are willing to overlook ugly guys for their personality. If you mean personally, when ugly/homely men made a pass at me I never said, "No, you're too ugly to even consider. I won't orgasm." I made up some excuse about chemistry. What would you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:21 PM
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Media and high school never clued anyone about the fact women care more about looks than personality Women care more about looks than personality, starting in kindergarten. We have been UPFRONT about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:10 AM
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Though I've met women here who insist they're into "unattractive dudes". Women are not into unattractive dudes. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:08 AM
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... makes a lot of sense for college aged women. Generally, men are attracted to youth and beauty because these qualities signify fertility. Generally, women are attracted to men with wealth, status, and resources because that signifies he may be a good protector and provider. That's a 50-year-old trope propagated by some of the ugliest male scientists in lab coats, hoping to get laid. Women in college are well on their way to their own resources. We are attracted to youth and beauty for the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:07 AM
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It's a problem because popular culture says women are more virtuous because they look beyond appearance. Not anymore. Movies (like "Knocked Up") and every sitcom (like "King of Queens") have tried desperately to say ugly guys can get a pretty girl because women look beyond appearance. Hollywood was run by men -- really, really, ugly men -- and they were feeding a fantasy that we women have been shaking our heads at because we knew it wasn't true. Along comes social media and you feel like you we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:01 AM
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Where exactly have women ever mentioned not wanting unattractive guys? For at least 100 years men have thought that having a good sense of humor, or driving a fancy car, or having a high income would leapfrog over their homliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:42 AM
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Let me ask you something, what's a guy supposed to do when he finds himself being rejected and ghosted by even average/below average women? So we can judge your calibration, name some average or below average actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:02 PM
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Average women do not want average men. If your a man, your definition of an average man is a homely man. Your definition of an average woman is someone who is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:56 PM
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That is what makes the difference. Men end up with shitty women due to lack of options; Men end up with shitty options because you care about looks over personality. If you actually broadened your horizon, you have have plenty of women to choose from. You narrowed your options. Then you get angry at women for valuing looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:49 PM
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Once their dads went MGTOW, he never talked to them again. I'm sorry to hear that. MGTOW is just an excuse to shuck responsibility. It's just polishing a self-serving decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:58 PM
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... women don’t respect you when you’re ugly and out of shape Do you respect women who are ugly and out of shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:43 AM
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They do have to compete, they’re just not competing for below average men. Nobody owes below average men a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:06 AM
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There's a lot of controversy (and corruption) even in the fields of science. ^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:29 AM
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... said he would gladly fuck a woman with DDD tits but never walk around with her because that’s outright embarrassing to him He didn't want to be viewed as superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:41 AM
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... they fail to deeply understand human relationships. They fail to see women as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:40 AM
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... tells me my husband hates me It's not discussed enough how much men HATE beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:39 AM
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... so they can feel like they have someone everyone wants. If everyone wants her she probably has a high n-count. So stop looking for the unicorn with popular looks and low n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:37 AM
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99% chance it's just cus you're not attractive enough to keep the guy around. No guy is gonna ghost a 8/10 or higher. Annnnddd ... women are the same. You're not attractive enough to keep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:06 PM
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... they tend to be a little crazy, which is why they have a bad reputation lol It's a well-earned "reputation." No one wants to date crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:04 PM
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It's that simple because you know she's fucking SOMEONE. You do not "know" that; you imagine that to fuel your hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:03 PM
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Yeah, people really don't get how insane girls get over good looking men. Literally two different universes. Yeah, but, Men: “I’m short. Women want to date tall men.” Me: “Date short women.” Men: “I’m ugly. Women want to date good-looking men.” Me: “Date ugly women.” Men: “I’m fat. Women want to date slender guys.” Me: “Date fat women.” Men: “I’m broke. Women want to date men with money.” Me: “Date broke women. Go for a walk in the park.” Men: “Wah,wah, wah! I want to date women who are more att…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:06 PM
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... because your problems wouldn't matter so much if you were like really really good-looking Or rich. Fix your fucking problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:58 PM
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... every incel's biggest issue isn't their looks; it's their mental health, and their mental health problems are telling them it's the looks. ^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:31 AM
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Feminism: Women are human beings. Misogyny: Women are commodities and there should be rules so everyone gets one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:46 PM
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Men are not loved. I guess women only love the value we offer thus they change tune. Have you ever asked out a woman/girl who had potential? One who was plain/homely/overweight/working in the wrong field, but had enormous potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:12 AM
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Do men like to be chased or not? This sub gives weird vibes They say they do but they don't. If she's pretty, they think her vagina is allllll stretched out from the guys who have been there, because she's so "bold." If she's plain, they're not interested, and sneer at her "boldness."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:56 AM
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Plus she was my boss. Which is an "imbalance of power."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:18 AM
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Would you consider that predatory? God, yes. What the fuck was she doing dating a "just turned" 18 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:55 AM
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Consistent logic so fair enough. TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION ... ("Do women extrapolate the future?"): Yes. Many women do. Like the pitcher with a golden arm, they leverage their looks why they can to get what they can. Many of these women know that in most states, if the marriage lasts ten years, she can get half his income, half his pension, the house, and all the kids (custody) when they divorce. Keep your eye on Melania. In 2024 she's divorcing Trump because Baron turns 18. She's playing the lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:50 AM
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Or you could just do what the rest of us do — fuck around in your age group until you all grow up together ^ Oh, this. And use birth control. Just fuck around in your age, looks, social position group until you figure it out and can read people better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:48 PM
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Yes fine there's outliers but unmarried people on average I believe have less sex overall I think so, too. I just know a lot of women who are unhappily married and not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:41 PM
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As recently as a few decades ago 90%+ (?)2/3 of people were married They got married because they thought they "had to" (for image), or because it suited them. There was then and is now a LOT of sexlessness in marriage. Alcohol use, narcissism/sociopathy (on the man's part), gay men (hiding), and men just wanting a mommy/nurse/secretary. All of these men have ZERO interest in sex and got married anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:32 PM
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A good approach is to include a statement about what you’re after (just fun, a relationship, a connection), mention 2-3 character traits to help determine compatibility and maybe something to show your humour or a hobby. ^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:08 PM
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... and the dating perspective of ONE woman. TWO women, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:30 PM
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what dumbass told you that? He/she is joking. Women are different. We are not this bolus you can label.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:16 PM
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Yeah ppl, come and protest and find reasons why this study is flawed Chinese women have less opportunity to make their own money than American women. Chinese women have less power -- political, socio-economic, etc., -- as well. American women can make lots of money, buy property, live where they want, do/say what they want, and therefore have more choices to f*ck who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:14 PM
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Men are your livelyhood, darling. Her job. The way she makes an income. She doesn't want to date. She doesn't want a man as a permanent partner. She doesn't bring her work home with her. She leaves her work at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:37 AM
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Only cowards and idiots don't. This comes up often. Women are told, "Just communicate!" The men are not listening as a tactic. If he listens and understands, then he has to do something about it. He has to fix himself. If he pretends not to understand, he can string her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:27 AM
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The only people who think I can’t possibly be happy are men my age who are lonely and unhappy. It’s projection. They thought they would turn mid 30s and women would be throwing themselves at them and that’s not the case. For the women still looking for a relationship my age, they find most of these men want a woman who’s basically their bangmaid and willing to also go half on the bills so as not to seem like a gold digger. And they'd rather stay alone, than work all day and come home and cook an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:23 AM
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“Oh we have sex just like we did when we were in our 20s.” Their penis takes waaaayyy longer to get hard, it's still semi-soft, and they often lose their erection right in the middle of the sex act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:18 AM
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I also tend to attract narcissistic men thanks to my upbringing, and the whole dating ordeal is frustrating for me. Don't date men who are drawn to you. (You are a narc-magnet.) Make an effort to chat up they guy you are NOT drawn to. Get to know him. Don't wait for "butterflies" to inform you who to date. Use your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:08 AM
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But men are lonelier and have fewer friends so they want someone to talk to. It's not just social. They want someone to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:06 AM
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George Sodini. Also, Marc Lepine (1989). Alek Minnasian. (2018).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 07:25 PM
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(2) mommies to take care of them; I'll go with number 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:31 PM
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There are speed dating for mid 30’s that literally have to pay men to attend. I'm on your side, but do you have any proof of the that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:28 PM
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Yep it's true and the same for me too. Same here. 3rd woman to reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:26 PM
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(a lot of which have existed in the past and arguably worked very well for long periods of time) "Worked well" for men. Women were miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:12 PM
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After all, they expect fairness and justice in other domains of life (and we have institutions to at least try and realize those kind of values). You're talking about a fairness that's adjuticated (laws are passed).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:10 PM
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ideas of paper abortions What's a paper abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:38 PM
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No, that logic doesn’t track. It does. It absolutely does. Nothing is worse than being treated like dirt by a guy who is your equal in looks, or even slightly worse. It's like Harvey Weinstein and wife. He cheated on her multiple times. She must have said, "Are you f*cking kidding me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:35 PM
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A lot of women have issues from childhood, and that causes them to become promiscuous to deal with or soothe the pain from the issues. A LOT of women who were raped (usually as under-age girls) become promiscuous to reenact the crime, but with a "happy ending." (Spoiler alert: they never achieve what they're looking for. There is no closure.) It's a way for them to take control of a situation they had no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:27 PM
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Your account is literally dedicated to trolling this sub. The fact that you have no family or children to tend to but rather spend your days trying to bait men online (probably because you’re bitter that you have no real value at this point in your life) is hilarious. What the fuck, man? She's given cogent answers you don't want to hear to every argument on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:06 PM
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5'9" is average, from the American civil war to today. Women with big (ethnic) noses or small breasts have been getting plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:25 PM
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It's not that different, guys who weren't getting laid when I was 20 are the same type posting now, only they didn't have a place to bitch about it and get angry instead of fixing themselves. ^ This. There's nothing new under the sun, it's just that there are platforms for banding together and bitching about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:22 PM
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it’s biological, not sociological. Men produce resources, whether money, food, shelter, or even semen - and women are literally designed mentally and physically to extract those resources from men. This argument is always dusted off ("it's biological!") when it's something men can change, which is wealth. And I always shout it from the rooftops when it comes to picking a partner to breed with (i.e., have sex with, since birth control is a recent phenomenon): it's biological for women to want/cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:12 PM
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Men care way more about looks than women do Not a chance. Women care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:28 AM
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personally speaking, the uglier she is, the less effort I'm going to put in. It's really, really difficult for women to cum with an ugly guy. Looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:54 PM
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Two guys were bad-bad and those guys also had the biggest dicks. Maybe 20% have been 'meh", 60% enjoyable but not memorable and 10% have been amazing. Classic bell-curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:48 PM
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How would that work in a long term relationship? Long term -- don't show off your wealth, period. Drive a used car, wear a Timex, live modestly. When it comes time to marry, for god's sakes and all that's holy, get a pre-nup! Both of you should have a lawyer, and asset division will come up. If he/she walks, wave bye-bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:09 PM
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Most men want an 8+ lookwise? What are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:08 AM
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An ad hominem is any statement which disagrees with a claim which has not been made That's a straw-man argument. Ad hominem is attack the person, not the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:17 PM
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Men just want women for sex friend roommate partner maid broodmare nanny to their spawn nurse (for boo-boos and flu) therapist emotional heat-sink firewall to his relatives normalcy prop (for their co-workers/the world)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:14 PM
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I'm not sure what -- about being muscular -- makes a man "less stable." Edited to add: They are "more attractive." (Sometimes.) Well, you men complain loudly about women wanting to date men more attractive than themselves, and yet you are the same way. (If you are a man actively willing to date women who match your attractiveness level -- or are uglier than yourselves -- raise your hand in the back so we can see you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:20 PM
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Unwanted sex is not a price I am willing to pay to make strangers feel loved. The "pity-fuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:01 PM
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It was about how *women should be allowed to have preferences at al**l,* whether certain shapes and sizes work better, etc. Men are vocal about preferences re: boobs, butts, hair, and everything else, women should be allowed the same freedom. \^ Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:06 AM
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I still don’t think sex on the first or the second date is the norm outside of pop culture and Internet board fantasies. ^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:24 PM
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if she makes you wait, she very likely had sex with a guy right away at some point in her life. How fair is that? The other guy was better-looking (than you)? What is so difficult to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:23 PM
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The guys who are dating traditionally are going to feel like chumps if they have to wait a month to have sex; Then men have to stop "slut-shaming" women who enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:22 PM
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I’m having much better luck identifying the wholesome ones after that crash course in red flags lol. r/LifeAfterNarcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:57 PM
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It's more a human and not a male issue, is my point The ONLY time men see women as human beings is when they want to deflect; to draw the circle wider to include women by saying, "Nuh, huh! You, too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:50 PM
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"I deserve more than the ugly, fat women because she's a constant reminder of my own self worth" Ooof. Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:44 PM
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I'm just your average shy type who is afraid of rejection. Annnndddd ... that's why you're dateless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:33 AM
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Decent guys, got a lot going for them socially ... Just aren't attractive enough, despite being fit and well groomed. Why aren't they having sex with less attractive women? Less attractive women would kill to be with these men!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:57 PM
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Whore, bitch, crazy, gold digger, damaged goods, fat (not gendered, but men like using it more than women from what I've seen online), cat lady, bimbo, dyke, cougar, hag, Karen, feminazi. I'm sure I've missed something else. Cunt, landwhale, flat (chested), dog (ugly), hormonal, airhead, aggressive (ambitious), slept her way to the top, abrasive, bossy, high-maintenance, tramp, whore, cougar, ball-buster, manish, nag, ice-queen, shrew, catty, man-hater, drma-queen, ditzy, prima-donna, diva, cock…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:54 PM
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I've seen a 5ft 4 guy who people here would rate as a 1 or 2 be able to get women who were 5s and 6s That's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:14 PM
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... you all were raised to feel entitled to never have to experience anything even slightly unpleasant ^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:31 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? If 70% of women refuse to date men under 5'8, that heavily restricts the dating pool of anyone under 5'8. What do you care? If you under 5'8," date the other 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:48 AM
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I have ridiculously high standards: Under 30 and not fat. I'm pushing 50 and....decidedly not fat. Yeah ... echoing the others who said we have the right to make fun of other's standards: fuck you for wanting a woman 20 years younger than yourself. You're an old bastard; why someone in her twenties would look twice at you is a wonder to me. (It's your right.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:33 PM
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People are allowed to have whatever standards they want, and we are allowed to laugh at or shit on them for it. Yes, completely. But you're not allowed to whine that someone's standards put you on the outside looking in, like a sad, wet animal stuck in the rain, looking at people warm and cozy around a fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:30 PM
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FDS has bad filters and bad strategies. No, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:24 PM
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I've never struggled to date so they are reasonable by definition. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:56 PM
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People can want what they want —- and we are free to criticize it Of course, but not how someone else's standards are restricting your dating pool. That's ridiculous. #1. Date someone else. #2. Analyze your restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:54 PM
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... he was not clear on the concept of marital fidelity. Sorry. Made me smile. (Good joke.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:57 PM
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and tend to stick to the ones who submit to you? He never implied "submit." He said, "up their game," he (presumably meant) "change their demeanor."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:22 AM
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For the same reason women let men whose names they don't even know bang the shit out of them Stop seeing women as the "acted upon." They "act." They know what the are doing (and they enjoy it).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:20 AM
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OP saying that truest female love is borderline personality disorder and once you have experienced it everything else falls short. He said, "up their game" become "super caring." I agree with OP>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:10 AM
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Trust me, I've never been better behaved. But does she become super caring and puppy dog-like for you? Upping her game? (As the OP said.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:08 AM
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I think people in general will simp for partners they consider far better than they are. You can see this with men too when they date up (or what they perceive as up)—they will bend over backwards for these women. The OP literally said, "... even how when friend goin a relationship with a girl waay below his lealki landwhale status, no job. She STILL never seemingly was enamoured with idea of being with this "avarage Joe". Regardless of how lucky she should have considered herself ..." I agree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:04 AM
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Thus means justification? Yes, sorry. "Thus" is an old word and means, "to justify what follows." Your English is lovely!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:50 AM
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My only other perk was that I was funny, and had good social skills and charisma. This isn't a perk. It's essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:22 PM
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Haha there is always one person who asks to 'define' each word of a post "Define the word 'post' please."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:02 PM
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You being successful AND pretty made you unapproachable in their eyes thus the mean treatment You literally justified being mean to someone who wasn't mean to you, first. Why would you be mean to someone you felt was out of your league, though? Why aren't men gracious? If someone walks up and punches me, it's on; I will take them down. I don't, however, walk up and punch(as an analogy) someone because I dislike their face or station in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:59 PM
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They’ll try anything except eating right, working out and getting enough sleep. And taking care of their teeth, keeping their beard trimmed, their hair nice, their clothes clean and well-fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:48 PM
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When you’re born ugly you grow up to be bitter and resentful. When you’re attractive you become confident and positive. ^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:47 PM
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... more stereotypically “attractive” people of both genders are relying more and more on their looks to get by and not actually be nice people or have great personalities. No, it was always that way, down through the millenia. Social media just enlarges the people who see it/are affected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:46 PM
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Same with hot vs ugly men Ugly and or fat men develop bitter, angry personalities and become hostile to everyone. They don't accept their lot in life to settle down and become the male version of sexless "cat ladies." Hot men can go either way. Some are nice, some are manipulative and mean (no reason, simply because they can get away with it -- for a while).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:45 PM
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The one's that did and regretted are soooo much better off then me who didn't and regrets it. As one goes through life, I found that one's biggest regret is what you DIDN'T do, not what you did do (the mistakes you made).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:59 AM
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You aren't wrong that women don't usually want to fuck ugly men. But they also don't want to fuck overly neurotic men. They don't want to fuck socially awkward men. They don't want to fuck short men. They don't want to fuck unaccomplished poor men. Etc. There's an interesting book by a German woman that effectively says women's natural sexual selectivity has been suppressed for millennia by civilizations using enforced monogamy to spread sexual access to men that women would normally decline to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:16 PM
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Objective. I agree. That goes for women looking at men, too. Honestly? Women should only breed with good-looking men and have good-looking children. Fuck the ugly ones out of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:56 AM
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No internal questions "To all the men on here: why don't you just date someone in your league or below?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:09 AM
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.... as men are naturally more hardwired to focus on appearance and culture has less ability to influence this, upwards or downwards. You are so wrong. Women are hard-wired to care about men's appearance. We don't want to fuck ugly guys. We don't want to breed with them. We don't want ugly kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:39 AM
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Even freed from cultural restraint, women still naturally care less about looks relative to other factors than men do. The issue is that the selection processes are quite different, so men it is ultimately a bit hard to compare them. Are you fucking kidding me? That's all the girls/women talk about when they get together and talk about males. When we were 13: "He's so cuuuuute!" A 70-year-old married neighbor (you can't make this up): "That Armie Hammer (this was before the scandal). Wow! He's g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:37 AM
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Where did you not understand 101? 101 was written 70 years ago in studies by men -- probably less than good-looking men -- who had a predetermined goal: if we hold women down, don't give them access to good jobs and birth control, can we (the ugly guys with a degree) get laid? The answer then was yes; the answer now is an emphatic no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:14 PM
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... even in today's time when women care more about looks than ever, are still significant enough to matter a great deal. Women have cared about looks for millennia. Now, we have jobs and birth control. We can finally choose a man based on his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:10 PM
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Is there a question here? Yes, very much so. I've read the threads and the men are asking, "What can I do to date a woman better-looking than myself?" To which I answer, why are aiming high? You -- a man -- don't want to date in your league or below; women don't want to date in their league or below. There's no mystery how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:01 PM
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It's difficult for a woman to date someone above herself. "Putting out" doesn't change the dynamics. Pretty women have sex. What's your point overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:45 PM
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Date, not commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:43 PM
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Yes -- I posted a different photo of Josh Halloway and wife. To the mods, why is it controversial to say men and women are alike in what we choose? Edited to add: Women don't want to date in their league or below; men don't want to date in their league or below. Women and men are alike. Men asking, "What do women want?" have their answer: Everybody wants someone better looking than themselves. Men aiming high and getting shot down is perfectly understandable when men view women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:17 PM
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Josh Holloway (famous Chad actor) with his 4/10 wife Josh Holloway with wife
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:43 PM
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Re: " ^ This. Much ink has been spilled (in scientific journals!) that men want hot young women because (evolution-wise) they are better breeders for there seed. VERY little ink has been spilled on women wanting the biggest, splashiest tail (peacock) the nicest home (the Bower bird) the best "stuff" (Magpie). If women choose to breed with the guy that has the nicest looks (peacock), or the best mansion with a heli-pad (Bower bird) or the guy with all the baubles and diamonds (Magpie); maybe it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:44 AM
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yeah but it doesn't hurt them as much as it hurts short, ugly men (in the sexual realm at least). Bullshit. You know all those mean things men say out loud about: too short, too tall, ugly, OR flat-chested women (men have said for centuries)? Women think it about: too short, too ugly, too small-dicked men. The OP is pointing to women being nice about it out-loud and therefore doing men a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:26 AM
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You mean....unattractive guys? You mean ugly guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:02 AM
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Re: "The whole “no kinkshaming” movement has gone so far that I guess now I’m a bad person because I don’t want to pass gas during sex for a man’s sexual pleasure. What has this world come to?" You know what? It's not kinkshaming; that's a mislabel so they can badmouth you as not being understanding. (The Straw man argument) It's that this man doesn't love you for you. He doesn't love being with you, smelling your skin, holding you, and talking and listening to you. He doesn't love a human being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:38 PM
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