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Since I date both I’ll give an example for each Man- I want my woman to be okay with me giving her shit in front of my friends. : I asked for more details and essentially he wanted to pose as the guy that can talk to his gf/wife in a rude way to impress his friends. Woman- I want my gf to like licking my toes. : when I asked for more details she said she enjoyed having her toes licked after she showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:43 PM
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I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:40 PM
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What am I comparing it to. If you’re saying there’s a gap there has to be multiple factors showing a trend. If not it’s called an outlier. This is simply an opinion until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:38 AM
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If you’re arguing in bad faith I’m not going to play that game. I asked you questions , you dodged them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:48 PM
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Brother that’s why I asked you those questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:19 AM
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I Get A or you don’t get B - ultimatum We hookup or you don’t get a second date. How isn’t that an ultimatum- Am I missing something I’m genuinely wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:51 AM
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How is sex the only expression of interest? Do they also think a woman shouldn’t show them any verbal affection, no acts of kindness, no non sexual physical affection, because sex is the only way? That truly doesn’t make sense. If they get married and his wife says no to sex one night is he going to divorce her because she apparently has no interest in him all of a sudden? This ideology seems it just gets worse and worse the further you are in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:49 AM
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A preference is indeed a - I like an over b - but this is an ultimatum. If you don’t give me A I won’t give you B
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:36 AM
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Honestly it’s not even the verbal agreement or hints that’s the problem. It’s the “only go out again if we hookup” that’s just the issue no matter what. no matter what i do or don’t do with him, once i find out about his requirements for a second date, I wouldn’t go out with him again. If I sleep with him and find out about his “preference” I’d feel used and betrayed. never speak to him again. If I didn’t sleep with him and he told me why there would be no second date I’d be relieved I didn’t sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:33 AM
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Is that genuinely what you gathered? That men can’t have preferences? Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:07 AM
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I would say no. It’s not creepy and I assume many men think about hooking up on the first date but the part where I’m made to feel I won’t get a second date unless I sleep with him is far more transactional than what I find healthy in a relationship. Especially when he wants one long term it’s automatically established where sex is used as a “good”. I don’t want me or my partner to think sex is something we use to buy more time with eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:04 AM
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I’ve never heard of women suddenly dressing that showed more after getting with someone. You’re asking a girl to dress differently just bc she’s dating you. That’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:05 PM
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It would be hard to stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:18 PM
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Women can get dates/ hookups anywhere why go to the bar- Find someone who’s drunk or trying to be? Doesn’t sound appealing in the slightest Idk why anyone is saying go to the bars as advice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:03 AM
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I’m shocked by the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:29 PM
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Not a rebuttal or counterpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:49 AM
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So you were being snarky and trolling then got mad you got called out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:54 AM
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It depends on your personal wants. “Too controlling” is an opinion. Some people like that others hate it. For me my SO controls almost every aspect of my life and I let him. It’s my personal relationship dynamic and it works. I don’t think it’s too controlling while others 100% would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:44 PM
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This emotional passive aggressive victim hood of men really showed your intent behind your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:42 AM
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And you say that bc?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:39 AM
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Thank you again for telling everyone something we all know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:38 AM
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Neither was your comments. Now we’re both stating the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:29 AM
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So sex is purely transactional? Not having sex is a fair reason to not be happy. So any normal person leaves. They leave bc of not getting their sexual wants met. They don’t leave suddenly because of cancer bc then they are simply leaving bc of cancer. Leaving someone because of cancer is never okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:29 AM
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Yes I made it up. That’s obvious. It’s called an example. Men really are something else when they think they’re smart for pointing out the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:27 AM
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“Hunny I have cancer” “too bad didn’t get enough head” Gee I wonder why she wasn’t giving him head or any sex for that matter. Maybe because he feels entitled to it and doesn’t see it as an act of love and trust. If someone feels entitled to sex and uses it as an excuse to ditch someone while they’re at their most vulnerable they were why they didn’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:21 AM
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There’s men and women that love dad/mom bods and even bigger. Has nothing to do with personal insecurities. Like saying someone only likes ppl with black hair so their hair can look lighter in comparison. Absolute craziness and I honestly don’t think you believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:28 AM
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Define successful in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:13 AM
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I’ve never known any man to have a false allegation against them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:46 PM
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How is it shallow to want something from someone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:26 PM
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Most men? Definitely not. Why does anyone get with someone? Because they want something from them. Not shallow or bad. It’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:58 AM
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That’s common sense. So much so I didn’t feel the need to have to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:24 AM
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“but when a man does it and sex is involved, everyone just laughs because men get no sympathy and can never be victims in our society.” There’s no victims if they’re buying goods and receive said goods. “Immoral shortcut” your morals and literally everyone’s else are different. It’s not a shortcut when again - someone is seeking to buy goods and they receive them. “Provided real value to a man and her children” you thinking a woman only has value when she’s with a man and has children is sexist.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:32 PM
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Leaving a family is never okay. Ending a marriage but still being a family is understandable and reasonable Miserable parents are bad for kids. But absent parents are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:53 PM
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Do you also think the clit is a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:18 AM
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That’s seriously all you took from that. Seriously? Nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:17 AM
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This is already a thing. The norm is to be close to a traditional wife and mom. It’s the minority who’s not doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:12 AM
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One in five women in the United States experienced completed or attempted rape during their lifetime. Nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime. One in three female victims of completed or attempted rape experienced it for the first time between the ages of 11 and 17. About half (51.1%) of female victims of rape reported being raped by an intimate partner and 40.8% by an acquaintance https://www.nsvrc.org/statist…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:49 PM
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Im honest if they ask and I think they’re someone who I want to be with long term but I don’t like being asked out of no where. For me I don’t ask unless I think they’re someone I want to be with long term. I only care if it’s above their age. Personal choice for me. Mines quite low and I have pride in it but at the end of the day as long as my friends haven’t been with them I don’t really care. My preference wasn’t even enforced with my current man and I’m glad I didn’t die on that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:40 AM
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So you don’t actually know anything about sexual assault victims. Like wow wtf Most are done by men we know. Most are done by those closest to us it’s not a “oh no I’m drunk and at a party” Jesus wtf Secondly it’s not minuscule. Most women have been assaulted. Most women know women who’ve been assaulted. No offense but you saying you’d rather take a chance at being assaulted than being a man is such a ridiculous and idiotic take when you JUST complained about the rough dating scene for men. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:36 AM
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Well mine did dip only because my SOs labido completely stopped after I moved in with him back in 2022. After two years of my high labido not matching his next to none it just naturally dipped recently and has stayed low compared to how I used to be. I’m still much higher than my man but it’s probably the lowest it’s ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:44 AM
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They’re Mexican.. I truly have no idea why the wife’s accepts this. The wife and the wife’s husband have even had my friend live with them on and off. They all seem very accepting of “this is normal”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:16 AM
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How much of your money has gone to tampons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:54 AM
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I have one friend that is currently with a married man. However everyone around us knows. His wife even knows. If the wife didn’t know I may think differently but the wife knows, the kids know, everyone knows. It’s so normalized and being they have a different culture from me I truly don’t know how to think or feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:53 AM
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If you’re being told they want you for your money and you think “oh but she acts like she cares about other things” that’s on you. You were told that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:43 AM
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Offended no. I’d think it’s best not to be with someone who lacks communication when it comes to their feelings and would rather leave instead of wanting to better us. Win win for us both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:27 PM
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That’s why I didn’t say JUST testimony’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:18 PM
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During the me too movement many people were writing off women for coming after the mans money and that if they were telling the truth they would’ve come forward sooner but because the didn’t they would say they were gold diggers etc. They’d bring up their past of being with multiple men as if that means they couldn’t have been taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:49 PM
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That’s not what they were asking for when people say “believe women”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:56 PM
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Yes proof it didn’t happen. Testimonies of such happen in court and many times the one who’s lying, especially when it comes to children, can’t keep stories straight and can show inconsistency in their sides. If my son could tell me exactly what happened, answer questions, and even show me texts before and after that helps their argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:52 PM
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I withhold judgment. Most of the time the ones that are offenders are closest to us. But it would be my son. Imagining your son as that person is difficult for anyone. However every man who has done such things has a mom that still sees him as her precious boy. I would demand proof from both. Proof it did or didn’t happen. I would provide a legal team for sure but only if there’s a good chance he didn’t do it. If my daughter did something like that or lied about it she’s not getting a legal team…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:33 AM
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Women don’t hate players. People who want relationships hate players that don’t clearly state their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:27 PM
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You don’t have any proof dude. The “Not 95” is coming from the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:22 PM
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I don’t agree with sex work for anyone at any age. I was 18 when I got with a man who was 31. Looking back that was stupid. Plain and simple it was stupid. Dating older men most of the time ends badly. I don’t think age gaps are terrible but it’s definitely something I don’t think anyone under 25 should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:43 AM
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So again where is 95 coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:40 PM
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I asked questions. None you could answer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:40 PM
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When good looking people get exposure it’s very rare that people who find them attractive cares about what kind of person they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:51 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:49 PM
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95%? Where is that coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:43 PM
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Yes that’s what media coverage does. Anyone who’s had tv shows, articles, etc of them get the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:42 PM
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But how many is that? Also how is that directly correlated to serial killers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:23 PM
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Says who
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:20 PM
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I’m sorry are you saying every woman would pick a serial killer over a normal man? All women??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:20 PM
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I’d swipe on guys who had a good bio and looked good. Then with conversation their personality and intentions came out. Many guys have their bio as “not sure” for if they want long or short term relationships as well as not sure for kids. I understand not knowing but I found many guys put that so they get matches and can talk about hooking up once they get a match. That’s where being selective starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:31 PM
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Yes I’m aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:13 AM
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“Hey these homeless people who can’t afford anything don’t have weddings rings so you don’t need them either” Well why don’t we all just be homeless. Love doesn’t need a roof over our heads. Secondly you don’t know if they’re married or not. My parents pawned their rings and didn’t have them for years. If you don’t want to get married that’s great but normalizing it when our society has made single moms an acceptable thing for men to aid in, this is the worst conversation ever. Let’s normalize c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:00 PM
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If they wouldn’t say it to a friend or coworker why would anyone think it’s okay to say it to a celebrity. Hes literally just doing his job- yes it’s more socially known but it’s just a job. It’s so disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:19 AM
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I answered your questions that you just asked…… and I didn’t say anything about friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:38 AM
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So just from observing how you interact with people in the comments your “formula clearly” isn’t working. Theres not one normal interaction. No one can even converse with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:43 PM
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“Why must there be an upside for men” But but but men 🥺 /s His masculinity apparently can’t handle such a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:07 PM
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If a man throws around an accusation of cheating in an argument that’s a huge problem. Are you arguing or just trying to hurt your spouse? Like what. Ammo of friends? Family?? Wow who needs enemies when your friends and family call your wife a whore for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:10 AM
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Definitely not. I love hockey and mma. Those are great. More so talking about hobbies like street racing or something to that extreme where it’s just dangerous hobbies that put other people at risk just for an adrenaline rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:08 AM
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That’s what being in a relationship is in general. You’re having faith in that person to be loyal , be trustworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:35 AM
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No absolutely not. I stay bc it has shown me how insane some people opinions are if they’re behind a screen and are anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:33 AM
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Hobbies are great. They’re healthy. I don’t care what guys are into as long as it’s not illegal or hurting yourself or other people. As someone who is with someone who’s neurodivergent dating is going to be harder for you or anyone that is such. But finding someone who understands adhd is the best thing you could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:29 AM
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You’re totally right. I agree. Both him and I have brought it up. A few times unfortunately. His response is always “it’s not important to me right now and I don’t expect anyone to think I’m attractive nor do I need anyone to”. No idea how to even respond to that without getting the “all you think about is sex” talk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:04 PM
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Yes and no. My friends and I don’t talk in depth about our relationships. However some small things come up and without full context it’s hard to even say when something is right or wrong. I don’t tell people how to act in relationships because I think it’s disrespectful to get advice from people who aren’t even dating that person. But if anyone shows bad behavior around me ya I’ll say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:14 AM
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My man talked about paternity tests before we had children. I agreed and 100% felt it was the respectable thing to do BEFORE I was pregnant. Doing things before they happen shows it’s about them. Doing things after means it’s about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:12 AM
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If you’re saying this is morality debate then it’s an opinion and if are arguing for opinions why would I give you a source of legal issues when you’ve said you don’t care about the legality of it. You putting an ultimatum on a conversation got me to chuckle so thank you for that though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:39 PM
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He pictures me as an extension of my child and he can’t get around it. He sees me only as a mom. Nothing else about me. I’m just a mom. Edit: mind you I’m literally 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:37 AM
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Yes of course I said it twice. Because intimidation can be considered harassment. Fear can be considered intimidation or harassment. Etc etc. It was intentional I assumed you’d understand. Legally it all can. Especially an “ultimatum” where a person is pressured into sex. Being put into fear they will be forced to perform sex with someone or else (intimidation) is indeed illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:37 AM
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fear, intimidation, or emotional distress can be considered harassment or intimidation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:30 AM
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Threats that cause fear, intimidation, or emotional distress can/are considered harassment or intimidation. Threats don’t have to be violent to be unlawful. Don’t know why you’d believe that. And you want a source for sexual abuse being illegal or what I genuinely don’t know what part you’re asking a source for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:26 AM
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Still SA. Blackmailing is illegal. Coercion is illegal. Manipulation of sex is illegal. Threats are illegal. It’s all considered illegal and in some cases sexual abuse. Someone being abused into doing something is not consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:19 AM
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(2022) After I got pregnant my SO stoped wanting sex. It dwindled to no sex and no affection or touching in the slightest as of today. (2023) we didn’t sleep in the same room or even touched eachother. Not even sat next to eachother. (2024) He simply wants nothing to do with any kind of affection or intimacy. Basically a 3-6 foot rule of space 24/7. The second he realized I was a mother he lost all sexual desire. Neither of us has any idea how to fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:33 AM
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Sex is a huge part of what separates a girlfriend/boyfriend from just a friend. So it truly depends on the person. Usually there’s two reasons people stay : love, kids. Love is vital. It’s that’s what keeps a relationship going for most people in deadbedrooms but sex is also apart of love. So it truly depends on each persons situation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:29 AM
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That’s actually super interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:24 AM
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Do you have anything else? The article itself lacks specific scientific citations or direct references to research studies, making it more of an informed opinion based on her experience rather than a strictly evidence-based piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:50 PM
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I’m in a deadbedroom and it’s definitely not on my end. Marriage doesn’t mean guaranteed sex. Putting that into law makes marital rape legal as well as potentially ruining any marriage where there is health issues both physical and mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:46 PM
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What are you even talking about “don’t want sex until they are half way into it”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:42 PM
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Well if anyone takes this advice seriously then I agree, they should stay single. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:25 AM
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If you’re having a conversation about something and listening to someone they aid in the decision. That contradicts you saying “It is more efficient in a household to have one decision maker than two decision makers that have argue back and forth on what is good.” I didn’t assume anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:47 PM
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In a dynamic where you expect someone to listen to you with no discussion is parenting. Thats literally what parents do with their children . If it’s insulting to you then it’s more so insulting the “logic” you have for it. Leaving no room for discussion puts you in the position that if/when things go wrong - we’re all human everyone makes mistakes- you’re now the one to blame and your family suffers for it. While a discussion leads to more insight based on both persons life experiences because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:01 PM
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I can get that. I am heavily submissive to my man but the open door for communication definitely keeps the trust continuing through out any healthy relationship. Of course it’s good to say - we’re doing this - and having a yes man but everyone makes mistakes and that’s putting incredible pressure on you or any man because if you make every decision without debate or discussion if/ when things fail the blame is on you while you both suffer. Huge gamble all around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:45 PM
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I opened a door for discussion my guy how did I insult you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:42 PM
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Well said. I submit pretty heavily to my man because he has shown he is capable of making the most educated decisions and has the intelligence, respect, and ability to make things easier for us both. Not a lot of women will do so because it definitely is putting away a lot of self respect if it’s with the wrong man. It’s a gamble but it pays off if done correctly. I think the right people just haven’t met their match and it’s incredibly intimidating to hear men wanting such things from a woman r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:40 PM
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“Doing what I say without back talk” so you want to be a father to a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:36 PM
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Sounds like a well balanced relationship good you for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:34 PM
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Are you serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:33 PM
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Sounds like you just want to be a father to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:32 PM
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How would it be stringing him along - genuinely wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:26 PM
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1) It does and doesn’t matter. In the sense that as people who have judgement for others should have it for themselves and many men do have that. So ya you can think it matters but it better matter for you as well For me the idea of not being with someone who you could really click with because of how many people they’ve had sex with is strange. 2) Most men care because they have a Madonna whore complex. They what an innocent girl but they want her to be freaky with them. They contradict eachoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:23 PM
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Men are speaking about how they purposely don’t choose to not date, be around, or even interact with women. Theres not much a woman could say that’s not “that sucks” which just comes across as patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:52 PM
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Ya false reports of anything ruin lives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:27 AM
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How is those boys getting raped misandry. Also huge number? Wdym huge number.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:25 AM
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Seriously though. It seems like people started to recently join or visit I should say because they heard of it from Instagram or TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:08 AM
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I guess? I’m the only white 20s woman I know irl who comes to this sub consistently. I have however talked to a few other women my age in this sub that also have basic day to day lives like I do. I guess our paths don’t cross that much and that’s probably why it seems like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:03 AM
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And what’s normal in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:55 AM
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Why would we? We will never understand what it’s like to be a man let alone a man who gave up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:50 AM
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What??? What do you think this sub is about if you think “normies” and women aren’t meant to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:48 AM
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It’s really not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:44 AM
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This is actually insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:44 AM
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Yes and no. I’ll be honest. I definitely was more attracted to him - lustfully speaking - a few years ago but he has completely given up on himself and hey that’s life we all have ups and downs. Our priorities shift and looks change. He was one of the most good looking guys I had ever seen when we met. He’s still good looking but he’s not at his best and that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:20 AM
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You right you right. I love a lot of the younger gen x
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:54 AM
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We are looking at stats my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:08 PM
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Can’t tell if you’re 15 or 50 for you to be genuinely saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:07 PM
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You’re 100% correct. There’s been more single women buying homes currently than ever before. Idk why people don’t know those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:05 PM
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Why did you say “women is at fault” for divorces. The main reasons why women initiate divorce more often than men are: Unmet needs Deficient Life-Work Balance Husband’s Unfaithfulness - (59.6% of the time) Alcohol Addiction - (34.6% of the time) Physical and Emotional Violence - (23.5%) Better Support System Fewer Regrets ( women marrying too young : 45.1%)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:02 PM
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Well that’s certainly not true. In just the last 20 years there’s been hundreds of milestones that women have achieved in male dominated fields. It’s actually quite impressive what’s been going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:10 AM
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I think quite a lot of men who rape think they’re going to get away with it. Some don’t care yes but many I suspect rely on the victims not speaking out about it. I think if men knew they could get away with it it would only be a few percentage more that would rape but not a large percentage of the male population
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:52 AM
1

The “All men are trash minus my boyfriend” is such a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:22 PM
1

I want one but I don’t think it’s realistic anymore. The western world is full of immediate satisfaction by a click of a button. People have found all their wants and needs easily available online but most of those wants are due to illusions and acting. Nothing like irl. So why would people choose something hard and slow when they can get it online or through the internet quicker and better in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:08 AM
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•Addiction. •Bad hygiene. •Unmanaged mental health. •Overweight. •Narcissism. •Racism/ hate towards any group including men. •is a Deadbeat mom/ more than one baby daddy •History of cheating. •Doing nothing in life/ no goals. •No control of finances
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:32 AM
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So you love your homeboys the exact same as a gf? No. It’s different and that’s what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:30 PM
2

Who cares? People who want only head shouldn’t be in relationships if they think that’s all a relationship is. People who want relationships want connection and love. Giving head isn’t going to stop anyone from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:56 PM
6

More like the opposite. They rely on their looks to get women in bed. Then they have no idea or drive to do anything or learn how to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:53 PM
1

It’s a kink. They have self respect enough they know a kink isn’t going to make them any less of a person or change who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:50 PM
6

2% is a lot to you??? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:58 AM
6

When the majority of one gender has experienced problems by the more populated gender that’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:57 AM
6

So you’re going off of a guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:55 AM
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I don’t trust them. I know it’s not all men but the men closest to me hurt me the most. Especially knowing family members are the more likely to hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:50 AM
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That’s not what most cucks believe at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:17 AM
1

How is it a lack of self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:17 AM
1

Here’s the thing- I was attacked by a dog so I’m terrified of them. But I do not hate dogs nor do I think they hate me. Thinking a whole group thinks or acts the same is ridiculous and choosing to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:25 PM
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As a mother myself people who rely on their children to take care of them or carry on their “legacy” don’t want children. They want free work. Everyone dies alone. Even with children and a husband. They die alone with memories. So if they’re worried about memories then that doesn’t even mean children are the best way to do it. It’s biological to want children. It’s biological to think kids are the way to go but we also can choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:37 PM
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Weren’t you the guy who said “A woman don’t add a value to herself passing genes of the male with dog shit value” So in your opinion (I’m genuinely asking a question here) are you saying women should only have the top 1% of men’s children and all women should just be with that 1% like a polygamist family or how would that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:34 PM
2

Do you understand you’re reinforcing the issue I was discussing all while trying to encourage me to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:10 PM
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That wasn’t my point. Like at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:09 PM
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Brother- tell me what you think my point was. Seriously. Because you’ve obviously missed it or are trying to justify your idea that women want to be raped. I truly do not give a shit who has what kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:38 PM
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So you ignored my point and you decided you just Had to tell me women have rape fantasies. Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:44 PM
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As a woman idk- There’s a big dating pool so it’s not hard to find a date it’s just about finding a good date. Finding Good Jobs are just hard for anyone. I think women who want kids or have kids have it hard in jobs because jobs simply won’t hire you if you’re pregnant or with young children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:01 AM
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It is talked about. Many women have experienced some man in their life who has porn addiction and have seen how shitty it is. Those women come to hate the women in the industry. Especially sexual assault victims. Seeing women dress as children, play out rape scenes, etc. that’s where the infamous “all women fantasize about rape” narrative stemmed from and it infuriates most normal people. So yes women do complain about it. Heavily so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:59 AM
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90% of women you know have cheated? So is that just a conversation starter you have: “hey, you cheat often?” lmao totally believable. Also what is 90%. 2,5,10? Again this just seems ……
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:13 AM
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Men who call women bitter feminists when they disagree with you- you’re simply an asshole. Women who call men creepy incels when they disagree with you- you’re simply an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:47 AM
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Perfectly said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:37 AM
12

I hate that this isn’t common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:36 AM
9

100% Women do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:35 AM
3

And in your mind what’s “acting accordingly”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:35 AM
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Not shocked you of all people would say this unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:34 AM
2

If sex is the greatest thing in your life it must be pathetic as hell. Sex is fun but if I knew a man had used women to make him feel good and throw them aside like trash he’s not marriage material. Why settle down with someone like that? There’s always better men around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 AM
1

That’s not true. Cheating has to do with respect not love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:39 AM
1

Well no but alright
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:11 PM
2

Maybe it’s porn that has influenced a lot of women’s expectations of what sex or how men’s bodies act. Guys aren’t light switches of either on or off. It’s normal so I’m not sure why any woman would be weird but I think it comes from insecurity that you’re not feeling it with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:51 AM
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I need you to site your claims on a handful of things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:50 AM
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I think it’s kind of a dumb idea. Not to insult her but seriously…. Weeding her yard…. That’s not even a date. She invited a guy to work for her for free, and keep her entertained for free. Unless it was a mutual want where they both were into it then it’s dumb and honestly disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:45 AM
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Question- what do you mean when you say having a high sex drive can be a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:41 AM
4

How does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:40 AM
5

Wouldn’t most people who sleep on a first date have a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:40 AM
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American standards of beauty can be vastly different from other countries. So again it truly depends. But that’s not what I’m saying. Also I’ve known many attractive men and women who don’t sleep around. All depends on personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:34 AM
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What deems someone as not hot enough is more personal taste. But if I found them attractive or even if I didn’t, i wouldn’t care if those guys didn’t sleep around or are even virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:26 AM
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I know that from stats, r/genz , mine and friends online dating experiences etc etc Unable to sleep around? What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:37 AM
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I don’t think looks means you get laid a lot. Tons of young men just aren’t having sex and it’s not because they’re ugly. I would want someone I’m dating to not sleep around because it seems that they’re not serious about building a connection with me so if they do I would see them as a pure hookup and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:58 PM
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50/50. If you don’t have the foundation of chemistry then it will be miserable. But you need stability. Everyone needs financial stability to be able to live in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:05 PM
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No. You involved kids in a kink. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:03 PM
2

Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:54 AM
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He has a weird ass extreme breeding kink ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:53 AM
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This is not a place for your kink shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:52 AM
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Are you actually asking or just trying to make this into a “well they’re close enough” argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:58 PM
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So would you say women can’t avoid being misandrists?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:56 PM
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This was quite the story but it has a lot of contradictions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:58 PM
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This sounds like you’ve been listening to too many podcasts bros who are miserable trying to create more miserable men so they rely on podcast bros validation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:19 PM
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No. I don’t care about body count that much. If I man wants to cheat he will. I’ve heard of men who only have been with their wives trying to cheat and heard men who’ve slept with hundreds try to cheat. It’s about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:16 PM
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The older I’ve gotten and the more men I’ve been around and ACTUALLY talked to, the more I’ve realized the shit pressure from everyone guys have. Even young men. Emotions are bad. Asking for help is bad. Can’t be “too picky” with dating. Can’t worry about mental health. Can’t be raped. Can’t be groomed. Break ups obviously mean it’s your fault. Can’t be around kids too much. Can’t be with anyone that’s not your exact age. Can’t have hobbies that don’t involve working. Can’t take days off. Weddin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:42 AM
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“Just as much” no. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:32 AM
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No. I actually like the fact that I can go on dates with men and tell them I want to be a SAHM and it’s completely normal. I like the standard of being the one who is cared for and not expected to be the bread winner. Also the dating scene for men is trash and for me I have never struggled to get a date and been treated. I like being feminine and i know a lot of guys can’t/wont ask for help with things while I feel I freely can. I also like that I can chat with kids and babysit kids and no one t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:27 AM
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That’s far from true. How many homeless people you see having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:12 AM
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Sex isn’t like shopping. It’s not a transaction and I’d hope most people want their partner to want them. Saying this as a HLF with a LLM thanks r/deadbedrooms for the acronyms but I don’t want to have sex with anyone just because they feel like they have to. Sex is something vulnerable of both people and when they don’t care for it shouldn’t be something to compromise on. Like kids. There’s things in life you just cannot compromise on you either are for it or you’re not and if you and your part…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:40 PM
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His posts kinda gave his motive for this question away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:47 AM
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It actually does have analogue to sex. Why do you think it doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:42 AM
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I personally don’t like it. Feels like guys just try to mimic what they see from porn and they’re surprised you don’t finish in 30 seconds from their random movements. Lots of friends say they have to have it but I could care less. I’ve told guys no a lot so I assume many guys are into it just as much as most women are into it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:40 AM
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Again yes. The decade old article was forgotten about and no one paid attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:59 AM
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It’s something said almost a decade ago that no one even took serious and have forgotten about, so idk why you said it was some growing movement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:37 AM
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My SO is 13 years older than me. As I look back when we met it was indeed …. Weird. If you’re dating someone 18+ you’re not a pedo. It’s stupid when people say that however there are creepy guys who date 18/19 year olds because that’s the youngest theyre legally allowed to date or go after. I think age gaps are fine but when dating 18/19 even 20 year olds it’s concerning how many of these big age gap relationships go sour. It highlights how it’s not just these people who go after younger looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:00 AM
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I think it’s understandable to be honest. Anyone who changed themselves after getting hurt is kind of second nature. Of course you’re going to make life changes after being betrayed. So I think when a man or woman goes red or blue pilled I understand it - it’s unfortunate but I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:45 AM
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I feel so sorry for guys in the dating pool rn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:05 PM
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Depends. When I’m walking alone with my child I’m on guard of everyone. Women and men alike. When I’m out alone I’m not consciously looking out for men but I’m looking out for anyone who looks out of place. I’m hyper aware of the fact women have been used to kidnap women and children bc they are seen as less threatening but I know a man has more strength over me so that causes more of a concern. But at the end of the day it has nothing to do with gender but with the over all gut feeling. If you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:27 PM
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Because we went friends. We just want friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:09 PM
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I think it’s disrespectful as hell in fact imo cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:39 AM
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I mean I was 18 when I got with my current man who’s 13 years my senior so I can’t personally say anything to that lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:05 PM
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I sought out “bad boys” I guess that’s the term we’re using, when I was young because I didn’t want something serious. I wanted something fun and those “chads” were fun. Those self proclaimed “nice guys” were boring. Later people want a good guy because they want to be with someone long term and know those men who were bad boys aren’t good partners and are only good for entertainment purposes : quick sex, parties, etc. Good guys are someone who you want to have kids with and who you want to fall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:55 AM
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I’m biased but at 18 I got with someone who was 30+. Years later I wouldn’t have done such a thing but I’m VERY LUCKY he’s a decent man. The argument of women shouldn’t date older men is because men who seek out young women have shown to only what one thing out of these young women. Sex, power, or self satisfaction. Not all but enough it’s a problem. The issue of you using the bear vs man thing is you’re automatically making the bear into the worst case scenario but saying “average joe”. Either …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:50 AM
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I agree. It’s always the “you deserve to be treated like the queen that you are” as she’s unhealthy, phone addict, with mental problems and a bad attitude who expects Prince Charming. It’s something I believe as women we hold this toxic positivity where we just applauded everything that now we’re thinking because we exist we can stop trying. It’s only fucking ourselves over at this point. If you’re told you’re perfect just the way you are 100 times you’re never going to better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:43 AM
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Luckily not on this sub but other subs I have. It’s usually the classic “internalized misogyny” but when I tell women to simply go find out for themselves they usually stop their comments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:03 AM
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It’s mainly the reason I’m with a man now. Guys will actually talk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:01 AM
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Yes. And it was a nightmare trying to online date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:03 AM
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Well it’s hard to date women. Online dating sucks. Most people either meet their gf from friends or work so if you don’t have that you’re forced to online and that’s a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:16 PM
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You surely don’t actually believe any of this right? Nothing you said is factual or even the majority of people’s experiences. Nothing you said can even be backed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:12 PM
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So you not liking a source enough doesn’t negate it. That’s more of a personal issue on your end of you simply not liking it enough which idk what to tell you. Even The National Park Service reports that the chance of being injured by a bear is approximately 1 in 2.7 million so again even when you’re in the woods around the bears it’s not gonna happen unlike 1 in 6 chance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:22 AM
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Im aware that im not on his list of priorities. We’ve discussed it and it took me time to understand his point of view but now that I do I view us as very transactional. For years I was actually solely giving in the relationship. I was giving and giving and i do still sometimes but I know not to expect anything and it’s to only make ME feel something. Because we’re so transactional I’ll end up only seeing him a total of 10-30 minutes a day, So I am always relaxed. Being with someone so superfici…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:17 AM
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Someone saying “bear” isn’t treating you like a monolith. Please get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:13 PM
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I’m purple pill in a relationship with a red pill man. From my experience you’re right and wrong. What I’ve learned is -A man’s success is solely based on how far he gets in life- yes he’s very materialistic, anything pertaining to our relationship is basically set to the side. The ideologies of red pill is not commutative at all. It’s selfish but it gets the job done. But red pill (from my experience) is really tough for people around the red piller but it works for the actual individual. But t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:08 PM
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Their point went way over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:57 PM
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Bc stats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:55 PM
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Ya I’ll ignore literally everything you said as they’re your opinions and hey you can have them. But. I’ll just share the stats that you wanna ignore: There are just 40 bear attacks on humans worldwide every year, and one fatal black bear attack per year in the US. Meaning it a 1 in 2.1 million chance of being attacked by a bear. 1 out of every 6 American women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime So now that I proved your opinion wrong idk what else you wanna sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:09 PM
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I love how you listed jobs. Like it’s literally their fucking job. You don’t get brownie points for doing a job you signed up for???? Men aren’t the reason for that but if you need to believe that to feel good I won’t stop you. Stats say men would attack me not a bear so I’ll use logic and not feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:55 AM
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This is a pretty small group that fit both “late bloomer” + 1-4. But we’re all on the autism scale. Everyone is so at this point it’s all about function ability that differs us. Even early bloomers or I guess “normal” bloomers have the chance at becoming a mommas boy, an 1ncel, or having an inflated ego due to school/work I think anymore more and more people would fit into the “late bloomer” category and saying they’re all one of these is insane and just not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:14 PM
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I’m pretty annoyed with the hoops you have to try to jump through when dating women. Half the time it’s layers and layers of nonsense that somehow is a test to reveal red flags. Idk I don’t get it. Im just sick of it and I get why men are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:04 AM
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I’m pretty annoyed with the hoops you have to try to jump through when dating women. Half the time it’s layers and layers of nonsense that somehow is a test to reveal red flags. Idk I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:03 AM
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Try any app with women. Try swiping on women and try having a conversation. I tried mom apps : nothing. I tried lesbian apps : nothing. I tried bumble friends : nothing. I tried multiple friends app : nothing. If women tried any kind of app that made them swipe on women they’ll find out quickly. Either I got nothing after a match. Maybe a “hey” but it was the driest experience ever. When my bf and I were swiping for him it was even worse. He’d get matched than unmatched. Get left on delivered. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:49 PM
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I think it’s hilarious but they’re all straight so they have no idea what it’s actually like. Dating apps with women are the worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:05 PM
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I’d be a good height but as I know what it’s like to try to date women it would be even harder as a guy. Dating women is like pulling teeth ngl so ya I’d be single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:52 AM
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LMFAO. You are aware that there’s not one single topic on the planet that 100% of people agree with right? Bro just say you disagree but it’s not projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:07 AM
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Lots of people are saying it disgusts them so no it’s not projection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:25 AM
3

How lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:25 AM
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But see how you’re aware to the fact you just want easy access to money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:23 AM
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Im in a long term relationship with someone who when I was 18 I met him when he was in his thirties. I warn women not to do this because older men are in fact looking for someone who are easy and simple minded. Girls who don’t know what they want in relationship. Girls who don’t know red flags. Girls who are blissfully unaware of toxic behaviors. Men who serial date young women only for looks and lack of mental maturity. I am lucky to be in a good relationship however being that I’m in the group…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:22 AM
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What’s to discuss I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:38 AM
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There’s a whole subreddit r/theotherwoman where they believe they’re all just having fun while they know they’re TOW If you know you’re the affair partner and you continue with it you deserve nothing but the worst. The law even finds people who know about a crime but don’t stop it or call the police as a criminal. Same logic with affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:28 AM
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Most people are becoming independent. Kids are expensive, there's a huge hookup culture, divorce is on the rise and the internet gives people all the entertainment and social needs people want so people do 50/50 because they don't get much out of relationships like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:11 AM
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No sex in a marriage is ridiculous and to me it ruins the whole point of the relationship in general. If you wanted a buddy don’t be in a relationship. If you wanted a friend don’t get in a relationship. Relationship is about physical and emotional intimacy and if you don’t want that then don’t be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:25 AM
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It’s not downplayed at all. It’s the first step. That’s pretty damn big
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:59 PM
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Ya again abusive partners love bomb lmao I feel like you just don’t look into what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:58 PM
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Ya and there’s studies on why those people stay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:57 PM
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Explain how
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:41 PM
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Oh yes that’s why you argued with me thrice. Totally believe you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:40 PM
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Because when you meet men they don’t just abuse you right away. It’s slowly integrated after love bombing. So ya those men showed good traits for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:37 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with sex so if I did I wouldn’t deny it. But ya I don’t think either of us cared we didn’t have sex. We left on good terms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:36 PM
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No he was a slut. Naturally tho. He had lots of girls in his DMs sending nudes fueling his crippling porn addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:34 PM
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Looks do something at first. Then it’s about personality. Looks is how you get them. Personality is how you keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:03 PM
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If you’re boring normally you’re worse in bed. So no I never “hit” it. but again quit thinking about strangers and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:56 PM
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You definitely need mental help I agree! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:23 PM
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Actually no…. So. Weird ass comment btw. Let’s not imagine strangers fucking next time mmmkay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:01 PM
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Dude I don’t care about stats. I said my personal experience and you ignored it. It has nothing to do with stats. You are again proving bears are better than men as not only do you not care about women who’ve been hurt but you actually want to argue with said women and try to minimize their experience. There’s no point in stats. Stats aren’t going to somehow me and I didn’t experience what I did you saying stats is only for your own personal feelings. Me calling you illiterate is not an ad homin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:58 PM
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No I dated some ultra famous insta model. He was handsome rich and was extremely popular. But he was boring and dull He had no flavor to him at all. He’d mindlessly agree with me on everything. He just sat there like a zombie. Couldn’t have a conversation about anything, I’d bring something up and it was a “same” “fr” “yup” I’ve found personality will 100% make someone look better, seem better, seem datable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:12 AM
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I literally made an argument. “Most of them were strangers” are you not capable of reading. Are you illiterate or are you purposefully ignoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:48 AM
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LMFAO “picked” bro most of them were strangers. You victim blaming stupid fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:07 PM
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Men don’t protect people lol. No one does. People pull out their phones and record. People are also too afraid of getting hurt themselves so that’s never gonna happen. No one will help you Secondly most cases of assault it’s the victims family member who is the abuser so ya your brother father uncle cousin could definitely be the problem. I’m not a feminist but I’ve had more than enough experience to know who’s more likely to be an attacker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:02 AM
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Tried to kill yes. Stalk yes. Assault yes. Rape yes. Black mail yes. Assault loved ones yes. Threaten to kill my child yes. All different men btw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:58 AM
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I’ve been around bears and I’ve been around men. I’ve never had a problem with bears. But I have with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:37 PM
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Lmao. do you just say random things so you can then argue with what you said to everyone, or am I special?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:03 AM
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Sweet okay didn’t know if I put it in a way people could understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:53 AM
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Because it’s an argument that red and blue pill can’t agree on. The whole sex doesn’t mean gender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:50 AM
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Controversial unfortunately, but for me it’s a safety thing. I don’t want to attach my face to this post as these men live in my state and I’ve seen how angry and hostile some of these people get if you don’t agree and hype up their “gender identity”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:32 AM
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This has got to be the funniest post in this sub. This is gold. “Women don’t want their friends to flirt with them” ya we wants friends as friends. “Prostitutes are mostly female” because women don’t need to pay for sex bc men usually want it Comparing a clit to an itchy nose…. Brother what? Women love sex. Clearly not with you tho p
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:17 AM
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Is there really anything that men or women have that could be complimented only about that one sex? Unless you talk about anatomy there’s nothing special about either that the other couldn’t have. I understand the want to keep it clean as it should but that’s impossible to do when there’s nothing else to differentiate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:56 PM
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This is NOT most women. Now if it keeps happening either it literally is you or it’s the area you live. Sometimes the common denominator doesn’t even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:10 AM
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Seriously though. I’d take that over being threatened
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:45 AM
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100% I mean Looking at his past comments he seems to be very one sided yet he asked women to think about it from his perspective then got mad when we didn’t say what he hoped
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:00 PM
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Ya he set it up to try and get women to say “no that’s all wrong” for a gotcha moment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:55 PM
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Some people want the world and are also willing to provide the world to someone. It’s not crazy to have standards as long as you yourself match them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:54 PM
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Ya they’re valid as long as the person complaining matches their own standards then yes complain away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:53 PM
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Riiiiight. So you do know the last thing you said isn’t a good thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:05 AM
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Hey everyone holyskillet just found a way to prevent men getting raped! How blue pilled of you. Fucking disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:34 AM
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It’s very much the same as when kids do the whole “I didn’t break that toy in fact, I’ve never even play with it, never even looked at it” people tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:03 AM
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Third time meeting someone and you think by then they should be comfortable getting naked for you? Woah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:01 AM
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Im 20 with someone over 10 years my senior. We both went to the same college, same hobbies, same goals, same family life wants, same interests, we talked about how different our lives were and how similar as well. I have conversations with his friends around his age and also have conversations with women his mother’s age. It’s not hard to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:42 AM
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So this is an opinion of yours that other men have debunked. Famously Andrew tate talked about how he seeks young women for their inexperience. Young people in general don’t know what a good relationship is. That takes experience. So no that’s just plain wrong lol And your last statement is also an opinion that many men have openly said they disagree with Half of this was a rant of you which had nothing to do with what’s being said. Stay off the soap box and on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:10 AM
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So re read what I said then come back and talk to me. Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:11 AM
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I didn’t claim that lol so right off the bat you’re just sayin stuff. I’m gonna be honest with you, this was more of a trauma dump than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:59 AM
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Is your preference also not reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:32 AM
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Women complain about men dating much younger women because it’s creepy and borderline wanting a girl who’s inexperienced and doesn’t know what type of man is good or not, giving the older man the opportunity to shape and mold a naive girl into whatever he wants while she’s too young and inexperienced to see toxic traits and or in worst cases abuse. Dating a younger girls when you’re 10+ years her age is NOT the same as a girl going for a tall man. Bffr. Ignoring your horrible attempt at an argum…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:08 AM
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No that’s false. equity doesn't mean equality. Sorry but two different positions are going to have different conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:58 PM
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Please space out your paragraphs man. Geez. The money is for the child. If you make a child and the child is born you need to pay for it. You don’t carry the fetus so you don’t have the opportunity to get rid of the child and because you don’t have the physical needs to hold the child you have automatic responsibility to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:48 PM
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Depends on his age as the last guy you talked about was a teenager and you’re close to thirty. Shiting on other women because you weren’t picked doesn’t do anything and doesn’t show the “beautiful kind” woman you claim to be. Idk seems weird to post this here regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:25 AM
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Surprised it’s still here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:23 AM
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My partner has expressed to me that he feels “stuck”. He doesn’t want to be single or dating per say but he just doesn’t want to have any relationship responsibilities: talking to me, caring, etc. so I’ve agreed to leave him alone as we have a child and I still love him. I don’t see him for days sometimes. I just take care of our child and don’t bother him. He stays in his office or room and I stay in rest of the house. I stay for both for our child and for my selfish wants. I want him as MY par…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:49 AM
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So some societies practiced polygamy in the past, but human social structures have always been diverse throughout history, including monogamy, polygyny, and even polyandry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:16 AM
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I think that’s a difference of men and women or some I would say. Women definitely think about stuff like that. I mean think about the whole “would you love me if i were a worm”. Asking your bf “what nails should i get” to see if a girl has taught him, asking your bf “if i died and you remarried who would you be buried next to” It would be funny ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:50 AM
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I assume if you met a girl who knew how to give 10/10 head you’d enjoy it yes but you’d also think how much she had to do to get there. Women also think the same and the thought a guy used women to “get better” it’s a huge turn off and is far from attractive. But for shits and giggles try telling a girl on a date that you used other women as sexual objects to practice on for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:42 AM
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People who were hurt as children will end up with a toxic individual at some point in their lives bc like the saying “People tend to stick to the familiar paths with familiar signposts” Many women have been with toxic men and bc these men are good looking they have no reason to change. Many men have been with toxic women and these women have no reason to change bc they can get men and are beautiful. Everyone knows someone who’s been with a toxic person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:16 AM
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Every woman is different. You practice with three girls the fourth one is going to like things different. So this whole point not only is useless but also doesn’t even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:42 AM
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sex with men (Korean: 비섹스; Hanja: 非sex; RR: bisekseu) child-rearing (Korean: 비출산; Hanja: 非出産; RR: bichulsan) dating men (Korean: 비연애; Hanja: 非戀愛; RR: biyeonae) marriage with men (Korean: 비혼; Hanja: 非婚; RR: bihon)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:14 PM
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Solid list thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:47 AM
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Ya both has strengths and weaknesses but for example the US doesn’t force young men into the military. Theres a lot more societal pressures there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:15 PM
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It’s 5 years later could be bigger or smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:23 PM
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It’s began to surface online in both the UK and the US
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:08 PM
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In 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:07 PM
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The issue there is more women don’t want to be apart of a domestic relationship where are majority of men what that. That’s why it has had such a huge affect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:53 PM
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Never made that connection before. you’re not wrong solid point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:52 PM
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I think it’s both personally but it’s such an easy and simple answer. I think you should go for someone who’s good for you but know that Mr /Ms perfect just doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:51 PM
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Ya they have very strong gender expectations which obviously one is a bit more detrimental, I hope they eventually abolish this for men, but I think both aren’t good for their society
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:10 PM
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“Titty swallower” checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:07 PM
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Ya I think the younger generation has higher and higher expectations where initially they’re not bad but it’s just gotten out of hand. Everyone should be better but also have realistic expectations of others
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:58 PM
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I personally have never expected gender discrimination in the job market. I actually got paid more in one role bc how I looked and bc I was a woman. So idk about the us experiencing it but who knows. There’s 100% discrimination for the military I think it’s complete bs for men to be forced into that in SK. Theres countries that require both men and women which I think is still bad but its equal so its not toooo bad I think comparing men being shipped to the military vs women having strict expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:56 PM
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I totally agree with this. that’s a great way for women to see the perspective of men with this movement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:27 PM
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Solid list thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:23 PM
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That’s not in the US. So. Also 65% of SK women don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:23 PM
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(Genuinely asking not being sarcastic btw so thanks for answering) okay would you say it’s 18-25 year olds mostly? And is it a certain type of women, if you’ve noticed, this could be wealth, looks, left or right ideologies, race, etc Id really like to know what men experience and observe about stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:22 PM
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“Most women” how much is most and where are these women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:16 PM
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This seems the most realistic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:15 PM
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65% of women in SK have said they don’t want children. Which does not line up with men. Theres a huge imbalance there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:15 PM
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What rights would you say have been stripped away. Many men don’t see any rights being taken away so what would you say? Edit: I get downvoted for asking someone to put their opinions out for people who don’t get it…. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:14 PM
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Younger you are the more impressionable however it’s actually 25-35 year old women who seem the biggest demographic for this more leaning towards 30-35 and even women in their 40s. There’s definitely a lot of dramatics but in the last decade there’s been more and more moments such as this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:12 PM
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They had these policies in place before the decrease in birth rates. The drop was an affect of the policies and how women were expected to be in a pre-decided role
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:11 PM
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SK has pro-natalist policies, which view women’s bodies and reproductive abilities as tools for the state’s future. Theres also gender discrimination prevalent in the Korean job market, where women earn 31% less than their male counterparts, regardless of their marital or parental status -now from my own experience as a woman I have the same rights as everyone else. The only right I know that has been revoked from women specifically was abortion rights. However I do know having rights doesn’t me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:09 PM
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SK has pro-natalist policies, which view women’s bodies and reproductive abilities as tools for the state’s future. Theres also gender discrimination prevalent in the Korean job market, where women earn 31% less than their male counterparts, regardless of their marital or parental status The us is of course different but it’s certainly bc of biology in SK
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:05 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLjEc2QF/ That’s the latest video and the one being discussed the most but he’s remade this video about 5ish times and each time had negative reactions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:02 PM
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It’s still a small group who even participate in the4b community however something like this has the opportunity to become much bigger in the US. I’m honestly not sure how many people would continue to go with out any kind of sexual relationship but many people have gone decades without it so it’s not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:59 PM
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One of the “B” Biyeonae: Feminine grooming is looked as having sexual appeal which is being rejected. Edit: but yes not every woman is doing it however those women are in relationships already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:53 PM
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They have a patriarchal society while America is democratic. The US has a much better societal structure than SK
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:51 PM
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They are getting rid of all gender norms: how they look including shaving their heads, not wearing bras, growing armpit hair and opting into the working culture and spending time with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:41 PM
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Well considering it’s women who set the standards for dating it can, not certain, that it’ll start to become more common for the needs and wants to change and men may or may not go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:35 PM
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South Korea has a patriarchal society, where traditional gender roles often place men in positions of authority and women are expected to fulfill domestic roles. However, South Korea has been making efforts to address gender inequality and promote gender equality in recent years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:34 PM
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This is a discussion about it so if you don’t care then I truly don’t get your comments point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:31 PM
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It’s definitely an online thing however if enough women decide they implement it into their dating life will more men push back or would men accept it and go along with it bc most of the time it’s women who are setting the standards of dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:30 PM
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It seems like we, some men and women, have a toxic relationship with eachother with dating. Theres movements on both sides wanting the other to fix themselves and detest they are the real issue. It’s all ridiculous but is this just a fad that’s going on that will calm down in a decade? Or is it the beginning to new relationship roles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:29 PM
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So no opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:26 PM
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What do you think men need to do? If we were to give specifics of our wants and needs what could we say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:24 PM
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The women I see talking about it are 25-35. Of course there’s a huge rise of 30-40 year old single women who’ve been in long term relationships and have now decided because they were unfulfilled they are now choosing to leave the dating scene. Would you say most of these women who are looking to follow this movement are the same as the incels we see?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:24 PM
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Do you think settling is a bad thing or just a hard reality for people to accept?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:21 PM
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I think it’ll continue but there will be a peak season online for it for sure. With so many movements from both men and women in curious where the dating scene will be in 30 years or even 10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:20 PM
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Lowest birthdate due to this movement Edit: getting a lot of dislikes so here’s one source to what I said https://www.iar-gwu.org/blog/iar-web/south-koreas-4b
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:18 PM
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The 4B movement? If so it’s been going on since 2005 and has only become more intense over time. If you think it’ll die why’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:18 PM
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What do you think is the natural order and how long would you say it’ll take us to get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:17 PM
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Gotcha. I assumed there would be a similar movement that’s why I hinted to it in my post however I never knew there was a name so thanks for the info!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:16 PM
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What would you say men are offering vs asking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:12 PM
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The women I see talking about it are the 25-35 age range
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:11 PM
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I never heard if MGTOW but I guess the difference is one is stemmed from pressure to fit into a gender role like a mom or wife, while MGTOW is more of a , to my understanding, push on feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:10 PM
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I remember this. It was about a month long topic then it became irrelevant and I haven’t heard anything about it since.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:09 PM
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At female only gyms girls wear sports bras and super short shorts. While others look like Adam Sandler. I think most women just like to feel their best and sometimes yes that involves wearing less. Many women get hit on even when wearing a lot of layers so if the goal was to get hit on it wouldn’t be about what’s put on lol Sometimes when we dress we do know how we look and how much attention it will bring. Were not dumb but the clothes themselves are for personal gain as sometimes yes attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:34 PM
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Pretty reasonable response
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:20 PM
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Well that doesn’t make sense. In the past Why was there such a fight over women working and women being single or women being childless for so long. If it was an issue of feeling like men were responsible either 1) they created that mentality or 2) they felt that way but never did anything to help themselves and actually made things harder by restricting women from becoming self sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:22 PM
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I would agree. Especially when the idea of someone who is “bad” is then being good to you. It makes someone feel special like they’re the chosen one. Also these bad boys have a very masculine energy that has a charm to it bringing out this feminine energy that most women love. Both in and out of the bedroom. His actions show this with how he treats life However yes like you said this type is not a marriage or fatherly type. Many realize this too late unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:17 AM
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I think both are stupid reasons to divorce over. Both are fixable but people don’t want to change or put effort in. You can divorce over anything. It’s not wrong to even if it’s over then wearing an ugly shirt or dress. But there’s so many dumb and lazy reasons. Couldn’t imagine going through divorcing someone after 20 years bc you don’t meet a need of theirs. Grow up and be apart of your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:50 AM
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Love is conditional. That goes for everyone. You think if your partner starts to not care about you they deserve love? No. Love should be conditional. No one is special. You earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:16 AM
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Well it depends on who broke up with who. If the girl is dumped I think it’s natural to try and move on asap. I mean who wouldn’t I also think after a breakup getting some attention and or affection is really nice and makes you feel good and forget about the breakup. Having your heart broken then for another guy where things aren’t so tense or serious to be all sappy and fun it’s easy to move on. Obviously if she broke up she’s been checked out of the relationship for a while Edit: it’s not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:42 PM
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Like someone just not wanting to date. Not wanting to have sex with that person. Just wanting a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:16 PM
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Or people just want to be friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:03 PM
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Blue pill isn’t just personality. That’s why you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:20 PM
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I don’t remember much about the dating that she did. I’ll have to look up on that though. I wonder why it didn’t work. If it was simply the male female aspect, as I do know how difficult it is for men to get dates, even with online dating or if it was a looks thing or what I’m actually curious. Edit: thanks for replying, though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:24 AM
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I think it’s more spoken or more obvious that men get friend zoned because typically it’s the guy who asks the girl out and women typically keep their crushes, subtle and wait for the guy to ask her out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:11 AM
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I pretty much said what you just said in my first reply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:09 AM
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I’ve asked people out on dates and yeah it’s kind of a dick move to be expected to pay. However, I was the one that initiated going out. It wasn’t their idea so logically speaking if someone wants you in their wedding or wants you to travel for their wedding they should be the one to pay for it right? I’m not seeing the correlation of: A guy shouldn’t pay because he had to ask a woman out and her not wanting to go. Where did the girl not wanting to go out come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:03 AM
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Wait, are you saying it’s not really fair because it takes courage? I totally agree that It’s better for both people to pay for their own tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:52 AM
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I think it’s just an optional courtesy for the person to pay for their date however, if someone HAD to be the one to pay for all of it, it should be the one that asks the other out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:46 AM
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Worse how? Men have it worse when it comes to any type of empathy or sympathy. Women have it worse when it comes to being victims of abuse of all forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:40 AM
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But she was isolated by men. So that just makes it sound like men are especially hard on eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:38 AM
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Some people just aren’t self aware. How you talk and act shows how you feel even if you don’t realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:06 PM
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This sounds real specific…. What happened dude bc I feel like it would be easier to just say what went down then to try this weird tactic. I don’t understand what you’re trying to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:54 PM
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That’s really not how things work….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:52 PM
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We are. It takes what less than 30 seconds to find a video on any social media about women loving themselves. Men are indeed pressured to have a certain look. Again everyone is bullied for their looks. There’s a beauty standard for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:22 PM
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Everyone’s been bullied about how they look. That’s not an exclusive experience to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:16 PM
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As a bad woman, I had a harder time with women. One approached men and it’s easy, but with women, it’s a bit tougher and it’s no wonder that I’m with a man Edit: was going to correct myself by saying bi woman but I don’t think I will
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:07 PM
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Honestly you’re not wrong. I think a lot of women don’t like the red pill bc it’s pretty fucking brutal and like all ideologies there’s some toxic parts to it but anyways Growing up girls were taught about sisterhood and how we should love ourselves just the way we are. It’s a pretty toxic mentality to be honest. Some become pretty satisfied with how mediocre they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:00 PM
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I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:08 PM
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Studies disagree but again whatever makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:03 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:02 PM
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Typically it’s the women who get custody so a single dad’s are more like single men that technically have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:49 PM
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Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:48 PM
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Honestly, I would have to agree. I don’t think anyone wants to be the person that is less interested even if it’s by a one, percentile however I have personally found my most successful relationship is when I’m obsessed over my partner of course it started out where he was more interested in me, but I think both of us do betterthe other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:46 PM
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I mean, both are true for a select group of men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:41 PM
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That’s not all women but OK
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:40 PM
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Agreed even as someone that hasn’t even hit 27 yet this definitely is written by someone very young I mean the skateboarding part really showed that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:39 PM
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Was this your way of trying to insult people or agree and add something to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:38 PM
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There’s a lot more hobbies than what was listed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:36 PM
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I honestly think it’s pretty close. Ive heard of so many women but only a few men. I’d say 60/40 would be accurate but it’s not like every cheater will come forward and admit to it for us to get an accurate answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:59 AM
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I was independent my entire life until I’m met my current partner. The first couple months of us dating I was either on the phone with him 24/7 or I was at his place. Then once I moved in, I actually became a bit toxic with how dependent I was on him. I didn’t want any alone time. When he wanted space I felt like it was something that I had done wrong, and I actually would argue about it with him about how he was “pushing me away” and other BS. We both were obsessed with each other and would sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:37 AM
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Well definitely don’t say that part to anyone you want to have sex with lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:59 PM
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My partner lets me have fun with other men so him having one girl randomly wouldn’t bother me. Very situational though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:56 PM
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Idk how someone can form an opinion when they have yet to experience something. Boggles my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:49 PM
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Oh dear okay so first one is about dating. Second one is saying incorrect information Third one is on medium…. I write for medium….. it’s not credible But here are some sources that provide data on the average number of sexual partners for men and women: National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB): This study provides comprehensive data on sexual behavior in the United States. According to the NSSHB, the median number of lifetime sexual partners for men is 6.9 and for women is 4.5. Gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:50 AM
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Happy reading indeed. I’ll definitely take a look thanks for the links :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:40 AM
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What study bc the studies have seen show women are having less sexual partners than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:17 AM
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Anyone can get sex whenever they want…. But Women on average have less sexual partners than men. So this double standard doesn’t even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:44 PM
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Pattern with who??? So in you mind why is there so many people who watch porn and don’t cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:46 PM
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Your gf can still compare you. Porn doesn’t stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:15 PM
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It’s not the norm. That’s YOUR norm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:14 PM
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So porn = cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:12 PM
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It’s very “reddit” to say “divorce” “breakup” etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:09 PM
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Women are. men just don’t like it shown out in public, in front of other men. So again if men would make it more socially acceptable you’d see it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:01 PM
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I don’t know how you could be dating someone with the mindset of “I don’t have many options” That’s just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:00 PM
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Age never affected my dating choices as long as they were doing something in their lives, had a good personality and was attractive it’s all fair game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:57 PM
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you can believe what you want. If you’re basing, what you believe off of an assumption or a suspicion that doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:22 PM
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Once…… lmao okay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:44 PM
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You should look up why people are getting divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:43 PM
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generalizing everyone doesn’t do you any good dude. If I only go for a certain type can I complain about it? No. If I go after a certain type can I then say it’s most men? No If you didnt get dates before good luck getting some being an ass. There’s less than 0 logic in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:41 PM
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Men who are shitty get laid bc they’re attractive. People who are attractive can be assholes. It’s a fact. How they treat people isn’t what’s attractive jfc. Secondly if you continue to ONLY date assholes it’s your fault. One or two bad people isn’t your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:36 PM
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I’m a trad wife but this was so gross to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:28 PM
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Huge generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:28 PM
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No offense but you sound like someone from r/niceguy If someone only dates shitty people then complain that all people are like that it’s kinda hard to take them seriously. You pushed shit people ofc they’re gonna act bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:27 PM
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So that’s not a normal or healthy relationship. Please get someone who’s dedicated to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:21 PM
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I notice everyone is on their best behavior for the first while of a relationship. Both men and women act good and when their red flags start to show both people have emotionally invested themselves. They dismiss those first few red flags as “ he/she’s not perfect that’s okay” “he/she does this that I don’t like but we’ve come so far we will work it out” Then those red flags start to appear more and more. Then by then both people who are involved are used to this cycle of slowly showing their to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:20 AM
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How is it disrespectful? Having someone want better for themselves sounds pretty respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:16 AM
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I watch porn with my partner when we do stuff. However…. It’s for a specific kink. I’ve had previous relationships that neither of us watched porn bc it was the idea of lusting over the people was not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:58 AM
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“(LOL)”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:29 AM
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For me I hated the fact my partner is so known in both our city and state. He’s more homey now that we have a baby but it was a turn off for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:52 AM
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As long as it’s not someone I was or am close to ex: friend, sister or he knows ex: ex, females he knows Then it doesn’t matter. Ive watched some weird ass stuff and I tell my partner but I let him do his thing in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:42 AM
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It’s online. It’s to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:26 PM
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Damn so I can’t ask questions that’s crazy. Can’t make it up?…. Brother you JUST did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:26 PM
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I’ve seen fairly left leaning to extreme left leaning women. Not sure as to why honestly. I assume the content I join/interact with just isn’t where men post or are posted about but I assume I will see it one day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:33 AM
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I don’t doubt it however as I’m not left leaning myself nor a man the likelihood of me seeing any of them is quite slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:21 AM
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Deep deep in Mormon land Utah specifically. I’ve never met one or seen one online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:16 AM
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Ahhhh makes sense. I’ve never seen male liberals. Doesn’t mean they don’t exist though. However I assume as a woman I see more women talking about their various sexual preferences due to the fact that women tend to see more women content and the opposite goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:10 AM
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If you only look for extremtists you’ll only see one side of the coin. There’s women who do in fact talk about love of all shapes and sizes of men so that’s just you having a limited view of women Also lmao why do you know so many gay terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:05 AM
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Not many options? That goes for both genders. Either you get laid or you don’t. No need for escorts or honestly no need to be satisfied. Masturbate like everyone else has been doing for centuries. The main issues that are discussed with anti porn is the abuse of women and the popularity of men basing harmful stereotypes, expectations, and attitudes on women as well as how porn stars are treated. Those are all valid concerns. Yes there’s tons of crazies preaching it but it doesn’t change the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:38 AM
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Lots of people do care about young men constantly watching porn. It is horrible to hear especially when these young men start watching it when they are 8,9, 10,11 “can we really blame men for watching porn and getting addicted to it when they have tried countless times with the opposite sex to get at the very least relationship with no success” The options aren’t either you watch porn or you get into a relationship. You can be single and not watch porn. It is a personal choice for you to watch i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:01 AM
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Did assuming all that make your day better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:54 PM
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Idk why it’s talked about so much when it’s this simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:45 AM
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🥲 thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:03 AM
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😂 would you also like proof of my mixed child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:54 AM
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Well Im a white woman who got with a Mexican immigrant. Couldn’t be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:45 PM
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I’m pretty trad but I think balance is great. Some people are different of course but there’s things you said that you can also connect with a partner on and besides who doesn’t like a nice ass lol anyways though I think it’s great you know yourself like this and are confident about it. That’s a huge part of appeal. If you know who you are, what you want, it’s attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:34 AM
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It’s not a punishment either. But here what else would you like to complain about? You obviously dont care about my point, message, or hell what happened proving my point btw but what else are you unhappy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:41 PM
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You think that exposure is justice? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:37 PM
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Are you purposefully not reading what I said? The whole purpose with my first comment was that they aren’t. Open your eyes. Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:06 PM
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No Edit: but thanks for laughing at what I said. How feminist of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:00 PM
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People cheat bc they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:49 PM
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Your first example is so painfully accurate. Someone I know was taken advantage of over a dozen times when they were black out drunk. Imagine that. Imagine if a woman had came forward with that she would be everywhere online. The men would be exposed in hours. However my friend was recorded and laughed at bc he was a man. One of the girls was the dens daughter. All the girls laughed and thought it was soooo much fun. All his friends watched and patted his back for it. Vial. No justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:46 AM
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Ya only when I got pregnant was I exposed to how many people are harming their sons based on bs out of date myths. I couldn’t imagine doing such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:43 AM
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Jesus. Why is it her duty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:46 AM
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It’s bizarre to me but you’re right. My current partner has been cussed out and yelled at bc he said no in the past. I simply don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:01 AM
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You’d be okay sleeping with someone when they didn’t want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:59 AM
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It’s about looks and confidence. You’ll get laid if you’re hot and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:24 AM
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😂😂……..No. But good luck thinking that when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:45 PM
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Men don’t want sex more than women. Theres no justification for cheating no matter the gender. Unless of course you’re a cheater and you’re now down playing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:28 AM
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Ha! yes this is it. Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:35 PM
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As someone in their 20s I see it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:30 PM
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In my own opinion, a lot of women seem to trauma dump and forget that there’s a ton of guys that aren’t creepy and hurt ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:21 PM
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I’ll answer any and all questions i don’t mind when it’s just out of curiosity. Simple answer: We met on bumble. He didn’t look at my age he, as i assume most ppl, just saw the picture and swiped right lol I saw his age and i honestly just didn’t care he was good looking and i saw we went to the same college. We met for coffee and found we had a lot in common. Anyways the age thing we did address. He had never dated anyone with more than a 2 year age gap but we talked, worked out our concerns an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:18 PM
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in person two women have told me i stole a good man from “real women”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:03 PM
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I got with my man when i was 18 and he was 31. I am now 20 and together we now have a newborn. We both were just into how eachother looked at first. neither of us were into younger or older people. What i hate the most is seeing anyone men and women villainize my man and victimize me. I knew what i was getting myself into, an adult relationship. i wasn’t naive nor “tricked” into anything. however the amount of women that have told me i’ve been groomed, i’m with a pedo, i just had a baby with a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:02 PM
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I did. Read it more than twice unfortunately. You just have no idea what you actually said
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:09 PM
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You can’t be serious lmaoo
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:52 AM
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Real rape to you is people being courteous to countries customs???? Wtf
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:51 AM
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Many 10/10 girls have dated 10/10 guys and been treated like shit. So if they found a guy who treats them well looks go out the window and they’re wouldn’t care. I’ve heard gorgeous women talk up said 1/10 publicly and privately because they treat these girls like gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:17 AM
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Your advice is to play games with someone and still expecting her not to also be playing games with you?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 06:48 PM
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Being wanted for only sex and not being wanted at all both suck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:08 PM
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