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Direct_Charity_2575/r/askMRP19/05/25 07:44 PM
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Direct_Charity_2575/r/askMRP05/05/25 12:32 PM
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OYS 26 Stats: 48yo, 5'11", 178 lbs., Body Fat ~ 18.7% (Navy method) Remarried (wife 41yo) 1.5 years, together 5.5 years. Two daughters, one stepson Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP, Rational Male, Book of Pook (most of it). It’s been almost 3 months since my previous OYS in May, where I reported about an incident involving my ex, my wife and my daughter that was a shitshow and led to a huge fight with my wife. I’m not going to rehash it, it’s in my OYS 25, but it…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/26 10:51 PM
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Thanks for this. If this came across as back patting at all, than I'm guilty of poor writing, b/c I don't feel at all like patting myself on the back. It is getting me down, but I'm trying to focus on work, dadding, etc. and not let it take over. Accurate to say I'm handling it as best as I can, and also accurate that there's lack of respect enough that this could happen. And that's not where I want to be. I hope I can keep working on myself enough to gain a higher level of respect and get more …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 05:58 PM
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OYS # 25 (5/12/26) Stats: 48yo, 5'11", 178 lbs., Body Fat ~ 19.2% (Navy method) Remarried (wife 41yo) 1.5 years, together 5.5 years. Two daughters, one stepson Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP, Rational Male. Current: Book of Pook (audio). Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical SQ 225 (3 rep max), Rows 127.5 (5x5), OHP 120 (5x5), DL 255…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 04:38 PM
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not needing to initiate with words. I gleefully took that advice and ran with it - worked well Can you provide some examples?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/26 02:14 PM
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Instead of just asking others for free advice, have you taken an honest look at yourself and your performance? have seen coworkers past advance much further What are they doing that you aren't? Are they working harder, have they done more to sharpen their skills than you have, or do they general just suck at their job less than you? Find myself struggling to get motivated Why? Are you in the wrong field? Or is your company/role just a bad fit for you? Or simply just a personal problem you need t…
/r/askMRP01/05/26 02:39 PM
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It's a mixed bag. I'm happy with myself for sticking with it the past year, and I think I've struck a good balance between pushing progress but also being careful not to be dumb - I'd rather make incremental progress than get injured and not be able to workout. I've had a couple injuries along the way from bad form (groin on squats, hamstring on dead lift), but I've learned better technique since. A year is a long time, but I've never done squats before and I started at 15-pound dumbbells and wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/26 10:13 PM
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Negotiating sex. You aren't the prize. Next time: You're right, BAS. Thought of better things I should have said (after), or should've just held firm to 'we eat now' and left it at that instead of negotiating.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 06:37 PM
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OYS # 23 (4/28/26) Stats: 48yo, 5'11", 178 lbs., Body Fat ~ 19.2% (Navy method) Remarried (wife 41yo) 1.5 years, together 5.5 years. Two daughters, one stepson Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP, Rational Male. Current: Book of Pook. Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 175 lbs, SQ 205, Rows 127.5, OHP 120, DL 235 Gett…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 05:16 PM
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Yes, in hindsight that was a weak move to comply. I second-guessed myself and got away from going after what I want. Should have reflected on where my kino and initiations were weak or incongruent and adjusted, but continued.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/26 12:23 PM
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OYS # 22 (3/17/26) Stats: 48, 5'11", 179 lbs., Body Fat ~19.2% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP, Rational Male. Current: Book of Pook. Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 175 lbs, SQ 185 (+2.5), Rows 127.5, OHP 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 04:33 PM
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It didn't seem hard to me - I thought you fairly pointed out where I passed shit tests and did good, but also where my game was also suboptimal and needs improvement. My plan is to work on using humor less as a crutch and get better at accepting the anxious energy and not trying to fix her mood.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 02:34 PM
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Thanks, this is all pretty spot-on. I'm passing shit tests and I've been increasing my SMV, but my game is still sub-optimal in many circumstances and I use humor as a crutch too much. The work continues.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 02:10 PM
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Will do for sure. Appreciate the fist-bump
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 07:01 PM
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OYS # 21 (3/10/26) Stats: 48, 5'11", 178 lbs., Body Fat ~19.5% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP, Rational Male. Current: Book of Pook. Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 175 lbs, SQ 182.5, Rows 127.5, OHP 120, D…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 04:48 PM
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Agree with this. I've posted before and gotten good feedback. Got dunked on a little too, but fine, I probably deserved it. Most of the posts on this sub are even beyond retarded, or the OP is so lost they truly need a wake up call. Getting shit on will either motivate them to do better or at least explore more of the sidebar - or they will tuck their tail between their legs and go back to BP land - it's good weeding out.
/r/askMRP06/03/26 05:31 PM
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Whine less; do more. Read that sticky note at the top from the AutoModerator
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 05:44 PM
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OYS # 20 (3/3/26) Stats: 48, 5'11", 178 lbs., Body Fat 19.5% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP, Rational Male. Just downloaded Book of Pook, so I’ll be starting that next. Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 175 l…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 07:36 PM
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Now I can tell the difference between really being a bitch and just being bratty I tease her a little and just don’t take her seriously, and after a few hours she’s the sweetest most perfect wife ever. Seems like that IS the test - tease and don't take it seriously, and if she comes around in short order, it was bratty; if not, it's probably a bigger thing w/ silent treatment incoming.
/r/askMRP06/02/26 05:36 PM
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Thanks for all this good input. I've been at this a while, but still figuring out what is/isn't OYS worthy. I did take the kids out to find snow because I wanted to and it was fun, and it's satisfying that they enjoyed and appreciated it. I suppose I thought it demonstrated good captaining/family leadership, but ultimately probably just feel good dad stuff. On point about me being a pest. I'm taking the trying to push past potential soft no's too far. Once, maybe twice if it clearly seems soft, …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/26 09:56 PM
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10-4. More action, less feelz
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/26 06:36 PM
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You didn’t back up your words though- you watched the show after you said you wouldn’t. You didn’t caveman; you caved, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/26 02:06 AM
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Waist is 41” at bellybutton. WTF, you need a refresher on Anatomy What’s the best method to determine how %fatass I am? I bought a telescopic tape measure off Amazon for $9. It cinches to your neck and belly - or in your case the "bellybutton waist" (FUPA). Use Navy Method BF calculator using the measurements. It's not as precise as a Dexa scan, but if you measure and calculate the same consistently it can at least show you accurate progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/26 05:34 PM
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Relationship/Sex Had sex twice the past week - both good and enthusiastic - including anal for the first time in a few years. I tried to push for morning sex today. I was persistent trying to test soft no vs. hard no. Crossed the line into annoying her after about the third push, but avoided being butthurt and grabbed her ass when I was leaving, which got an initial eye roll but a laugh and smile. At work, I got a text saying “even though you annoy me sometimes, I love you so much” + emojis. Las…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/26 05:23 PM
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OYS # 19 (2/3/25) Stats: 48, 5'11", 178 lbs., Body Fat 19.1% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational Male Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 175 lbs, SQ 180, Rows 127.5, OHP 120 (+2.5), DL 230 (+…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/26 05:22 PM
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Thanks for the kudos and suggestions on the shoulder. I think it’s tendonitis/similar and not an injury- no real mobility issues and only seems to nag on press/flys. I’ll check out the YouTubes and see if that helps. Trying my best to strike that balance between good progress and not getting injured and taking myself out of the game by doing dumb shit
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/26 01:05 AM
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Great stuff. You’ve given me a lot to think about here and I appreciate all this. I think all your questions are on point, and probably what a lot of it boils down to is lack of conveying that I want Her vs wanting sex in general and/or similar to your example #1, fucking with her and not just fucking her, although I know sometimes the latter is actually desired. I think I’ve also not been great recently at letting her know I’m thinking about her or doing those little things- notes, surprises, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/26 06:47 PM
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OYS # 18 (1/20/25) Stats: 48, 5'11", 176 lbs., Body Fat 19.1% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational Male Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 175 lbs (+5), SQ 180 (+10), Rows 127.5, OHP 117.5, , …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 02:25 PM
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For the easily triggered: It's not a personal attack; I'm dissing the attitude of being too old to challenge yourself and the notion that reading the sidebar materials and heavy lifting is useless. Or that this sub has no value to anyone older than their 30s. Obv if your eyeballs are going to pop out from heavy lifting, maybe don't do that, but don't act like it doesn't have value to others. There's plenty of "one weird trick" websites you can visit and pills you can take to short cut to a bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/26 01:47 PM
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He really does, and "all those funny things he does"??... (sigh)..."I don't blame her for being attracted to this guy."
/r/askMRP16/01/26 03:33 PM
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Discipline and consistency. I think committing to OYS every week is a good start to hold myself accountable, as well as staying on track with lifting. I think making sure I completely understand what it is I truly want out of life, and what behaviors I want to model. Often people do not change or stick to new habits, because deep down they are either afraid or do not actually want to change themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 03:30 PM
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Relationship/Sex I had sex once in the past week. u/HornsofApathy asked me a question on my previous OYS that I’ve been thinking about since. I was complaining about my sporadic sex life - a couple/few days on, several days or maybe even a week or two off. His question: are you introspective enough to realize that it’s you who is the sporadic one? As always, the guy cuts right through the cascade of letters and numbers in the matrix and pulls the to-the-point nuggets right out. Now that I’ve tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/26 11:42 PM
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OYS # 17 (1/13/25) Stats: 48, 5'11", 176 lbs., Body Fat 19.1% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational Male Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Lifting/Physical 5x Numbers: Bench 170 lbs, SQ 170 (+5), Rows 127.5, OHP 117.5 (+_2.5), …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/26 11:42 PM
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MMSLP = why; MAP = how. Download Kindle edition straight to your phone for like $10 bucks. Read it on the shitter and finish it in 2 weeks.
/r/askMRP12/01/26 06:15 PM
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Likewise, "never heard of" anyone here at this sub having any adversity to overcome. As long as you have your wrestling story as an excuse, no need to push through anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 01:00 PM
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So, win maybe? Yes, win. I know that feeling of going against your prior natural impulse to apologize even though you didn't do anything wrong. But then you STFU, and she does the 180 sooner or later. AWALT. Keep doin it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 05:57 PM
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I'm too old (early 50s) to lift heavy anyway, so it's even more useless. What a shitty outlook to have. Might as well give up on life I guess... I'm 48 and just getting started on the lifting. Never done squats (or deadlifts) in my life before this past year, but I'm doing them 3x a week now. You could do it if you had any initiative whatsoever. Get busy living or get busy dying, bitch. Why are you even here? Go back to eating your soup and watching The Price is Right, old man.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 04:25 PM
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“I’m not in the mood” is a soft no. This was definitely the case when we were dating - I was almost always able to turn the mood. Of course we were only seeing each other 2-3 times a week and it was an escape. Now we're covered up in kids and domestic shit, and pushing it when "too tired" or "not in the mood" often or usually results in something like: what the hell, do you not understand - I said I'm too tired. As Horns suggests - perhaps I'm the sporadic one, which is fair. I've been sporadic …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/26 03:44 PM
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> Are you introspective enough to realize that it's likely you who is the sporadic one? No doubt that I'm probably still exhibiting sporadically attractive vs. unattractive behaviors, if that's what you mean. Sometimes I also pick my spots poorly - coming at her at the wrong times and not reading the room. There are definitely hard no's, just flat out not in the mood tired, not feeling well, etc. She has said several times she thinks she needs HRT - that she just feels differently, not herself p…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 08:32 PM
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Good news is you know what your issues are (fat, pothead, etc) and you understand what you need to do (lift and STFU, and read the materials). And you've recognized the covert contract you had in your head about taking care of her would lead to more sex. Focus on improving what you need to - maybe by the time she's got her disorder under control, you'll be more attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 08:08 PM
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Relationship/Sex I had sex twice in the past week. Saturday, we snuck one in the closet while the kids were watching a movie after quite a bit of flirting around in the morning. Sunday night we were solo and I bought a dozen oysters after dropping my kids off at their moms to have as an appetizer. Lots of flirting while getting ready to start make dinner and then I said “so should I start shucking, or start fucking?” and the response was “we’ll see”, so I put her against the counter and started …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 02:26 PM
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OYS # 16 (1/6/25) Stats: 48, 5'11", 176 lbs., Body Fat ~19.5% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational Male Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. MRP Progress I swallowed the pill last April and started working out regularly around th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 02:23 PM
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Who's the cunt?
/r/askMRP05/01/26 05:49 PM
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I remember this from Kid #1 ten years ago. Babies will self-sooth and go to sleep if you let them. Tell her to give it 10 minutes and just see what happens, or even 5 - set a timer and say you can go in once the time is up - and add a little time to that each night, if needed, but you'll be surprised how quickly they can settle down once you get over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/26 01:03 AM
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Do you always reply like this, or did you just wake up a little douchey today? Rule 9 on this sidebar: "We are not your friends" The feedback here is not sugar-coated. You've gotten a lot of good advice and feedback; best not to be butthurt about it. Do the work and read the MRP materials - and you'll see soon that your post is in fact retarded.
/r/askMRP19/12/25 03:16 PM
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Sounds you polarized her, and she immediately wanted to fuck that version of you. Seems you are playing it too nice, and you aren't broken or horny enough to fuck her. Literally. I did fuck her that time - I wasn't going to let something that overt pass. But you're right - when it comes to all these times she's playfully flirting and I'm not closing - I am either being too nice/dorky or I'm coming across as needy when I'm trying to escalate it. Or both.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/25 06:36 PM
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Aren't you putting the cart before the horse? Unless you're faced with an immediate dilemma, why worry about it. Focus on getting yourself to a point where you're even faced with that choice. I'm discouraged by how many in the community are so comfortable cheating Is it comfort, or is it guys that have improved themselves to the point where they are attracting women they never thought they would? I'm not condoning cheating; however, we all have ideals, but then your brain chemistry changes prett…
/r/askMRP18/12/25 03:59 PM
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Thanks, Boring. The 'feelz' as you say are very constant these days, I would say daily or more in terms of the flashes, dick kisses, texts or mentions of my dick. Even a few weeks ago during probably our worst fight we ever had, I got a text at a family function: "I'm so fucking mad at you right now, but I'm also super horny and might put my feelings aside to fuck". But you're right, I'm not a guy who truly fucks yet - I get it when she wants it but not always when I want it. I know some of that…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/25 03:43 PM
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Relationship/Sex After almost a two-week drought, I had some good sex 3 of the last 4 days. Saturday night was some good drunk sex after we hosted a party at our house and got cock-blocked by friends showing up too early - but good flirting throughout the night and made it happen as soon as they left, and then good hangover sex midday Sunday. Snuck in a nice fuck this morning before waking up the kids - her initiation. It’s good when it’s good, but our sex life can be a bit feast or famine, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 07:58 PM
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OYS # 15 (12/16/25) Stats: 48, 5'11", 177 lbs., Body Fat ~19.7% (Navy method) Remarried (40) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Mission: Break out of beta/nice guy behaviors, live life on my terms, and be proud of how I conduct myself in parenting, relationships, and work. Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational MaleI have not been keeping up with reading MRP materials lately. Re-read NMMNG a couple mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 07:57 PM
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Tell her, alternatively, that you'd like to buy a condo downtown to occasionally use as a fuck pad, because you'd like to have some adult friends too. She probably won't hesitate to say No.
/r/askMRP12/12/25 01:26 PM
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10-4
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/25 10:56 PM
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Relationship I realize, as has been mentioned several times in various posts and OYS on this sub, that the vast majority of guys that succeed in MRP are former alphas that got fat, tired and lazy and just need a reboot. The odds are mostly against me; however, the pill has been swallowed and can’t be unswallowed. There's just a lot of hardwired Nice Guy/Bluepill undoing to be done. There’s been some successes. I mostly succeed at shutting the fuck up without DEERing, I rarely get butthurt these …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 07:35 PM
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OYS # 14 (12/9/25) Stats: 48, 5'11", 177 lbs., Body Fat 19.7% (Navy method) Remarried (41) 1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational Male I haven’t been doing OYS regularly for the past couple months, but I came across this gem from Ragnar the other day and it has inspired me to quit being a bitch and a lurker and get back on it: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 07:35 PM
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probably less than your wife weighs C'mon, man. "She" doesn't matter... Seriously, though - your point is taken. I am going hard, but probably playing it too safe on squats and especially DLs. Running on fear from recent injuries - the hammy on the DL sucked. I need to get my hamstring checked out and do at least a few personal training sessions to check my form so that I feel more confident in upping the weight faster.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/25 05:07 PM
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Go harder. You've barely scratched the surface I know my numbers are low, I'm very much a noob/novice, but I am making progress again. I'm 48 and injury prone and just trying to listen to my body and make steady progress but not get sidelined again by ramping things up too quick. You've clearly got strong lifting #'s and a lot of experience, so all ears if you've got suggestions. Being tidy. Step up, set the example 10-4, working on this. I've gotten better, but I was lazy about setting this exa…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 02:32 AM
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Thank you, good note. Flirting with my wife is fun. I love her ass, and I like talking about it grabbing it and patting/smacking it. She does it to me too. I ask her to show me her boobs b/c I like seeing them and it's fun when she complies and does it, or even better when she does it out of the blue. I like asking her if it's exhausting walking around being hot all the time, and love it when tells me I'm hot. I did this before I knew anything about MRP and still do. That said, I know that my in…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 10:26 PM
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Family/Home/Parenting House clutter and cleanliness have been a sore spot here since moving in last November. I am not a slob, but my time and energy is stretched, so cleaning up gets knocked down in priority for me when I’m stretched. Wife is much more of a neatnick, and she feels like she’s doing it all alone - which is not true but that’s her feelz. My kids are pretty bad about leaving shit around the house and not keeping their room clean - often hard to keep them on it with their back and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 05:46 PM
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OYS # 14 (10/28/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 176 lbs., Body Fat 20.7% (Navy method) Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In-progress: Rational Male Right now I’m re-reading NMMNG, as I believe a lot of my issues in life and relationships are based on nice-guy tendencies. I started my MRP journey in April, made some good progress physically and mentally for a while - through early Au…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 05:46 PM
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See you soon in an OYS under another nick. Don't be a bitch. Own who you are and don't hide under various aliases. Got banned? Who cares, most of us do - take the time to work and do better. Besides, what's the point of doing OYS if you can't be honest with us and yourself. (yes i lift, smell good, is not fat an so on) LOL
/r/askMRP23/10/25 01:27 AM
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Focus on yourself. Because you need to fix yourself. And if you fix yourself enough, maybe she worries about what you're up to when she's away. And if she doesn't, well at least you've fixed yourself. You're in your 20s, your body can snap back to shape pretty quick.
/r/askMRP15/10/25 12:11 PM
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In a few, very few, rare cases, going monk mode can create dread but if, and only if, the man is actually improving himself, becoming fit, getting a social life, and being attractive not unattractive. To me, this is the essential point and something I'm learning through my own experience and watching others fail, too. Guys are looking for 'one weird trick' - whether that be 'monk mode', "acting" alpha, "creating dread", advanced kino, etc. - before they have done enough to improve themselves. No…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/25 02:55 PM
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You may not be interested in divorce and don't want to fight it, but you gotta take action now to get your shit lined up legally, financially and otherwise. Fight for the share of custody you want. Seems like she probably cheated, so find out, tell your lawyer and back-pocket that for leverage. Also set some boundaries for her - she wants this, fine, show her what she's asked for - tell her your ground rules for separation, time with the kids, who gets to sleep where, finances. This sucks for yo…
/r/askMRP02/10/25 10:48 PM
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Horns posted this in response to someone's OYS yesterday - seems like something you need to read: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5ntc44/expressing_emotions_like_a_man/
/r/askMRP01/10/25 12:43 PM
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Reset The only real progress I can report for this past month is that I’ve continued to avoided porn (about 2 months now), and I finally finished Athol Kay’s MAP and now I’m forming my own MAP as my guidance going forward. My focus points are the following and I have several sub-actions I’ve putting together (but still refining) for each that I need to work on either continually or achieve in a specific timeframe. Being attractive - the physical side - exercise, lifting, eating well, style Not b…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 05:38 PM
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OYS # 13 (9/30/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 178 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF, MAP. In Progress: Rational Male Bench (5x5) 180 lbs, OHP (5x5) 115, SQ (5x5) 140, Rows (5x5) 140, DL (1x5) 190 (these are the best numbers I got to, but they have regressed in the past 6 weeks) MRP Regression This is my first OYS in 3 weeks. The past month has been a regression in my MRP journey. Bad…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 05:38 PM
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Holy shit most men would be so lucky to have a wife that communicated so overtly Amen. She sounds like she's rational and logical (like a man) and he sounds irrational and not clear on your expectations of her (like a woman). OP, she wants you to be the man, so step up and take action or you will get the ole ILYBNILWY speech soon.
/r/askMRP26/09/25 03:38 PM
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Yes, you were correct. There were things I didn't know that I know now; and I still don't know what I don't know. I have a lot of varied thoughts on this. This recent firing of the COO was the best thing that could've happened, but I can't assume the next one will pan out either. I like and believe in my company and there are forthcoming changes that I think will improve things. I'm having success and like my team and the network I'm building. But to your point, I need to at least explore other …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/25 03:28 PM
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Good piece. I call it Fairytale Football.
/r/askMRP09/09/25 07:49 PM
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OYS # 12 (9/9/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 178 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. In Progress: Rational Male and MAP Bench (5x5) 180 lbs, OHP (5x5) 115, SQ (5x5) 140, Rows (5x5) 140, DL (1x5) 190 Despite improvements since starting MRP, mainly physical improvements, I’ve gotten myself firmly in the dancing monkey program- as others have noted the past couple weeks. I’m still operat…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 07:39 PM
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neither of those are problems, just woman bullshit. Yes. Good distinction. Thanks. I do tell her the kid will be fine; and he will.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/25 12:22 PM
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The fuck you are. You're 39, you'll be working probably at least 25 more years, which will be 25 years of misery if you don't make a change. "The question, Raymond, is what did you want to be?"
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/25 09:04 PM
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I agree I shouldn't dance, and I should be a man of action... However, some things I can't fix, like "worried about her job, worried about her son attending a new school" What then about these situations? To me those seem like Fix Her Feelz scenarios, not fix her problem situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/25 06:31 PM
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I don't have a lot of advice to give you, as I'm also noob, but sometimes it's noticeable when certain guys are consistently putting their OYS in a day or two later than everyone else. I'm sure you know that most of the activity and feedback you would get happens on Tuesday, so why don't you get yours in earlier. I can think of a few reasons, but it's not something you need to answer to me, but for yourself, as it may be reflective of your general M.O. beyond just OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/25 04:50 PM
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You were out of shape even before Relatively so compared to other guys here with experience, but relative to where I was 4 months ago and to majority of men my age I'm in good shape. But I still want better, obviously. I don't regret enjoying my vacation and indulging a bit, but I would if I don't get back on track and continue my progress. Finished a workout today and want to get at least 2 more in by next OYS so that I'm firmly back on my 3-4x per week routine. Wow, dude, impressive. I probabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/25 09:14 PM
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I don't know, maybe I'm autistic, but I saw it more as fixing the feelz than diverting or dodging. "I'm worried about X" "I know, I understand. And we still have to worry about that when we get back home. But isn't this nice, we're looking at the ocean and enjoying a drink." "Yeah, this is so relaxing" put down TWOTSM Yes, message received. I stopped reading this already, as I reported last week. I won't pick it back up again until at least after I've finished RM and MAP.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/25 09:06 PM
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OYS # 11 (9/2/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 178 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. In Progress: Rational Male, MAP and TWOTSM. Spent most of the past week out of town for a Labor Day trip, so this will be a brief one. Lifting/Health Off-track right now. I got a couple lifts in before I left for my beach trip, but it’s been about 5-6 days since my last workout, and I ate and drank a …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/25 03:19 PM
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I'm familiar with the Dancing Monkey Program, and I know I'm firmly in it right now. Some weeks I hate writing my OYS b/c I know that's where I'm at. I've done the physical work so far, which is the easy part tbh, and I have my good weeks, but I know the hard work is truly changing my beta/bp ways and not just improving my physique. I've seen plenty of dudes that have been at this a long time and they still suck and that's not where I want to be. Appreciate your smack to the back of my head, som…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/25 12:28 AM
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"If she sees how hurt and angry I am, she'll give me what I want" If I had to pick the #1 misconception I had prior to MRP this would be it, as well as it probably being the #1 thing that I fucked up and snowballed into needing to be here. I had never dealt w/ this in my past relationships, so I had no idea. Also had no idea that even when you hide the butthurt and act like it's no big deal, they mostly see right through it. Can't just act not butthurt, you have to actually be not butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/25 12:14 AM
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I know I can't fix her or her problems, but I'm trying to recognize where I may be failing, which is probably not doing enough to fix the feelz or built my own frame strong enough. You are correct that she is still firmly in control of our/my sex life and that's not where I want to be. Your goal, betch. Who said she will fuck you? Report back next week. Her stated goal, but it's on me to make it happen. Yep, either way, yeah, it'll be in the next OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/25 12:44 PM
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OYS # 10 (8/26/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 178 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. In Progress: Rational Male, MAP and TWOTSM. Sidebar materials: Realized I’ve been dicking around too much and not making enough progress on my reading and trying to juggle multiple books at one time was a dumb idea. Additionally, seeing several comments about not reading TWOTSM this early. I got it o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/25 04:17 PM
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I... think you might be reading too much into it. I purposely chose to start each thought with an action verb
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/25 05:36 PM
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Excellent thoughts and approaches. I've gone from married dad, to single dad, to now a remarried dad/stepdad with much of this as my approach. It can be a mangled mix of different parenting styles - yours, wife's, wife's ex, your ex, your ex's spouse - holy shit - but if you have your own guideposts/structure and set the right example, the kids will follow that example when there's a lack of it in other houses. Currently working on getting better at "Never do anything for your kids that they can…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/25 02:59 PM
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"Honey, what are you doing?! I'm trying to put a load in the clothes washer" "So am I"
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 01:14 PM
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10-4. I don't expect it to be easy, esp. in the short term, but it needs to be done. Good reminder to channel when needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 01:09 PM
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I can understand why living with a girl might promote laziness and such, which I'm guessing is what you infer. Nope. I'm inferring that if you struggle with the discipline to pursue your passions and hobbies now while you are single and call all the shots on your schedule, where you put your stuff, and how you spend your money, you will struggle even more when you don't call all the shots.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 07:05 PM
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Why did you promote her from a plate? You clearly lament the sexual opportunities you missed being single - which were missed for a reason- and your LTR doesn't fuck you much, so what made you promote her? Maybe I'm wrong about this being the norm, but couples in their 20s should be screwing like rabbits. You also don't seem to know what you want - hobbies, more school, finding a passion, traveling... you've got a lot to figure out, yet you feel the need to vet/audition this broad to be the moth…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 06:02 PM
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OYS # 9 (8/19/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 177 lbs. Remarried (40yo) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. Currently: Rational Male, MAP and TWOTSM. Lifting: Bench (5x5) 180 lbs, OHP (5x5) 115, SQ (5x5) 140, Rows (5x5) 140, DL (5x5) 190 Past week: Bought a new car yesterday. Decided to pull the plug on my car after 9 years, just got to the point of it being an unreliable money pit - I wanted to get to 10…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 05:10 PM
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I know you aren't a fan of "man fucks wife", but I'm trying to report on shit that worked or didn't work in my OYS's.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 12:58 PM
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You’re right- it’s fun and it’s boring not to. I need to do more gaming with neighbors, school parents, colleagues, strangers; crack jokes with the cashier, etc. I used to do more of that. Life is more fun that way. I need to get out of my own way.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 09:57 PM
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Damn, man. You always hold the mirror up to us well and catch us on our shit. I'm definitely putting the fear cart before the horse, worrying about future outcomes of possibilities I haven't even taken actions to create yet. And I shouldn't even be operating in fear - I see my past mistakes and I see other guys on here and especially on askMRP playing with dynamite and blowing their own feet off, but you're right, if I've progressed at all and not still a pussy, I should be able to set my own bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 05:56 PM
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I hear that. I've kept to the same bait, same species, and same lake so far. Partly b/c I have not raised my SMV to the point of confidently playing catch/release (short term), and partly b/c of the existential crisis (long term). I do like the thought of playing the game, improving my game and getting the good feedback and confidence, but I've crossed the line before (in first marriage) and don't think that's something I want to do again.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 04:31 PM
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OYS 8 (cont.) Work/Other Not a lot else to report this week. Been focused on a work deadline while waiting for a hopeful/pending promotion. Also trying to tackle several to-dos around the house, get the kids back on school routine and managing their extra curricular activities and custody schedule changes w/ my ex. —-------- Week ahead: continue focusing on getting the things I need to done at work and home, get 3-4 workouts in, and keep working on fixing feelz. Also, apply more push/pull on fli…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 03:59 PM
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OYS #8 (8/12/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 177 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. Currently: Rational Male, MAP,TWOTSM. Lifting: Bench (5x5) 180 lbs, OHP (5x5) 115, SQ (5x5) 140, Rows (5x5) 140, DL (5x5) 190 Three workouts in the past week. My ego has gotten the better of me. I’ve made good progress since starting MRP mostly via Stronglifts, but recently tweaked my groin muscle doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 03:58 PM
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Boss's boss (COO) was burned out and affecting his physical health. He took some time off and actually wanted to come back but it was too late, they already hired the new COO. My boss is very open and honest with me, he didn't like the new COO and he'd been there 5 years and wanted something new. And his new role at another larger firm will potentially present some potential contract teaming opportunities Anyway, my eyes are definitely open and I'm aware. The new role (assuming the promotion) is…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 05:13 PM
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OYS #7 (8/5/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 178 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. Current: Rational Male, MAP and TWOTSM. Lifting: SL program. Bench (5x5) 180 lbs, OHP (5x5) 115, SQ (5x5) 140, Rows (5x5) 140, DL (5x5) 190 Completed 3 workouts this past week, but ran into a couple issues. Two sessions ago I pulled a groin muscle doing squats. Felt a pop in my groin muscle, likely a mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 04:44 PM
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You don’t need an alt account. Read the sidebar materials and do the work. At your current state you doing an OYS will likely get banned on your new account anyway, and then what a 3rd one?
/r/askMRP02/08/25 02:44 PM
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Does anyone see a pattern here than I can improve on/fix? Yes, I believe you were on here 3-4 months ago whining about the same GF situation and saying you would leave her I would happily dump my gf for her sister Sounds like you've got your plan.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 12:51 PM
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So I start this OYS to be called out by you mthfrs in a way that I wouldn't call out myself. Haha, says he wants to be called out; gets called out and quits immediately
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/25 02:31 PM
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OYS #6 (7/29/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 177 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years. Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. Currently: Rational Male, MAP and TWOTSM. Lifting: SL workouts (5x5): Bench 175 lbs, OHP 115, SQ 140, Rows 135, DL 175 (1x5) I didn’t workout for almost a week due to a family lake trip, but I got back in the gym yesterday and didn’t lose a step - new PRs in squat/ohp/DL - I think the time off was goo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 08:34 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I've got some ego management to work on for sure. Also, sex is fucking awesome, but I have to quit trying to make it fill a void. I'm not an unhappy person, and I've got a lot going on/good life on the surface, but I have voids that are keeping me from being completely happy, fulfilled and excited about myself and my life, and I've got to figure out what those are.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/25 09:12 PM
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Mental State/Obsessing About Sex (Cont.) This snowballed a bit more when we moved in together a little more than a year ago. Our first week living together we were off to the races, but then it fell off to about once or twice a week. In my mind, living together would equal more time together, so therefore more sex, but I was wrong and the frequency was on par or slightly less than before we moved in. Somewhere in the first few months I started developing P.E. issues, for the first time in my lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 05:12 PM
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OYS #5 (7/22/25) Stats: 47, 5'11", 176 lbs. Remarried (40) <1 year, together 5 years Two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. Currently reading Rational Male and MAP. Lifting/Physical: SL workouts (5x5): Bench 175 lbs, OHP 110, SQ 135, DL 165, Rows 135 Making good progress on weight gain goals - gained 6 pounds over the past 5 weeks, over one third of the way to the 15 lbs I’m aiming for. Made gains in all the SL 5x5 exercise…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 05:11 PM
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Appreciate you linking this sex obsession post. I just read it and it strikes me as the nail on the head on my current situation for the past couple years, and a key thing (maybe The key thing) I need to work on mentally going forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 03:30 PM
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Thanks for saying. The way I wrote it probably came across dorky (like a Progressive becoming your parents commercial), but I do think taking action and a leadership position in my community aligns with MRP values.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 03:26 PM
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Sadly probably true. Damn. Were you aware you were doing it?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 02:03 AM
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Lol, I guess I’ll keep that kind of thing to myself next time
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 02:02 AM
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Marriage/Sex Life I’m struggling this week to prevent falling back into anger stage. Recent weeks have been good, but this past week I’ve been rejected a bunch and it’s felt like a bit of regression on the momentum since starting MRP. Last few times we’ve had sex were really good, but then it just went into a cold streak mid-week last week into and including the weekend, even though we didn’t have kids around most of the weekend - we even had a nice full day kayak excursion on Saturday, and no f…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 10:55 PM
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OYS 4 (7/15/25) Stats: 47, remarried w/ two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). 5'11", 174 lbs Reading: Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Subtle Art of NGAF. Currently reading Rational Male (30% done) and MAP (25%). Lifting/Physical: SL workouts (5x5): Bench 175 lbs, OHP 110, SQ 120, DL 155, Rows 125 Actively been trying to gain weight for about 4 weeks with a goal of 185 by October 31. I’ve gained about 4 pounds so far, about a pound increase per week, which is about the right pace, ac…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 10:55 PM
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I’ll start reading OYS again and contributing When? I do need to fix a lot of problems with me I need to focus more on me Yes. This is what the experienced guys keep trying to hammer in to us newbies. It all starts with you.
/r/askMRP03/07/25 04:28 PM
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10-4. Appreciate the explanation. I'd be lying if I said I had the balls to tell her to "fuck off", but I could probably give her a look that conveys it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/25 03:09 PM
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Ok - understood on the verbal intercourse and the ego/backpedaling, but can you explain more what you mean here: Your bullshit way of writing that sentence is weak dogshit Why is it weak dogshit to point out or own up to the increase in arguments, or what is it about the way I wrote it? It may be something completely obvious to you that is not yet to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/25 02:24 PM
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Wow
/r/askMRP03/07/25 01:38 PM
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Sex/Relationship Not a lot to report over the past week. Three lays, three rejections, including last night when I was told that I was treating her like a blowup doll for suggesting a bj/hj after the ‘No’. I mimicked blowing into a nozzle on the side of her stomach, but regret that I didn’t come up with something better to do/say in the moment. Ongoing Closet Test/Stalemate: We moved into our house in November; we have a big walk-in master closet. Everything was okay organization-wise until a fe…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/25 09:10 PM
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OYS #3 (7/2/25) Stats: 47, remarried w/ two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). 5'11", 173 lbs Bench 5x5 170#, Squat 5x5 110#, Deadlift 115# 5x5 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSLP, and WISNIFG. Currently reading Rational Male (35%), listening to Subtle Art of NGAF (80%), and just started MAP. Reading Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas for pleasure. Lifting/Physical: Got a little too cute and switched to a hypertrophy workout for a couple weeks, thinking that would help me gain weight, but reco…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/25 09:10 PM
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In my opinion, women are actually attracted to it. Right. Nothing gets women wetter than a guy acting like a fidgety squirrel. It's what plants women crave.
/r/askMRP02/07/25 05:04 PM
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“Fights” was a bad choice of words b/c for the most part I’m not engaging. Testing me, getting upset with me, silent treatment, etc would be more accurate. But, I am still defaulting to DEER on occasion, so that Verbal Intercourse post would be good for me to re-read.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 11:53 AM
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“Brother, brother, brother…” ..man this is a painful post. The whole thing where you got mad that your wife was naked and asking you to warm her up is killing me in particular. I recently came across this Spotify playlist called “Marvin Gaye’s Clueless Ass” – aptly named because so many of his songs are questions: What’s Going On?, What’s Happening Brother?, When Did You Stop Loving Me? Looking at your history of posts, it’s like a Marvin Gaye playlist, you seem to ask others for guidance on eve…
/r/askMRP30/06/25 07:29 PM
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Oh, buddy- it’s not the hair. That’s a red herring
/r/askMRP28/06/25 10:04 PM
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Sex/Relationship I came to MRP as most do because my sex frequency was on the decline, getting close to only once every couple weeks, and have discovered that I’ve operated in beta/nice guy mode for most of my relationships. Since MRP, frequency has gotten back up to around twice a week, but my desire is probably closer to 5 times per week. But really I want to get beyond a number, drop the scoreboard and just know that I can get it when I want it. I’m definitely relating to the Bad Dread phase,…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/25 09:03 PM
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OYS #2 (6/27/25) Stats: 47, remarried w/ two daughters, one stepson (all elementary aged). 5'11", 170 lbs Bench 5x5 170#, Squat 5x5 110#, Deadlift 115# 5x5 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSLP, and WISNIFG. Currently reading Rational Male (35%), listening to Subtle Art of NGAF (75%), and reading Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas (pleasure). MRP So Far I discovered MRP around 3 months ago, and got off to a rocky start by making some shitty posts: My first OYS got me banned for Rule 9 Then I made it worse …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/25 09:03 PM
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Grizz brings the receipts
/r/askMRP26/06/25 09:33 PM
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Yeah, it's a good post - good analogy with the bonus of FG references woven in. Also appreciate the fact that you come across as genuinely wanting to see guys get through their storms and harvest the shrimp on the other side of it.
/r/askMRP26/06/25 03:36 PM
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This guy really sees the Forrest through the trees
/r/askMRP26/06/25 03:08 PM
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You’re 29 and you avoided moving in and getting married to someone that clearly isn’t into you. Do you even realize what a blessing that is?? Time is on your side. You clearly suck now but you have time to work on yourself. Go read MRP sidebar and get to work.
/r/askMRP19/06/25 06:18 PM
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You need to read more sidebar content on STFU. STFU is like the gutter guards on the bowling lane. It’s to keep you from rolling gutter balls- DEERIng, whining, stepping on your dick- things that make you unattractive. When you get more attractive and can naturally avoid acting unattractive, you take the guardrails off. It’s there for your protection. Guys that don’t need to STFU don’t ask questions about STFU.
/r/askMRP11/06/25 03:31 AM
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Entitlement…yes, I think this is fair and if I’m being totally honest with myself I probably had some feelings of entitlement. I’m realizing that I and other guys just getting started, we are actually more retarded right now than pre-MRP. We’re putting in work and consciously or subconsciously feeling like we deserve rewards that we haven’t earned yet through the right changes in attitude and behavior.
/r/askMRP20/05/25 05:59 PM
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Good reminder. I've been able to do this successfully at times, but it's not yet my default setting.
/r/askMRP20/05/25 04:09 PM
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This is great info, definitely taking note of it. Truly appreciate it
/r/askMRP20/05/25 12:09 PM
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How is that her fault? No, it's not her fault and I didn't intend it that way. I'm fully blaming myself and recognizing I haven't progressed to a point where these situations don't happen. She's prob sad because she's coming to terms with the fact she's married to a bonehead. Could be the case, I'll give you that.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 09:24 PM
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Why do you still have so much energy at the end of the night if you spent "all day getting shit done" Well fuck, man -it's not like I was digging ditches... But I hear you on the rest, I should've pushed the point more earlier instead of banking for later.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 09:20 PM
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Yeah - I suppose the truth of it hurts now, but hope to be on the other side of it soon and get to "it's amazing"
/r/askMRP19/05/25 09:07 PM
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10-4. Appreciate it
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:43 PM
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Down to her core she knows that she owns your ass still Fuck, I can't argue with that.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:08 PM
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The pregnancy isn't even the hardest part, just wait until there's a kid to deal with. Ain't that the fucking truth
/r/askMRP19/05/25 04:34 PM
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What’s the Number 1 rule?! 1. Be Attractive (physique, “muscle”) 2. Don’t Be Unattractive (mindset) Read the beginner shit on MRP sidebar and don’t try to skip steps or do one and not the other.
/r/askMRP14/05/25 03:37 PM
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Let’s put it in a context the OP can better relate to… OP, when you use the gloryhole in the men’s room, do you care what happens? If someone decides to just smear toilet doo doo on your cock instead of sucking it, are you cool with that? If not, Sidebar please.
/r/askMRP09/05/25 11:42 PM
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Even as a banned, bottom-rung Noob I can easily see why this post was removed from MRP. You're blaming this situation on your wife's cycle instead of owning up to your weak character and lack of family leadership that has allowed an atmosphere where a small task like combing hair results in meltdowns by everyone in your household.
/r/askMRP08/05/25 05:47 PM
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Good question - I'll say the latter. I don't want to be aligned with the guy feeling like he has to defend and explain himself to anonymous dudes on the internet. I fully expected (and wanted) to get feedback and criticism, even brutal criticism on my OYS, but I didn't expect the ban, then the subsequent permaban, both of which put me on the defensive. It's a disappointment, but not a setback b/c I can still do the work, read the MRP sidebar, read and learn from other's posts, ask the dumb quest…
/r/askMRP07/05/25 02:56 PM
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Who said anything about 14 days?? Yeah, I put out a shitty OYS. Yeah, I'm likely walking around right now more retarded than pre-MRP. Yeah, I wanted to find out why a 180-day ban for me vs. 30 days, 14 days, whatever for others for the same violation - so I went to this sub, as it was indicated as a safe harbor to ask these questions. But fuck it, I'll do the shit on the sidelines. "Fuck it, we'll do it live!!"
/r/askMRP06/05/25 12:17 PM
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Wait, aren’t you the “intermediate- advanced” guy??
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:40 PM
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Thanks- good insight. 30 days seems reasonable for a first offense; 180 seems excessive, but I’ll deal with it and just keep lifting, learning and STFU until I’m past the ban and have some good growth to report.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:25 PM
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Yep, I see the lameness of my OYS post in hindsight
/r/askMRP05/05/25 01:58 PM
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Pivotal Moment: A couple weeks back I experienced a sexual rejection, tried to play it off like no big deal, but clearly my face read butthurt. Later discussion before bed we discussed and was met with "I'm sorry I'm not in the mood, but you seemed upset". I explained I was fine, but it wasn't taken well (likely b/c I'd been working on not reacting to rejections over the past couple weeks). I said I don't care, I don't want it if you don't, making her further upset, and then called her out on th…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 03:38 PM
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OYS #1 (5/1/25) Stats: Late 40s, remarried w/ two kids, one stepkid (all elementary aged). 5'11", 173 lbs Reading: Finished NMMNG, almost finished with MMSLP and WISNIFG, making my way through sidebar Lifting: about a month into regular lifting, but without a solid plan yet. Starting on 5x5s, and working on getting my home gym improved. Seeing some good physique changes and getting a few compliments, but still a ways to go to break out of the skinny-fat/dad-bod category. I wouldn't want to fuck …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 03:38 PM
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