Direct_Yesterday_349 Archive

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0	What Is The Red Pill, and Why Are So Many Young Men Falling For It? Swallowing too many ‘Red Pills’ will warp your perception of women. Enjoy your victimhood, class envy, and dreams of socialism	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/24 01:16 PM
1	What Is The Red Pill, and Why Are So Many Young Men Falling For It? Swallowing too many ‘Red Pills’ will warp your perception of women. I know red pill isn’t popular on this forum and some red pill evangelists like Andrew Tate are ‘problematic’ to put it mildly but truth is from my experience , there is a lot of good information out there which can greatly help men. It’s not about hating women. It’s about clarifying a lot of the confusion out there in the world for men and giving them guides on how to better navigate issues not just with women but with life in general. It doesn’t tell men they’re great and don’t need to change a…	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/24 02:51 PM
2	why do some girls date guys twice their age? Money , expensive dates, boats , etc	/r/ExRedPill	03/01/24 09:19 PM
1	My date used the terms “simp” and “frame.” That is sadly an example of a total bozo with zero common sense and zero game. He’s not wrong for wanting to avoid ‘simping’ and wanting to keep a women in his ‘frame’ but advertising what’s on his mind to his date and using these terms is NOT the point of red pill. It can sometimes be like giving an idiot child fireworks to play with. The whole point of red pill thought is for guys to better manage relationships with women without being taken advantage of and to be aware of potential red flags …	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/23 05:31 PM
1	Do redpillers have girlfrends? They do and oftentimes are married also. They don’t go around advertising to their mates - ‘I’m on a red pill so I expect you to do this or that ‘. They just set boundaries where necessary , try maintaining traditional roles in the relationship (yes they DO exist and yes men and women ARE different and have different roles and needs), and maintain vigilance of potential red flags in the relationship signaling trouble. Being a feminist and advertising it is usually a guarantee of either never bei…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/23 11:34 AM
1	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? Not an Incel! Have kids and been asked to father more! The bomber always catches flak when over the target ! Until women face up to reality they will continue to fail.	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/23 01:00 AM
0	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? Sorry I noticed lists below such as ‘honesty’, ‘truly liking me for me’, ‘empathy’, and intelligence’ which is often the same generic list women throw out there that women actually ignore when selecting mates. You’re not being honest with yourselves! PLENTY of men have those in abundance but they’re literally invisible to you and you’re all instead chasing after a dwindling pool of men who have the opposite of these traits but are physically attractive and dominant. The problem is really simple,…	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/23 10:25 AM
1	The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship? The red pill guys frankly exaggerate that a little bit. Not all women expect that. However one must keep in mind women are bombarded with attention online, even if below average, by players looking to just ‘hit it and quit it’. Despite being used and dumped this feeds the ego of many women who then raise their standards unrealistically and remain lonely. The real truth is a man has to be at least ‘a little better’ in most respects than a women he is pursuing. For example , if the woman is a 3 ou…	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/23 12:11 PM
1	Do women get more unconditional Love than men ? Absolutely. This has been studied and the conclusions even by psychologists is that women for the most part love conditionally and it’s an important evolutionary adaptation. It’s a feature not a big as they say.	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/23 01:17 PM
-6	Red pill and race That is categorically false. None of the ones I’ve watched were against any race or advocated races stay separate. None. Coach Adams is a big manosphere guy who is black, associates and dates exclusively with whites. Andrew Tate has a black father. Fresh and fit are black dudes. I get the dislike of red pill but trying that worn out race card is beyond silly in this case.	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/23 01:07 PM
-2	Are women really more valuable than men like the red pill guys make it out to be? And I feel insecure about my value. That’s not at all what they say. The truth is women only want men they perceive as higher value than themselves in terms of socioeconomic status and or physical appearance. A woman who’s a 4 for example reaches for 8’s if can snag them even if just for one night but might settle down with a 6 or perhaps a 5 if doing well for himself. Studies show for a man to have the most loyal long term Partner he has to settle down with a woman who is at least a point below himself in attractiveness. You can …	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/23 01:41 PM
1	Do women really have more options in dating then men and do they really start planning to be with a different guy weeks before the breakup? Women have WAY MORE options than men though with a caveat. Way more short term options. In terms of holding on to meaningful relationships lately that has been very challenging. The problem for women is they constantly fall for the trap of dating above their league and often not recognize this is hurting them longer term. I know this from entering the dating pool some years ago after leaving a long marriage. Women often go through a long series of hookups and short term relationships sometimes i…	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/23 02:17 PM
1	Richard Cooper now charges $5000 an hour or $83/minute for “high performance coaching” ‘Face palm’ Nice gig if you can get it! To be fair he does have some good content one can watch free on YouTube and his book, which I bought used for like $8 wasn’t too bad but you can get that same info free just watching YouTube. The guy himself made tons of mistakes in his own life and in his book claims that during his divorce he thought of killing himself. I am divorced and went through it just fine. The guy is far more successful and wealthy than I am for sure but don’t know I can see myse…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/23 08:34 AM
-1	What percentage of women... The truth is most women nowadays aren’t good relationship material. Never saw mention of middle children or simply posting on social media being bad. Posting selfies all the time on social media to seek attention from other men is a huge red flag. So is drug addiction, so is being bad with money, being a single mom also. Women want men who ‘get it’ and ‘have their shit together’ so likewise men shouldn’t invite crazy or dysfunctional women into their lives.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 11:21 AM
0	How to deal with insecurity Constant texting is a distraction and not healthy. If she texts you keep the texts brief and text her back or let her know you’re too busy and would like to meet up later. If you text her and she doesn’t have a good excuse for not getting back to you in under an hour it means she’s not that into you so let her go. If chad was on the other end texting her you know she’d respond quickly. Women constantly have phones in their hands. Unless they’re busy with work they’ll get back to you quickly if r…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 11:18 AM
1	shocked after contact with a rep pill believer First of all telling this guy how he should think and implying red pill is bad is out of line. Yes a core of red pill is men becoming their best. That’s a net positive for both men and women. Yea he’s correct that you publicly posting revealing pics of yourself isn’t a good thing. It’s done for attention seeking and validation and a guy can’t trust a women he’s dating who engages in that since many thirsty betas are seeking to hook up. He was likely nice on first date because he’s got some class…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 11:06 AM
1	What was your experience as a red pilled? Your statement about ‘your depression getting worse’ seems to indicate self care is needed so dating should be put in back burner til those issues are resolved. Only then can you have positive experiences in relationships	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:56 AM
1	What's the worst piece of advice you've ever heard from RP? That’s actually great advice. If they’re just posting family photos that’s one thing but if they’re posting provocative selfies they’re seeking validation and keeping options open .	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:54 AM
1	What caused you to become redpilled ? This is a great question. I am divorced. When I first separated and lived part time with ex and children I started dating and was often surprised and amused by the behaviors and types of people I encountered. I saw patterns. I was becoming red pill aware almost 10 years ago but I never heard of this until a couple of months ago. The divorce went smoothly since I was prepared for it well in advance and my ex and I are rational people who had best interest of children at heart. Bad divorces often …	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:38 AM
2	Update. I talked to my therapist today about my red pill views and me blaming my women friends and he helped. I AM OFFICALLY DONE WITH REDPILL VIEWS Being extremely scared of being lonely - that’s a problem right there. Anxiety and a scarcity mindset. This fear of loneliness will lead you to make poor decisions dealing with women and they will take advantage of you and treat you poorly if act weak and nervous of losing them all the time. You simply have to put yourself first and be your best self. You have to also not be afraid to set boundaries in a relationship. Otherwise you will attract and spend energy on bad situations rather than walk…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:24 AM
1	I'm struggling to not fall into redpill I’d recommend following Rich Cooper. Yea he’s red pill but he gives great advice on how to handle relationships with women and maintaining ‘frame’. When you treat relationships with women as a ‘partnership’ rather than lead, or let them lead , you’re in for an emotional roller coaster.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:19 AM
1	Who do we even date in this society now? Someone named coach Adams made a comment once about ‘dating’ I think fits here. Basically he said if you’re a smooth ‘expert’ at dating it means you’re someone who’s just become a pickup artist and is probably bad relationship material. Think about that. Being awkward or less than smooth at times is normal. You don’t want to be fearful and nervous but don’t worry about being smooth. Worry about being your best self and being attractive to women. When you’re your best self, things will naturally …	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:15 AM
0	What truly is a Redpiller? This seems like trolling. Not a real question but a statement meant to demean. What you’re describing are Incels. They’re involuntarily celibate because can’t attract women. That’s very common in recent years thanks to social media and women finding 80% of men unattractive. Red pillers often divorced men who went red pill during divorce process or their interactions with women AFTER the divorce. I didn’t know what red pill was but I was sorta there myself as I really got to know female nature wh…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 10:05 AM
1	My biggest problem with redpill & blackpill Cat calling women on the street or learing at them and making crude remarks is low brow behavior and doesn’t fly nowadays. Not aware of red pillers saying this is ok and encouraging it. Being emotional as a man is definitely a sign of weaknesses and if a hetero male it will really turn off hetero women. Most red pillers are indifferent to lgbt. Some aren’t for some reason. I’d be suspicious of hetero people who are obsessively critical of gay people. Often a sign that they are questioning /confu…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 09:57 AM
-1	Question for people who used to be redpill. He’s looking for/hooking up with other women. It’s over. Move on	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 09:51 AM
-7	“Women lose value as they get older” Do women slowly lose value after reaching their peak at 22-23 range? Yes. Does this mean women at 28 don’t have value ? No. Should you listen to Andrew Tate? No! Is he married with kids? Don’t believe so. In my opinion you can’t claim to be alpha without being a good father and provider.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 09:50 AM
1	Are some of us broken beyond repair? You’re 22 and have a very long runway ahead. Suggest therapy as clearly you suffer from extreme anxiety. Also highly recommend cutting out screen time and video games as much as possible and going outside more to breathe fresh air and let sun touch your skin. This helps with relaxation and mental clarity.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 09:47 AM
0	Venting The problem is that people’s expectations, in particular that of women have changed. One can say those expectations in many cases are delusional to be frank. Obviously most people are average and always will be. Thus average people should generally pair up with other average people. Women are hypergamous so average guys will often have to pair up with below average women for things to work. Red pill coaches advise men to be their best self. If average , strive to become above average in whatever…	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/23 09:51 AM
2	You’re making yourself a loser RP guys suggest putting aside resentment and negative thoughts and focus the energy on yourself. There’s a lot out there to enjoy if you’re at your best financially. You can’t get women to like you in dating market rent them! If you’re bored of your surroundings , go on a vacation, buy a cool car, indulge in hobbies like collecting. Women should not be the only focus of a man’s life, they’re an addition to it if successful	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/23 04:14 PM
1	How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women? Well when you look around you(or read about it) as you go through life you see when women have their highest value in the sexual market place (18-28) when free to do so they seek out sex with what they consider to be the best mates. There’s not enough men that satisfy their criteria so as they age they start to compromise to some degree in order to achieve motherhood and have a provider. Studies show women with too many sexual partners don’t make good long term mates thus part of the reason for …	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 11:08 PM
1	Why do you believe RP is wrong? Women simply have a different mating strategy than men and are very self serving in how they go about things. They do things without malice generally speaking but they can be cold hearted when it serves them. It’s better to understand why they behave the way they do rather than being angry with them.	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 11:03 PM
1	Not red pill really but I get really tired of how society tells men the only acceptable emotion we can express is anger. No need to be pessimistic about this. Women and men are NOT the same and we are going to be held to different standards. Women and men need each other and our needs and wants are different. Women always have and always will value a man who is strong and generally stoic over a man who is weak and over emotional. You’re not going to shame them into changing the hard wiring in their brains. If a man is having mental health issues no shame in seeking counseling to try to get to the root of the issue…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:47 PM
1	Question about women's ACTUAL response to seeing a man crying/being emotional This is one of the few genuinely good questions I’ve encountered on this forum. The answer I believe is ‘ it depends’. If a man’s parent or lifelong friend died, if a child is terminally ill, if your spouse is very sick, or if you witnessed a horrible family tragedy and you express emotion a woman will normally feel closeness and compassion. If you’re a guy who drags out and displays too much emotion over an extended period of time and lock yourself in your room depressed for months and withdraw…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:38 PM
0	Why do you believe RP is wrong? RP does not make women out to be malicious. If that’s what you’re hearing you’re clearing hearing it from a lousy rep. They may think or behave in ways some men may not like but they’re not malicious . They’re humans who look out for themselves above all and you have to accept it or not engage with them. They can be kind and nurturing but they have little patience for guys who they are in an LTR with and become losers. They will bounce on you and their way of dealing with men is a good survival …	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:30 PM
1	How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women? It is normal for men to feel some form of repulsion towards women they know had a promiscuous past. It’s something hard wired into our brains for a reason. You don’t need to resent them or hate them or disrespect them. You can either engage with them on a short term basis (never get into an LTR with a person like this since they will very likely not pair bond with you for long) or simply avoid them. No need ever for hate or disrespect. They are who they are so accept it as you’re not going to ch…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:24 PM
1	Can high promiscuity damage you psychically ? I didn’t bother reading the entire post because you mentioned two major red flags:1. She’s mentally unstable, 2. She won’t be intimate with you. You’re in a horrible situation and need to walk away and let her seek help and work on herself. If you have issues also you may also need to unplug from dating and work on yourself . The outcome of a relationship where some form of mental health issue is involved is never a good one.	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:20 PM
1	Isn't the core message of red pill to improve yourself? Red pill is indeed a very good mindset to adopt. Don’t confuse Incels with red pillers. Red pill coaches do indeed encourage men to be their best selves. There’s really no other way to maximize success with women since women are hypergamous by nature through evolution as a survival mechanism. They only choose mates better than themselves in terms of looks and or success. Men all have varying degrees of looks, fitness, and success. If a man is ugly, short, in bad shape, and broke he’s not going t…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:15 PM
-4	Insecurity that partner might leave for someone "bigger" Insecurity or paranoia should not be thoughts you entertain. If you feel genuine desire from your partner enjoy her. You just have to be aware of potential red flags and not ignore them if you encounter them but set boundaries and confront them. For example, is she going out to bars with girlfriends while in a monogamous relationship with you? Is she constantly on social media posting selfies or seeking attention in other ways? Does she have male friends she sometimes has lunch with or talk to ?…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 12:00 PM
-2	You’re making yourself a loser Being red pill means being aware of how the dynamics between men and women work so can better navigate real life situations. It in no way means you need to be paranoid or behave in a disrespectful or demeaning manner towards women. That’s not at all what that stuff is about. Often people who evangelize ‘red pill’ are men with much life experience often punctuated with failures that in hindsight could have been avoided or at least better managed had they been red pilled much sooner. Men should NO…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 11:51 AM
0	Ever since I’ve lost my female friends I had gone red pill and I need help as I keep being angry and bitter. This seems disingenuous but I’ll try posing some questions and giving feedback. Red pill ‘theology ‘ doesn’t tell men to stop being friends with women. Not enemies. What do you mean by their ‘not reciprocating’ your attention? Did you make sexual or romantic advances that were rebuffed ? If so, you were doing the typical ‘friendship first with hope of romance later’ . This almost always fails if this is what you tried. When attractive women are your friends it means they view you as a beta they …	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/23 01:52 PM
1	How to deal with insecurity I’ve been there. It’s very simple. If they don’t text you back in a reasonable amount of time means they’re not interested. Forget that person and block. If the person desires you they will reply fairly promptly unless fairly busy at a good job. We have our phones constantly in our hands so they’re taking their time on purpose. Focus on self improvement and stop worrying about others so much	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 12:03 PM
-4	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman ‘Red pill’ is a set of beliefs or truths (however one looks at it) which many men have to some extent discovered or instinctively knew on their own and developed awareness of over time thanks mostly to experience. There are guys out there online who have ‘formulated’ these things with hope of educating beforehand to give others knowledge and advantage before making mistakes. Like any belief system some who ‘teach’ are good others are horrible. I wanna share my thoughts on much of what said above…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 09:09 AM