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Dirk_13/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 09:44 AM
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Mane, it might feel strange at first, but you’ll soon discover a peaceful sanctuary in your own space. Start taking care of yourself—learn to cook, pick up some hobbies, and keep the chaos outside. don’t let a woman move in unless you are super serious again to the point you are looking to remarry again etc and try avoid a women pillow talking you into moving in or have kids be smart and read between the lines and take as much time as you need it could be years just enjoy your peace it will get …
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/25 11:07 PM
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Hell to the fuck no!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 05:24 AM
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Thank you nah it’s not happening I’m glad I got a women’s prospective 💯💪🏾 Coparenting is better I love that space
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 12:44 PM
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Absolutely! I welcome harsh comments, negative opinions, and positive feedback—it gives me perspective on how different people would handle or have handled a situation like this. One thing I know for sure is that going back is not an option; there’s too much at stake. I appreciate you for sharing your thoughts.💪🏾💯
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 12:43 PM
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Definitely, having your family is great the hole is too deep to cover up so yeah coparenting is better
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 12:37 PM
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Not gonna lie, it was a hard pill to swallow. I couldn’t properly move on, and the women I talked to could see it on my face—how hurt and bothered I was by my past. Whenever they asked about it, I either struggled to focus or got caught up in the weight of everything, especially with co-parenting challenges. Therapy, close friends, and family helped me break through that. They reminded me that, no matter what, I had to forgive and move forward. She will always be my son’s mother, and there will …
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 12:36 PM
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Absolutely I’m enjoying meeting new wonderful women and dating but definitely taking things slow, her confession is great and I’m happy for but I want to us to be happy as coparent it’s seems healthy for both of us and our son. I don’t want to play in that field even for lil bit because of emotions that would be too involved and it be disastrous if it wasn’t to work again. I support her moving on and everything down to working on herself taking her love for god more seriously I’ll even shake the…
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 02:13 PM
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You are right, I’m happy she got it off her chest and getting the help she needs to fix things within herself but I do wish her the best to continue to grow in peace.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 01:51 PM
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💯💪🏾💪🏾 that’s vibes I’m on was curious know other approach to this
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 01:43 PM
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Most definitely that’s the part it’s a plus but then there’s a big draw back that affects him mentally. If He doesn’t see me in the house anymore. I think coparenting is best no matter I just wanted to know how others dealt with it good or bad. I don’t want to even have open relationships with her because it will definitely affect her as well. I want to support as coparent/best friend
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 01:41 PM
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You not lying to why I push my divorce , I look at so many aspects of it. But no matter what I show my son lil brother the same love and respect. even from I’ve heard and see he have no clue who his actually dad is who doesn’t want to be in his life. He only see me being a dad his older brother which rubs off on him. I’ve dated women with no kids and kids they are all in the fast lane which is scary as hell they want multiple kids and marriage in less than 5 years
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 01:33 PM
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I appreciate that. Self-respect has been a huge factor in all of this, no doubt. At the end of the day, I know I gave my best effort in the marriage, and now my focus is on doing what’s right for myself and our son. Restoration is a complex thing—it takes more than regret; it takes action, trust, and real change. That’s what I’m still trying to figure out. Have you or anyone you know gone through something similar? Did it help in the long run? She has held herself accountable, admitted her fault…
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 01:18 PM
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Not gonna lie, part of me wanted to go back. I’ve forgiven everything, but I’ll never forget. She was a man’s worst nightmare. Nowadays, I tread lightly and focus on being the best co-parent I can be when I’m with our son and when she’s around. She created such a toxic environment, and the people I thought supported us showed me they were actually part of the problem—and these were church-going folks. As much as I love my son and don’t want him to be part of the broken home crisis, I honestly fe…
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 01:05 PM
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They never do and will try to spin the block modern women mentality
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 05:32 PM
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First I think you should stop making excuses for your wife that’s you feeling sorry for her you’re the man of the marriage stand on business because women mindset are very complex what you think you know isn’t what you may know. she suggested breaking up for good is a clear sign that someone is around secretly I’m not saying mines was the same but she tried that crap and I told her I don’t believe in breaks within a marriage either we fix it or we get a divorce when she showed no interest in the…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 08:45 AM
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Encourage her in a nice way to do healthy things like fitness and eating right and do it with her she will more than likely appreciate you more for that
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 10:17 PM
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Bro said ozempic 😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 10:15 PM
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Freedom, peace and tranquility , financial offload and stability with no more liability and you enjoy life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 08:43 AM
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You can definitely ask that’s your boyfriend ofc, It’s going to be a depressing moment for him, but it doesn’t mean it will affect you in anyway nor that he don’t love you. it’s best to help comfort and cheer him up throughout the process. But always make sure there’s a transparent communication between you guys
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 09:36 AM
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It’s so peaceful do what you want to with worrying about no one but your kids and your self
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 08:53 PM
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Congratulations start traveling enjoy like life you will meet better quality women that respects you and appreciate you Finland 🇫🇮 is one ☝️
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 11:38 PM
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Never give up fighting for your kid, you are actually being fair, atp it just seems like she’s got personal issues that she needs to sort out and that can be detrimental to your lil one , trust me the court will take all that into consideration and see who’s the better fit parent, if you can ask for residential custody
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 04:45 PM
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I’m sorry this sucks man!! Fight for custody of your kids and home everything. Don’t let her get anything shes the one destroying the home and family Utah is 50/50 state
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 01:48 PM
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I understand definitely take some time to heal it won’t be an easy journey don’t indulge if anything crazy that would sabotage your life and health. Just take that as opportunity learn and grow from and if you get to see your grandchild which I’m sure that would happen enjoy every moment of it. Somethings heal with time
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 04:56 PM
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Sorry to hear sucks that happened, it tough being an outsider to a family, Think of it as a blessing in Disguise, there are many other things they could’ve done to you in that house. She’s the one that left and abandoned home marriage if everything is in your name she can’t take you to court for anything just a waste of time and money for her that is. Definitely remove your funds and assets to a new account like yesterday and cancel her off anything that you have with her cause she can ruined yo…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 04:44 PM
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Sorry bud once you married W/o prenuptial agreement you are loosing 1-2 legs for the chair. Doesn’t matter what’s she does besides contributing. I think this is why most men avoid marriage early on before there their goals are in line
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 02:00 AM
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Yeah custody is no joke to why I had it resolved through her court summons the 1st time avoided CS as well and then I divorced her via lawyer afterwards which cost me 2k. My lawyer was convincing me to get more out my custody but I was good with it I was only focused on my divorce
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 08:52 PM
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Yup thank bro, glad I got away from it
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 01:41 AM
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I talked to my attorney about that as well. He told me that I can contest if she tries anything by requesting a paternity test to determine if I’m not the biological father which I’m 100% not . Additionally, I noted on the divorce papers that she had a child outside of our marriage when it was finalized, and the judge signed off on it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 03:37 PM
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Thanks man Just one before her chaos’s happened that’s only reason I see her if my son wasn’t around I would’ve pulled off a Houdini act and disappear lol. Don’t wish that mess on my greatest enemy it’s embarrassing to someone like that with your last name giving random men your gift great honor a child
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 08:59 AM
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All good bro, I’m just glad I’m free from that toxicity and that I’m actually doing so much better she can’t even believe her eyes new clean whip and crib her face was priceless I her from her family that she regret everything 😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 08:50 AM
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I went through a year where she was acting very suspicious and secretive in our marriage. After she asked for a separation, I suggested we get a divorce because I don't believe in separation and had no intention of coming back. We weren't on good terms, and I certainly wasn't going to risk touching her or catching anything from her. Despite everything, she kept pushing for us to have another child, which I refused because I no longer trusted or wanted her. Six months after I moved out, she told …
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 08:47 AM
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Bruh that happened my ex wife got knocked for a dude who don’t even want the baby nor her I was damn you found out real quick
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 08:33 AM
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Sorry for the confusion When I refer to a moment I mean him and his wife
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 02:15 PM
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Mane take your wife out on date, tell her nice things start smashing. She ain’t getting no D Try to get more one on one time. Don’t come outside nothing out here. While you are still marriage women will still have that over you as an excuse. And you seem more on emotional side of things so they will definitely play mind games. As far divorce and treatment recommend therapy with both y’all not one of you. You guys probably going through a moment
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 09:36 AM
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😂😂😭 cuz she wants to be in the dust by not working
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 10:59 PM
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