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We already know you thought you’d be banging hotter girls by now but what other goals did you think you’d have halfway through your journey? Answer this for yourself and then make a plan of how to get it. some inspiration I don’t know if you play any instrument or are excellent at any sport. If not just try to imagine what that question would sound like to a great piano or sports player. What can you do would be a ridiculous questions. That’s how amateurs measure things. I can play this and that…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 10:54 PM
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This is what happens when you decide to divorce without doing the work first. Clearly you’re not even halfway through the course.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 09:10 PM
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/askmrp Other than that do the sidebar and you’re golden or don’t and you’re cucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/26 08:47 PM
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Don’t be unattractive Be attractive
/r/askMRP10/05/26 01:35 AM
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Why won’t other women fuck you?
/r/askMRP09/05/26 08:56 PM
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I wish wmp still had his trigger-happy finger on the ban button
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/25 02:54 AM
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I know I'm only 22 weeks into MRP and I have a long way to go but I have never been as hell bent on seeing something through like I am with MRP. It’s interesting you mention this. What about your new business venture? I’d focus more on bulding the life I want regardless of what’s happening with the fiancée.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/25 01:47 PM
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The point of both is to achieve baseline goals through hard work. If you’re not doing that, then post your goal and metric of choice. Going 3-5x to the gym means nothing. Getting to 13-15% bf does as long as it is accompanied by good lifts. It’s hard to tell where you’re at and what you’re doing it for.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/25 07:31 PM
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What are your lifts today vs 4 months ago? What is your weight today vs 4 months ago? It’s cool to learn mrp tips and tricks and tackle superficial itches, but you can’t bullshit hard work. Until you stop lying to us and more importantly yourself you won’t really improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/25 02:30 PM
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Post your lifts Post what you are reading and start reading the sidebar in order. In 12 months you’ll be 4x smarter if you pay attention to what you’re reading and do the work. It’ll even help you with work.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/25 04:36 AM
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Clearly here for validation. Haven’t done the sidebar Haven’t posted lifts progress Haven’t lost a pound in 4 months Quit now and save us the trouble of reading your verbal diarrhea. Its pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/25 03:53 AM
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The difference between this monk vs the needy newbies monk mode is a subtler higher level validation seeking behavior dressed with some expertise. Newbies are trying to validate fake alpha and going Rambo feels better faster than doing the necessary work. Yours is subtler because you’re clearly more experienced and have some decent/ok frame but most likely hiding some deeper work you need to do. Meanwhile it’s fun to do useless experiments to validate yourself to MRP friends with some lab contro…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/25 05:38 PM
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That doesn’t sound like the social life I’d want. You shouldn’t be aiming for anything, you should naturally gravitate to things you enjoy and want. Hobbies friends ect… it’s ok to make it planned at in beginning to figure out what you like. From the way you write it seems you need some more exploring. Also notice how you frame “receptive starfish” = validation. Who’s frame is that?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 07:02 AM
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Yeah you definitely shouldn’t be bulking with 21% bf. Also at your newbie lifting numbers you can keep gaining muscle at mantainace or at a slight cut. It’s clear from your post you’re completely in your wife’s frame. You shouldn’t care about her moods or stress or anything that goes on on her head. Remember she is a reflection of you and you don’t sound very fun to begin with. And jfk I don’t know how many times it needs to be said but don’t stop initiating. It’s like saying I can’t get my shot…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/25 01:41 AM
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Are you building a social life outside? Or just doing one off things. sex declines in marriages and that’s ok “Babe I don’t know about you but I’m going to be fucking 69 times per month until I’m 96” How did you determine your initiations were validation seeking or not?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/25 01:30 AM
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Considering TWOTSM lets see, are you doing stuff thats at the edge of your abilities? Lifts: BP 1RM 230lbs (+5), DL 1RM 350 (+15), SQ 1RM 255lbs, OH Press 5x3x120lbs good numbers for 8 weeks in, but you can still add 50% to all of these within 3-6months an actual passion, mission, and purpose that fulfills me. what have you tried? not written down, but things you've actually tried to do? I enjoy talking with people, but small talk about the weather or kids is lame. Confident. Charismatic why tal…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 06:15 PM
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175cm, 79kg sounds fat Bought a dumbbell set sounds gay OMAD. Looking to cut some body weight especially around my waist. is gay I did notice that I DEER way too much. Still getting some low-level anxiety when I STFU. Nonetheless I am focusing on that. STFU until it hurts in the balls. Progress.. noticing is the first part. STFU until you are completely comfortable. That anxiety you feel should go to zero eventually. Space out if you want and explore your mind instead of hers. Her problem. Daily…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 05:48 PM
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The key issue is not that. Study the ox, learn its seams, let the blade glide through them, when stopped whisper the blade through and your knife will be as sharp as cook ding years after. Stop trying to hack it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/25 07:24 AM
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Ffs why all the noobs want to read twotsm. Just better take it out of the sidebar. A better read for you would be all the posts on frame. All of jacks10 comments and stay out of your wife’s head, let her fix her own problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/25 07:08 AM
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One thing I’ve learned with kids (and honestly with anyone) is there are only two levers you can pull: motivation and training. Motivation is the spark. It’s fast, emotional, it hooks them, but it’s also fleeting. You can’t “lecture” them into wanting something. You engineer the environment so they want it themselves. It might be a trip, exposure to people they look up to, an adventure, or sometimes just letting them stumble into the right movie at the right time. That’s where the magic happens.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/25 06:47 AM
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So I'm all over my fitness at the moment. Yes, but not in the positive way you'r thinking. When you double your lift numbers you'll appreciate why. seriously STFU It’s easy just picture this: every time you open your big fag mouth and deer some stupid bullshit, you’ll get throat-rammed with a big, fat, wet cock. I've wasted some focus and energy Use that focus and energy to practice game on your wife or that gym buddy you want to invite
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/25 07:40 PM
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There is a reason TWOTSM isn’t recommended until later stages. It’ll do more harm than good. Do the sidebar in order. Focus on doing shit and trying/learning what you like and don’t so you can eventually answer the only important question: what do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 03:33 PM
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If they have real options they can do a better job unlike this guy who has oneitis and doesn’t even know it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 02:52 PM
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Do the work until you’re competent, competence breeds confidence, confidence solidifies frame, frame earns self respect. That’s how you become your own mental point of origin. Do that and you won’t be looking to internet strangers to give meaning to your life. I see you don’t mention your work. Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 09:16 PM
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the universe doesn’t care Correct. We are the only ones that care. I don’t know why this makes me propped up above the universe, which laws are really our only limitations?. Maybe it’s a residual left from religions telling us we are dust and don’t matter so anyone that challenges that is seen as delusional. Even dust can be amazing, so can the viper that sees heat. All the more reason universal explainers that can shape the world. Thank you for the time. I think you did show me something about …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 07:16 PM
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the universe doesn’t care Correct. We are the only ones that care. I don’t know why this makes me propped up above the universe, which laws are really our only limitations?. Maybe it’s a residual left from religions telling us we are dust and don’t matter so anyone that challenges that is seen as delusional. Even dust can be amazing, so can the viper that sees heat. All the more reason universal explainers that can shape the world. Thank you for the time. I think you did show me something about …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 07:15 PM
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It's not your inexperience, it's your faggotry. Real men can vet women in a few dates. Earn respect and decide after you unfuck yourself. Why is this so hard to get? I actually know the answer but want to see what you come up with.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 05:47 PM
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Relativity isn’t Newton plus a gamma knob. It’s a completely new explanation of how the universe works. Technically a complete framework swap with stricter symmetry (Lorentz, not Galilean). It unifies more. You’re confusing the math, how we represent theories, with the explanation: spacetime is a real geometry that can curve, clocks really dilate, light really bends. The symbols are just one way to encode explanations. Yes you can use different symbols but the explanation remains the same no mat…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 02:08 PM
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I worded that wrong, slavery is morally wrong, didn't mean to say that automatically invalidates all the culture. Bad example, I think my culture is retarded and some of its practices are retarded and fucked up. They do have stuff that works as all cultures do. You're talking about enforced norms veiled in morality to get people to do shit. Could be thats a form of coercion. There is a difference between that and objective morality. I can conjecture why slavery and killing is bad. Affairs not so…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 02:09 AM
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More special than a dog? A deer? A tree? Just because we can divide the entirety of the universe one way (knowledge) and not another? A pitt viper can see heat. SEE HEAT! We can't. Is that a lesser form of "specialness?" And who decides the hierarchy, us? Isn't that kinda bias? Is knowledge awesome because it inherently is? Or because it serves us? The morally relevant trait isn’t a fancy sense, it’s the capacity for creating explanatory knowledge. Rights attach to that capacity, not to species …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 01:48 AM
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Appreciate the opportunity to flesh some of these ideas out in writing as well. I do think we have a structural disagreement about Objective truth. A part of it is the definition, but a more important part is our underpinning philosophies. I think I had a similar view as you five years ago and it has been slowly shifting. I'm hoping I can do some nudging here. Big example is the jump from Newtonian to relativity with the modification of things according to the limits of the speed of light. When …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 01:39 AM
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It is created in the strict sense of we (persons) create theories, but that doesn't mean there isn't objective truth out there. The best theories are closer to being True than flat-earthers for example. turtles<flatearth<geocentric<heliocentric<newtonian<relativity<quantumm<everettian. We are always improving our theories. This is also why the "other cultures" morality argument doesn't hold. Nobody would agree a culture is good while endorsing slavery. We all now know it's bad and should for eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/25 04:16 AM
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More like its created, not derived, via conjecture and criticism. It’s objective when the explanation is specific enough that changing it makes it stop working, open to error correction, and guides how persons should treat one another without coercion.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/25 06:20 PM
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I think one of the things rp gets wrong (on purpose I suppose) is moral relativism. a lot of rp advice slides from descriptive (what tends to work) to normative (what’s right), and people hear outcomes > morality. While practical and probably correct in this instance, they border on teaching there is no objective morality and people get it as I should do whatever the fuck I want as long as I can. Not being able to discern it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive to get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/25 03:27 PM
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Stop being a pussy. Take your shit seriously or don’t and see you again in 4 years.
/r/askMRP16/08/25 11:30 AM
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Your wife will fuck you more because you’re now the big dick CEO making a career move for the family, plus she’s got bragging rights over her friends. Once that’s settled, she’ll fuck you less because she’ll discover all the bad things about you being home and how you traded your dreams for hers (which have changed already). In particular, if this doesn’t have much upside. If your wife’s financial contribution is substantial, this is even worse. Good thing your working on yourself beforehand.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 04:55 PM
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Are you really resetting everyday? Sounds more likely that your butthurt is so burdensome it’s easier to consider divorce than going and fucking someone else. Not that you should or shouldn’t. Just worth noticing. Are you so uncomfortable in your own skin you can’t enjoy nature without your wife validating your ego by talking and taking care of you. Let me posit a different theory: you’re not in the anger phase, you’re stuck in the in between “resentment faggotry” phase, where you’ve intellectua…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 04:12 AM
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This is a great point that most fail to grasp. They think by reading all the sidebar and regurgitating it consciously they get it. What matters is their subconscious and for their subconscious mind to really “get it” you need to get out there and practice everything 1000 times. Including stuff that you might not like so you get and understand that too. They think that by reading for 2 years about how to shoot a basketball, they’ve earned the right for that ball to go IN. Thats why a lot of the g…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 10:31 PM
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You want us to make decisions for you, which shows how lacking you are in the leading department. Pick one you like the most and go with it, but now you’re in a double bind. Did you do it because some internet guy told you or did you really do it because you thought it was best.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 08:44 PM
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She might be, but he is definitively a great plate.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 06:37 PM
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It’s not about her it’s about you. I’m saying quite the opposite. Enjoy and learn from what you have and look for other things if that’s what YOU want. When you figure yourself out, which will take years if not decades, you won’t think she is into you, it won’t matter. Neo: “I dodged bullets…” Morpheus: “No, Neo. What I’m trying to tell you is that when you’re ready… you won’t have to.” It might sound metaphorical but it’s not.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 01:11 PM
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That’s a cop-out. Self worth comes from doing stuff you like and find important. Could be pussy, biz success, adventures… rocknrolla. So again I’ll ask. What do you really want?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 12:23 AM
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Lmaooo after that garbage low quality rant about your feefees and how she’s not into you, your plan is to move in together? I literally almost choked when I read that. Guess what, it will get better because she’ll see you as the beta faggot that you are. Then she’ll make you fuck her to make babies and pay bills to then put you again in the beta faggot prison you deserve. It’s great that you’re here early, but if you don’t actually internalize this stuff, you’ll end up worse off than everyone el…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 08:41 PM
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What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 08:19 PM
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If the vasectomy doesn’t bother you go for it. There are other options like tubal ligation, it’s more expensive and low risk just not as low as a vasectomy. It was the best option for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 08:11 PM
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How guys with no frame think Very Unattractive
/r/askMRP20/06/25 11:30 PM
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K.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/25 11:11 AM
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"It doesn't help me unless you say you're gonna change your behavior". I guess the best option is just to be frank and say "I'll do what I think is best, as always" STFU betch Why do you need to fix her feelings? Do you think she cares if you do what you think is best. Don’t enable the oldest teenager in the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/25 12:45 AM
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You are weak (just look at those lifts) and you are probably pathetic. You have to decide if you want to keep being shit or accept that suffering through the work is worth the price to get to the other side. Stop ego protecting, commit and do it. It’ll suck for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/25 07:53 PM
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The reason you keep initiating isn’t that only to get laid, not primarily. That’s a good byproduct if it happens. You’re trying to become OI. Can’t do that without fucking up many times and internalizing a prize mentality. If done right you can create a pull/push dynamic. Couple that with leaving to do something interesting it creates passive dread. Charges polarity and primes you and her for the next sexual encounter. Maybe you let out some of that pent up anger out, maybe she feels bad and fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/25 06:33 PM
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Cool stuff bro, but are you fucking yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/25 05:39 PM
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Chemical castration has always worked for this dilema… also try being open minded and be a bottom for a couple of months. That way no woman will ever be able to manipulate you again.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/25 05:29 PM
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ADHD is a blessing in disguise. Don’t medicate the kid or at least educate yourself as to all the options. Yes they are a handful but they’ve got a fucking 1000hp motor driving their life. Once they learn to control it and direct it they are better off than the rest. Medicating your child basically alters their neurological circuits and in short makes them a different person. Maybe more manageable but so are lobotomized patients. I have a child that’s ADHD and every doc we ever saw for 10 years …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/25 04:08 AM
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Quality time isn’t hard it’s not taking them to fancy or exotic places. Just leave your phone and spend 30 minutes in a room with them. Ask questions or just do nothing and pay attention to the funny shit they do. Throw him around play tug of war and have fun yourself as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 10:02 PM
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What is this about your kids. I never yell, sometimes I might raise my tone with gravitas to imprint an idea with purpose. Not to get your anxiety out on them and not to punish or get feefees out there. Regardless in your case you should probably never be yelling and you should definitely not ignore them. Ignoring your kids = dad doesn’t value or care about me at all Read some parenting books. Try some shit out and be a fucking good dad. It’s not that hard. Just takes time and effort like everyt…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 04:53 PM
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coming back to self-improve personally and to properly build an LTR from the beginning. People usually TRY to stop stepping on their dick when they start. Become the man that I envision myself as being; someone who actively lives life, and does not let it pass by. A man that has a handle on all aspects of his life, and is able to be a steadying force when the boat is rocked. A man that can handle difficult emotions and mental states, and a man that lives his life the way that he wishes to life i…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 04:38 PM
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FUCK. What a fucking supernova of shit you just farted. I’m feeling generous today, so internalize and eat this you gigantic, pussy-ass excuse of a man. You are 46 brother. With solid work you can turn your life around in 12-18 months and have a blast for the next 15-20 years. So let me be blunt: you don’t know shit. Just from the way you write, it’s obvious you haven’t internalized even 5% of the sidebar. I’m not gonna waste time with the incontrovertible proof of how I know this. Trust me, I K…
/r/askMRP11/06/25 05:01 AM
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FUCK. What a fucking supernova of shit you just farted. I’m feeling generous today, so internalize and eat this you gigantic, pussy-ass excuse of a man. You are 46 brother. With solid work you can turn your life around in 12-18 months and have a blast for the next 15-20 years. So let me be blunt: you don’t know shit. Just from the way you write, it’s obvious you haven’t internalized even 5% of the sidebar. I’m not gonna waste time with the incontrovertible proof of how I know this. Trust me, I K…
/r/askMRP11/06/25 05:00 AM
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If she pulls out a gun. In that case just Suck It The Fuck Up. SITFU Yes but then wasn’t your fag ass emotional side the one who got you in this mess to begin with?
/r/askMRP11/06/25 04:24 AM
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The Oak wouldn’t care if it got awkward. Instead of leaving because he sees the desperation and reacts to its frame he leaves because he has better shit to do. Instead you’re trying to push the right buttons to get her to react like you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 09:02 PM
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All Shit tests “Ok but you listening doesn't help if you don't intend to change" I do intend to change… you have no idea the sexual beast thats about to get unleashed tonight. "You don't understand. Explain what you understood." I am onto your game babe. When’s the quiz? I’ll be ready. Get that sexy outfit ready though. “What are you gonna do about it?” Guess. If you get it right, I’ll reward you. Wouldn’t you like to know… Might involve handcuffs and spanking “It’s not funny at all, you never t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 07:47 PM
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I’m here to identify reasons I’m unattractive and address them Talking about your unattractiveness is unattractive. Have a mission. Even if it’s a shitty one. Action plan: To be able to do 8 pull-ups and bench my own weight. Go 30 days without: DEERing, Failing fitness tests, Losing my frame or using overt dread You don’t lose frame. Your frame just is. Think about what you want your ideal self to be and try and start being and living like that until it’s congruent. Went a week without DEERing, …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 07:15 PM
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What are your lifts? Do the sidebar IN ORDER. It’s there for a reason. Or keep reading stuff that feels good but does nothing and redo it all over again in 6 months. So what if your wife wants to fuck Brad Pitt in her head. Let him do the heavy lifting and get out of your wife’s head and into her pussy. Isn’t that what you want anyway?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 06:51 PM
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Dance monkey dance… When are you going to do some real shit? More importantly What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 06:40 PM
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Man cucks himself and asks if it’s ok to continue cucking himself because hey AWALT. But I get it— ohh but she is so hot, best I’ve ever had, I’ll never get another one like this It’s not about her, it’s about you. Frameless fag
/r/askMRP09/06/25 04:08 PM
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That’s right that’s the issue. The CC is I do a lot of stuff for her and I expect some of what you mention in return. Instead I should do what I want because I want to do it. Regardless of how it’s asked. That she is able to influence my choice depending on how she asks is validation seeking. This is all true. Why do I still feel like I’d like to do more for people that I like that appreciate more than people that don’t. I know it sounds like I need other people’s validation. But what if I do en…
/r/askMRP05/06/25 05:00 AM
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Strong lifts just works. Especially for beginners. Stop hamstering we don’t buy your bullshit excuses.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/25 05:55 PM
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Read the guide in order bucko. STFU and stop being such a goddam Unattractive betch.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/25 05:47 PM
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Why did you stop posting on MRP?
/r/RPChristians03/04/25 05:04 PM
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At the party I dressed like a blend of miami vice/night at the roxbury, gold chain and all. I absolutely owned it. I knew it was an over the top outfit but ran with it. Wives couldn’t stop talking to me about my shirt and teasing about my chain. I would have called out the validation chase here. Owning it seems to fit your style though, looks like you’re making tangible progress. Congrats.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 06:54 PM
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When I was real young I was drawn to all the nerd shit— computer games, making little home movies, playing an instrument, science, painting, magic, etc.. as well as playing soccer, baseball, hockey, going camping, learning survival skills, etc. Once puberty hit though, my interests turned into things that I thought would help me get girls (playing in bands, making TV shows, etc). I think I let my desire for women warp my original purpose, and I’m doing what I can to uncover/rediscover what that …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 06:29 PM
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Once puberty hit though, my interests turned into things that I thought would help me get girls (playing in bands, making TV shows, etc). I think I let my desire for women warp my original purpose, and I’m doing what I can to uncover/rediscover what that was. What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 07:13 PM
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Do you know why you desire that? Why can’t you start your own company without involving partner? Why cant you start traveling for longer a few months from now?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/25 12:16 AM
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Why do you want to be a high-value man?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/25 09:27 PM
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i’ve struggled to figure out my identity and who I am and what I want. What are you doing about this?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/25 08:05 PM
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Men learn and grow by doing. The reason you keep bullshitting yourself IS because you aren’t actively working on a MAP to reach your goals. Like a pilot with no Flight Plan trying to fly around the earth, you’re setting yourself up for failure, wasting fuel, risking storms, unsure where to land. Without a clear plan, every move is a guess leaving success up to luck. Once you complete your MAP (which I recommend sharing in your case) you won’t have time for this, her or your bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 09:39 PM
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Maybe the OYS looks better but the theme is the same: dancing monkey in and out. Looks like he got some good noob gains and stalled and gets away with it because he lifts. OP what percentage of your MAP have you completed after 40 OYS, And what was the hardest thing to do?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/25 04:13 PM
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Make sure you’re doing it for you and not as a tool or excuse to get something out of the process.
/r/askMRP23/01/25 03:32 PM
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I bet you haven’t read the sidebar. I bet everything I have you haven’t internalized even 20% of it. Start DOING instead of complaining like a little bitch. Or don’t and see you again in 6 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/25 06:29 AM
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Imagine for the past month you’ve been hanging out with a hot girl. You buy her stuff, take her on fancy dinners and she even lets you sleep in her bed every night, but gives all kind of excuses why she doesn’t want to have sex. Are you a bigger sucker if play along and cuddle up to her every night or if you try to initiate every other day? Also after this happened for a while what would you do after the failed initiations.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/25 06:02 AM
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Why you retards stop initiating is beyond me. All this crap about “initiating when I feel like it” is for unplugged guys mostly. You should be initiating 3-4/week at least, until you truly become OI. If we can smell your fear of rejection imagine your wife. Also break down MM-style how you’r gaming your wife. When you game you entertain yourself, but you sound like a dancing monkey trying to perform.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 07:15 PM
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Are you entertaining yourself or others? Let me put it another way What type of validation seeking whore are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 10:22 AM
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37 OYS about getting strong and you sound like a weak skinny fat soy boy Have you actually read the sidebar or are you coming here to get your feelz validated?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 10:10 AM
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There’s a rare third kind of special, a real faggot. Uncommon, yet oddly familiar in this post when I think of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 12:59 AM
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What did you do on cancelled date night? I hope it wasn’t stayed home and did the dishes.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 09:45 AM
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Why do you STILL place value in what others think? You are doing and framing things in relation to others. Go skiing yourself and maybe take your kids or don’t. Try different things to discover what you like.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/24 06:19 PM
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That’s right. Once you’ve done it, it isn’t that special to you anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/24 07:25 AM
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Tldr. Hope it works out for you though. You think writing your thoughts out like that adds value, but it’s just organized puke. Write 80% less and focus on what truly matters. There is a reason don’t DEER is a basic principle.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 09:58 AM
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Why aren’t you confident now? Why aren’t you doing fun shit you want to do this week? Progress comes more from doing than thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 02:04 AM
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There is no end goal as that’s dependent on what do you want to achieve and even then it keeps changing. I like it because it’s relatable to many people here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 01:56 AM
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STFU. Sidebar. Since you’re jacked instead of the usual Lift, read all of jack10ofhearts posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 11:32 PM
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STFU. Sidebar. Since you’re jacked instead of the usual Lift, read all of jack10ofhearts posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 11:32 PM
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No wonder your wife doesn’t want to fuck YOU. Your game is likely as labored as your verbiage. You haven’t been pushing if you can squat 20lbs more in single week. Set a SQ/DL/BP target for the next 3-4 months and commit. Also stop caring so much about whether your wife will fuck you. Get out of her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 11:25 PM
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Lift. STFU. Sidebar IN ORDER!! Forget about the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 10:58 PM
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What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 10:54 PM
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44 OYS and you lift less than my teenage son. Your vision is so uninspiring it’s got another man’s name on it. Maybe he should be fucking your wife. I imagine you half ass everything while telling yourself bullshit stories since you’re semi successful in one single area of your life, or so you tell yourself. So instead of improving yourself you’re trying to learn mind control Jedi tricks by reading readers digest instead of rereading the sidebar and internalizing the important stuff. How the fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 08:39 PM
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Easy to fall into dancing monkey behavior. Keep improving. Weak frames eventually buckle. This FR is what you’d look like with consistent work.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 08:04 PM
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2x per week with libidoutis is actually pretty good. In normal cases it progresses to 1x month and then only if you are a good beta provider.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 03:27 PM
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Congrats on giving her feelz and then fucking her. You are still reacting to her frame. Instead build and have the frame of a HVM and she’ll be chasing you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/24 10:54 PM
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Stop being a beta bitch.
/r/askMRP28/11/24 04:41 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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