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| 63 | Trust | INSIGHTFUL | Disappear_vanish | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 11:59 PM |
| 60 | Love your husband HIS way. | INSIGHTFUL | Disappear_vanish | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/15 03:49 PM |
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| 3 | Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?Men and women are different, in that men focus on physical infidelity and women focus on emotional. So this is even more upsetting for a woman. That he is open about it means nothing as men by nature don't recognize emotional infidelity as valid. The fact that he's open about it means he's found someone who is ok with acting as a placeholder vagina for his ex, who he is bleeding his feelings onto while he waits to get back together. This is a valid infidelity. "I miss you." How more valid can it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/15 07:24 PM |
| 6 | What's your most used/loved non-standard kitchen tool?I cook everything from scratch and bake almost ever day and I've never owned a mixer or a stand mixer. I do everything by hand. Noodles, doughs, batters, everything. I also don't own a processer, I cut and chop everything by hand. I don't have anything in my kitchen that someone in 1880 wouldn't have. I don't even have a toaster! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/15 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?The problem is that you both think blatant disrespect somehow equals honesty. The fact that he thinks missing her and spending time with her and showing it to you is ok in a relationship is just him obviously being her beta orbiter. He is her plate. Why do you want to date someone's beta orbiter? This is textbook, paint by numbers beta orbiting. For the past six months have you been submissive and feminine and doing your best? If yes, you're following the lead of a man who is following the lead … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/15 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?This guy is NOT worth committing to. He's obviously not over his ex and treating you like shit. Why would you stay to watch this, it's pathetic. Have some boundaries and self respect. He's sneaking behind your back with his ex for the first six months of your relationship, so don't think for a minute that a "talk" about boundaries and respect will ever hold up. If he wanted you, he'd be with you and not eyeballing his ex from on top of the fence. NEXT. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/15 11:19 PM |
| 18 | Not sure what I'm doingWait longer! Your instinct is telling you something is off, something is fishy. If you give it up you dont get it back. You are holding off having sex because you know it's so valuable, valuable enough for absolute certainty. The whole point of you waiting to have sex is to be sure and you arent sure. So don't do it. I seriously, seriously recommend you hold off until you know, otherwise why have the standard of waiting for sex? Yes, eventually you will have to trust him or not trust him, but do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/15 05:05 PM |
| 0 | I fudged up by getting upset at SO forgetting our anniversaryI read this whole thing thinking you were talking about your wedding anniversary. You're just dating, you don't have anniversaries when you're not even married! What is it the anniversary OF? You know? Chill. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Small steps to a more polished appearanceI got a nice leather bag instead of diaper bag. My husband has never had to go anywhere with any of our kids as long as they were young enough to need a diaper bag, so I don't have to worry about him carrying anything. I just got a purse I liked that fit a few diapers, travel wipes, a onesie, and my wallet. All set! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/15 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Small steps to a more polished appearanceThat's exactly why I carry a larger bag. I've got to keep a diaper bag and they're all so ugly I just get a nice structured leather bag and use that. I'm not afraid to admit that when a bottle of diet coke isn't shut tight and floods my bag I die a little inside. But at least I'm not schlepping around with Eddie Bauer scribbled on a giant plastic cartoon duffel bag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/15 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Eating your veggiesI tried so hard to like kale chips but kale is just so gross. It burns my nose and throat, it's like getting sprayed by a skunk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/15 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What does your BEAUTY routine look like?I have a bunch of Shiseido products and love em. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 05:23 AM |
| -3 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?The old skank portion is the only portion relevant to rpw though. You can get beauty tips anywhere. What I did was ignore the part of the post that is not red pill specific and talked about the only contention the post that could be. If she mentions her relative, gives us the details of her sex life which show her character as far as we need to know it, then asks us how to be like her physically and gives no details otherwise, the tone of the post is she's bent on skanking it up as long as possi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/15 03:58 AM |
| 0 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?Then why post it here? Any slut can tell you how to slut it up, it's not red pill specific. There are skin are and beauty forums, there's ask women, there's all kinds of places to go with this. Don't smack a red pill label on it. She's not trying to use red pill strategy or make herself a red pill woman, she's looking for advice how to whore it up as long as possible. Go find a whore who's great at her job and ask! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/15 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Should I tell my husband about the red pill?Do it, you've got nothing to lose. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/15 12:37 AM |
| -2 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?"Dear rpw, my crusty old aunt robbed betas and rode the cc for a living until she fell off of it into her grave. I've got nothing to offer a man, how do I trick them into having sex with me well into my 40s and 50s." Really? This shit is the polar opposite of red pill.. You're out to multiply your count, thereby canceling out any of your otherwise redeeming qualities. Sluts gonna slut though. I see all these unrecognizable user names telling the slut up top all she needs to know. You guys lurk a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/15 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How to act with other women?I don't think a woman in a position of authority is capable of wielding the authority responsibly in almost any context. It's easy to look around and see women wanting power, getting it, and being both masculine and an emotional mess. Women were not designed for power and responsibility and so they can't handle it. Why do you want to be in charge? What do you want to be in charge of? With women, when you want to lead a group of them, you're forcing a rabble of backstabbing gossip artists who wer… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/15 09:21 PM |
| 2 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?Oh definitely! We've got a 10 or 11 year old neighbor girl and she and her mom are both very short and fat. They look the same age unless you're a few feet from them. Even then, it's like an optical illusion. Don't be fat. Just. Ew. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/15 09:08 PM |
| 8 | Should I tell my husband about the red pill?I showed my husband the MRP and TRP subs. He hates reddit but he reads the books in the sidebar. He doesn't have time for looking at things that are unproductive so he reads the blogs occasionally. He's really happy he found the stuff. He did go through a sort of disappointment. A few months after he found the subs, read the books, processed it all, he just looked around one morning at our friends and acquaintances and was like, "Get the kids in the car, we're going home." On the way I asked him… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/15 09:02 PM |
| 7 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?Black folks do get more youth out of their skin. I was just talking about that in another post, but I didn't have dark skin in mind when I said that. Women age slowly and gracefully because of how they are, not how they look. Looks definitely matter, take care of yours. But no woman can lie about a decade unless they're so old it doesn't matter, like a senior citizen. I can't help but make the observation that women who want to stay young to sleep around are leeching advice from other women who … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/15 08:46 PM |
| 20 | Cannot grow long hair. What should I do?The reason men say they're not interested in black women is because of how most black women act and the high obesity rate. I've seen the topic discussed at length many times on TRP. A feminine, sweet, black woman with a tight body and a gracious manner is an exception and even though there are men who just don't prefer a dark skinned woman, your demeanor and behavior will set you apart. Take heart, because if you're caring for your skin, you're pretty much gonna look young for a long time. And i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/15 07:25 PM |
| 38 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?There are tons of women in here claiming they can pass for ten years younger and it's just not true. Age always shows. One way or another, in your mid 30s you do not pass for a woman in her mid 20s. You can dress the part, but you're lying to yourself. Don't let someone flatter you so much that you start believing it. That's how you end up looking trashy in a short sundress meant for a tight 19 year old when you're 32. Because "Everyone always tells me how young I look!" No, you fish for complim… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/15 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What does your evening routine look like?Oh man, how is that going? I remember you bc he sleeps in your lap and that's adorable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/15 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What does your evening routine look like?You were the one whose husband is working 100hr weeks? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Nothing I do satisfies him. He won't communicate.My moms family has had literal interventions trying to get her to leave my dad. He is super, SUPER messed up and my mom isn't even a person anymore, she's a shell full of pain and insecurity and panic. It's scary how these situations all start and progress basically the same and so predictably. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Nothing I do satisfies him. He won't communicate.You are not married, stop that hamster. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Nothing I do satisfies him. He won't communicate.I want to save this relationship because I love him with every piece of my soul and I hope you see that I'm trying my hardest, I'm just at a loss for what to do. Your soul and your emotional love for a person and the time and energy you've invested into a relationship should never ever override your objective evaluation of it. He doesn't need therapy, you do. You need to find some counseling and listen to some good advice face to face about this situation because if you could be honest with anot… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Nothing I do satisfies him. He won't communicate.These OPs just wring my heart out, she said she's never going to leave him, she wants to marry him. It's going to turn physical by then. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Nothing I do satisfies him. He won't communicate.The only way not to allow him to treat you that way is to leave him and tell him it's because of the way he treats you. By staying, no matter what you say, you're sending the message loud and clear that you will allow it. Actions speak louder than words. Also, his treatment of you is not a mood he's in, it's his heart condition. It's how he actually feels about you, it's reality to him. He treats you like shit because he thinks you are. He really has no reason to better his treatment of you beca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Love your husband HIS way.I do them occasionally. I just draw a heart on a sticky note and slip it in. I'm no Shakespeare at 5am! I haven't in a while though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 04:28 AM |
| 5 | The Controversial Secret to a Happy MarriageIf she was a sahw this would have hit the fan. As it is she's outside the home for a living it sounds like, so it's more acceptable. Imagine if she stayed home and was a wife and mother there. Nobody would read it, she'd be ridiculed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Everyone please welcome our new mod!You know what, I'd not read your 101 post but yesterday I did and let me tell you, it was a kick in the teeth! I'm definitely not the same sort of person with strangers as I am with my family and loved ones. I feel a strong conviction to amend my attitude and cynicism. Smooth out my language a bit as well. In person, you'd never guess I was who I am online. My internet bitchiness has gotten out of control. It's good to come back to the basics. Great refresher and even though it stung it was disi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Everyone please welcome our new mod!Yay for mods! Congratulations! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/15 01:05 AM |
| 6 | How to be RPW and deal with stress?Your husband is failing you by not shouldering enough of the family burden. He needs to step up and take finances and do some house work. I don't know how receptive he is to stepping in and taking on some adult responsibilities in the home. You know best how to convey these needs to him. Do you absolutely need to work? If you went to part time and stayed home with your children, your life will stop feeling so crazy and burdensome. A mother staying home to care for her home and her children makes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/15 03:00 AM |
| 2 | I saw the porn he looked at and I can't stop hating my body.I am beginning to question the "like-minded" you mention in this sub. Many of the women are great, articulate, sweet women who have been very helpful and offer support, great advice, and like you said a sort of safe space for women. Many women here are willing to kneel down and spoon feed me to make me happy. I approve of that. But I don't understand women who feel the need to be unnecessarily harsh with vulgar language and general rudeness to a fellow woman who asked for advice (aka not in deni… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I saw the porn he looked at and I can't stop hating my body.Thank fuck. This thread made me angry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/15 09:22 PM |
| 10 | Help staying positive, grateful, and poised in disappointing situationsThis is cirque de soleil level hamster. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | TrustYeah, it's just a popular budgeting app. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/15 05:11 PM |
| 5 | TrustA woman can evoke change in a man by being all the things a woman of value is in a RP relationship. The point of my comment was to point out that for many men, there's too great a gap to close between him as he is and him as a good man. She can be flawlessly RP but he's still going to be a pos because even though she can do her part to make his life better, on him to man up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/15 02:25 PM |
| 8 | I saw the porn he looked at and I can't stop hating my body.I once saw my mans browser history. He was deployed but our google stuff was all linked. Anywya, I found out he was on a "tall bony black women" kick. I'm a ginger. I'm like, "What now? How would we- You want me to go tanning? or...?" Kinda hilarious. Just let it be. Calm down. If you know you want to lose weight and are doing it, just be patient. Sucks, but you clicked the links. At least this way you know how to heat things up! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/15 05:04 AM |
| 8 | I saw the porn he looked at and I can't stop hating my body.Why not just lose a little weight? It obviously bothers you and he prefers it, just do it. Plus who doesn't want to be a size 2? Plus you'll feel better physically. Light and fast. It feels excellent to be small and dainty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/15 04:33 AM |
| 18 | TrustYES! Our goal should be to find a good captain and then submit to him, not to submit to the first guy who makes us tingle and hope that magically turns him into a good captain. That's exactly the kind of thing new and young ladies are not understanding. If you don't have to, why in the world would you waste your time with a fixer-upper? I'm not saying branch swing like crazy, but dang, know when to walk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/15 02:12 AM |
| 15 | Update: When to Sacrifice Things that Weaken Future SMVSomething is off. Is he super controlling? You don't have time for friends. He gets pissy when you're without him, but he wants to know all your friends, then tells you you're not acting right he's jealous and and very high strung it seems. We know what rowing meant to you. You gave it up for good for this guy and what kind of appreciation did he show? This sounds way too controlling. He's not chill at all. I'm not trying to spike your ice cream cone, and I know you said you don't want to paint … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 09:31 PM |
| 19 | Help staying positive, grateful, and poised in disappointing situationsA man with anxiety and ADHD sounds like a nice way of saying no drive or focus and unreliable. He is unreliable, irresponsible, and flaky. These are not great character traits for anyone. Personal responsibility and self control, honesty, forethought, a WELL LAID, TRUSTWORTHY PLAN make for a stable relationship. This guy sounds like he can't even finish a board game let alone lead his own life to be successful, and guide a relationship! Find a better man. This is not someone who will be responsi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to date the right wayOh that trickle truth.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Female-to-female professional relationshipsDo not do this. Do not drink with coworkers. Do not mingle outside of work in social situations. If you'll be working together for a long time to come your lives will be too familiar and it's a Petri dish for bullshit. Keep it more professional, not less. You'll get close enough to these folks in time. You need more space between work and friends, not less. For women, interpersonal relationships are where they harvest gossip, drama, competition, superiority, etc. if you like these girls, fine. Y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 06:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm so frustrated with myself and the pill.Well if he's staying in touch with his hot ex and you're going to stay at her house on vacation that's pretty messed up. With everything else going on, no wonder you're stressed! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 06:21 PM |
| 9 | Do any RPW have histories of "monk mode"/ when is this productive?It sounds like you want to take one of these Eat Pray Love trips, except you want to waste your dwindling youth to do it. You better find that dream job you're looking for while you do it, because 1- it sounds like that's the relationship you want to be in anyway and 2- you'll be past your peak physically and looking at a lesser selection of men interested in you just because of it. There's nothing to be accomplished for any potential husband you'd have by spending the next x years focusing on y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | De-lurking: Low-SMV Women?Grow out your hair if you want, get makeup, buy new clothes... But know that the outward trappings of femininity are less important in the maintenance of a relationship than the soft, yielding, vulnerable mentality and demeanor. Hair, makeup and clothes are not the most important, but they're the easiest! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/15 07:46 PM |
| 42 | If you're a guy, and you're here, read this.Well guess what: most men suck. Most men aren't captains worthy of our trust, just like most women aren't unicorns and most aren't worthy of their man's trust. I hock this like like it pays well. Folks hate to hear it, but it's just true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/15 07:41 PM |
| 6 | De-lurking: Low-SMV Women?I always thought of the 1-10 scale as percentiles, five being average. You know what? There nothing wrong with average, a few easy beginners tips will push you up to above average, and if you're willing to feel really cheesy sometimes then some girl game is easy. I speak from experience, I think. Anyway, as far as men are concerned, remember that just not being overweight or obese puts you statistically above 60% of Americans at least. A woman being fat negates all girl game and personality. You… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/15 07:20 PM |
| 24 | De-lurking: Low-SMV Women?Would you consider it time lost if you had spent all the years you did in a heterosexual but very feminist, blue pill relationship that didn't work out? What about if you'd had a family and then divorced? There divorced women your age with children, divorced or single women your age without children who really want them, serially monogamous women with and without children with few or no prospects, and all of these in the plugged in or red pill variety, and the latter at various stages of underst… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/15 05:57 PM |
| 99 | If you're a guy, and you're here, read this.I cannot stand the politically correct puke disguised as bad advice all over this sub lately. I recognize some regular posters, the mods, and posters with sub flair don't really do this, but there are tons of people whose mouth diarrhea results in stuff like this: OP: "My boyfriend spent three nights with his ex and didn't tell me and I live a thousand miles away and we meet to hump once a year, how can I make sure he doesn't cheat on me? Also, he probably didn't cheat on me, right?" Comments fu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/15 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Sister is in a toxic relationship. Need advice.His whole post is being heavily edited because I read it thirteen minutes after he posted it and sooooo much of it has changed it might as well be a new post. So don't freak out. His story is evolving too quickly to keep up with. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Red pill women, What's your image of an ideal man like"I found a racist individual on the internet and am blaming the whole rest of the internet for being racist and allowing this one individual to have a socially unacceptable opinion." | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/15 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Red pill women, What's your image of an ideal man likeYou just said you know what TRP is about, then you say there are outliers and that you are choosing to use those persons opinions to label the group. The group they are supposed to be outliers of. Also, even if some men think women are worthless cum dumpsters and will say it, go ahead and swing a stick without hitting women who are accurately described as worthless cum dumpster? These men got shat on and manipulated and robbed from their whole lives by worthless, psychotic, manipulative hypocrit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/15 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Red pill women, What's your image of an ideal man likeWhy just borderline misogynist? If they're racist and bitter, might as well go full HAM and call them all total woman haters. No half measures. /s | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/15 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Sister is in a toxic relationship. Need advice.His whole story stinks for some reason, but yeah, that's messed up if the guy assaulted her and this dude is asking for advice on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Sister is in a toxic relationship. Need advice.She left him once and he pulled her back in. She didn't go because there was a gun to her head, I guarantee it. Unless she is in an active hostage situation, she's an adult who makes her own decisions. but I've recently found out that he's abusive. Hurting her. Is he physically abusing her? Was it an argument that escalated and he responded to her physically attacking him so he shoved her or something? Are you getting this first hand from her? Or is this "emotional" abuse? Emotional abuse is som… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | On intimidating menYou said you removed it somewhere else itt. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/15 11:36 PM |
| 3 | On intimidating menIt was a quote that said basically, "I'm a real woman and most men are intimidated by me, so I know they're not worth my time because betas can't handle a real woman like me!" | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/15 10:38 PM |
| 3 | On intimidating menFemininity is attractive to all men. A sweet, gentle, kind, generous, fit, dressed, reserved woman will not be rejected by whole categories of men. Even if she's a 11/10, out of everyone's league except Brad Pitt, her behavior is going to shine and her personality will draw men in, alpha and beta. Men who are beta or who exhibit beta behavior don't understand why their behavior gets them rejected or friend zones but they do recognize value when they see it. I can drive by a car dealership and te… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/15 10:28 PM |
| 2 | On intimidating menA feminine woman will not intimidate a man. She will attract many men, alpha and beta. She has options, she doesn't need to justify her lack of options. She cultivates her feminine, soft, desirable traits so the things men notice about her will be attractive. The betas will be attracted to her, albeit as a mother figure or something, but they'll still be drawn. A gentle demeanor, a friendly smile, modesty, generosity, a hot body, good housekeeping habits, sobriety, kind words, being encouraging … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/15 10:23 PM |
| 6 | On intimidating menA feminine woman will not be intimidating to men. I get what you're saying though, but hear me out. There's a difference between being attractive and intimidating and being repulsive. In person, a repulsive woman will assume she's intimidating or tell herself so because men are literally repulsed by her masculinity and bitchiness. You don't have to be so ass-backward a female as to make believe you want a eunuch for a mate in the name of your super-power-feminism in order to be undesirable or ov… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Tall ladies! I want your input.OMG that is too funny. I love it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Tall ladies! I want your input.I'm not too tall, 5.7, and I never wear flats ifi can help it. Working out, doing yard work, that's about it. Other than that I never wear anything but heels, I love them. I'm an inch shorter than my man and I'm ok with being taller than him with shoes. He loves the way I look in them as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/15 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Tall ladies! I want your input.Go to zappos, click shoes. Sort by your shoe size and heel height. You can get 3-3.5 in heels or shorter, thousands and thousands to pick from. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/15 03:16 PM |
| 11 | SO wants me to move into his house. What is the feminine thing to do in terms of paying rent?When you're questioning every single thing you do and every single thing he says and looking for ulterior motives around every single corner and under every statement, your problem isn't because he's the higher earners, it's a mental illness or a problem dealing with some kind of abuse. A man can and does provide for his woman just because he values her. The two best ways to show you value someone or something is using time and money on it. He's got much more money than she does, and he wants to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/15 01:16 AM |
| 25 | SO wants me to move into his house. What is the feminine thing to do in terms of paying rent?He wants you to tackle your student loans and save, so do those, but grab a monthly bill you can reasonably afford to pay and just pay it and surprise him. Tuck away a nice nest egg and surprise him in a year. This separate from your own savings. Cooking and cleaning and generally being awesome will benefit him as well. Since he makes so much more than you, I think he will refuse to take money for rent from you but you can try. Don't press the issue though, don't make it a fight. It doesn't have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/15 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Some questions on my relationship and doubting myself re: wrong decisions.The only reason you posted here was to brag about how smart you think you are and maybe catch some kudos about the hobbies and interests you have. You think you're a great catch and way above other folks' levels. That's what you want to hear. You actually thought you were going to get told you are special, you need to break up with him and find a better man or that you can change him. Why? You obviously hate and resent him. Let it go. Leave. Relationship advice aside, you put off some serious su… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I stay with him after what I know now?Men and women cannot be friends. If you look with honesty at any situation where a man and a woman both of reproductive age are "friends" you'll see flags it's not just friendship for at least one of them. Men and women are wired differently. There's too much nature at play and you can't trust what anyone says. Look through a RP lens at every single male-female friendship you see. There will be sexual tension or unrequited lust or covert contracts or resentment or any number of stains which make… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/15 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Should I stay with him after what I know now?A man you're dating wants to reach out to his ex? The same ex he orbited for six years? That's not a problem? Yes. It is. It's a huge red flag. Especially since he's still hung up on sex with her and told OP she's never going to be as good as that ex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/15 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Should I stay with him after what I know now?even if he decides meeting up with his ex is a bad idea and decides to forget the whole thing. You mean when his ex figures out she's still got her orbiter by getting him to cheat on OP with her? And then he finally figures out the ex is not actually going to get back with him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/15 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Some parts of TRP still rub me the wrong wayMy friends growing up were all like the ones in the guy's story. Stuff like this happened everywhere we went. They eat it up, getting picked on, getting picked up, a little harmless physical contact. Oh boy, they just lose it. Yea, a cocky guy will break necks, especially a chicken heads. Ha ha... All my friends turned into sluts :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/15 09:43 PM |
| 10 | What makes a good captain?Also, at the very beginning of the relationship, it's ok to be specific about the dynamic you want in the relationship. It is much like a business deal, except if it goes sour you will never get your time back. Nothing is worse than a man who can't make decisions or is afraid or emotional or whiny. He might not be that right away, but I think you could make it clear that you want a man who prefers traditional gender roles and is able to handle the amount of responsibility that an alpha man shoul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/15 06:25 AM |
| 43 | What makes a good captain?A good relationship will be led by a man with a mix of alpha and beta traits. He will take responsibility for his leadership role of course, and be competent. He'll be honest with you and upfront. He will have all the sort of typical alpha male traits but as the relationship matures he will exhibit some beta behavior that is welcome, like being able to comfort you and when you're married and if it's what you've decided, he will provide for you and his kids if there are any. For some more alpha m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/15 06:14 AM |
| 3 | BadbfriendThis is absolutely a troll. From the beginning, a troll. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 06:11 AM |
| 6 | Thought I was his girlfriend until he said I'm not...am I a plate? (mid-20s)Then you are a plate. You acknowledge his refusal to commit and you're cool with it. Call it what it is though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/15 09:31 PM |
| 3 | How did you meet you SO?You not contributing to the conversation does contribute, though. It says much about your self control and modesty and those are two traits most women cultivate far too late in life- if ever. I'm not saying your friends are not those two things, just in general. Virginity is a great big statement about your high standards and I know so many women who wish they'd waited. I know I wish I'd waited until I was married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/15 04:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel feminine at the gym?Sounds like our husbands have a very similar job. We lift at home as well, and we both love it. We pass the winter months getting in ridiculous shape together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/15 03:16 PM |
| 13 | How do you feel feminine at the gym?I cover up at the gym- there's nothing feminine about dressing like a skank and my personal threshold for skank is skin tight short shorts and skin tight tank. Every girl who dresses like this at the gym is constantly digging her spandex out of her bottom and trying to keep the clothes in place. So they get stared at, but they're sending some desperate Look At Me vibes. I understand that isn't a popular opinion to have, but it's my honest one. It's trading respect for a attention. And it isn't p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/15 03:13 PM |
| 16 | How did you meet you SO?Definitely do not be embarrassed about being a virgin! That's awesome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/15 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Where did you learn to act in a red pill way?I really like these. I like how there's a pattern of accountability in your family adhering to their beliefs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/15 04:45 AM |
| 4 | Where did you learn to act in a red pill way?They're still like this. They've always been. They've been married 40 years and she still says this stuff. He still teases her and she still waits for him to come home every night when he works late. No matter when he gets in, she's always awake waiting to kiss him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/15 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Needing advice on how to handle SO's mom...If he's relatively young there a chance he could just get sick of the bull. My husband comes from a decent home, but his mom and dad have zero convictions. They don't want to be accountable for any of their bad decisions so they refused to teach their kids there's a right or wrong. It's so weird. They're so... Idk. Emotional? Everything is good, even if it's bad. But anyway, he never saw anything really wrong with it at first and I hated it because they use absolutely no definitive language. It'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 11:50 PM |
| 25 | Needing advice on how to handle SO's mom...ABORT, ABORT, do not confront her! Nothing good will come of this. Take the high road. If this lady is anything like you say she is, she's drooling for conflict. Don't feed it! She shot him down when he did what many kids do: seek approval and affirmation form mom or dad. The fact he's still trying to get her approval as an adult says a lot about their relationship, yes? Build him up. Encourage him. He will blow off some steam about it in the coming days, but till then, be his fun-time gal. Noth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 11:28 PM |
| 13 | Where did you learn to act in a red pill way?We both sort of accidentally ended up this way. In the socio-sexual hierarchy he's a Sigma. I was the girl on his arm nobody had ever seen before. I was into lifting and running and books and playing music so I wasn't on any party scene and my body was (is) killer. He was an athlete as well. (Still built like a brick shit house, too.) Sex was insane. I was very shy and innocent and he definitely got a kick out of it. He still laughs at my epiphanies of events through the years. My favorite aunt … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 11:10 PM |
| 10 | Am I 'redpill'?I have to admit that I'm biased when I say, you're living a pretty good life! You guys sound exactly like us, minus video games. You'd be shocked at how few women are willing to treat their husbands with respect. It's radical to a society full of succubi who see their men as a machine that spits out generic phrases of validation and $20 bills. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Seeking advice on taming the inner shrew (fairly lengthy post)Yeah, I'd considered it. Her saying she can't figure out how to be his emotional helper made me think there was at least a moderate amount of "I manipulate him as much as possible into being what I think I want but it's not working." But I think it really sounds like they're both opposite what they need to be to function in a red pill style relationship. Why even SEND the article? Idk. The whole thing seems like a mess. I thought either every single thing about the relationship needs radical fix… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Seeking advice on taming the inner shrew (fairly lengthy post)I don't like to pander or sugarcoat, and I'm pretty hard core red. I think there is a LOT a woman can do to add value to her man's life but the man is, well. He's gotta be The Man and he's gotta wear The Pants. Know that I don't say anything I say with the intent to insult or belittle you or your boyfriend. The TL:DR of the article you linked is bullshit. We don't treat men like children who need a time-out. They aren't too stupid to know what they are feeling. Its a half-cocked way of saying, "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Accepting RealityYes, a red pill woman is worthy of that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/15 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Accepting RealityI think it's good and correct to withhold trust and to assume ulterior motives in others. Wait for people earn your trust. Most people are shitty. There are some who aren't but not many, so filter out the rest. Hold them at bay and be cordial but don't open your life to them. For men, the groveling, pathetic whiny beta types are tough. Most men have been pretty feminized. I also don't see much change in a man just based on how his woman submits. Men who are wusses are probably in way too deep to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/15 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I'd Love Some Of Your Best Baking Recipes.Replace the butter with shortening or butter flavored shortening for gooey and chewy. It adds some extra volume. I don't eat them bc oh my calories but everyone tears em up when I make them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/15 09:44 PM |
| 5 | I'd Love Some Of Your Best Baking Recipes.Get a Better Homes and Gardens cookbook. Everything is really fun and there's a lot of variety and general info in them. I always see them at St Vinny's and Goodwill stores for really cheap. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/15 09:42 PM |
| 12 | Struggling to find the right balanceOn the contrary to TRP I feel he is the gatekeeper of sex (due to his great deal of self-control) and I am the gatekeeper of our relationship. And then Sadly he doesn't open up much I feel I want more from him I want him to communicate more You do not have the keys to the relationship. You don't have the keys to sex either, he sounds like he has those on his ring as well. That fine though bc it seems like that's a big plus for you and you're both happy there. It sounds like you're fighting him k… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/15 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Starting out, looking for some support/guidanceThere are many women here who struggle with different mental illnesses like depression, there are ladies with BPD, there are severely physically handicapped ladies, but you never find out until they're specifically asked about it and choose to reveal it in a discussion about how they do not allow that to become an issue. You can't be a victim and be in control. You have to choose: Will I control myself and discipline myself to act reasonably and thoughtfully or will I ignore advice I don't want … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/15 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Starting out, looking for some support/guidanceThis is not about you. You're seeing life through lenses he might not have right now. This perfect relationship you want to have is like a magnificent skyscraper in the distance. It wasn't built overnight, and it's not a kindergarten Lego project. It's complicated and requires significant investment, and the building you're looking at is invisible to him, so describing it to him isn't going to do anything productive but will frustrate him. Make these changes yourself. Turn yourself into a submis… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/15 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, can you help me help my man?Someone else asked and I answered below. Basically, girl game, you can do better, and the little things count. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, can you help me help my man?I don't mean the brand Tupperware, I have a drawer full of it and I love it for storage. It's just not a serving plate. Presentation makes food taste better to the people eating it. When I have guests, I wouldn't bring out the dessert in plastic with lids or what have you. Everything gets served on the proper dish. My thought is that even if the food is leaving the house, I still want it to look good. I want to put my best forward, and my best is not, "Ehh, these cookies are cooled, I'll dump th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/15 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Happily married women, advice for a newlywed?Stop talking. I'm serious, some females can't close their mind around this, that maybe 5% of your thoughts ever need to be verbalized to a man! and 4/5 of those thoughts should be logistics and food related! Not saying never talk, but I can guarantee using your mouth for ...something else ... All things equal, will make the happier husband. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/15 08:18 PM |
| 1 | My SO thinks I am lying...I think a better form of birth control will be the best bet here. Just do it, tell him when it's done. Maybe he will want to see the paperwork. Maybe he will want to go with you, idk. Do what makes him feel comfortable. Can't really blame him for freaking out, he's not ready to be a dad. Missing pills here and there is what leads to babies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/15 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, can you help me help my man?I just set an alarm and wake up and get it done. When I do this it's usually around 4, 430. He leaves at 530-545. If I get carried away and bake more batches than I had planned or decide to bake a few diff kinds, I'll just load the kids in the car and drop them off to him. Our schedules are pretty much the same. We get to sleep around midnight and wake up around the same time. I usually ask him to wake me when he leaves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, can you help me help my man?It's really foolproof. If you don't have measuring utensils, just keep the basic proportions. I've been making all kinds of baked goods and breads for a very long time and I just use this one every day. Sometimes I'll spray the bread pan and then sprinkle the edges with garlic salt before I drop the dough in. Then I sprinkle the top w garlic salt and bake it that way. Everyone loves it. I used to make the more complicated bread recipes but nobody noticed a difference and time is precious so I lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, can you help me help my man?I used to but there wasn't a lot of variety. And I don't have time for all the all day bread recipes, I make variations of this simple one, and some sourdough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/15 07:21 PM |
| 16 | Ladies, can you help me help my man?Food and sex. This might sound kind of frivolous, but food. Leave baked goods or make some protein bars for the office. Drop them off fresh on a simple, nice serving plate. NOT TUPPERWARE. Even if he never sees your face because you've only got time to swing in, dump the goods, and speed to work/wherever, it's a practical "I love you" at his convenience. He will know they're from you. I wake up practically in the middle of the night to bake things for my man to have at the office. Let me tell yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/15 06:51 PM |
| 26 | Can this be fixed?I might hurt your feelings but it's because I hope you'll read how this looks from the outside (which is why you're posting here, right? Advice?) and wake up. You're being very vague about this illness because you need to play the victim card in order to get advice you want to hear, and this illness, if you told us what it is, will probably get you laughed out of here. I think the illness is depression. You have hamstered depression into an excuse to gain a ton of weight and stop having sex with… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/15 04:16 AM |
| 11 | Can this be fixed?Weight gain is 99% diet. I can be totally sedentary and if I eat at or under my tdee I will not gain weight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/15 04:01 AM |
| 7 | Feeling a bit sad – here’s my rambling going through my headYes. If you behave like an adult woman you will be treated like an adult woman. This is not going to be the same as being treated like an adult man. Pay attention to and remind yourself of this. It's key, and when you begin to get frustrated with not being in charge or not "being able to steer your own boat" as you said in your post, think of this. Woman was designed to be ever busy fulfilling her obligations fully and to the best of her ability. When you start resenting not having the same resp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/15 04:43 PM |
| 9 | Feeling a bit sad – here’s my rambling going through my headNot all men take the "most responsible teenager in the house" approach with their wives. Many prefer the captain/co captain dynamic and it will work just fine as long as the woman is not a childish harpie bitch. If you're worthy of more respect and responsibility in the relationship then you'll get it. Just don't demand it or usurp it, the leader delegates responsibilities. If he CAN trust you he will. This all assumes you understand there are exceptions if your man is a lazy omega video game pl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/15 03:37 PM |
| 5 | [Advice] How can I improve myself with a mental illness?I know a big part of self improvement is not to be too inwardly focused. It's very easy to focus on self all the time and lose sight of a bigger picture and crawl into a hole. I know there is a need for self-examination and an honest appraisal of ones faults and strengths. We need to know what we are working with when we want to improve and move forward, but that's the first baby step, don't hang out there! Once you have a general idea about what you want to improve, be on the watch for laziness… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/15 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Genuinely curious on what a woman's role is in a red pill relationshipUh oh, found a feminist! That silliness has only been posted here like 9,000 times. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/15 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Signs/Traits to Look for in a High Value ManWhat exactly is the advice you're aiming at a RPW? Because you've typed a lot. You're sure talking a lot about subjectivity, but I can't really make out any points. Are you maybe saying that each women will have different qualities she'll like in a man? Nobody said a man could or would force a woman's loyalty, that's idiotic. A woman does not choose the value of the man, that doesn't make any sense. She can like certain physical or personality traits but the bottom line is that a high value man … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/15 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Signs/Traits to Look for in a High Value Manthe qualities of that man are less important than how you feel about him and the value you are willing to assign him. The qualities of the man are what determine whether the relationship will have any value. A relationship that is only as good as the woman's feelings is just flat out wrong. But for the price of your mans dignity and sanity, you can buy a really bp relationship with that ideology! Go read /mrp or /TRP. The very first thing a man who leads needs to know is that HE is the rock. HE … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/15 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious on what a woman's role is in a red pill relationshipThanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/15 06:25 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of women who don't agree it's rp or rpw? Are they wrong, don't understand it or is it just one of those things that isn't for everyone?It can work for absolutely everyone, but a lot of women can't release their death grip on control and masculinity. On the flip side, there are so many feminine, lazy men that just can't/don't want to take responsibility for their own lives let alone be responsible for a relationship or family. There would have to be a massive, miraculous change in society that obviously is so far outside of the scope of reality that it doesn't make sense to discuss it. But one by one, two by two, people can beco… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/15 09:44 PM |
| 2 | "Women only gain weight in a relationship if she's REALLY comfortable with the person she's with"Idk about guys like that. Maybe they're insecure? Programmed to vagina worship? Programmed to regurgitate how women are all perfect as they are? I've got an obese neighbor whose husband tells her she doesn't need to lose weight, etc. I want to say gimme a break, you were JUST staring at my ass. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 08:37 PM |
| 103 | Genuinely curious on what a woman's role is in a red pill relationshipI'll ignore the snark and take a bite. Though your disdain is easy to spot and you definitely need to do some more thinking, reading, looking. It's more of an attitude. Will I respect my man? Do I actually want him to be happy? Can I humble myself? Then I need to realize what makes him happy and know some things to enrich him. A mans needs are pretty easy, generally. Men need sex. Men need respect. Men need food. Men need intense physical activity. (Lifting, playing sports w/other men.) Independ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 08:11 PM |
| 4 | How to help a friend see RP truths?I was married with our first kid at 21 and had already moved away. Making new friends is a little tough that young bc people are still really just learning who they are and most folks don't really settle down, and relationships that aren't really RP tend to blow up. I have been a SAHM most of our marriage bc we had a kid immediately. My husband makes friends at work and whether they're single or married doesn't tend to matter. He will invite his friends over for dinners and stuff and they'll bri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 07:43 PM |
| 8 | How to help a friend see RP truths?I'm so long-winded today. Sorry. I had the same group of friends from about age 16 on. A few of them I was friends with before we could ride a bike without training wheels. More sisters than friends. Every last of my girl friends panted after alphas and/or validation, got cheated on, pumped and dumped, got used and played, and still just threw themselves after guys. Basically all the stories on r/TRP can apply to the friends of my youth. Sluts, desperate and delusional, and it didn't take long. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 06:40 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over all the mistakes you made pre-RPW?I want to add to the way I ended my first comment. Being social is a way to meet high quality men, but this usually involves alcohol, crowds, the pick up scene. Basically all places they go to get laid. So using your time to be incredibly social will not get you what you're looking for. There's much to be gained from spending your time quietly and constructively. It's a total cop out to say you can't meet men if you're a reclusive cat lady and that has some truth to it, except you're not aiming … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 06:18 PM |
| 6 | How do you get over all the mistakes you made pre-RPW?If you'd like some stories of horrendous mistakes that were/are super embarrassing I have plenty. I can certainly say the same. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 06:11 PM |
| 12 | How do you get over all the mistakes you made pre-RPW?I don't think you can save face retroactively. What happened already happened. You just keep learning, keep implementing the changes you're ready to, brush up your girl game, etc. the past can be straight out embarrassing but time will help soften the embarrassment. Thing is, these guys probably don't remember the minute details like you do. It didn't work out, they moved on. You're just an ex. Even if you were a crazy stalker gf, now you're an ex. If people are talking about you behind your bac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/15 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Does your husband travel?I like when he's gone too, I get so much done. All the time I'd usually spend on him I can spend on projects or fitness marathons or catching up on things I'm reading. Trying to sleep alone is the hardest part, the only hard part, really. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/15 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Does your husband travel?My husband is gone all the time for work and for long periods. You're not really as scared as you think you are, but your imagination goes nuts and you miss him so you want him back. Get a white noise machine or have a constant noise to drown out all the house noises and neighborhood noises. It changes everything. We have really loud exhaust fans in our old house so I turn on the one closest to our room and it helps me relax and fall asleep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/15 06:31 PM |
| 3 | What's your love language? What's your SO's? How does this affect the relationship?We do yard work together. It's an act of service, it's physical labor which we both highly value, he gets to tinker with the small engines and power tools, He and I spend time together being productive, etc. it's great, rewarding, it builds us up. Plus it needs to be done. I give great dinner parties. He gets to schmooze and entertain his buddies, I get to cook, serve guests, open our home and benefit his career and his friendships by complimenting him, setting him up for a successful evening, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/15 09:08 PM |
| 5 | How do I go about another woman threatening our relationship?It boils down to this: he gets all the talk he could want from the OP. Their whole relationship is talking and feelings. The ex gf isn't staying for three or four days of good conversation. I disagree there's any chance he didn't have sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/15 09:10 PM |
| 5 | How do I go about another woman threatening our relationship?Unless she's got items of significant value there, there's no point in getting on a plane and going there. They've had a long distance skype relationship. This chicks been IN HIS BED for three days. Only a total fool would look at this situation and not see that. There's no damage control to be done, there's not really a physical relationship to salvage. She could have followed him to the west coast but she chose her career. It's done. I'd just bow out. Unless the sex that he's having doesn't bo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/15 08:56 PM |
| 8 | How do I go about another woman threatening our relationship?I'm surprised nobody mentioned it, but what indication do you have that he didn't sleep with Jess? You two rarely see each other, this woman throws herself at him, and it seems probable this chaperone friend is a story they told to hose you off while they shack up for a few nights. Look, nobody has a reason to act in other than their own interest here. Guys ex drives hours to see him, they go on a date, she stays a few days, nobody cared to tell you, the girlfriend on the other side of the conti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/15 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Wife and I WILL hit a ‘crossroad’ talk soon. Advice and incite needed to prepare.I already explained the difference. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/15 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Wife and I WILL hit a ‘crossroad’ talk soon. Advice and incite needed to prepare.I'm not implying he controls her actions in this or any case. That's idiotic. As I said, if he is a leader, she will follow. His behavior WILL have huge, enormous impact on her actions. When he's shaved off all the beta and implemented successfully the RP changes in other areas, made his position clear, proved himself as high worth, etc., and she sees this she'll get her shit together if she's worth her salt. Of course there's a chance she won't, then he can go ahead and divorce if and when he s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Wife and I WILL hit a ‘crossroad’ talk soon. Advice and incite needed to prepare.When it think of nexting someone, I think of tossing out a Kleenex. I think of that trashy MTV reality show where teens go on speed dates on a bus. What you do when you're married is get a divorce when you're positive the situation can't be fixed. If a man will lead, and not just start lifting and change his mind about being beta, actually lead, his woman will follow or none of this would even work. His wife can start to respect his wishes with regard to getting off of her ass and being producti… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/15 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Saw this on MSN - nice to see this kind of article in the mainstream "The Top Complaints Men Have About Marriage"These were my thoughts on iit, too. I agree with all of this. I hate how articles on marriages or couples always make the man out to be an imbecile who needs to be mothered. It's simple respect, communication, space, sex. A woman giving up sex once a week is a giant accomplishment but he needs to be goaded into every petty chore like taking out the trash? Ugh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/15 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Saw this on MSN - nice to see this kind of article in the mainstream "The Top Complaints Men Have About Marriage""The nagging never stops." So nag strategically, if you can, instead of making the chores sound snippy, drag put your request and make it an emotional topic. He"ll love that. "And neither does the talking." He's not dumber than you he doesn't need you to get down on your knees to toddler level and spoon feed him. He probably isn't going to be jazzed about you starting every conversation with a question or line of questions. If he's actually hauling his load as a man and a leader, he's got a full… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/15 05:43 AM |
| 6 | Saw this on MSN - nice to see this kind of article in the mainstream "The Top Complaints Men Have About Marriage"I thought the way they want you to sugar coat and candy sprinkle and wrap and decorate the garbage request is sort of manipulative. If he's going to take out the trash he will. If not, just ask him to. He doesn't need an essay on why you really, super, duper, really want him to. If he forgets just take it out yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/15 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Building Better WorldsThere is no way a sahd can be dominant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/15 08:33 PM |
| 2 | "Are you having an affair?" - best answerRun a script for the incog history. Takes 5 minutes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/15 06:09 PM |
| 2 | My 21 year old friend was divorce raped and financially crippledHow did she get that much for only being married a YEAR? And with no kids? How the fuck--? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 08:43 PM |
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