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Option C being not staying in contact with her? That's exactly what I'm going to do. Any additional advice regarding the whole situation?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 06:02 PM
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Thanks. I'm just going to not get in touch with that girl until she hits me up. Other than that, I think I made my point by telling my roommate that if this ever happens again we are going to have a problem. That's pretty much all I can do at this point.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:42 PM
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That's the thing. I don't touch his girls, he doesn't touch mine. At least that's what I thought we agreed upon, as in an unspoken "bro-code" to put it like that. Like I said in other replies, my plate can do whatever the fuck she wants, I have other plates next to her. Still, I do not appreciate my roommate fucking around with a girl I'm seeing. So yes, not exclusive but restrictively non-exclusive. As in a restriction on the guy I'm sharing a house with. I don't think that's too much to expect…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:17 PM
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Fair game, we still live together so I'm wondering how I should continue with this dynamic within the household now.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:15 PM
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Because there's a boundary between fucking guys I don't know, or kissing my best friend. It's the same if the roles are reversed - I wouldn't hook up with her best friend if she introduced me to her, out of respect. Maybe I'm a fool for assuming this, I've had a decent amount of plates so far and this is the first one that I ran into this problem with. It's not necessarily what my plate did, it's the boundary that my roommate is supposed to respect. I don't touch his girls, he doesn't touch mine…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:14 PM
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He's my roommate. She slept over multiple times, in my bed. He knows we have sex. I genuinely don't care if she fucks other guys as we clearly established that, but kissing my roommate whilst I'm not there is a disappointment, mainly from my roommate. I don't really care about my plate doing it. Maybe I worded the thread wrong but it is extremely misinterpreted.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:11 PM
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The thread is misinterpreted. I don't care about what my plate does. I have other plates as well and we established that we could fuck others. No harm no foul. The problem, as mentioned in the other comment, is I'm wondering if I set proper boundaries with my roommate by talking to him afterwards. I don't care about what my plate did, but I'm not too happy with the way the guy I'm living with is approaching this.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:26 PM
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I genuinely don't care what my plate did, I even told them she shouldn't sleep in my bed. I'm more confused/disappointed in my roommate. This thread is misinterpreted if you read the replies,. It's more of a question as to how approach this with my roommate. Did I set boundaries by saying what I said? I honestly couldn't care less about my plate atm
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:18 PM
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Small sidenote: both were drunk af when it happened, and I understand drunk mistakes can be made.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:57 PM
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Thing is that with girls I always want what I can't have. If she keeps this game up then I'm probably going to fall for her like you said. Kinda want to prevent that by hooking up. I guess I'll have to ensure that I don't want to fuck her anymore, as difficult as it is. The other comments said that 'my SMV isn't as high as I think it is'. It's an understandable reaction and I'm not going to pretend I'm Hugh Hefner, but this girl doesn't have many friends around, I'm one of her best, if not her b…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 09:23 AM
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Used to play Runescape. Trust me, Trance is not a troll. The guy has been living in social isolation for years (hence his top rank in Runescape) and this is probably the only girl he has ever gotten attention from in his life.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 01:54 PM
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Next time I'm bored on a Friday evening I'll shoot her a text. For now I'll just keep doing what I'm doing (being too lazy to hit her up, she'll probably text me again in 2 weeks).
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:50 PM
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Next time she shoots me a text I'll just tell her to come over for a quick fuck. I reckon a huge part of trp doesn't really understand what 'turning someone into an orbiter means'. As I mentioned in my other reply, I never text her first and we're not friends. Thanks for recognizing that, as one of the few.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:49 PM
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"Turning me into an orbiter" Exactly where in the post did I mention that we were friends/talked regularly? We literally never talk, our entire text convo is her starting conversations saying she wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:47 PM
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Inviting her over to my place to begin with helps a ton when it comes to logistics though, and we can meet during the day instead of go for coffee or a drink in town..
/r/askTRP16/10/16 11:37 AM
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At least I didn't lie about it for ages, I've been honest about hooking up with her. Friendship probably took a bit hit.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:19 PM
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She's most likely going to become a plate. I ended up being honest - I tried to put him in a good spotlight but he didn't seem to want it, got way too drunk and it just happened. He feels pretty shit about it so I don't think I'll be going to another frat party anytime soon.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:18 PM
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Cheers. I'll wait it out, won't try and establish contact with her. Thing is I have 2 plates but both of them aren't that interesting. For the past 10 girls I fucked none of them really had a personality I could connect with, aside from the sex. Long distance obviously won't work so I'm not going to try and go for that. She lives 20 minutes away from me though, so when she gets back a relationship would be possible. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 01:48 PM
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Started at 17. 20 now and around NW3. Everyone in my family - Mom's and dad's side - has a full head of hair. It's frustrating and unfair, but I guess I'll have to learn to live with it.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 11:13 AM
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If you're close friends with everyone I wouldn't. If you have other groups of friends just leave and see if your friends stick with her or take your side, when it's blatant she's humiliating and insulting you.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 09:21 AM
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Would just make me come across as a dick as she probably can't help it this time.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:15 PM
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I completely understand that after 1 date it's too early to talk about LTR material. However I've been single for a year and increased my N-count by such an amount that I am kind of looking for a relationship. Fucking girls just for fucking isn't what I'm really looking for anymore. This was the first girl I could talk with about normal things, (actual) plans for the future that seemed interesting and hobbies, instead of the generic white girl bullshit. Probably oneitis and I will get over it, j…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:04 PM
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What would you reply in the ideal situation then?
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:02 PM
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Just told her 'alright we'll do it another time' and she said 'yeah! I'd like that', now I'll just wait for her to set a date to see if she wants it.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 05:35 PM
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Try to maintain a calm frame. Eye contact and not a lot of words are necessary to get your point across. You're not one to be shouting with a heavy voice and intimidating someone - so act on what your strengths are. Probably maintaining a calm frame but being stern about what you want.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:24 PM
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Handled it really well.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 08:15 AM
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Just plate her and don't LTR during your first year(s) of college. Best advice I can give, had a LTR from highschool during my first year of uni, broke up near the end and I realized how many girls I missed by being committed.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 11:44 AM
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What's your bf%? That's a healthy weight if you lift.. and 1500 seems very low for the long days you're working.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:45 AM
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You need to start gradually. You're still young. First thing's first: you need to lift. Get a beginner program (can be found on trp), read lifting and nutrition guides, and start. It won't magically make you more social, but it will have a positive impact on your mental state. After having gone to the gym consistently, because of your age, with proper nutrition, you will see physical changes. Compliments may be awkward to you, but that's what will follow. People may strike up conversation with y…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:43 AM
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Don't let it annoy you. Look at it as 'natural selection' in the sense that they are so detached from society that even when they have a golden ticket (trp) they still can't get girls (to put it in very simple terms). More for us. I don't complain.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:27 AM
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Down with whomever, you have to realize a huge percentage of trp posters are 17-22 (and living at home). They don't see cooking for a girl the way that you do once you leave the house and cook dinner yourself. If you have a good frame cooking for a girl will win her heart over.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 01:41 PM
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Without your replies I would have fucked it up so bad. Shooting her a "I'm at x bar on saturday, join me". When she replies I'll let you know. Even if she rejects it at least I know I played this part right.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:18 PM
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You're right, on mobile at uni now but I'll follow your advice. I'll just shoot her a "my roommate is gone all weekend, let's party again on Saturday". That works right?
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:02 PM
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I couldn't have wished for a more in depth and complete reply. Appreciate you taking time out of your day to write such a post. There is a big chance she is just being polite, but still, every shot you don't take you miss. Can't be bothered to hit her up today or tomorrow as I have lots of uni and coursework to do. I'll probably shoot her a text on Wednesday. However, what you said about the open ended text and just asking for a flake - she lives in a city 1 hour from me and is here occasionally…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:32 PM
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Thanks for the reply Adam. Appreciate it, as you have been in the same situation I am in right now so you can speak from experience. I texted her that I dropped off her keys, didn't meet her parents. If I did though, I would make the impression you describe. She replied with "That's so sweet of you, thank you so much!". Now I reckon I'll just let a few days-a week pass and shoot her a text "we should hang out again" on a Friday (going out) or after the weekend (to go out with her the weekend aft…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:58 PM
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I realize I need to keep fucking her. However, I need to be able to initiate the meetup. Dropped the keys off, didn't even meet her parents, and texted her I dropped them off. "That's so sweet of you, thank you so much". Didn't reply. I reckon I'll send her a text in a few days just stating something like "we should hang out" like you said and just see where it goes. Thanks for the reply, really helped and gave better insights than the other ones.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:53 PM
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To take me out to dinner.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:32 PM
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Now this is the first comment that resonates with me. I'm on my phone so I'll reply more later, but what would your course of action be? Radio silence after I drop off the keys (she won't text first, she has hundreds of guys probably) or shoot a casual text right after/ a few days after that if she'd like a sober conversation and dinner she should hit me up.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:31 PM
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You're right. I'm assuming I'll never see her again but I figured it was worth a shot. Meet me at x and x won't work, as I reckon she wants to meet on her terms and at a place she picks (she works 6 full days/week). The dropping it off at her parents' place is necessary as she lives 2h away from my place, and her parents live very close and go to her tomorrow. Could be bullshit but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 02:03 PM
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They weren't off hand plans. That's the thing. Usually I wouldn't ever talk about this but when she said she was taking me out, I literally said "no you're not, after tonight we'll never see each other again". "Why would you say that, I'd love to take you out" "No you won't" "Yes I will, watch me" This happened about 4 times. She brought it up every time and every time I told her she wouldn't. Then the last time she said it I just said "okay we'll see". This happened inbetween conversations over…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 02:01 PM
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So I don't at least try?
/r/askTRP11/09/16 01:58 PM
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That's the ideal long term plan. Still, need to set up a 'date' and not come across as the average 21 year old when I do. She told me several times she thought I was late twenties because of my personality and looks, so I guess now I just don't need to fail
/r/askTRP11/09/16 12:25 PM
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You would keep a girl in your rotation that disrespects you so blatantly... Damn.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:36 PM
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Your perception is right. Toddbaker6 isn't trying to put himself in the situation of the person in front of you. Best advice I can give: fake the smile. The cocky smile took me 2 years to subconsciously put on my face. I forced myself every day to fake the smile until it became second nature. If I got a dollar for every girl that told me "that smile of yours...". It's one of the best non-verbal ways to create attraction (aside from eye contact/kino).
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:56 PM
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Cheers. Will just continue what I have been doing. Glad TRP echoes what I was thinking myself.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:01 PM
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A plate is a girl you fuck. I fuck all my plates. Where in the post did I say I didn't fuck her for the first month?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:33 AM
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She stops fucking other guys. Since she met me she kissed one guy and felt guilty about it, didn't go home with anyone. Multiple times have I told her that she can do whatever she pleases, but she says she can't kiss/fuck someone when she has me, even if it's not official.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:48 PM
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I'm deciding what my course of action should be.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:14 PM
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If the plate is going to shatter, she'll have to do it herself. I'll just take it easy, let her arrange the meetups, then escalate if I see fit or just have a good time with her. The story can easily be twisted into me being an asshole (she told me her best friends think I'm an asshole already for seeing other girls).
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:12 PM
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Thought it was leaning towards a comfort test.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:10 PM
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I'd run to be honest. Not really worth the risk if she's actually crazy. Did she have this type of humor during your date? If so then it might just be a joke in bad taste. If this comment came out of nowhere I'd run.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:00 PM
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Thing is, when I purposely try to escalate there tends to be a "I can have him whenever vibe". I've been trying to find the perfect balance, but I still don't really know. Currently interrailing through Europe on my own. I've kissed at least one girl every night I've been out. Still, I feel not in control sometime. Are there any threads, topics or articles that give a few examples of escalation? The golden balance of not being too available, but still giving sexual intent. One of the few times e…
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