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| 7 | Censorship of wrongthink on other subs.My ex-wife has kidney disease. I supported her, as the sole income earner, while she was on dialysis for 6 years. I took her on trips, went the extra mile to make sure she felt cared for. Then one day she cheated anyway. Of course she plays the " you left a sick girl" card all the time now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/24 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Deciding if I should stayLeave. Ideally, leave yesterday. The other comments on here have been sufficiently brutal, but I think you have some serious problems with self-respect. You're basically okay with sitting back and being her backup while she goes out shopping for Mr. Right. I think you need to get some of that self-respect back. If not for yourself, for your kids. My ex-wife was diagnosed with BPD, and I accept that she had some serious shit going on, but that doesn't justify treating your spouse like complete sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Trying to find balanceThis is good advice. It's a shit situation, but all you can do is cut your losses and move forward. You'll be better off without someone like that in your life in the long run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/24 01:32 AM |
| 5 | When do you know when it is right for a divorce?2 years, no kids. I'd say this is your chance to get out while the price for freedom is still relatively low. It doesn't sound like she's doing anything to contribute towards your life. Why stay? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/24 12:14 AM |
| 3 | How do I (M33) tell my wife (F32), that I want to separate and eventually get a divorce?Sorry, you're going through all of this. She was willing to watch you spiral into this depression, so clearly she doesnt care about you in the way that she should. Sounds like sociopathic behaviour to ridicule and ask for / engage in damaging actions while your spouse is suffering. Like others are saying, make sure you have your ducks in a row. Make sure you have a lawyer (sounds like you do) and make an exit plan. Then take a deep breath and pull the trigger. It's going to be a shitshow, but yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/24 05:08 PM |
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