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| 1 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.This really doesn't sound healthy, it might be worth having checked out. It's not really something I think it's appropriate talking too much about on reddit or going to detail on. It might sound a bit mean but are you really addicted to your husband on a real low almost primal level? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 02:25 AM |
| 8 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leaguewhat...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.Do not listen to western women and their opinions on the matter, look up the amount of women that own sex toys in the likes of the US. I genuinely believe women are just as porn rotted and burnt out through the likes of vibrators as men are when it comes to death grip. Do men have higher sex drives? yes. Do they jerk the Piletina more? yes. But we're more alike than we are different. The gap really isn't that big and it's closing, I was a femcel for a while and believe me the amount of goonerism… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 06:01 AM |
| – | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Men and women are different so they're held to different standards, it's fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 12:29 AM |
| -1 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Sabrina is 26???? I thought she was at least late 30's. Good lord drugs and promiscuity age women horribly; I still get asked for ID | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 12:06 AM |
| 31 | Thoughts on the “Tea” app?lmao wtf, how is that legal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterI don't think' that's strictly true, humans are inherently extremely hierarchal and patriarchal, dominant men select the women they want, whereas those women CAN select the men below them. My fiancé very much chose me, I naturally occupied the pursuer role out of desire; I didn't feel attracted enough to anyone before to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do women not work out as much as men?Don't need to, it's really that simple; men are rated as more attractive due to physicality women aren't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:48 PM |
| 11 | Misogynist young adults get more sextaller men have more partners and earn more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:46 PM |
| – | Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men?its just nature, guys like big boobs n butts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men?real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards scale with their QoL, while men's standards adapt to our dating experienceIt's really not, especially in women in my age group. Gen Z Tall balding chubby guys get way more matches than ripped average height guys with full heads of hair lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Women's standards scale with their QoL, while men's standards adapt to our dating experience... if he's "average" then offers "height" then he's not average is he, he's above average lol. Considering height is the main factor in attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:30 AM |
| 2 | The loneliness of autismWomen are more emotional, it's just difficult to admit because of the negative connotation that accompanies it. Just like anything it has it's positives and negatives. I doubt you would agree if I said "men aren't super aggressive, women are every bit as aggressive". Men are more aggressive, and said aggression also has it's positives and negatives. But due to the negative implications accompanying this well observed and documented fact people will be quick to deny it. Are women conditioned to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 10:31 PM |
| 3 | The loneliness of autismSpoken like somebody that thinks therapy is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 12:18 PM |
| 5 | The loneliness of autismActual high functioning autistic people are generally smarter and much more immune to the sway of propaganda. They're capable of navigating life in a hyper logical manner, something women and even the modern western man struggles with, I honestly envy my blatantly autistic fiancé and his friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 11:08 AM |
| 7 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobThis is very suspect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Arent women scared when they are in a traditional relationship?Nope, because I didn't pick a blatant psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men?Prince William is gorgeous and tall, not to mention a literal prince | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:15 PM |
| – | Makeup skews the dating marketMen don't judge women on academic success or our salaries so we compensate with things that men do care about, like looks; hence make up. Men can compensate with other things Don't get it twisted make up and other 'enhancements' are absolutely about securing the best man possible and very little to do with expression though lmao, weird blue pill nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:14 AM |
| – | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Most men don't realise that women only really use dating apps for ego boosts, particularly after break ups. They very rarely go on dates unless the guy is insanely hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM?I trust word of mouth a lot more than studies with clear agendas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?it does lol, romance (smut) novels are a much better equivalent/comparison for women though. You have no idea how many women think 6ft is the average height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM?That doesn't matter, even more progressive women in my age group will only date men that make the same as them if not at least a standard increment more in a more traditionally masculine role, like a trade. Women generally prefer to not date men that work in retail for example, even if they out earned an apprentice for something like an electrician. It's more difficult than ever for young men to out earn their female counterparts in these traditionally masculine occupations, or fit other perquis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 12:35 PM |
| -1 | Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM?The men that women want do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:46 AM |
| -6 | Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM?But men are more likely to work physically intensive jobs and actually work more for less in some places in the US. If you work in HR but your partner is a brick layer then you sure as hell better get off your ass and at least cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 12:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manIf a random 'average' man approached me I would be very annoyed, and my almost 300lb 6'6" boyfriend would be even more annoyed Let's not encourage this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 10:28 PM |
| 3 | One of women's biggest advantage: In-group bias? this is very sus Men are universally a lot easier to get along with, even when I was going through my femcel phase I couldn't deny how easily men just 'go with it'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | The “Hard to Get” Man: Why Women Chase What They Can’t Have and Call It “Security”I approached my bf (now fiancé) if a woman doesn't at least open the door for you to make a move she's probably spoilt/egotistical anyway, you want nothing to do with that Granted at least in my culture, Women do try to make it pretty clear they like you. Men are overwhelmingly autistic though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually go to bars and clubs alone?That sounds like an intensely bad idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksI think both porn and romance novels are expansions of traditional/natural? male and female sexuality, obviously porn is actually more harmful because of how abusive that industry is, but when it comes to distorting peoples expectations of the other gender they're just as bad eachother IMO I think I can speak on the matter with some authority from my own personal experience, I genuinely used to believe the average man was like 6ft at the very least because of those stupid books God Of War was my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksI think that's more of a western issue, that being said is that really any different than women using dating apps to inflate their egos, or diving into romance novels where the men are 7ft eternally constipated sweaty men with 12 inch penises... but he somehow only has eyes for the average girl next door. Not to mention women watch porn too now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 12:08 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menThis is simply just not true, if it were Women would be single at higher rates than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:36 PM |
| 14 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenI've been saying this for ages, men are still required to fill that traditional provider role for the women they want but it's harder than it was for our parents and grandparents to occupy that role. My Grandfather never finished school yet was able to walk into a job which provided him with enough to buy a cottage and provide for both me and my mother. Also with enough money for luxury items like fishing boats. Meanwhile there's guys with degrees still stuck in retail deep into their 20's, they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?I think there's a pretty simple reason behind this, it's just a hell of a lot easier for a woman to find another man. There's literally nothing stopping a woman from downloading an app and finding a line-up of men to choose from, the average man just can't do that. A lot of men resort to some extreme and IMO unjustifiable actions when a relationship is failing, regardless of whether or not they're at fault they're more likely to resort to violence whether it's outwards or inwards. The most dange… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.No, but it really depends where you live. Men are around 6ft on average where I'm from, 5'7 would be fairly average in the likes of the southern US states or the lower side of average in the British isles. My boyfriends friend is 5'7/5'8 and he has an objectively pretty girlfriend who he's had two children with. Consider 5'7 here would be like 5'3/5'4 in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.But there is data to support taller men earn more and are much more likely to occupy higher roles, I saw a recent study showing taller men are more likely to be married never mind have more successful marriages, and more children. Also does this data include much people from Gen Z? the dating landscape now isn't comparable at all to how it was for people born in the 80s/early 90s As for BMI, isn't the average BMI in the US overweight anyway? there's a lot more overweight women than there are ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksIt really doesn't, I'm pretty sure you're a troll but maturity = stability, not money Antisocial personalities are more common amongst high earning men from what I recall. I doubt you consider Elon Musk stable lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 10:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicIt is pretty gross behaviour tbh You have the 'progressive' and more 'open minded' women still demanding men to appeal to an outdated and "harmful" masculine architype while they break down every single social expectation for women. It wouldn't be such a big deal if they were just honest about it, or if they even worked to break down the same expectations for men, but they won't because it's not advantageous to them. Just hypocritical, at least I'm honest about not being progressive and what I l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:53 PM |
| 58 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksThe average man is not fucking the 'hot whore', so this entire argument collapses right out the gate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?Even western society has a much more concrete architype of masculinity that men have to appeal to, even the majority left wing women desire this. Even most the 'blue pill' women on this sub will be dating an older guy that at the very least earns slightly more than them. Despite most of this subreddit coming from urban hellholes where young women possibly out earn young men or are well on their way to (for less labour) Anyways the modern left has done nothing but make life harder for young men, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him?I wanted to wait but my bf (now fiancé) triggered monke brain, it's the deep voice and height it just obliterated my free will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.What? 5'8-5'11 is above the global average I was clearly going by western/European standards most men bald most men in the west are fat and pretty broke If you're above that height range then you're not average, height is the biggest factor in female attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 06:11 PM |
| 0 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.The average (white) man is around 5'8-5'11, balding, fat and pretty broke. Is that you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:14 PM |
| 7 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Yes, pretty much every neurotypical well adjusted woman I've met is pretty strict about this too granted I'm from a rural conservative area, urban people are culturally a bit loose (relatively) Hooking up is potentially very dangerous, instincts tell us we need to trust said person before moving forward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:12 PM |
| – | I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning.It's the pick me side, at least that's what they say when you call out bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Woman look bio too?Yea can't argue with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Would you date somebody who went to public school?Yea it's not cool, I think men are still held to their traditional standards that are harder than ever to achieve. It's an underrated part as to why dating is so much harder for them Stagnant wages, inflation, a housing crisis etc is not good when you're still expected to be a provider | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Would you date somebody who went to public school?I kind of suspected it because I used to work in retail and all the men there were single besides the older regional managers, whereas the snarling orcs that came in from the technical college/deliveries and farm ended up dating my friends. Was an observation that seems to be backed up well, I think it's just one of those 'ick' things, like a guy that doesn't have his own place, or doesn't drive. I think it's pretty unfair and kind of gross personally, but it is interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Would you date somebody who went to public school?Doesn't matter, even more liberal women still prefer men in more traditionally masculine jobs; a plumber/electrician apprentice earning minimum wage is seen as a much more respectable position for a male to be in than say sales or HR, regardless of how high up they may be. Most women prefer men that earn at the very least a standard increment more than them, in a traditionally masculine occupation like a trade. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 07:14 PM |
| 6 | Would you date somebody who went to public school?I mean my bf never even finished public school, I severely doubt women care if you're physically adequate Your job though? most women won't date men in things like retail; you either have to be earning a lot or in a traditionally masculine role like a labourer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternshundreds of thousands of teenage girls on tiktok parroting femcel rhetoric and a literal femcel shooter recently Where's that movie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning.Women have a much more concrete idea of masculinity that men have to appeal to in order to be attractive to us, we immediately assume bi men to be less masculine. I'm not saying whether or not the latter is true, I'm just stating the true reasoning That's it, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. I know girls that get the "ick" from men literally using emojis because it gives the impression of being more feminine and too expressive, never mind liking other men. Western society in general is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:04 AM |
| 4 | Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode womenReddit is mostly people from urban population centres, so naturally they're going to be more liberal/misandrist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Oh God, hope the incels don't see this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 12:28 PM |
| -2 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Men are pretty autistic, you should probably tone indicate this so they realise it's a joke prob just radicalise them even more because the men you're describing are literally like 1% of the male population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 12:05 PM |
| 0 | Woman look bio too?I don't, I have a boyfriend I've just been in circles of girls swiping before. Generally 6ft is the cut off, which I admit is insane, but dating apps are mostly men and the women can afford the be as picky as they want and that's exactly what they'll do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Woman look bio too?If he's hot, then check the bio for a height listing while simultaneously praying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:17 PM |
| 3 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSI really fail to see how my boyfriends friends are going to find a wife when hunting/camping or going on pub crawls in old smoky pubs full of old labourers I don't think women on this subreddit know what men in their 20's do for fun, most people are meeting through dating apps now because men and women do not mix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:15 PM |
| 4 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThey don't want to marry their friends though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:48 PM |
| 3 | How comes jocks and street boys don't get the "inc*l" label?It's lost all it's meaning, heck women hate other women at much higher rates than men but female incels don't exist somehow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:50 AM |
| – | CMV: Families are happier with the modern wife/mom than the traditional typeA happy woman with a suitably masculine man will naturally occupy that traditional role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"My boyfriend is autistic, he's tried dating 'autistic' girls before but most of them had partners or were particularly promiscuous which doesn't align with his beliefs. My theory is that autism is either 1. over diagnosed now in women (and men now) or 2. commonly cross diagnosed with borderline, which would explain the promiscuity I've met some pretty autistic women online and without fail they're very particular about what they want, you try to explain to an autistic woman that she's not going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.I saw your post history and it made a lot more sense, my bad. My boyfriend also had a woman prey on him when he was younger, it's particularly frustrating with men because it's difficult to get people to take it seriously, even my boyfriend to this day doesn't really realise how messed up it was. I guess the power dynamic? as in the physicality plays a major part. But men can be really damn gullible especially men with the likes of autism. Sorry again, I understand why you'd be 'snappy' in regar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.What? I think you got me completely wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:25 PM |
| 8 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.I've said before this is a jealousy thing, some women genuinely can not stand to see a man succeed in any capacity. It's a lot easier for a guy to date a younger woman because We like older men, obviously the range varies but the vast majority do prefer older guys It takes less materialistic success to impress younger women It's really not a big deal, my boyfriend is 30 in a couple years and I'm only entering my 20's, this is perfectly normal where I live and I wouldn't have it any other way. Me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:36 PM |
| – | The average woman today is more privileged than the average man.Where does this idea that men don't support eachother stem from? men are far more functionally supportive than women; just because they don't give each other disingenuous words of encouragement and rub each others inflated egos doesn't mean they're not supportive. I always had male friends growing up and they'd always look towards a solution, absolutely zero hesitation. My boyfriend and his friend group have financially supported eachother for a decade at this point When I was in highschool my p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 10:13 AM |
| – | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?People dodging any semblance of accountability on ppd will never fail to amuse me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How do relationship dynamics changes when the woman is taller and physically stronger than the man in a couple?If you're 100kg and want to be feel safe/protected or be carried by a woman it's very possible you have a hormonal imbalance, fat is estrogenic. Obviously if you enjoy it, more power to you though. That being said a 4'11 man is probably multitudes stronger than a 6ft woman. I was always a pretty heavy girl, Grandfather was a mechanic so I was always helping him out and spent most my life around men so I'm a bit on the masculine side for a woman and I know just how insanely big the strength gap i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenhonestly, he could hit me with his car and I'd still love him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:56 AM |
| – | Men do not like natural womenMy boyfriend has literally zero issues with me having pimples around my period and him and his friends have been very vocal about their love for stretch marks. The male monke brain goes crazy for anything that indicates fertility and that includes 'imperfections' It's women, gay men and porn addicted lonely men that have distorted standards from media manipulation, back when I lived in Ireland men were intensely vocal about the horrible make up trends and plastic surgery but women were adamant t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Who makes for better partners, men or women?Men are a heck load easier to date. Sure they're a bit messy and stinky sometimes but they're simple creatures. It's like having a dog... IG | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenI don't think this is true, most redditors come from urban population centres in the US with ever overreaching self serving cultures. I can't imagine my self without my boyfriend, I'm nothing without him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of actual bad boys?On a primal level, very hot. Women that tell you otherwise are probably lying to you. But after you actually deal with it you very much realise it's not very hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:24 PM |
| – | Majority of "misandrists" are men.You got bullied in school didn't you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:23 PM |
| – | Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other WomenThe average woman isn't having casual sex yea, don't get me wrong I know a lot of women that would sleep with multiple guys in a month because of dating apps, especially back when I lived in the west but these women are absolutely fried and I really can't see a good ending for any of them. Promoting promiscuity really serves nobody besides the very top percentile of men in my opinion, like sure I can pick up a phone, download an app and have a *high psl slayer* come pick me up but literally what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:34 PM |
| – | Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other WomenYea and a lot of these women end up addicted to substances, are on SSRI's or they end up self deleting. That life style does not make women happy. These people are usually miserable as hell, I've seen a lot of regretful women (that claim they aren't) in their later 20's/30's on this very subreddit purposely misguide young women telling them to literally be "sluttier" and "meaner" because it'll attractive higher "PSL" men, which literally couldn't be further from the truth. There's a reason they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 03:03 PM |
| – | The Male Loneliness EpidemicThere's plenty of women complaining about men not giving women enough attention actually, what would you say to them? I've heard dozens of women complaining about men not approaching them anymore in person heard way more women say "when is it my turn to be happy" than men, hell there's frickin' hundreds of thousands of women on social media posting about they have no bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?How old are you? Easier than ever to learn anything that interests you? My Grandfather left school with zero qualifications, walked into a local job in a rural area where he worked less than 30 hours a week and was able to buy a beautiful cottage in the countryside with a few years of wages in his early 20's, he got a promotion where he worked his entire life and was able to provide for an entire family with enough money leftover for luxury items like boats, fancy cars, golf, holiday homes and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 06:52 PM |
| 18 | CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material waitIf you're traditional and actually back it up, as in you don't have a lot of bodies that's fine. A lot of good men are understanding and perfectly understanding, my boyfriend could wait just fine. If you've had one night stands or slept with other guys in the past pretty quickly then no, they'll rightly just assume you're not attracted to them. Just stick to more promiscuous guys and have your fun rather than trying to trap a decent man through some weird waiting ritual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Women and children are protected resources, there's a reason we're always bundled together separate from men as if they're a whole different entity. The average man just really isn't considered that valuable. Is it natural? probably; society is an extension of nature and a lot of modern sensibilities really haven't strayed far from the caves in the grand scheme of things. Will it change? probably not, it kind of feels like women are gaining access to all the positives of being male while men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 10:11 AM |
| 3 | The Male Loneliness EpidemicYea and all the unfortunate things under current circumstances that affect women are our own fault too, every time a woman is suffering it's down to us not supporting one another enough! grow up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 01:07 PM |
| 1 | It is embarrassing to be a left-wing maleI'm a housewife, literally what would school offer me? this has been my goal in life and an education would only serve to get in the way of my dreams. My boyfriend is a labourer, also little education. Doing much better than the people I know that fell for the college/urban scam, blowing all their cash on a mouldy apartment while working them selves to death in retail wondering why their degree isn't making them money lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:44 PM |
| 13 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Pretty much, my boyfriend and his friends dropped out in their early 20's, the main issue is the average young woman is talking to numerous guys and has dating apps as a constant ego boost. There's literally zero point in dating for young men besides how messed up things are financially, which makes things even more insane because men are still expected to fulfil provider roles. I had to approach my boyfriend carefully and have him make sure I wasn't a threat to his happiness, like the very fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI've said many times women will date a drug dealer before a guy working in retail, it's just the dominance hierarchy. Men do the same thing but tend to prefer women lower than them, which works out fine because women prefer men above them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | It is embarrassing to be a left-wing maleLevel of indoctrination * | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:26 PM |
| 0 | It is embarrassing to be a left-wing maleStolen election and false, your economy was tanked by the democratic party and is on it's way to somewhat recovering. Stop lying, you're only serving to help the billionaires exploiting your sheepishness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:48 AM |
| 0 | It is embarrassing to be a left-wing maleBecause they infiltrated and infested government bodies via cowardly and snakish means, proceeding to destroy the average every day persons life while brain washed urbanites tell us we somehow deserve it Hence why trump and other far right leaders have and will continue will to be appointed throughout western society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:54 PM |
| 5 | The Male Loneliness EpidemicThey're benchmarked differently, we're much more social creatures and society as an extension of our nature gives us more opportunities socially, whether that's romantic or just basic support, it'll always be this way. Sure it's relative but just because when I was a 'femcel' I could pick up my phone and find a good looking guy to take care of me for the steep price of cooking and cleaning with the occasional blowjob doesn't mean I wasn't crushingly depressed, that's simply not what I wanted. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 12:49 AM |
| 2 | It is embarrassing to be a left-wing maleYea, and they lost in the long run every single time lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Men are so desperate it's patheticIf you replaced men with women this post would most likely get deleted. What's truly pathetic is allowing men to be put in the position they're in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate?Gross, it goes both ways. You have no idea how many women and men give them selves death grip and make excuses for it. I can orgasm completely fine from normal sex, as can my partner it's a lot easier than coomers make it out to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 12:08 PM |
| 13 | Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman.Fat women still get sex whenever they want, it's not comparable lol Social awkwardness is fine, my boyfriend is literally autistic. But being socially awkward sure as hell doesn't help if you're a below average-average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 01:09 PM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Wtf do you expect them to do? jack off. Men have testosterone, they get horny. I'd lose my mind if I didn't have regular sex. Not to mention I know women that have dumped guys because they stopped having sex with them, usually because they lost attraction (they got fat) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Positive MasculinityMasculinity in general is positive, it's the engine of the human species that drove us forward. Women want masculine men, just some of them don't admit it because they've been socially engineered into doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men?It's not really a matter of "like", it's just heavier women are easier for the fit guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 12:56 AM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of never stop datingMen need to have regular sex or they'll look for it elsewhere, or at least they'll invest less of them selves into a relationship. When I see a lot of divorce/cheating statistics they seem to indicate that there's a lack of intimacy, at least going by the ages they peak. Regular sex = happy man happy man = treats you well = happy wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenI've brought this up before, proposed the question to average every day guys and they literally do not care. The average man doesn't have enough dating opportunities to be picky about a woman's income lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?progressive women don't find progressive men attractive, at the very least they want somewhat liberal men that look republican. Most women become more conservative with age, especially around when they want to get married, probably for that reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Women who date men: What would hurt more—your male partner cheating with a woman or a man? And why?If it was a woman I'd just self delete, if it was a man and I'd just be severely confused, like if he was the top I'd probably get over it with some work... maybe but if he was the bottom I'd never be able to look him at him again. This is so funny to me idk why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Unless its family, youre not getting unconditional love.I don't think marriage statistics reflect the dating world for us younger people at all, even considering socioeconomic factors things are intensely different compared to when it was for the average man who is literally almost 40 in the US. That being said I unconditionally love my partner, I gave up everything to be with him and I'd do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Women can be attracted to you but until they see another girl interested have no interest in pursuing or being receptive to engaging with youSocial media is a big thing for a lot of women in the west, if you don't use at least one or two platforms your dating options will be very limited as a young man. It's not as a big deal where I live though. Said before my ears really perked up when I heard other girls talking about my partner in a positive light. We're much more social creatures than men and dating is inherently much more dangerous given men are immeasurably stronger. Safety is an actual point we have to consider, if we have ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsDivorce rates in all the countries I've lived have been very low. Even when I lived in Ireland divorce rates were still relatively low, at least in rural areas. This is very much a social issue, America has a very self serving individualist culture, it's not just the men either I see women in this thread parroting the same rhetoric as the men. To cultures outside of the US we see a lot "me me me me me". Marriage is one singular thing, you can't change it to suit you. If you don't want to do, don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | If you have a roster, do the men you’re dating know they are on a roster?only redditors would think this is okay, everyone I know would think this is revolting, regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.It's a need, I know women that have ended relationships because they were "sexual beings" and their partners stopped having as much intimacy with them (usually because they gained weight and they lost some attraction) They were only encouraged to do so. I wouldn't be in a relationship if I wasn't having regular sex. Can we please cut out the bullcrap, both men and women need sex. We go frickin' crazy without it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Young men are an absolute nightmare, most men my age haven't even finished developing physically or mentally. Plus they're absolutely fried from porn and the likes They just don't make me feel safe ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?They are, most of which are older. they just refuse to admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?It's much easier for women to hook up, it's still harder for men to actually get a hooker than it is for a woman to hookup considering legality and money. I think it's comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:36 PM |
| 9 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?So are most women? the average man and woman these days is old and fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:35 PM |
| 19 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Still prefer older. We'd go even older if we weren't constantly shamed about it by other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:17 PM |
| 39 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Yea this is what people here can't admit, a lot of women on here are misandrists that can't stand the fact that the older men get, the more options they tend to have. So they deny that women find older men attractive, despite most of them dating older men. It definitely skews the stats My boyfriends almost ten years my senior, I think the smallest age gap in my immediate circle is 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:48 PM |
| 27 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?There's plenty of needles but why not pick the sharpest one. I find the average everyday man attractive, most men I've met in the past I've said to my self "yea, he'll do" but why would I settle for that when I could do better. That's the beauty of an abundance of options, whereas for average men it's more of a first come first serve kind of deal, it's not about the quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?Yes, most women will say its a big dealbreaker but if a woman's done hook ups before still opposes it it's unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:41 PM |
| -4 | Why old school patriarchy worked and feminists are wrongLol yea, the elite weren't exactly complaining that the work space was about to essentially double. There's a reason so many massive corporations actually encouraged women and other groups entering the work space. More cogs in the capitalist meat grinder for FREE??? sign me up :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Do women with brothers understand the struggles of men betterOkay? most young people can't lol. Basically anyone over 30 that uses this subreddit has literally no concept of how brutal the world is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItYes they are? even in more progressive areas where young women earn more than their male counterparts women still date guys that earn more, even if the gap is smaller than it was before it's still there. That's just a measurable factor, not even considering looks. I personally believe hypergamy exists, statistics reflect it as does the observable world, it's just hard wired into female biology. I like traditional relationship dynamics, my boyfriend is the leader so naturally I'm below him in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Do women with brothers understand the struggles of men betterYes, I have a couple brothers and a sister. Having an autistic boyfriend was also very enlightening. I was torn a part when I realised how disgustingly short sighted I was in my femcel era, I feel immense guilt almost daily and that probably fuels my 'pick me' activities on here. The average woman wouldn't last one month as an average man, they can't even comprehend just how crushingly intensive it is mentally and physically, and they ESPECIALLY can't grasp how lonely it is romantically. My boyf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:40 AM |
| -2 | at which point misandry starts?College/Universities in the West | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 06:29 PM |
| 7 | How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut?My boyfriend will be thirty in a couple years and he's a lot less brain rotted in general , compared to guys my age. Its absolutely essential for us to 'put out' now or we get treated like shit, it's all down to porn brain. Guys will give the most bizarre and specific instructions and need a constant stream of nudes just to remain stimulated, otherwise they'll just find porn it's insane. It was much more difficult than it should have been to find a guy that'll take a tasteful nude when I'm feeli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 03:06 AM |
| 6 | How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut?How old are you? I'm 20 and I can assure you that women very much are consuming porn. They're a lot more open about it than men too, I'd imagine because it's just seen as quirky with women but we've began shaming men more for it. Women in my college would literally follow pornographic twitters and openly talk about what they were doing with guys in gritty details. Granted this was in Ireland and I have heard that Irish women are particularly aggressive/open with these kind of things. Don't get m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 11:46 AM |
| 0 | How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut?I don't, they're very comparable. One is just a lot more socially acceptable. I think they both are intensely harmful and distort peoples expectations. Most men aren't constantly sweaty 6'6 millionaires with gigantic penises, most women aren't bimbos with lip filler that like plucking pubes out their teeth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsPosts like this stem from the individualist cultures spreading in the west, especially the US. Humans are not as special or unique as we like to think we are, yes there are outliers but people are more alike than they are different. Have you even been to a bar/club? the vast majority of people talk in the same way, do the same things, have similar hobbies, have the same clothes, use the same slang. Women in particular are particularly similar, when I lived back in Ireland and I went to a bar lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItBiology and safety, the first time my ears perked up in regards to my bf was hearing other girls speak his praises. Women are much more social creatures, we're almost opposites in some regards. Not to mention it's good to have some validation that he's not insane and could seriously hurt us. Men fantasise about lonely girl next door types with little to no social media presence, as one of those girls I was looking for the traditionally masculine good man that people respect. People really need t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withMen have much higher rates of reactiveness, if they feel wronged for example they're much more likely to resort to their brute strength. Which isn't any better or worse than the more female approach, passive aggressiveness and the likes can be just as dangerous in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withThere's far more pressure on men to 'be the man', this does not gel well with the fact men have less support and more pressure to be providers. It's not just men that push these outdated architypes it's perpetuated by women just as much if not more, as much as they refuse to admit it. People get very quiet when you apply the crime rate/poverty/struggle correlation to men as a whole, men are objectively less developed in most the west. Maybe if we spent more time focusing on dismantling these hor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 11:34 PM |
| 4 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.The difference between male and female lonliness really dawned on me when I met my boyfriend, that and my brothers moving into adulthood. I used to hang around in femcel spaces where the girls basically just pooped on men 24/7 but they mostly had boyfriends? the ones that didn't kept around the tall toxic tattooed guys they complained about and fought over them. Thankfully I escaped that rabbit hole when I met my partner and he soothed out a lot of admittedly toxic and downright gross beliefs I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:10 PM |
| 5 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Imposing female psychology onto men, this has only become a thing recently but it's absolutely out of control. T | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious TruthI have no issue with any of those things, I've been fairly open with my distain for feminism. I know plenty of women that openly acknowledge are shortcomings but you just call us pick Me's, even though I have a beautiful gigantic boyfriend that I love and have zero interest in appealing to men, I just don't want my sons and siblings to suffer like the young men around me are. Both men and women's ideals are typically instinctual. That doesn't mean there's room for wiggle room of course there is,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious TruthWomen like tall men, men like smally dainty things. It's just nature, it's why sexual dimorphism exists. Every time a tall man with a big deep booming voice walks into a room our brains go "must boink", regardless of his socioeconomic status, looks, personality etc. It's just silly monke brain that ALL humans have. When a young beautiful woman walks in a room men do the exact same thing, it doesn't mean they actually go through with it. It's what separates us from animals. Women care more about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 01:16 PM |
| – | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.Thanks I'll have a gander at these later, that being said "nuance" pill clearly isn't very nuanced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.I think dating apps are an extension of real world dating now, look up just how many couples met through the internet. Recently at a house warming party I sat with my boyfriend and his friends the smallest guy of the group was just drunkenly swiping and didn't get a single match. I have a suspicion that this 80/20 rule the blackpill community pulls up may correlate with height, only like 20-15% of men are 6ft or over, and that seems to be the cut off for dating success in real life and especiall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 12:42 AM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeDon't lead with an anecdote, you use an anecdote on the tail end of facts/statistics. First of all women make up the majority of spending, second of all women are more likely to go in debt. The statistics are widely available to you. My grandfather controlled finances because my mother rapidly put us in debt, the average relationships still has men paying most the bills because women tend to use their wages to buy things THEY want. I'm pretty sure this is where the term girl maths stems from. My… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:26 PM |
| 0 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:18 PM |
| – | Men having to supress their own enjoyment/desire is largely overlooked.Aren't women in some places in the west having more sex than their male counterparts? they cheat just as much and young women actually cheat more than their male counterparts now. There's an entire sex toy industry tailored towards women; the vast majority of sex toy purchases are made by women too. Women pretend to be prude because societal shame or they want to pretend they're superior in men in the sense they can exercise self control, a lot of the women on this subreddit are older, and maybe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 01:09 PM |
| – | Men having to supress their own enjoyment/desire is largely overlooked.I think the lust gap between young men and women is smaller than people make it out to be, we just suppress it because it's much more dangerous for us. When we see a tall man enter a room our brains go "must boink", just as men would when they see a cute woman come in. In regards to the femdom thing, I hung around in a lot of femcel servers and most of these 'dominant' women are just misandrists, they'll talk about how much they like twinks and submissive men but they were still fighting over th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 12:39 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegalShe shouldn't get any money? you're not entitled to other peoples things. Marriage is for love, not possessions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?I grew up pretty self conscious because I was raised in a hyper masculine household, which led me to me lending more masculine character traits; got me absolutely horrifically bullied by other women, right into the workspace. I ended up dropping out and becoming a housewife, this is my idea of freedom and it's what I've always wanted to be. I was a bit of a bitter femcel at one point but I came to terms with the fact that it's mostly women and gay men that instil most these arbitrary standards f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?I really can't see that happening, and if it did it'd be a disaster for mankind. I'm not trying to be rude here but do your beliefs stem from being a smaller man? do you believe the quality of life will improve if there was a less stern definition of masculinity, which demands men be stoic, brutish and mountainous creatures in order to be adequate to women? Even the most progressive women still generally demand these traditionally masculine men, what would you say to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?Society compliments our differences and is an extension of our nature. Going against it is what's causing so many issues with young men and women. You can't rewire nature, unless you're going to get an entire generation on hormone replacement therapy I guess, which honestly at this point that would not surprise me if it was an end goal for a lot of these people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?Men and women are different and that's fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:08 AM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageNo. Both men and women with more partners consistently have higher cheating and divorce rates. This post is the equivalent of a 38 year old man that's never had a job saying they're actually the good guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:54 AM |
| 22 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.Who would have thought that putting an entire generation of young men under a microscope of critique would have them turning not only more 'right wing', but actually spiteful, just like the women that have made their lives measurably worse than the generations of men before them. It's really sad because men have actually improved, a lot of them have made a conscious effort to be better, but have women? no they still hold men to the outdated standards that women supposedly wanted dissolved, but o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Mostly agreed, I think it's fine to be friends with your bfs friends though; I doubt most men would mind this. Never had any bad experiences with my bfs friends they've just been really nice and cool guys, never overstepped or anything. Probably helps most of them have GFs and kids though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:21 PM |
| 15 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyI hear this all the time now, for the men that are dropping out of dating anyway. I've genuinely lost count on how many times I've heard guys saying they can't be bothered because the girls they're talking to are talking to several guys. In the west the average young woman is talking to numerous guys whereas the average guy is lucky to even to be talking to one, it's just bizarre. Even in relationships there's a huge double standard, women can and will vocally complain to their partners if they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Dear ladies: Which signs about a man screams "I'm a cheater"?Body count and having a lot of girls around, I hate that this can even be controversial. The same goes for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Dear ladies: Which signs about a man screams "I'm a cheater"?Oh God I'm sorry you had to go through with this, I'd say projection is the key. My bfs ex gf behaved EXACTLY like this, like she'd be constantly going through his things only to find nothing. Then he accidentally stumbled across her texting multiple guys, like with zero shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Women who complain about being infantilized should police other women for wanting to be infantsYou have no idea how many women I've met, especially back when I was in femcel servers that still wanted to be infantilised despite apparently hating men. The truth is they just hate average men, they still want to be cradled and babied by a 6'2 toxic e-boy with leg tattoos. (Yes I actually saw this happen in real time, literally fighting over him) We like feeling small and safe, I can't explain it. It just feels nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menYes, I like traditional/natural roles; he's a provider and a really good guy. He should be earning at least twice the wages he does, like his parents did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:51 AM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menWhat? my boyfriends one of the cogs not the greedy machinist XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?I heard a lot of women complaining because a gay club/bar they used to go to got infested by men after finding out that's where the women were going. I feel like this is the case in most countries, women that don't want to get hit on are just going to gay clubs. I don't like clubs though so I don't really know about the dangers, I got hit on a lot when I lived in Europe though. Plus I think it's single behaviour, if I was being dragged to one I'd make a compromise for a gay club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menHe's a labourer, we started dating while he was still living at home well into his 20's so he was able to accumulate enough money to build us a bungalow on his families property. We don't have to pay rent or a mortgage, just pretty insignificant bills. Rural areas are a lot cheaper (and better in every single metric) We live comfortably and I'm very blessed. I think this is where the future is going, more and more people are realising moving away from home to an urban hellhole only to become a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:45 AM |
| 2 | It's acceptable to direct infantilizing insults at men, but not at women, and that double standard is weirdOne of the most common phrases I hear is "big boy job", I can't imagine how infuriating that phrase is, probably almost as annoying as short king. My friends ex and his sister always talked about guys getting big boy jobs, indirectly trying to encourage my bf to pursue a more lucrative career. I guess him putting his back out before 30 in hard manual labour isn't a big boy job anymore lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:36 AM |
| 3 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ?It's not a myth, while the gap isn't massive people in urban areas, at least in all the countries I've lived have had higher cheating statistics. Urban areas obviously being more liberal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to peggingIf someone asks to peg you run, if someone asks you to peg them... run. You have no idea how relieved I was to find my boyfriend GREATLY opposes these kind of things, it's a symptom of misandry or porn brain rot. Anyways bait aside, female perspective If my boyfriend was extra sweet to his ex and always had sex with her then didn't do that for me I'd be intensely upset, I wouldn't just feel like I wasn't good enough, I'd straight up leave. If a woman somehow rationalises that she won't treat you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 10:16 AM |
| 3 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menSure they'll look at them and think they look nice but dating wise the average man would much rather be with the timid and unpopular girl than the Instagram bimbo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menMen are attracted to women around or below their own level generally, they were matching with you because you're average-below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:42 PM |
| 7 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menYep, women prefer men in more traditionally masculine roles. It's one of the main reasons men are struggling with dating, women won't date a guy working in retail even if he out earns a spark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 15 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menFeminism isn't your friend, it's a greedy capitalist ploy that had employers licking their lips knowing the work space was about to double. You think women are more free than they were before? weird because the average every day woman AND man can't live comfortably alone, just now they don't even have the freedom to stay at home and actually raise their children without state intervention. When I lived in the west it was in the countries constitution that women shouldn't have to work, even when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:16 PM |
| 30 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menI think the state of feminism really reflects how a lot of western women think about men, I haven't seen a single thing about feminism doing anything to help normal everyday working class men, in fact it's served to actually make their lives noticeably worse. It's like the average every day guy just doesn't register to them, they just don't exist. Anytime you bring up their struggles it's instantly dismissed it's actually insane. Dismantling the patriarchy really translated to more women sliding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:52 PM |
| 4 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearGood luck being single in a time where everything is priced for a dual earning household lol, the work force has essentially doubled and is ever expanding; wages are only going to get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childYou shouldn't need a test to know a kid is yours, genetics are genetics. I can take one look at my siblings and know who the father is lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 03:03 PM |
| 14 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childThis is an insanely bad idea, a lot of women that were purposely holding onto their virginity see it as a virtue; if you question this you're going to really hurt her. You're going to get dumped, I don't think you realise how fortunate you are in your position; especially if you live in Europe or the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 12:57 PM |
| 14 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childDon't get why men are getting with women they think would need a paternity test in the first place, if you do this you're part of the problem. Stop hitting up bops lol I was a virgin before meeting my BF, at no point have these thoughts even crossed his mind. I'm not saying you need to go for complete trad virgin waifus but have some self respect and stop giving attention to women with high body counts, it's literally statistically proven they're more and more likely to cheat on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Is it common for women to have had a negative experience with an autistic man in their life?Autistic men are what made me come out of the toxic misandrist/femcel spaces, part of maturing is realising real men are just big silly softies. It also made me realise just how harsh life is for these men, they're just suffering in silence. I think basically all men are autistic in some capacity, at least real men. If I sat down all the men in my area down to do a screening test I'm certain they'd all come back with a fairly certain score xD That being said no, my partner is autistic, his frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.Even in 'egalitarian" relationships the men generally still earn more though, and it's harder for young men to make more than young women in areas where these 'egalitarian' relationships are more frequent, even egalitarian women are looking for a very small subset of men that earn more than them, a smaller group of men than generations prior. There's places in the west, like say London where things like HR and retail are expanding and more traditional masculine roles are on the decline, even the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 12:20 PM |
| – | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI've said before I think most these threads are made by incels trying to purposely send young women on the wrong path just they suffer later on, or it's bitter older women/femcels trying to make sure other women are just as miserable as them. Do not listen to these people, find your self a nice normal guy that makes you happy. These nice normal guys won't be there for you to pick up the pieces anymore, the internet has made these men far too aware of this strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 10:35 PM |
| 5 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.Then why are women still not dating guys below/on their level financially or age wise, you're still dating upwards. Plus women are dating more than men, regardless of those incel rage bait statistics they still all indicate that women are less likely to be alone or living at home regardless of how small the gap is lol It's just a lie, like at least I'm honest about not working; I'm completely dependant on my boyfriend and I see no shame in it. But lying about not needing men while simultaneously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 01:16 PM |
| – | Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards.How does one increase SMV? I'd argue it's inherit, my boyfriend is an everyday rural labourer, an absolute giant of a man. To 99% of women he's going to have a higher 'SMV' than any little urban guy, regardless of how hard they workout or how much they make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 08:30 AM |
| 6 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.Okay that's a bluff, women are still economically dependant on men, even in urban settings in the US where young women are out earning their young male counterparts they're STILL generally dating men that earn more than them. Not to mention women are more likely to go in debt, women do the vast amount of spending in general, I know plenty of Women that literally just blow their wages within days then depend on their man to pay the bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 08:19 AM |
| 10 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.While psychopathic men are obviously doing better than the average man, they always have and always will you really lost credibility when you referred to 18 year olds as "fresh" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Women try to dismiss their delusional entitlement by saying “women should be able to date who they want” despite the obvious fact that literally no one is suggesting otherwiseWhy are people so worked up over people with insane standards, delusional standards represent a delusional person, why would you want to be with someone that's clearly not all there mentally? The only women I knew with insane standards were femcels back when I hung out in those circles, the average every day woman can't tell the difference between 5'9 and 6ft, she knows the average guy is balding and chubby because she goes outside. My bfs best friend is around 5'8, height is the most important … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 01:46 PM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?Because men are still expected to be stoic, complaining is unattractive to women, it's inherently feminine behaviour. Just like how audibly farting in public is inherently masculine behaviour, doubt men would find women that partake in farting in public attractive. This is a gross over simplification, but it's the gist; society or biology (or both) wires us to tell men to just get on with it. It works, you'll have better dating prospects if you spend less time complaining and more time just tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 12:39 AM |
| 7 | In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome.I agree, I picked my partner; I just dropped hints that I'd like him to pursue me but he didn't because he's silly and autistic so I had to actually ask him. Women usually make it quite obvious if they like you, if this isn't happening to you then you're just unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question; what do you want me, a random guy, to say/feel when you brought up a problem about men and/or gender inequality?Because traditional masculine roles are still in full swing and feminism has made little to no effort to deconstruct outdated standards for men, men are still expected to pursue a provider/leader like role. I've said before more men on here would get laid if they were more stone faced and just got on with it. It's not fair I know, but It's just how things are. Conservatives are having more sex and reproducing more for this reason, traditional stoic men are still the most sought after. Even among… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 07:59 AM |
| 7 | Genuine question; what do you want me, a random guy, to say/feel when you brought up a problem about men and/or gender inequality?I'm going to let you in on a secret that a lot of young men tend to find out the hard way. We don't really want you to say anything beyond "damn, that sucks". We like to complain and have our feelings validated, you don't need to apoligse or try save the world; we just want you to listen. It's a lot more socially acceptable for women to bash men in their entirety, it's not fair and we know that but life isn't fair. I don't make the rules, I don't care whether it's biological or not we just like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 11:17 PM |
| -1 | True alpha men are extremely rareproud owner of an alpha bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What kind of porn would make you uncomfartable knowing your partner is watching them?Not too bothered, as long as it's tame and isn't harmful to women/inflate beauty standards unrealistically. My boyfriend only 'uses' things I've personally taken though, it's a win win. I think this goes both ways though, I don't read romance novels or the likes that also contribute to unrealistic standards and he sends me things too. It's nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationBut younger women earn more than their male counterparts and are still dating up financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Most marital problems happen because men love their wives.Most marital and relationship issues persist because of promiscuity, cheating AND divorce rates increase more depending on the amount of partners both the male or female has had. Funny read though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Going for a hard disagree here, I've said many times I was bullied horrifically by women growing up for exhibiting a lot of manlier traits so I'm biased. That being said while men absolutely can exhibit borderline thuggish behaviour at much higher rates than women I think a lot of it boils down to men being rewarded for acting in accordance with a lot of historically toxic parts of masculinity, even by women admittedly. When women do good we're rewarded for it, we need other people to know that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 11:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationIt doesn't change anything, across the board women generally only date men that earn more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 10:27 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationTo be fair, this is because they can't get laid with women their own level so they go for women that would be physically or financially below them by societies standards under the assumption they'll be easier, and yea that is generally true. Hookers also yea, because they can't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 09:15 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationEven egalitarian women refuse to date guys that don't make noticeably more, even with young women earning more than their male counterparts for less work. "Across all opposite-sex marriages in 2022, the median earnings for wives were $35,000 while husbands earned a median of $65,000. By definition, in egalitarian marriages, spouses' earnings are similar to one another. Today, wives in egalitarian marriages earn $60,000 at the median, while husbands earn $62,000" I'd assume this is what he means … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 09:13 PM |
| – | Generally speaking, women are bad at taking initiative.Yea this is an area women need to improve on, I approached my boyfriend and while men are difficult to flirt with because they take everything literally I still managed to do it, I just had to be brave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 12:50 PM |
| 17 | Generally speaking, women are bad at taking initiative.This, one of the main reasons I've mostly kept male company. I was raised in a predominantly male household with blatantly autistic men so it's just how I speak, never had an issue with a man and given my boyfriends autistic he actually appreciates my forwardness. Meanwhile there were still rumours of me being a lesbian or just a "snarky bitch" being spread behind my back well into adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 12:48 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?Would you really want to be with those kinds of women though? those women are obviously using him anyway. He's a weedy 6'3, he just has an awkward ratty build and face and a high pitched irritating voice it's difficult to describe, like my bfs friend is 5'8 but he looks more respectful? plus he has a big booming voice. I am biased though, me and my friends like big bois, my bf is closer to 7ft than 6ft and probably around 275lbs at the very least. But I do find shorter/average guys attractive so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:26 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?Generally women want these things but that's not to say that just because you have these things you won't be gross, like Andrew Tate has(had) those things and he's repulsive, he's bald and just ratty and small looking. We like assertiveness sure but in his case it's very clearly fake, it's all an act. My boyfriend has none of those things besides maybe being assertive, he's also bald but he very much fits the 'female gaze', he's a brutish, towering and caring figure that everyone around here ado… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesIt's too expensive and fast paced to be alone these days, you need a partner unless you want to barely get by OR live at home/in a house share. I was an extremely bitter femcel before I met my gigantic kratos bf, he sooths me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 11:01 PM |
| 3 | When people say men’s issues are “mental health,” what exactly do men need to get mentally healthy that’s different from what women need?The issue is that they're still punished for straying away from this standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?They do and it's not even close. Pregnancy made me much more prepared to admit what most of us already know but won't say out loud, happens with most women. It's only human to think you have it worse than others, but seeing the way my brothers are struggling through no fault of their own in areas I never even did for a second made it very apparent. Hearing my boyfriends struggles and the idea of my sons going through the same almost brings me to tears some times. The truth is we can't even compr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?I've spoken to guys before about stuff like this, I think a big reason is because men want to date practically. It's insanely difficult to word, it's just the way they're wired. Men might look at a really hot girl and enjoy them visually, but the practical part of the male brain just says "but she'd be a nightmare". In the sense they'll be much more physically, mentally and financially demanding than they'd want them to be, men don't like fighting for partners the same way we do either; men real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Has Mandatory Use of Dating Apps Changed the Game?He has a buzzcut and a big bushy beard. Plus he's a giant with a lovely booming voice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Society can actually fix dating. And this can happen voluntarily and does not require violenceIs this really about freedom? most the people on this subreddit seem fairly pro authoritarian assuming it's advantageous to them. Throughout history it's believed most men didn't reproduce, most women did. Only in a small pocket of history did men have almost the same reproductive opportunities as women, it's very possible that the reproductive gender gap will widen again. It shouldn't need to be said, but this is not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 12:03 AM |
| – | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.I'm going to tell you a secret OP, the only people that care about this stuff are bitter old misandrists that can't stomach men doing well in any capacity. Men's dating prospects and quality of life tend to peak later, these women don't want that happening; they want them to suffer as much they did in their 20's for their entire lives. Nobody cares IRL, most my friends are dating guys that are at least 4-5 years older and this is only going to increase until either the cost of living and housing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.lol, yea it's totally nothing to do with younger women having tamer and less grossly outdated financial and living expectations than older women, it's totally to do with men being predatorial Older women date even older men, the age gap only grows more with time lmao which reflects exactly what I said in the first paragraph. But somehow that's not predatory behaviour? going for men you supposedly find gross because of their resources Anyways, younger people are much more open minded when it come… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Has Mandatory Use of Dating Apps Changed the Game?chad is lame and small, I found me a kratos bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.I'm not from the US and such, a lot of these phrases are alien to me. I know some Irish ones that's it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:23 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismthe government giving people what they want? in 2024/5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Redpill or any other similar content is pure griftWhy do people bring up intelligence, most my friends like a bit of silliness in their men. Smart people are more likely to be miserable and make others miserable They might make more money sure, but people with more money are also more likely to be assholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Get on what!?? is this a phrase? I mean your brain never stops developing, it just develops more rapidly up to a point Assuming you don't abuse a lot of drugs ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.WHAT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is it some men both simultaneously look down on women but also seem to want their approval for everything like we are their mommy?This is why women love Irishmen, love their mammies. Mommy issues are so damn real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:56 AM |
| – | At what age does a man living with his parents becomes a red flag, ick or deal breaker?Yep, a lot of the old heads on here don't get just how brutal it is right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:20 AM |
| – | At what age does a man living with his parents becomes a red flag, ick or deal breaker?Nowadays, never. It's just an unfair and outdated standard. It's more financially viable for young men to stay at home right now, but they can't win either way, he's either going to be struggling and barely surviving, which most women consider undatable or stay at home and at least keep his wages, which is still undatable. The world is changing, we're going to see a shift towards generational housing again; I know plenty of grown men in their 20's with degrees stuck at home through no fault of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Dude, the women on here are overwhelmingly closet misandrists just like the men are misogynists. Most of us figured this out a long time ago and that's why there's women 'coping' with the le "old men are actually gross its just they like younger women". It's because they feel bitter about men's dating prospects and general quality of life increasing with age, whereas women tend to 'peak' earlier. They just can't stomach men potentially not suffering. Ironically if you ask any of these women how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Yea even to this day a lot of women are deeply insecure about it. Bizarrely this kind of extended to men too, remember not so long ago men were clean shaven and some even shaved their chests and legs. Now facial hair is back as the norm. I'm all for it, as someone that loves bearish men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.I didn't think you meant me in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.If women my age wherever you're from want to fight over the same small fraction of guys their age that have decent jobs and their own homes then cool. But then you can't complain about women all wanting the top whatever % of men Most women like older men whether that's a small gap or not it doesn't matter, I pursued him. Most my friends are dating guys at least 5 years older than them. It's the norm in most places, the age gap only grows with age too as women begin seeking out men that have accu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.I'm starting to realise slay means something different between men and women lol. Yea especially since people were a little smaller too, a lot of men would be giants back then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.I'm 20, most my friends are like 21-32. Bf is almost 30. Imo same age group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:13 PM |
| 15 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Neurotypical humans are intensely easily manipulated by their surroundings, especially in an age when media dominates every aspect of peoples lives. Moustaches were seen as gross and creepy all my life until they became popular in a couple movies/shows and now they're a massive sex symbol in guys my age now. I swear to God I know perfectly pretty and well adjusted women that will go crazy over literally the most average guy with a moustache. Another example is the recent emphasis placed on men's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Men and women don't understand each other, but smugly pretend to have the other completely figured out, locking the other gender into small boxes.lmao yea, this is where I first picked it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:58 PM |
| – | Men and women don't understand each other, but smugly pretend to have the other completely figured out, locking the other gender into small boxes.If women want to understand men more they need to treat them like they're all basically autistic, seriously it starts making a lot more sense. Not saying this as a dig, I love men; you big gigantic silly autists <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:23 PM |
| 17 | Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II)A lot of this is cultural/locational. where I'm from people leave their doors open all day. People leave their kids to be watched by strangers with no second thought. I can go out at night alone just fine. Even when alone with men I feel protected not fearful, actually massively prefer the company over my female counterparts too but that's probably jus how I was raised. Wasn't uncommon for random guys to offer me a ride home a few years ago and it was always pleasant, everyone around here knows … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 03:31 PM |
| – | The problem with assuming men can’t get dates because they’re “not nice enough and misogynistic” is that nobody acts moral 100% of the time.Yes but the difference is they're tall and hot. Incels aren't. Sorry not sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.What? you do realise they had an actual civil war that ended only a couple decades ago? what do you think they were fighting with... their fists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 11:52 AM |
| – | Is this the ideal/typical female strategy to get a boyfriendWell it's worth considering I've only really lived in Ireland and Eastern Europe, the men are kind of known for being very stoic. I've been to the US and England where the men there were completely different socially. They came across as a lot more expressive and almost flamboyant. Granted obviously even that is going to change on a state by state basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 12:53 PM |
| – | Is this the ideal/typical female strategy to get a boyfriendMy advice to women is to treat every man like he's autistic, I'm fairly certain if most men took an autism screening test it'd tell them they're pretty damn autistic anyway. We're natures selectors sure, but we have to drop them some pretty clear hints; they're not like us they don't really do subtilty. I even sat on my bfs lap once before we started dating and he still wasn't sure if I liked him. That's what you're going to have to deal with. It's infuriating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 12:40 PM |
| -1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.No but I'd love to see someone try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.I have literally never seen this happen and I've lived in rural Ireland and now I'm back in Eastern Europe; the two places reknown for pubs and brawls. If someone even raised their voice at me in either there would be a group of 6ft men dragging him out of the place within seconds. The Irish in particular thrive on confrontationit's really fucking hot Men are still men in some places | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 12:07 PM |
| – | "You can change your weight, but we can't change our height" is a failed attempt to shame women's preferences"Will outgrow it" please don't hate me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 07:42 PM |
| -1 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.I mentioned weight, not height. Which in most cases, is under ones control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:39 AM |
| -3 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.Comparing someone to an elder scrolls character? damn that must be the worst thing to happen to anyone ever, especially when it wasn't targeted towards an individual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:33 AM |
| -3 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.height is law is very funny. Men like small and dainty things, women like big and strong things. It's just how it is, I don't know any women that would deny this outside of reddit. That being said it doesn't just have to be height, it can be broad shoulders, a big deep voice, big pawish hands, some girls even like big noses. Even when it comes to my boyfriends friend he's still very much a real man, he's short but he's still a big guy to most men and women, he must be at least 200lbs, has a big … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.I mean I live in eastern Europe but yea generally conservative people are simpler, happier and have more sex, therefore more children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.Yea don't do that it'll just ruin you. My boyfriends friend started going down the cel rabbit hole because of his lack of success on tinder and the likes. That being said his friend is in the 5'6-5'7 range, which in my country is about the equivalent to 5'2-5'3, so there's hope. Get some tattoos n stuff, grow a beard if you can. Women in my age group love those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:42 PM |
| -8 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.I like real men, not 130lb sticks with goofy adoring fan eyes that men in these spaces think women like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.Most normal people, especially in rural areas want children. It's the greatest part of life, it's what it's all about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic.I don't need people to infantilise me, I do it my self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:30 PM |
| 9 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.Dating's apps are all about height, my boyfriends friend is very short for our country and literally got zero matches despite being way above average. Don't use these apps they'll destroy your self esteem, do what he did and talk to girls in bars and stuff, he now has a girlfriend and two children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 19 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.My boyfriend told me about this, the girls at his work love him and they'll casually just sit swiping on hinge or whatever together while vaping, asking him opinions on the guys at times. Have to admit it's very funny, a gigantic autistic man joining in on girlies swipe session | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Why can't fkboys simply be non-negociable?Never did anything casual, found a man that hasn't either. It's what I needed and I'm glad I held out because he said he wouldn't date someone that's ever done anything casual. I'd be quite conservative for western standards so this is fair imo Doesn't seem hard to find men that haven't done anything casual, the only guys I knew back in Ireland that did casual stuff were so blatant, the lanky tall guys with nice hair and some tattoos with some 'dirty' facial hair. Literally every single time wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 01:43 AM |
| 2 | About women's disdain for typical femdom content.I think pay should match the risk factor/physical intensity level, I'm pretty certain the reason most young men are single and most women aren't is financial, no matter what we do most women instinctively will seek out men that earn more, even women on this subreddit will try justify that they need to date a man with a high paying job (even though there's actual statistics that show these men don't make better partners but they conveniently forget this) It's harder than ever to make an increment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:55 PM |
| 4 | About women's disdain for typical femdom content.I'm sure there are women that fit the bill but it'd take a lot more effort for them to keep up, and all the flowers to the girls that actually do. My boyfriend works a pretty intensive job and it's literally all men, they had one woman work with them and she burst into tears on the first day. Keep in mind this was a BIG woman too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:33 PM |
| 6 | About women's disdain for typical femdom content.We have stronger immune systems I guess but that's it, a lot of men into this kind of stuff are usually quite timid/small so maybe they impose them selves on other men? It's insane and terrifying how strong men are, grew up around mostly men and I got humbled pretty quickly when it came to toy fighting :') | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | About women's disdain for typical femdom content.Maybe, my boyfriend dealt with one of these girls and it really messed him up so I'm particularly defensive when it comes to this topic. Just be careful and good luck x, especially if you're autistic or generally just like my bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | About women's disdain for typical femdom content.The only women into these kind of things have unresolved trauma that's made them intensely misandrist, they don't want to make you feel good, they want to take out their hatred of men on you and humiliate you. They're usually extremely predatory too, seeking out mentally ill guys with low self esteem or even more vulnerable people like autistic men. Btw these women want twinks sure, but those twinks are still usually insanely tall, just very skinny. I used to hang out in femcel spaces and all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:54 PM |
| -4 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeI've never been rejected but I only ever pursued one man, gotta play it safe. If I got rejected I'd probably just go live in the wilderness ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveI live in the east, my boyfriend is an autistic bald guy that earns borderline minimum wage, my friends boyfriend doesn't even work, my other friends boyfriend sells things online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 06:38 PM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.They already do, who do you think liberal women are sleeping with? it's not the liberal men lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?bless you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?inb4 he gets pegged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?No, left wing women will continue not to date left wing men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:54 AM |
| – | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseWtf is the 4b movement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 02:58 AM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?Just out of curiosity do you prefer virgin men because of moral alignment or is it more of a kink (I absolutely hate this word I'm sorry, I couldn't think of alternative word) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:49 AM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?He's somewhat religious, it's something he only really got into recently and it's been very good for him. I'd imagine he would have been a lot more reserved if we met later. I'm also slightly religious, also a recent development. Always had quite traditional beliefs but I think I have messed up hormones or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:45 AM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?My fault, he was fine with waiting until marriage, I wasn't. Girl gotta eat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:41 AM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?Boyfriend was a virgin when we met, didn't last long. It's crazy how many guys actually still are virgins well into their 20's now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:38 AM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?ew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenI'm so sorry this happened, yea you're absolutely right it does happen; unfortunately I've seen it with my own eyes. I don't understand why people can't just keep their hands to them selves, I hope it never happens again and that you find someone sweet, caring and ultimately respectful of your boundaries x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 03:34 AM |
| 2 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenI have none of those things, I don't think it's fair to invalidate peoples experiences with cat calling as if they're doing it as some appreciative gesture of the female form. My boyfriend got cat called and had some of the girls grab/smack his butt before.... I was going to say a lot of people on here would probably say he's average but he does have a fantastic butt. I don't even know anymore, people are freaks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenI'm saying it's very prevalent in cities, I'd disagree though. I've been out with perfectly normal/average girls and even 'unfortunate' looking girls and they've been cat called. I think men really underestimate just how low men's standards generally are, I've seen perfectly decent looking dudes creep out and try hit on very drunk obese girls. Not saying obese women are necessarily bad looking, just saying that I'd imagine to the average person that would be a negative trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 03:08 AM |
| 3 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenIt's situational, it happens way more in cities. Cat calling is rampant (among both men and women). I think it's because I'm painfully shy and timid, creepy men see that and somehow think this means you're more likely to give in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 03:02 AM |
| 4 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenWhen I lived in the west I got hit on a lot, to the point where it affected my ability to actually go out at night alone. I'm not going to pretend I'm all that, I'm on the chubby side (I like chocolate, leave me alone). This completely stopped when I met my boyfriend thankfully, having a gigantic bearded baldy man beside you is a big creep deterrent. Anyways women get hit on a lot, especially if they're alone. This isn't a good thing when you account for the fact that the vast majority of these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?wat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 02:50 AM |
| – | Women: You're dating a guy and find out he's excited to attend a "White Dudes for Kamala" event. Do you question his sexuality?I wouldn't date a man with these views, the vast majority of them are creeps that think being subservient to women will get them laid, then they throw their toys out the pram when it doesn't work and say horrible things or even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:30 PM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayThat's not short, but from what I've gathered basically anything that isn't blatantly tall is a massive hinderance in online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 05:26 AM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayWomen like to complain in general, if you really want a relationship you need to learn these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:35 AM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayHow tall are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:33 AM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayMen having zero standards is a problem, it's played a massive part in why dating is as bad as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:32 AM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayMy boyfriend basically left dating for good until I came along, it's actually crazy how unlikely it is to meet a decent man or woman nowadays, that's single anyway. Growing resentful won't help, I don't think telling men to learn how to be alone is fair either. It's very hypocritical. Dating is very messed up at the minute and I can't sit and pretend that it isn't, all I can say is if you're attractive enough and stick true to your self the right person will come along and you better not let it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:33 AM |
| 2 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.What did he do? I'm pretty out of the loop in regards to these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:43 PM |
| 3 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.If you said something rude about Andrew tate I would have dropped the empathy but Peterson doesn't seem to be malicious or harmful, more young men absolutely should clean their rooms... That being said, the president of the US is very clearly senile and pretty much everyone in the government is a mentally deranged psychopath, I'd trust someone with schizophrenias word before theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:39 PM |
| 0 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.An elderly man that was placed on benzodiazepines a junkie? it wasn't until relatively recently people established just how unsafe they were, you literally can't quit them or you can DIE. People don't get stuck on these things because they want to, ignorant doctors put them on them and they spend their entire lives recovering from them. The withdrawals are more dangerous than even heroin withdrawal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorWomen with male siblings and the likes that are sympathetic to male problems are by default called pick me's, like how guy's that complain about how bad things are get called cels. Or women that complain about men are called blue haired feminists. This buzzword era needs to end. I like being a pick me, it's nice being actually treated well by a grown ass man :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 02:13 PM |
| – | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.People are more alike than they are different, we're all human but to pretend men and women don't have different wiring only brings on misery. I see way too many people, (mostly women) imposing female psychology on men, telling them they need to go to therapy and the likes. The way I see things helps me understand men a good bit better, basically most normal men are slightly to very autistic. In my experience if you're nice to them, keep them fed and just let them be dudes they'll treat you like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Curious what women view as "good guys"Women are social creatures, they like 'status'. Also dating is a lot more dangerous for women so hearing he's not actually demented helps. When I hung out in femcel groups we still had a group chat where we'd talk about the guys and the guys that got talked about the most positively all ended up with gfs, albeit femcel gfs but it is what it is. Also, I don't know a single non mentally ill person that's said good things about any of those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Curious what women view as "good guys"There's wiggle room with attractiveness, people on here would say my bf is unattractive because he's balding and autistic. But it just so happens I like gigantic silly men with big beards and buzzcuts. It's too broad of a brush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Are companionship and intimacy needs?Why shouldn't women also earn the right to be in a relationship? I've never had 'options' and I put my best foot forward to win over my man, I'd do anything for him. Is dating for women easier? sure. But let's not pretend the guys these women are selecting are all that, they'll break their hearts and ruin their lives. The real good men are the ones suffering in silence and that breaks my heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Are companionship and intimacy needs?They're objectively wrong. It's just not viable, the average person in the west can't afford to be alone anymore. Everything, especially housing is priced for couples. It's just intensely hypocritical to tell men to be alone when women aren't doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Are companionship and intimacy needs?It's a need, one thing I see that really annoys me with women on reddit is that they tell men they need to learn how to be alone, indirectly admitting how bad things are for young men. But women aren't practicing this, and we need human contact even more than men. I was a full blown depressed bitter femcel with severe insomnia until I met my bf, he sooths my soul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Curious what women view as "good guys"Other women say good things about him, is good to the people around him, has a job, sensible with money, animals like him, isn't insecure, funny, supportive, kind, wholesome and gentle. This is the bare minimum, every man should at least be these things and you could say the same for women, maybe swapping out a job for "being good with children" or whatever it is you want from a woman. If he has those things down he'll find someone eventually assuming he's attractive enough, my boyfriend had all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men.hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansWell most the west has become fairly Americanised so I used the US as a safe bet. There doesn't seem to be any studies on the weight gap between young couples so all we can go by are observations anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansI don't live in the UK, I lived in Ireland for a while and I didn't say there were any differences; I noticed a similar trend where there were usually larger women with normal dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:53 PM |
| 0 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansMen are more physically active. They work more physically intensive jobs as well as working more in general, are more likely to play in physically intensive sports and more likely to partake in MUCH more physically intensive activities at the gym. Also obesity and overweight percentages/bmi don't account for the fact men purposely put on more muscle mass. Given men work more that seems really whack, so women just get paid more for less work? men also enter the workspace earlier. I didn't know ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:46 PM |
| -3 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansIt's nothing to do with production it's lifestyle choices, men are just more likely to partake in more physical activity whether it's work, sport or the gym. There seems to be a lot more body positivity movements for women as well that basically encourages them to embrace unhealthy life style choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:41 PM |
| -3 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansI personally believe the low-average young men in the US are better looking than the low-average women in the US, when accounting for the fact men are more likely to be physically active. Don't they work more too? so by nature they should also be above women in that regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:06 PM |
| -1 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansFrom my time in the west I can see why men are frustrated, low-average guys weren't really pairing off with the low-average women; the most common couple I saw was a 'rounder' woman with a fairly tall decent looking guy. Nothing spectacular but the man was objectively better looking. I've also seen this on this very subreddit, there's been autistic women saying it's harmful to encourage autistic women to pair off with autistic men. I absolutely detest this word but I do think women are just hype… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:50 PM |
| 2 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Yea that makes a lot more sense, the girls in those circles would naturally be a lot more progressive. Although from what I've gathered women tend to get quite conservative later in life, especially if they have kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Are you more on the effeminate side? I feel like a lot of it's instinctual. I feel like women will date guys they just think look and act nice, just like how they'd date woman and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that; but when they're around more traditionally masculine guys the desire to be taken care of kicks in. At least that's how I feel anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 12:25 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too highDon't understand why people can't just stay in their own lanes and date one another, they seem to do it here but not in the likes of the US inb4 shut up ur fat and ur bf is chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?Where are you from, would you consider your self normal? as in your behaviour/beliefs are common? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:08 AM |
| 3 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?Completely, I'm glad I held out a little longer and waited for the man I'll spend the rest of my life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a creep?I don't personally call anyone a creep, I'm simply answering the OPs question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a creep?Would you prefer me to lie? I have an autistic boyfriend so I'm conditioned into being direct I guess. When I asked an ex friend of mine what she would do if a guy followed her around the bar and gave her a corny wink her response was "depends, how tall is he". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in datingNa, disagree. Back when I lived in the west, Ireland specifically I'd see bronzed up girls of the ... rounder variety with perfectly decent looking tall guys that were in shape. I hate this word, but hypergamy was very apparent. I'm going to assume feminism and dating apps were to blame? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 11:40 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: What is a creep?Someone that's not attractive, I won't entertain you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 11:35 PM |
| 8 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Isn't that good for humanity though, they have to prove they're worth it. They might not like it but it's still good for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:13 PM |
| 5 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Na this I disagree with, women still mostly demand men earn more and want large 'dominant' men that almost make them feel infantilised. I was about to say I don't but I don't work and my bf is 6'6 ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 5 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?They can still do that, it's just harder for average men to reproduce Just nature imo, historically most men didn't reproduce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:06 PM |
| 3 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?how | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Submission is earned.Can people stop using words like submissive and dominant it's insanely creepy and weird regardless of the gender. I remember my boyfriend telling me about guy he knew that talked about dominance and submission, he was 5'7 and nobody could ever tolerate him. Then you have 'dominant' women, these are just misandrists that want to humiliate men to combat some unresolved trauma. I don't need to "submit" to my boyfriend to feel comfortable with my femininity, I do what my boyfriend says because I lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Princess treatment is just patriarchy in disguiseNothing wrong with wanting this treatment, I do actually pull my weight at home however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doThe worst things to me personally would be passive aggressiveness, I got bullied heavily by other girls in school and this was the one thing in particular that got to me, my boyfriend said it's the one thing he can't stand in men either. Thankfully my boyfriend is the complete opposite of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 11:48 PM |
| -1 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doNo such thing as toxic masculinity, feminine men are gross There is just toxicity, regardless of the demographic they belong to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 3 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsThis can be applied to commonalities in general. Gauging anyone by their career is a terrible idea though; hell men that earn more are more likely to be psychopaths or narcissists. My BF has a nice humble job and since we don't have to pay rent we have more disposable income than my friend who's an accountant given she's single and has to pay crazy rent in the city. I love autistic men, they're very good with money... unless their most devoted hobby is an expensive one then you're screwed :') Fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.I've seen a few women on here tell men they need to learn how to be alone, when women don't need to do this; it's honestly really gross. We literally can not afford to live alone, everything is priced for a dual earning household. This to me shows the huge disconnect a lot of 'blue' pillers have, they exclusively come from privileged backgrounds which gives them a shallow lens of the world which has no nuance, they know literally nothing about average working class men and women they scorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateI tried my best <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:56 AM |
| 3 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateNot what I said, my boyfriend is bald and autistic, which seems to be a common type on here and I'd do anything for him. INB4 I'm run through and settled, no he was the first person I ever shared a bed with and I actively pursued him because I heard other girls saying he was nice, also seeing animals loved him helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:43 PM |
| 3 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateThe issue is that feminism still hasn't addressed or deconstructed a lot of outdated characteristics/traits associated with men's viability, they most likely won't because it's just not advantageous to Women, men would do the same thing. Most women won't date men that don't earn more than them, this is harder than ever to achieve; so what happens is women continue to date men older than them since they're more likely to fit this set criteria. Are women picker? yes; for a lot of good reasons. Are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"bruh what is this, this already happens? That being said 6 inches is more than enough, I've learnt the hard way. If a woman needs more than that then she either has a weird medical issue or she's a mentally ill masochist. There is nothing pleasurable about your pelvic floor being cow prodded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested?Masculinity, so like a combination of height/voice/mannerisms. But how animals are around him and how others describe him is also vital | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:48 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themHe's too small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:24 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themMaybe men should stop projecting what their idea of attractive is onto women, the vast majority of us prefer a tall dweeb with a dad bod over short stocky guys, we don't care about your jawline or shape the shape of your eye or whatever stuff cels say now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:09 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themI don't like fuckboys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:06 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themSecond guy looks taller and less like a douche bag, I'd take him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't give average guys a chance in their youthSo what about these actual grown adult women that go for naïve vulnerable men just to have access to their resources? I thought women were more emotionally intelligent and are way less likely to be autistic so naturally women are more socially aware than most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?They do, it's just promiscuous people in general are extremely vocal and like to speak for others. Normal every day men do not like promiscuous women, they never will and no amount of women in their 30's + telling men what they will like is going to change this. It's the EXACT same for normal every day women, just because red pill le BiTcHeZ lOvE sTaTuS guys say promiscuity in men is attractive they mean it's attractive to promiscuous women which is not the norm. With time everyone comes to unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Women hate sluts more than men doI don't think this is true, it's just a common insult. I do absolutely detest the promiscuous radfem women that's mistakes have caught up on them so they basically brainwash other women into following suit. Both men and women are generally not promiscuous and wouldn't really want to be associated with someone that is, at least that's what my both me and my bfs friend groups say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:I personally believe it's a scam put in place to make money. That being said, it sounds like you have some personal issues to work through with your parents. Most peoples parents aren't assholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:20, bf is a 28 I think that's fine, that being said I don't think the average man has any choice in what age group he can pick from, younger women are going to be less picky because 1. Most women like older guys, 2. older women have higher demands in terms of resources. Men are pretty simple, they just don't want the headache that comes with those demands Don't women after like 25-30 start dating even older guys on average? like the older woman gets the bigger the gap in age is on average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:This is cute as hell, I'm so glad you found someone reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Well yea, hence why I like financially responsible guys that take care of their families. It's hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:42 PM |
| – | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?This is usually do to post Postpartum depression not the marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:39 PM |
| – | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?I meant the actual domestic abuse part... after aligning him self with women and lgbt groups pretending to be a kind person to win over young women I think "bruh" is suitable here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:37 PM |
| -2 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?I think this another symptom of the wests very individualist culture, I severely doubt most women are truly happy alone. They might say they are or they've been drilled into saying they are. Aren't a lot of women in the west on literal anti depressants? It's not even about kids, most people need someone. I was bitter until I finally met the love of my life, same story with a lot of the femcels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?I don't think I dated way above my level, we both lived at home and I pulled my weight. Do a lot of women like the ones you're describing exist? yes. Are they the norm? I think it depends on your location. Most the Women around where I live are dating guys around 5-10 years their senior, just normal guys working trades living little normal lives, it's very tight knit. I have seen women, especially from the UK or US that openly disregard men that aren't earning a good chunk more than them or aren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Yea I think short guys get a bad rep, my grandfather is 5'7 which is very short where I'm from but he did very well with Women, I don't think that would be the case now with social media and beauty standards somehow becoming less progressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?I think a really underrated part of attraction has undeservedly taken a backseat, most men and women just want to feel good, they want to be in a place of comfort. Obviously there are problematic people on both sides of the pond but those people should just pair with one another. When I was in my femcel era one of the girls I spoke to said my boyfriend had a low 'smv' because he was balding, obviously I don't speak to that person anymore but it never bothered me once. The most attractive part ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Are men who never had sex immoral?No, are women with a lot of 'bodies' immoral? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?There is a link yes, but it could be from the fact that taller men earn more, and higher earning positions like CEO's are far more likely to display psychopathic traits. My boyfriend used to be a bouncer and the vast majority of the problematic guys were tall and skinny, probably a lifetime of positive reinforcement playing into their egos. There's no truth to short guys being more aggressive, egotistical etc from what I've gathered they're just easier to pick on. In my personal experience talle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:The pickme came out, having an autistic boyfriend and male siblings in their late teens/early 20's going through this stuff breaks my heart. We need a little positivity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?omg how they treat service staff, pets and kids can be make or break. I've said before but a few guys got angry at me for saying it, women can become interested in a guy just through word of mouth, I heard other Women talking about how lovely my boyfriend was long before I even met him and I was so curious. First time I met him he dropped a monotone "hello girls, how are we", and just swaggered past us to play with my friends dog. I wouldn't care if he was 5'2 and was a burn victim, that in it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?I'm on the back of a pretty triggered response to a standard that particularly annoyed me, in regards to Women that live at home still wanting men that have their own homes. I think this is an unreasonable standard and it's not like it reflects good character either, just financial irresponsibility in a cost of living/housing crisis. I think if we work to dissolve this crazy standard there would be a lot less bitter men that could dip their toes in the dating pool. I chose a man that lived at ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:My personal theory behind this is that the biggest factor is the cost of living crisis, there's a lot of truth to the "Women would rather date a man that lives with his wife than one that lives with his mother" meme. Women are dating older men with access to the resources they demand, so naturally most young men are single and most young women aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Yea I agree, a common belief outside of a lot of the west is that they've become almost corrupted by individualistic culture, I've only been to the US once and it was even more materialistic than Ireland, which is becoming more and more Americanised (outside of rural areas). Anyways this is why I tell people it's okay to find love somewhere else, from what I've seen American women just really don't seem very nice and have insanely unreasonable standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:It needs to happen, unless a lot of Women adjust their insane standards they're going to be fighting over the literal top 10% of earners soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:I think it's what needs to happen, It's all been a giant scam that's served to destroy communities, peoples lives and strain families | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Eastern European, I lived in Ireland for a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:41 PM |
| 15 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:It's exactly this, but I don't understand why women, especially on here pick and choose what they want to keep from these traditional roles when it suits them, it's mentally ill behaviour. You either want tradition or you don't, I chose the prior and it's been the best decision for me, my partner and my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:If you don't live at home and you're earning enough to pay for rent while living comfortably then it's fine,, the issue is a lot aren't and still see it as a requirement. I think this is why most young men are single and most young women aren't, young women are dating older guys with more resources which from what I gathered most the women here thought was outdated, and that older guys were gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:I think this is a cultural difference, I and many others think moving away from home is a massive scam, imo it's malicious. It leaves a lot of people stranded and it put's a strain on families. That being said at it's core sure it's very individualist and self serving (I think this is also why divorce rates are so high there but I'll save that for another mid lady rant), that seems to be a common theme in the US and other places in the west. I tried moving away from my home and got very homesick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:57 AM |
| 7 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:I'd argue it's immature/irresponsible to be renting these days though, it's just not financially responsible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:19 AM |
| 34 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:The second one is so insanely stupid and it infuriates me. Women don't realise how many amazing guys they're cutting off by having such a ridiculous standard. There's a literal housing and cost of living crisis, all over the west. Get over your selves. I don't know a single man that isn't dating a girl that was still living at home while they were struggling to keep their head above water just to have a chance at being considered a worthy man, it's disgusting. My boyfriend and me live on his fam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beWomen are just more selective with what they find attractive, they're more likely to have a 'type' whereas men cast a wide net and occasionally catch something that isn't a boot. Basically nothing does it for me besides tall bald/buzzcut men with giant beards and tattoos, basically Kratos. Blame the guys at school playing God of war around me a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionThis is another prime example of Women in the west have a massive issue with imposing their needs, desires and psychology on men, I can see how stuff like this can be insanely annoying because it even annoys me. I know girls that have dumped their boyfriends over their sex lives dying out because they gained a little weight over the course of their relationship, it's not just men that need sex to be happy, just men need more because they have something called testosterone which we don't have tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 12:59 PM |
| 0 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?What the hell is this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?This made me laugh so hard, I used to speak to two femcel girls online and both of them wanted twink bfs because they were into dominating men. Should clarify that I'm not into this, I think it's gross. But I thought it was funny that BOTH their eventual boyfriends and all the supposed 'twinks' these girls were going for were insanely tall. When a lot of girls talk about liking twinks, they just mean tall skinny guys that are mentally ill enough/hate them selves enough to be humiliated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:56 AM |
| 64 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPReddit is just more left leaning, it'd be different if you asked on a different platform. It's all relative however, on this subreddit I'm a pick me and therefore probably aligned with the right, but in real life I'm a bit of a hippy and left wing given I'm in a rural area in Eastern Europe. I have noticed there are a lot more convert misandrists than misogynists. I'm fairly certain there's a good chunk of femcels on here that purposely try to misguide other young women and young men for nefario… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?I wouldn't consider my self "hot" and I'm far from skinny, my boyfriend is with me because I treat him as well as he treats me. I'm sorry you experienced that, it could be a cultural difference because the Women like that here aren't doing very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?Massively disagree, I think it's a good thing. I don't know a single man that cares about a woman's career and they're all great partners, I don't even work but my boyfriend still encourages my hobbies and goals. I think there's a massive issue with each gender projecting their preferences or activities onto the other at the minute, especially amongst women in the west. Most young men don't care about how much you earn, statistics indicate this. But most women do in fact care about how much a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.I don't know a single Woman that thinks like this, are you sure it's not men that are interested in numerous people but settle for which one actually gives them a shot? Women usually go absolutely crazy over one guy, when we're down bad we're DOWN BAD. The idea of another man approaching me when I first met my future bf would really annoy me, the thought of another woman even talking to him or even worse making him laugh would ruin my whole evening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.I swear a dude posted a study on here where after you get too tall the amount of women that'll date you starts to decline, so like 6'5 is about the same as being 5'9/5'10 which is small in my country. I won't deny being tall helps, we care way more about height and the size of your hands than we do the angle of your eyes, your jawline or abs. Men like small and dainty, women like imposing and large. It's just nature, my bfs best friend is 5'6/5'7 but he has a big deep voice and it drove his girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.6' 5/6' 6" From what I've gathered that's too tall in the looksmaxxers/cel spaces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyMakes a lot of sense why most of them are alone then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyDude, because neither of us are into cuckoldry we're not having a good sex life? Good luck finding a decent Woman that'll let you openly humiliate her and your self though. We do the deed constantly and believe me, we're both more than happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:59 PM |
| 5 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?Duh, sex is awesome. How else am I meant to make babies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:47 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyWhy would he want a threesome? If me or any other women I know found out a guy had a threesome they'd immediately drop him. Mentally ill behaviour, I severely doubt any man worth his salt would want to even touch a Woman that's had a threesome with a ten foot pole, it's not any different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?Men want Women that are kind, careful, soothing, 'virtuous', women that will actually bring positivity and feminine energy into their lives, the world is brutal and lonely, everyone wants somebody even if they pretend not to. I'd argue that most men might actually gauge women in a more thoughtful, respectful , meaningful and fair way than a lot of Western Women I've seen on these subreddits. Men don't care about how much you earn, how many friends you have, your supposed social status or how tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyWould you really want to be with Women that reward poor behaviour though? I wouldn't be with a guy that likes bimbos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?Being kind, protective, loyal, strong, funny, courageous handsome etc You do realise your logic just paints Women as shallow and money grabbing right, you're really doing none of us including your self any favours. Why do western Women statistically only still date men that make a good chunk more than them when they have their own money? are men that provide nothing desired? are we really that shameless in our pursuit for a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyBeing nice is attractive, the first thing I heard about my boyfriend that made me interested was how other Women talked about how nice he was. There's a difference between being genuinely nice and being a 'nice' guy that agrees with everything misandrist women parrot because he thinks it'll get him laid, most of us know what these guys are doing and find it repulsive. My boyfriend is nothing but sweet, he's respectful and goes out of his way to help everyone, even to his own determent at times. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.I disagree, most women will at least make an effort to win a guy over, it's just more indirect. Just because it's not happening to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen, Ironically that would make you the outlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.Explain why I went after my bf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.Dating is a lot more nuanced than people make it out to be, most people that end up dating were friends prior. That's how me and my boyfriend started. Pretty much everyone I know ended up together like this, it's the most common way people actually met outside of online dating, which from what I've gathered is literally pointless as an average man. My bfs best friend met a girl at work, they talked a lot on smoke breaks and she eventually asked if they wanted to go to a work based event together… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.My boyfriend earns minimum wage, is a few years off 30, lives on his families property and I asked him out. He's bald, autistic and has a dad bod. I'm pretty sure that by your own standards that's not the top 20%. I was relentless with my pursuit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:44 PM |
| -6 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.Women will approach you if they like you enough, we're social creatures; we'll seek out attention from you if we find you attractive. We'll leave little windows open for you, if we grow frustrated we'll just say fuck it mask off and ask you out. Stop approaching women, you don't need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?This isn't true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | What do we do about the fact that men are drastically overrepresented as murderers, rapists, and criminals?There's a lot of reasons why men commit more crime, the main reason is systemic, men just don't have access to the comforts women do. It baffles me that people explain why specific groups commit more crimes because they're from lower income areas with less opportunity but somehow this doesn't apply to men in general. Where I'm from apparently less than 20% of the homeless population are Women, and this is considering that Women are more likely to be granted shelter, clothes and work. Women are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:01 AM |
| 2 | What do we do about the fact that men are drastically overrepresented as murderers, rapists, and criminals???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Women: What do you bring to the table?I'm kind, give my man plenty of space, cook and clean, very good with children, don't use drugs or hang out with problematic people, go to church, high libido (I know this is important for men, it only started when I met my bf anyway), good relationship with my family, well adjusted and down to earth. I know I'm not the prettiest and I'm very comfort driven, but me and my partner are in a situation where I don't have to work and I'm just not down with working. My mother didn't, my grandmother di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?Experience... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom.I didn't mean to cause offence, it's a pretty safe generalisation in my opinion. Me, my friends and the women in my family have pretty much identical experiences with men, so it could also be cultural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom.First of all, most young men and women don't have two bedrooms nowadays. My bf needs a lot of alone time and he says one of his favourite parts about me is that I actually give him his space, most men in general are pretty solitary creatures; they're like cats they'll come to you when they feel like it. His best friend has been struggling because his girlfriend doesn't give him any personal space, it seems like one of the most common relationship issues and I think it stems from the fact a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 3 | The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation.Well it's a lot more socially acceptable for women to voice displeasure, it's also worth considering women tend to get really close and by nature this can cause a lot of friction. We tend to overshare as well which is a common complaint amongst men, this can also cause a lot of infighting; I swear the vast majority of 'catfights' stem from a secret going mainstream or a rumour being spread. Apply the same patterns of behaviour in men and at some point there's going to be physical altercation, so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?From what I've gathered women tend to cheat more than men in their younger years but men start to cheat more after around women start entering menopause. It can't be coincidental, it also terrifies me. It makes me wonder if there is some truth to the typical manosphere excuses for men being unfaithful, not the excuses there aren't any but in regards to maybe men on some level struggling to truly be monogamous because their sex drives stay more persistent with time. I'm 20 now and obviously this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:51 AM |
| 3 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areI don't necessarily agree with that but I can see how it's unattractive and how it's a fair standard given men that don't do well sexually are shamed by women. Casual sex is much riskier for women, it's not even close. This kind of risk taking behaviour does not make for a good female partner, risk taking is inherently masculine behaviour on account of men having insane amounts of testosterone fuelling a lot of their decision making, or lack of. Not to mention the historic power dynamic making t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 05:25 PM |
| 6 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areMen and women are different and have completely different standards, it was never about treating one another equally, it's about removing said standards for your self while actively instilling toxic and outdated standards to the other gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 05:18 PM |
| 9 | What advice would you give a man who claims he has "tried everything"Honestly, from what I've gathered the 5'5 part is probably going to be an absolutely massive problem assuming he's in the US or West/North Europe. Money will help but it can only go so far. Obviously I'm not saying this is fair, but from what I've seen that is way below the average acceptable height for women in those regions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 02:22 PM |
| – | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessOh yea those two, I understand wearing boots if you're a rural guy but if you're wearing them in an urban social setting, especially a club we know what you're doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 08:36 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Yea I get this, my boyfriend really doesn't care and nor do I because we want children anyway, if a guy claims to be a practicing catholic and won't wear a condom I understand, but if he's purposely going against a lot of traditional values but drops the "but it doesn't feel as good" when it comes to protection he can go try that somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 08:35 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Believe me, there's a lot of women that are ready to jump the women that fought to put us in the workplace when we see them in heaven, or hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:12 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.This made me laugh so hard, I love how people say normie now. My bf said it the other day with a straight face and I nearly peed my self But yea it has a similar energy to guys that talk about how they don't like make up, they want "natural beauty" then you look at their Instagram or tiktok and it's all caked up bimbos. I don't think they realise that they're feeding on their attention, negative or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.I don't know why people think that being aligned with the left somehow makes you a better partner, just because a man is agreeing with you doesn't mean he actually believes it, the vast majority of guys that parrot a lot of hyper left wing rhetoric are just in it to get laid. Why the hell would they just blindly agree with things that aren't advantageous to them at all, I swear the women that say these things hate men so much they can't comprehend they're capable of free thought. I'd be consider… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:43 PM |
| 26 | The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation.Women are generally more agreeable, whether that's societal or biological it doesn't matter that's just how things have been and still are. I will admit you got me with the girls girl thing, but I was heavily bullied by other girls my entire life so I've always been around men, that's not to say I don't have friends now that just so happen to be women but none of them talk like this, do these kind of groups exist? absolutely. Are they the norm? possibly, but if these are the women you're coming … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 01:46 PM |
| -1 | Telling struggling guys to go to bars/clubs/parties is literally the worst and most hilarious advice everI wouldn't date a man that goes to clubs anyway, I don't know a single woman that enjoys the idea of their men going clubbing. Keep in mind I'm from a rural area as well so there literally are no clubs. I really don't like feminine men, clubbing is inherently feminine imo, like guys prettying them selves up, doing weird drugs that make them overly affectionate/sociable (and sweaty) while floating around with cocktails pestering women knowing one will be drunk enough to entertain him, no thanks I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 12:46 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menI mean men kind of made their own bed there, their sex drives cause them much lower standards so good looking guys tend to prey on average women knowing they'll get what they want. But why should we settle for something less if 'better' men are going for us. Men would do the exact same thing if the roles were reversed. Dating apps are gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 08:19 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menWell a big part of the pink pill is establishing ways to give men a shot, like judging them for their relationships with their families or friends, or whether they have pets; reflecting their responsibilities. It does suck at the minute, I'll admit. I genuinely believe the main cause behind the male loneliness epidemic is the cost of living crisis and the wage gap narrowing, most women simply won't date men that don't earn a good chunk more and that's just statistical fact. We have to deconstruc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 07:55 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menI don't really get this point, HR is growing as profession in some places in the west and it would be MUCH easier to replace with tech like AI than trades. Although then human resources would become a deeply ironic title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessSometimes I can't tell who are more disconnected from reality, IT or PPD Also, there are just as many men in nike air max as there are Women in high heels, we know you wear them because they make you taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Women: What is the truth about men's hobbies and quirkiness?My boyfriend is diagnosed autistic so he tends to get VERY invested in a subset of pretty niche hobbies, that being said hobbies are endearing, my boyfriends hobbies also coincidently tie into his career which is nice. I have no idea what the hell he's doing 99% of the time but I appreciate it's something productive. I don't think I could date a guy with zero hobbies, It's just a reflection of poor character. I know men are a bit different in this regard, some even saying they don't care about a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveOkay but that doesn't mean younger men aren't more likely to engage in risk taking behaviour, that's just the hard truth. I don't trust older women and younger men dynamics in my experience more often than not the women have very little respect for them and picked them just because they feel behind in life, or they want someone they can implant their ideals and beliefs. Which when flipped would be considered predatory That isn't true, statistically it's better for men to marry young and for wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectivelol, you're in for a shock when you realise there's accountants with degrees stuck in retail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveYou plan to support your self during a cost of living crisis where everything is priced for two people? Also just not true, if it were true statistically women would date younger men. It's young men that want you because you're "young and hot", older men want commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:35 PM |
| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendI firmly believe women will approach you if you're attractive enough to them. Or at the very least they'll make it very clear they like you enough for you to make a move. If this isn't happening, well sorry. Historically the vast majority of men didn't reproduce, the patriarchy changed this but that's being dismantled more and more by the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveThe average age gap is around 3-5 years, it grows the older you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveMy boyfriend earns borderline minimum wage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveEmphasis on sometimes, I can definitely be a bit harsh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 03:26 PM |
| 21 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveI've heard girls literally talk about dating older guys just for their money, if that's not predatorial I don't know what is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 03:13 PM |
| 35 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveWomen are just as responsible for the young women/older guy dynamic, we statistically refuse to date guys that don't earn a good chunk more than us despite it being harder than never for guys in our age group to earn that required increment more. The older they are the more likely they are to meet this requirement. We complain about how bad and immature guys our own age are and actively seek out older guys for a more secure relationship. Me and all my friends are dating older guys, my boyfriend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultPeople make it a lot more complicated than it has to be. This is why autistic guys are the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:54 PM |
| 0 | What is the appropriate response for a gamer bf/husband to his woman that protests his hobby?Sometimes people will just complain about anything, me and my sisters boyfriends are very introverted and play a lot of games, my boyfriend balances studies with his job as well. He's a complete dweeb, always tinkering with things. At least he actually has hobbies that are healthy and link into his goals. It's never became a problem, he's not my dog; I don't expect him to come lay at my feet while I'm doing the dishes. Men are very cat like in the sense they'll come to you when they feel like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth?In my country around 1 in 1000 people experience divorce, around 9% of people cheat; all of these are inflated by urban people which I'd imagine is a trend world wide. Most people are fine, if they're not you need to move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:19 PM |
| -1 | Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth?If you're with someone that has you questioning whether or not your children are yours, then you're not meant for one another. Either that, or you're not meant to be with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?and their bellies even more so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.I would find this odd, I don't like men with feminine energy. I don't really trust a lot of these kinds of friendships in general, my boyfriend has an ex friend that literally said he pretends to be a bit of a 'soft boy' to win over girls. I did hear about my boyfriend from women and they only had nice things to say, this was a turn on but he definitely wouldn't have been close friends with them, just helped them out with stuff at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?And what are you doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultHaving a bf with diagnosed autism I just communicated with him whether or not he wanted to do it, since it was very difficult to read him given his lack of generic expressions. Feel like it's the opposite with women, generally they're a bit more expressive and more likely to put on a fake smile. Idk, just ask each other more. Communication will and always be the key, I dropped the "You can do whatever you want whenever" to my bf and he still has the sense to know when it's okay, if he can do it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:13 PM |
| -2 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?I'm not saying it's going to be okay, I'm just saying it's the only thing you can do. It sucks, it truly does but it's not the 1900's anymore, attempts to dismantle the patriarchy has only really affected the lowest of men to the most average of men. You have to work harder than ever if you want to reproduce. It was actually a very small window in humanities history when most men reproduced and it's over, nature always finds a way. Seriously research just how little men actually reproduced befor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it.I do believe porn is a symptom of male loneliness, it's just like any other form of addiction. It's not good for you, in any capacity and does strain your relationships or potential relationships. I would not date a man that watches porn while we're together, once you find a partner it stops. I always send things to my boyfriend if we're far apart, I know what men need and in turn it makes me feel happy and validated; he's been incredible for my self esteem. This is perfectly healthy in my opini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 01:10 PM |
| -6 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?No, but you can earn enough to compensate. I won't entertain you, there's no other way. Sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 12:38 PM |
| – | Only telling men to self improve is bad advice<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:47 PM |
| 7 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateIt's just not true, Women like older men it's just nature, they make better partners anyway. The amount of young women I see with older guys that they have wrapped around their fingers, women are every bit as predatorial as men it's just conveyed in a more passive manner. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is a couple years off 30, I initiated everything, I pursued him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyI don't care about this at all, I wouldn't date a guy with a lot of bodies. I was my boyfriends first and he was my first, he's had suiters but he held out. The sex is awesome, seriously Women need to give autistic men a shot they're very open to listening and responding since they have very little in the way of egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!I did, by girls to be fair. Being Serbian in a rural school in Ireland was not fun. Also had milk poured over my head a few times, that was fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!Yes, I hate the crowd that parrot that generic rhetoric in general. They're just bitter because they got shoved into too many lockers at school - my bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Women who think hating all men is ok, what is your justification?I was kind of friends with a girl a lot like this in Ireland and it got exhausting, my boyfriend eventually lost his shit at her and she ended up in tears. He made a pretty good point though, most these women are still dependant on men for emotional support and feed of their attention, if you're on dating apps or in a relationship in general you are in no position to vocalise your hatred for literally half the people on this world. I personally believe men are just nicer overall. That's complete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 12:53 AM |
| -1 | Only telling men to self improve is bad adviceSaid it once and I'll say it again, become worthy of reproducing and women will make it clear they like you. If it's not happening you're the problem and you need to improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Reading what you're saying makes me feel privileged it's not like that here, because I really really really want my first child soon, I'm already on the older side for my family at 20. Sorry things are so out of control there, one of the most beautiful parts of life should be treated with much more dignity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?"The fertility rate for Poland in 2023 was 1.467 births per woman, a 0.62% increase from 2022. The fertility rate for Poland in 2022 was 1.458 births per woman, a 0.69% increase from 2021. The fertility rate for Poland in 2021 was 1.448 births per woman, a 0.63% increase from 2020." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?lol wtf, how the hell does that even happen? don't you guys have decent paid healthcare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 07:38 PM |
| – | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Well I currently live in Poland and my boyfriend is Hungarian, the birth rates are rising in both, they've both made conscious efforts to actually encourage people to have children. It's also worth mentioning both countries are actively discouraging the common traps the west have 'fallen for' (I personally believe purposely and maliciously underwent) which have actively lowered the quality of life of traditional superpowers like the UK. Globally lower income areas do tend to have higher birth ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?The fertility rate has actually risen in a few places in Eastern Europe, it's also higher in lower income areas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 07:26 PM |
| -9 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?It's media, women are the biggest target when it comes to social programming. I noticed this when I lived in the west, whereas where I am we're all baby crazy. I genuinely have no clue what the hell is going on in the west, but there's a dark cloud slowly creeping towards it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsThis is a western problem, I moved in with my boyfriend very quickly and do all the house work. You guys need to fix your selves up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 03:33 PM |
| 2 | A person's bearing and demeanor is at least as important as their appearance for attraction.Absolutely adore this, actually recognising ones flaws is so attractive. My man had a bit of a troubled upbringing and it left him with some bad habits that he actively worked on and fixed. Just like his grandfather he finds it so easy to just laugh about it as well, it's very pleasant having such a positive force in your life. A lot of guys on here downplay confidence/self love as if it's something that only comes with being traditionally attractive, it's almost like they just don't want to put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!Oh what the hell I've seen this video being suggested before, I'll give it a watch before I'm back from work! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsDepends what you consider lazy, men generally do a lot more physical work sure but Women put a lot of emotional investment into rleationships. Also men don't realise that housework is extremely taxing to women, just because you guys can casually carry around 100lbs of weight without breaking a sweat doesn't mean we can, believe it or not women aren't big silly giants too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:08 AM |
| 2 | A person's bearing and demeanor is at least as important as their appearance for attraction.I've always been allured by presence more than actual facial features, obviously I can't speak for all Woman but I've heard similar things from my friends. The first time I saw my boyfriend I just saw a big silly friendly man, a lot of other women described him as very pleasant and soothing, obviously not all women like somewhat goofy guys but I absolutely ADORE men that don't take them selves too seriously. Seriously, if you've never seen a big silly man chase around a duck that was enjoying it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!Maybe, I'd probably be a very feminine man and fem guys give me an ick, I think they do for most women so you could be right. I had a friend back when I lived in the west (Ireland) that transitioned into a man and they got severely depressed, I think because they were so small and had an impossible time dating. Yea my boyfriend and the men in my family can sleep literally anywhere, meanwhile I get anxious if I'm in bed alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sI'm Serbian but I lived in Ireland for a while, now I'm in Romania :) Ireland was a lovely place but honestly the British Isles are rapidly declining, there's literally no housing or work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 07:54 AM |
| 13 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!Agreed, I do lose my cool sometimes over the blatant misogyny I see on here but I know it's only a teeny tiny fraction of bitter men, in my experience men are just way more pleasant. I got pretty heavily bullied by other girls in school but the nerdy guys always took care of me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!I think the world genuinely is more brutal for men and having a boyfriend with diagnosed autism made me sympathise more with young men's struggles. I think I'd just transition if I was a dude, but I'm a very comfort driven person and it's much easier to achieve that as a woman, maybe it'd be different if I was a man. Also how the hell do men just randomly fall asleep anywhere I don't know how you guys do it, but for the good men out there and I know that's the vast majority of you; good luck you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sI can't even be mad, you got me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sI'm fortunate enough to be in a position where only my boyfriend works so he pays for everything, he says this is completely fair given I do all the house keeping and cooking. I'm not expensive either, one of his sexiest traits is being very financially sensible plus he's good with his hands so if something breaks there's no need to replace it. Men that can't solder aren't men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Men should approach less and reject moreLaughed insanely hard at the idea of even the average man rejecting more as if he's even been hit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Where to find green flag peopleA good relationship with his family and a healthy friend group, it might as well be magnetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreYea I'm 5'5 but I live in a very tall country, the average woman is 5 '8" here and that's including the older generations that were impoverished from war. I've been to the US and I really don't mean this in a malicious way but the women there really were not... great physically. The men generally looked a lot better but men do tend to carry weight better, I'd say on average most the white and black men were slightly taller than me, around 5'8-5'10? Keep in mind this was a southern state. My boyf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreSee that last paragraph, you're starting to get it. Women don't necessarily all want the same things, you're hyper focusing on the prerequisites which unfortunately yea, all women want men that exhibit character traits that could potentially bring success whether it be financial or physical. The same way men desire traits that reflect high fertility. If you have a lot of money why not invest in limb lengthening surgery? it'd broaden your dating pool massively, if you're as intelligent and attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreWhile I wouldn't put it in such extreme terms historically most men did not reproduce, the patriarchy enabled 'lesser' men to reproduce. Nature always finds a way, unfortunately enabling these 'lesser' men to reproduce has come around to bite them in the ass now that control is more evenly distributed between the genders. It does suck, but you really can't blame women; it's perfectly natural and reasonable for us to find the best option possible. I'll use my self as an example, I'm very short so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"You only need excessive money if you're compensating, sure say for example short guys need money to compete but it's always been that way. It's no different from Women with small breasts needing to actually do some house work. Pretty privilege has and will always be a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"Dating in general is just hard, obviously for different reasons. That being said if you're not getting dates the problem is you, my boyfriend is an absolute dork and he's had women basically throw them selves at him. He's just a nice hard working guy, it's not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:13 PM |
| – | CMV: There's no actual problemWhat on earth? the world is developing into a highly individualist place? That's weird because literally everything important is priced for dual earning households, what an idiot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Formula of successfully attracting females at a high %Wtf is this, therapy can't even fix this My Mom and Dad are very much in the same bracket, they're both very pretty people, my Mom chose him because he works hard. My boyfriend is absolutely beautiful (to me) but not all Women are into giant bald men with big beards, in fact some Women would be absolutely terrified of that. That being said most people would say we're in the same bracket. Most people date in their own looks and financial range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:50 PM |
| -3 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreIf women like you enough they'll ask you out, I asked my bf out. All my friends asked their bfs out or it was at least mutual effort. We don't need skinny fat 5'9 bald men approaching us anymore, we can actually safely pick and choose now, actually assess if a man will be good for us and our future. That sounds mean as hell but would men really want the average Woman approaching them? all they do is complain about how fat they are and how much make up they wear. Become a better man, work on your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"A lot, I was raised with men and actually date one? Stop being emotional over women selecting better men than you, become said better man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:37 PM |
| -2 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend, I don't get this taking turn childish sexist bs. Most women aren't going around having casual hook ups, if they are you probably live in a hellhole and all your focus should go towards escaping to somewhere with normal human beings that aren't gross as shit. As for attracting women, it's really not hard just be a damn man and not a whiny little ***** | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 11:00 PM |
| 9 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenEveryone knows this, the same with cat calling. My boyfriend is 6'5 and genuinely very handsome, he's basically Kratos. He's been hit on and borderline SA'd more times in the year I've known him than I have in my entire life, it's been a real eye opener. Just last week a group of drunken girls kept yanking at him to get up from his seat and dance, then when he finally got up they all groped his butt. Just before that a group of stone cold sober girls starting calling him a whore because of his t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 01:36 PM |
| – | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?wat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:41 PM |
| – | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?"It has to be a fact relevant to discussions here" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 11:06 PM |
| – | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?by definition it's not, in fact it's actually rare. In fact it's so rare that my entire county doesn't have a recorded incident. That being said I don't live in a hellhole never mind an urban population centre, which by nature are all hellholes. Anyways, it should never happen, anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:36 PM |
| -1 | While it can be annoying for women to be expected to shave their legs, I think it's preferable to the complete lack of uniformity of body hair grooming standards for menJesus hold your horses Jane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:06 PM |
| -1 | While it can be annoying for women to be expected to shave their legs, I think it's preferable to the complete lack of uniformity of body hair grooming standards for menWhat’s the perfect height? She’s going to list something in the literal top 20th percentile isn’t she | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:02 PM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataThat is not true in any capacity, statistically men are more open in taking accountability and are less likely to hold grudges. This entire board is literally just women not taking accountability LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:46 PM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataYes it does, tough tits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:45 PM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataIt does, reading comprehension is not women's strong suit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:45 PM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataNo? it's the same reason abuse statistics are skewed because men live harsher more abusive life styles, we're mentally and physically 'tougher' so we have a higher standard for what we consider abuse, despite the fact women initiate most domestic abuse. Most men get yelled at by their partners and we just think, okay this is normal; you tell us it is and use excuses like your periods or that women are just more vocal. We literally get gaslit from a young age to accept that our partners may hit u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataTough tits, any man knows women are creeps. We just have a much higher threshold for what constitutes creepy behaviour, plus you all tell us we like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:50 AM |
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