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This really doesn't sound healthy, it might be worth having checked out. It's not really something I think it's appropriate talking too much about on reddit or going to detail on. It might sound a bit mean but are you really addicted to your husband on a real low almost primal level?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:25 AM
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what...?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:33 AM
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Do not listen to western women and their opinions on the matter, look up the amount of women that own sex toys in the likes of the US. I genuinely believe women are just as porn rotted and burnt out through the likes of vibrators as men are when it comes to death grip. Do men have higher sex drives? yes. Do they jerk the Piletina more? yes. But we're more alike than we are different. The gap really isn't that big and it's closing, I was a femcel for a while and believe me the amount of goonerism…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:01 AM
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Men and women are different so they're held to different standards, it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:29 AM
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Sabrina is 26???? I thought she was at least late 30's. Good lord drugs and promiscuity age women horribly; I still get asked for ID
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:06 AM
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lmao wtf, how is that legal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:43 PM
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Considering the amount of insults I got for defending me and my partners age gap, I really doubt that's the truth. I shouldn't ever have to explain me and my partners gap, early 20's and late 20's is perfectly normal, functional and healthy; I'm old enough to drink and drive (not at the same time) but somehow incapable of making sound decisions for my own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:04 PM
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I don't think' that's strictly true, humans are inherently extremely hierarchal and patriarchal, dominant men select the women they want, whereas those women CAN select the men below them. My fiancé very much chose me, I naturally occupied the pursuer role out of desire; I didn't feel attracted enough to anyone before to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:09 PM
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Don't need to, it's really that simple; men are rated as more attractive due to physicality women aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:48 PM
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taller men have more partners and earn more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:46 PM
1

Yes, because your idea of the truth is objective and everyone else is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:29 PM
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Okay? the point is 'bad' men do better and that's the truth. It's the 'nice' guys that are the dangerous ones towards women most the time anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:20 PM
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Because if they have the capability to be dangerous they have the potential to protect you, it's a dangerous world for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:06 PM
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its just nature, guys like big boobs n butts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:44 PM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:11 PM
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There's something to this, my boyfriend is autistic and very much harmless but he does have a bit of a spotty past, just silly little things but still some bother with the law. He's not exactly a 'friendly' looking guy either, he's very large and covered in tattoos. He had a lot more women interested in him when he was still struggling with said issues, Not 'low quality' women like the women on here are claiming either, middle/upper class women that have went on to have children and live fairly …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:21 PM
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It's really not, especially in women in my age group. Gen Z Tall balding chubby guys get way more matches than ripped average height guys with full heads of hair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:30 PM
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... if he's "average" then offers "height" then he's not average is he, he's above average lol. Considering height is the main factor in attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:30 AM
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Women are more emotional, it's just difficult to admit because of the negative connotation that accompanies it. Just like anything it has it's positives and negatives. I doubt you would agree if I said "men aren't super aggressive, women are every bit as aggressive". Men are more aggressive, and said aggression also has it's positives and negatives. But due to the negative implications accompanying this well observed and documented fact people will be quick to deny it. Are women conditioned to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:31 PM
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Spoken like somebody that thinks therapy is real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:18 PM
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Actual high functioning autistic people are generally smarter and much more immune to the sway of propaganda. They're capable of navigating life in a hyper logical manner, something women and even the modern western man struggles with, I honestly envy my blatantly autistic fiancé and his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:08 AM
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This is very suspect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:25 PM
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Nope, because I didn't pick a blatant psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:11 AM
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Prince William is gorgeous and tall, not to mention a literal prince
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:15 PM
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Men don't judge women on academic success or our salaries so we compensate with things that men do care about, like looks; hence make up. Men can compensate with other things Don't get it twisted make up and other 'enhancements' are absolutely about securing the best man possible and very little to do with expression though lmao, weird blue pill nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:14 AM
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Most men don't realise that women only really use dating apps for ego boosts, particularly after break ups. They very rarely go on dates unless the guy is insanely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:55 PM
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I trust word of mouth a lot more than studies with clear agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:54 PM
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it does lol, romance (smut) novels are a much better equivalent/comparison for women though. You have no idea how many women think 6ft is the average height
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:38 PM
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That doesn't matter, even more progressive women in my age group will only date men that make the same as them if not at least a standard increment more in a more traditionally masculine role, like a trade. Women generally prefer to not date men that work in retail for example, even if they out earned an apprentice for something like an electrician. It's more difficult than ever for young men to out earn their female counterparts in these traditionally masculine occupations, or fit other perquis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:35 PM
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The men that women want do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:46 AM
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But men are more likely to work physically intensive jobs and actually work more for less in some places in the US. If you work in HR but your partner is a brick layer then you sure as hell better get off your ass and at least cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:01 PM
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Why would they? the education system is tailored towards women and there's been zero effort to balance the playing field. Not to mention a lot of people on this subreddit are old and don't understand a degree does not = success anymore, there are people with degrees stuck in retail deep into their 20's and even 30's now. Men would much prefer to do trades and live cash in hand, at least in a rural area like mine. They actually have more disposable income the men that focused on education for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:59 AM
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I think men are generally annoyingly simple just life isn't as simple as it used to be, they have trouble navigating the complexities of the modern day whereas we fair a lot better and even thrive in it. My boyfriend and his friends just want to drink beer in a barn and hunt, and have sex. It's quite frankly irritating just how much happiness they derive from the most basic things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:54 AM
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If a random 'average' man approached me I would be very annoyed, and my almost 300lb 6'6" boyfriend would be even more annoyed Let's not encourage this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:28 PM
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? this is very sus Men are universally a lot easier to get along with, even when I was going through my femcel phase I couldn't deny how easily men just 'go with it'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:25 PM
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I approached my bf (now fiancé) if a woman doesn't at least open the door for you to make a move she's probably spoilt/egotistical anyway, you want nothing to do with that Granted at least in my culture, Women do try to make it pretty clear they like you. Men are overwhelmingly autistic though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:02 AM
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That sounds like an intensely bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:00 PM
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I think both porn and romance novels are expansions of traditional/natural? male and female sexuality, obviously porn is actually more harmful because of how abusive that industry is, but when it comes to distorting peoples expectations of the other gender they're just as bad eachother IMO I think I can speak on the matter with some authority from my own personal experience, I genuinely used to believe the average man was like 6ft at the very least because of those stupid books God Of War was my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:01 PM
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I think that's more of a western issue, that being said is that really any different than women using dating apps to inflate their egos, or diving into romance novels where the men are 7ft eternally constipated sweaty men with 12 inch penises... but he somehow only has eyes for the average girl next door. Not to mention women watch porn too now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:08 PM
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This is simply just not true, if it were Women would be single at higher rates than men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:36 PM
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I've been saying this for ages, men are still required to fill that traditional provider role for the women they want but it's harder than it was for our parents and grandparents to occupy that role. My Grandfather never finished school yet was able to walk into a job which provided him with enough to buy a cottage and provide for both me and my mother. Also with enough money for luxury items like fishing boats. Meanwhile there's guys with degrees still stuck in retail deep into their 20's, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:25 AM
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I think there's a pretty simple reason behind this, it's just a hell of a lot easier for a woman to find another man. There's literally nothing stopping a woman from downloading an app and finding a line-up of men to choose from, the average man just can't do that. A lot of men resort to some extreme and IMO unjustifiable actions when a relationship is failing, regardless of whether or not they're at fault they're more likely to resort to violence whether it's outwards or inwards. The most dange…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:07 PM
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No, but it really depends where you live. Men are around 6ft on average where I'm from, 5'7 would be fairly average in the likes of the southern US states or the lower side of average in the British isles. My boyfriends friend is 5'7/5'8 and he has an objectively pretty girlfriend who he's had two children with. Consider 5'7 here would be like 5'3/5'4 in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:17 PM
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But there is data to support taller men earn more and are much more likely to occupy higher roles, I saw a recent study showing taller men are more likely to be married never mind have more successful marriages, and more children. Also does this data include much people from Gen Z? the dating landscape now isn't comparable at all to how it was for people born in the 80s/early 90s As for BMI, isn't the average BMI in the US overweight anyway? there's a lot more overweight women than there are ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:15 PM
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It really doesn't, I'm pretty sure you're a troll but maturity = stability, not money Antisocial personalities are more common amongst high earning men from what I recall. I doubt you consider Elon Musk stable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:22 PM
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It is pretty gross behaviour tbh You have the 'progressive' and more 'open minded' women still demanding men to appeal to an outdated and "harmful" masculine architype while they break down every single social expectation for women. It wouldn't be such a big deal if they were just honest about it, or if they even worked to break down the same expectations for men, but they won't because it's not advantageous to them. Just hypocritical, at least I'm honest about not being progressive and what I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:53 PM
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Trolls are hot, miss me widdat lil boy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:40 PM
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The average man is not fucking the 'hot whore', so this entire argument collapses right out the gate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:19 PM
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Even western society has a much more concrete architype of masculinity that men have to appeal to, even the majority left wing women desire this. Even most the 'blue pill' women on this sub will be dating an older guy that at the very least earns slightly more than them. Despite most of this subreddit coming from urban hellholes where young women possibly out earn young men or are well on their way to (for less labour) Anyways the modern left has done nothing but make life harder for young men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:17 AM
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I wanted to wait but my bf (now fiancé) triggered monke brain, it's the deep voice and height it just obliterated my free will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:59 PM
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What? 5'8-5'11 is above the global average I was clearly going by western/European standards most men bald most men in the west are fat and pretty broke If you're above that height range then you're not average, height is the biggest factor in female attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:11 PM
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The average (white) man is around 5'8-5'11, balding, fat and pretty broke. Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:14 PM
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Yes, pretty much every neurotypical well adjusted woman I've met is pretty strict about this too granted I'm from a rural conservative area, urban people are culturally a bit loose (relatively) Hooking up is potentially very dangerous, instincts tell us we need to trust said person before moving forward
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:12 PM
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It's the pick me side, at least that's what they say when you call out bs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:56 PM
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Yea can't argue with this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:39 PM
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Yea it's not cool, I think men are still held to their traditional standards that are harder than ever to achieve. It's an underrated part as to why dating is so much harder for them Stagnant wages, inflation, a housing crisis etc is not good when you're still expected to be a provider
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:00 PM
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I kind of suspected it because I used to work in retail and all the men there were single besides the older regional managers, whereas the snarling orcs that came in from the technical college/deliveries and farm ended up dating my friends. Was an observation that seems to be backed up well, I think it's just one of those 'ick' things, like a guy that doesn't have his own place, or doesn't drive. I think it's pretty unfair and kind of gross personally, but it is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:44 PM
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Doesn't matter, even more liberal women still prefer men in more traditionally masculine jobs; a plumber/electrician apprentice earning minimum wage is seen as a much more respectable position for a male to be in than say sales or HR, regardless of how high up they may be. Most women prefer men that earn at the very least a standard increment more than them, in a traditionally masculine occupation like a trade. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:14 PM
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I mean my bf never even finished public school, I severely doubt women care if you're physically adequate Your job though? most women won't date men in things like retail; you either have to be earning a lot or in a traditionally masculine role like a labourer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:45 PM
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hundreds of thousands of teenage girls on tiktok parroting femcel rhetoric and a literal femcel shooter recently Where's that movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:41 PM
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Women have a much more concrete idea of masculinity that men have to appeal to in order to be attractive to us, we immediately assume bi men to be less masculine. I'm not saying whether or not the latter is true, I'm just stating the true reasoning That's it, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. I know girls that get the "ick" from men literally using emojis because it gives the impression of being more feminine and too expressive, never mind liking other men. Western society in general is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:04 AM
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Women are valued like a resource, we're in the same class as children. Men are disposable I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:34 PM
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Reddit is mostly people from urban population centres, so naturally they're going to be more liberal/misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:32 PM
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Oh God, hope the incels don't see this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:28 PM
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Men are pretty autistic, you should probably tone indicate this so they realise it's a joke prob just radicalise them even more because the men you're describing are literally like 1% of the male population
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:05 PM
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I don't, I have a boyfriend I've just been in circles of girls swiping before. Generally 6ft is the cut off, which I admit is insane, but dating apps are mostly men and the women can afford the be as picky as they want and that's exactly what they'll do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:30 PM
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If he's hot, then check the bio for a height listing while simultaneously praying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:17 PM
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I really fail to see how my boyfriends friends are going to find a wife when hunting/camping or going on pub crawls in old smoky pubs full of old labourers I don't think women on this subreddit know what men in their 20's do for fun, most people are meeting through dating apps now because men and women do not mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:15 PM
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Not the same Men don't get to pick and choose, they take what they can get Women actively choose terrible guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:13 PM
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They don't want to marry their friends though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:48 PM
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Yea most the femcels I've met have been really damn promiscuous, I don't even really get it like their inability to get a man to commit is very much self imposed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:18 PM
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It's lost all it's meaning, heck women hate other women at much higher rates than men but female incels don't exist somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:50 AM
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A happy woman with a suitably masculine man will naturally occupy that traditional role.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:08 AM
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My boyfriend is autistic, he's tried dating 'autistic' girls before but most of them had partners or were particularly promiscuous which doesn't align with his beliefs. My theory is that autism is either 1. over diagnosed now in women (and men now) or 2. commonly cross diagnosed with borderline, which would explain the promiscuity I've met some pretty autistic women online and without fail they're very particular about what they want, you try to explain to an autistic woman that she's not going …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:21 PM
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I saw your post history and it made a lot more sense, my bad. My boyfriend also had a woman prey on him when he was younger, it's particularly frustrating with men because it's difficult to get people to take it seriously, even my boyfriend to this day doesn't really realise how messed up it was. I guess the power dynamic? as in the physicality plays a major part. But men can be really damn gullible especially men with the likes of autism. Sorry again, I understand why you'd be 'snappy' in regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:06 PM
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What? I think you got me completely wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:25 PM
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I've said before this is a jealousy thing, some women genuinely can not stand to see a man succeed in any capacity. It's a lot easier for a guy to date a younger woman because We like older men, obviously the range varies but the vast majority do prefer older guys It takes less materialistic success to impress younger women It's really not a big deal, my boyfriend is 30 in a couple years and I'm only entering my 20's, this is perfectly normal where I live and I wouldn't have it any other way. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:36 PM
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Where does this idea that men don't support eachother stem from? men are far more functionally supportive than women; just because they don't give each other disingenuous words of encouragement and rub each others inflated egos doesn't mean they're not supportive. I always had male friends growing up and they'd always look towards a solution, absolutely zero hesitation. My boyfriend and his friend group have financially supported eachother for a decade at this point When I was in highschool my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:13 AM
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People dodging any semblance of accountability on ppd will never fail to amuse me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:33 PM
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If you're 100kg and want to be feel safe/protected or be carried by a woman it's very possible you have a hormonal imbalance, fat is estrogenic. Obviously if you enjoy it, more power to you though. That being said a 4'11 man is probably multitudes stronger than a 6ft woman. I was always a pretty heavy girl, Grandfather was a mechanic so I was always helping him out and spent most my life around men so I'm a bit on the masculine side for a woman and I know just how insanely big the strength gap i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:34 PM
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Women need to stop imposing what they find attractive onto men, we're different and have different preferences that's just how it is. Men can not afford to be as specific anyway, the average man may as well admit his preference is that she can actually breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:48 PM
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honestly, he could hit me with his car and I'd still love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:56 AM
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My boyfriend has literally zero issues with me having pimples around my period and him and his friends have been very vocal about their love for stretch marks. The male monke brain goes crazy for anything that indicates fertility and that includes 'imperfections' It's women, gay men and porn addicted lonely men that have distorted standards from media manipulation, back when I lived in Ireland men were intensely vocal about the horrible make up trends and plastic surgery but women were adamant t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:55 AM
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Men are a heck load easier to date. Sure they're a bit messy and stinky sometimes but they're simple creatures. It's like having a dog... IG
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:57 PM
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I don't think this is true, most redditors come from urban population centres in the US with ever overreaching self serving cultures. I can't imagine my self without my boyfriend, I'm nothing without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:55 PM
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On a primal level, very hot. Women that tell you otherwise are probably lying to you. But after you actually deal with it you very much realise it's not very hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:24 PM
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You got bullied in school didn't you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:23 PM
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The average woman isn't having casual sex yea, don't get me wrong I know a lot of women that would sleep with multiple guys in a month because of dating apps, especially back when I lived in the west but these women are absolutely fried and I really can't see a good ending for any of them. Promoting promiscuity really serves nobody besides the very top percentile of men in my opinion, like sure I can pick up a phone, download an app and have a *high psl slayer* come pick me up but literally what…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:34 PM
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Yea and a lot of these women end up addicted to substances, are on SSRI's or they end up self deleting. That life style does not make women happy. These people are usually miserable as hell, I've seen a lot of regretful women (that claim they aren't) in their later 20's/30's on this very subreddit purposely misguide young women telling them to literally be "sluttier" and "meaner" because it'll attractive higher "PSL" men, which literally couldn't be further from the truth. There's a reason they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:03 PM
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There's plenty of women complaining about men not giving women enough attention actually, what would you say to them? I've heard dozens of women complaining about men not approaching them anymore in person heard way more women say "when is it my turn to be happy" than men, hell there's frickin' hundreds of thousands of women on social media posting about they have no bf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:49 PM
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How old are you? Easier than ever to learn anything that interests you? My Grandfather left school with zero qualifications, walked into a local job in a rural area where he worked less than 30 hours a week and was able to buy a beautiful cottage in the countryside with a few years of wages in his early 20's, he got a promotion where he worked his entire life and was able to provide for an entire family with enough money leftover for luxury items like boats, fancy cars, golf, holiday homes and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:52 PM
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If you're traditional and actually back it up, as in you don't have a lot of bodies that's fine. A lot of good men are understanding and perfectly understanding, my boyfriend could wait just fine. If you've had one night stands or slept with other guys in the past pretty quickly then no, they'll rightly just assume you're not attracted to them. Just stick to more promiscuous guys and have your fun rather than trying to trap a decent man through some weird waiting ritual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:13 PM
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Women and children are protected resources, there's a reason we're always bundled together separate from men as if they're a whole different entity. The average man just really isn't considered that valuable. Is it natural? probably; society is an extension of nature and a lot of modern sensibilities really haven't strayed far from the caves in the grand scheme of things. Will it change? probably not, it kind of feels like women are gaining access to all the positives of being male while men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:11 AM
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Yea and all the unfortunate things under current circumstances that affect women are our own fault too, every time a woman is suffering it's down to us not supporting one another enough! grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:07 PM
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I'm a housewife, literally what would school offer me? this has been my goal in life and an education would only serve to get in the way of my dreams. My boyfriend is a labourer, also little education. Doing much better than the people I know that fell for the college/urban scam, blowing all their cash on a mouldy apartment while working them selves to death in retail wondering why their degree isn't making them money lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:44 PM
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Pretty much, my boyfriend and his friends dropped out in their early 20's, the main issue is the average young woman is talking to numerous guys and has dating apps as a constant ego boost. There's literally zero point in dating for young men besides how messed up things are financially, which makes things even more insane because men are still expected to fulfil provider roles. I had to approach my boyfriend carefully and have him make sure I wasn't a threat to his happiness, like the very fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:45 PM
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I've said many times women will date a drug dealer before a guy working in retail, it's just the dominance hierarchy. Men do the same thing but tend to prefer women lower than them, which works out fine because women prefer men above them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:29 PM
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Level of indoctrination *
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:26 PM
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Stolen election and false, your economy was tanked by the democratic party and is on it's way to somewhat recovering. Stop lying, you're only serving to help the billionaires exploiting your sheepishness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:48 AM
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Because they infiltrated and infested government bodies via cowardly and snakish means, proceeding to destroy the average every day persons life while brain washed urbanites tell us we somehow deserve it Hence why trump and other far right leaders have and will continue will to be appointed throughout western society
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:54 PM
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Get help
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:15 PM
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They're benchmarked differently, we're much more social creatures and society as an extension of our nature gives us more opportunities socially, whether that's romantic or just basic support, it'll always be this way. Sure it's relative but just because when I was a 'femcel' I could pick up my phone and find a good looking guy to take care of me for the steep price of cooking and cleaning with the occasional blowjob doesn't mean I wasn't crushingly depressed, that's simply not what I wanted. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:49 AM
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Yea, and they lost in the long run every single time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:21 PM
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If you replaced men with women this post would most likely get deleted. What's truly pathetic is allowing men to be put in the position they're in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:38 PM
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Gross, it goes both ways. You have no idea how many women and men give them selves death grip and make excuses for it. I can orgasm completely fine from normal sex, as can my partner it's a lot easier than coomers make it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:08 PM
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Fat women still get sex whenever they want, it's not comparable lol Social awkwardness is fine, my boyfriend is literally autistic. But being socially awkward sure as hell doesn't help if you're a below average-average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:09 PM
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Wtf do you expect them to do? jack off. Men have testosterone, they get horny. I'd lose my mind if I didn't have regular sex. Not to mention I know women that have dumped guys because they stopped having sex with them, usually because they lost attraction (they got fat)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:14 PM
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Masculinity in general is positive, it's the engine of the human species that drove us forward. Women want masculine men, just some of them don't admit it because they've been socially engineered into doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:12 PM
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It's not really a matter of "like", it's just heavier women are easier for the fit guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:56 AM
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Men need to have regular sex or they'll look for it elsewhere, or at least they'll invest less of them selves into a relationship. When I see a lot of divorce/cheating statistics they seem to indicate that there's a lack of intimacy, at least going by the ages they peak. Regular sex = happy man happy man = treats you well = happy wife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:33 PM
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I've brought this up before, proposed the question to average every day guys and they literally do not care. The average man doesn't have enough dating opportunities to be picky about a woman's income lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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progressive women don't find progressive men attractive, at the very least they want somewhat liberal men that look republican. Most women become more conservative with age, especially around when they want to get married, probably for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:54 AM
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If it was a woman I'd just self delete, if it was a man and I'd just be severely confused, like if he was the top I'd probably get over it with some work... maybe but if he was the bottom I'd never be able to look him at him again. This is so funny to me idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:52 AM
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I don't think marriage statistics reflect the dating world for us younger people at all, even considering socioeconomic factors things are intensely different compared to when it was for the average man who is literally almost 40 in the US. That being said I unconditionally love my partner, I gave up everything to be with him and I'd do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:49 AM
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Social media is a big thing for a lot of women in the west, if you don't use at least one or two platforms your dating options will be very limited as a young man. It's not as a big deal where I live though. Said before my ears really perked up when I heard other girls talking about my partner in a positive light. We're much more social creatures than men and dating is inherently much more dangerous given men are immeasurably stronger. Safety is an actual point we have to consider, if we have ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:45 AM
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Divorce rates in all the countries I've lived have been very low. Even when I lived in Ireland divorce rates were still relatively low, at least in rural areas. This is very much a social issue, America has a very self serving individualist culture, it's not just the men either I see women in this thread parroting the same rhetoric as the men. To cultures outside of the US we see a lot "me me me me me". Marriage is one singular thing, you can't change it to suit you. If you don't want to do, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:11 PM
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only redditors would think this is okay, everyone I know would think this is revolting, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:16 PM
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It's a need, I know women that have ended relationships because they were "sexual beings" and their partners stopped having as much intimacy with them (usually because they gained weight and they lost some attraction) They were only encouraged to do so. I wouldn't be in a relationship if I wasn't having regular sex. Can we please cut out the bullcrap, both men and women need sex. We go frickin' crazy without it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:00 PM
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Young men are an absolute nightmare, most men my age haven't even finished developing physically or mentally. Plus they're absolutely fried from porn and the likes They just don't make me feel safe ig
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:41 PM
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They are, most of which are older. they just refuse to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:38 PM
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It's much easier for women to hook up, it's still harder for men to actually get a hooker than it is for a woman to hookup considering legality and money. I think it's comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:36 PM
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So are most women? the average man and woman these days is old and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:35 PM
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Still prefer older. We'd go even older if we weren't constantly shamed about it by other women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:17 PM
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Yea this is what people here can't admit, a lot of women on here are misandrists that can't stand the fact that the older men get, the more options they tend to have. So they deny that women find older men attractive, despite most of them dating older men. It definitely skews the stats My boyfriends almost ten years my senior, I think the smallest age gap in my immediate circle is 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:48 PM
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There's plenty of needles but why not pick the sharpest one. I find the average everyday man attractive, most men I've met in the past I've said to my self "yea, he'll do" but why would I settle for that when I could do better. That's the beauty of an abundance of options, whereas for average men it's more of a first come first serve kind of deal, it's not about the quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:47 PM
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Yes, most women will say its a big dealbreaker but if a woman's done hook ups before still opposes it it's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:41 PM
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Lol yea, the elite weren't exactly complaining that the work space was about to essentially double. There's a reason so many massive corporations actually encouraged women and other groups entering the work space. More cogs in the capitalist meat grinder for FREE??? sign me up :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:20 PM
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You can be nice to men without being flirtatious, just recently a guy I know was blatantly led on by a girl because she found it fun and he gave her special treatment. You know fine rightly women lead men on all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:17 PM
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Okay? most young people can't lol. Basically anyone over 30 that uses this subreddit has literally no concept of how brutal the world is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:14 PM
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Yes they are? even in more progressive areas where young women earn more than their male counterparts women still date guys that earn more, even if the gap is smaller than it was before it's still there. That's just a measurable factor, not even considering looks. I personally believe hypergamy exists, statistics reflect it as does the observable world, it's just hard wired into female biology. I like traditional relationship dynamics, my boyfriend is the leader so naturally I'm below him in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:46 PM
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Yes, I have a couple brothers and a sister. Having an autistic boyfriend was also very enlightening. I was torn a part when I realised how disgustingly short sighted I was in my femcel era, I feel immense guilt almost daily and that probably fuels my 'pick me' activities on here. The average woman wouldn't last one month as an average man, they can't even comprehend just how crushingly intensive it is mentally and physically, and they ESPECIALLY can't grasp how lonely it is romantically. My boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:40 AM
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College/Universities in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:29 PM
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Men wanting multiple women isn't necessarily THEIR nature. Historically most men didn't even reproduce. The average man had zero women, never mind multiple. For the small chunk of men that didn't die before manhood there's plenty of evidence of monogamy before modern society. We've literally evolved to be monogamous, it's much safer for us and our offspring. We find men with options sexually attractive, we want the best of the best. We reward men for not practicing monogamy; which is why men do …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:00 PM
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My boyfriend will be thirty in a couple years and he's a lot less brain rotted in general , compared to guys my age. Its absolutely essential for us to 'put out' now or we get treated like shit, it's all down to porn brain. Guys will give the most bizarre and specific instructions and need a constant stream of nudes just to remain stimulated, otherwise they'll just find porn it's insane. It was much more difficult than it should have been to find a guy that'll take a tasteful nude when I'm feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:06 AM
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How old are you? I'm 20 and I can assure you that women very much are consuming porn. They're a lot more open about it than men too, I'd imagine because it's just seen as quirky with women but we've began shaming men more for it. Women in my college would literally follow pornographic twitters and openly talk about what they were doing with guys in gritty details. Granted this was in Ireland and I have heard that Irish women are particularly aggressive/open with these kind of things. Don't get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:46 AM
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I don't, they're very comparable. One is just a lot more socially acceptable. I think they both are intensely harmful and distort peoples expectations. Most men aren't constantly sweaty 6'6 millionaires with gigantic penises, most women aren't bimbos with lip filler that like plucking pubes out their teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:41 AM
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Posts like this stem from the individualist cultures spreading in the west, especially the US. Humans are not as special or unique as we like to think we are, yes there are outliers but people are more alike than they are different. Have you even been to a bar/club? the vast majority of people talk in the same way, do the same things, have similar hobbies, have the same clothes, use the same slang. Women in particular are particularly similar, when I lived back in Ireland and I went to a bar lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:43 PM
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Biology and safety, the first time my ears perked up in regards to my bf was hearing other girls speak his praises. Women are much more social creatures, we're almost opposites in some regards. Not to mention it's good to have some validation that he's not insane and could seriously hurt us. Men fantasise about lonely girl next door types with little to no social media presence, as one of those girls I was looking for the traditionally masculine good man that people respect. People really need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:21 PM
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They don't? I'm still going to celebrate gigantic tall men despite the threats I get in dms. Women can't really win, if we're honest about what women want we get told that's not what we want, if we say we like something that isn't considered traditionally attractive we get told we're looking for attention. It's just pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:14 PM
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Just a symptom of modern living, historically most men did not reproduce; the patriarchy equalled the reproductive playing field. The average man is below the average woman, which while I admit is unfair iit is unfortunately natural. There are ways to combat this but it wouldn't be advantageous to women so I can't see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:57 PM
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Men have much higher rates of reactiveness, if they feel wronged for example they're much more likely to resort to their brute strength. Which isn't any better or worse than the more female approach, passive aggressiveness and the likes can be just as dangerous in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:37 PM
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There's far more pressure on men to 'be the man', this does not gel well with the fact men have less support and more pressure to be providers. It's not just men that push these outdated architypes it's perpetuated by women just as much if not more, as much as they refuse to admit it. People get very quiet when you apply the crime rate/poverty/struggle correlation to men as a whole, men are objectively less developed in most the west. Maybe if we spent more time focusing on dismantling these hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:34 PM
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The difference between male and female lonliness really dawned on me when I met my boyfriend, that and my brothers moving into adulthood. I used to hang around in femcel spaces where the girls basically just pooped on men 24/7 but they mostly had boyfriends? the ones that didn't kept around the tall toxic tattooed guys they complained about and fought over them. Thankfully I escaped that rabbit hole when I met my partner and he soothed out a lot of admittedly toxic and downright gross beliefs I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:10 PM
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Imposing female psychology onto men, this has only become a thing recently but it's absolutely out of control. T
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:50 PM
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I have no issue with any of those things, I've been fairly open with my distain for feminism. I know plenty of women that openly acknowledge are shortcomings but you just call us pick Me's, even though I have a beautiful gigantic boyfriend that I love and have zero interest in appealing to men, I just don't want my sons and siblings to suffer like the young men around me are. Both men and women's ideals are typically instinctual. That doesn't mean there's room for wiggle room of course there is,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:40 PM
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Women like tall men, men like smally dainty things. It's just nature, it's why sexual dimorphism exists. Every time a tall man with a big deep booming voice walks into a room our brains go "must boink", regardless of his socioeconomic status, looks, personality etc. It's just silly monke brain that ALL humans have. When a young beautiful woman walks in a room men do the exact same thing, it doesn't mean they actually go through with it. It's what separates us from animals. Women care more about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:11 PM
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Thanks I'll have a gander at these later, that being said "nuance" pill clearly isn't very nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:06 PM
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I think dating apps are an extension of real world dating now, look up just how many couples met through the internet. Recently at a house warming party I sat with my boyfriend and his friends the smallest guy of the group was just drunkenly swiping and didn't get a single match. I have a suspicion that this 80/20 rule the blackpill community pulls up may correlate with height, only like 20-15% of men are 6ft or over, and that seems to be the cut off for dating success in real life and especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:42 AM
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Don't lead with an anecdote, you use an anecdote on the tail end of facts/statistics. First of all women make up the majority of spending, second of all women are more likely to go in debt. The statistics are widely available to you. My grandfather controlled finances because my mother rapidly put us in debt, the average relationships still has men paying most the bills because women tend to use their wages to buy things THEY want. I'm pretty sure this is where the term girl maths stems from. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:26 PM
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troll
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:18 PM
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Aren't women in some places in the west having more sex than their male counterparts? they cheat just as much and young women actually cheat more than their male counterparts now. There's an entire sex toy industry tailored towards women; the vast majority of sex toy purchases are made by women too. Women pretend to be prude because societal shame or they want to pretend they're superior in men in the sense they can exercise self control, a lot of the women on this subreddit are older, and maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:09 PM
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I think the lust gap between young men and women is smaller than people make it out to be, we just suppress it because it's much more dangerous for us. When we see a tall man enter a room our brains go "must boink", just as men would when they see a cute woman come in. In regards to the femdom thing, I hung around in a lot of femcel servers and most of these 'dominant' women are just misandrists, they'll talk about how much they like twinks and submissive men but they were still fighting over th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:39 PM
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She shouldn't get any money? you're not entitled to other peoples things. Marriage is for love, not possessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:58 AM
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I grew up pretty self conscious because I was raised in a hyper masculine household, which led me to me lending more masculine character traits; got me absolutely horrifically bullied by other women, right into the workspace. I ended up dropping out and becoming a housewife, this is my idea of freedom and it's what I've always wanted to be. I was a bit of a bitter femcel at one point but I came to terms with the fact that it's mostly women and gay men that instil most these arbitrary standards f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:47 AM
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I really can't see that happening, and if it did it'd be a disaster for mankind. I'm not trying to be rude here but do your beliefs stem from being a smaller man? do you believe the quality of life will improve if there was a less stern definition of masculinity, which demands men be stoic, brutish and mountainous creatures in order to be adequate to women? Even the most progressive women still generally demand these traditionally masculine men, what would you say to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:09 AM
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Society compliments our differences and is an extension of our nature. Going against it is what's causing so many issues with young men and women. You can't rewire nature, unless you're going to get an entire generation on hormone replacement therapy I guess, which honestly at this point that would not surprise me if it was an end goal for a lot of these people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:27 AM
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Men and women are different and that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:08 AM
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No. Both men and women with more partners consistently have higher cheating and divorce rates. This post is the equivalent of a 38 year old man that's never had a job saying they're actually the good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:54 AM
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He's 6'6"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:50 AM
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Yea, I'll contact them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:29 PM
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Dude? she literally misread what I said how the heck could a cog be greedy, I genuinely thought her English was bad or she was just confused. Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:26 PM
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Most of us think you're a troll, you post engagement bait so most of us use your posts as a platform to indirectly respond to the women that piggyback of your probable satirical misandry. The women you parody are the reason men have become red pilled however, that's what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:32 PM
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Who would have thought that putting an entire generation of young men under a microscope of critique would have them turning not only more 'right wing', but actually spiteful, just like the women that have made their lives measurably worse than the generations of men before them. It's really sad because men have actually improved, a lot of them have made a conscious effort to be better, but have women? no they still hold men to the outdated standards that women supposedly wanted dissolved, but o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:24 PM
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Mostly agreed, I think it's fine to be friends with your bfs friends though; I doubt most men would mind this. Never had any bad experiences with my bfs friends they've just been really nice and cool guys, never overstepped or anything. Probably helps most of them have GFs and kids though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:21 PM
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? what about this wasn't civil, they were the aggressor in every capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:19 PM
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I hear this all the time now, for the men that are dropping out of dating anyway. I've genuinely lost count on how many times I've heard guys saying they can't be bothered because the girls they're talking to are talking to several guys. In the west the average young woman is talking to numerous guys whereas the average guy is lucky to even to be talking to one, it's just bizarre. Even in relationships there's a huge double standard, women can and will vocally complain to their partners if they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:44 PM
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Body count and having a lot of girls around, I hate that this can even be controversial. The same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:55 PM
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Oh God I'm sorry you had to go through with this, I'd say projection is the key. My bfs ex gf behaved EXACTLY like this, like she'd be constantly going through his things only to find nothing. Then he accidentally stumbled across her texting multiple guys, like with zero shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:54 PM
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You have no idea how many women I've met, especially back when I was in femcel servers that still wanted to be infantilised despite apparently hating men. The truth is they just hate average men, they still want to be cradled and babied by a 6'2 toxic e-boy with leg tattoos. (Yes I actually saw this happen in real time, literally fighting over him) We like feeling small and safe, I can't explain it. It just feels nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:51 PM
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All humans are predisposed to antisocial behaviour, it just manifests differently between men and women. Especially when considering societal pressures and standards. When men hound down women that don't want them on social media it's stalking, when a woman does it it's just ... the tea? men and women are different so we have different standards and that's fine. The threshold for what constitutes abuse is lower for women, obviously because we're nowhere near as strong so generally a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:48 PM
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Greed from employers, not the workers. Spoken like someone that literally has zero concept of what the world is like outside their bubble. There's a world outside of urban population centres with hyper left wing views you know? how do you think Donald trump won the election lol. When I lived in Ireland, one of the most liberal places in the world. There was a proposed referendum for the constitution which would void references to women's "life within the home" and marriage. Guess what? it failed…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:15 PM
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I literally never said that. I've defended them continuously I said people can disagree with my beliefs and that's fine? if I said "all men should support feminism, or even better be feminists" only to advocate for freedom of thought and speech I'd doubt you'd call it contradictory. You're being bizarrely pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:49 PM
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I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or you're just confused. I'm not calling the people that work greedy. I believe men should be the sole provider, they should earn the wages to take care of a family with enough left over for some luxuries. I believe women should be homemakers first and foremost. I don't want to work, I want to stay at home, raise children and take care of my grandfather, as he deserves. While my boyfriend puts food on the table. Those are just my beliefs, you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:31 PM
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Yes, I like traditional/natural roles; he's a provider and a really good guy. He should be earning at least twice the wages he does, like his parents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:51 AM
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What? my boyfriends one of the cogs not the greedy machinist XD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:49 AM
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I heard a lot of women complaining because a gay club/bar they used to go to got infested by men after finding out that's where the women were going. I feel like this is the case in most countries, women that don't want to get hit on are just going to gay clubs. I don't like clubs though so I don't really know about the dangers, I got hit on a lot when I lived in Europe though. Plus I think it's single behaviour, if I was being dragged to one I'd make a compromise for a gay club.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:48 AM
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He's a labourer, we started dating while he was still living at home well into his 20's so he was able to accumulate enough money to build us a bungalow on his families property. We don't have to pay rent or a mortgage, just pretty insignificant bills. Rural areas are a lot cheaper (and better in every single metric) We live comfortably and I'm very blessed. I think this is where the future is going, more and more people are realising moving away from home to an urban hellhole only to become a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:45 AM
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One of the most common phrases I hear is "big boy job", I can't imagine how infuriating that phrase is, probably almost as annoying as short king. My friends ex and his sister always talked about guys getting big boy jobs, indirectly trying to encourage my bf to pursue a more lucrative career. I guess him putting his back out before 30 in hard manual labour isn't a big boy job anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:36 AM
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troll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:33 AM
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This is the part I wish these women would notice, it's deeply ironic that a lot of these women vocally despise capitalism but act as if it was a victory to become a cog in the capitalist meat grinder. Thanks girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:28 AM
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It's not a myth, while the gap isn't massive people in urban areas, at least in all the countries I've lived have had higher cheating statistics. Urban areas obviously being more liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:11 AM
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If someone asks to peg you run, if someone asks you to peg them... run. You have no idea how relieved I was to find my boyfriend GREATLY opposes these kind of things, it's a symptom of misandry or porn brain rot. Anyways bait aside, female perspective If my boyfriend was extra sweet to his ex and always had sex with her then didn't do that for me I'd be intensely upset, I wouldn't just feel like I wasn't good enough, I'd straight up leave. If a woman somehow rationalises that she won't treat you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:16 AM
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This will never fail to be funny, literally zero accountability. Women like you are the reason why we're the gender mocked for "never being in the wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:11 AM
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Sure they'll look at them and think they look nice but dating wise the average man would much rather be with the timid and unpopular girl than the Instagram bimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:59 PM
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Men are attracted to women around or below their own level generally, they were matching with you because you're average-below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:42 PM
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Yep, women prefer men in more traditionally masculine roles. It's one of the main reasons men are struggling with dating, women won't date a guy working in retail even if he out earns a spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:40 PM
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Lol, I'm going to start disregarding every single critique of masculinity from now on until feminists begin lo earn how to do some self reflection and will openly criticise femininity. You're in for a shock when you realise the greatest advocate for this narrow definition of masculinity, is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:33 PM
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Feminism isn't your friend, it's a greedy capitalist ploy that had employers licking their lips knowing the work space was about to double. You think women are more free than they were before? weird because the average every day woman AND man can't live comfortably alone, just now they don't even have the freedom to stay at home and actually raise their children without state intervention. When I lived in the west it was in the countries constitution that women shouldn't have to work, even when …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:16 PM
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I think the state of feminism really reflects how a lot of western women think about men, I haven't seen a single thing about feminism doing anything to help normal everyday working class men, in fact it's served to actually make their lives noticeably worse. It's like the average every day guy just doesn't register to them, they just don't exist. Anytime you bring up their struggles it's instantly dismissed it's actually insane. Dismantling the patriarchy really translated to more women sliding…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:52 PM
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Cutting out pointless jobs that only exist to justify pointless degrees from a pointless education system would be a good start, I want more high paying entry level jobs for men. I hate the lie that somehow women are more independent than ever. Now we have to be a cog in the capitalist meat grinder. If it was ever about choice women would still have the ability to stay at home and actually raise their damn children, instead of relying on state intervention because we have to work every single da…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:41 PM
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I think the solution is looking to the past. Things were fine for my parents/grandparents, the future not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:19 PM
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Statistics indicate that women, even in progressive areas demand that men earn more than them. I just figured reddit was appropriate since it's very much a left leaning platform where women at least claim to be more progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:18 PM
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Good luck being single in a time where everything is priced for a dual earning household lol, the work force has essentially doubled and is ever expanding; wages are only going to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:43 PM
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They're in an entirely unique situation, most of dating's issues are financial. Most women will not date men that don't earn more than them, nor will they date men in more traditionally feminine jobs which now pay more upfront than a lot of trades. It's harder than ever for young men to outearn their female counterparts, have a nice car and especially have their own home, look at the gap between men and women living at home now it's very telling. The prequisites men require to date are harder th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:41 PM
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You shouldn't need a test to know a kid is yours, genetics are genetics. I can take one look at my siblings and know who the father is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:03 PM
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This is an insanely bad idea, a lot of women that were purposely holding onto their virginity see it as a virtue; if you question this you're going to really hurt her. You're going to get dumped, I don't think you realise how fortunate you are in your position; especially if you live in Europe or the US
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:57 PM
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Don't get why men are getting with women they think would need a paternity test in the first place, if you do this you're part of the problem. Stop hitting up bops lol I was a virgin before meeting my BF, at no point have these thoughts even crossed his mind. I'm not saying you need to go for complete trad virgin waifus but have some self respect and stop giving attention to women with high body counts, it's literally statistically proven they're more and more likely to cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:35 PM
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Autistic men are what made me come out of the toxic misandrist/femcel spaces, part of maturing is realising real men are just big silly softies. It also made me realise just how harsh life is for these men, they're just suffering in silence. I think basically all men are autistic in some capacity, at least real men. If I sat down all the men in my area down to do a screening test I'm certain they'd all come back with a fairly certain score xD That being said no, my partner is autistic, his frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:06 PM
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Even in 'egalitarian" relationships the men generally still earn more though, and it's harder for young men to make more than young women in areas where these 'egalitarian' relationships are more frequent, even egalitarian women are looking for a very small subset of men that earn more than them, a smaller group of men than generations prior. There's places in the west, like say London where things like HR and retail are expanding and more traditional masculine roles are on the decline, even the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:20 PM
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I've said before I think most these threads are made by incels trying to purposely send young women on the wrong path just they suffer later on, or it's bitter older women/femcels trying to make sure other women are just as miserable as them. Do not listen to these people, find your self a nice normal guy that makes you happy. These nice normal guys won't be there for you to pick up the pieces anymore, the internet has made these men far too aware of this strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:35 PM
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Then why are women still not dating guys below/on their level financially or age wise, you're still dating upwards. Plus women are dating more than men, regardless of those incel rage bait statistics they still all indicate that women are less likely to be alone or living at home regardless of how small the gap is lol It's just a lie, like at least I'm honest about not working; I'm completely dependant on my boyfriend and I see no shame in it. But lying about not needing men while simultaneously…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:16 PM
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You're in for a real shock when you find out that women value height more than all of those things lol, when we're describing an ideal man all the other things follow "tall" Not to mention taller men are statistically happier, earn more and have more children. The niceties just come with the territory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:57 PM
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Women are just as heavy handed if not worse than men because they're not conditioned into facing rejection, at least if it's a man they find intensely attractive. My boyfriend has had two separate incidents involving women harassing/stalking him, one even spreading lies (by her own eventual admission) because they couldn't move out of the friend zone, this girl even tried getting him drunk to make more advancements. I think the difference is men just have a much wider pool for what they consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:54 PM
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How does one increase SMV? I'd argue it's inherit, my boyfriend is an everyday rural labourer, an absolute giant of a man. To 99% of women he's going to have a higher 'SMV' than any little urban guy, regardless of how hard they workout or how much they make
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:30 AM
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Okay that's a bluff, women are still economically dependant on men, even in urban settings in the US where young women are out earning their young male counterparts they're STILL generally dating men that earn more than them. Not to mention women are more likely to go in debt, women do the vast amount of spending in general, I know plenty of Women that literally just blow their wages within days then depend on their man to pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:19 AM
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While psychopathic men are obviously doing better than the average man, they always have and always will you really lost credibility when you referred to 18 year olds as "fresh"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:15 AM
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Why are people so worked up over people with insane standards, delusional standards represent a delusional person, why would you want to be with someone that's clearly not all there mentally? The only women I knew with insane standards were femcels back when I hung out in those circles, the average every day woman can't tell the difference between 5'9 and 6ft, she knows the average guy is balding and chubby because she goes outside. My bfs best friend is around 5'8, height is the most important …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:46 PM
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Because men are still expected to be stoic, complaining is unattractive to women, it's inherently feminine behaviour. Just like how audibly farting in public is inherently masculine behaviour, doubt men would find women that partake in farting in public attractive. This is a gross over simplification, but it's the gist; society or biology (or both) wires us to tell men to just get on with it. It works, you'll have better dating prospects if you spend less time complaining and more time just tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:39 AM
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Women and Children are both cradled by society, we're still treated like a protected resource, it's just now we're a protected resource and a cog in the capitalist meat grinder, as things progress we'll be just as disposable as men unless we have children, so I guess it's a win win for both incels and hardcore misandrists, sure we'll be more equal but now we'll both be bottom feeders. Although I am having children soon, I'd imagine women wanting children will only become a more sought after reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:20 PM
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You'll be fine, you just need another war. Prosperity always comes after wartime, it's what happened here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:06 AM
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I agree, I picked my partner; I just dropped hints that I'd like him to pursue me but he didn't because he's silly and autistic so I had to actually ask him. Women usually make it quite obvious if they like you, if this isn't happening to you then you're just unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:03 AM
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Because traditional masculine roles are still in full swing and feminism has made little to no effort to deconstruct outdated standards for men, men are still expected to pursue a provider/leader like role. I've said before more men on here would get laid if they were more stone faced and just got on with it. It's not fair I know, but It's just how things are. Conservatives are having more sex and reproducing more for this reason, traditional stoic men are still the most sought after. Even among…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:59 AM
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I'm going to let you in on a secret that a lot of young men tend to find out the hard way. We don't really want you to say anything beyond "damn, that sucks". We like to complain and have our feelings validated, you don't need to apoligse or try save the world; we just want you to listen. It's a lot more socially acceptable for women to bash men in their entirety, it's not fair and we know that but life isn't fair. I don't make the rules, I don't care whether it's biological or not we just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:17 PM
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proud owner of an alpha bf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:09 PM
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Yea I've said several times that the men are struggling due to economical factors, hence why me and a few other women on PPD try to tell women to gauge men by other respective qualities and not their income, because income does not reflect a good partner in any capacity, there's plenty of evidence to suggest high earning men actually make worse and even more dangerous partners. In the west it's not uncommon now for young women to out earn their male counterparts, for less work may I add. Even in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:01 PM
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Not too bothered, as long as it's tame and isn't harmful to women/inflate beauty standards unrealistically. My boyfriend only 'uses' things I've personally taken though, it's a win win. I think this goes both ways though, I don't read romance novels or the likes that also contribute to unrealistic standards and he sends me things too. It's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:20 AM
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But younger women earn more than their male counterparts and are still dating up financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:17 AM
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Most marital and relationship issues persist because of promiscuity, cheating AND divorce rates increase more depending on the amount of partners both the male or female has had. Funny read though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:28 PM
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Going for a hard disagree here, I've said many times I was bullied horrifically by women growing up for exhibiting a lot of manlier traits so I'm biased. That being said while men absolutely can exhibit borderline thuggish behaviour at much higher rates than women I think a lot of it boils down to men being rewarded for acting in accordance with a lot of historically toxic parts of masculinity, even by women admittedly. When women do good we're rewarded for it, we need other people to know that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:00 PM
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It doesn't change anything, across the board women generally only date men that earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:27 PM
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To be fair, this is because they can't get laid with women their own level so they go for women that would be physically or financially below them by societies standards under the assumption they'll be easier, and yea that is generally true. Hookers also yea, because they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:15 PM
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Even egalitarian women refuse to date guys that don't make noticeably more, even with young women earning more than their male counterparts for less work. "Across all opposite-sex marriages in 2022, the median earnings for wives were $35,000 while husbands earned a median of $65,000. By definition, in egalitarian marriages, spouses' earnings are similar to one another. Today, wives in egalitarian marriages earn $60,000 at the median, while husbands earn $62,000" I'd assume this is what he means …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:13 PM
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Yea this is an area women need to improve on, I approached my boyfriend and while men are difficult to flirt with because they take everything literally I still managed to do it, I just had to be brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:50 PM
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This, one of the main reasons I've mostly kept male company. I was raised in a predominantly male household with blatantly autistic men so it's just how I speak, never had an issue with a man and given my boyfriends autistic he actually appreciates my forwardness. Meanwhile there were still rumours of me being a lesbian or just a "snarky bitch" being spread behind my back well into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:48 PM
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Most women like tall and big, would you prefer me lie? just most how most men like petite/small it's just how things are. Sexual dimorphism exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:43 PM
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Would you really want to be with those kinds of women though? those women are obviously using him anyway. He's a weedy 6'3, he just has an awkward ratty build and face and a high pitched irritating voice it's difficult to describe, like my bfs friend is 5'8 but he looks more respectful? plus he has a big booming voice. I am biased though, me and my friends like big bois, my bf is closer to 7ft than 6ft and probably around 275lbs at the very least. But I do find shorter/average guys attractive so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:26 PM
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Generally women want these things but that's not to say that just because you have these things you won't be gross, like Andrew Tate has(had) those things and he's repulsive, he's bald and just ratty and small looking. We like assertiveness sure but in his case it's very clearly fake, it's all an act. My boyfriend has none of those things besides maybe being assertive, he's also bald but he very much fits the 'female gaze', he's a brutish, towering and caring figure that everyone around here ado…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:17 PM
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It's too expensive and fast paced to be alone these days, you need a partner unless you want to barely get by OR live at home/in a house share. I was an extremely bitter femcel before I met my gigantic kratos bf, he sooths me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:01 PM
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I'd dump him, even the idea of my BF ever being with anyone else bothers me but he hasn't, all mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:52 PM
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Their partner, who else? most adults don't want to live at home or in a house share, but we don't have to because we generally go for older guys with more income
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:02 PM
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The average young woman has the option to easily split the burden in a time where everything is priced for two people, the average young man doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:43 PM
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The issue is that they're still punished for straying away from this standard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:08 PM
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They do and it's not even close. Pregnancy made me much more prepared to admit what most of us already know but won't say out loud, happens with most women. It's only human to think you have it worse than others, but seeing the way my brothers are struggling through no fault of their own in areas I never even did for a second made it very apparent. Hearing my boyfriends struggles and the idea of my sons going through the same almost brings me to tears some times. The truth is we can't even compr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:49 PM
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I've spoken to guys before about stuff like this, I think a big reason is because men want to date practically. It's insanely difficult to word, it's just the way they're wired. Men might look at a really hot girl and enjoy them visually, but the practical part of the male brain just says "but she'd be a nightmare". In the sense they'll be much more physically, mentally and financially demanding than they'd want them to be, men don't like fighting for partners the same way we do either; men real…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:03 AM
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Get a job
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:44 AM
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Yea my boyfriend was like this until I came along (I was persistent) A lot of traditional guys kind of just exist in limbo, like my boyfriend basically said that he's fine alone and refuses to lower/change his standards because he knows it's what he wants, and that's fine because he also practices his standards, he always politely turned girls down because of different life style choices without shaming them. It's crazy I know, you can reject a woman for not being a virgin without making her fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:37 AM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:37 PM
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He has a buzzcut and a big bushy beard. Plus he's a giant with a lovely booming voice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:42 PM
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Is this really about freedom? most the people on this subreddit seem fairly pro authoritarian assuming it's advantageous to them. Throughout history it's believed most men didn't reproduce, most women did. Only in a small pocket of history did men have almost the same reproductive opportunities as women, it's very possible that the reproductive gender gap will widen again. It shouldn't need to be said, but this is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:03 AM
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This is so unhinged, I feel bad for laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:37 PM
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I'm going to tell you a secret OP, the only people that care about this stuff are bitter old misandrists that can't stomach men doing well in any capacity. Men's dating prospects and quality of life tend to peak later, these women don't want that happening; they want them to suffer as much they did in their 20's for their entire lives. Nobody cares IRL, most my friends are dating guys that are at least 4-5 years older and this is only going to increase until either the cost of living and housing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:24 PM
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lol, yea it's totally nothing to do with younger women having tamer and less grossly outdated financial and living expectations than older women, it's totally to do with men being predatorial Older women date even older men, the age gap only grows more with time lmao which reflects exactly what I said in the first paragraph. But somehow that's not predatory behaviour? going for men you supposedly find gross because of their resources Anyways, younger people are much more open minded when it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:10 PM
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chad is lame and small, I found me a kratos bf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:13 PM
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I'm not from the US and such, a lot of these phrases are alien to me. I know some Irish ones that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:23 PM
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the government giving people what they want? in 2024/5?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:22 PM
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Why do people bring up intelligence, most my friends like a bit of silliness in their men. Smart people are more likely to be miserable and make others miserable They might make more money sure, but people with more money are also more likely to be assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:17 PM
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Get on what!?? is this a phrase? I mean your brain never stops developing, it just develops more rapidly up to a point Assuming you don't abuse a lot of drugs ig
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:15 PM
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WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:57 PM
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This is why women love Irishmen, love their mammies. Mommy issues are so damn real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:56 AM
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Yep, a lot of the old heads on here don't get just how brutal it is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:20 AM
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Nowadays, never. It's just an unfair and outdated standard. It's more financially viable for young men to stay at home right now, but they can't win either way, he's either going to be struggling and barely surviving, which most women consider undatable or stay at home and at least keep his wages, which is still undatable. The world is changing, we're going to see a shift towards generational housing again; I know plenty of grown men in their 20's with degrees stuck at home through no fault of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:13 AM
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See my boyfriend is technically Gen Z, but he has some older friends that are considered millennials that still hang around him and his younger friends who would be more solid candidates for stereotypical Gen Z kids. Whereas his parents are also millennials but his 30 year old friends have much more in common with him and his younger friends than they do with his parents. There's nothing to separate them, they all have the same kind of fashion, interests, slang etc. I've dragged my boyfriend to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:42 PM
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My boyfriend is in his late 20's, I said he's "almost 30". 25 seemed appropriate, or would you say 25 isn't in the same age group as a 30 year old too? Anyways, I've lived in the west and it was similar; plenty of social circles and work places have people mingling in the 20-30 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:30 PM
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Dude, the women on here are overwhelmingly closet misandrists just like the men are misogynists. Most of us figured this out a long time ago and that's why there's women 'coping' with the le "old men are actually gross its just they like younger women". It's because they feel bitter about men's dating prospects and general quality of life increasing with age, whereas women tend to 'peak' earlier. They just can't stomach men potentially not suffering. Ironically if you ask any of these women how …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:14 PM
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Yea even to this day a lot of women are deeply insecure about it. Bizarrely this kind of extended to men too, remember not so long ago men were clean shaven and some even shaved their chests and legs. Now facial hair is back as the norm. I'm all for it, as someone that loves bearish men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:35 PM
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I didn't think you meant me in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:30 PM
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If women my age wherever you're from want to fight over the same small fraction of guys their age that have decent jobs and their own homes then cool. But then you can't complain about women all wanting the top whatever % of men Most women like older men whether that's a small gap or not it doesn't matter, I pursued him. Most my friends are dating guys at least 5 years older than them. It's the norm in most places, the age gap only grows with age too as women begin seeking out men that have accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:18 PM
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I'm starting to realise slay means something different between men and women lol. Yea especially since people were a little smaller too, a lot of men would be giants back then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:18 PM
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I'm 20, most my friends are like 21-32. Bf is almost 30. Imo same age group
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:13 PM
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Neurotypical humans are intensely easily manipulated by their surroundings, especially in an age when media dominates every aspect of peoples lives. Moustaches were seen as gross and creepy all my life until they became popular in a couple movies/shows and now they're a massive sex symbol in guys my age now. I swear to God I know perfectly pretty and well adjusted women that will go crazy over literally the most average guy with a moustache. Another example is the recent emphasis placed on men's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:19 PM
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Don't think it'll be like now/before where promiscuous people marry promiscuous people, I think younger people that are promiscuous are probably going to share pretty hardcore anti traditional views that see little value in marriage, which is fair they can do what they want. It'll be different for women my age, I doubt most men in my age group will ever get married and the ones that will have much higher standards since they'll have more choices, so naturally a lot of these women probably will j…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:28 AM
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lmao yea, this is where I first picked it up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:58 PM
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If women want to understand men more they need to treat them like they're all basically autistic, seriously it starts making a lot more sense. Not saying this as a dig, I love men; you big gigantic silly autists <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:23 PM
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A lot of this is cultural/locational. where I'm from people leave their doors open all day. People leave their kids to be watched by strangers with no second thought. I can go out at night alone just fine. Even when alone with men I feel protected not fearful, actually massively prefer the company over my female counterparts too but that's probably jus how I was raised. Wasn't uncommon for random guys to offer me a ride home a few years ago and it was always pleasant, everyone around here knows …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:31 PM
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I'm going to be biased because I mostly hang around men and I ask them things like this all the time. I feel like young men in general have made it pretty clear what they want in women but a lot of women, especially on here like to tell men what it is they want. Men don't care about looks anywhere near as much imo, they're also frustratingly simple. They do have a preference for things that reflect high fertility just how we like immutable characteristics that reflect a mans ability to fill a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:34 PM
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Yes but the difference is they're tall and hot. Incels aren't. Sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:34 AM
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My boyfriend is basically 30 and I'm 20. Most women around me are dating guys a considerable chunk older than them (at least 3-4 years). Before I took a break from here I noticed there's a really weird narrative women spin here and I think me and a few others figured what it is. If women and feminism want to address why women tend to date up age wise they'd need to address that women still won't date men that live at home or aren't making as much if not more than them, during a cost of living an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:10 PM
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They just pretend they do, it's really funny. Most women I know find feminine men genuinely repulsive, it triggers actual anger in my friend. No idea what causes it, but there's a reason why the women that are into these kinds of men want to perform humiliating 'dominating' acts on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:57 AM
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What? you do realise they had an actual civil war that ended only a couple decades ago? what do you think they were fighting with... their fists?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:52 AM
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Well it's worth considering I've only really lived in Ireland and Eastern Europe, the men are kind of known for being very stoic. I've been to the US and England where the men there were completely different socially. They came across as a lot more expressive and almost flamboyant. Granted obviously even that is going to change on a state by state basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:53 PM
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My advice to women is to treat every man like he's autistic, I'm fairly certain if most men took an autism screening test it'd tell them they're pretty damn autistic anyway. We're natures selectors sure, but we have to drop them some pretty clear hints; they're not like us they don't really do subtilty. I even sat on my bfs lap once before we started dating and he still wasn't sure if I liked him. That's what you're going to have to deal with. It's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:40 PM
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The key is dating a man a large enough nobody is willing to fight, it's a win for everyone. That being said I wouldn't be with a man that couldn't protect me or my future kids, especially with the way the world is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:35 PM
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That's because the English are cowards and problematic by nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:21 PM
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No but I'd love to see someone try
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:19 PM
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I have literally never seen this happen and I've lived in rural Ireland and now I'm back in Eastern Europe; the two places reknown for pubs and brawls. If someone even raised their voice at me in either there would be a group of 6ft men dragging him out of the place within seconds. The Irish in particular thrive on confrontationit's really fucking hot Men are still men in some places
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:07 PM
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Men have been insanely emasculated in the west, I don't really blame the bf in this situation either. A normal woman would be waiting for her bf to send that guy into orbit with a smirk. I'm dating a 6'5/6'6 270lb man for a reason, wtf is the point if he's not going to use it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:00 PM
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"Will outgrow it" please don't hate me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:42 PM
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as much as some women value taller men, there are men who equally desire women who are short https://youtu.be/xbz10IvihQw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:40 PM
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I'm so tired of this 5-1% meme, it's like 15-20% It's fucking height, the numbers correlate directly with height, only around 15-20% of men in the US are tall, do you really think women are going to be swiping on short/average guys on apps that are predominantly men. The average man in the US is tiny and overweight, why the hell would women pick that when they don't have to? it's like going for fast food when you could have a real dinner at a nice restaurant If men were in the minority and had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:04 PM
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I mentioned weight, not height. Which in most cases, is under ones control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:39 AM
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Comparing someone to an elder scrolls character? damn that must be the worst thing to happen to anyone ever, especially when it wasn't targeted towards an individual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:33 AM
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height is law is very funny. Men like small and dainty things, women like big and strong things. It's just how it is, I don't know any women that would deny this outside of reddit. That being said it doesn't just have to be height, it can be broad shoulders, a big deep voice, big pawish hands, some girls even like big noses. Even when it comes to my boyfriends friend he's still very much a real man, he's short but he's still a big guy to most men and women, he must be at least 200lbs, has a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:17 AM
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I mean I live in eastern Europe but yea generally conservative people are simpler, happier and have more sex, therefore more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:46 AM
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Yea don't do that it'll just ruin you. My boyfriends friend started going down the cel rabbit hole because of his lack of success on tinder and the likes. That being said his friend is in the 5'6-5'7 range, which in my country is about the equivalent to 5'2-5'3, so there's hope. Get some tattoos n stuff, grow a beard if you can. Women in my age group love those things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:42 PM
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I like real men, not 130lb sticks with goofy adoring fan eyes that men in these spaces think women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:37 PM
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Most normal people, especially in rural areas want children. It's the greatest part of life, it's what it's all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:36 PM
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I don't need people to infantilise me, I do it my self.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:30 PM
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Dating's apps are all about height, my boyfriends friend is very short for our country and literally got zero matches despite being way above average. Don't use these apps they'll destroy your self esteem, do what he did and talk to girls in bars and stuff, he now has a girlfriend and two children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:29 PM
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My boyfriend told me about this, the girls at his work love him and they'll casually just sit swiping on hinge or whatever together while vaping, asking him opinions on the guys at times. Have to admit it's very funny, a gigantic autistic man joining in on girlies swipe session
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:27 PM
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The biggest mistake they're making is assuming liberal women were ever sleeping with liberal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:28 PM
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Strange how every single feminist driven movement only seems to serve to fuck over normal everyday men, the average young man isn't even in a relationship nevermind an abusive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:25 PM
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Never did anything casual, found a man that hasn't either. It's what I needed and I'm glad I held out because he said he wouldn't date someone that's ever done anything casual. I'd be quite conservative for western standards so this is fair imo Doesn't seem hard to find men that haven't done anything casual, the only guys I knew back in Ireland that did casual stuff were so blatant, the lanky tall guys with nice hair and some tattoos with some 'dirty' facial hair. Literally every single time wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:43 AM
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I think pay should match the risk factor/physical intensity level, I'm pretty certain the reason most young men are single and most women aren't is financial, no matter what we do most women instinctively will seek out men that earn more, even women on this subreddit will try justify that they need to date a man with a high paying job (even though there's actual statistics that show these men don't make better partners but they conveniently forget this) It's harder than ever to make an increment…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:55 PM
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I'm sure there are women that fit the bill but it'd take a lot more effort for them to keep up, and all the flowers to the girls that actually do. My boyfriend works a pretty intensive job and it's literally all men, they had one woman work with them and she burst into tears on the first day. Keep in mind this was a BIG woman too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:33 PM
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We have stronger immune systems I guess but that's it, a lot of men into this kind of stuff are usually quite timid/small so maybe they impose them selves on other men? It's insane and terrifying how strong men are, grew up around mostly men and I got humbled pretty quickly when it came to toy fighting :')
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:27 PM
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Maybe, my boyfriend dealt with one of these girls and it really messed him up so I'm particularly defensive when it comes to this topic. Just be careful and good luck x, especially if you're autistic or generally just like my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:20 PM
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The only women into these kind of things have unresolved trauma that's made them intensely misandrist, they don't want to make you feel good, they want to take out their hatred of men on you and humiliate you. They're usually extremely predatory too, seeking out mentally ill guys with low self esteem or even more vulnerable people like autistic men. Btw these women want twinks sure, but those twinks are still usually insanely tall, just very skinny. I used to hang out in femcel spaces and all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:54 PM
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I've never been rejected but I only ever pursued one man, gotta play it safe. If I got rejected I'd probably just go live in the wilderness ig
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:12 AM
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Can men just take the damn lead, the amount of women that want to take the lead are literally in the decimals percentage wise, even the ones that say they don't usually do. Way more men would get laid if they'd just be men :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:10 AM
1

I live in the east, my boyfriend is an autistic bald guy that earns borderline minimum wage, my friends boyfriend doesn't even work, my other friends boyfriend sells things online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:38 PM
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If a woman gets too comfortable and lets her self go she's not dating someone on her level, I practically worship my boyfriend and I constantly worry about him settling because he's so far above me in my mind, obviously to him I'm not because he treats me really well, what's the point in being in a relationship if you're not thankful for each other I guess. If someone settles they're going to put in less effort through time, just how it is. I forget the word/phrase for this phenomenon but it's o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:29 PM
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He didn't actively try to shit on men, which is where Kamlas's PR team went wrong, they spent millions literally pissing off 50% of the population and somehow... wanted to win an election? I don't know if it's an American thing but how can you be that insanely stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:27 AM
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They already do, who do you think liberal women are sleeping with? it's not the liberal men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:24 AM
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Non westerner input Some recent statistics showed that young women actually cheat more than young men, it's actually pretty crazy how the cheating gap closed so fast. You also have to account for the fact that women have much more reason to be dishonest about cheating given the consequences are going to hit them harder, whether it be socially or actually endangering them. Men begin to cheat more and more as time goes on, in marriage, around when women enter menopause funnily enough which terrifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:56 AM
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http://www.mogef.go.kr/eng/lw/eng_lw_s001d.do?mid=eng003&bbtSn=704933 As for women, 12.1% had been victims of spousal violence in the last year: 3.3% being physical, 10.5% psychological, 2.4% economic, and 2.3% sexual violence. 9.1% of women reported that they had perpetrated spousal violence. As for men, 8.6% had been victimized by their spouse in the last year: 1.6% physical, 7.7% psychological, 0.8% economic, and 0.3% sexual violence. 11.6% of men reported that they had perpetrated spousal vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:09 PM
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I'm sorry but if you're in rabid pursuit of materialistic gain you're going to get cut throat men. I see women on here 'victim blaming' men all the time for pursuing blatantly toxic women, it's suddenly "men's lack of standards" or "men's inability to look inwards". I'm not saying things shouldn't change, they absolutely should but no amount of these bizarre movements is going to stop women pursuing bad men, it only serves to piss off average men, who is overwhelmingly unlikely to be abusive. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:58 PM
1

bless you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:42 PM
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Yes, I'm sure this totally doesn't serve to just mess things up for the average man and woman and totally won't fuel the gender war. Movements like this expose an insanely self serving and borderline narcissistic soul, it's just gross. I don't understand why every single movement these kind of people propose is objectively bad for humanity. Anyways South Korean women are insanely materialistic, stop chasing men that earn more and you won't get cheated on as much. There's plenty of evidence avail…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:56 PM
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inb4 he gets pegged
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:57 AM
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No, left wing women will continue not to date left wing men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:54 AM
2

Wtf is the 4b movement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:58 AM
1

At what given point did I say anything about taking away basic human rights? like I said abortion is legal here but it's very difficult to access and heavily discouraged, which to me is a good compromise compared to people that almost romanticise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:43 PM
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I just come from a place where everyone has to do their part, America seems to have a massive divide between hyper nationalistic people and highly individualistic people. The latter seem to be almost inherently self destructive but that's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:41 PM
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I don't live in Ireland anymore. I left a few years ago like many other eastern Europeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:38 PM
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If not for your country then your countrymen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:13 PM
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The wages in my country are much lower than yours, I don't work and my boyfriend earns around minimum wage. We have enough disposable income to live comfortably. Americans are obsessed with moving to expensive cities, abandoning their families and feeding landlords that overcharge them for rent. Not saying you're doing this, but that materalistic dream is gone. Stay at home, keep your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:12 PM
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How about getting a job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:02 PM
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Everyday I look out over the mountains and rolling fields and feel grateful, I have every opportunity to live the life my parents/grand parents couldn't. I live in a safe, friendly village with people that actually care about me and I can't wait to have children soon with the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:27 PM
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You guys don't realise how good you have it. My family have moved around for generations dodging socialism/communism, only to end up in Ireland where a civil war broke out in actual recent memory. Ireland in it's self is completely doomed and the many eastern Europeans that moved there are actually going back. Europe is even worse than the US, I'm really not sure where you think things will be better, but good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:23 PM
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The US just like most places has a fertility rate, do you feel no inclination to support your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:11 PM
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People need to start having children, it just has to happen. In my country abortion is technically legal but very difficult to access, the abortion rate has dropped steadily while the birth rates have increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:19 PM
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Just out of curiosity do you prefer virgin men because of moral alignment or is it more of a kink (I absolutely hate this word I'm sorry, I couldn't think of alternative word)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:49 AM
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He's somewhat religious, it's something he only really got into recently and it's been very good for him. I'd imagine he would have been a lot more reserved if we met later. I'm also slightly religious, also a recent development. Always had quite traditional beliefs but I think I have messed up hormones or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:45 AM
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My fault, he was fine with waiting until marriage, I wasn't. Girl gotta eat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:41 AM
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Boyfriend was a virgin when we met, didn't last long. It's crazy how many guys actually still are virgins well into their 20's now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:38 AM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:28 AM
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Yea you don't seem bitter like a lot of guys on here, but I'm sorry you're sad. Between you and me I do think short guys are treated unfairly, I actually thought the average height for men was 6ft until recently; women don't realise must guys aren't. In our heads like 5'9/5'10 guys are 6ft because obviously that's the average. I think the reason for this is because basically all female media, especially books the guys are very rarely below 6ft. Women are just horrific at gauging size if you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:16 PM
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Not at all, I'm going by what I've seen men and women say and personal experience living in the west. I think it's an unfair and crazy standard that's gotten out of control. I meant you have wiggle room in regards to how you present your self, your career, living situation to be more attractive. Obviously it's not your fault and you can't control it, but I can't see it changing anytime soon and you'd have better luck in other places that don't have deranged beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:47 PM
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I don't think zero options = ugly/undesirable. I think things are just unrealistically hard for average dudes and dating apps destroy their self esteem. Unless you're short you have a lot to work with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:03 PM
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Yea that's exactly how my bf describes it, obviously he wasn't raped but he's had girls playfully push him into things he didn't want to do, or things like the groping incident. He thinks it's because he's autistic, makes him easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:43 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened, yea you're absolutely right it does happen; unfortunately I've seen it with my own eyes. I don't understand why people can't just keep their hands to them selves, I hope it never happens again and that you find someone sweet, caring and ultimately respectful of your boundaries x
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:34 AM
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I have none of those things, I don't think it's fair to invalidate peoples experiences with cat calling as if they're doing it as some appreciative gesture of the female form. My boyfriend got cat called and had some of the girls grab/smack his butt before.... I was going to say a lot of people on here would probably say he's average but he does have a fantastic butt. I don't even know anymore, people are freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:22 AM
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I'm saying it's very prevalent in cities, I'd disagree though. I've been out with perfectly normal/average girls and even 'unfortunate' looking girls and they've been cat called. I think men really underestimate just how low men's standards generally are, I've seen perfectly decent looking dudes creep out and try hit on very drunk obese girls. Not saying obese women are necessarily bad looking, just saying that I'd imagine to the average person that would be a negative trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:08 AM
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It's situational, it happens way more in cities. Cat calling is rampant (among both men and women). I think it's because I'm painfully shy and timid, creepy men see that and somehow think this means you're more likely to give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:02 AM
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When I lived in the west I got hit on a lot, to the point where it affected my ability to actually go out at night alone. I'm not going to pretend I'm all that, I'm on the chubby side (I like chocolate, leave me alone). This completely stopped when I met my boyfriend thankfully, having a gigantic bearded baldy man beside you is a big creep deterrent. Anyways women get hit on a lot, especially if they're alone. This isn't a good thing when you account for the fact that the vast majority of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:55 AM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:50 AM
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I didn't blame men, I said men's incredibly low standards is a problem. I thought men were meant to be the logical gender with strong reading comprehension. I didn't call you any names and you are very clearly angry, I never called you any names. You come across as very erratic, emotional, accusatory and almost effeminate, I'm not saying that as an insult I'm saying that as an observation. Women don't like that in men, it's something you should work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:00 PM
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I wouldn't date a man with these views, the vast majority of them are creeps that think being subservient to women will get them laid, then they throw their toys out the pram when it doesn't work and say horrible things or even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:30 PM
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Not sure why you're so angry at me, I've went out of my way to criticise both men and women. I think women have some insanely unfair standards and I've made a conscious effort to propose how we can resolve them, to the distain of other women You clearly have some issues you need to work through and I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:27 PM
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That's not short, but from what I've gathered basically anything that isn't blatantly tall is a massive hinderance in online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:26 AM
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Women like to complain in general, if you really want a relationship you need to learn these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:35 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:33 AM
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Men having zero standards is a problem, it's played a massive part in why dating is as bad as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:32 AM
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Where do you live? if you live in a capital city, especially one of the more 'progressive' ones plenty of women have casual sex. If you are... maybe you're not as attractive as you think. How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:44 AM
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My boyfriend basically left dating for good until I came along, it's actually crazy how unlikely it is to meet a decent man or woman nowadays, that's single anyway. Growing resentful won't help, I don't think telling men to learn how to be alone is fair either. It's very hypocritical. Dating is very messed up at the minute and I can't sit and pretend that it isn't, all I can say is if you're attractive enough and stick true to your self the right person will come along and you better not let it …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:33 AM
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What did he do? I'm pretty out of the loop in regards to these things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:43 PM
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If you said something rude about Andrew tate I would have dropped the empathy but Peterson doesn't seem to be malicious or harmful, more young men absolutely should clean their rooms... That being said, the president of the US is very clearly senile and pretty much everyone in the government is a mentally deranged psychopath, I'd trust someone with schizophrenias word before theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:39 PM
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"Nothing, governments are a meme and shouldn't exist" - My bf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:20 PM
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An elderly man that was placed on benzodiazepines a junkie? it wasn't until relatively recently people established just how unsafe they were, you literally can't quit them or you can DIE. People don't get stuck on these things because they want to, ignorant doctors put them on them and they spend their entire lives recovering from them. The withdrawals are more dangerous than even heroin withdrawal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:19 PM
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Women with male siblings and the likes that are sympathetic to male problems are by default called pick me's, like how guy's that complain about how bad things are get called cels. Or women that complain about men are called blue haired feminists. This buzzword era needs to end. I like being a pick me, it's nice being actually treated well by a grown ass man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:13 PM
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People are more alike than they are different, we're all human but to pretend men and women don't have different wiring only brings on misery. I see way too many people, (mostly women) imposing female psychology on men, telling them they need to go to therapy and the likes. The way I see things helps me understand men a good bit better, basically most normal men are slightly to very autistic. In my experience if you're nice to them, keep them fed and just let them be dudes they'll treat you like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:00 PM
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Women are social creatures, they like 'status'. Also dating is a lot more dangerous for women so hearing he's not actually demented helps. When I hung out in femcel groups we still had a group chat where we'd talk about the guys and the guys that got talked about the most positively all ended up with gfs, albeit femcel gfs but it is what it is. Also, I don't know a single non mentally ill person that's said good things about any of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:55 PM
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There's wiggle room with attractiveness, people on here would say my bf is unattractive because he's balding and autistic. But it just so happens I like gigantic silly men with big beards and buzzcuts. It's too broad of a brush
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:53 PM
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Why shouldn't women also earn the right to be in a relationship? I've never had 'options' and I put my best foot forward to win over my man, I'd do anything for him. Is dating for women easier? sure. But let's not pretend the guys these women are selecting are all that, they'll break their hearts and ruin their lives. The real good men are the ones suffering in silence and that breaks my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:45 PM
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They're objectively wrong. It's just not viable, the average person in the west can't afford to be alone anymore. Everything, especially housing is priced for couples. It's just intensely hypocritical to tell men to be alone when women aren't doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:30 PM
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It's a need, one thing I see that really annoys me with women on reddit is that they tell men they need to learn how to be alone, indirectly admitting how bad things are for young men. But women aren't practicing this, and we need human contact even more than men. I was a full blown depressed bitter femcel with severe insomnia until I met my bf, he sooths my soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:24 PM
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Other women say good things about him, is good to the people around him, has a job, sensible with money, animals like him, isn't insecure, funny, supportive, kind, wholesome and gentle. This is the bare minimum, every man should at least be these things and you could say the same for women, maybe swapping out a job for "being good with children" or whatever it is you want from a woman. If he has those things down he'll find someone eventually assuming he's attractive enough, my boyfriend had all…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:19 PM
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hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:11 PM
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Well most the west has become fairly Americanised so I used the US as a safe bet. There doesn't seem to be any studies on the weight gap between young couples so all we can go by are observations anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:01 PM
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I don't live in the UK, I lived in Ireland for a while and I didn't say there were any differences; I noticed a similar trend where there were usually larger women with normal dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:53 PM
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Men are more physically active. They work more physically intensive jobs as well as working more in general, are more likely to play in physically intensive sports and more likely to partake in MUCH more physically intensive activities at the gym. Also obesity and overweight percentages/bmi don't account for the fact men purposely put on more muscle mass. Given men work more that seems really whack, so women just get paid more for less work? men also enter the workspace earlier. I didn't know ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 PM
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It's nothing to do with production it's lifestyle choices, men are just more likely to partake in more physical activity whether it's work, sport or the gym. There seems to be a lot more body positivity movements for women as well that basically encourages them to embrace unhealthy life style choices
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:41 PM
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I personally believe the low-average young men in the US are better looking than the low-average women in the US, when accounting for the fact men are more likely to be physically active. Don't they work more too? so by nature they should also be above women in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:06 PM
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I've been to the US but not for long, same story. Bmi doesn't account for the fact men purposely put on mass and are more likely to be physically active. In the US the average young man is just in better shape than the average young woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:04 PM
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From my time in the west I can see why men are frustrated, low-average guys weren't really pairing off with the low-average women; the most common couple I saw was a 'rounder' woman with a fairly tall decent looking guy. Nothing spectacular but the man was objectively better looking. I've also seen this on this very subreddit, there's been autistic women saying it's harmful to encourage autistic women to pair off with autistic men. I absolutely detest this word but I do think women are just hype…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:50 PM
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Yea that makes a lot more sense, the girls in those circles would naturally be a lot more progressive. Although from what I've gathered women tend to get quite conservative later in life, especially if they have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:18 PM
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Are you more on the effeminate side? I feel like a lot of it's instinctual. I feel like women will date guys they just think look and act nice, just like how they'd date woman and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that; but when they're around more traditionally masculine guys the desire to be taken care of kicks in. At least that's how I feel anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:25 PM
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Don't understand why people can't just stay in their own lanes and date one another, they seem to do it here but not in the likes of the US inb4 shut up ur fat and ur bf is chad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:09 AM
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Where are you from, would you consider your self normal? as in your behaviour/beliefs are common?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:08 AM
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Completely, I'm glad I held out a little longer and waited for the man I'll spend the rest of my life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:02 AM
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I don't personally call anyone a creep, I'm simply answering the OPs question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:55 AM
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Would you prefer me to lie? I have an autistic boyfriend so I'm conditioned into being direct I guess. When I asked an ex friend of mine what she would do if a guy followed her around the bar and gave her a corny wink her response was "depends, how tall is he".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:22 AM
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Na, disagree. Back when I lived in the west, Ireland specifically I'd see bronzed up girls of the ... rounder variety with perfectly decent looking tall guys that were in shape. I hate this word, but hypergamy was very apparent. I'm going to assume feminism and dating apps were to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:40 PM
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Someone that's not attractive, I won't entertain you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:35 PM
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There's not a place on earth where women generally date men that earn the same as them nevermind less. It's why young men are much more likely to be single, because young women are still dating older guys with more resources (more money, more likely to not live at home).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:44 PM
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Isn't that good for humanity though, they have to prove they're worth it. They might not like it but it's still good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:13 PM
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Na this I disagree with, women still mostly demand men earn more and want large 'dominant' men that almost make them feel infantilised. I was about to say I don't but I don't work and my bf is 6'6 ...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:10 PM
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They can still do that, it's just harder for average men to reproduce Just nature imo, historically most men didn't reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:06 PM
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how
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:58 PM
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Can people stop using words like submissive and dominant it's insanely creepy and weird regardless of the gender. I remember my boyfriend telling me about guy he knew that talked about dominance and submission, he was 5'7 and nobody could ever tolerate him. Then you have 'dominant' women, these are just misandrists that want to humiliate men to combat some unresolved trauma. I don't need to "submit" to my boyfriend to feel comfortable with my femininity, I do what my boyfriend says because I lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:44 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting this treatment, I do actually pull my weight at home however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:51 PM
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The worst things to me personally would be passive aggressiveness, I got bullied heavily by other girls in school and this was the one thing in particular that got to me, my boyfriend said it's the one thing he can't stand in men either. Thankfully my boyfriend is the complete opposite of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:48 PM
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No such thing as toxic masculinity, feminine men are gross There is just toxicity, regardless of the demographic they belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:34 PM
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This can be applied to commonalities in general. Gauging anyone by their career is a terrible idea though; hell men that earn more are more likely to be psychopaths or narcissists. My BF has a nice humble job and since we don't have to pay rent we have more disposable income than my friend who's an accountant given she's single and has to pay crazy rent in the city. I love autistic men, they're very good with money... unless their most devoted hobby is an expensive one then you're screwed :') Fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:08 PM
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I think most men are pretty autistic, the average man would come back fairly autistic after taking a screening test. It's a spectrum. The best men are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:42 PM
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I've seen a few women on here tell men they need to learn how to be alone, when women don't need to do this; it's honestly really gross. We literally can not afford to live alone, everything is priced for a dual earning household. This to me shows the huge disconnect a lot of 'blue' pillers have, they exclusively come from privileged backgrounds which gives them a shallow lens of the world which has no nuance, they know literally nothing about average working class men and women they scorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:26 AM
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I tried my best <3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:56 AM
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I worked in HR. I don't think it, I know it; there's literally already literal bots in HR. The point I'm making is that it's being protected, whereas there's actual jobs like my partners that require MUCH more actual human input that are being replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:52 PM
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Not what I said, my boyfriend is bald and autistic, which seems to be a common type on here and I'd do anything for him. INB4 I'm run through and settled, no he was the first person I ever shared a bed with and I actively pursued him because I heard other girls saying he was nice, also seeing animals loved him helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:43 PM
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This is an intensely vindictive lie, I'm 20 and have two teenage brothers and an autistic boyfriend who had to be taken out of school and placed in work to earn trades because even here where things aren't as 'progressive' the education system is massively pandered towards women. There's even studies that show teachers will mark the same work higher if they think it was written by a girl. Not to mention women develop earlier as well which gives them even more of an edge in an already feminised s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:38 PM
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The issue is that feminism still hasn't addressed or deconstructed a lot of outdated characteristics/traits associated with men's viability, they most likely won't because it's just not advantageous to Women, men would do the same thing. Most women won't date men that don't earn more than them, this is harder than ever to achieve; so what happens is women continue to date men older than them since they're more likely to fit this set criteria. Are women picker? yes; for a lot of good reasons. Are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:09 PM
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bruh what is this, this already happens? That being said 6 inches is more than enough, I've learnt the hard way. If a woman needs more than that then she either has a weird medical issue or she's a mentally ill masochist. There is nothing pleasurable about your pelvic floor being cow prodded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:54 PM
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Well I'm not going to sit and lie to you, I know things suck for short dudes; hell some have DM'd me on reddit telling me. It matters a lot more on dating apps, stay off those if you're average or below. Look for shorter girls irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:52 PM
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Masculinity, so like a combination of height/voice/mannerisms. But how animals are around him and how others describe him is also vital
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:48 PM
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I used to be quite the radical but after finding the loml the bitterness evaporated quite quickly, keep in mind most feminists aren't that radical but they are misguided. Men would follow a wide spread movement (scam) too if it promised to give you an edge in life so it's not exactly fair to throw abuse at women that are feminists, especially since other women will shame them into accepting it. So just keep that in mind... Feminism has evolved into a capitalist scheme disguised as a social movem…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:35 PM
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He's too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:24 PM
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Maybe men should stop projecting what their idea of attractive is onto women, the vast majority of us prefer a tall dweeb with a dad bod over short stocky guys, we don't care about your jawline or shape the shape of your eye or whatever stuff cels say now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:09 PM
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I don't like fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:06 PM
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Second guy looks taller and less like a douche bag, I'd take him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:33 PM
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So what about these actual grown adult women that go for naïve vulnerable men just to have access to their resources? I thought women were more emotionally intelligent and are way less likely to be autistic so naturally women are more socially aware than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:23 PM
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Find help, immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:21 PM
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They do, it's just promiscuous people in general are extremely vocal and like to speak for others. Normal every day men do not like promiscuous women, they never will and no amount of women in their 30's + telling men what they will like is going to change this. It's the EXACT same for normal every day women, just because red pill le BiTcHeZ lOvE sTaTuS guys say promiscuity in men is attractive they mean it's attractive to promiscuous women which is not the norm. With time everyone comes to unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:19 PM
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I don't think this is true, it's just a common insult. I do absolutely detest the promiscuous radfem women that's mistakes have caught up on them so they basically brainwash other women into following suit. Both men and women are generally not promiscuous and wouldn't really want to be associated with someone that is, at least that's what my both me and my bfs friend groups say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:44 AM
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I personally believe it's a scam put in place to make money. That being said, it sounds like you have some personal issues to work through with your parents. Most peoples parents aren't assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:49 PM
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20, bf is a 28 I think that's fine, that being said I don't think the average man has any choice in what age group he can pick from, younger women are going to be less picky because 1. Most women like older guys, 2. older women have higher demands in terms of resources. Men are pretty simple, they just don't want the headache that comes with those demands Don't women after like 25-30 start dating even older guys on average? like the older woman gets the bigger the gap in age is on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:46 PM
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This is cute as hell, I'm so glad you found someone reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:43 PM
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Well yea, hence why I like financially responsible guys that take care of their families. It's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:42 PM
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Okay, and there's just as many women that say horrific things about men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:41 PM
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This is usually do to post Postpartum depression not the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:39 PM
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I meant the actual domestic abuse part... after aligning him self with women and lgbt groups pretending to be a kind person to win over young women I think "bruh" is suitable here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:37 PM
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I think this another symptom of the wests very individualist culture, I severely doubt most women are truly happy alone. They might say they are or they've been drilled into saying they are. Aren't a lot of women in the west on literal anti depressants? It's not even about kids, most people need someone. I was bitter until I finally met the love of my life, same story with a lot of the femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:51 PM
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I don't think I dated way above my level, we both lived at home and I pulled my weight. Do a lot of women like the ones you're describing exist? yes. Are they the norm? I think it depends on your location. Most the Women around where I live are dating guys around 5-10 years their senior, just normal guys working trades living little normal lives, it's very tight knit. I have seen women, especially from the UK or US that openly disregard men that aren't earning a good chunk more than them or aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:19 PM
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Yea I think short guys get a bad rep, my grandfather is 5'7 which is very short where I'm from but he did very well with Women, I don't think that would be the case now with social media and beauty standards somehow becoming less progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:08 PM
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I think a really underrated part of attraction has undeservedly taken a backseat, most men and women just want to feel good, they want to be in a place of comfort. Obviously there are problematic people on both sides of the pond but those people should just pair with one another. When I was in my femcel era one of the girls I spoke to said my boyfriend had a low 'smv' because he was balding, obviously I don't speak to that person anymore but it never bothered me once. The most attractive part ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:01 PM
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No, are women with a lot of 'bodies' immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:34 PM
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There is a link yes, but it could be from the fact that taller men earn more, and higher earning positions like CEO's are far more likely to display psychopathic traits. My boyfriend used to be a bouncer and the vast majority of the problematic guys were tall and skinny, probably a lifetime of positive reinforcement playing into their egos. There's no truth to short guys being more aggressive, egotistical etc from what I've gathered they're just easier to pick on. In my personal experience talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:19 PM
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The pickme came out, having an autistic boyfriend and male siblings in their late teens/early 20's going through this stuff breaks my heart. We need a little positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:55 PM
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-Is it my fault that I purposely chase men older than me because none of the guys my age earn enough or have their own homes due to a cost of living crisis, older guys are gross but the patriarchy made me do this, I pick and choose when traditional roles are good for my own benefit -Is it my fault that I made a conscious choice to spend countless hours swiping on dating apps meeting up with guys that want nothing from me but company in bed and now I'm resentful of men as a whole despite the coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:42 PM
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omg how they treat service staff, pets and kids can be make or break. I've said before but a few guys got angry at me for saying it, women can become interested in a guy just through word of mouth, I heard other Women talking about how lovely my boyfriend was long before I even met him and I was so curious. First time I met him he dropped a monotone "hello girls, how are we", and just swaggered past us to play with my friends dog. I wouldn't care if he was 5'2 and was a burn victim, that in it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:39 PM
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I'm on the back of a pretty triggered response to a standard that particularly annoyed me, in regards to Women that live at home still wanting men that have their own homes. I think this is an unreasonable standard and it's not like it reflects good character either, just financial irresponsibility in a cost of living/housing crisis. I think if we work to dissolve this crazy standard there would be a lot less bitter men that could dip their toes in the dating pool. I chose a man that lived at ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:20 PM
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My personal theory behind this is that the biggest factor is the cost of living crisis, there's a lot of truth to the "Women would rather date a man that lives with his wife than one that lives with his mother" meme. Women are dating older men with access to the resources they demand, so naturally most young men are single and most young women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:09 PM
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Yea I agree, a common belief outside of a lot of the west is that they've become almost corrupted by individualistic culture, I've only been to the US once and it was even more materialistic than Ireland, which is becoming more and more Americanised (outside of rural areas). Anyways this is why I tell people it's okay to find love somewhere else, from what I've seen American women just really don't seem very nice and have insanely unreasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:59 PM
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It needs to happen, unless a lot of Women adjust their insane standards they're going to be fighting over the literal top 10% of earners soon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:44 PM
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I think it's what needs to happen, It's all been a giant scam that's served to destroy communities, peoples lives and strain families
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:41 PM
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Eastern European, I lived in Ireland for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:41 PM
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It's exactly this, but I don't understand why women, especially on here pick and choose what they want to keep from these traditional roles when it suits them, it's mentally ill behaviour. You either want tradition or you don't, I chose the prior and it's been the best decision for me, my partner and my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:40 PM
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If you don't live at home and you're earning enough to pay for rent while living comfortably then it's fine,, the issue is a lot aren't and still see it as a requirement. I think this is why most young men are single and most young women aren't, young women are dating older guys with more resources which from what I gathered most the women here thought was outdated, and that older guys were gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:00 AM
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I think this is a cultural difference, I and many others think moving away from home is a massive scam, imo it's malicious. It leaves a lot of people stranded and it put's a strain on families. That being said at it's core sure it's very individualist and self serving (I think this is also why divorce rates are so high there but I'll save that for another mid lady rant), that seems to be a common theme in the US and other places in the west. I tried moving away from my home and got very homesick…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:57 AM
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I'd argue it's immature/irresponsible to be renting these days though, it's just not financially responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:19 AM
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The second one is so insanely stupid and it infuriates me. Women don't realise how many amazing guys they're cutting off by having such a ridiculous standard. There's a literal housing and cost of living crisis, all over the west. Get over your selves. I don't know a single man that isn't dating a girl that was still living at home while they were struggling to keep their head above water just to have a chance at being considered a worthy man, it's disgusting. My boyfriend and me live on his fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:55 PM
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But women on this subreddit and cels/looksmaxxers told me bald guys aren't hot, and that the shape of your eyes and jawline are the most important!? my bf is far from athletic he has a dad bod, but he is tall and bald; I'd say the vast majority of girls care about height more than things a lot of guys on here think women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:42 PM
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I don't like tattoos on women, although I'm not sure if I find women attractive. I can appreciate them but I wouldn't date one. W for younger women though, I'm 20 and my bf is a few years from 30, I love how older women on this sub somehow try to tell men that men like older women with good careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:40 PM
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Women are just more selective with what they find attractive, they're more likely to have a 'type' whereas men cast a wide net and occasionally catch something that isn't a boot. Basically nothing does it for me besides tall bald/buzzcut men with giant beards and tattoos, basically Kratos. Blame the guys at school playing God of war around me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 PM
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This is another prime example of Women in the west have a massive issue with imposing their needs, desires and psychology on men, I can see how stuff like this can be insanely annoying because it even annoys me. I know girls that have dumped their boyfriends over their sex lives dying out because they gained a little weight over the course of their relationship, it's not just men that need sex to be happy, just men need more because they have something called testosterone which we don't have tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:59 PM
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What the hell is this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:58 AM
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This made me laugh so hard, I used to speak to two femcel girls online and both of them wanted twink bfs because they were into dominating men. Should clarify that I'm not into this, I think it's gross. But I thought it was funny that BOTH their eventual boyfriends and all the supposed 'twinks' these girls were going for were insanely tall. When a lot of girls talk about liking twinks, they just mean tall skinny guys that are mentally ill enough/hate them selves enough to be humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:56 AM
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We wear what we want because it makes us feel good, should be able to do this without judgement but that's just not how the world works. If I'm wearing something nice it's for my boyfriend and the way he appreciates it makes me feel good about my self, I've never dealt with cat calling or people trying to shame me because I'm wearing fishnets or whatever, but to be fair when you have a 6' 5/6' 6" tattooed bear of a man with you that's an insanely stupid idea. It's whatever, let people can do wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:33 AM
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Reddit is just more left leaning, it'd be different if you asked on a different platform. It's all relative however, on this subreddit I'm a pick me and therefore probably aligned with the right, but in real life I'm a bit of a hippy and left wing given I'm in a rural area in Eastern Europe. I have noticed there are a lot more convert misandrists than misogynists. I'm fairly certain there's a good chunk of femcels on here that purposely try to misguide other young women and young men for nefario…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:36 PM
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I wouldn't consider my self "hot" and I'm far from skinny, my boyfriend is with me because I treat him as well as he treats me. I'm sorry you experienced that, it could be a cultural difference because the Women like that here aren't doing very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:47 PM
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Massively disagree, I think it's a good thing. I don't know a single man that cares about a woman's career and they're all great partners, I don't even work but my boyfriend still encourages my hobbies and goals. I think there's a massive issue with each gender projecting their preferences or activities onto the other at the minute, especially amongst women in the west. Most young men don't care about how much you earn, statistics indicate this. But most women do in fact care about how much a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:31 PM
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I don't know a single Woman that thinks like this, are you sure it's not men that are interested in numerous people but settle for which one actually gives them a shot? Women usually go absolutely crazy over one guy, when we're down bad we're DOWN BAD. The idea of another man approaching me when I first met my future bf would really annoy me, the thought of another woman even talking to him or even worse making him laugh would ruin my whole evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:58 PM
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I swear a dude posted a study on here where after you get too tall the amount of women that'll date you starts to decline, so like 6'5 is about the same as being 5'9/5'10 which is small in my country. I won't deny being tall helps, we care way more about height and the size of your hands than we do the angle of your eyes, your jawline or abs. Men like small and dainty, women like imposing and large. It's just nature, my bfs best friend is 5'6/5'7 but he has a big deep voice and it drove his girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:35 PM
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6' 5/6' 6" From what I've gathered that's too tall in the looksmaxxers/cel spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:15 PM
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I disagree, I'm a pretty emotionally driven person though. Maybe not as much as most the Women around me but I can't imagine life without my bf, flaws and all. I used to sit up all night posting in femcel spaces, severe insomnia. Now I sleep like an actual baby, although I know pheromones and the likes play a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:45 PM
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No I mean do you want to be desired just for existing? I'm sure there are men that would be okay with that, but I doubt they'd make good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:26 PM
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Makes a lot of sense why most of them are alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:14 PM
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Dude, because neither of us are into cuckoldry we're not having a good sex life? Good luck finding a decent Woman that'll let you openly humiliate her and your self though. We do the deed constantly and believe me, we're both more than happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:59 PM
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Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:57 PM
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Duh, sex is awesome. How else am I meant to make babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:47 PM
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Why would he want a threesome? If me or any other women I know found out a guy had a threesome they'd immediately drop him. Mentally ill behaviour, I severely doubt any man worth his salt would want to even touch a Woman that's had a threesome with a ten foot pole, it's not any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:43 PM
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Men want Women that are kind, careful, soothing, 'virtuous', women that will actually bring positivity and feminine energy into their lives, the world is brutal and lonely, everyone wants somebody even if they pretend not to. I'd argue that most men might actually gauge women in a more thoughtful, respectful , meaningful and fair way than a lot of Western Women I've seen on these subreddits. Men don't care about how much you earn, how many friends you have, your supposed social status or how tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:14 PM
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Would you really want to be with Women that reward poor behaviour though? I wouldn't be with a guy that likes bimbos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:08 PM
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Being kind, protective, loyal, strong, funny, courageous handsome etc You do realise your logic just paints Women as shallow and money grabbing right, you're really doing none of us including your self any favours. Why do western Women statistically only still date men that make a good chunk more than them when they have their own money? are men that provide nothing desired? are we really that shameless in our pursuit for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:16 PM
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Being nice is attractive, the first thing I heard about my boyfriend that made me interested was how other Women talked about how nice he was. There's a difference between being genuinely nice and being a 'nice' guy that agrees with everything misandrist women parrot because he thinks it'll get him laid, most of us know what these guys are doing and find it repulsive. My boyfriend is nothing but sweet, he's respectful and goes out of his way to help everyone, even to his own determent at times. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:12 PM
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I disagree, most women will at least make an effort to win a guy over, it's just more indirect. Just because it's not happening to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen, Ironically that would make you the outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:09 PM
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Explain why I went after my bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:07 PM
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Dating is a lot more nuanced than people make it out to be, most people that end up dating were friends prior. That's how me and my boyfriend started. Pretty much everyone I know ended up together like this, it's the most common way people actually met outside of online dating, which from what I've gathered is literally pointless as an average man. My bfs best friend met a girl at work, they talked a lot on smoke breaks and she eventually asked if they wanted to go to a work based event together…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:06 PM
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My boyfriend earns minimum wage, is a few years off 30, lives on his families property and I asked him out. He's bald, autistic and has a dad bod. I'm pretty sure that by your own standards that's not the top 20%. I was relentless with my pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:44 PM
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Women will approach you if they like you enough, we're social creatures; we'll seek out attention from you if we find you attractive. We'll leave little windows open for you, if we grow frustrated we'll just say fuck it mask off and ask you out. Stop approaching women, you don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:00 PM
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This isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:59 PM
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There's a lot of reasons why men commit more crime, the main reason is systemic, men just don't have access to the comforts women do. It baffles me that people explain why specific groups commit more crimes because they're from lower income areas with less opportunity but somehow this doesn't apply to men in general. Where I'm from apparently less than 20% of the homeless population are Women, and this is considering that Women are more likely to be granted shelter, clothes and work. Women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:01 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:44 AM
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My boyfriend is very quiet and reserved, I mean he is diagnosed autistic. But through word of mouth I still heard only good things about him from other girls, men really underestimate the networking aspect of attraction. Before I knew him I WANTED to know him, he's always had guy friends because in my opinion the vast majority of men are a little bit autistic, although I suppose it is a spectrum. Found out he was tall, had a deep voice and had tattoos, boom sold and it wasn't a hard sell. He has…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:36 AM
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I kind of believe this, I've seen plenty of American girls talking about height requirements that literally rule out like 85-90% of the men in their country. That's just... demented behaviour. They seem pretty mean as well. I can see why men are looking elsewhere, we'll leave it that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:48 AM
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If my bf was doing the sex with other girls when I met him I'd have just became a nun and never looked at another man again. I'd been on a couple dates before but never did the deed, just don't see the point or appeal, did see the appeal when I met my bf. Got dusty knees very quickly. I regret nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:45 AM
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I'm kind, give my man plenty of space, cook and clean, very good with children, don't use drugs or hang out with problematic people, go to church, high libido (I know this is important for men, it only started when I met my bf anyway), good relationship with my family, well adjusted and down to earth. I know I'm not the prettiest and I'm very comfort driven, but me and my partner are in a situation where I don't have to work and I'm just not down with working. My mother didn't, my grandmother di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:53 PM
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Experience...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:34 PM
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I'm absolutely baby crazy so I think that plays a big part in a lot women's drives, at least that's how I try to rationalise it. This would also explain why more conservative people have better sex lives and have more offspring, the drive for actually having children. I'm sure there's a lot of little things but I don't want to generalise even more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:11 PM
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It's still higher than women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:43 PM
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I didn't mean to cause offence, it's a pretty safe generalisation in my opinion. Me, my friends and the women in my family have pretty much identical experiences with men, so it could also be cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:07 PM
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Okay so you're probably a more masculine woman and you attracted more feminine men, you're an exception not the rule. I didn't say whether any of these things are good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:45 PM
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First of all, most young men and women don't have two bedrooms nowadays. My bf needs a lot of alone time and he says one of his favourite parts about me is that I actually give him his space, most men in general are pretty solitary creatures; they're like cats they'll come to you when they feel like it. His best friend has been struggling because his girlfriend doesn't give him any personal space, it seems like one of the most common relationship issues and I think it stems from the fact a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:05 PM
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Well it's a lot more socially acceptable for women to voice displeasure, it's also worth considering women tend to get really close and by nature this can cause a lot of friction. We tend to overshare as well which is a common complaint amongst men, this can also cause a lot of infighting; I swear the vast majority of 'catfights' stem from a secret going mainstream or a rumour being spread. Apply the same patterns of behaviour in men and at some point there's going to be physical altercation, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:11 PM
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Would you prefer me lie? you're a grown man a lot of people on here know how things work; they just can't accept it. If it makes you feel better my boyfriends friend is around 5'7 and the average in my country is 6ft, he has a beautiful girlfriend that he's had two children with. That being said she is very short and my boyfriend said he lied to her saying he's 5'10/5'11. which even I have to admit is pretty funny, a bit shitty but it's not that deep. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:34 AM
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From what I've gathered women tend to cheat more than men in their younger years but men start to cheat more after around women start entering menopause. It can't be coincidental, it also terrifies me. It makes me wonder if there is some truth to the typical manosphere excuses for men being unfaithful, not the excuses there aren't any but in regards to maybe men on some level struggling to truly be monogamous because their sex drives stay more persistent with time. I'm 20 now and obviously this …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:51 AM
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Old? like in the grand scheme obviously not. Old(er) absolutely yes, I would never be caught dead with a man under 25 at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:57 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with that but I can see how it's unattractive and how it's a fair standard given men that don't do well sexually are shamed by women. Casual sex is much riskier for women, it's not even close. This kind of risk taking behaviour does not make for a good female partner, risk taking is inherently masculine behaviour on account of men having insane amounts of testosterone fuelling a lot of their decision making, or lack of. Not to mention the historic power dynamic making t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:25 PM
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Men and women are different and have completely different standards, it was never about treating one another equally, it's about removing said standards for your self while actively instilling toxic and outdated standards to the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:18 PM
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Honestly, from what I've gathered the 5'5 part is probably going to be an absolutely massive problem assuming he's in the US or West/North Europe. Money will help but it can only go so far. Obviously I'm not saying this is fair, but from what I've seen that is way below the average acceptable height for women in those regions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:22 PM
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Oh yea those two, I understand wearing boots if you're a rural guy but if you're wearing them in an urban social setting, especially a club we know what you're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:36 PM
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Yea I get this, my boyfriend really doesn't care and nor do I because we want children anyway, if a guy claims to be a practicing catholic and won't wear a condom I understand, but if he's purposely going against a lot of traditional values but drops the "but it doesn't feel as good" when it comes to protection he can go try that somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:35 PM
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Believe me, there's a lot of women that are ready to jump the women that fought to put us in the workplace when we see them in heaven, or hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:12 PM
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This made me laugh so hard, I love how people say normie now. My bf said it the other day with a straight face and I nearly peed my self But yea it has a similar energy to guys that talk about how they don't like make up, they want "natural beauty" then you look at their Instagram or tiktok and it's all caked up bimbos. I don't think they realise that they're feeding on their attention, negative or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:10 PM
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I don't know why people think that being aligned with the left somehow makes you a better partner, just because a man is agreeing with you doesn't mean he actually believes it, the vast majority of guys that parrot a lot of hyper left wing rhetoric are just in it to get laid. Why the hell would they just blindly agree with things that aren't advantageous to them at all, I swear the women that say these things hate men so much they can't comprehend they're capable of free thought. I'd be consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 PM
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Women are generally more agreeable, whether that's societal or biological it doesn't matter that's just how things have been and still are. I will admit you got me with the girls girl thing, but I was heavily bullied by other girls my entire life so I've always been around men, that's not to say I don't have friends now that just so happen to be women but none of them talk like this, do these kind of groups exist? absolutely. Are they the norm? possibly, but if these are the women you're coming …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:46 PM
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I wouldn't date a man that goes to clubs anyway, I don't know a single woman that enjoys the idea of their men going clubbing. Keep in mind I'm from a rural area as well so there literally are no clubs. I really don't like feminine men, clubbing is inherently feminine imo, like guys prettying them selves up, doing weird drugs that make them overly affectionate/sociable (and sweaty) while floating around with cocktails pestering women knowing one will be drunk enough to entertain him, no thanks I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:46 PM
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I feel like the dismantling of the patriarchy has served more to displace average everyday man and widen the gap between the elite, which is predominantly men. Like when women entered the work space, the elite were licking their lips, they only serve to earn more by widening the workers pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:25 PM
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I mean men kind of made their own bed there, their sex drives cause them much lower standards so good looking guys tend to prey on average women knowing they'll get what they want. But why should we settle for something less if 'better' men are going for us. Men would do the exact same thing if the roles were reversed. Dating apps are gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:19 PM
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Well a big part of the pink pill is establishing ways to give men a shot, like judging them for their relationships with their families or friends, or whether they have pets; reflecting their responsibilities. It does suck at the minute, I'll admit. I genuinely believe the main cause behind the male loneliness epidemic is the cost of living crisis and the wage gap narrowing, most women simply won't date men that don't earn a good chunk more and that's just statistical fact. We have to deconstruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:55 PM
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I don't really get this point, HR is growing as profession in some places in the west and it would be MUCH easier to replace with tech like AI than trades. Although then human resources would become a deeply ironic title.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:50 PM
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Sometimes I can't tell who are more disconnected from reality, IT or PPD Also, there are just as many men in nike air max as there are Women in high heels, we know you wear them because they make you taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:25 AM
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My boyfriend is diagnosed autistic so he tends to get VERY invested in a subset of pretty niche hobbies, that being said hobbies are endearing, my boyfriends hobbies also coincidently tie into his career which is nice. I have no idea what the hell he's doing 99% of the time but I appreciate it's something productive. I don't think I could date a guy with zero hobbies, It's just a reflection of poor character. I know men are a bit different in this regard, some even saying they don't care about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:23 AM
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I mean this is what I did with my bf, at the very least women should make it crystal clear that they want a guy to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:16 AM
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Okay but that doesn't mean younger men aren't more likely to engage in risk taking behaviour, that's just the hard truth. I don't trust older women and younger men dynamics in my experience more often than not the women have very little respect for them and picked them just because they feel behind in life, or they want someone they can implant their ideals and beliefs. Which when flipped would be considered predatory That isn't true, statistically it's better for men to marry young and for wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:50 AM
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lol, you're in for a shock when you realise there's accountants with degrees stuck in retail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:50 PM
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I was talking to my boyfriend and friends about this, I have a theory. I've noticed a lot of women on here are VERY vocal about their supposed disgust of older men, especially in regards to dating. Going through a lot of their post history these tend to be very openly misandrist women. I think they genuinely can not stomach the thought of men not suffering, there's studies that indicate men get happier with time, they tend to flourish as women taper off, assuming said women didn't pair up with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:46 PM
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You plan to support your self during a cost of living crisis where everything is priced for two people? Also just not true, if it were true statistically women would date younger men. It's young men that want you because you're "young and hot", older men want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:35 PM
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I firmly believe women will approach you if you're attractive enough to them. Or at the very least they'll make it very clear they like you enough for you to make a move. If this isn't happening, well sorry. Historically the vast majority of men didn't reproduce, the patriarchy changed this but that's being dismantled more and more by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:49 PM
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The average age gap is around 3-5 years, it grows the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:47 PM
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Rural guys are the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:47 PM
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Statistically most women the vast majority of women care about materialistic things, I personally don't but most do. Look up the average cost of a wedding ring, or how recent studies on how little women will actually date men that earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:46 PM
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My boyfriend earns borderline minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:43 PM
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Emphasis on sometimes, I can definitely be a bit harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:26 PM
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I've heard girls literally talk about dating older guys just for their money, if that's not predatorial I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:13 PM
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Women are just as responsible for the young women/older guy dynamic, we statistically refuse to date guys that don't earn a good chunk more than us despite it being harder than never for guys in our age group to earn that required increment more. The older they are the more likely they are to meet this requirement. We complain about how bad and immature guys our own age are and actively seek out older guys for a more secure relationship. Me and all my friends are dating older guys, my boyfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:04 PM
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People make it a lot more complicated than it has to be. This is why autistic guys are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:54 PM
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Sometimes people will just complain about anything, me and my sisters boyfriends are very introverted and play a lot of games, my boyfriend balances studies with his job as well. He's a complete dweeb, always tinkering with things. At least he actually has hobbies that are healthy and link into his goals. It's never became a problem, he's not my dog; I don't expect him to come lay at my feet while I'm doing the dishes. Men are very cat like in the sense they'll come to you when they feel like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:27 PM
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In my country around 1 in 1000 people experience divorce, around 9% of people cheat; all of these are inflated by urban people which I'd imagine is a trend world wide. Most people are fine, if they're not you need to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:19 PM
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If you're with someone that has you questioning whether or not your children are yours, then you're not meant for one another. Either that, or you're not meant to be with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:11 AM
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and their bellies even more so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:34 PM
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I would find this odd, I don't like men with feminine energy. I don't really trust a lot of these kinds of friendships in general, my boyfriend has an ex friend that literally said he pretends to be a bit of a 'soft boy' to win over girls. I did hear about my boyfriend from women and they only had nice things to say, this was a turn on but he definitely wouldn't have been close friends with them, just helped them out with stuff at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:45 PM
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What are you doing to help men? all I've gotten from this is that men should be twisted cycle paths because they can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:45 PM
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And what are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:40 PM
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I don't think that's true, I've been pretty open about encouraging other means of judging men because we still hold them to roles they can no longer fill. Instead of judging men by their occupation (which I think is a terrible way of judging character given men that earn more are more likely to be psychopaths or worse) and instead judging them by their relationships with their families and friends. I just can't fight nature, I'm 5'5 and 150lbs what am I meant to do? things suck for men, I know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:34 PM
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Having a bf with diagnosed autism I just communicated with him whether or not he wanted to do it, since it was very difficult to read him given his lack of generic expressions. Feel like it's the opposite with women, generally they're a bit more expressive and more likely to put on a fake smile. Idk, just ask each other more. Communication will and always be the key, I dropped the "You can do whatever you want whenever" to my bf and he still has the sense to know when it's okay, if he can do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:13 PM
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I'm not saying it's going to be okay, I'm just saying it's the only thing you can do. It sucks, it truly does but it's not the 1900's anymore, attempts to dismantle the patriarchy has only really affected the lowest of men to the most average of men. You have to work harder than ever if you want to reproduce. It was actually a very small window in humanities history when most men reproduced and it's over, nature always finds a way. Seriously research just how little men actually reproduced befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:45 PM
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I do believe porn is a symptom of male loneliness, it's just like any other form of addiction. It's not good for you, in any capacity and does strain your relationships or potential relationships. I would not date a man that watches porn while we're together, once you find a partner it stops. I always send things to my boyfriend if we're far apart, I know what men need and in turn it makes me feel happy and validated; he's been incredible for my self esteem. This is perfectly healthy in my opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:10 PM
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No, but you can earn enough to compensate. I won't entertain you, there's no other way. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:38 PM
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I think it's just nature honestly, very little people are being spoiled these days most of us are in survival mode. All the women I know that have partners are earning less than their boyfriends, I think a big factor is shame, I've had other women try shame me before for my boyfriend being a blue collar guy, people forget about the social factors that go into dating. Oh God same if you treat a date like an interview the relationship has failed before it even started, when I met my boyfriend I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:19 AM
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It's back harder than ever because the cost of living crisis, I've heard many people say this is the main reason why most young women aren't single but most young men are. Statistically most women will not date men that don't earn more than them, and it's harder than ever for men to make that increment more so they're just dating older guys that have moved further on in life, including their careers. Ironically... dating in the west might be less progressive than it was in the 80s-late 2000's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:47 PM
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It's just not true, Women like older men it's just nature, they make better partners anyway. The amount of young women I see with older guys that they have wrapped around their fingers, women are every bit as predatorial as men it's just conveyed in a more passive manner. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is a couple years off 30, I initiated everything, I pursued him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:42 PM
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I don't care about this at all, I wouldn't date a guy with a lot of bodies. I was my boyfriends first and he was my first, he's had suiters but he held out. The sex is awesome, seriously Women need to give autistic men a shot they're very open to listening and responding since they have very little in the way of egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:41 PM
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Well I'm sure you're familiar with animal hierarchy's, humans are no different. Women prefer men above them in the hierarchy, autistic guys are usually very low down. My boyfriend is very much an outsider, I think this is the best path for autistic men; you're wired differently so you need to apply your self to the world differently. A lot of men do things that give the illusion of them being higher in the hierarchy, like financing a car, or having lots of meaningless tattoos to look tough etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:39 PM
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It's just not the same. People need to stop acting like men and women are the same, they have completely different standards and women are just as guilty as men for upholding traditional gender roles which fuel these massively differing standards. Hell I'm guilty of this my self, but I'm very thankful for my partner and do my absolute best to match his output at home. My boyfriend is objectively very attractive, like sure he's bald and bearded and not all women like that but he's extremely tall …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:58 PM
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Why do so many people in the west move away from home? like seriously what to people gain from straining relationships with their family only to go work minimum wage in a crime ridden hell hole with a higher cost of living so their higher wages don't even result in higher disposable income? Me and my boyfriend have moved back into his parents property and we have our own house on their land, we don't pay rent, I When I have children and do go back to work his mother is excited to do the baby sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:16 PM
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I did, by girls to be fair. Being Serbian in a rural school in Ireland was not fun. Also had milk poured over my head a few times, that was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:01 PM
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Yes, I hate the crowd that parrot that generic rhetoric in general. They're just bitter because they got shoved into too many lockers at school - my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:42 PM
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I was kind of friends with a girl a lot like this in Ireland and it got exhausting, my boyfriend eventually lost his shit at her and she ended up in tears. He made a pretty good point though, most these women are still dependant on men for emotional support and feed of their attention, if you're on dating apps or in a relationship in general you are in no position to vocalise your hatred for literally half the people on this world. I personally believe men are just nicer overall. That's complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:53 AM
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Said it once and I'll say it again, become worthy of reproducing and women will make it clear they like you. If it's not happening you're the problem and you need to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:40 AM
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Reading what you're saying makes me feel privileged it's not like that here, because I really really really want my first child soon, I'm already on the older side for my family at 20. Sorry things are so out of control there, one of the most beautiful parts of life should be treated with much more dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:31 PM
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"The fertility rate for Poland in 2023 was 1.467 births per woman, a 0.62% increase from 2022. The fertility rate for Poland in 2022 was 1.458 births per woman, a 0.69% increase from 2021. The fertility rate for Poland in 2021 was 1.448 births per woman, a 0.63% increase from 2020."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:47 PM
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lol wtf, how the hell does that even happen? don't you guys have decent paid healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:38 PM
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Well I currently live in Poland and my boyfriend is Hungarian, the birth rates are rising in both, they've both made conscious efforts to actually encourage people to have children. It's also worth mentioning both countries are actively discouraging the common traps the west have 'fallen for' (I personally believe purposely and maliciously underwent) which have actively lowered the quality of life of traditional superpowers like the UK. Globally lower income areas do tend to have higher birth ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:30 PM
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The fertility rate has actually risen in a few places in Eastern Europe, it's also higher in lower income areas
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:26 PM
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It's media, women are the biggest target when it comes to social programming. I noticed this when I lived in the west, whereas where I am we're all baby crazy. I genuinely have no clue what the hell is going on in the west, but there's a dark cloud slowly creeping towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:26 PM
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This is a western problem, I moved in with my boyfriend very quickly and do all the house work. You guys need to fix your selves up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:33 PM
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Men traditionally are considered a tool whereas women and children are protected assets, I would have assumed everyone on here knew that by now... The patriarchy kept this instilled, whereas now women are both tools and protected assets, we're in a transitional period that's leaning towards women just becoming tools like men; leaving only children as a protected asset. The reason welfare systems favour women, even in this transitional period is because women are more likely to take care of child…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:11 AM
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Yes they can? most men just want to drink beer with their friends and occasionally do something stupid like... light fireworks in a barn. They're really not that sinister, they're just big and silly and that's why we love them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:49 AM
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The men in my family and my boyfriend are very much like this, they do whatever they want; thankfully none of that is toxic or hurtful they just like doing typical guy things. Stubborn as mules, damn Aries personalities'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:47 AM
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Absolutely adore this, actually recognising ones flaws is so attractive. My man had a bit of a troubled upbringing and it left him with some bad habits that he actively worked on and fixed. Just like his grandfather he finds it so easy to just laugh about it as well, it's very pleasant having such a positive force in your life. A lot of guys on here downplay confidence/self love as if it's something that only comes with being traditionally attractive, it's almost like they just don't want to put…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:26 AM
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Oh what the hell I've seen this video being suggested before, I'll give it a watch before I'm back from work!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:21 AM
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Depends what you consider lazy, men generally do a lot more physical work sure but Women put a lot of emotional investment into rleationships. Also men don't realise that housework is extremely taxing to women, just because you guys can casually carry around 100lbs of weight without breaking a sweat doesn't mean we can, believe it or not women aren't big silly giants too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:08 AM
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I've always been allured by presence more than actual facial features, obviously I can't speak for all Woman but I've heard similar things from my friends. The first time I saw my boyfriend I just saw a big silly friendly man, a lot of other women described him as very pleasant and soothing, obviously not all women like somewhat goofy guys but I absolutely ADORE men that don't take them selves too seriously. Seriously, if you've never seen a big silly man chase around a duck that was enjoying it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:05 AM
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Maybe, I'd probably be a very feminine man and fem guys give me an ick, I think they do for most women so you could be right. I had a friend back when I lived in the west (Ireland) that transitioned into a man and they got severely depressed, I think because they were so small and had an impossible time dating. Yea my boyfriend and the men in my family can sleep literally anywhere, meanwhile I get anxious if I'm in bed alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:57 AM
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I'm Serbian but I lived in Ireland for a while, now I'm in Romania :) Ireland was a lovely place but honestly the British Isles are rapidly declining, there's literally no housing or work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:54 AM
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Agreed, I do lose my cool sometimes over the blatant misogyny I see on here but I know it's only a teeny tiny fraction of bitter men, in my experience men are just way more pleasant. I got pretty heavily bullied by other girls in school but the nerdy guys always took care of me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:08 PM
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I think the world genuinely is more brutal for men and having a boyfriend with diagnosed autism made me sympathise more with young men's struggles. I think I'd just transition if I was a dude, but I'm a very comfort driven person and it's much easier to achieve that as a woman, maybe it'd be different if I was a man. Also how the hell do men just randomly fall asleep anywhere I don't know how you guys do it, but for the good men out there and I know that's the vast majority of you; good luck you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:05 PM
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I can't even be mad, you got me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:56 PM
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I'm fortunate enough to be in a position where only my boyfriend works so he pays for everything, he says this is completely fair given I do all the house keeping and cooking. I'm not expensive either, one of his sexiest traits is being very financially sensible plus he's good with his hands so if something breaks there's no need to replace it. Men that can't solder aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:27 PM
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Laughed insanely hard at the idea of even the average man rejecting more as if he's even been hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:17 AM
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Oh come on, this is absolute nonsense. Men are WAY happier single, for the love of God there are movements with hundreds of thousands of men based on leaving dating. Before my boyfriend met me he was completely content alone, both his friends left their relationships for their mental health; I had to be insanely persistent to win him over. My grandfather and his friends stepped away from dating and I completely understood why, I've seen what women did to him at a young age and he was miserable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:39 PM
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A good relationship with his family and a healthy friend group, it might as well be magnetic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:47 PM
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Yea I'm 5'5 but I live in a very tall country, the average woman is 5 '8" here and that's including the older generations that were impoverished from war. I've been to the US and I really don't mean this in a malicious way but the women there really were not... great physically. The men generally looked a lot better but men do tend to carry weight better, I'd say on average most the white and black men were slightly taller than me, around 5'8-5'10? Keep in mind this was a southern state. My boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:26 AM
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See that last paragraph, you're starting to get it. Women don't necessarily all want the same things, you're hyper focusing on the prerequisites which unfortunately yea, all women want men that exhibit character traits that could potentially bring success whether it be financial or physical. The same way men desire traits that reflect high fertility. If you have a lot of money why not invest in limb lengthening surgery? it'd broaden your dating pool massively, if you're as intelligent and attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:58 PM
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While I wouldn't put it in such extreme terms historically most men did not reproduce, the patriarchy enabled 'lesser' men to reproduce. Nature always finds a way, unfortunately enabling these 'lesser' men to reproduce has come around to bite them in the ass now that control is more evenly distributed between the genders. It does suck, but you really can't blame women; it's perfectly natural and reasonable for us to find the best option possible. I'll use my self as an example, I'm very short so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:08 PM
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You only need excessive money if you're compensating, sure say for example short guys need money to compete but it's always been that way. It's no different from Women with small breasts needing to actually do some house work. Pretty privilege has and will always be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:17 PM
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Dating in general is just hard, obviously for different reasons. That being said if you're not getting dates the problem is you, my boyfriend is an absolute dork and he's had women basically throw them selves at him. He's just a nice hard working guy, it's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:13 PM
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What on earth? the world is developing into a highly individualist place? That's weird because literally everything important is priced for dual earning households, what an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:01 PM
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womp womp, evolution's a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:46 PM
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Wtf is this, therapy can't even fix this My Mom and Dad are very much in the same bracket, they're both very pretty people, my Mom chose him because he works hard. My boyfriend is absolutely beautiful (to me) but not all Women are into giant bald men with big beards, in fact some Women would be absolutely terrified of that. That being said most people would say we're in the same bracket. Most people date in their own looks and financial range.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:50 PM
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If women like you enough they'll ask you out, I asked my bf out. All my friends asked their bfs out or it was at least mutual effort. We don't need skinny fat 5'9 bald men approaching us anymore, we can actually safely pick and choose now, actually assess if a man will be good for us and our future. That sounds mean as hell but would men really want the average Woman approaching them? all they do is complain about how fat they are and how much make up they wear. Become a better man, work on your…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:42 PM
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A lot, I was raised with men and actually date one? Stop being emotional over women selecting better men than you, become said better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:37 PM
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I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend, I don't get this taking turn childish sexist bs. Most women aren't going around having casual hook ups, if they are you probably live in a hellhole and all your focus should go towards escaping to somewhere with normal human beings that aren't gross as shit. As for attracting women, it's really not hard just be a damn man and not a whiny little *****
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:00 PM
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I don't get how this even happened though, my brother is also very tall and a huge hit with girls his age and he's had similar happenings. Me and my mum call it role reversal, me and my sister have never experienced any of these things nevermind at the frequency my partner and brothers have. Seriously wtf is going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:30 PM
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Most men are big silly idiots and I love them, that's all I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:38 PM
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Everyone knows this, the same with cat calling. My boyfriend is 6'5 and genuinely very handsome, he's basically Kratos. He's been hit on and borderline SA'd more times in the year I've known him than I have in my entire life, it's been a real eye opener. Just last week a group of drunken girls kept yanking at him to get up from his seat and dance, then when he finally got up they all groped his butt. Just before that a group of stone cold sober girls starting calling him a whore because of his t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:36 PM
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I'll throw men a bone here I'd argue porn addiction is a symptom, my boyfriend used to be an addict, mind you to substances not porn but the addiction was a symptom of an absolutely horrific life; once things improved for him he just randomly stopped one day. This isn't uncommon with addicts, especially men but medical professionals still aren't really sure what it is but my boyfriend said if they could bottle it they'd make trillions. People just aren't doing very well at the minute, young men …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:13 PM
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I'll throw you a bone here, Women definitely overshare in general and it took having a boyfriend with an ounce of self respect (and autism) to make me realise just how gross it is, it's insanely disrespectful. I think social media is to blame, it's made men more reserved out of fear of being attacked, on the other hand it's just seen as a widdle harmless le quirky I'm so unhinged thing for women... you know casually breaching the entire trust of a relationship. It's just gross, did the male lock…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:24 PM
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I think having an autistic boyfriend made me a bit more sympathetic to a lot men's issues, while I don't think women's lives are necessarily easier I genuinely believe the vast majority of women wouldn't last a week as a man, it's an absolutely brutal existence by design and nature that makes me quite thankful I'm not a dude. In my opinion men generally have much lower lows but a higher ceiling, whereas a woman's world is a bit more consistently meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:01 PM
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This is going to make me sound like a total pick me but my boyfriend has been catcalled more times in the year I've known him than I have in my entire life. In the last month He had a group of drunken girls grope him, like an entire group of 5-6 girls just fondling him when he was walking by. Last week he had a group of drunken girls ask him if he'd have their babies while he was at work... I thought it was funny at first because he's a big lovely 6'5 gentle giant but he really doesn't like it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:28 PM
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True, in a county with literally less than 600 people, most of those people being elderly married women are in denial about the ongoing SA epidemic. It's those cows and sheep, they outnumber us five to one how are we meant to protect our selves when all our men are frail old kind farmers!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:57 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:41 PM
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"It has to be a fact relevant to discussions here"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:06 PM
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Men get harassed in every day life more than Women, in regards to sexual aggression men also experience this they just have a much higher threshold for what constitutes harassment because of the traditional and biological differences in physicality. My boyfriend is a 6'5 bear of a man and he's been cat called/hit on/harassed more times in the time we've been together than I've been in my entire life. He's also had 'pics' forced on him in the past along with girl stalking him, which guess what? w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:57 PM
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That all men are basically autistic, it genuinely made me understand men so much better. We apply our standards and thinking to men and causes problems. Seriously, most men are extremely easy to keep happy. Us on the other hand is a whole different story, we're just much more emotionally intelligent and have much higher standards for living and general happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:48 PM
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by definition it's not, in fact it's actually rare. In fact it's so rare that my entire county doesn't have a recorded incident. That being said I don't live in a hellhole never mind an urban population centre, which by nature are all hellholes. Anyways, it should never happen, anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:36 PM
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In regards to 5 I think Men are just beyond fed up with supplying the solution, the biggest complaint I see from Women, especially in my friend group is that they can't get a man to commit. I've tried hinting that the men on dating apps aren't there to commit, at least the ones the vast majority of women are swiping right on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:46 PM
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A couple weeks ago I got cat called, well I don't know if it's called that for men. I've been groped by a group of girls trying to bring me up to dance, literally like 5-6 of them just fondling me all over. I've had random 'pics' forced on me without asking. Had girls try the deed and getting upset and even lying about me insecure about my 'size' (which she never even saw). I didn't do it because I didn't find her attractive and I especially don't do hook ups. I'm awesome I know, That being said…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:35 PM
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If women can wear make up men can add an inch or two, my best friend is 5'6 and the only way he got to start a family was lying about being 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:19 PM
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This is not a lie, in fact there are statistics widely available to you that show women don't really go for men below a certain height on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:11 PM
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I don't believe it's short in the US, I'm taller than pretty much every woman and I'm always one of the tallest people in a room. I just think in my age range girls consider really anything below the glorious 6 threshold as short. I had a nurse that was born in 98 tell me the average was about 6ft, but a matter of months later a nurse in her 40's said I was quite tall. Social media issue, IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:04 PM
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"male sluttiness" meanwhile more than half of women in my age group have boyfriends and most guys in my age group are single and not having sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:47 PM
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he's literally in the top percentage by his height alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:30 AM
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What does your flair mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:43 PM
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The universal thing is height. It's the most general perquisite, I have female friends and sometimes they just huddle to watch each other swipe on hinge; every single time even if the guy is a chubby neckbeard if he's tall they'll consider it. They were almost crying laughing at a really handsome guy being 5' 7" and another being 5' 9", which felt a bid odd because I'm 5' 9" and they know it. I've seen girls on this subreddit talk about how hot it is seeing men dwarfing other men, or that it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:42 PM
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Jesus hold your horses Jane
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:06 PM
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It’s women that shame women for their grooming and fashion choices, men do not do this on reality. 45% of young men haven’t even approached a woman nevermind commented on their hairy knuckles. The greatest enemy of women is women, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:05 PM
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What’s the perfect height? She’s going to list something in the literal top 20th percentile isn’t she
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:02 PM
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“Wouldn’t date a man that didn’t already fit my preferences”, lmao okay. Because people aren’t constantly changing, whether that be aesthetically or financially that explains a lot to why women are so picky and even then manage to initiate the vast majority of break ups despite men generally investing a lot more time, effort and resources into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:01 PM
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Never happened, it’s women that shame women for their body hair, or fashion choices, or life style choices, or promiscuity… Wait it’s just everything. The girlies are simply just not supportive of eachother, anyone with a girlfriend has heard how they talk about other women and it’s a different world from how men speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:59 AM
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Men don’t give a shit, never in any of the women on this subreddits lives has a man commented on their body hair. It’s other women that shame them for it. Meanwhile women constantly vocally bashing men for their facial hair choices or lack of beard, their long hair or short hair, or complete inability to grow hair anymore etc. To be the pickier gender is one thing, but to have the ability to vocally shame and criticise people repeatedly then to somehow pin it on the other gender is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:55 AM
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I can orgasm just fine with penetration and a bit of rubbing, this one is on the women. Leave men and your clit alone ffs, you don't need a vibrator. Women that say shit like this are literally no different to guys addicted to porn with death grip; how in the hell is a mans tongue/hands meant to compete with your 'back massager' vibrating at 40000000 rpm, literally leaving smoke coming off you when you're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:10 PM
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People having a choice in how they live their lives? lmao. You could build your own life with no qualifications a few decades ago. You could get your self a nice little home with your 40 hour week job that you got by walking in and shaking the employers hand. My grandfather left school as a teenager and had his own place in the countryside by his 20's. Now everything is priced for a dual income household, women are literally beginning to date older men again to have more access to resources leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:01 PM
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That is not true in any capacity, statistically men are more open in taking accountability and are less likely to hold grudges. This entire board is literally just women not taking accountability LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:46 PM
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Yes it does, tough tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:45 PM
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It does, reading comprehension is not women's strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:45 PM
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I've dated younger and older, my current gf is 20 and I'm 32; younger women are much better in every single metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:31 PM
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No? it's the same reason abuse statistics are skewed because men live harsher more abusive life styles, we're mentally and physically 'tougher' so we have a higher standard for what we consider abuse, despite the fact women initiate most domestic abuse. Most men get yelled at by their partners and we just think, okay this is normal; you tell us it is and use excuses like your periods or that women are just more vocal. We literally get gaslit from a young age to accept that our partners may hit u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:25 PM
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Tough tits, any man knows women are creeps. We just have a much higher threshold for what constitutes creepy behaviour, plus you all tell us we like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:50 AM
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