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| 1 | As soon as the ring came off….The minute that ring came off, I was off like a rabbit. Stuck in a dead bedroom with a cheater, I had a lot of build up. If it’s not considered cheating in your state, go have fun, be safe, assuming you’re mentally ready for it. I will say one regret I have is I hooked up with the ex’s maid of honor from our wedding. This was after the divorce was official, but still potential for drama if she finds out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Any Advice for Someone on the Brink?Is she seeing an individual therapist? I’m no psychologist or doctor but the irrationality reminds me of the post partum depression my ex suffered from. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 11:30 PM |
| 6 | 2 years passed the split, still very low sex drive, T count is good, anyone have experience?Healthy diet, hit the gym and get in shape. I was in a sexless marriage, the minute I separated I started eating better and going to the gym more frequently. Started showing results and started getting looks from women. My confidence went through the roof and with it my sex drive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 06:40 PM |
| 9 | Just a ‘Friend’!Have to be careful with the female friends too. Friend of mine walked in on his wife scissoring her friend and personal trainer. He always dismissed the red flags as girls just being girls. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues?Yes we coparent well together I live just down the street. We’ve made it as civil as possible for the kids very open door policy. She recently changed jobs and is making even more, I suspect she left because she wasn’t getting respect. Her boss was fired shortly after I discovered don’t know if it had anything to do with them. When married she never talked down to me about making less than her but we both make six figures so it’s not like I wasn’t doing well. I think it was more about the power … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues?I suspected for a while finally found proof confronted her and she begged for reconciliation. I agreed she tried for a couple months then stopped. She insisted it was only emotional I knew deep down she was lying but I didn’t have the proof. Finally found the proof it was physical and that was the end of our marriage. She forgot I had her messages connected to my iPad, the second we separated she was texting AP again. I’m guessing the grass hasn’t been greener on the other side as she’s seemed p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues?Best I can find is a survey that found 37% of women who admit to sleeping with their boss also said they received a raise for it | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues?Towards the end of our marriage my ex wife made more than me… that’s because she was giving her boss a raise too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 08:43 PM |
| 5 | I feel like being a “good husband” is the worst job on Earth.The insanity of the water bottle craze. She was, probably still is spending over $100 a month on water bottles. She’d get one use it once then toss because she didn’t like it. It’s a cup with a lid that holds water, what the hell you mean you don’t like it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 07:24 PM |
| 14 | I feel like being a “good husband” is the worst job on Earth.I feel you on the income. I’m paying the same in rent as our mortgage without the joint income. I’m still managing to save the same amount monthly. The amount of garbage the ex was wasting money on was insane. It’s refreshing to not have daily deliveries of Amazon boxes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Pleasant update 5 years laterGood to hear and encouraging. I’m almost a year out from divorce from a cheating ex wife. Things have been civil between us in the divorce and we even managed to get together with the kids on Xmas morning so they could open presents with both parents there. I got a little extra revenge present this year. The APs wife finally opened the message I sent her on Facebook two years ago. Looks like she’s taking him to the bank. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 11:34 AM |
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