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| 1 | Lying to Women is okayI wouldn’t call it lying per se because that implies outright deception and fraud, but let’s be real here: good salesmanship isn’t about conveying Truth, but a version of the truth that appeals to the consumer you are trying to reach. And dating as a guy most certainly is very much like salesmanship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | More women (unfortunately) have to accept financial responsibilities if dating/relationships will ever fix itself. [Repost]I had the same thoughts today after watching the Chris Williamson’s podcast with Matt Hussey Women may have a hard time admitting it, but despite all the advancement we have seen for women across the board in the west, many are still locked into the hypergamy mindset, i.e. that the man has to be at least at the same achievement level as the woman. As Matt points out, not only has this socioeconomic shift reduced down the pool of men who are higher achievers relative to women, it’s also frankly e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:15 AM |
| 3 | “Women are hornier than men”This is indeed utter nonsense! However, it’s important to understand that sex drive and the experience of sex is also simply different for men and women. For a man to be sexually aroused and to achieve sexual gratification is a pretty straightforward endeavor. Men are stimulated primarily by visual cues. And it’s supposed to be easy since we produce millions of sperm every day. Men need to apply that stuff! For a woman, sexual arousal is far more complex. The slightest disagreeable thing will tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsAlright I gave it a second read and I think I kind a get it now. It sounds like you are saying women are in fact signaling their availability simply because of their attention seeking behavior - be it how they dress in public or the sort of stuff women post about themselves on social media (even if they dubiously claim that they are doing it for themselves). And if I am reading you correctly, you are also implying that men signal their availability by being flirtatious with women either online o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsYour post does not make a whole lot of sense. However, indeed, a man's one and only ace in the dating game is the "commitment" card. It's the one thing women want more than anything else, so I think you are absolutely right, that it should be exercised with caution and really that's a thing women need to come to terms with. I mean women make men wait for sex, so it's only a fair arrangement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:12 AM |
| 4 | What would society look like if men were less horny?It’s odd that it needs to be pointed out that the successful propagation of the human species is a direct result of men trying everything to “trick” women into sleeping with them and women in turn diligently turning away men as they are! It seems we would all be better off if we just acknowledged our biologically encoded roles in this at times frustrating, but often enough beautiful dance of human mating! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:39 AM |
| – | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I think OP doesn’t understand the idea behind “hitting the wall”. The idea is that women actually enjoy a lot of privilege at a young age due to their physical desirability which declines with age of course. Combined with the far greater access to both professional and academic opportunities women enjoy nowadays, women in their 20’s really have the world at their feet. But in terms of hitting the wall, I think you have to contextualize that a bit. Getting a lot of attention for just being pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.It’s called a transactionalism. To some degree all relationships are transactional of course. It’s more prevalent in the US than in Europe I have noticed, which indicates a strong cultural, socioeconomic component. In this context, there is nothing fundamentally wrong with women expecting the man to be the provider. But where this kind of arrangement breaks down is when you live in an economic environment that encourages equal opportunity to men and women and in fact is starting to actually favo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200kYeah as divisive as Donald Trump maybe, his brand of transactionalism is alive and well in this country across any and all aisles! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 06:12 AM |
| 14 | Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200kSo I don’t think this attitude is universal, but its my sense that it’s certainly pervasive - I would guess more so in high cost of living places like New York, San Francisco or Miami. 2 things to note here that I think are of importance: 1) It’s a bit of a US problem! This elevated concern for money is also somewhat tied to the United States and other societies that embrace capitalism as freely. But if you go to Europe for example, one of the first things you will notice is that greed, i.e. the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierI think the point is that men constantly get criticized for their carnal instincts to the point where men are made out to be the morally inferior sex, which is troubling! The NYTimes just ran an op-Ed today on how men are to blame for lack of marriages. We keep chipping away at traditional gender roles without understanding some of the unintended consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?I think there is a lot of overthinking going on here. Men's instinct to pair bond are primarily rooted in our desire for sexual gratification and the fact that we are easily aroused, especially by novel partners. We produce about a 100 million sperm a day and I am sure it's not to make kleenex rich. For women on the other hand, pair bonding involves much higher stakes, 1 egg cell per month.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Men don't get it. Women have moved onIf you don't mind me asking, what kind of legacy do you intend to leave to this world? What is it that you contribute to the great human enterprise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do even women with high libidos prefer monogamy or sex with just one partner?I believe the need for novelty in your sexual partners is an issue that predominantly affects men. It’s called the Coolidge Effect. It’s the reason why men can easily get aroused over and over again just walking down a sidewalk of a busy city. It’s why men catcall, why men are willing to dole out hundreds of dollars for even the opportunity of sex and why men will make very, very stupid decisions all to get laid. While one cannot exclude the possibility that women don’t also fancy making new con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How important is having sex to having a happy and healthy lifestyle ?You also need to take into account that the experience of sex is different for men and women. It doesn’t take much or long for a guy to achieve an orgasm, so in other words the investment/risk is pretty low and the reward pretty steady. For women though, sex is typically a more complicated mechanism. Some women never achieve an orgasm, others need to be in a very specific headspace while some can seemingly climax on demand. Anyway, I am not surprised that typically women will become more reticen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeI can definitely empathize that women get a lot of unwanted attention in often entirely inappropriate circumstances. But then, why the heck is beauty and appearance such an important part of your life. Everything from long hair, lipstick, perfect skin eye shadow. Don't tell me you are doing that to blend into the background and to go unnoticed! Listen, much of the attention women solicit maybe unwanted, but not all of it is! And of course it's not entirely unwanted because frankly without the at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year?Perhaps a better question to get at the heart of the issue here would be to ask “What would happen if men’s instinctual pursuit of women would somehow be turned off altogether?” - I think you’d potentially be looking at the end of humanity. Men and women like to complain about each other all day long, but the bottom line, the bi-polar dynamic of the 2 sexes is absolutely essential to the survival of the species! Everything from women wearing make-up to men lusting after women, from women getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:42 AM |
| 0 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?You realize men invariably will have a tendency to get bored from having sex with the same woman… it’s called the Coolidge effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?Spot on! Women who want this for real must be quite delusional! Alone the expectation that your first lover will be able to provide you with the best sexual experience of your lifetime without any prior experience is just plain crazy. And then the various and multifaceted ways in which people develop nowadays. For the various socio-economic reasons and opportunities, many people nowadays are not matured as full human beings until well into their 30’s. Ladies, life is not a Disney fairy tale!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:52 AM |
| 2 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?And how old are you? Good luck on developing in the same direction with in lock step. You might be surprised the multitude of different paths available to people now, the different places to live in, the different and ever-changing career paths to chose from! Most of my friends who got married to their high school sweethearts are happily divorced now, btw! I wonder why?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:10 AM |
| 6 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themIf I encountered someone who told me they "detested" receiving oral, I would probably stop everything I am doing and ask why, even knowing that asking that kind of question can seriously backfire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?Male privilege is certainly vastly overstated and mischaracterized. Those men who get a hand out or a leg up in life usually do so for being born into the right circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?This resonates a bit with me. I am in my early 40s but I look significantly younger to the point where everyone routinely asks me whether my stated age is correct or not. I am in decent enough shape, but honestly I think my slightly boyish face kind a does the trick for me in getting a fair amount of attention online and in real life. Interestingly on dating apps I routinely match with women much older than me (45 and up) as well as women who are frankly anything but in shape. Some of these olde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Perhaps the last part of the question is the real problem: "..am I still attractive?" It almost sounds like attraction is social currency for women?! Well...that is the sad truth actually, isn't it? Young women get the benefit of physical beauty, which of course comes with the massive downside that it is for one not a benefit that is earned but given by nature. And sadly, it is a benefit that depreciates over time. So perhaps, as a society and as parents we should work harder to deemphasize the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido?As with most gender related differences, it’s important to keep in mind that individual variability typically trumps differences observed between the 2 sexes. Further it’s probably important to also note that libido often presents itself differently between males and females. As a man I can attest that my sex drive is generally directed towards immediate sexual gratification, the idea of rubbing one out if you will, usually followed by some kind of refractory period of close to zero sexual desir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.So? I am a guy and I have turned down opportunities for sex. This doesn’t negate my earlier argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:23 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.How often do you think about sex? How often do you get distracted by a halfway decent looking guy in the street? Yeah sure social conditioning is a real thing. But from a purely evolutionary point of view, it really does make sense that men try to have sex as much as and with as many women as possible. Why do you think we produce millions of sperms every day? To put it in a jar and set it on a shelf? We really don’t need to mystify male and female sexuality. You can get a guy turned on with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:16 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.My father lives in a nursing home for people with dementia. I was recently told that he had groped someone inappropriately. Obviously it’s impossible to know what the experience of the other sex is really like. Even transgender people are unable to undergo a complete sexual transformation to really flip the original biological sex. But I think women routinely underestimate the constant and pervasive sexual urges men generally feel regardless of age or other circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.A lot of truth in here, but we shouldn’t forget that men on average simply have higher sex drives too. Men thinking about and trying to get sex all the time isn’t just the result of some pervers social conditioning, but also simply a result of biological mechanics. You are absolutely right that casual sex in abundance is a pretty hollow. Good sex, after all is an art not a sport! But none of this self-actualization negates the biological facts that men want to have sex as much as possible becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Question for men: do you think your life would be better if you were less horny?What would happen to our species if men didn’t have such an insatiable sex drive? Yeah.. we probably would have never been born! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Breaking news: “We got are we dating the same guy” Chicago and Boston taken downHere is the URL of the New York group, which had some 100k+ members. As of today, it seems to either turned "hidden" or perhaps it's been deleted. ..groups/340985311306448/ | /r/MensRights | 09/06/23 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Breaking news: “We got are we dating the same guy” Chicago and Boston taken downAs of June 9th, 2023, you can't find the NYC group anymore. Either it's been taken down or turned "hidden". Anyone got any details? | /r/MensRights | 09/06/23 11:52 PM |
| 2 | The reason the group "Are we dating the same guy" is still upJust noticed that the New York affiliate of that group no longer seems to be accessible and appears to have been removed from facebook. Has facebook finally taking action again this flagrant invasion of privacy into men's lives? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Women largely objectify themselves for validation and profit and pretend it's empowering.We really should add the qualifier “some” before men and women. Case in point, there are plenty of nudist beaches in Europe and elsewhere where naked men and women can just be themselves without being harassed by strangers. I guess there is something about everyone being naked that frees the mind from the hamster wheel of sexual innuendo. Having said that… about the old miniskirt and the cleavage revealing shirt. It’s a bit like the chicken and the egg. What came first? ..guys ogling or women ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Casual sex can be great! It can be fun, stimulating and incredibly exciting. But it can also be quite disappointing, boring and dissatisfying. The quality of the encounter typically depends on your openness to make a meaningful connection with the other person. In other words, don’t treat them just as an object for sexual gratification. Be interested, open and perhaps even a bit vulnerable to other humans and you will be surprised to find what positive experiences you can have. Casual sex can al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.The original post is quite an extreme view and for that reason alone does not hold much water. But it is certainly true that women in general get overvalued tremendously for their role in the sexual market place. And here we should narrow it down to a certain segment of physically attractive, young women. Older and less attractive women certainly suffer as much from low sexual market value as young men without noteworthy resources. The terrible thing is few seem to care about side of the equatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:52 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Most men who sleep with a lot of women are not chads they just have better social skillsSo I have never been bad with women although when I was younger, when I started college in other words, I was definitely quite a bit more shy and introvert. At the same time there is my big brother. A few years older than me and a genuinely smart guy on one hand, but also a major party animal who kind a threw his life away. Failed college, struggled with substance abuse, went unemployed for many years, eventually lost his driver license. Not even particularly tall but man an alpha personality th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 01:40 AM |
| 2 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeI think part of the problem here is that we are denying the existence of physiological peculiarities of men and women in what can at best be described a muddled or somewhat ambiguous scenario. By and large, men will tend to act opportunistically when confronted with the possibility of a sexual encounter, as described by the OP and almost irrelevant of whether the woman in question was sincere and enthusiastic or not. Now you can preach about abstinence from alcohol all you want - some here actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 09:11 AM |
| 6 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?A lot of comments here seam to be beside the point. Accidents can happen. Accidents are not “baby trapping.” Deception is the issue. A woman or man saying one thing (we are doing this for fun not for procreation) and then doing the opposite is the issue. This issue isn’t really about personal responsibility but the intention to use offspring as a means of coercion. If it’s all a matter of personal responsibility then perhaps in the sense of not knowing your sexual partner well enough. In terms o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manFrom an evolutionary perspective, if humanity were to depend on women chasing men, women making the first move, whistling and honking at the sighting of a man and all the other various forms and manifestations of courtship, humanity would have ceased to exist a long time ago! So yes, gender roles are part and parcel of humanity's existence and survival. And as with anything else, it's a mix of nature and nurture, a mix of behavior driven by hormones on one hand and behavior driven by cultural no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about a man’s sexual past?Damn..reading these comments here makes me wonder how judgmental and sexually repressed people can really be. First of all, a number is just a number and at the end of the day means only as much as you are willing to give it meaning. Quantity is only important if you are the person that counts "likes" on your instagram posts. Quality sexual relationships has little do with body count, the only number that counts is greater than 0. But all those who judge a man or a woman for having had many diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 06:54 PM |
| 3 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themI think you are getting at an interesting point. There is no point in lamenting stats like 80% of women go for the top 20% or only 20% of dating app users are women. The more important thing is perhaps the recognition that men and women simply want different things and further what men and women from each other varies predominantly with age and other factors. For one there is the issue of casual sex. Men generally love the idea because it plays into our instinct (men think about sex constantly) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 07:00 PM |
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