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DebateDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:54 AM
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Question For WomenDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:20 AM
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Question For WomenDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:48 PM
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DebateDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:28 PM
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Question for BluePillDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:02 AM
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Question For MenDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:30 PM
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Question For WomenDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:54 PM
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Question For WomenDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:11 AM
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Question for RedPillDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:42 AM
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Question For WomenDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:26 AM
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DebateDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:09 PM
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DebateDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:10 PM
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DebateDisastrous-You2726/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:33 PM
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What is your mother’s job, if I may ask? What is your close friend’s art passion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:06 AM
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Yes. Shorter men can still have successful careers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:59 PM
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Fat women are well above short men, even good looking ones, in terms of appeal to the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:57 PM
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I am asking if it is unreasonable in your opinion for a man who is short to give up. Should he be shamed for not pursuing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:57 PM
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Is being fat for a woman somehow a negative? Plenty of guys like fat women. Also fat women are outside of short guys leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:55 PM
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No it only makes dating harder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:53 PM
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Would you blame a short ugly for giving up entirely? Or is that unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:52 PM
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I am a good looking 5’6 guy and never had a woman express interest in me (I’ve had other men tell me I should model due to my jawline)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:51 PM
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What type of stipulations?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:50 PM
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Yep there’s no shorter lean and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:50 PM
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So it’s not made up? Women require men be taller than them no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:43 PM
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Yeah the thing that’s unattractive about them is their lack of height and lack of financial security
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:47 AM
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This is a very odd opinion and not one most men or women share People recognize erotica as fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:06 PM
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What about reading erotica? Same opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:39 AM
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Can improving myself make me taller? No? Then there’s nothing I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:10 AM
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Nope it’s not an excuse. It’s a valid reason to have zero success with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:09 AM
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Because it’s incorrect to say women don’t care about height They do care if they require a taller man And because I’m a man who is short and because of that I will never have my first kiss date or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:07 AM
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No it is the same thing. Also you said most women don’t care about height but they definitely do, though they are entitled to their standards. It just doesn’t make sense how women can call a guy who is charismatic with a male model face and fit build extremely undesirable just because of his height?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:04 AM
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What if you are shorter than her? I don’t understand why height is so important Why do women perceive short men as repulsive even if we are otherwise good looking and charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:00 AM
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Yep. Height matters above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:59 AM
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lol ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:39 AM
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I style my hair everyday and have spent hundreds on nice clothes, and will continue to spend. I can’t control what I’m attracted to. There’s something about a woman taller than me that’s just so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:35 AM
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Do you think it s a negative thing to have a fetish (as long as it’s legal)?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:22 AM
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I’ve never had a girlfriend or any woman interested in me ever and I’m 25. Is it done for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:19 AM
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Good you are consistent about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:10 AM
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5’7-6’0 but it’s a preference and not requirement Also I am a man who is into gym and hiking and I would date a woman who isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:09 AM
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Why is it a fetish for men? But it’s not a fetish for women to only want a tall man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:07 AM
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I am lean. I feel more confident with a good physique
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:04 AM
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Good to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:03 AM
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Height > build
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:59 PM
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You’re a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:55 PM
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What if we do have a preference for taller women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:55 PM
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We are not talking about the NBA. I am talking about attracting women Are you saying it is like winning the lottery at that height?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:53 PM
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Ok so what would be your advice? Should I just give up? I am already lean model face, dress well, clean cut
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:51 PM
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I am not a 4’10 man but I am quite short
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:51 PM
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Yes, and what would be your advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:49 PM
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What is wrong with dating advice from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:48 PM
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I have been told I should model because of my jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:46 PM
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What would be your advice to a 4’10 man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:46 PM
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What is super short to you? What if he is super short, what would be your advice then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:45 PM
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What about below mid size?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:45 PM
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What about it is unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:44 PM
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Would you date a man shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:43 PM
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What if we are 5’5.5 in the United States ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:42 PM
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So then what should a 5’5.5 guy do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:41 PM
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What if we want to date taller women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:40 PM
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Women don’t care about muscular frame
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:40 PM
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What if we are attracted to taller women exclusively?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:40 PM
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Yeah no this is incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:40 PM
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Yes approaching is a very BAD idea for men. The best places for men to meet women are through social circles, that’s IT If you don’t have a social circle good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:11 PM
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How is it misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:31 PM
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You said dating is harder for women because they can’t score a high quality boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:16 PM
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Why is a woman with not much to offer deserving of a high quality boy friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:11 PM
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No they won’t. It’s weird and creepy behavior. Most single men aren’t deluded enough to believe anything could ever replace a real woman. If they sincerely believe that, they’re pathetic. These men need to be working on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:26 PM
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Is the average man a subpar man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:03 PM
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Not everyone will want a sex bot. And I say this as a lonely loveless desperate man. I would never engage with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:08 PM
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Honestly I can’t believe this advice was said in good faith. This was one of the most condescending and out of touch pieces of “meme” advice I have read on this site and that is saying a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:43 PM
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Do you think the majority of men who struggle have no active social life and friends? Furthermore, to those who don’t, it’s extremely condescending to tell someone to just “try having friends” when there may be a myriad of reasons they find it difficult to form friendships. Do you think these men want to be lonely and friendless? Do you think they are voluntarily choosing that? That hearing “try having friends” is going to make them wake up, leave their mom’s basement, and shake their head and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:35 PM
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Yes any man who is struggling in dating has a horrendous personality and is a basement dwelling loser
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:44 PM
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Not now but I used to. I use quasi sign language in some situations
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:43 PM
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My mother paid for a vocal coach for me to try when I was like 13 and I stopped trying the voice exercises she prescribed because I felt embarrassment doing them. I don’t believe it would have helped much but perhaps I will try again Other than that no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:58 AM
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Yes I can’t project my voice at a loud enough level physically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:15 AM
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I went to a social event yesterday and I was straining to talk to a number of men and women there. I don’t know why I keep going to them. I need to find events which don’t involve a huge crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:45 PM
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Because I want encouragement. Thank you for sharing your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:42 PM
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His story is inspiring and I am not saying that one should be encouraged to let their disadvantage mentally disarm them completely and succumb to passivity… on the other hand if someone wants to give up that’s their prerogative and they shouldn’t be chastised for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:46 PM
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Because blue pill claims any man can have a fulfilling dating life if he just leaves his basement and touches grass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:10 AM
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It’s not about trying hard, it’s that passport lifestyle isn’t a feasible solution
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:43 AM
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No I don’t think RP would work either.. well depends on the context
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:42 AM
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I edited the post and included it. I believe if you are forced to travel thousands of miles across the world to find a partner, it’s time you throw in the towel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:34 AM
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I am just curious what BP, which commonly espouses working on yourself, would be able to provide in the way of advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:21 AM
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In my case damaged vocal chords so I cannot talk audibly in a number of situations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:17 AM
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Why do you believe men should be pressured to be fathers but women should have no similar pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:08 PM
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Don’t more and more young women want to be child free? What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:58 PM
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We are talking about men in the below average to somewhat above average range not men who are so attractive every woman is receptive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:56 PM
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I do not as I was starting to form one from work however a lay off changed that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:55 PM
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What do you say to men like me? I have been told I should model and am fit (though am short) hold a masters degree, had a great job, have ample savings, come from a wealthy family, and I cannot attract an average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:42 PM
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You have no evidence of this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:41 PM
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Why do you believe these men are not in the same league as the women they are demanding? Maybe tour value assessment is incorrect. Why do you think so lowly of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:10 PM
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“Men refuse to participate in those third places because it more difficult to abuse women in those settings.” Re read what you wrote and self reflect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:06 PM
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I am gen z. What do you think about hobby groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:57 AM
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At hobby groups? My friend advises me against those
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:56 AM
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What do men so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:52 AM
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Do you have evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:50 AM
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This is the most insane perspective I have read about on this sub. What the actual hell?? Please touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:49 AM
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Do you have any evidence for this or is this just coming out of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:48 AM
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A flight? What the hell are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:44 AM
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“Why are you ruining your mascara”? As typical, insults devolve into reinforcing toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:37 AM
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You’re right. Real men understand women are goddesses and they need to make themselves worthy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:21 AM
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The fact you use virgin as an insult shows how immature you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:20 AM
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What do you define as a man child or hobo sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:15 AM
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I’ve never had a girlfriend but I’ve been on a number of first and second dates, kissed a number of women, and made love once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:59 PM
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I am not anything impressive. I am short decent looking and dress well and financially stable and somewhat fit I’ve been able to attract women from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:57 PM
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I thought you meant unattractive in other ways like being a neck beard or out of shape Good looking fit short men are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:47 PM
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I am a fucking straight man and I am saying this. The bar is abysmally low it’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:34 PM
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Because it’s true. It’s really easy to attract women, the bar is in hell, so if you aren’t have success work on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:10 PM
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Are you saying short men are portrayed as very unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:03 PM
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No I am a short man and can confirm short men absolutely suck. Women are right to steer clear of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:59 PM
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True. I’m a short guy myself. We are undesirable as HELL. We deserve to be alone 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:58 PM
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I don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:38 AM
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An easier time than most men for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:32 AM
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They have an easy time attracting a long term partner too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:31 AM
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Yes I am referring to guys who never attract ever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:11 PM
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Oh I’m definitely not only pursuing top tier women. I prefer nerdy intelligent plus size women who are older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:17 PM
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Ok so then I should be a catch? I volunteer, am ambitious, well educated, dress well, have been able to make women laugh, am fit, have active hobbies like hiking and photography, and financially secure Yet I attract no one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:53 PM
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Yes it does. If someone doesn’t want to sleep with someone, in their eyes, they perceive them as having too many negative attributes to be desired
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:49 PM
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Exactly. Porn consumption is unethical and the sign of a moral impurity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:47 PM
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It’s impossible for a woman to be a loser. Those two terms cannot intersect realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:47 PM
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Which ones cross over?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:45 PM
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Are you being serious here? Are you actually saying the bar is in the basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:41 PM
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When did I ever insult anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:56 AM
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Do you believe how someone is treated during their childhood has no impact on self perception as an adult? And that that’s very easy to shrug off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:37 AM
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Do you think bullying doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:27 AM
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But I thought every man can attract a partner if he just improves himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:19 AM
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Same. The most damaging and triggering insults I’ve received growing up and I to adulthood are about my lack of success with girls and women. Even from my brothers and parents. In fact I find it hard to shake low confidence because of them. I don’t think people realize how wounding it is to men to be made fun of for not being successful with women/ being single over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:05 AM
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Ok so I am noticeably short. I am 5’5.5. Do I count? Do you think it’s possible for a guy with my characteristics to find someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:44 AM
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What traits would “really disadvantage” him? Do you believe not “adulting” well is common with men who can’t attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:15 AM
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Is there something wrong with making attracting women paramount in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:49 AM
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Then why do you use virgin or “gets no women” as an insult? That makes literally no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:58 AM
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Do you think men who “can’t get laid” or attract women are losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:18 AM
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What will help me with 95% of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:18 AM
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Women aren’t entitled to being approached ever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:59 AM
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Ok I misunderstood. I understand what you are trying to say Yes I agree with you. I myself have fallen victim to internet addiction and it’s hindered my social skills. I’ve never once had a girlfriend. I am making a concerted effort to put myself out there in hobby groups to find a partner Question: what is your opinion on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:23 PM
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“It’s video games, porn and binge streaming instead of socializing that’s fucking up the shut ins.” So you believe that young men aren’t dating as much because they are shut ins (basement dwellers) addicted to video games and hedonist whims There’s no possibility that there are men who socialize every weekend who still are encountering difficulty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:18 PM
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It is implied in what you stated that you believe men who have dating difficulties are basement dwellers who are video game addicted You didn’t explicitly say it but it’s implied
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:15 PM
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Imagine thinking all men who aren’t successful with women are video game and porn addicted Andrew tate loving basement dwellers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:11 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:17 PM
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A NEET is what I am though? Aren’t they sort of the same? I am not employed, just volunteering, I’m not in education - I graduated, and I’m not in any formal training programs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:01 PM
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That is perfectly understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:54 AM
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Best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:30 AM
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Not being in education or training or a job currently doesn’t mean you haven’t achieved those things in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:28 AM
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What do you mean doesn’t contribute at all? What if the unemployed person has savings?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:17 AM
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How does me using the term NEET suggest anything about my resourcefulness? I included it because so many people in this sub would describe me as one. I agree it’s a judgmental term which doesn’t take into account people’s individual situations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:55 AM
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Why don’t you have much faith in men these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:22 AM
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There’s no reason these guys can’t put effort to earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:52 PM
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I mean these women are absolutely correct. Men should be stepping up and earning more. Show some ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:40 PM
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No we do not. People are increasingly more isolated. There are fewer third spaces. Do you talk to Gen z about their experiences? What groups specifically are you part of where you’ve made a lot of friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:41 PM
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Not nearly enough no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:29 PM
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A lot more hiking photography biking food tasting, social, and beach groups for people in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:18 PM
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Would you ever suggest someone give up if they reach a certain age without ever knowing a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:21 AM
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Do you believe 25 is the cutoff point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:15 AM
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There are less opportunities to do that post college. No you can’t just decide to form a big social circle and have it happen. You are discounting a lot of barriers. I agree most people can better their situation by going out and attempting to connect, and have some success, but not everyone will be this social god with a broad circle of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:00 AM
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Gen z men are so lazy. It’s incredible. They don’t want to work to be worthy partners for women or take the easy steps to make themselves desirable so they just whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:25 AM
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exactly! They are sooo entitled. Like if they want to be worthy of women, get a freaking job and some genuine hobbies Women are the prize and they need to always remember that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:21 AM
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Why do you believe dating apps are so difficult for men? Or do you believe my profile is just well below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:20 AM
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Why do you believe dating apps are supposedly so difficult for men? Or maybe they are just hard for me and my profile is abysmally below average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:20 AM
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Are there really many more dating and work opportunities available? What makes you conclude that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:40 AM
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Exactly. A lot of men are just incredibly appallingly lazy and don’t want to put in basic effort. I can’t believe how entitled many men my age are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:38 AM
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It isn’t entirely self imposed. You’re full of it. There’s much less social groups and experiences especially post college
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:19 AM
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Do you have proof that the majority of men on apps are low quality options?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:08 AM
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This is wishful thinking at best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:37 AM
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Yes but enough women look for men earning that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:22 AM
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That’s my exact perspective The intermittent rewards kept getting lesser and lesser
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:05 AM
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How did you make your millions, if it’s ok to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:46 PM
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Then this question isn’t addressed to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:29 PM
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More and more women are earning six figures in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:56 PM
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It’s perfectly reasonable for a high earning woman to want a man who earns as much as her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:40 PM
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Satisfying career and at least somewhat high earning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:35 PM
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What are your side hustles and your hobbies? I’m curious as I’m looking for inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:32 PM
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What are your interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:28 PM
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By contract gig do you mean that you were employed part time and temporary to hire basis with the company?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:27 PM
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It’s really weird that ambitious and hard working women are judged for wanting men on their level. It’s perfectly reasonable for a woman who is well earning to also want a high earning man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:26 PM
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What line of work are you in where most make 200k?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:08 PM
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I mean for those women, no therr aren’t enough eligible men to date and I feel sympathetic to them. It must be frustrating you can’t find men who you believe are decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:49 PM
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You 5’1?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:19 PM
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Nope. Most men don’t care. More women aren’t comfortable dating a man who isn’t at the same ambition level as them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:55 PM
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You didn’t say anything but I am just saying, not wrong for women to want a successful man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:53 PM
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What is wrong with women wanting a successful man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:51 PM
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Why do you think there is a strong lack of dateble man? Why do you think men are choosing not to do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:49 PM
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Nah I feel a lot of sympathy for women who can’t find economically attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:47 PM
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NPs and PAs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:45 PM
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What are the men in your social circle doing for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:36 PM
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Nah. IMO women are right to want men who are earning more than them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:35 PM
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How are you earning 700k?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:27 PM
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Wdym not a lot of eligible men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:02 PM
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What type of money making careers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:25 AM
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Educated does = intelligent. There’s a strong correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:27 PM
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What is the income they want in a man? I have a bachelors and a masters from two fairly good schools and was earning 72k, which is about average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:24 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:23 PM
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Because men are not stepping up and becoming dateable partners for women. It’s concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:20 PM
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Imagine men thinking they’re victims LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:19 PM
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What would you define as average success? If more women and graduating with masters, completing internships, and securing high paying jobs why wouldn’t you think average success would shift to something closer to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:16 PM
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You said men who believe porn is a substitute for a relationship are rightfully mocked and then say women who use toys not are mocked because they can get laid So the judgment still hinges on how the man is involuntarily single
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:01 PM
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So by admitting more women are overachievers than men you admit more men are just content with being lazy and unproductive? They don’t want to pursue success
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:59 PM
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Nah men need to step up and become over achievers. More and more women are highly motivated overachievers compared to men. There’s no reason that men can’t become extremely career driven and ambitious, as they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:55 PM
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Why did you say that men who choose to indulge in porn over pursuing a relationship should be rightfully mocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:54 PM
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The man is mocked for believing he should not feel pressured to chase women’s validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:41 PM
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No it’s not dehumanizing lol. These men are just lazy and don’t want to put in effort to have high paying professional work and earn enough to meet women’s standards. If those men just put in effort and stopped whining they’d be dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:40 PM
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You said men are rightly mocked for believing that porn can substitute for relationships, and women aren’t mocked because they are using toys voluntarily. The judgment hinges on the man giving up and deciding to pursue alternatives to trying to gain women’s validation- and believing that’s sufficient. He is mocked because he is not getting laid and because he believes he should feel entitled to not feel pressured to chase women’s validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:25 PM
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So you admit these men are still mocked because they cannot attract women? That if a man tries to give up on attracting women and find alternatives to traditional romance, he is pathetic and a loser You believe men’s value and worth should revolve around whether he can attract women or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:23 PM
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You’re right. Men who watch porn, pay for escorts are the absolute lowest losers there are. They can’t get women to sleep with them for free so they have to resort to paying for it and creating alternative relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:02 PM
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Got it. I do have goals. I am working diligently to find a job and leave my parents house
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:08 AM
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Would it be a problem if a man was living with his parents but trying to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:41 PM
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Ok so someone is incompetent for being laid off from their job even if they had strong performance?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:26 AM
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No it’s not, I agree with you that no man should be expected to provide just because he’s a man. Women are adults and they can provide for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:15 PM
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Would you consider it dependent if a man moved back home temporarily while searching for work after a lay off? Also he pays for his groceries insurance and the things he wants. He doesn’t ask for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:14 PM
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No you are being filtered out because you cannot provide like a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:12 PM
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So if we are laid off from our job and move back in for several months to save money on rent while we apply for work… that is a sign of immaturity and laziness to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:11 PM
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So if we are laid off from our job and move back in for several months to save money on rent while we apply for work… that is a sign of immaturity to you? I was living with roommates and was laid off and my roommates wouldn’t do a month to month lease only another six months so I said fine I’ll move back in until I find a new job- my parents are fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:10 PM
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What do you define as a desirable man? Like what qualities constitute a desirable man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:19 AM
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Do you believe it is unlikely that a decent looking, ambitious man would need to resort to AI or dating abroad out of intense desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:54 AM
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Then what are women complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:13 AM
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Who decided which men are undesirable? If these men who are also supposedly “desirable” are dropping out, are they really that desirable in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:10 AM
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They made it seem like he is a loser because he cannot find a partner irrespective of if he is decent looking and is working hard on his life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:06 AM
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Why are there numerous articles on this subject, and YouTube videos about men no longer approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:01 AM
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Obviously it’s a big enough problem to warrant numerous articles about “no viable men for women” and “why are men turning to X instead of pursuing partners”. It’s about broader trends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:01 AM
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No it’s why do people tell these unwanted weirdos that they need to center their lives around chasing a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:42 AM
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Also how are you not shaming them by calling them losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:25 AM
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You are generalizing Some of us are open to date a broad range of women, and we don’t complain that women don’t want us. We just passively accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:22 AM
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What if the man is good looking, fit, educated, financially secure, dresses well, has hobbies, and ambitions he is working towards- and still cannot find anyone who wants him at all? Is he still a loser then? Is the sole reason he’s a loser is because women don’t want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:15 AM
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No a ton of men do NOT call women fat ugly and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:06 AM
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This is you just blanket generalizing. But sure it’s not because they are lacking companionship it’s because they are vile pieces of shit who want to be abusive. Keep in mind there are also women users of AI
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:01 PM
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We are taking about using AI to help with companionship. Men can still have platonic interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:56 PM
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How does using AI have an effect in the real world if those men have given up on ever finding a human woman to date? A lot of these men are desperately lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:50 PM
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What makes you think they are not partially referring to those passive silent men just living their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:46 PM
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Manosphere and trad values over lap a bit no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:43 PM
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I don’t disagree but ultimately as long as it’s not hurting anyone these men can do whatever they want. They are only hurting themselves. I don’t think men should be compelled to chase a relationship. Yes the men who drop out and then whine about women are insufferable and those men deserve criticism, but I’m just referring to a broader trend of criticism of men who don’t put in work to be “viable partners” for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:41 PM
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No I am not referring to those guys who whine about women online. I mean the ones who just decide to focus on their own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:35 PM
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There are articles about men not approaching women anymore as a bad thing, about men choosing to focus on their own interests rather than work to be viable partners. Some are clearly noticing men are not trying to date as much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:34 PM
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It’s amazing how the bar is in the basement (have a good career, be educated), yet men can’t even meet that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:50 PM
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No it isn’t. It’s really not that hard to not be a loser without a career (or working towards a high paying one like I am) education or basic dress sense and hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:41 PM
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No it isn’t objectively impossible, that’s what I’m saying If men weren’t lazy they would work to attain high paying careers, be attractive, and become well educated. Most men can achieve these things, they just don’t want to put in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:36 PM
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Yes I do, if they just put in the effort. Why do you think women want to date lazy losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:19 PM
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High paying is 150,000+ Well educated is a masters These are perfectly obtainable yet men are just lazy and don’t want to put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:17 PM
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Exactly. Yet so many men believe they are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:11 PM
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It isn’t a near impossible standard to expect a man to have a high paying career be attractive and well educated 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:10 PM
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Because it’s kind of true? More women are educated than men, they are more frequently out earning men, they pay more attention their appearance and oftentimes take better care of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:07 PM
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So because a woman is overweight she isn’t allowed to have high standards for her man? She isn’t allowed to want a man she can find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:04 PM
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It’s sexism to point out that there’s a lack of good options for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:02 PM
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Yes I do. As men complain about women’s standards more than the reverse. Men, if you want women, do better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:01 PM
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Women just want men who are well educated, attractive, intelligent, have a strong career, charismatic, and physically fit and yet they are told their standards are excessively high. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:59 PM
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No many women complain that men aren’t stepping up and becoming eligible partners for them. They want men who can actually be attractive to them, and meet their level, and they’re rightfully annoyed by the absence of stable and quality men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:52 PM
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Because so many more women are high value themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:50 PM
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Women aren’t whining they can’t find attractive, they’re rightfully annoyed that men are stepping up and doing better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:48 PM
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Why do you think it’s unfair for women to ask that men not be mediocre losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:46 PM
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No I believe men are complaining about the dating scene more than women and so if they really truly want a partner it’s up to them to improve and meet women’s expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:45 PM
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Why do men think they are entitled to woman’s attraction while being mediocre?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:44 PM
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Women do. It’s actually sad that so many men are losers and women don’t have good options to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:43 PM
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It’s not wrong for a woman to want a man she actually can find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:40 PM
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Yes women do deserve a good man of quality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:40 PM
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No it isn’t. Stop being lazy and put in the work to be attractive to women. If that means you need to become wealthy and successful so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:34 PM
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Not good looking =\ unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:46 PM
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This is sad to read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:40 AM
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Why am I such a failure in this area
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:22 AM
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It’s done
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:11 AM
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You are so out of touch with the average man’s dating experiences that I almost don’t know how to respond to you. It’s incomprehensible that someone could be this out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:10 AM
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This is the loser’s path
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:08 AM
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This is for losers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:08 AM
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Ok what are your options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:05 AM
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I haven’t been to one yet but no I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:40 AM
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Women are also bailing from Speed dating events
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:39 AM
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No men also go to speed dating. Where the hell did you get that idea from!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:35 AM
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Ok so now where?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:29 AM
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I am not a virgin and even I think the avenues for meeting people have narrowed in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:59 AM
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Plenty of men complain they are “no longer allowed” to approach women in public
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:34 AM
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What other details?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:33 PM
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25 (my age) to maybe 38
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:18 PM
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Not from Colorado
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:16 PM
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Why not hobby groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:36 PM
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Ok so hobby groups.. got it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:19 PM
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No I want to meet a progressive woman because I’m progressive. It would be my dream to meet an equally well educated and career minded progressive woman who is child free and enjoys hiking and reads. Where the hell do I find her??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:19 PM
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Ok so how can I meet a partner through apps? What would you suggest to a struggling guy to improve his profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:16 PM
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What if dating apps don’t work for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:16 PM
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Online dating does not work for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:15 PM
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Ok can I show you my profile? So you can judge if I’m the neck beard you think I am
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:06 PM
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I also said that I talk about my hobbies like photography hiking and cooking and have photos of me traveling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:03 PM
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Multiple other guys and a girl I went on a date with In 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:02 PM
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I have been told I should model, have photos of me traveling and hiking in nature, explain about my hobbies and interests like photography, hiking, cooking, reading. Am I below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:00 PM
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So at a hobby group?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:58 PM
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Am I attractive enough? I’ve been told I should model by other guys and I dress well - pictures are of me traveling and in nature - and I get zero matches whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:47 PM
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Where are we supposed to ask for dates other than dating apps? Approaching at hobby groups? But ok let’s believe your perception. All men are just gross neck beards who video game all day and feel entitled to super models.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:44 PM
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What the hell is warm approach? Online dating doesn’t work for an average man like me. I am an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:37 PM
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Ok tell us what we are supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:34 PM
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Ok how should we meet partners then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:33 PM
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Can you explain why you think this? I would totally be willing to date a large range of women- women older than me, tall women, heavier set women, educated women… they aren’t interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:32 PM
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Why do men feel SO entitled to women’s time and attention? Women don’t want to talk to you at the bar, park, on the street, at cafes. Leave them the hell alone If you’re so damn lonely go on a dating apps or to a singles event, where people are looking to find partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:14 PM
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