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You can't tell but if less men are dangerous then you have less chance to encounter one, that's obvious! The more rare it is the less terrifying, does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:19 AM
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But 25% would be less terrifying than 95%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:34 AM
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, don't be ridiculous 95% would be much more terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:28 AM
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They should not complain at all of you ask me!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:02 PM
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What these last two short sentences even mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:44 AM
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'Would' love? How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:37 AM
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Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:18 AM
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The exception proves the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:53 PM
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Maybe but that's irrelevant bc everybody wants to feel loved and nobody wants to feel lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:07 PM
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It depends on how bad is it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:26 AM
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Oh yeah? And you're totally ignoring the fact that everybody wants to feel loved and love l, and to have a romantic partner!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:11 AM
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It's real for most ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:50 AM
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He was talking about straight woman, you can't change your sexuality and no straight woman is dating romantically another woman or having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:17 AM
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Yeah, I tend to take it personally when someone calls people psychologically disturbed for harmless stuff. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:25 PM
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You're on a subreddit literally designed for people to ask questions and share opinions. You say how he suddenly asked a question as if he ambushed you with it. OP posted in a forum literally built for this kind of discussion. If it disturbs you this much, maybe you're the one in the wrong place?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:57 PM
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Maybe you're disturbed bc of the fact that other people's preferences live rent-free in your head or bc it bothers you this much, that's a bit more telling, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:36 PM
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That's something I used to think about when I was younger. I'd feel sorry for any girl who ended up with some guys I knew were assholes, but with experience I realized they're probably not much better than them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:42 AM
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Nah I don't need to be a dudes bf to see that he's an asshole, I can see how he treats women, they can see it, they don't mind. It's her choice, she knew what she was choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:27 AM
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Women then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:10 AM
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That's often what I think when I see online discussions with people arguing across gender lines. I always got the impression that women are often speaking from a higher economic class perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:37 PM
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lmao yes ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:13 PM
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"One in eight women assaulted, abused or stalked, ONS says" I found this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:09 PM
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Where, where are stats like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:51 PM
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Is this AI lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:12 AM
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Wym when you say they approached you, how did that approach usually look like? You talk about women's rights around them? I've never once thought that the reason a girl likes me is is bc of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:22 AM
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I just saw the title and I knew it was Lilith lolol I would argue however that my penis being dry is not always a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:58 PM
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This is BS and I see regularly on social media that just stating that you prefer low body count woman will get ppl railed up. You just didn't see much yet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:28 PM
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I think you watched too many reels on Instagram, or just read too many fake stories on reddit , or both idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:30 PM
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Do you do hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:05 PM
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This is so confusing to me, you said that "men are dating up" but your personal anecdote describes women who are dating up???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:17 PM
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And how long were you together?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:29 PM
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Oh okay. I am alcoholic too since recently tbh. Other than having no savings and being an alcoholic and being unemployed, what are the other reasons he was a bad partner? (Acting on alcohol doesn't count) Oh, also, how did you meet him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:28 PM
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okie ty ty Say more about abusive relationship? And about fine relationship, why did you break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:01 PM
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Why are you like this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:58 PM
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Yeah I don't see that happening at all. I mean I can imagine it in my mind but it doesn't sound very realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:49 PM
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How many relationships have you had, and what were they like? Why did you like him, at first bc he was attractive? How much time passed between you guys texting and going on a first date? Also, what you mean you were okay with it. You didn't care at all or what, what did you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:42 PM
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How old were you back then? How did he tell you that he was a virgin? Did it come out naturally or did he just confessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:30 PM
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It is not just the idea that a man is a virgin that scares women away. You keep repeating that like a mantra but OP never said that. OP had women interested in him and only when he admitted to being a virgin he was rejected. The moment he lied there was no problem whatsoever. You don't make much sense here. I have a lot of experience online dating, we talk, we flirt, we send each other cute messages etc but the moment the conversation goes towards past relationships they suddenly change. I can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:51 PM
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They talked about past relationships, and he had to admit that he didn't have any or something like that. Then they ask more questions. At least, that's how my experience looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:32 PM
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Of course there’s harm. Someone in the comments said a coworker got bullied for it, and OP admitted to being a victim too. I’ve been bullied for it also. I don’t need to pretend, just lie once and avoid the topic. Your alternative basically means admitting you’re a virgin and letting others make fun of you. I guess your advice might work with women, but no man who’s actually had sex is gonna say he’s uncomfortable talking about past relationships. I don't think I am pretending anything I just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:30 PM
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Damn, literally just passed that year yesterday lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:13 PM
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How did you meet? At what point, did he tell you he was a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:12 PM
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me shaping them I guess if you had sex since young it can shape you somehow, but we are talking about adult people here. Did you mean teaching them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:07 PM
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How old was she, how did she react?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:56 PM
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Why not, if they want to live like this, and there are escorts willing to offer their services?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:14 PM
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I'm 100% sure that wasn't the takeaway the escort meant. She also explained that men want to feel loved and adored. But even if you were right and all some of these men are cowards, what's your problem with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:13 AM
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Who's punishing who, what are you on about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:29 PM
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I am a little jealous, yes. But I don't feel owed. I just don't like to be accused of being a bad person just bc i can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:15 AM
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When men "struggle in dating" they talk about getting into a relationship in the first place tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:44 AM
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I agree with most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:21 PM
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Women aren't slobs tho, or idk, they're hard to find I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:24 PM
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Are you saying that men who go to Columbia intentionally let themselves get taken advantage of? Or is it like an offtopic comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:04 PM
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I made an account but idk how to use it. There is some survey named "does r have marital partner" that seems like something he used bc of the years there. But it's nevermind, I found some articles that confirm his graph
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:47 PM
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but i just want one survey that he supposedly used
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:26 PM
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What data, idk where did he get it from this GSS has a milion of different surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:55 PM
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Big 'IF' here bc there is no proof
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:33 PM
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You probably just made up that graph in excel and wrote "GSS data" (what even is GSS lol) to sound believable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:25 PM
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It feels like you just read OP's title and didn't read his post at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:15 PM
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Modern men dont bring anything to the table, they want to split bills 50/50 but women to still do majority of cooking, cleaning, childrearing, be a pornstar for them in bed, take birth control with a long list of side affects, stay a certain weight [...] men dont do anything in return. Most guys also have entitled selfish personalities [...] And you genuinely think that if all of this changed there would be more women than men on dating apps? That women would start chasing men? That sounds like …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:46 AM
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Yes, women are harsher on women (and men) because they’ve internalized the policing, but the real culprit is the unequal way society rewards or punishes sexual expression in different genders. Once you spot the root—the patriarchy’s double standard—you can start cutting the strings on that feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:33 PM
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Just do what you want, you don’t need to let perceived social stigmas dictate your behaviour. If a woman complains about being shamed for something you'd say the same, right? Unless you meant to say that the stigmas OP mentioned just don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:41 PM
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And being social is being out every single day of the week in your book. No other way whatsoever, if you don't do it, you are just not social enough and aren't trying enough. If you are a man you can't complain unless you go out every single day lol I feel like it's something that a woman would say to her friend, to go out to clubs and wait for something to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:47 PM
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What kind of question is that? Do you really think most people are out every single night of the week? So unless someone goes out daily, you think they’re not social enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:30 PM
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I don't get it at all but thank you for answering ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:04 AM
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What doodly means ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:52 AM
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Are you taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:40 AM
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If you meet with other men in your situation, you hang out together, would it help you? If they were the only people I hang out with, it'd be great, but I'd still try to date bc FOMO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:28 AM
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I feel like I am fine being alone it's just the fear of missing out and how other people perceive me if they know that I've never been with a woman before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:06 AM
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Idk about reddit but I sometimes see women like these online, on instagram reels/threads/x. I also immediately think of MGTOW men, they both say they don't care about opposite gender, about being single, yet that's the only thing they talk about. They constantly try to convince others that being single is so amazing. I've seen at least a few ppl of this type still dating too. If they are so happy being single then why do they keep going on dates? Like bro, you say you have amazing life, you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:52 PM
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And I’ve never seen a thief steal anything—are you actually suggesting that just because you haven’t seen something happen, it means it never happens? Or were you just eager to share your completely irrelevant experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:23 PM
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the guy didn't make me feel secure. What do you mean by that? That's the first time I see something like this, I always thought insecurity is something that you have to work on yourself. Is it your partner responsibility for you not to feel insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:56 PM
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> You don't care you just want sex: This notion comes from men playing women to get sex in the first place, which in reality is very common. I disagree, it's actually extremally rare. I think both parties generally want relationships, and that tracks if you look at average partner count lifetime. I agree. Very good argument. > Women aren't attracted to most men: I do not agree most men are well groomed, exercise and takes care of themselves mentally and physically These things don't make them at…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:43 PM
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Hiring a sex worker is off-limits because it's exploitative. Watching porn is out for the same reason. Now I can't even look at drawn boobs? Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:52 PM
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I am not sure what's your point. I am saying that a guide would be helpful to learn how to be charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:13 AM
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That's kind of off topic to my top comment that you answered to, but okay? OP didn't say that focusing on these things is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:45 PM
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TBH I didn't read that book or really listen to red pill advice. But i do lurk on here and other social media and saw plenty of red pill dudes talking about red pill, and I never ever saw any victimhood, if anything, it's the opposite. I see them advising men to go to the gym, do this and that, be strong, be confident, basically advice on self improvement and discipline. Victimhood is the last thing I'd say about a redpiller. idk about white supremacy I have no idea where did you saw that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:38 PM
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If being charismatic is so helpful with women, since you didn't deny this, wouldn't that be the "cheat code"? And you’re certainly not going to learn it for $30 on Amazon. Yeah, I am. A book or two, and more experiences with talking to people. How else would you do it? Just talking to more people than you already do? Of course you need some guide, you're not some genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:42 PM
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I think he does, but his point is that 'blue pill' offers no solution other than these platitudes, while red pill actually has some concrete advice for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:22 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:23 PM
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Upvote bc it's so ridiculous it's funny. You can say that about anything. Yeah, I stole his phone. I just wanted to. What do you mean it's a bad thing to do? I am a sovereign person with agency okay? I accept the consequences of stealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:21 PM
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Aren't you doing the same "choose better" here, as men do to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:23 PM
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A woman is entitled to have whatever icks and boundaries she wants, same as men, snd it’s fuck all to do with anyone else She can have them. No one here is saying she can't. it’s misogynistic to believe a woman needs to be “aware” of this but ignore that men are also doing it And no one is saying she should ignore men who are also doing it, right? I feel like I am aware or at least I try to be, of how men's behaviors are affecting women. But I'd never say that since women don't care about men's …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:38 PM
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Considering that this oversimplified rule is being taken literally, in this scenario, he should continue to let his ass get fucked, yes. The fact that he's a man doesn't change anything, he has to keep going, he has to take that dildo up his ass to prove his love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:14 AM
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Are you talking about this "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule? Then sure, I agree. I just thought you were talking more... broadly. I don't think ANY man has a rule like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:03 AM
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I know, I was trying to explain why that "gotcha" is low quality but I am not too bright I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:59 AM
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But who's saying it doesn't apply? I imagine for guys who say "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me", pegging applies also. "Yes, if you did pegging with ex and I want pegging too, why don't you do it with me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:51 AM
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Why tf would he need a cheat code when he already had wives and have kids and "never been without a woman for more than a week or two". Do you genuinely believe he sold everything he owned to find a perfect wife? Bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:13 PM
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"Both start crying at the grave." You got me there LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:37 PM
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Who said anything about cancelling, do women get cancelled for their preferences or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:46 PM
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This reminds me of that backhanded compliment "I don't want beautiful and smart GF, you're enough <3" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:42 PM
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If someone is an exhibitionist it's not even that bad, you can do it without any repercussions hehe
/r/MensRights20/02/24 05:00 PM
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If it is easy for the woman to get a date, it means that it is easy for the man she dates to get a date. He got her after all. The fact that he got her doesn't prove that it was easy. It's like being in some kind of competition with other ppl, getting a first place and saying it was easy bc we got first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:19 PM
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Hey, I am a virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:02 PM
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I don't want to be your girl because I was the only girl to talk to you. I think that's the comment he's referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:49 PM
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I don't like this comment, I don't agree with it, and i feel offended. I'd like to get with a woman that likes me just as much as i like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:27 PM
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How many times you'd say we should try before we give up? 5? 10? 20? What's the number after which you think a person should just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:31 PM
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At least no one's gonna tell him he haven't triend i like i saw a bunch of times browsing reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:12 PM
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