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That’s a cold, cynical view. I view it as someone who you’d want to spend the rest of your life with, start a family with, and grow old together. Trivial things like material wealth are secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:12 PM
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Everybody wants money, unless you’re some Buddhist monk on top of a mountain in Tibet. It’s the human condition, hardly unique to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:51 PM
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It’s not good and genuine if your partner is incapable of committing to you and is always “looking for the next best thing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:49 PM
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If you’re starting a family and (presumably) going to spend the rest of your life with a woman, why can’t you trust her to be faithful? If you discover she cheated or you have a strong suspicion that she is, then yeah, get a paternity test. But if she’s never given any indication of cheating, that just means you’re incapable of fully trusting a woman, which is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 PM
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You’re 100% right on this. If you can’t trust your life partner to be faithful, you shouldn’t be starting a family with them. If your partner has given you no indication that they’ve been unfaithful, but you get a paternity test anyway because they’re a woman, that’s pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:42 PM
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They don’t just say that it’s “different”, they say that it’s less wrong when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:40 PM
9

She probably is. A PhD candidate in psychology could write a dissertation about the people on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:07 PM
5

That’s very cynical. Me personally, I’d rather die alone than be in a relationship with a woman who didn’t want me 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:03 PM
5

Nobody’s “perfect”. But there’s a big difference between loving someone despite their flaws and thinking of them as a backup plan and how you could’ve done so much better. If you really love someone, you don’t even think about being with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:42 PM
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I think the language used here matters, because it reflects your mindset about it. If you think of it as “settling”, then you’re going to spend your whole life feeling unsatisfied and feeling that you could’ve done better, which only leads to resentment. If you think of it as changing what you look for in a romantic partner as you get older, then it’s not really “settling” anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:35 PM
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Nah. If you actually love someone, they’ll always be a 10/10 for you, regardless of their flaws. Anything less than that isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:03 PM
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Well yeah, if you do this to someone else, you can’t very well get angry at someone doing it to you. I just don’t agree that all men or even most men do this kinda thing. Also, people are just hypocrites, especially men who hold misogynistic views. I can’t tell you how many guys I’ve seen unironically say that cheating is “different” when men and women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:53 PM
4

Having respect for each other? Gaining valuable new insights into other people’s perspectives so we can be more understanding in the future? You’re on the wrong subreddit for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:46 PM
7

Being realistic isn’t the same thing as settling. Settling implies that you’re inherently unsatisfied. Also, if you don’t think that your partner is a 10, why are you even with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:41 PM
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Couldn’t be me. If I got the feeling that my gf didn’t actually like me, and was just “settling”, I’d break up tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:16 PM
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Are you deadass asking why people don’t like being someone’s backup plan? Do you actually not understand how being “settled” for isn’t a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:06 PM
2

If you say you don’t want to date single moms because they’re “used” or “high mileage” or something like that, people will likely take offense. If you say you don’t want to date single moms because you aren’t the right person to fulfill the role of a father, nobody’s gonna give you crap for it. You just have to be respectful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:13 AM
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I have literally never seen a dude get hate for saying he prefers not to date single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:45 AM
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This may be surprising to you, but broke guys have sex all the time. Poor people get married, start families, and have children. If all the women in your life only wanted money, that might be all you offered, or at least all you advertised. Provided you’ve actually been in relationships with women, and aren’t getting all your information about them from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:39 PM
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I think it’s better to be realistic about your flaws so you can work to change them. If you’re morbidly obese, what’s gonna help you more, saying “I’m fine the way I am, it’s just society at large who’s in the wrong” or saying “wow, I can improve my ‘worth’ by getting in better shape”? Having an inflated sense of self-worth can lead to romantic entitlement, too. If you feel that you’re entitled to love but aren’t getting it, that can quickly turn into an incel mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:39 PM
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Dudes will make flexing money their entire personality and then get surprised when (shocker) they attract women who want their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:29 PM
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If you have no interest in starting a family or being with someone you love, this is great advice. You certainly will have more money to distract yourself with material possessions. But then you’ll die alone, unloved, and forgotten, and that wealth won’t mean a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:45 PM
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Is being friends with anyone really “worth it”? Why is friendship so transactional to you dawg, can’t you just be friends with someone cause you like them? But yeah, there are benefits to being platonic friends with women. If you’re single, there’s a higher chance of you meeting other women through her or even being set up with one of her friends. A straight guy being friends with women can even be seen as a green flag, since it shows that you know how to act around women without being creepy. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:11 PM
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