Disastrous_Meet_7952 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Marriage is not about love. It's an economic contract. So you’re saying 100% of marriages are a bad idea?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/23 11:47 PM
1	Marriage is not about love. It's an economic contract. So is buying a cup of coffee. Might as well get it at the place where coffee is actually good	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/23 10:53 PM
-6	Marriage is not about love. It's an economic contract. Bad advice. The solution to bad marriages isn’t being single, it’s better relationships. Who the hell wants to be alone	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/23 09:53 PM
-13	Marriage is not about love. It's an economic contract. This is horrible fucking advice. The only reasonable things from it is the bit about most ppl want a wedding not marriage. Stay single till you find someone who’s decent human being enough to risk marriage with. Them being more excited for the marriage than the wedding is a massive green flag Just cause you fucked up doesn’t mean the whole thing’s tits up Down vote me IDGAF	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/23 08:35 PM
1	Just dawned on me!!! This right here is gospel. I’m looking for an LTR currently but not willing to play the game of “she’s on a pedestal and I’m down here”. Men have been also raised to think like that, that every woman is a prize. Sometimes I’ll catch myself thinking I’m less manly for not chasing down a real catch…whatever happened to mutual interest? Sure you can convince her temporarily that you’re the catch, but it’s useless if she wasn’t chasing you back to begin with. Sure, if we have kids together or in an …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 03:09 PM
1	Just dawned on me!!! THIS IS THE GREATEST COMMENT IN THE HISTORY OF THE INTERNET	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 03:00 PM
1	Divorce is just brutal. Single guy/never been married here (M29). And this is exactly why I follow this sub. Every single guy needs to scroll through these posts as least once. I used to be so cocky about how marriage will be a victory lap, but now I’m rattled about the possibility of making the wrong decision. It’d be great if there was a post thread where divorced guys could give advice to their younger selves, with what they would have done differently. this current set up of masculinity - in terms of just acquire r…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/23 12:28 PM
1	From my observations of my siblings and others, I could be wrong, but it seems like good marriages are only suited for specific types of people. I'm becoming more comfortable with the idea of living single indefinitely. That first paragraph is pure gold	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 05:58 AM
2	Critical Mass is soon to happen; So essentially find a life partner, just don’t get the government involved? How about things like tax breaks and being able to visit SO in hospitals and other “perks” of legal marriage?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 04:22 PM
1	Critical Mass is soon to happen; 28M never been married here, so you don’t see any situation where marriage is a good idea? If so would you advise this for other men thinking about it as well?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 01:19 PM
0	I’m scared to get divorced I don’t agree with the men/women dichotomy here. It’s moreso we are being raised to be “nice guys” rather than good men. Good luck looking a guy my age in the eye while delivering a firm handshake - he’ll look away and despise you for harshing his mellow. I’m all for men being more feminine, but that’s no reason to not stand up straight and know exactly what you’re made of. The only way this relates to women is they seem to likewise have been raised to be attracted to the nice guys (always pleas…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/23 04:53 PM
1	I’m scared to get divorced I’m 28. Why did I have to wait this long to read something with so much sense in so few words	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/23 05:20 AM