Disastrous_Rope_5656 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Supervised visititation		Disastrous_Rope_5656	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 12:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Advice a lot of nasty divorces start off amicable, prepare for the worst, segregate your income from hers (separate account), take half of any savings you have and put it into an account in your name only, valuable or sentimental value property that you want should be made inaccessible to her. Do not hide any assets of any kind. Shop for a lawyer, get free consults if you can. Lawyers are very busy that do divorces. This is a very brief primer. Survive the divorce process first, and worry about your fu…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 07:50 PM
1	Survey: how much custody % do you have as the father? 0%, wife conveniently filed a false RO the day after she left and listed the kids on it, divorce is still ongoing over a year since I filed	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/25 11:16 PM
1	Irrational fear of telling her The longer you stay the worse it will get, the more you will pay the more you will lose. Consult a lawyer discreetly. DO NOT TELL HER. Have her served, this should be a surprise. This will provide legal protections for you. Watch her behavior after she is served, then decide if you still want to talk to her.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/24 02:50 AM
5	Closing bank account Get your money out of the communal account NOW! Leave a reasonable amount, 8k is usually enough, less if you don't have much in the account, she will get half the money, but not until it's court ordered and you can pay bills and legal fees until then, trust me I am living this nightmare, she drained the account 7 months ago and courts have yet to force her to return a single dollar, if she spends or hides the money you will never get it back in cash, only balance of items during the divorce, get…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/24 02:19 AM
2	Planning on asking for a divorce Married for 10, should have filed earlier. My life will never be the same again. I have not been allowed to see my children in months. I know the preliminary numbers for child support and what her lawyer is asking for spousal support, its 50% or more of my take home income. I believe she is welcome to leave, but not with 50% of my income for 20 years. When the papers are signed I'm liquidating and going on the road, good luck finding me.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/24 07:25 AM
2	Planning on asking for a divorce How much time you get with your kids is a negotiation, it will obviously be less than what you get now. GO GET A LAWYER, DON'T TELL HER. HAVE HER SERVED WITH DIVORCE PAPERS, DON'T WARN HER. I don't care how much you loved this woman before, this is a lawsuit between two equal share partners now, it is war. Prior to getting her served, move your money where she can't get it, and change your passwords to anything important. Don't give her access to devices that auto login to anything (email). You …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/24 07:14 AM
1	Supervised visititation It's the only parenting time that has been offered to me. The courts have offered me none until temporary orders or other divorce proceedings. I have a clean record, literally nothing on it. Don't abuse drugs. Wife is claiming abuse of her and the children but has offered no evidence other than her testimony.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 05:25 PM