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People here constantly bring up 50 Shades but clearly never read it. The sex in it is extraordinarily tame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:24 PM
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I don’t know how many times it needs to be explained to you that there has never been a single point in history where every single woman was a married mother who never worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:40 PM
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RW men: “women need to stop being so picky and just sleep with me! Don’t they understand they’re better off being married, pregnant housewives?” Also RW men: “Women become hideous and unattractive after age 25, men should trade in their wives for a younger model.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:05 PM
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I don’t think this Reddit forum is regularly visited by men in their 70s, but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:10 PM
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No one even knows what most 1950s fashion looked like, because their only references are movies starring the glam divas of the day, or nostalgia bait films like Grease. Women in the 1950s wore shorts, pants, casual dresses often. Clothing was more strict in terms of what could be worn when- an upper middle class woman would know the difference between a party dress and a day dress for example. But this idea of a dolled up woman in pearls and a modest dress vacuuming a house is a myth created by …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:38 PM
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When you’re a woman, sexualization is like a game of Russian roulette you play every single day. I know I could get a creepy comment no matter what I wear, and some days I’m ready to handle that and just wear whatever I want, and some days I’m not. I don’t like exercising in sweatpants, so I prioritize my comfort and wear leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:19 PM
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Because that is the trend. Look at Shein, one of the biggest clothing retailers out there. They cater to every aesthetic. They sell sexy, bodycon fashion nova rip-off’s. They also sell baggy jeans, oversized T-shirts, cottagecore dresses. Women contain multitudes, go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:57 PM
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That’s literally just a 90s trend repackaged for the zoomers. It’s not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:36 PM
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I find them more comfortable and easy to wear. I don’t have much of an ass, and even your fitness gurus women don’t have BBL bubble butts without deliberate posing and flexing. I don’t exercise much, but if I’m doing activities like cleaning I like to wear leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:35 PM
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I’m a woman who works in fashion, I actually pay attention to everything that all women wear, not just the cherry picked few that give me a boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:34 PM
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I’ve attended college. I grocery shop. Those are literally where women dress their most casual aka athleisure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:59 PM
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But I am a woman on social media, I follow all kinds of fashion trends and take influence from everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:31 PM
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What current TV show fashions are you comparing to Friends? Because the 90s fashions on Friends are literally what’s trendy right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:23 PM
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Breaking news: Women wear tight pants when exercising.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:20 PM
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Literally where do you guys all live and work? Instagram University? Do you attend Tiktok Technical Institute? Firstly your post contradicts itself- you seem to imply women used to dress slutty, but now all women dress casually, but then you round it back to clothing being “slutty” by saying women are wearing “skin tight pants”. The only time I see women wearing “skin tight pants” are ones going for the athleisure look, and that’s paired with a baggy sweater, or hoodie. The most risqué that tren…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:16 PM
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I don’t think people realize how unpopular with women the super muscular look is in countries like China and South Korea. When Simu Liu was casted as Shang Chi, the response in China was lukewarm- by their beauty standards he is not hot marvel actor material. K-Pop idol Wonho was told by his former music label to stop working out and getting built because it doesn’t fit their beauty standards. In Japan, muscle men are a gay stereotype, not something women go for usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:14 PM
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I’ll put this in terms you can understand. I really like the fast food place called Jack in the Box. However, there aren’t any in my state. The closest one is in Cincinnati, Ohio, which is a 7 hour drive. I currently don’t have a car, so I would have to find other transportation. If I did have a car, the trip would likely cost me over a couple hundred dollars in gas. I could take a train. A round trip from my hometown to Cincinnati, leaving tomorrow and coming home the next day will cost me $251…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:32 PM
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He really is! I’m very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:11 PM
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I’m one of those people who don’t have a car, but I had to fly to see my partner anyway, so it worked out in my favor. My lack of car actually made dating prior to meeting him really hard, and was one of the ways I knew he was serious about me. Previous dates always seemed like just driving us to Applebee’s was a huge favor to me. My fiancé flew 2000 miles on a whim just to meet me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:42 PM
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He came up on my FYP and I thought he was cute, so I followed him and started messaging him!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:27 PM
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I’m engaged to my fiancé who I met via Tiktok in October of 2020, and we were long distance until May of 2022, with a handful of in person visits inbetween then. I consider us successful because we Took things slow at first, we video chatted and talked and got to know eachother for months before meeting in person Because all we had was our communication, we’ve had to learn to communicate well. We talk through our disagreements and make sure to repair things and not see eachother as enemies. Afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:53 AM
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Maybe women, when given the option and are educated about their bodies, don’t want to give birth? No matter how many incentives there are, maybe pregnancy and child rearing isn’t something that women naturally enjoy doing now that we have options. And I say this as a woman who does want kids some day. A lot of us only exist today because our mothers, grandmothers, great grandmothers had no choice in the matter- either due to physical pressure, social or family pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:27 AM
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A large section of women don’t breastfeed and they bond with their babies just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:54 PM
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Look at how many men here talk about sleeping with women they openly find disgusting just to “spin plates”. That’s the catch-22. Male attention means everything- and nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:19 AM
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I know what comes up on here a lot is the notion that men aren’t ever sexually desired or seen as attractive within relationships, but I want to say women struggle with that too. A lot. From an early age we are fed images of what kind of women men find sexually attractive. We are told it’s okay if mens eyes wander, if they watch porn excessively or visit strip clubs. Sitcoms have men openly try to cheat on their wives or express distaste her appearance. The view i absorbed and am still strugglin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:46 AM
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My job is social media. I am a woman who has a sizable following on many platforms and I’m saying that your comment is complete nonsense. None of what you described here has anything to do with “high value men” it’s just nightclubs using pretty girls to lure men in to buy drinks. A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:15 PM
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you think a random receptionist you know with 600 Instagram followers is finding random guys to pay for their hotel rooms for no reason? they can’t be meeting friends there or attending other events like work parties or weddings, no it HAS to be because some Chad is throwing money at Ms. Receptionist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:40 PM
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Most women don’t wear makeup, especially not heavy, appearance deceiving makeup out of the house on a daily basis. Go to a fast food place, most female employees aren’t wearing makeup when working in a hot greasy kitchen all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:19 PM
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Exactly, just like how OkCupid and Tinder trends show real life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:29 PM
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Jeremy Meeks went viral over 10 years ago and you guys still cling to him as evidence of some kind of statement on women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:03 PM
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Women love to support friends in their social circle. Especially if she’s an influencer, fellow influencers will comment on each others posts to help beat the algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:34 PM
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Don’t you know, all women get a government stipend to get BBLs and lip injections every year!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:16 PM
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You’re completely right. There are 3.9 billion women on planet earth, Instagram allegedly has a billion active users, 55% of which are women. So that’s 500 million women on Instagram, and they really, really think all of us have a huge following, and that those of us with a following are all doing it for male attention and validation. Women who post baking videos or recipes? They do it for men! Mothers who share information on breastfeeding and infant care? They all are waiting for men to sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:01 PM
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Again with this myth that all women are influencers adored by men. Most people commenting on pretty girls photos are other girls, with the sole exception of women who are on OnlyFans or involved with some form of sexy, guy pandering modeling. Most regular women don’t care about a guys online clout. It was a tiktok trend to brag about your “Offline Boyfriend”, as in a guy who isn’t on social media and is unaware of the latest discourse. I have a large online following within my niche. My follower…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:17 PM
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That’s not the conclusion. The conclusion is that specifically your male friends just aren’t popular with women. Too bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:19 AM
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Sounds like he should’ve just chose a better woman to sleep with then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:11 PM
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Nothing on here is upheld in real life, most of the male users on here are LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:09 PM
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Again I want to know about these pink haired man hater politicians. What’s their political platform?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:08 PM
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Once again. it’s “women need to be picky and stop dating Chad” and the next seeing is “women need to stop being picky and date me”. Pick one and stay with it. You’re stretching yourself into a pretzel with that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:08 PM
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Do me a favor, go outside to a public area and people watch for a bit. Notice how many couples you see. I guarantee you’ll see plenty of average women with average men, and not these hypothetical Chads with their harems. Because real people don’t adhere to these standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:06 PM
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Didn’t realize there were pink haired man haters in congress! How progressive, I’m glad my dyed hair doesn’t exempt me from a potential political career.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:56 PM
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No, I’ve lurked PPD enough to see what points are the most consistently argued.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:54 PM
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And you deducted that from the one singular OkCupid study that was specifically about online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:42 PM
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It’s clear a specific demographic here doesn’t live in reality, or even has women in their lives that they discuss these issues with. All women are whores who have one night stands with Chad, but also refuses to sleep with 80% of men (read: doesn’t sleep with them). They should raise their standards be pickier about having one night stands with Chad (who is definitely real) and instead lower their standards to sleep with beta males. Women who never want kids don’t exist. Women who do want kids b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:37 PM
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If woman gives up her child for adoption, as what would happen if she was subjected to only 9 months of compulsory motherhood, then that man isn’t providing child support. Your logic makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:33 PM
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I’m not killing a baby. I’m aborting a fetus. A fetus is not a baby. An egg is not a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:28 PM
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Most people who are pro choice are also in favor of universal healthcare, reduced childcare costs and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:27 PM
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Abortion is birth control and I see no problem with that. No one should be forced to endure 9 months of pregnancy against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:25 PM
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Women aren’t thinking twice about that because Chad isn’t real, most women don’t have one night stands and most women are dating normal average men. You live in a fictional word.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:24 PM
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Quick question how in this scenario is a man paying child support to a woman who isn’t parenting a child after birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:22 PM
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In a world that polices abortion, you think vasectomy and sterilization will be easily accessible? Most doctors refuse to sterilize women who do not already have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:11 PM
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So again, couples who never want to have children should be abstinent? Women are within their right to deadbedroom their partners and never have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:01 PM
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They are not wrong to want abortions. People are right to decide when to enter parenthood. Should all couples be abstinent until they want to conceive? Not to mention this entire subreddit exists because women are allegedly too selective with who they have sex with, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:55 PM
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Many abortions are sought out by women who are married or in long term sexual relationships with just one men. If all women stopped having one night standards tomorrow, there would still be a need for abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:48 PM
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I met the love of my life on tiktok at 25, and he was 29. I’m now 27 and he’s 30. We just moved in together and are engaged. Sometimes I see him in my house, just doing mundane tasks and I’m overwhelmed with the butterflies I have in my stomach for him. We have regular play tickle fights, we love to make eachother life and do things for eachother. Love is real. It’s possible. You need faith, you need to trust and you need to be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:18 PM
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I can show you a ton of videos of pretty mid-20s influencers at kpop concerts. It’s 2022, anime is mainstream and “nerdy weeaboos” are normie cute girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:01 PM
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Most popular women on social media, with probably the exception of sex workers, have other women as the majority of their online fanbase. The women who post sexy photos online for male validation aren’t the women who frown on porn use.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:45 PM
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I’m short and chubby, I’m not hourglass really but I can fake it with certain poses. I’m not very fit or in shape at all. I have crippling body dysmorphia and an awful relationship with food. Despite being everything a man shouldn’t want, I have a partner who loves me and reminds me that my body isn’t ugly and I am attractive. I plan on losing weight for my wedding in a year but I’m going to be kinder to myself. I’m loved and that’s what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:36 PM
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KPOP fan groups always have names. It’s normal to have fan names. Lady Gaga fans were called Little Monsters, was Gaga not a hugely internationally famous musician? Also demographics mean something. I could walk into a country bar, no one there would know BTS, but they probably couldn’t name a Drake song either. Hell, I like some Drake songs and I’m struggling to name one specifically off the top of my head. I wouldn’t expect a zoomer to name a song by Prince or Frank Sinatra, and I wouldn’t exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:21 PM
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BTS is internationally famous, nominated and won numerous awards on western music shows, regularly sell out 100,000+ seats on their worldwide tours. They aren’t a niche interest. BTS is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:36 PM
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No one is liking BTS and spending a fortune at their concert for clout. “No tumblr vibes at all”, liking BTS is the literal pinnacle of tumblr fandom. I’m a BTS fan. I’ve attended a concert. I have a tumblr. Most BTS fans are cute, regular girls. I’m no beauty queen myself but I’m hardly this femcel ogre you paint BTS fans to be. Guys in boy bands have always been youthful, twinky, not giant muscle “chads”. *NSYNC, Backstreet Boys, The Jackson 5, Prince. Men with legions of fan girls. Men who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:14 PM
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You haven’t seen much of how kpop fans look, your ideal is wrapped up in misogynistic notions of what “fan girls” must look like. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdpByWnd/?k=1
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:58 AM
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Okay but women aren't men. There are a lot less women who, like guys on here will go "well I'll bang a guy with a 10/10 body even if his face is ugly", like I see on here constantly. Which is depressing, and also why men's expression of attraction are seen as worthless by so many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:30 AM
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Every time this discussion comes up, women tell you guys that vibes, personality, and aura count a lot towards women's attraction and you all refuse to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:29 AM
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Chris Evans is a lot more popular than Chris Hemsworth actually, probably due to the fact that he is single and childless. Women like perceived availability. Benedict and Hemsworth are both married with kids. You know who outclasses, on AO3, both Thor, Captain America and Doctor Strange? Bucky Barnes. Because he's a poor tortured soul with puppy dog eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:27 AM
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Google search results are curtailed by individuals. I see a lot of fit guys, sure. Half those results are gay erotica aimed at other men. Theres also a lot of nude women. And dragons. Vampires. Orcs. Also Billie Ellish's Vogue cover, for some reason. How about this- None of the BTS boys are particularly shredded. The tag for reader insert fanfiction on AO3 for each BTS member is double than that for Chris Hemsworth. The 5'8 Park Jimin gets more women wet than Chris Hemsworth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:25 AM
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Benedict Cumberbatch is fit. He is also 6'0 (the exact same height as Chris Evans). He also has an accent and a deep voice. Acting like theres a huge difference in attractiveness levels by redpill standards between the two of them is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:08 AM
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Benedict Cumberbatch had a huge fangirl base prior to being casted as Doctor Strange, he was Sherlock in the BBC Sherlock series. Thousands of women fantasied about him or wrote erotic stories about him and his co-star Martin Freeman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:05 AM
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You are trapped in old fashioned erotica trends. Most erotica covers are artsy close ups of hands, lips or significant items to the story. There are a handful of buff men, but it really isn't the norm, and none of those men are as huge as Chris Hemsworth is as peak Thor. https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Kindle-Store-Erotica/zgbs/digital-text/157057011 https://www.barnesandnoble.com/b/books/fiction/erotica/_/N-29Z8q8Z10ik
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:04 AM
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Met my fiancé online, and now we close the gap permanently in only 10 days. I told myself that a LDR would never work for me, for all the reasons listed, but it is working for me. Our connection is so strong it kept me drawn to him despite my personal reservations. Once we met in person it was like a lightbulb went off in my head, where I realized that this is the guy I want to be with forever. They work. It takes consistency, regular video chat dates, routine, and always having a solid future p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:10 AM
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How smooth is your brain that you think erotic cave paintings, or carvings, historical art is in any way comparable to ultra HD pornography involving real people? That’s like comparing drinking tea with a little caffeine to doing cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:44 PM
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We are not on tiktok why are you censoring the word “sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:47 PM
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Isn’t that what you did when you said that my content isn’t something guys would comment on? I thought all women had an army of simps in their comment sections, even if they pose with plants and are the kind of pretty that “relies on presence”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:03 PM
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I’m a happily taken woman, so the only man’s compliments I want are my fiancés. I like getting feedback on my outfits and cosplays from my female friends, but that’s different. Either way, no woman I know is deeply flattered by thirst comments from randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:28 PM
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Why do you think random men commenting on random womens pictures are huge confidence boosting compliments? They aren’t. And I don’t. Most women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:07 PM
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The content I post on Reddit isn’t even most of what I post, and my regular non-cosplay accounts don’t get much attention from men either. And when they do, when I get comments like your ex from guys “asking me to marry them”, it’s typically spam or troll accounts. Nothing serious. Men think their compliments are worth so much, that their sexual attraction and attention is something we are all dying for. Sometimes that’s true, but we also know at the same time that most men would fuck a McChicke…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:27 PM
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So you agree with me, that unless someone makes sexual/sexy content they probably aren’t being flooded with comments from random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:11 PM
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As someone with a slightly larger tiktok following, I can say that according to my analytics, my follower base is only 13% male on tiktok. Most comments for my content are girls or people of ambiguous gender with anime icons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:44 PM
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I dunno what Instagram accounts you follow, but average girls are not just swimming in complementive comments from men. Usually it’s other women, their friends and family who gas up their selfies. The only exception might be a sexy lingerie model or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:47 PM
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The lead character is this super looks conscious “Chad” who tries to date ScarJo’s “Stacy” character, but she’s not satisfied with him (implied to be due to romance films, but she seems unhappy with what his life is like), and he’s addicted to porn. The porn addiction ends their relationship, amongst other things. He’s not fully sexually satisfied with her. He ends up getting into a satisfying relationship with Julianne Moore’s character, who is an older woman, a mother and a widow. Wouldn’t TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:00 AM
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I guess it’s technically hypergamy, but the leads of both films don’t pursue the men. They are the ones chased and desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:39 PM
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Don Jon is a movie that is the antithesis to a lot of TRP philosophy so I don’t know why you’d recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:16 PM
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Please rewatch the entire scene. They have awkward conversation for a bit, which gets warmer when they start talking about places in the city they both visit. Then the narration starts, saying that Tom has learned his lesson, no longer believes in cosmic coincidence or fate. The narration continues as he begins to walk towards the job interview. The narration continues, saying that he’s sure there is no such thing as fate. Then the narration gets interrupted mid sentence- Tom runs back to the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:40 PM
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I don’t have a “source” off hand, I just have seen the movie. 500 Days of Summer, despite its twee aesthetic and hipster leads, isn’t a true romance film. Summer is a distant, and impulsive woman who says upfront that she doesn’t really believe in true love. Tom is a romance obsessed daydreamer. They start a relationship and from Summers perspective, it’s not serious, but Tom thinks they’re destined to be endgame. Their meet-cute happens just because Summer tells him she likes the music he’s lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:41 PM
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In romance novels like 50 Shades, Anastasia never rejects Christian or tells him no when they’re in early dating stages. She’s so attracted to him when they first meet, she’s a clumsy, bumbling mess. Christian himself plays hot and cold with the lead, because he has baggage and doesn’t think he deserves her. The only stuff Ana rejects or says no to (that’s ignored) are expensive gifts, like a new car. I think it’s part of the wish fulfillment fantasy, to be in a position where you can say no to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:32 PM
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The point of the ending isn’t that things will work out for him, it’s that he never learned a lesson and the cycle established with Summer will repeat itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:28 PM
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Your argument ignored that all of these films are sequels, where the female character already has very well established feelings for the lead. MJ is implied to have a crush on Peter Parker all the way back in Spider-Man: Homecoming. The entirety of the first Matrix film surrounds Trinity’s feelings for Neo. Her love for Neo is proof that he is “The One” because that’s what The Oracle told her. When it comes to character development, franchise films with multiple sequels can’t be plucked away and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:27 PM
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I’m dying to know what these ~hypergamy tales~ movies are. The only one I can think of where a female lead is explicitly a mess and slightly unequally looksmatched is Trainwreck starring Amy Schumer and Bill Hader.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:10 PM
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Your argument would only make sense if there weren’t 3 other Matrix films that featured Trinity’s feelings for him as a main plot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:08 PM
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Toxic Masculinity, to me, has always meant the performance of masculinity as a gender role solely for outside approval. For example, when Red Pill men and PUA scammers talk at length about how they’ll NEVER hold their wives purses in public, because it’s a “shit test”. The type of guy that prides himself on treating his girlfriends or wives poorly by never buying flowers or gifts. The kind of guy that wouldn’t watch a certain movie just because he’s afraid of the reaction he’d receive for watchi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:34 PM
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No, this rhetoric is just contradicting yourself. There can’t simultaneously be an abundance of “top tier” men on dating sites, while also women rarely matching with men. It’s one or the other, either women have a million “alphas” to chose from or there’s only a few men getting all the attention of women. Not that it matters because that’s all bullshit anyway, and average looking men get tinder dates all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:29 PM
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How are women brainwashed by tinder into thinking there’s an abundance of super hot guys out there? Most people who use dating apps are average, this includes men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:41 PM
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I saw him on my FYP, which is the tiktok version of a dashboard or newsfeed. I thought he was really cute and funny. We are both cosplayers. I commented on his videos, we followed eachother, and then eventually I told him to DM me. DMs turned into video call dates, which turned into us flying to see each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:05 AM
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We met on tiktok. 5 months into talking he flew 2,000 miles to meet me. Now we are engaged and moving in together in less than 60 days. I was 25 when we met, I’m 27 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:11 AM
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Pet rocks were a funny novelty, no one literally considered them a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:07 AM
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I don’t understand how this is a conversation people have regularly on here. Did robot dogs ever replace real dogs as a pet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:29 AM
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Your analogy doesn’t line up. It’s more like: would you rather have a single slice of cake for free from this bakery then banned for life because the bakery doesn’t want you as a customer? Or Would you rather wait in line for 5 minutes, try a slice of cake, then the bakery no longer accepts other customers besides you, and you get cake for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:59 PM
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Yes? Older couples can remain attracted to each other and have healthy sex lives. Nursing homes often have STD breaks and need to have condoms on hand for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:16 AM
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She's gorgeous and very sexy! I'd consider her plus sized. To me, chubby is on the cusp or low end of overweight BMI. A little extra fluff, a slight softness. Someone chubby couldn't get work as a plus size model but also isn't thin enough for straight sized modeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:51 AM
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Doja Cat? Megan Thee Stallion? Charli XCX, Beyonce? For actresses, Emilia Clarke, Sarah Snook, Kate Winslet, Kat Dennings, Christina Hendricks?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:29 AM
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That’s sad, you should try looking at women outside of pornography. You don’t have any actresses or singers you can use as an example? Your only exposure to women in media is through porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:21 AM
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There’s no consensus on chubby anyway. One persons “chubby” is another persons “fat” is another persons “thin”. Shockingly, not everyone considers BMI and weight the end all be all decider of attraction. I have pretty severe body dysmorphia, and I used to really internalize the idea that I’m worthless as a romantic partner unless I was perfectly thin, fit, and weighed X pounds. That mentality held me back more than my weight ever has, I was constantly depressed and would refuse to believe any ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:44 PM
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I feel sad for her. She deserves someone who is attracted to her physically and likes her personality. They go hand in hand. There’s a wide margin between shallowly only caring about looks and openly saying “I straight up told my girlfriend I’m not attracted to her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:39 PM
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Hotness alone will never sustain a relationship no matter what terminally online people on Reddit try to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:32 PM
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She probably shouldn’t be your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:31 PM
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Guy described in OP seemed the find her hot though, just not “hot enough”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:08 PM
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Breaking news: Chubby women are more than capable of being seen as attractive and relationship material by “hot” men, because decent people don’t base the entirety of a relationship off clinical attractiveness ratings. Your colleague was dismissive of this girl and implied he was going to keep her as a backup plan. That girl realized that and found a guy who didn’t treat her that way. Good on her for realizing her worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:42 PM
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I wear makeup regularly. I’ve used the techniques in these videos. They don’t really “work” in a way that you would be bamboozled by these application methods for the duration of a date. A woman laughing, smiling, talking, that breaks the illusion of a slimmer face that contour gives you. These are mostly for photographs and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:16 AM
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Her makeup isn’t hiding her puffy cheeks, it’s giving her the illusion of puffy cheeks, and in this case, the primary difference is that in the after, she’s smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:02 AM
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Appearance altering makeup to that degree falls apart in real life. When cosplayers like Alyson Tabbitha do their makeup to look like a real life actress, like Angelina Jolie, it looks great on camera and in photos, but when she talks, moves, isn’t perfectly angled, the illusion fails. And getting close to her, you’d see thick makeup texture, how it can fall into the fine lines everyone has that most cameras don’t pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:00 AM
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Makeup can’t hide puffy cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:54 AM
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Women in prisons wear makeup though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:54 AM
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The first time I video chatted with my fiancé, I did so with a bare face. Nearly every time we talk, I have a bare face. I feel cute in makeup, I think I look better in photographs with makeup on but it doesn’t extend beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:39 AM
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Average/regular men still have coworkers, friends, family to impress in their daily lives. Humans are also very social creatures, they’ll feel a lacking when it comes to not having a partner when their relatives and friends all start to settle down. Your idea of a “regular man” seems to be a strawman incel. Most regular men have girlfriends and get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:33 AM
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Online dating is where people meet but once they meet and start dating, the relationship is like any other relationship where a couple met offline. Hypothetical super realistic sexbots aren’t comparable to that at all. Also what are you talking about “men don’t have a social need to display their girlfriend”? There’s a reason the term “trophy wife” exists. No one here lives in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:43 PM
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Well this is a depressing thread, though I’m not sure what I expect from PPD. I cry easily around my fiancé. Sometimes it’s about serious emotional stuff. Sometimes it’s, in retrospect, complete nonsense. I’ve never been much of a crier, in my edgy teenage years I prided myself on not crying much, and my upbringing didn’t match tears with much coddling. I feel emotionally safe around my fiancé. I don’t have to put on a stone faced, girlboss front like I tend to do in daily life. There’s emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:54 PM
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I’m happily engaged to my Aragorn now!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:53 PM
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Am I settling because I’m not marrying Legolas, like I hoped I would when I was 7 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:45 PM
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I’m talking about the example you used, of a woman who allegedly “hit the wall” in 2017, yet remained happily married and got pregnant multiple times after said “hit the wall” year. And she got pregnant even after needing to have one of her Fallopian tubes removed due to a health issue discovered when she was young (I’m sorry, “pre-wall”). Your math isn’t mathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:07 PM
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It’s a lot of work to wash your face twice a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:02 PM
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If the wall is allegedly about declining fertility then why did Jessica Simpson have two more children after 2017?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:37 PM
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No one should be forced to wear makeup, the answer to high beauty standards for women isn’t to raise them for men. Makeup should be optional, not a requirement. However a good hygiene routine with moisturizer and sunscreen should be reccomended for all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:32 PM
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Not really, especially if you are using the right products. Proper cleansing and moisturizing, plus sunscreen would help reduce any potential damage caused by makeup. When I stopped wearing makeup in quarantine, my skin didn’t improve much, because my issues are mostly hormonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:29 PM
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Usually the main trait of those brooding romantic hero types is that they are cold and cruel to everyone but the heroine. Her love makes them melt and soften, and they are sexually fixated only on her. At the root of most women’s sexual fantasies is just a guy who only loves her and is attracted to her. There’s a reason women love The Mandalorian- they love seeing a brooding action hero care for a little baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:42 PM
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I met my fiancé organically on tiktok. I saw his video on my FYP and thought he was cute, and followed him. We mutually commented on each others videos and I told him to DM me. After that we video chatted for months, met in person, and that was that. We are engaged and moving in together in the spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:45 AM
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Are they really what’s popular, though? Because a quick scan of erotica best sellers on Amazon and Barnes & Noble has few to no books with covers like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:56 PM
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Are you a time traveler from the 90s? What romantic paperback section are you looking at? Because big buff men haven’t been a staple on romance novel covers targeted at women in decades. The 50 Shades of Grey series never even featured men on the book covers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:48 AM
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I don't know about you guys, but I'm a hell of a lot cuter now than I was at 23. I'd feel weird about anyone who was "more attracted" to me in my past than as I am right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:55 AM
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It’s....definitely sexual attraction. I’m in the BTS fandom. I’ve been in K-Pop fandom for over a decade. I hear what these girls say about the members. Most of the girls are straight and find the members very sexy. I’m sorry that reality doesn’t match up with the things Red Pill has taught you about what women find attractive. I left another comment in this post explaining that women have found non-masculine traits sexy for years. How is “Here’s a story of Jimin from BTS having kinky BDSM sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 03:29 AM
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You need to take a look at some BTS content on tumblr or Twitter, the filthy self insert fanfiction these girls write would change your mind on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:59 AM
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Why is everyone here acting brand new. Sex symbols for teen girls and young women have almost always been thin, “feminine” in some ways, soft and romantic, not the seven foot tall, twelve pack chiseled jaw “Chad” stereotype. Today it’s K-Pop idols, for some girls because there aren’t many boy bands right now in Western music. Yesterday it was One Direction. Before that it was Justin Bieber. *NSYNC and the Backstreet Boys. Hanson. The Jackson 5. New Kids on the Block. The Beatles. Don’t think any…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:57 AM
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