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So then what's your point? Lol the way I read your post and some of your replies is that people engage with people even though they're incompatible libido wise. My pov is that the libidos are more often than not matched for a long time, only changing way after the commitment is already made. If you are to vet and exclude for every type of incompatibility including future ones no one would ever be able to settle down. When getting married or committing to a ltr you're kinda signing up for at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:40 AM
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Yes, I know that's what you think. What I am saying is that most of the time they matched for the first months/years/decade and then after they're already deeply connected in life and emotionally one or both partners might lose interest. Libidos are not this unchanging thing, it fluctuates for every person. I'm not denying that some people "settle" for people who are less/more active cause of everything else is great, but generally these issues happen way after the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:01 AM
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Okay once again: hormones greatly control libidos both men and women. Womens fluctuate. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY GET OLDER. No (maybe a tiny procentage especially those who do not marry for love) one is "pretending" or "lying" about their intrinsic libidos cause that doesn't exist. Sexdrives can change and change massively. No one is looking for a person to constantly "perv" on them if they're not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:10 AM
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So if a person starts a relationship they promise to always have sex at the same level as the beginning? That's seems as realistic as expecting your partner not to age. Do you track your cycle? Have you ever noticed that your mood and wants change depending on that? It's is very common for sex drives to be highly dependent on your hormone levels. Now imagine child birth, your body stops being yours, the baby is dependant on it 24/7 for up to a couple of years. Imagine menopause. I have a few old…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:57 PM
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Are the buddies your male friends? See I think it's extremely normal for sex to be more interesting in the beginning, it's a way to connect for new couples. Then wen my sexdrive for my partner gets slower it has often if not always been one to three reasons: the sex is not pleasurable enough, it was fine to begin with cause maybe it gets better, maybe he'll start caring. Secondly, life gets in the way, busy, sick, stressed. And thirdly, in the beginning I'd have sex even though I didn't want to,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:40 PM
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I understand that it has a negative connotation and in general I only use the term sex workers, but in this specific instance I am only referring to people who sell sex for money. Escorts also seem like an umbrella term since many seem to only sell their time and being an "arm piece" or companionship, while some also exchange sexual favors as well. But I also understand the negative impact that word has for people who sell sex. I am very interested in learning more on this topic and would love t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:52 AM
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First of all: I'm so sorry that the men youve met outside of work have treated you badly. Seems like it's a controlled and safe environment for you, I am happy that it is. I absolutely believe that this is your experience of sex work, having this in mind would you encourage more women to become prostitutes? (Only using prostitute since sex work is extremely vague since it can be anything from pictures to strippers etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:37 AM
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Well it's rather easy: wanting sex workers to be safe while still disagreeing with people buying sex is not mutually exclusive. I'm generally against the idea that sex work is empowering to women cause I do not believe in monetary consent - your body still knows if you are into a situation or not. Hook ups and one night stands are a completely different situation; you want to have sex for the purpose of having sex and I personally do not engage with it but I don't blame women who do. Womens sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:54 PM
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Maybe there's a difference in culture here vs where you are, dating/seeing someone is not the same as being in a relationship, here you generally talk and get to know eachother before becoming exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:47 PM
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Why get into a relationship if you're not gonna be devoted to them? Any person you love should be valued and their needs should be attended to. I'm not here to argue about on which criterias you should value people in your life, but if people want healthy and long lasting relationships I personally think you shouldn't get together with just anyone just cause they're "good enough", but actually wait for a commitment that you're willing to give "that devotion" to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:12 PM
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I think the issue comes primarily that you can tell you are the "good enough" rather than "the one". From a woman's perspective I have spoken to a lot of men who actually fantasize about how good they would treat their partners; flowers, gifts, opening doors, caring for them etc etc to then get into a relationship and then neglect their partners completely and when being called out on it saying shit like "yeah but she's not [insert celebrity crush]". I think a lot of the men I know don't get int…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:19 PM
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or maybe you will discredit any woman who states facts lol all in all this is just stupid, at the end of the day no matter how "pathetic" and small the Y chromosome is it doesn't mean that men are smaller and more pathetic than women. ITS LITERALLY JUST CHROMOSOMES.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:20 AM
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Is that what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:16 AM
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In what world are Zendaya and Lizzo comparable? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:17 AM
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Beauty is subjective, but you're objectively wrong here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:27 AM
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Im fat and I've never had issues dating lol y'all always act like dating only counts if both partners are 8's or higher
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:45 PM
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I've earned more than my two latest partners and I'm a woman. My female coworkers also have male partners that earn less.... so I think that men only see women as wallets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:14 PM
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I think a big part of growing up and maturing for me was realizing that there's very few things that are either true or false. Is the sky really blue, or do we just experience it as such? What about other species that do not see blue at all. What about the fact that human eyes are bad at picking up violet colour's so we view it as just blue? Ben Shapiro got famous for his "facts don't care about your feelings", but if you take a look at most of his "facts" are based on misunderstanding studies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:38 AM
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I genuinely believe men who act like this just do not possess the ability to see anyone elses perspective. It's once again what happens when boys are socialized to put their needs first/not care about others perspectives. So many times I've discussed different lived experiences with men and you say "imagine you're [insert position]" and they just respond with "But I am not!" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:19 PM
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No, I'm asking; from your point of view. I have my own opinion on it and I have read many studies on it but I'm genuinely interested in yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:39 AM
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Very true. I've only met one guy who imbodies the tall chad type that incels talk about all the time. Most tall guys are just timid lil guys on stilts for the first 20-30 years of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:37 AM
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For me that's not it. I want a taller man cause ive seen what I look like from below when I've opened the front facing camera by mistake lol Nah but seriously, I just like it cause cuddling and having sex feels better with a taller guy (and with taller I just mean taller than me), it's really not to do with feeling protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:35 AM
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I really don't care as long as he is the same height or taller. Anything more than that is a plus, sure, but not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:29 AM
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Biased family court - let's start there then. In what way is it biased?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:00 AM
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What male issue do you want feminists to help men with? Please be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:44 AM
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You don't have to be part of safe communities. However hanging out in most big subs on reddit which is strongly male centric makes well moderated female subs is nice sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:35 PM
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Most female centric subs has been brigaded by (usually) men acting in bad faith, trolling, sending fucked up messages, commenting stupid shit etc. If you want a safe community it's easier if you're strict. r/AskFeminists is generally a good place as long as you're acting in good faith and have at least tried a quick google.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:52 PM
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I just want to know why they can't advocate for men too? Most feminists do. However I do agree when some feminists say that it's a stupid request to ask for feminist women to do. Most issues for men (viewed from a feminist perspective) is because of the patriarchy, therefore while fighting to get rid of toxic gender roles it will by default also make mens lives better. Examples would be parental rights, mental health, emotional security. Something I see pop up often from manosphere content is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:47 PM
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It's always so interesting to see someone be this confident when they literally have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:13 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:26 AM
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I did search for "I hate my husband" here's what I found. Post nr 1: " I hate my husband Let me start by saying I obviously love him but I’m beginning to resent him" she states that he does not contribute as much both financially and domestically. He drinks very often. She ends the post with " Major Edit: my husband and I talked today and came up with a game plan going forward. He acknowledged he needs to pull his weight when he is home. All weekend long he has been contributing to cleaning and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:17 AM
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As far as I have seen, no. To be able to get a rape charge you have to force your penis into someone. Meaning you have to have a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:01 PM
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I think it is penis penetrating an opening, so it does not have to be a vagina. male on male is rape, but since women do not have a penis they legally cannot be convicted for rape in English courts. It's absolutely fucked, especially for adult women who take advantage of young children. I'm surprised this hasn't changed yet, it needs more public outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:00 AM
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It's worse at 40. Cleaning the house, going to PTA meetings and doing boring sh*t all day is not fun. Enjoy your 20s. You will need the fun memories to keep you going. This is what I am referring to. If the only thing that gets you through the rest of your life is memories from decades ago it's simply too tragic to even keep living. I am not saying everyone needs a "simple/easy" life, rather that you should be able to find joy in what you are doing with your life, and if you can't something need…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:12 PM
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Same. So many on here are too willing to settle for a shit life and then blame everybody else for it. If you're not happy then do something about it, life is too short and you only get one chance for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:55 PM
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Why? Cause I'm being honest about my views?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:05 PM
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Men are not the only type of people that are shallow, women are too, and I have actually discussed the same thing you're talking about with my ex friend (a woman). I don't think most preferences are inherently valid, at least looks or monitary ones. If a man made a post being upset cause their partner said their attraction for them would change if he lost his job/money, I'd advice them to leave. I understand wanting a partner to contribute to their happiness, but if the only happiness they give …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:53 PM
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Lol, i can't tell if you're being serious or not. Is that what you got out of what I said? Being attracted to your partner should not be because of how they look. True love should mean you find your partner attractive even if their body goes through changes. If they cannot love me like I love them, why would I settle for that relationship? I'm fine being single for the rest of my life rather than looks-conditonal love. Cause if you and your partner want to have kids, that will change their bodie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:30 PM
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Like I understand that that women might've been way out of line and throwing insults. Lords know it's difficult to talk to some people on here sometimes cause our worldviews are so different that we might not even agree if calling your SO ugly is mean lol Which is what seems to have happened here. OOP asked her bf if he would stop being attracted to her if her weight shifted and he said no. I'm guessing, cause the explanation is still so vague you cannot get any context. Which to be fair, I'd du…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:02 AM
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Oh yeah, I'd dump him lol but thank him for his honesty. I'm not gonna look the same now as in 10 years, especially not if kids are on the table or I might get sick, or just find a new snack I reeeeeeally like lol What's the point of a relationship that's only built on your partner being hot? They're going to change and if a few pounds here or there is gonna change their love and attraction to me I'd find a partner who loves me for me instead
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:47 AM
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Rage bait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:43 PM
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If you're honest intentions is only viewing her as an object................ I don't think I need to finish that sentence. Women do not care if you want to fuck them, we care about you wanting to get to know us. All I said is that you do not need to lie, unless you're not a good person. Like say I'm selling apples. They're rotten. obviously rotten. No one buys them. I start painting them and covering the smell, I get some people who are dumb or desperate enough to buy them without looking furthe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:07 PM
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What did the bf say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:46 PM
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Yeah, and I do not blame the women going for guy number one. Literally just started a conversation with her that was not obvious that he just wants to fuck her. Guy two would do way better by saying that as well. Women, in general, do not appreciate random dudes starting with "hehe y-you're so h-hot, madam", but if same guy comes up and say "Oh hey, Is that a dragon ball z tattoo? I love that show!" Generally, when someone has started a convo with me by hitting on me instantly it has escalated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:44 PM
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I never said all edit to clarify: there definitely is a lot of very misogynistic men on here, and all over reddit especially in incel subs. Of course, but you just admitted that those men feign it meaning women look for that trait. Women constantly warn each other about men doing this, which is why it is better to truly believe women are people too or to care for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:27 PM
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Why was that so difficult for her to say? What is the context of the conversation with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:20 PM
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I'm only talking from experience. Only insecure women or women with no other option choose to sleep with misogynistic men, much less date them. If all misogynistic men got laid and often this sub would have less lonely men 🤷🏼‍♀️ Your chances of getting laid or getting into a relationship is way higher if you respect the woman you're interested in and treat her as an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:19 PM
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I'll answer for her: Yes I want honesty from the man I am dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:07 PM
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Nah, loads of men are fuckable by just being themself. All that it takes is not being misogynistic, have humour and caring for others. I believe most men have some of those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:06 PM
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I loved finding out that my bf cries to the ending of monsters inc 🤷‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:47 AM
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Virtually no advertisements or entertainment try to tell women they'd be better off with men, not for decades Speaking like a 90s baby this was pretty common and still is from older generations. Just because advertisements do not perpetuate a mindset does not mean that an idea is not being pushed. I am in a happy relationship, but do not see myself ever wanting children. Not wanting children, for both men and women, is still very taboo in most if not all places of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:43 AM
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Lol I have a life 😂 I'm not gonna be sat at my desk 24/7 waiting for Cotehill to reply to my comment. I logged in, saw your comment and responded. All I asked for was some clips of what you yourself mentioned but apparently sending a link is too difficult? This is all so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:52 PM
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I've seen more than enough of manosphere content, i just wanted the clips of all the women you were talking about lol "Choosing ignorance" by not wanting to watch manosphere content is actually really funny haha I understand that you have opinions on reality but those opinions are not mine nor are they based on anything other than feelings. Every time I've seen any manosphere youtuber bring up a study or a statistic it's either purposely misleading or does not have the capacity to fully comprehe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:28 PM
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I really do not want to go through hours of content that I find exhausting and mind numbing trynna look for those clips haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:10 AM
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I've never seen any of those videos lol Can you link them? Sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:12 PM
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You've addressed it by saying that women have never experienced not getting male attention but women who choose lives like that opt out from male attention to begin with and are happy when they get old enough that most men do not notice them anymore. Only young and/or insecure women seek out male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:32 AM
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I mean... If women rather be alone than with a man, maybe that's saying something about how little that type of partnership brings to her life. Before women needed men, but now we have options. Don't get me wrong, I'm in a committed relationship with s man I love, but if it was a choice between a shitty partner or being alone for the rest of my life I'd choose being alone. Women find connection to the world in other ways than men and kids now, may it be friendships, pets or astrology and "witchc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:21 AM
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Are we at the part where you claim “tall women have it just as hard as short men!” … I really hope not. Nah, you're just pulling stuff out your ass lol Im a tall woman and would never claim it's as difficult for me as a short guy. However I would say short men and large women have a lot in common in the dating scene. You might say "Yeah but women can just lose weight" which is true, but is not obtainable for many people who are overweight since it can have to do with a lot of different circumsta…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:17 AM
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Can you at least admit that? I mean, I can admit that that's how you feel lol I've heard multiple men say they like girls shorter than them and it is often a requirement for most guys that their gf is shorter than them. Wanting to feel protected is not a smol fetish, it's just a nice feeling, same as guys who love having their hair played with, or being hugged after a bad day. You want me to see the world in black and white. Men are like this, women are like that. All I can say that that's not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:59 AM
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In a world where women essentially have an endless options (via social media, OLD and every day male thirst) women’s “preferences” effectively become “requirements” with pretty words. As I said. A woman with in 2023 has limitless options has no need to compromise on “preferences” in any way. This is where we have vastly different worldviews that are completely incompatible and we will never agree on this, so not really worth discussing. Women do not get any man they want nor a man that fits into…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:41 AM
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Haha thats actually funny, I just did a quick google on a break and it was the first that popped up on google lol I saw a bunch of other articles but that was just the first scientific study that popped up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:08 AM
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Oh yeah definitely a lot of online women express this, myself and all of my friends just prefer their male partner to be the same height or taller than themselves. I will say that the whole “if you’re not over 6 feet, don’t even bother” is very silly, especially if they themselves aren't very tall cause a 5'10 dude can make her feel just as small and protected when cuddling as a 6 feet dude lol. I'd say being tall/taller is an attractive trait in men, but is more often than not not a deal breake…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:04 AM
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https://nutritionj.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12937-018-0330-5#:~:text=Overall%2C%2065%25%20of%20men%20and,body%20size%20in%20opposite%20gender. Overall, 65% of men and 57% of women preferred an overweight body size in the opposite gender. However, only 4% of men and 1% of women indicated a preference for an “obese” body size in opposite gender. I will say that there's a lot of different studies with vastly different results with different approaches on how to test it. But I think gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:32 AM
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bbw is a huge fetish for a lot of men lol and I know some attractive/average men that date exclusively thicker women. Just cause you do not prefer something doesn't mean that no one else does :) I'm sure there's even communities on reddit for bigger women who shares pics and stuff that has an active male following. Lot's of people do not adhere to beauty standards, that's just how it is and always have been, people prefer different things 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:00 AM
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Some men prefer bigger bodies, I think that is what OP is referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:47 AM
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Lots of women like bigger dudes, we just don't (generally) fetishize mens bodies to the same extent and therefor it's less visable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:46 AM
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According to what? You're just making shit up from what you think is true. Women know what they like just as much as men do. More men with dad bods/average bodies are in relationships than men with defined muscles. Of course some women prefer muscular men but being skinny is not even half as important for women as for men. As a woman who has had both I strongly prefer men with larger bodies
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 04:43 AM
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According to what? women literally swoon over dad bods alllllllllllllll the time, myself included. I'm so tired of men trying to dictate what womens preferences are. Some guys like big boobs some like small, and women don't question that, do we? People like different things, hell some even like obese people or short people etc etc, just let us like what we like. It seems that you think a "dad bod" means a guy who is slightly or moderately fat, but dad bod means strong but soft with a bit of a be…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 04:17 AM
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could not agree more. Men get extremely low matches (or non) cause there are way fewer women on them. Plus if they do get a match it's probably not gonna lead to a convo since women on dating apps get so spammed with messages that there's no way she has the energy to keep up with it.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 04:02 AM
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I've met all my bf's in person or while playing games online Most people find people to date at most times, meaning that women either go for guys in their range or most men are top-tier Modern people in general are slaves to modern comforts. People adapt to what they grow up with and what is around them, all you have to do is look outside the comfortable 1st world to see people who do not have modern comforts and they are not better off because of it. Life has always been a competitive race for …
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 04:00 AM
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Not even worth debating this on a male dominated sub. Both men and women are so normalized to accepting the fact that their partners can get off to who ever they want as long as it's porn. Pornstars are not not even real people in most people's minds, cause you know they would feel differently if their partner was jerking/rubbing one out to someone they know. I have no issue with my partners masturbating, but actively getting off to other people? I'd rather not be in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:06 AM
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Most*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:57 AM
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I have experienced what it is being a guy gamer since I have played a lot without talking and even with a voice changer. I have no issues with that type of toxicity since it is relatively rare compared to when I play as myself. Not only does it happen almost every time, even when top fragging, it is also way more toxic. In cs for example you cannot hurt your teammates too much or you'll get kicked from the match - meaning it's so easy for people to fuck your game up if they want to. Blocking you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:12 PM
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Met my bf in CS lol what you will probably find is that women are rare in most male dominated online games, and the few that do still play like hiding behind a muted mic and a gender neutral name and profile pic. I'd suggest not actively looking for a partner, while also joining groups with similar interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:13 PM
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Often women are in the background of gaming communities, cause gaming while being a woman leads to a looooooot of harassment. I played CS for a year before I started using my mic in lobbies, and even then I only spoke if i was performing okay. As a woman there's 3 types of guys you can meet in game or in a gaming community: Normal guy - The best of the types, doesn't treat you differently, just acts normal while being nice/friendly. Toxic guy - "are you grill?" "Ill rape you" "go to the kitchen"…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:06 PM
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smoke tobacco or weed, drink beer or hard liquor regularly, do drugs like fentanyl, heroin, cocaine and meth, or they have recurring criminal issues stemming from assaults, criminal damage and armed robbery Well realistically all of these things can be turned into a date night lol But seriously, i think women with these types are usually the same types I think the issue that most women experience as non-gamers in relationships with gamers is how much of their bf's lives will be devoted to game t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:52 AM
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The whole "it's biology" statement is just false lol. Men are not biologically wired to prefer barely legal women/younger. Both men and women should have developing sexual disires, but men are left behind with intense porn usage and constantly looking at young women as sex objects. When we grow our interests grow with us, from kids liking kids to adults liking adults. Weirdly enough men's reported attraction stagnates before women hit 25. People are not lone wolves, we have made it this far by b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:42 PM
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Women are attracted to younger men, at least physically. Not as young as 18, cause that's kinda gross, but around 23 to 30 is pretty normal for middle age women and older to like to look at. However starting a relationship with someone that young is unthinkable to most older women since the age difference is too large for most of them to be compatible or even interesting for the older woman. However I think the instant "oh shes 18, now I can finally sexualize her" is kinda disgusting, just obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:33 AM
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It must come from the fact that many of these women have been used by older men when they were that age. When I was 18 I dated a 35 year old for almost 2 years, when I turned 23 and saw 18 year olds I realized that they still look like kids to me I knew there was something fucked up with the guy. I'm in my late 20s and I'd rather drag my pussy through broken glass than go after an 18 year old lol There's this trend where people are starting to question the current beauty standards for women for …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:34 AM
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You can call it cap all you want, all it means to me is that you do not understand the reality for most women and are unwilling to listen to us when we give you examples from our own lives. I understand that you have this worldview that women can pick and choose from the chads no matter how ugly/average they are, but it's simply not true. Most people in happy relationships are dating "within their means" and are happier for it, cause real connections can not be compared to a 1-10 attractiveness …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:00 PM
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It's not as easy as "turned me down" it's getting to know each other, hanging out and then realizing it's not a good match or maybe just not exchanging numbers, or not even realizing I'm flirting with them. If I were to walk up to the same 50 men and say I was interested in having a ONS with them a majority of men would probably be interested, even men well above my league, especially if it's out on the club, but that does not intrest me at all. You said that any woman can have a relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:02 PM
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I'm an average woman, I think I've hit on maybe 50 men in my lifetime, out of those I've been in 4 relationships. On top of that I have only hit on other average people. I'd say my rate is way better with women since I've only frosted with two and both of those lead to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:38 PM
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Instagram is not real life, go outside and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:08 PM
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"And they complain about it frequently too" Exactly, cause it's not worth it. I have also had a period where I did casual sex that's why I know how unsatisfying it is. When I was younger it was pushed that casual sex is what you should want when you're not in a relationship. When I realized how it made me feel and how harmful it was to my own self image I stopped. It can take years to get to know yourself and what you want and to be true to yourself about your wants and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:41 PM
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lol what a strange world you live in. I wish I could go to the boytoy store and pick up the perfect bf The world isn't as black and white as you seem to think it is. Women can't get whoever they want, men are not as desperate as you seem to think they are. As soon as you stop viewing people as stereotypes or objects the sooner you will find that most people are able and wanting of a stable, happy relationship. Skip the 1-10 rating and the Stacys and Chads and focus on seeing the sex you're attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:16 PM
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Single women generally have no interest in casual sex or going on a lot of dates. Of course I can only speak for the myself and the women I know or know of. Casual sex does very little for women, unless you find a really good fwb, otherwise it is extremely boring, since women rarely get anything out of casual sex, other than maybe some sort of validation for some women, but will leave you feeling lonelier after. When it comes to dates, it's usually very exhausting and women don't generally date …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:08 PM
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11 to 12, when I was younger I used to think it was cause I looked older since I started puberty around then, but when I look at the photos I see a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:13 AM
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Withholding sex for any reason for any party is always ok. No one is entitled to anyone's body. Just wanted to add that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:47 PM
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Do you know how difficult it is for women to get their tubes tied? Like for the doctor to approve it? My friend who is 34 now have been fighting to get one since she was 21, she's single and doesn't want kids but has even told her doctor she is willing to freeze her eggs just so they'd be willing to do the surgery. The doctors she's spoken to says that after she is 39 they might do it, but that it's "too big of a risk of you finding a partner that wants kids and you change your mind"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:16 PM
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threats of withholding sex Well, if neither of you want a kid, birth control is not an option (bad side effects, cancer in the family) and the guy doesn't want to use a condom I for sure would "withhold" having PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:02 PM
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vasectomy is reversible with a pretty high success rate, and even if not there is the option of freezing a few loads
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:49 AM
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I think most people who brought up the vasectomy did it in a satire type of way, especially since they took away peoples right to choose over their own bodies, why should cis men be the only ones who has that power? Women have to fight for them to be able to have their tubes tied, unless they meet a very specific amount of criteria (age, if they're married, if they already have kids, if their partner signs off on it or if they are trans-men). Whereas men can literally walk in and book an appoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:46 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:30 AM
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It's something I've seen repeat over and over on red pill subs and videos at least, and having that mindset is very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:57 PM
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Its the "truth" according to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:39 PM
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Yeah, but on this sub.... i swear ive seen serious comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:51 PM
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honestly, cant even tell if youre being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:37 PM
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That they can never be loved. That every relationship is only a transaction. I think this leads to a lot of anger and resentment, in turn making them unlovable. It's honestly very sad, like seeing one of those "support groups" that don't help their members at all, but instead just takes them deeper into what they were seeking support for to begin with Edit: i want to make it clear that i don't believe this, but it's a "truth" in the red pill community, if the question was phrased without the quo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:33 PM
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Okay so im a big makeup geek. I love both technical makeup and makeup thats just made to look good. I think the biggest issue for men is that they do not understand makeup. at all. Makeup, even natural looks, people who wear makeup regularly can tell that they are wearing makeup. I know how makeup works and I've never, ever been surprised by someone taking it off. No person that's attractive with makeup can be unattractive when it's taken off, simply cause normal makeup doesnt actually change yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:11 AM
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You might think "ugly" girls having it easy to get laid is unfair, and i understand if all you want is one night stands, but in reality, it's just as difficult for them to find a partner. "Ugly" girls can get in bed with a 6-10 but the same guys would never want to be seen with them, let alone date them. Not to mention that women get a lot of shit for being "slutty" if they have a lot of sex, especially if it is with multiple partners, which usually happens if you're an "ugly" girl that chases p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:57 AM
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Exactly, like the fact that so many dudes on here think that you only choose your partner by looks are astonishing. Really goes to show what they look for in a partner. In my eyes a guy can never be attractive enough to be considered for a long term partner if they're not compatible with me and the life I want to have. I genuinely don't understand how people do not understand wanting someone to put down time and effort on you and your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:28 PM
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I totally disagree with OPs statement for the woman but for me it's definitely true that i have hangups that stops me from cumming with a partner, but those generally are that I'm too busy thinking about the noises i make or other stuff. This leads to me not being able to cum even if the guy does everything that can easily get me off in a solo setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:04 PM
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For me, i think a lot has to do with what movies and shows i grew up watching. In a lot of kids movies there's a loooot of sexual tension, the most clearly in my head rn is Jafar and jasmine or Hades and whatever her name is. Jafar and Hades aren't designed to be attractive or anything but i remember both of them being very suggestive towards their respective heroine. I remember seeing Aladin for the first time and though i thought Jafar was both ugly and scary, but the scenes themselves were "e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:08 AM
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Same reasoning dudes say: If I could get paid to have sex/have only fans I would while in the next sentence saying they don't support sexworker rights lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:59 PM
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It has never, ever crossed my mind to do this. Going on a date is really stressful and takes a lot of energy to get ready for and of course the anxeity of the dude being a complete psycho. Honestly didn't even consider it to be a thing until I saw guys on reddit complain about it. Leading someone on is always wrong, no matter why you do it. If one of my friends did something like that I'd question her sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:56 PM
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Yes, that's what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:15 AM
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That's usually what they do, yeah. Or they get kids and treat them like shit too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:06 PM
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Yeah? Don't worry little guy, I'll protect you uwu /s But seriously yes, it's about ability and we all know women are better shooters and smarter tactical thinkers, so don't you worry your little manbrain about that 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:04 PM
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Yeah, not very strange that people don't, considering war in general is not something that many swedes know/care about. The same law states that it does not matter if you're a citizen, but all people in Sweden at the time where it's put into effect, as far as i understood from the text at least :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:35 PM
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swedens crisis law (Totalförsvarsplikt=total defense duty) involves women and men ages 16-70 to have to defend their country or help defend their country. A lot of things in war is not going to the trenches, it can be handing out food, taking care of the injured etc. In 2017, Ukraine ranked 88th out of 189 countries on the United Nations Development Programme's Gender Inequality Index (taken from wikipedia). Doesnt really seem that they are known for gender equality to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:34 PM
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uhhh, u ok bro? Why we need to be running? And on top of that, dodging a responsibility youre not ready or even want seems pretty damn responsible to me. Unlike all the people getting kids cause "they just really want kids", man I feel bad for all the kids who had shitty childhoods because their parents didn't live up to the responisbility they took on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:34 AM
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Could not agree more tbh. Having kids young is not a good idea for anyone, it can work out but pretty rarely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:42 AM
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"women bad for making good choices" I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:37 AM
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In sweden doctors "promise" C-section births to then when it's time just force women to do it naturally, that fear is definitely the biggest for me. Giving birth and being pregnant is something i never want to do, and then when the horror stories of women who wanted c-sections, which doctors agreed to, and then totally disregarded by the same doctors. Honestly if that ever happened to me, I don't know if I'd be able to keep the kid. I don't know how often this happens, in the article about it it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:36 AM
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all developed contries have stagnant birthrates, the more "well off" a country is the less likely you are to have kids or many kids. People work constantly and can barely afford housing almost everywhere in rich countries. Now the US (how it's being viewed as a developed country at all is beoynd me) seems to have it even worse when it comes to financial issues among the public that hinders them from having kids or a good life in general. Now of course some people want to swallow the redpill and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:26 AM
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I work a very high paying job for my age, and im very independant in general. What I've learnt from my relationships up until now is that men will do absolutely nothing if that's what is accepted. I dont generally care for gifts (although I always appriciate them and it does make me happy to know they are thinking of me) or a man paying my bills, frankly I don't need a partner for anything other than companionship. I have never dated a man who wants to provide for me in the oldfashiond way, even…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:13 AM
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I'll say it before and I'll say it again. If you would not be in a relationship with a porn actress you should not be watching porn. It's kinda hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:18 PM
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IDK if im allowed to comment but heck I'll give it a go. People want people who will bring as much to the table as they do (however much they percieve they do at least), if that makes sense? I have a stable job with good income, now if my partner did not want to have a job that is an issue for me cause that would mean I have to take on all of the responsibility when it comes to providing food etc. Now if they had a job where they earn significantly less, I don't care at all, just a bit of give a…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 09:56 AM
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No, definitely not, exredpill sure but why would i want to be with someone who hates women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:38 PM
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I mean, yeah. But also, that's not the game haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:24 AM
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I love this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:21 AM
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I like how safe i feel near some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:18 AM
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no, you dont have to have money to lose weight, but it really helps. Eating healthy is more expensive, frozen foods last forever whereas fresh vegetables and good protein has a short lifespan. Im not saying all frozen food is bad, but most people who work long shifts for little pay would maybe rather toss something in the oven for 20 min or have snacks (I'm definitely one of those people after a 13h shift) than cook a proper meal. Plus having more money probably means having a car and being able…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:25 AM
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You, as a dude, like wearing underwear made out of lace. Sadly they are hard to come by in mens models. Sure you could special order some or try to find a niche shop that have them for you, but you probably don't have access to actually going to a shop that specializes in that. Some stores might have mens underwear with some lace details or prints that look like lace which makes you excited before you notice that you've once again been bamboozled. You tell your girlfriend about your struggle and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:43 AM
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nah, being objectified is not the same as being desired. Objectifying means literally that you're only an object to the person. Objectifying means the woman (or man) is not a person and therefore their opinion does not matter. This is not something wo/men want, unless it's a kink thing I guess, but again, rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:28 PM
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