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Give it time. As long as you don't allow yourself to become discouraged, you'll probably be in here giving conversation tips to the rest of us, sooner than you think.
/r/seduction09/08/14 01:06 AM
1

Hey John, thanks for sharing. Have you ever been to Burning Man? You should check out this video. I think it will resonate well with you.
/r/seduction01/08/14 08:53 AM
3

Interesting, I'm glad you knew that... On the topic of Dr. Seuss not being very BP, I posted the following as a top level comment, but I'll repost it for the sake of discussion. ~~~~ I'd be careful with calling anything by Theodore Geisell, aka Dr. Seuss, misandrist at face value. He was incredibly lucid about what he wrote and described himself as "subversive as hell." For example; Horton Hears a Who! was an allegory for the Hiroshima bombing and American postwar bombing of Japan. His first poe…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:24 AM
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I'd be careful with calling anything by Theodore Geisell, aka Dr. Seuss, misandrist at face value. He was incredibly lucid about what he wrote and described himself as "subversive as hell." For example; Horton Hears a Who! was an allegory for the Hiroshima bombing and American postwar bombing of Japan. His first poem was pretty risque, and RP, considering he's someone known for writing children's books. Mrs. Van Bleck Of the Newport Van Blecks Is so goddamned rich She has gold-plated sex Whereas…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 10:30 PM
1

You don't, unless they're overt about it. Though, in my experience, "sex positive" women actually need more work than most.
/r/seduction23/07/14 11:49 PM
1

Eh. True personal satisfaction is more important than plates. Taking her on the way OP did, in my eyes, is seeking validation from an outside source. She was hamstering and because he let her get away with it, he's supplicating. If he was truly satisfied with his personal growth, he would be able to see her for what she is, and in my opinion, not need her.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:36 AM
7

Indubitably.
/r/seduction12/07/14 08:02 PM
0

So I did what any alpha would do, and kissed her right there and then. I would have told her to just fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:14 AM
-4

It wasn't deep. It was to the point. Ever learn to play an instrument?
/r/seduction11/07/14 06:47 PM
3

"All this stuff I've learned ... It's been about four and a half years ... I'm going to convince it all down to alcohol." HAH!
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:27 AM
3

Shortcuts get you nowhere but imperfection.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:24 AM
4

There is a browser plugin that filters out W3School links from search results for a reason. For people reading this, if you want to learn, go anywhere EXCEPT w3school...
/r/MensRights11/07/14 05:12 AM
1

She's clinically off-her-rocker. That's good enough.
/r/seduction11/07/14 04:51 AM
46

20 bikes! Wow - she was off her god damned rocker!
/r/seduction09/07/14 11:16 PM
1

This is a fantastic write-up. I'd like to propose an edit. So, why do we post about women's behavior? Because we're exposing the truth. Not the truth that women are worse than men- but instead that women are worse than our culture's idealistic view of women. I would like to add, to the very end, the sentence: In other words, they are, in fact, regular human beings.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:33 AM
15

Of course it's sarcasm. After all, it's the 8 year old boy who is the pedophile, here. >.>
/r/MensRights09/07/14 06:07 AM
2

Oneitis is when you're hungup on a girl who is not interested in you. It's perfectly ok to be into a girl who you're actually seeing. The only issue is turning into a beta once you're there.
/r/seduction26/06/14 03:54 AM
2

Get a hobby and get good at it. People like to be around other people who are passionate about life. Ignore the bullshit and just get absorbed in what ever it is you love doing. The people will come along in time.
/r/seduction16/06/14 07:52 AM
2

She's the immature one. Don't worry about it.
/r/seduction11/05/14 06:36 PM
8

Fuck clubs. Go rock climbing, go to museums, go to cafes, go to bars that are not clubs and have music you actually like. Go where you're likely to meet people who are actually interested in the music and activities you enjoy. Also, another important point that /u/bl1y skipped; don't expect "just sex" from people in your social circle because you shouldn't shit where you eat! Why make your friend circles awkward just because you wanted to get laid when there are so many other people to meet out …
/r/seduction15/11/13 07:49 PM
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/u/Seddit_b1ood said this is bad, but not why. It directly distances you from the girl. If you already know you're not interested, then fine, this will work for that effect. If you are interested, or want to keep your options open, go for something else.
/r/seduction19/08/13 02:52 AM
36

Extra douchy.
/r/seduction19/08/13 02:49 AM
5

Effectively, your own response is an example.
/r/seduction06/08/13 05:46 PM
7

I see what you did there...
/r/seduction06/08/13 05:43 PM
8

The most logical thing to do in this situation is to confront your concern directly. "Why do I feel like you're trying to test my reaction? What are you trying to get out of this - are you going to try and roast me if you think I'm oogling her tits more than looking at the piercings?" The reality is that she probably only wants your confirmation because maybe she's thinking about getting them for herself. The "probably" is because I don't know either of you. So I don't know if you're judging her…
/r/seduction20/04/13 04:22 PM
0

Stop with the expectations. Go back to square one on learning about outcome independence.
/r/seduction20/04/13 03:51 PM
1

You need to find ways to include her. Think about it like music... Rests are fundamental. Without them, tension would be static and the story of music would be limited in it's ability to create an arch. If a rest is too long, if the listener doesn't have a reason to hang on the edge of their seat.. To sit with their eyes wide, as if they were begging for resolution of the moment, they think the song is over and they move on.
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:13 AM
3

"Bradly Manning was a hero." I have a feeling that sentence might exempt you from ever having to serve. Then again, they might just stick you on toilet duty. :\
/r/MensRights07/04/13 08:47 AM
1

Where are they from and where do you live?
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:23 PM
1

but telling the truth and letting the women deal with it for themselves will. It will also promote attraction with higher value women.
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:22 PM
2

I've had women tell me the reason why they slept with me was the hand massage I gave them. I do give a pretty thorough and quality hand massage, but it still surprises me every time I hear this because for me, getting turned on is so much more psychological.
/r/seduction30/03/13 11:17 PM
0

Why would you stay with such an abusive woman? It's one thing if you're looking for a dominatrix type woman - but that should come with a certain level of communication. Clearly it sounds like there is just spite.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 04:44 PM
4

But sharing is caring! ...wait, did you graduate kindergarten? I only date girls with at least a 5th year education.
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:30 PM
3

Try being honest? The only qualifier to that statement is to make sure you don't become too eager and remain outcome independent.
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:29 PM
2

This sub isn't about religion and religious links, of any denomination/variety, submitted would be downvoted, or even deleted by mods, except where clearly relevant. Fortunately the sub is not a microcosm, however the side effect of that is, peoples other opinions are going to bleed in. It's the same reason we run into misogyny here. It's an open forum. Also, the reality is that a lot of MRA's very likely associate, even if only on a subconscious level, the history of Christianity - especially C…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 09:52 PM
2

:)
/r/seduction23/03/13 09:36 PM
2

because failing or successing with a
/r/seduction23/03/13 08:40 PM
5

Don't feed the trolls.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 08:20 PM
2

succeeding
/r/seduction23/03/13 06:41 PM
1

It's because of the quick jump from "We're best friends, I would have dated you" to "Go away." If there was something telling of her immediate reaction to your comment at least, it might be easier to follow. Though what you just added on makes it sound like you dodged a bullet, anyway.
/r/seduction23/03/13 06:08 PM
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I can't but help feel like there are missing details from this story.
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:24 AM
2

No. She just wasn't his girlfriend - they were just friends. He didn't want to date her, and from the sounds of her maturity level, the only way to get her back would be to succumb to her want.
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:23 AM
3

? If she was so immature and incapable of seeing her own impact in situations, what is it that you feel like you've lost? She sounds like a burden.
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:22 AM
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It doesn't have anything to do with trust or abandonment. It didn't even get that far. She crafted an ideal outcome in her mind and got pissed when she didn't get her way.
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:18 AM
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OP realizes that, which is why he framed the title and the introduction the way he did.
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:16 AM
2

I felt like for a month I had been interacting with people from a grounded, natural, outcome independent place and in return I get screamed at by someone who is completely outcome dependent and is only interacting with me because they want something. You should have told her that in contextual terms. If nothing else, it would have made you feel better because then she would know that she was the one being the asshole. You're not allowed to just be friends with a girl? Can someone have a slightly…
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:15 AM
15

She wants you to pee on her again.
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:48 PM
2

Email him.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 08:52 AM
0

I think you need to edit your 3rd paragraph for clarity. I'm not sure who is saying what. If it really was you who said that... I'm not following why, or how she reacted that prompted the other guy's reaction.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 07:15 AM
1

What is your goal? Do you want to try to have a relationship with this girl, or just get laid? If you just want to get laid, it sounds easy... She sounds like she enjoys hearing herself speak. So let her. You'll probably get bored, though. Don't be surprised when she doesn't let you take control in bed, either.
/r/seduction14/03/13 08:30 PM
1

Relax and enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction09/03/13 08:17 AM
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Stop basing your level of esteem on "natural gifts" - these are things that are quantified only on a socially constructed veil that sits over real interaction. Esteem is not the same as cockiness. Base your level of esteem on your actions, and make sure you give yourself credit for every little victory, no matter how small they seem. Start with the little ones and the big victories will eventually pile up. Base your level of esteem on your compassion, your hard work and your fearlessness in the …
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:35 PM
4

This is what real confidence looks like.
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:31 PM
2

This is what real confidence looks like
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:30 PM
1

Gross.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:41 PM
1

I've dated girls like that and they were perfectly well adjusted. The reality was that they were just more athletic and outdoorsy and never found girls with similar interests until after they had been in college for a bit.
/r/seduction26/02/13 02:41 AM
1

More succinctly what I mean is women who value objects more than experience, or who define themselves by their accessories, rather than what they bring to the table. I'm dating a doctor who I met while we were out salsa dancing... I made a joke about her being my sugar mama because I'm a broke ass artist; she looked at me and in a very serious tone said, "I don't care how poor you are around me as long as you're working hard on something you love." It's still a new relationship, so I'm not 100% …
/r/seduction26/02/13 02:37 AM
1

She can't trust him because he buys her things? What do you mean?
/r/seduction26/02/13 02:33 AM
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Materialism.
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:44 PM
1

Wow. The 'create a new image' thing is pretty extreme. I'm not sure you need to go that far, but it depends on how much damage you really did. However, I really think this is only a band aid. My first reaction is that your best solution is to not hide from it, and instead stop worrying about girls. You're still placing them on a pedestal in your own way. You've got them really high up and the way I know this is because you're still letting their validation of you be your goal. My intuition tells…
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:42 PM
6

Reading this was weird, because I could have written it. I do take salsa lessons every Wednesday, I've been rock climbing for almost 20 years and Modest Mouse is one of my favorite bands... o.O
/r/seduction18/02/13 06:13 AM
2

I've found that when a girl says that, it's because she's become acutely aware of the sexual tension between the two of you, but you just haven't struck the right chord yet. If she didn't have positive feelings for you, she wouldn't want to stay your friend. Though be aware... There is a huge difference between wanting to stay your friend and being submissive by nature or simply "too nice" (or too dumb to stand up for herself) who is only that to try and get you to back off. There is a big diffe…
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:18 PM
14

an den?
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:46 AM
0

Your conclusion is rational, but it's ultimately conjecture. We don't know why some people have a stronger intuition for certain talents without seeming to have to train them - e.g. emotional intuition, perfect pitch, or a natural sense for color theory. I'll have to double check with /r/askscience - but I'm fairly certain I'm correct.
/r/seduction25/01/13 04:40 AM
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Did you notice the change in posture when she came up to him? She probably was drunk, but that doesn't change the fact that he picked up on her reaction to him and encouraged it by matching it with his own posture. He felt a "vibe" - something emotionally intuitive people (like myself) understand without explanation, but everyone else needs practice, trial and error and quality communication of all sorts of variety, before they can understand. I was at a party and this girl showed up with some o…
/r/seduction24/01/13 11:48 PM
7

You'd be surprised... I'm 5'6" and I almost exclusively date tall girls. It's mostly because of my own preference, too. The last one was 5'11" and before we started dating, she told me more than once, "You have the personality of a taller person - I don't get it." It's easy to get. Don't create boundaries for yourself.
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:41 PM
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she has 9:00AM class and that I live too far. For future reference - think of this as a shit test. I've gotten something like this plenty and always ended up bringing them home, or fucking them in my car. You can start with something like, "Lets walk and talk" to separate them, if you want. Depending on the girl, something playfully cheesy like, "You'll still be awake, so there's nothing to worry about" can be enough (just make sure you can back that up. :P), but a confident, "I'll make sure you…
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:36 PM
6

HAHA! This cracked me right the fuck up. :P
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:29 PM
3

He said elsewhere that they came up and asked when he was going to come back while the conversation with the manager was happening. I can't do anything but take that at face value, but the lack of any details about the conversation with the manager and tossing that little fact in, only after questions start to pop up, does make me more suspicious.
/r/seduction20/01/13 07:15 AM
2

Sounds like you got defensive when the manager approached you. I'm guessing you let yourself be caught flat footed because he was calling you out on what was ultimately the truth. For the future, try to remember that your own emotions are valid and keep your cool and proceed with Socratic questioning to figure out what his real issue was. Doing that, instead of letting the adrenaline spike he was clearly intentionally courting from you would keep you from accidentally validating his concern. Let…
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:37 PM
2

Even though they were supposedly kinoing him when the manager pounced?
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:00 PM
6

This seems like a fair possibility, but if he was talking to them and they were actually kinoing him when the guy approached him, then the manager was just out of line. For all he knew, he was meeting up with friends.
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:00 PM
2

This is a repost from just a few days ago.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:38 PM
4

These sort of assumptive comments are not helpful and only serve to play the same game as the individual in question.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:49 AM
1

You didn't deny beatings. ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:19 AM
2

Did you see this?
/r/MensRights14/01/13 07:46 PM
2

Canada could be different. Isn't any coverage in addition to the government provided benefits, anyway?
/r/MensRights14/01/13 07:42 PM
5

Umm... Staying with her validates her opinion.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 07:42 PM
19

You for got: Simply dump her and move on.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 07:41 PM
0

If this is even half true, you'll do better to find someone with an education than waste your time with this slob.
/r/seduction10/01/13 07:07 PM
1

You think he missed it? It seems to me that he made a specific choice not to. Especially with the "run along" line.
/r/seduction10/01/13 07:03 PM
0

That's a bunch of crap. She's got major walls and issues with expressiveness. She probably did want to fuck - but only because that's all she's used to getting.
/r/seduction10/01/13 07:01 PM
0

run along. I'm proud of you.
/r/seduction10/01/13 06:59 PM
1

See my edit.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 09:15 AM
1

What ever you do - once you do find the success you're looking for here, don't let it become the way you define your value. Keep doing your hobbies, keep learning what you love to learn, and let the rest follow. This might sound fucked up at first, but; at least you know your interactions will be genuine. Just focus on being "the person you imagine yourself to be." I'm speaking as an attractive guy who has gotten laid well more than his fair share (130+), and I can say with honesty that I would …
/r/seduction26/12/12 07:52 PM
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That looks like active participation, to me. Edit: Let's be realistic here - there is no context for what is happening. I have no context, at least because I haven't played the game and don't intend to, but the way they've chosen to animate the characters, it seems like there is some kind of existing sexual tension between the characters. The clip starts out with him feeling her up, and later she beckons him seductively and the character follows in response to it. Also, there is absolutely nothi…
/r/MensRights26/12/12 06:54 PM
6

The point, though, is that this needs to be taught as a structure for attack on intelligence first, and as a case study second. That way the root can be identified when not dealing specifically with the case study.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 06:35 PM
14

Lets be realistic here. The only reason to think it's rude is if it makes you feel butthurt.
/r/seduction23/12/12 08:46 AM
17

It's good.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 05:58 AM
3

Love yourself and the rest will follow.
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:41 PM
16

That bugged me too. Glad someone already pointed it out.
/r/MensRights10/11/12 06:54 PM
1

Yeah, I do both.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 04:22 AM
1

A sociology grad who I work with said smile faces on the bill contribute to higher average tips. I can use all the extra help I can get. :P
/r/MensRights05/11/12 05:55 PM
3

Social acceptability aside, men don't get arrested for wearing speedos either.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 03:59 PM
1

That's ridiculous. Breasts are attractive for the same reason pectorals are. The assumption is that they give an indication of care-giving ability. Neither are technically sexual, scientifically speaking; neither are required for conception or birthing.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 03:58 PM
5

We should all just live in bubbles and only ever view each other through screens.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 03:51 PM
9

No, I'm a "breeder" according to all my gay friends.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 03:50 PM
3

It's funny that you missed the point of the comic, then. Sandpaper is marketed to predominantly male construction workers. It's hard hats and gruffness on that box. It's exactly the same thing, but in reverse. In other words, Dilbert is taking a shot at the fact that this happens on both sides of the isle.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 06:57 PM
1

It's not the gift. It's the expectation based on gender, about who gets what, who should act what way, or discrimination for any innocent preference, that is a problem.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 06:54 PM
18

Servers don't write "Thank you, it was great" They write, "Thank you! :)" Source: I'm a server.
/r/MensRights31/10/12 05:56 AM
7

Succinct.
/r/seduction29/10/12 07:18 AM
4

This is what you're looking for.
/r/seduction29/10/12 07:17 AM
2

Hello. Thanks for writing. :)
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:57 AM
0

Needs two line breaks. :) Also; Reddit Enhancement Suite might be useful to you. On the topic of your post: this is something I've also spent some time pondering about. It's a tricky subject, because it's hard to tell if this is a result of anything feminism has done, or if it's a part of the opportunistic reaction of our modern Robber-Barrons (aka, the 1%), wherein they've identified this movement as a way to lower wages. Am I trying to suggest that feminism spurred lower wages? Absolutely not …
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:54 AM
2

But the wage gap isn't even real anymore, in most areas in the US. In NYC, for example, they're most certainly ahead on the average.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:45 AM
1

Cake and correctness!
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:42 AM
4

Yeah... 'cause the world can wait... >.> Edit: Family is important, but hesitation always scares me most in the long run.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:36 AM
1

This is one of my major problems with video games. When a particular game is no longer vogue, there's very little left to show for the time spent with it. At least the graphics in real life don't expire when you get old, and the experiences continue to be relatable.
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:58 PM
1

My point was that equality issues effect everyone.
/r/MensRights08/09/12 02:28 AM
0

People who do nothing but sit on the couch and watch television and play video games are boring. Those are not hobbies, they are soul sucking diversions from the outside world. As someone who melted his youth with television and video games, despite having genuine outside interests(like music, rock climbing, snowboarding and traveling to name a few)... The outside world is much more fun, and you will be much more fun and interesting if you engage in it. I know a person whose only major hobby is …
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:02 PM
13

other people ftfy.
/r/MensRights07/09/12 05:24 PM
4

I came here to say, Sorry for the unfair laws and for people who just suck. FTFY ... because that is what this topic is really about. I think you hammered it much harder than I woud have, though.
/r/MensRights07/09/12 05:21 PM
1

Read this: How to Talk to Anyone Googling "How to talk to anyone pdf" may be helpful if you can't buy it.
/r/seduction07/09/12 01:56 PM
3

There's a few ways to think about it, but it's all speculation. The one thing to remember is that just because you slept together doesn't mean you're now a couple or in love or what ever. You probably became a little needy, fishing for the affection, when you would have been better off just chilling out, being laid back and just smiling and enjoying the time.
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:44 PM
2

I've rarely ever had luck at night clubs - they baffle me. The funny thing is; I'm fit, well dressed and good looking (at least good enough). I don't fit the bro or pop/hip-hop styles though. I've got plenty of confidence (I've photographed riots from inside the clouds of teargas and I've slept with over 100 women); I just can't figure out the approach at a club.
/r/seduction05/08/12 09:13 PM
3

Thanks. I was trying to not simply call bullshit - I can definitely see how this would work at a uni party.
/r/seduction04/08/12 09:11 PM
5

What part of the world do you live in? Around my area (Southern NH and Boston) girls don't seem to like to dance with guys out of their group unless they've been talking to them first, much less kiss them on the dance floor. I like the moves though.
/r/seduction04/08/12 02:45 AM
2

I'm a big fan of; look, smile, shift eyes to lips then back to eyes, casually look away. If she smiles back, still casually look away, but get up and go talk to her.
/r/seduction04/08/12 02:39 AM
1

I think you're misinterpreting the "I don't care either way." He was just detached from the direction - in other words, he was totally aware that what he did was potentially offensive (and even said so) and let her know that if she was hurt, he wasn't going to press the issue. Imagine if she was hurt and then he spent the rest of the night trying to apologize, when all she really would want is for him to just leave her alone. Night ruined for everyone.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:26 PM
1

Every interaction has to start somewhere. Saying he didn't care just means that he was not attached to the outcome of the interaction - which is probably a large part of why she ended up giving him her number without him having to ask. He was able to make a connection with her without any sort of assumptions about where it was "supposed" to go.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:23 PM
7

Side bar is your friend.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:18 PM
1

That's what I like to call an "inspired moment" - there was purity in your intent. You went with the moment and weren't trying for some predetermined concept of where it would go. Chuck Close says, "Inspiration is for amateurs" ... but for most of us, inspiration is all we have. ...and it goes a fucking long way.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:15 PM
1

When you are confident, it's not work, it's just the order of things. In fact, following through with these things can be viewed as a series of small victories on a regular basis.
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:24 PM
1

You are acting overly obsessed with sex. Being awesome is not explicitly, "OMG! I want to fuck!" It's, "OMG! I want this person around all the time because we have good times!" ...the sex follows.
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:23 PM
1

Not if you do shit. If there is a reason you don't have a lot of friends - just moved to an area, are too busy with all your awesome stuff, etc. then it's not such a big deal. If it's because you have a hard time getting close to people who are around you when you're doing the stuff you enjoy doing, then that's another issue.
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:18 PM
1

You can do one of three things that seem to work to keep her respect and keep her knowing you are in charge and centered You only listed two.
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:16 PM
2

I would consider calling the police and reporting the forgery. That's a pretty serious offense, and if it's typical of her, having it on paper will help you in court.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 02:22 PM
1

Ask her what she looks for in a best friend. If that sounds like someone you might be (not someone you would make yourself be) then maybe you have a winner.
/r/seduction16/06/12 12:51 PM
1

It sounds like she just moves slow. Ask her what she looks for in a boyfriend?
/r/seduction16/06/12 05:37 AM
0

How about, "What a bummer... Well, that's equal rights for ya!"
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:24 PM
2

High five! :)
/r/seduction04/06/12 09:10 PM
2

I came here to comment that the two candid shots of her make her look very cranky and unfriendly.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:37 PM
2

Don't let this die on reddit - please write a letter to corporate and the managers of your local theater to actually complain where it might make a difference.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 04:55 PM
10

That time you broke both arms, right? Must have been tough, but good for you.
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:32 AM
5

This is actually not a bad idea... The one way to really deal with fear, anger and anxiety is to accept it, let it wash over you, and then move on. Fighting feelings that you are having is denying yourself the right to feel. Feel. And then choose your next move.
/r/seduction22/05/12 08:12 PM
2

Umm... if you're clicking with women in social circles, then you're already doing "it". Try pretending like you already know them?
/r/seduction22/05/12 08:10 PM
1

"way" is an understatement. :P
/r/seduction19/05/12 02:49 PM
19

Get into the Burning Man community. Show up for the party, stay for the love.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:25 PM
2

I usually talk about how in restaurants, waitresses are traditionally women and make less than minimum hourly wage, in most states, because of their tips, but they often do not claim a large portion of those tips. (When I was a waiter, I only claimed 15% per check, but was making 30%+) At the same time, jobs like construction and mechanic have higher hourly rates that all gets taxed.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 07:10 PM
1

Brilliant. I kinda needed to hear something like this as a goal setting prompt, right now, too. Thanks.
/r/seduction27/04/12 11:03 AM
4

Thank you for posting.
/r/MensRights26/04/12 02:14 AM
1

Sometimes, at half time, the coach needs to remind the team that despite the blow-out, shut-out score, they haven't won the game yet and they need to keep their heads in the game. Only, the game doesn't end until you die and scoring once is no reason to rest on your laurels.
/r/seduction22/04/12 10:17 PM
0

Now try not to stammer and jizz on yourself when you call her. Take the pussy off the pedestal, my friend.
/r/seduction22/04/12 10:13 PM
4

Good work. Keep smiling. Sometimes we succeed and sometimes we fall down, and sometimes our friends help us back up, but it is our own to feet we have to stand up on.
/r/seduction21/04/12 12:56 AM
14

grabbing my and turning it You accidentally a word.
/r/seduction16/04/12 01:37 AM
4

Your aggressive approach only makes it harder to get your point across.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 03:28 PM
45

Trolling is for the lulz... This was just shitty.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 05:44 AM
26

So you've hardcore friend-zoned them already, huh? They must really need the help. ;P
/r/seduction05/04/12 10:12 PM
1

I've lived in and out of the area for the past ... 18 years. 31 now. Went to high school in southern Maine and lived in Seacoast NH area (Portsmouth, Dover, Somersworth) for a while, in and out of doing things like teaching snowboarding at Killington in VT and doing work-trade for skydiving at Skydive New England... and rock climbing and taking photographs (which I am just about to get my BFA in) and what ever other fun stuff happens to grab me. :) I consider myself a high value person - my frie…
/r/seduction04/04/12 08:10 PM
1

Too funny. I'm also in Manchester. I may have an opportunity work out for me that would mean I will not be around this summer, but if that doesn't happen, we should get together. As far as NH quality... Having lived in 9 states and traveled more than 8 months internationally, plus plenty domestically, it does seem a bit strange here sometimes. OKCupid seems to have endless women in Somerville that I might be compatible with...
/r/seduction04/04/12 08:01 PM
6

I'm inclined to agree. Though, whether or not the suggestion worked is irrelevant. The reality is that she may have actually learned something through an interaction that tested her limits.
/r/seduction04/04/12 07:46 PM
1

North of Boston I want to shake your hand.
/r/seduction04/04/12 07:41 PM
1

Don't be so worried about how you should escalate. The fact that you got her to beg you for a hug and elude to more suggests that you may have positioned yourself to reverse the roles that Make3 suggested. To me, it doesn't sound like you were the girl, rather you were with a woman who is used to playing by the boys rules. It sounds like you need to continue to relax. Allow yourself to escalate, but only make it a priority when your intuition tells you it should, not when you think some silly ru…
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:27 PM
1

Shit's in my new book. How To Defer Eggos and Still Get Pizza Sauce Buy my seminar and I teach you how to sauce like a proahh!!
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:58 AM
3

No no, I think it's the other way around, if she defers eggos, then she's not coming over, so she doesn't need breakfast, but if she defers tires, then that means she needs a ride and you have a chance.
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:22 AM
17

What the hell does that have to do with getting a number?
/r/seduction01/04/12 08:52 PM
4

She clearly thinks you have something to offer her. Why don't you just continue to be yourself and play the game as it plays out?
/r/seduction01/04/12 08:26 PM
1

Or the presentation... :) I'm generally respectful and curious. I got good responses.
/r/seduction30/03/12 05:01 PM
1

I understand that my experience is anecdotal, but ultimately, especially in this case, it's my experience that matters... and my experience supports the claim. :) I can accept that perhaps being a traveler helps me to be more light hearted and that in turn helps my results, or perhaps the typically more liberal societies are more in tune with my personal tastes, or some other outlier. Regardless, I do notice important subtleties such as, when dancing, girls in Europe, from Czech Republic and Ger…
/r/seduction30/03/12 04:10 AM
0

Generally being much less uptight about this sort of thing than girls are here in the US.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:57 PM
4

When I was growing up (31 now) in California, LA area, hooking up was sex for us, too. People from New Jersey use it for making-out, too.
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:13 AM
5

Yay for Europeans!
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:57 AM
26

Who says you're my target? Gold. :D
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:53 AM
1

Don't let social conditioning force you to think that it makes things more formal. It's only more formal if you want it to be, but either way stay out of that awkward, "what are the expectations of a formal date?" mindset and remain true to you.
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:31 PM
0

Ridiculous. :P
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:26 AM
1

I hope you don't totally avoid conversation for the "right time" - a girl like that is getting approached daily. Keep your cool and keep the rapport going.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:17 PM
6

Sometimes I really believe there are people who think they are some kind of moral reddit crusaders who think they're doing some good by trying to derail conversations and drive away contributors. Ignore them. :(
/r/seduction12/03/12 06:21 AM
2

Don't take it personally - assume for a moment that you really didn't know if it was an advanced 'trick' or not. He would have been helpful to you, right? :)
/r/seduction12/03/12 06:14 AM
40

A confident woman will not draw her leg away. Some girls are just completely shy and are scared of accidental contact and may pull away anyway.
/r/seduction12/03/12 06:11 AM
1

I have tried. I was injured so badly at 26y/o that I spent 6 months in a back brace and 10 months on crutches and then a bit of rehab. I chose to live with him, 15 hours away from all my friends and support network, while I recovered. My energy levels were fairly high throughout, I was just broken in pieces :P and I tried to get him to teach me to play guitar (as skill goes, he's a fairly accomplished musician), but he's become pretty lazy and set in his ways... It was a long 12 months. Thanks f…
/r/MensRights05/03/12 06:16 AM
1

Nothing that extreme - just hoping he'll be able to make the best of it. My Father and I don't have much of a relationship at all - I'd like to think it was an avoidable condition had either of us tried something even slightly creative.
/r/MensRights04/03/12 07:21 PM
1

It's amazing how simply cleaning up the space we live in can improve moral and productivity so much, isn't it?
/r/MensRights04/03/12 03:51 AM
16

The advice was about how to make the best of his situation.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 06:00 AM
145

Get some cookbooks and learn to cook WITH your Father.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 01:45 AM
19

Wounds? You should be jumping for joy from cloud to cloud with little cartoon cupids and rays of golden sunshine because you didn't get gradually slaughtered by what ever kind of crazy manipulation that one was hiding under the hood.
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:45 AM
24

This is true - I once went home with a girl who dropped this line on me. The vibe was right and I had just walked her to her car, so I said, "What? That's the end of the night?" in a playfully 'that's ridiculous!' tone and she immediately invited me home.
/r/seduction28/01/12 06:42 PM
3

Well first of all, I don't ever at all think of it as an accomplishment. I personally never ever go out looking to get laid - if nothing else, it just doesn't work for me. Heh - I've barely even had conversations with women who I've bought drinks for, but I've gone home with more than one who bought me drinks. I don't know how that works. :P I suspect it has something to do with having no expectations and not giving a fuck. Never EVER have expectations for sex. The only expectations you should e…
/r/seduction21/01/12 05:12 AM
1

Yeah, I guess I kinda figured it was just a running joke. :P
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:41 PM
3

I'm willing to bet there are immeasurables like relationship with family, personal ethics, willingness to take responsibility for ones own actions and generally learn to be accountable that play very deeply into that. People who make the same mistakes over and over again - which includes rationalizing the same behavior without ever taking the time to consider the impact of their part in things - are likely to rack up numbers of unstable relationships. It sounds like OP AND his wife have a very d…
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:47 AM
7

burned?
/r/seduction18/01/12 08:07 AM
2

Shooting pool is only one way to keep yourself occupied while at a bar. I've had sex with somewhere around an average of 10~ women a year for the past 12 years, but I rarely ever pick them up at bars. Less than 10 from bars, probably.
/r/seduction18/01/12 08:05 AM
2

You need to train them to be your wingmen. :P
/r/seduction18/01/12 07:58 AM
12

Does it matter? I've had sex with over 100. I lost legitimate count around 40-50, everything past 75 is ball-park, but I know I've been with more than 30 women since then (since I average about ~10 a year for the past 12 years and I was only with 2 girls before 18). Knowing that number isn't going to make my future wife any less important. :)
/r/seduction18/01/12 07:57 AM
2

Yeah - they assume I'm carefree and not serious about relationships. It's simply not true - I'm huge on affection, but I'm a do-er not a show-er in that regard... I'm not insecure about my feelings, so I don't feel the need to parrot on about them. But when I really fall hard and am much more direct and expressive, they run away screaming and flailing their arms over their head because they don't believe me, or they get scared. It's frustrating.
/r/seduction16/12/11 01:20 AM
2

So, uh... How old is your sister? ;) But seriously - nice post. I try to push this kind of attitude every time I respond to an /r/relationship_advice or other help thread. It's good to know there are others out there pushing the positive message.
/r/seduction15/12/11 07:01 PM
2

For some reason, with me, they really sense that even if it's not true at the moment. :(
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:59 PM
2

To a feminist it may seem that way.
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:33 PM
3

That's great.
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:33 PM
4

I can't fathom why you would have been down voted.
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:31 PM
8

Why does limited government necessarily coincide with mens rights advocacy?
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:08 PM
2

Maybe he's not sensitive to it - as an MRA myself, I am also aware that often in social situations, the perception of system bias toward men gives men leverage among uneducated individuals?
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:06 PM
0

Out of curiosity... Did you let yourself get baited into rebutting their narrative instead of being patient and keeping yourself on topic?
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:04 PM
2

In my experience, the trick is to speak about men's rights from a human/equal rights perspective (which comes naturally to me because that's exactly what I am... ymmv). If you prop yourself up as supporting equal treatment before getting into the subject of disproportionate bias based on outdated material, or outright assumptions, about the gender treatment, then you're in a clear position to support the idea that as a MRA, what you are advocating is that there should be NO preferential treatmen…
/r/MensRights13/12/11 03:56 PM
1

You just have to have a near death experience, spend 10 months on crutches and 6 months in a back brace and 3 major surgeries over 6 months and have an ankle that doesn't bend all the way anymore - no big deal.
/r/MensRights11/12/11 08:21 AM
2

I'm 5'6" with a 31in inseam and I wear 30 to 32in waist pants. Being a little bit on the smaller side tends to be a good thing, I've noticed, because all the average sizes are picked through so regularly.
/r/seduction28/11/11 07:27 PM
3

I meant to say 10 minutes at a time. I wasn't counting the stores themselves as the halls. But to answer your question... Thrift stores, online and I used to live near an EMS that I didn't have to enter the mall to go into. I've bought some kind of designer, boutique or otherwise unique piece of clothing at a thrift store every time I've gone since I started going to them... I paid $10 for the jeans I'm wearing now - the designer's website says their jeans usually go for $100+ Gotta keep your ey…
/r/seduction28/11/11 07:18 PM
2

To be fair, I haven't spent more than 10 minutes in the halls of a mall since I was 19.
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:50 AM
3

Slutty girls go to the mall to hang out. ;P I've had my ass grabbed by random teenage girls in the mall three times, back in my mall days... :P
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:26 AM
5

Couldn't the reaction be based simply on the types of places you're going?
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:17 AM
1

I thought it was 18 in most states. Did this change any time recently? Edit: Wow, I just looked up a list - Hawaii and Idaho it's 14. That's crazy. Edit 2: Anyone care to explain the footnotes and slash items?
/r/MensRights16/11/11 10:18 PM
1

Wait... if that person was of legal age to consent to sex in this case, what's the problem with the pictures? Just a quirk in the alignment of the laws? o.O
/r/MensRights16/11/11 10:18 PM
3

So quit with the superficial games and interact with people on a real level. Your art and your music is a great place to start with learning how to bring that to the people you meet and know. Fall desperately in love with what you do with your life and everything else will follow.
/r/seduction16/11/11 05:58 AM
1

Totally... I've turned down and snubbed girls that beta friends of mine thought I was crazy to be doing that to. When they asked why, the answer is simple, "She's boring."
/r/seduction16/11/11 01:16 AM
11

16 year olds are not children Highly debatable, and the older I get (30 now), the more I agree that they really are. If you want to get all scientific on it - NatGeo recently released an article that stated new evidence shows brain formation isn't even completed until around 25 years old.
/r/MensRights16/11/11 12:41 AM
1

You could try adding a bit of seduction materials to your study list.
/r/seduction05/11/11 06:41 PM
2

Depends on the area and the crowd... and the person.
/r/seduction05/11/11 05:01 PM
3

The midwest. I can't get more specific than that. Area 51.
/r/seduction05/11/11 05:01 PM
2

No one is born with the ability to understand how to interact effectively and effortlessly within their society. What is charisma in the US is not aggressive enough in Greece. What is charisma in Greece will get you arrested somewhere else... Everyone practices - some people just figure out how to start practicing from a very young age.
/r/seduction05/11/11 04:58 PM
3

Try not to linger on apologies when you talk to her again. Make it sincere, but to the point, and focus on the good. "Hey, how are you? I'm sorry if things got weird the other night. We had such a great time all night long, I'd like to keep getting to know you."
/r/seduction05/11/11 03:57 AM
4

I know I could answer this for RZA1M, because I actually wonder how NOT to sexualize a conversation... It's like a reflex for me at this point - even when I don't have any intention to. It can be annoying because then people don't always respect me when I present my intellectual side - at least not until they get to know me... But I really have to think about it and get back to you. It's amazing how well it can work to just being able to make confident eye contact and smile at a person. I once r…
/r/seduction05/11/11 02:45 AM
5

I'm not sure your logic is entirely sound, either. After all, you don't have to be a primary care giver to be a care giver, a parent or an abuser. Exposure matters, but how much and how can we be sure that it's statistically relevant? If a child is abused the one time they were seen, then they were abused. If they were abused one time, it was reported, and then verified, it would be included in the report. So even though it could be reasoned that mothers typically have more access (thus skewing …
/r/MensRights05/11/11 02:19 AM
0

For me, it's all about the eye contact and the well timed smile.
/r/seduction31/10/11 06:30 AM
3

MDMA as ecstacy, in street pill form, is pretty much guaranteed to be cut with something. In my area it's usually heroin. D:
/r/seduction08/10/11 07:09 PM
9

And, as a 30 year old white male receiving social security (thus unable to spend spare time doing volunteer work w/o risking loss of benefits), I've stopped even looking at scholarship "opportunity" emails because I qualify for NONE of them.
/r/MensRights05/10/11 12:44 AM
0

Well then, man! Out with it! How did your music teacher word it?
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:49 AM
1

You already kissed her, dude... It's not like you need major kino when you've got great eye contact and conversation and you've already kissed her. Just take a lull in the conversation to look at each other, touch her hair and then kiss. Also, joking about how the couch is trying to eat you both and you should probably sit close and hold on so you don't lose each other in the belly of the beast could lighten the mood. You should have told her about your mom, for sure. She would have thought it w…
/r/seduction24/09/11 05:40 PM
2

This is only going to work with insecure girls who really are just reaching for validation. If they're at all interesting, showing genuine interest in learning about them can give you room for a 2nd chance on the next encounter. Having too many expectations, or assumptions about what is going to happen - instead of simply trying to enjoy a situation - is a sure fire way to get yourself shut down. Instead of being a lion, you end up building this hungry dog persona and when she pushes you away, a…
/r/seduction24/09/11 05:25 PM
1

Feeling the kind of positivity you felt is a large part of why I go to Burning Man.
/r/seduction11/09/11 07:34 AM
3

Congrats! Isn't it great just being an open human-being and having genuine interactions? It's amazing how easy it is and even more amazing how positive the effect its. :) ps ... [9]? That the tree's thing?
/r/seduction11/09/11 07:25 AM
3

I'd like to see a source for this. This is something that has been floating around for so long and the only place I've ever heard it, aside from coming out of a woman's mouth was in a movie.
/r/MensRights11/09/11 06:22 AM
2

It doesn't even look like she's actually touching him. You can see the edges of the on-camera-flash shadow around her hand.
/r/MensRights19/08/11 10:21 PM
1

I saw him live, I don't know if there are any videos of it.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:07 AM
1

That's pretty typical punk rock. That guy still tells the story about the awesome time he got punched by HR, to this day. I promise you.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:06 AM
2

THough... as much as I enjoy Rollins' spoken word and music, you should hear him talk about how lonely he is these days.
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:55 AM
1

Do you care about the relationship?
/r/seduction09/08/11 01:11 AM
3

Thanks. It makes me sad that people are so god damned nervous about simply communicating their intentions to people. Damned kids. ;) Though OP does have to remember that if he does this, she may not be into it. So he either has to accept that, or admit to himself that he doesn't care and lead her on and potentially ruin the friendship. I still stand by "don't shit where you sleep" comment. I'm mentioning it again because I think that is choice #1 and I should have emphasized it more.
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:51 AM
3

Just fuckin' communicate. A simple, "You're so awesome. I love how we can be friends and still be so comfortable with each other!" Also... aiming outside your social circle is usually a really good idea. Don't shit where you sleep.
/r/seduction02/08/11 01:16 AM
2

http://www.filestube.com/de26707af922506903e9,g/How-To-Talk-To-Anyone-92-Little-Tricks-for-Big-Success-in-Relationships.html I'll just leave this here... Just to note, the author is a woman and even she believes deflection is a very useful tactic for appearing interesting in perfectly normal conversation. It's like make-up - the pros know how to make it look like they're not wearing any.
/r/seduction15/07/11 09:25 PM
1

What's your response to "buy me a drink"?
/r/seduction15/07/11 09:08 PM
26

Something tells me that the only place this will work is middle school or the Jersey shore.
/r/seduction15/07/11 08:13 PM
5

This should be top comment - it's the best conversational response.
/r/seduction05/07/11 02:53 PM
2

That's interesting... I've always felt like hanging out with other girls had a negative impact - other women make assumptions. Though I guess, even if they make assumptions, they do seem more approachable...
/r/seduction05/07/11 02:52 PM
1

Har har! xD
/r/seduction05/07/11 02:49 PM
1

ding ding ding! And girls complain that guys play games.
/r/seduction05/07/11 02:48 PM
19

You may want to consider obscuring any direct reference to the actual URL in this post so that it doesn't end up being the first hit on google and outing you.
/r/seduction03/07/11 01:00 AM
16

Raleigh is still smallish. Mediumish at best.
/r/seduction03/07/11 12:59 AM
3

Don't forget to replace the x's with numbers. ;P
/r/seduction27/06/11 04:32 PM
3

I've had really good luck with rock climber college girls being smart. From the conversations I've had with other people, any girl who goes to school and also does other hobbies trends towards being smart. In other words, do the things you love and meet people while you do it.
/r/seduction26/06/11 06:08 PM
1

There are plenty of types of girls who want to see how tough you really are and will play like that just to see if you're quick enough to keep up. (the one word answers) It takes intuition to see if she's into you or not, though you have to make sure you keep it seeming like you're impartial. The second you seem like your reaching for it is the second you lose it.
/r/seduction26/06/11 04:19 PM
6

US should condemn rape. ftfy.
/r/MensRights23/06/11 04:56 PM
1

You asshole.
/r/MensRights21/08/10 11:58 PM
2

Oh wait, that's a "typical" thing to say, right?
/r/MensRights28/07/10 06:34 PM
0

Funny. As an aside, the school she worked at is about 15 minutes from me, in the next town over. I wonder if I could get a date...
/r/MensRights28/07/10 06:33 PM
-1

THREE SUM The sum of all parts is 3. There are 3 individuals, together they make a sum of three. Blah.
/r/MensRights11/07/10 04:27 PM
2

Yes a women having an affair with another woman is as adulterous as a man having an affair with another man. The only reason why this is at all a question is because the 3sum fantasy is rampant, that doesn't change the fact that if someone is dishonest, their dishonest, no matter the shape of the ugly bits they're bumping against.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 10:35 PM
1

It's true. btw: litigiously is a real word, firefox and chrome spell check isn't that great when it comes to word variations. :)
/r/MensRights08/07/10 10:33 PM
18

Barring infidelity, how does a legal contract not hold up in court?
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:05 PM
13

Or that they're mature enough to be open and have intellectual discussion about realistic scenarios. The fact that his wife brought it up is hopefully a sign that she wanted to extend her hand.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:04 PM
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