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Yes. The positive masculinity that women find attractive is projected through curiosity. Having genuine interest as you mentioned is incidental to screening a woman for what's best for you. That is the real masculinity: knowing what you want and seeking it.
/r/seduction06/02/26 09:06 PM
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Success breeds success. When you get girls, you change in unconscious barely noticeable ways that women can detect. It's preselection and a calm, confident attitude that is bred from a string of prior successes. Lots of rejection can tense you up, make you more desperate, etc. that women also detect
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:17 PM
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If she asked you out, and she's not clearly being just friendly, then she's pursuing you. You should go. Whether or not she has plans after shouldn't bother you, because you need to stay in your frame. You agreed right? So stick to your word. Go and just have fun with her. If she's having a good enough time, she might cancel her plans after. And if you cancel with her, and the other girl doesn't want to do anything anymore (after you already said you're booked) well then you have nothing at all
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:07 PM
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You better get used to the games Have you considered just not giving a shit about having a girlfriend? Sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on it, and I wouldn't be surprised if that's coming off to the women you talk to. Try sitting back, stop expressing your own interest, and just flirt and have fun
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:59 PM
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I love 3, 5, 6, and 7. I would add in active listening as well. If you are really focused on what the other person is saying, and not worrying about what to say next, your thoughts and words will come naturally and thus you become your most genuine self. Active listening also translates to the other person that you have an authentic interest in what they have to say (Dale Carnegie)
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:42 PM
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You can't change it so own it. There are things you can change though. If you're not in the gym you better start if your sexual attractiveness is important to you. Building muscle mass, losing body fat %, and stretching for better posture will help massively.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:36 PM
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I think this is interesting advice but should be taken carefully. There will be a lot of inexperienced guys that will use this as a tactic to try to increase the attraction of women they are hyper-interested in. They'll believe that all the have to do is ignore her and they'll win her over. And then the day comes where they haven't heard from her in a week and they'll wonder what they did wrong. Not responding for x amount of time can be useful to mirror the girl's current interest in you. But i…
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:12 PM
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But you don't need her to show any emotion. Tell yourself that and try to believe it, even if you think you can't. You need to get into a positive feedback loop. Don't rely on anyone's emotional feedback to justify your happiness. It's not easy and no one said it would be. And shitty days happen. But at the end of the day, try to be just a little better than you were when you woke up.
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:24 PM
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Ignoring the fact that it could be 1000 other things besides you, think about the emotional vibe between you rather than just the number of times you texted her. Maybe she left the date with a bad taste in her mouth, and when she got the "how's your day" text it was too emotionally empty for her.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:29 PM
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Don't let it get you down. Everyone experiences this at some point. It's the number of reps you put in, the more experience you have with different women. Mindfulness meditation also may help to practice presence. Maybe keep something on you, like a ring or a note on your phone to remind yourself to stay grounded. And whenever you catch yourself off beat, accept it, and then mindfully move back to your grounded state.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:24 PM
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I wouldn't text her back and just hit her up again in a week or so
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:15 PM
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why did she lead me on like that I'm gonna save you a lot of time. Never, ever ask this question. No one will ever have an answer for you and you'll never find out. Even if you did know the answer, it's a solution for one girl specifically. You're basically asking how you can be more attractive, so read the wiki and work on yourself.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:13 PM
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She went out with you, so the "5-10" other guys is irrelevant. But it sounds like you're answering your own question and realizing your mistakes. So next time just try to relax and read her a bit better. Some girls love to be texted all the time, some don't. The important thing is to be yourself and keep it short and sweet, don't game too hard, and stop asking her how her day is (i.e boring as shit). Spark emotion, get compliance, date close. Who knows, maybe you really didn't turn her off that …
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:05 PM
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Pretty much anything other than a "fuck yeah." If a date is truly excited to meet you and have fun then they will make every opportunity to be there. If they're not 110% sold, there's always the possibility of a flake. It's unfortunately just a common thing. Girls will flake just because they're tired and want to watch Netflix, and they'd prefer that over having to meet someone new that they're not "fuck yeah" about.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:55 PM
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Good job, brother. Don't listen to a lot of the bullshit coming in on these comments. It's totally fine to approach at the gym. And you were not being creepy, you were being friendly. Even if she does have a boyfriend, all you did was talk to her. Never be ashamed for having less experience in the social department. Just like in the gym, you can't just start repping 300 bench. You gotta work your way up.
/r/seduction03/03/21 05:08 PM
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Sorry this is late. I want you to know that what you think I said is not actually what I meant. That's all I want you to know. Whatever you felt when you read my comment, it was not meant to imply at all what you felt. OP got a text so it's hard for him to analyze the woman's body language or behavior. And it's not exactly easy to text someone you don't know randomly "how are you feeling based on that last text." I'm sure you could in some way, but that's not the point and a different argument. …
/r/seduction27/11/20 03:41 PM
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You are taking things out of context. It's not sexist to distinguish biological responses to hormones. It's semantics. I would never imply that women only use emotions and not logic, and you're absolutely putting words in my mouth. In response to OP, I told him to stop listening to what she says, implying for OP to listen to how she says it or what she does. Not to outright ignore her. The fact that you'd even conclude assault from this is prejudice and reckless. Women can absolutely be logical …
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:22 AM
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You know men can be feminine too right? It's polarity, not "men are logical and women aren't."
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:03 AM
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Stop listening to what she's saying. Feminine energy is based on emotion, not logic. You're using your logical brain to evaluate the feminine and you'll only be disappointed.
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:43 PM
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Read the Way of the superior man by david deida
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:42 PM
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Keep it short. Like 2 half-assed sentences at most. Seriously. Keep it simple. Don't ask questions. Make statements. Be sly. Ignore her questions. Even though she asks she doesn't want an answer. Short teases and banter only. The only exception to these is logistics Goal is to get her out again to see you ASAP. You should not be texting these girls for 3-4 days without asking them out if you've already met them.
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:40 PM
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Tell you what if you didn't make a move and this girl just came onto you then you don't have much to worry about. But getting out of your comfort zone is going to help you the most. Not just around women but everything. And I mean if something scares you, go do it. The more you get used to being scared and doing it anyway, the less you'll eventually care about how you progress with some random girl. Also if she starts kissing you bro just go for it lol. She already likes you, just do what comes …
/r/seduction17/11/20 12:43 AM
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Desensitized is meant in the context of not caring what the outcome is, outcome independence. Approach anxiety could be part of that. But if you're angry you need to work on that. Are you angry with yourself or the women you approach? You can't be angry at a woman for not liking you
/r/seduction17/11/20 12:37 AM
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I think he just means that your porn fantasies will never be a reality. So if you get so used to them that you need it to come, you'll always be left unsatisfied
/r/seduction17/11/20 12:28 AM
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Maybe try r/rateme. This is not the place. A principle of this sub is not being a doormat to get a woman's attention. Specifically giving them unwarranted validation. You're taking advantage of that for your own selfish reasons
/r/seduction17/11/20 12:25 AM
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If she does reject you make sure you take it positively. Don't be awkward about it, smile, and move on with your day. If she comes in there all the time it will be awkward all the time if you make it awkward. If you handle it well, you may even turn her on a bit and there's a chance she might be open to being asked again in the future
/r/seduction13/11/20 06:35 PM
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Kick some ass, brother. Maybe try getting her out during the week instead of the weekend (be busy, even if you really aren't). You could make a plan to go out for drinks but get her to meet at your place first. Invite her inside for a glass of wine while you "finish some emails for work." If she doesn't want to meet at your place first she probably just wants more time with you before any escalating, so just take her out and have a good time.
/r/seduction08/11/20 07:54 PM
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You mean seduction?
/r/seduction08/11/20 07:02 PM
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Date other girls and focus on yourself. It's the only answer. There's no sugar coating it. If she does reject you, deal with it. Reality is some people will just not like you even if you really like them
/r/seduction08/11/20 06:49 PM
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I think you just need to relax. Have you been stirring over this for the past 2 days? Sometimes girls just don't respond and that's the way it is. Give her some space, maybe that's her way of telling you. You need to be focusing on yourself and other girls during this time. You're the prize here that she needs to win, not the other way around. What you mentioned were some pretty high indicators of interest, so she probably hasn't lost interest in you unless you did something to fuck that up thro…
/r/seduction08/11/20 06:45 PM
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If you sit all alone and surround yourself with only this one girl, how do you expect yourself to stop having feelings for her? You need to get up and do something about it. There is no magical pill to change your mindset and feelings, only action. Your emotions are an effect of your actions.
/r/seduction08/11/20 06:34 PM
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Understand that this is generally hard to do. It's not that it can't be done but don't be surprised if it doesn't get you anywhere. Reply to one of her stories by teasing her. Create an emotional spike that gets her interested. Either get her laughing, maybe make her slightly angry, but I always think the best way is to get her to defend her self with a simple tease. If it comes off right, you could nail it by getting her to validate herself to you. Keep the messages light hearted and for God's …
/r/seduction27/10/20 04:32 PM
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