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Don’t want to argue with my hero here, but even if the odds of divorce might be lower, where’s the upside? Sure it’s a romantic gesture, but you if you want, you can drown your girl in other romantic gestures - even jewelry, just without putting a ring on her.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 06:46 AM
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Don’t want to argue with my hero here, but even if the odds of divorce might be lower, where’s the upside? Sure it’s a romantic gesture, but you if you want, you can drown your girl in other romantic gestures - even jewelry, just without putting a ring on her.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 06:46 AM
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Didn’t even read the details before replying. Don’t get married. There are zero benefits no matter what your woman or sex life is like. You can have a long term relationship, buy a house and even have kids without getting married. And keep the girl if you want. Getting married isn’t going to “secure” anything. Nothing is going to get better. Of course you can get married and still have a good relationship. Being married is just Red Pill on hard mode. It can be done… but why make things more diff…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 06:40 AM
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Funny post. I think monk mode has been invented to get rid of whiny people and make them disappear for months. Don’t do monk mode, especially if you’re an introvert. If anything, it will make you worse.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/25 11:08 AM
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I think this would be even better and punchier, if you cut out the long introduction and just started the post with the headline Loser behavior, followed by the bullet points. I slightly disagree with the humor point too. I think what you want to say is that people with humor as the ONLY coping mechanism are not good. You know, people who throw jokes when professionalism is expected. Or at funerals, because they don’t know any other ways to talk to people. Like a character said in a movie: “ever…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/25 09:24 AM
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It seems that walls of text are the very essence of the Red Pill these days. Almost every post is incredibly long and detailed for no real reason. The length usually doesn’t add any value. Obviously this does not apply to the endorsed participants. Not saying that TL;DR isn’t condescending, but there’s a reason for its popularity here.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/25 09:02 AM
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This sounds like an introvert autist writing to justify themselves. Silence might project power if you’re a Japanese shogun-style businessman with real power and just let your underlings handle the dirty work. Or the 7 figures business owner. Otherwise it’s just projecting insecurity and being afraid to talk. Women very quickly find the alpha in any group. The guy who’s absent from the conversation and sits in the corner isn’t the exciting, intriguing guy the guy himself things he is. Just the o…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/24 09:23 AM
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"When she wants space, give her so much space she feels like Neil Armstrong." Definitely do not move back together and stop being so nice and understanding. I would normally say demote her to a plate, but it seems that you couldn't handle it and she'd be back to girlfriend status in no time. It's time to let go of your oneitis, AWALT, as has been proven to you by no other than herself. Good luck! You can be proud of how quickly you took your life into your own hands, now don't let go of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/24 10:42 AM
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You’re misinterpreting the message. Be who you are, by all means, but be the best version of you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 05:27 PM
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I wonder if there’s a third way. Divorce that cunt and live your own life in such a fashion that you reclaim the respect of your kids. In the US, this is of course more difficult as the laws are written in a fashion that gives your wife the advantage. But not everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 05:25 PM
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Like Hemingway wrote, people go bankcrupt “gradually, then suddenly”. The slope is slippery and pointing downwards, but not at such a steep angle that you’d start fighting back. Like frogs, at first it’s cold water that is only gradually heated*. *) This is a faulty metaphor because if you actually try cooking frogs, they’ll just jump out once the water gets uncomfortably hot. In that they’re a bit smarter than men. 😅
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 05:22 PM
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Fully support this. Also: not sure when this subreddit went downhill, if it ever did (probably around the time Reddit went woke and quarantined us), and nothing against the old guard, but I have a hard time remembering when I last discovered a new writer talent here. It’s either walls of text or some blue/purple pill bickering how the rules don’t apply and I don’t want to go to the gym boohoo. We should definitely bring back the old classics, but I wonder if there’s a mod-endorsed way of introdu…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/24 04:42 AM
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"She isn’t allowed to go to the bar scene without me." This, by the way, is just insecurity from your part.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 05:01 AM
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Just a counteropinion for the takedown below. I read this post every once in a while. I think the blackpill ending could be (and should be) shorter, but I think it's still one of the most brilliant posts on this forum, and there have been plenty of good ones. Red Pill poetry! And abundant with Red Pill truths, whether you want to hear them or not. The man isn't an endorsed contributor for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/24 11:53 AM
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Interesting question, I’m not sure I can, but I can try. One-night stands (1) and sexual relationships are about a raw “want”, it’s a feeling thing. Something biological. Women fall for bad boys, for the adventure or for the danger or for pure lust for a well-trained body. Etc. Reason doesn’t have much to do with it. She’ll just let go and reason it to herself somehow later. (Or use the classic woman line: “I just wasn’t myself that night”, which allows a woman to justify anything and yet keep h…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/24 06:54 AM
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This was so long that OP must be one of those guys doing 50 rep sets at the gym. It’s also terrible advice. Most TRP readers have the emotional skills of a barbell rack. Zero. They can’t read women and like someone mentions above, one mistake at their own gym and they’re done for. Then they’re also losing their most important self improvement asset: access to the gym. If you are an ultra masculine, confident alpha, go ahead and approach at the gym. Chances are you aren’t. Don’t approach at the g…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/24 09:55 AM
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u/Blocknghost advice above is great Make sure you frame things right - you aren’t poor, you’re building for the future (investments) Learn to cook. Perfect for frugality, but also… she’s coming to your place and you get to be the boss and make innocent fun of her, give her tasks to complete, etc. Situational alpha, always good! And finally… - Frugality isn’t really sexy. Like ever. Perhaps be slightly less frugal around her, if you can afford to spend a bit. It might be worth it. If she’s a gold…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 08:39 PM
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This is actually great news. You don’t want to wife her anyway, so it’s an automatic ‘stay out of that “provider potential” basket’ card. It’s actually surprisingly easy to accidentally qualify for relationship potential while you’re looking for a one-night stand. Those two things often don’t go together.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/24 03:48 PM
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This is good stuff. And the TL;DR “You can’t afford to drop girls out of your rotation because of small details” is solid, realistic advice that don’t remember having seen before. But it probably applies to most of us. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 08:13 PM
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Also: playing with her hair and touching her neck a lot seem to be good indicators of interest.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/23 08:14 AM
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There are a lot of people telling you to dump her, but in fact she should dump you. Everything in your message tells about your insecurity. Trying to mate guard never works (if you don’t know what it is, check the sidebar), trying to remotely mate guard is even more desperate. “Lengthy discussions about what makes us uncomfortable” “we had an understanding she shouldn’t have one-on-one interactions with other men”, etc. She’s lost respect for you and deservedly so. Sorry. Learn from this and mov…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 06:41 AM
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“My conversation with the girl started off good. We talked about her kidnapping.” 🤣 This FR deserves a trophy.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/23 06:03 PM
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Agree that you should talk to a therapist. It seems there are pretty deep underlying issues. Don’t confront her in any way, you’ll just make yourself look even more like an insecure fool.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/23 06:39 AM
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Dude, it’s not your height, but your issues with self confidence. Tall or not, it doesn’t really matter. Exhibit A: I’m tall and remember there were much, much shorter dudes pulling much, much prettier girls when I was younger. I didn’t have an advantage at all. Those guys had game and I didn’t. Exhibit B: Attractiveness is a combination of many things and your height is just one of them: your game, your posture, your body, your perceived status, your confidence… you can easily make up in others…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 07:34 AM
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She might not even have a boyfriend and even if she does, it might be a bad relationship, etc. My advice would be to just ignore a boyfriend line such as this and proceed as if she never said it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/23 09:51 AM
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If you’re in your 30’s and your main goal / worry in life is getting laid, you’re doing it wrong. Find your passion and start building your empire. The women are a lagging indicator; they will follow.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 09:02 AM
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Jealous losers already stabbing you in the back. God more or not, you’re putting in the effort. Keep going and keep writing.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/23 05:59 PM
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Great work on yourself. You should pat yourself on the back. This is what life is for a man - you conquer a mountain and there’s always a higher one ahead. To me it seems that your oneitis is simply more at ease with herself. She doesn’t come off as a super arresting personality either. It’s more about an aura of easy confidence. Perhaps it’s her upbringing, perhaps the brothers, perhaps the good looks. But keep up the good work. The simplest way to become more interesting is to simply do more. …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/23 04:57 PM
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This subreddit is filled with losers complaining how their weak dads and evil moms have ruined their lives. That’s so fucking pathetic. You and only you, are to blame if things are going the wrong way. Stop blaming others and accept 100 % responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 06:38 AM
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Going for coffees is an easy way to destroy any sexual tension between two people. It doesn’t always happen, but the environment is way too casual and “everyday”. Go for drinks next time. With the next girl. This one you can strike out. (In my opinion, and people may disagree, burgers aren’t ideal either. Are you going to bed together on a full stomach? Nope.) In other things, too, you give off the vibe of a boring person and, perhaps, a niceguy. Liking her stories, asking if she got home safely…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 07:56 AM
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If she doesn’t let you see your mother… next. Your mother isn’t there forever. Schedule a visit.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 01:22 PM
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If the mother is ok with that. Unlikely. Plus, we live in the age of technology. The kid will have the means to track you down eventually.
/r/RedPillParenting07/07/21 08:44 AM
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You may be able to limit your damages a bit, but I suggest accepting the inevitable: that money’s no longer yours. It’s gone. Try earning more to make up the loss.
/r/RedPillParenting06/07/21 06:49 AM
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They are a bunch of losers who have handcuffed themselves into their own sinking ships. Or is “whales” more appropriate? Definitely don’t listen to them. You already heard everything you need to hear here.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:07 AM
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There is a rosy side to this. If she doesn’t go to the police or begin legal action, her friends and eventually everyone are going to start questioning her version of the story. You can even start asking people who don’t believe you: If she’s innocent, why doesn’t she go to the authorities? But the suspicion about you is going to stick with you for a while. If you’re a good guy, you will eventually be back in the good books. And, if it comes back to you after a few years, don’t hesitate to push …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:18 AM
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Has happened to me, two options for you: Lay low, don’t talk about it apart from your dearest friends, perhaps find some new friends. It may come back to haunt you later, but after a few years all the evidence that you guys even had sex is gone and odds in the court are possibly even in your favor if she starts spreading the story again. Alternatively, all out: confront her and say you will lawyer up and go to the police unless she apologizes publicly. However with the boyfriend there giving pre…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:42 PM
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If your 20s are the best, most enjoyable age for you, you’re doing it wrong. You should be grinding like hell and laying the foundation for your future success. Be it at the gym, at the university library or wherever. Sure, you’re allowed to have some fun, too. But don’t postpone the hard work part to your 30s and 40s - your body can’t take the hours anymore and if you just party in your 20s, you’ll start off your 30s as a complete loser.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 01:00 PM
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Life’s a competition. You can’t just quit the game and leave with your winnings. Even if you settle down with a “good” girl, that’s not an escape from the market. Either there will be still be guys hitting on your girlfriend and she could leave anytime. Or perhaps you marry her and she turns into a nasty, fat Hausfrau hog that no one else wants. Just to clarify since you seem to harbor blue pill dreams: That’s not a good option either. Sorry bro. Keep fighting
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:13 AM
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I’m not the guy asking for advice though
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:07 AM
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Guys, never have coffees on first dates. It’s boring and there is zero chance of a sexual vibe. Just jump directly to #2 aka drinks in a nearby bar. Edit: dinners next? No. That definitely doesn’t work. You only take a girlfriend to a dinner place. OP doesn’t know what he’s doing, stop the upvotes
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:17 PM
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I got bad news for you bro: The marriage ”solidifies” nothing.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:21 PM
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Surprised that you would take the political opinions of your broad seriously. In such matters, treat her like a little sister, aim for funny lines instead of real things. Also don’t ask for her opinion about guns in the house and other matters. She wouldn’t know a gun from a wrench. Edit: hit the gym! Your bae might crawl back to you later, downgrade to plate and ignore the political stuff from now on. Remember, you are a fun, successful guy and not a depressing, raging acitivist.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:23 AM
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You’ll thank yourself later. Good luck man. Don’t make it a long process. Just leave / cut her for from your life.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:36 PM
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On Snap or somewhere else? Often they see the message anyway in the notification preview. Plus they get bombarded with messages by dozens of thirsty orbiters so they just can’t be bothered. It could be a power play too, but probably they just can’t be bothered to invest so much effort into a single guy.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:21 PM
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Your SMV isn’t high enough. All girls on Tinder look better in photos than in real life. If you are pulling Tinder 6-7s, they are in reality 4-5s. Improve. Also, if you aren’t in the top 5–10% of guys on Tinder, it just doesn’t make sense for you anyway. It’s an efficient market, the good girls match with better options. Instead, approach where there’s less competition and you can stand out better with your strengths. Tinder is brutal. Try art exhibitions, street game, etc.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:42 AM
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Jesus, man. Downgrade to plate. Perhaps she has changed, but it rarely happens. The only times I see change is when women have to because they’ve hit the wall and it’s time to settle down with a provider who’s good with Excel.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:27 PM
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It’s not just gay men. You will get listened to and taken more seriously in biz life, too, when your posture is straight and you have those broad shoulders your mother always wanted you to have. A sweating land whale might fill the shoes of the funny guy in the meeting, but nothing else. (To answer your question - no I don’t get pissed off if a gay guy is into me. I can’t blame him. I’m awesome.)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 11:07 AM
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Don’t blame your “beta” father for your sad state of affairs. He probably did his best and you should be grateful. You, and you alone, are responsible. You’re still young. Write down a vision and start working towards it. Lift. You’ll be in better shape in no time. The best time to plant a tree might have well been 20 years ago, but the second best time is today.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:49 PM
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You're in deep waters, man. You need to a) stop complaining about how women are (they are the way they are – no changing that) b) stop being taken advantage of and c) (most importantly) you need to get to abundance mentality and start spinning plates. Your current relationship doesn't work, get out of it, work on yourself, make it rain. Even your current LTR will want to jump in your bed after you leave her.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:41 AM
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What’s the expiration date? It’s usually printed on each wrapper. Easy math to walk to the supermarket and compare the dates - you can probably make an educated guess when they were bought. But still don’t confront her. The only reason to tell her about it would be for us to place entertaining bets about her excuse. My money’s on “I kept them for a friend.”
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:13 PM
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This is solid advice. Don’t be a loser and make a big number out of it. She’ll likely never confess to anything, so you just look like an insecure loser that goes through his girlfriend’s purse. They may be old. They may be for your use. She may be cheating. She might be prepared to cheat if a tempting opportunity arises (sadly the most likely option). At least she uses protection, yeay! Follow the situation and be more careful than usually. Trust is good, control better, as good ol’ uncle Stali…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:09 PM
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Probably she thinks that meeting at your place means sex. Sometimes I bring dates to my place for a short while before we leave for drinks or food... and plot twist, we end up staying. So I’m suggesting the interest isn’t strong enough or she’s afraid of being labeled a slut. Come up with a funny response and just meet her elsewhere. Game is still on. Edit: Well, actually, coffees and a sexual vibe are a bad match anyway. They don’t go together. You should only meet girls for drinks anyway. I ca…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:18 PM
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Strongly disagree. Pets can be nice, teach you responsibility, be lifelong friends and make you happier. But if taken "to impress the ladies", as OP suggests, it's an insanely stupid idea. Downright autistic. Sure, he mentions mental health and responsibility, yet he spends about 50% of his post discussing the affect your pet has on women. There are a million easier ways to get the attention of your coworkers and women. "Your pet will give you an opportunity to touch women, if you play your card…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 06:53 AM
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Studying sustainability is the worst part of your plan. It’s a soft science and you don’t learn anything that you couldn’t learn by studying a few books. Waste of time... it’s like tattooing “well-meaning loser” onto your forehead. If you want to work with sustainability, use your accounting / finance background to apply for sustainability jobs. With these skills, you are much more in demand than with your master’s plan. Also, I’d stay where you are for a while, since you are in a great learning…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:15 PM
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For many people, monk mode is a way to stay in their comfort zone and to avoid talking to girls. It sort of gives you the permission to avoid rejection and taking risks. Not saying it’s harmful to focus on yourself for a short while... but don’t do it forever.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:58 PM
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In my experience, push-pull seems to work well with girls. Shower them with some attention. Show real interest. Make some moves. Then disappear for weeks and appear completely indifferent to her. So stop talking to her, but don't appear butthurt, just busy having fun. She'll work to have your attention back. Maybe.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:35 PM
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AWALT. Don’t get tricked into serious long-term relationships and a lot of skeletons stay in their closets.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 06:28 AM
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I don’t agree with the original poster. You’ve made progress in your life, you haven’t been orbiting a “friend” girl, now they’re suddenly interested (again). Play it right, don’t get overly invested and that could be an easy, enjoyable hookup. Although... I think Roissy always stated that the only reason to get back together with an ex are the new breast implants she just got. Solid advice probably. 🤔
/r/seduction24/02/21 06:23 AM
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No don’t too this, too late for the “start small” shit now. Go all in. Meet her, tell her what your mutual friend told she said, kiss her right there. You are allowed to say something cheeky to make up for your earlier ineptitude. “Good things come to those who wait” or “That was nice. Guess I’m not gay after all.”
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:01 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:51 PM
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Time is more important than money. If you spend a lot of time at the job and are forced to live an unhealthy life because of the job (thus directly shortening your life), that's a double whammy. Get out.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:58 AM
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I have a friend who is just that... only about 10 years older. He used to work on the Wall Street, now he's doing something related. He lives in an awesome house, has a great career, a girlfriend that is 15 years younger (and pretty!), drives an expensive sports car, etc. There were tons of jealous people telling him he should settle down with someone his age and that it's sad how he's still chasing younger chicks. Whenever there were hiccups in his career, many people were secretly happy. That'…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:32 PM
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Do your own research, but no, I don’t think it’s bad. Why would it be? It gets a bad rep for the cult-like following, but if you find a decent CF gym with good people, it can be a really fun and social way to work out.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:18 PM
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I think you are doing a lot of things right. Don’t give up. It’s perfectly normal to feel lonely, especially if you are in hardcore monk mode (which I don’t recommend, by the way). You need to start meeting people. The dog might be great idea. Hang out with other dog owners. Start doing CrossFit instead of regular gym (more expensive but a great way to meet people). Start networking in industry events. Perhaps you could try to find a mentor in your profession?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:44 PM
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Slow down your part of the texting. Let her hamster. You're a busy guy. Perhaps you're chatting up other, prettier girls? Working on that business venture? Out on a date with an iron bar and big weight plates? Plus, if she's hot, she likely has a ton of orbiters constantly bombarding her with memes and messages. Don't join the herd.
/r/seduction30/01/21 09:15 AM
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I believe you actually must always have it. Example: Imagine you're a person who gets along just fine eating noodles and sleeping on a hard mattress in a studio apt. That's fine. No big money needed. But imagine your mother then turns old and ill. They eventually always do. If you don't have the funds to find her proper care, she'll be placed in the cheapest rat-infested public facility and left to die. Or maybe you're enjoying your lowly blue-collar job and enjoy making music on your free time.…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:08 AM
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That happens to everyone. To me, too. The decay into a beta is a slow one, which means you don't see the difference between Monday and Tuesday. But you do see a major difference after a year, it compounds and slowly erodes away your manhood / independence / personality / whatever.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:59 AM
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I should've taken more chances (on hot chicks and in life in general). I should've started to work on my physique much earlier. Lift! I shouldn't have wasted so much time. That's the only valuable thing on the planet. I should've started to work on my finances much earlier. Money equals freedom. I shouldn't have married the hot girl who gave me an ultimatum (ouch) I should've worked harder. (Still should.) I shouldn't have forgotten the TRP teachings so quickly after getting into relationships w…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:41 AM
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That sounds better already. Whenever a girl has sent me a "we should talk" message, I've either just casually ignored the text or sent back something witty to 'disarm' the question. Most get the hint and don't push it further. Some do disappear, mostly just for a while but some may be gone for good. That's the risk you take when you don't agree to exclusivity.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:34 AM
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Meeting her to discuss your relationship was a beta-is mistake already. Dodge / ignore the questions. Answer with silence if necessary. Don't even get into a conversation about it and especially don't start reasoning with her ("I need time"). You're in her frame now, she's running the show.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:48 AM
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I don’t know who told you to befriend single men of your own age. I recommend befriending younger guys (At the gym maybe? CrossFit? Moonlight as a bouncer in a cool bar?) instead. Or girls but that’s another story. Additionally, you need to widen your social circle. It’s a numbers game - more numbers on your phone means there’s always someone to do things with. Moving out of the suburbs might help.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:32 PM
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They just met. They live in two different countries.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:57 AM
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There’s a great post on TRP called: “You got a stranger pregnant. A guide.” It has great answers. Personally, I would ghost her immediately. You’re completely in her frame.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:40 AM
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Fuck, no. Two long relationships and it seems to always break apart at the 7 year signpost.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:22 PM
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I’m kind of living your dream / plan. I work as a relatively high-paid mid-upper tier marketing exexutive in a developed country and do nice vacations to beachy resorts. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your plan. It’s specific enough and most importantly, doable. Personally I might aim for a “broader” business degree, there’s very little science in digital marketing to study in a good school. Learn accounting, management, etc. too. If it’s just digital marketing / growth hacking / etc.…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:18 PM
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She has a boyfriend but she’s exploring her options. AWALT. Obviously, she isn’t relationship material but who cares. Fuck her if you can. You can memorize some canned replies* in case she eventually brings the boyfriend up. *) a recent favorite I saw here: “I have a boyfriend too. He thinks I’m gay but I’m not.”
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:37 PM
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Yes. A lot of people actually and I do it every once in a while. But I never make a big number out of it. I never explain or give excuses. I just, sort of, fade out the relationship. Most people don’t realize anything at first but I guess after a while they realize they aren’t getting the face time they used to get. Most people aren’t perfect, including you, so have some mercy. My mom is sometimes a mean bitch but I try to tolerate that a little bit. She doesn’t have anyone else to be a mean bit…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:33 AM
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Some countries like Germany give substantial tax benefits to married couples.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:18 PM
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I converted myself from a shy guy into the guy who talks to everyone. It was definitely a role I was playing at first - fake it till you make it! Didn’t feel comfortable at first, of course, but once you do it for a while it becomes second nature. I mostly emulated a few Australian guys I had met while traveling - super laid back, confident, etc. It helped that I moved into a new city with a new social circle so on day 1 I’d just jump into the new me. I had bought some fashionable clothes to to …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:50 AM
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I don’t know who said it originally, but for most people “monk mode” is just self-betrayal. You give yourself the permission to withdraw socially and not approach. It’s popular because for most non-social people it’s so easy, almost natural. But what you’re really doing is just staying in your comfort zone. You could read books, lift and still game girls.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:52 AM
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I remember reading about two guys in a popular band, it was probably The Rolling Stones, who agreed / made a bet that they weren’t allowed to shower or take a bath while on tour. They kept going for over two weeks and kept getting stinkier and stinkier, but the girls would still throw themselves at them. They were famous after all. Anyway, they had to stop when a girl that was giving either one a blowjob got so disgusted by the smell that she threw up on his boots. 😅
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:55 AM
7

Jesus, man. Getting rejected and openly acknowledging it by having a discussion about it? Everything wrong here! Read the sidebar and start from there.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:25 AM
7

So what was the problem, that she was older than the rest of the group? No wonder she got insecure.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 08:04 AM
2

It’s a numbers game at this point. You need scale, since everyone is busy and people have their own lives. And you need to be super active. Make it happen. I keep in contact with a lot of people, different circles of friends, former colleagues, etc. When you’re in touch with a lot of people, there’s always someone who has time to meet up. Social media, despite its shortcomings, makes it super easy to stay in touch. Throw in a funny link or personal story every now and then. Ask how people are do…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:58 AM
11

Why is it so hard to believe? SOMEONE must be in the top 10%. It’s a sensible assumption that a few guys on this forum are there.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:37 PM
2

This is good already. No other than Arnold Schwarzenegger hired comedy writers to help him with punch lines in debates. Google AMOG on this forum and you might find good raw material already. I’d avoid confrontation as long as possible. There isn’t anything to win there.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:19 PM
1

What a great post. Agree 100%. Will also add “cheating in plate game” to my daily TRP vocabulary. It’s spot-on 😅
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:12 AM
1

Your first option is awful, makes you sound like a pussy. You definitely don’t want to go into the territory where you start discussing her feelings. I’d combine the two. “Okay. I understand.” (1 sec pause) “Come over tonight after work.”
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:08 AM
1

Apply through this thing called the internet. The job openings are there too. Just let them know you have a Green Card, which means the paperwork isn’t complicated. The Diversity Visa aka Green Card lottery application period is open right now, by the way, until November 10th. It doesn’t cost anything unless you fall for the scammers.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:53 AM
23

It sounds like you’ve let the opportunity slip already. No money and the year is almost over. The chances of winning the Diversity Visa are around 2% for Europeans if I’ve understood correctly, so it’s a twice in a lifetime opportunity.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:32 PM
2

Contrary to popular wisdom, dinner is usually never good. First of all, if she's hot, there are a million dudes spending money on her. If it's nice restaurant, you are splurging on a woman you haven't even fucked. That reeks of desperation. Also, what happens after the dinner? You're both stuffed, that's not great for sexual tension. Drinks, guys. Always drinks, if you insist on a date-y setting. But even better if you do something casual first, like an art exhibition.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:51 PM
1

Don't ask her out. A 'date' is, in this case, a step towards the beta territory. Tell that you're doing something that's somehow related to your art (so that it seems innocuous) and invite her to join you. This should be close to where you live, because eventually, you'll end up at your place.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:45 PM
1

I recently made a bad financial decision. (Or at least right now it looks dumb, who knows what the future brings. Maybe it was a good decision in the end. But right now it looks like a wrong call.) Although it was a tiny one compared to my total net worth, I feel it’s affecting my self-image quite a bit. It will pass. What I should think, and what you should think, is: it was a lesson and we’re probably better off with it than without it, despite losing some money. You gained the chance to becom…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:09 PM
2

I don't use Tinder, are there some defaults like that?
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:54 AM
5

I'd say 1/4 find the idea of an older guy disgusting, 2/4 might be open for it in the right circumstances (be it that they're traveling with no witnesses, or that the guy looks younger, or that the guy is high-status, etc.) and 1/4 prefer an older guy to a younger guy.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:52 AM
8

"Be actually interested" is solid advice. People love talking about themselves. Find and read Dale Carnegie's 'How to Find Friends and Influence People' - there's probably a copy in every library out there. (However, when it's about hot girls, every beta guy is bombarding them with questions. In these cases, you should rather make statements and instead of being sincerely interested, play it off with a funny vibe... but there's a lot of that on the sidebar, no need to try to repeat it here.)
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:47 AM
11

I'm in my 40s now. When I was in my 20s, I was a socially awkward niceguy and a lazy slob with zero ambition. I even made fun of people who tried harder than me, especially if they succeeded. I didn't work out (I tried and quit after a few sessions, every time) and survived on a diet of junk food and Coca Cola. Went out nightclubbing and drinking all the time, with little to show for it. Got into debt and was constantly asking for money from my parents. I did have friends and even girlfriends, b…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:41 AM
1

That was perhaps strangely formulated. The above mentioned friends = the people we went to school with at the time. Most of my “better” friends that I’d known much longer didn’t even hear about it, so fortunately it was mostly just an isolated incident. Still a good example. This happened a long time ago and, not surprisingly, I don’t remember being in touch with these people much during the last 10-15 years.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:21 PM
19

Everyone here is telling you to lay low and abandon your entire social network to start afresh. Jesus. All because of a girl you haven’t really wronged. I’d at least seriously consider a different approach: go on the counteroffensive. I suggest going all out defending yourself. Write a social media post about it, underline your innocence. Tell that you are pursuing your legal options, not just exploring them. Talk to a lawyer, it’s worth the money. This happened to me a long time ago, before soc…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:56 AM
3

Sending nudes is something exciting, playing with danger (I.e. an action that isn’t reasonable but based on emotions). That you bore her by explaining your encryption standards (i.e. try to negotiate with her using the voice of reason) isn’t helping you. Keep improving yourself and don’t give up.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 12:17 PM
4

This. Additionally, OP did himself no favors by confronting the girlfriend and acting butthurt about it. What kind of reply could he even expect that would make things better? That the girl was held at gunpoint? However, he’s smart enough to realize himself that he’s slipping into beta territory - all hope isn’t lost!
/r/askTRP06/09/20 12:15 PM
2

It’s over. Time to leave. However, before you do, use your phone to record her apology, just in case.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:33 AM
1

Tempur(pedic) is a pretty well-known brand.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 03:34 PM
-6

Go for it. Try to build some tension. Ask yourself: what would a jerk do... and then do just that. Maybe you could ask your current plate for advice, “since you’re going away.” 😅
/r/askTRP15/08/20 07:27 AM
2

You did the right thing. It’s normal to feel a little bit quilty for making a selfish (but correct) decision. You’ll thank yourself later, many times.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:52 AM
1

Jesus, man. You're asking us if you should marry her when it's obvious that you should dump her already. No longer sexy, a fat slob, negative attitude... that's not what an "amazing wife" sounds like. Do you know how difficult that shit gets when you are actually married? Besides, weren't you already married once? Don't waste any more of your youth on the wrong woman.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:51 AM
1

I don’t think so. “Plate but don’t tell her.” If the girl moves to another city, it wouldn’t even be that difficult.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:25 AM
1

Read the sidebar, man
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:32 AM
1

No reason to break up. Demote to plate and continue with your own life. (She might not actually move, anyway.)
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:33 PM
1

Everyone repeats the money part - let me add to that. Save (=invest) a big chunk of your income. Don’t blow it on stupid things and if you’ve already gotten into debt, make getting out of it a priority. Eat well and sleep well. Get regular exercise. Don’t get married. These will get you very far already.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:10 PM
14

Don’t. You can approach hot, fit chicks everywhere else. You don’t want to become the gym creep that women talk about. You’ll have to switch gyms eventually. Even if you got strong IOIs, you’d still want to avoid approaching anyone. Focus on your training while at the gym, ignore the girls.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:47 PM
2

I have young kids. When the kids are your own, you’re going to love them and being around them, even if you have zero interest for other people’s kids now. So kids are fine. You must carefully vet the mother, though. It’s a person you will have a long relationship with and it can be very easy or it can be very difficult. There are a million people telling you not to have kids - but these are always people who don’t have kids of their own. Why listen to a person telling you traveling is shit if t…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:42 AM
29

Life is a single player game. No one is ever truly “yours”.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:23 AM
2

Maybe you just end up in relationships with the wrong/non-ideal women? I don't know what your own SMV is like, but if it's above the average, but isn't high (enough), you may end up with one of the lower-end hot chicks. Good looks, but a dull personality and no ambition. In a perfect world, time spent with your LTR does not seem like a waste, but it's awesome. Ideally she should introduce you to new things and keep your life exciting, contributing to the fun and helping you grow. It sounds like …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:19 AM
3

Maybe you're still in the anger phase yourself. Make progress. Eventually you can serve as a role model for the people who are starting to suspect something is wrong.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:07 AM
5

OK, shit, you’re in awesome shape. I’ve been trying to get where you are for a long time without success*. Any non-obvious advice? *) of course just trying helps, too, I’m not a fat slob either
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:02 AM
2

There's a lot of quality stuff out there, too. It's my favourite social media, because I have access to bright minds across the world. Just block the stuff and people you're not interested in.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 10:28 AM
3

If the guy is a true player, he'll, sadly, turn this to his advantage. Not sure it makes sense to be the white knight here... unless you're looking to bed his girlfriend in return.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:25 AM
1

See this as a chance to bang her. Make sure your text game is extremely tight, no long convos about your feelings.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:23 AM
48

This is golden advice. First of all, having a lot to do in life alone makes you attractive. Most people don’t have any spark in their life and simply spend their waking ours gazing at their phones. Also, hobbies and passions connect you to new people, which gives you even more things to do. Etc. TL;DR have a mission, stay busy at it!
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:38 AM
2

The Wall Street Playboys blog covers everything here. I think they even have year-by-year guides for becoming rich on the Wall Street. Spend some time on their stuff, possibly read everything. Additionally... google the word “skiving” or “shirking”. It’s about pretending to work insane hours instead of actually doing it. According to quality publications like The Economist, it’s a crucial skill in Corporateland. https://www.economist.com/business/2014/10/25/a-guide-to-skiving (You’ll still work …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:32 PM
2

I don’t usually cut people off completely. I rather mentally “downgrade” them. Less attention from me, less invitations to hang out together, definitely less trust, slower replies to texts, etc. I just sort of start fading them out. That’s more merciful than just disappearing. The downside is that people won’t even realize until much later, so unlike in your case, they’ll never wonder if it’s something they did. (But most people never do.)
/r/askTRP07/05/20 07:18 AM
1

At least where I live, most people drive a car to work. People moving around on bicycles are a small majority. However, in city planning, their opinion has a higher weight, as the city gov are trying to make the streets navigable by bike and convince more people to switch into biking. This (and matters like vegan school meals) is also happening in many other progressive [larger] cities around the world. I can easily imagine it isn't visible in smaller cities yet, it isn't in my country either. M…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:29 AM
1

You’re right - just like cyclists, vegans are powerful in pockets. However, in them their influence vastly exceeds their absolute numbers, again thanks to the obedient majority. Example: in fashionable HCOL cities around the world, the restaurants are adjusting their menus to be 100% vegan. Also and especially so, the schools and kindergartens, where a single type of a meal must serve all pupils, are switching to 100% vegan ingredients. This is because normal people can eat vegan food, but vegan…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:36 AM
5

Majority or not, that doesn’t matter. In our times and in democracy in general, the shots are being called by the most vocal minority in each case. Sometimes it’s the feminists, sometimes the cyclists or perhaps vegans. The majority of people are passive observers who don’t have opinions of their own. They just follow and obediently swallow whatever people are shoving down their throats. “People want to be told what to do so badly they’ll listen to anyone” as the saying goes.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:44 AM
9

It’s very important that you leave them feeling good about you, especially if you’ve fucked them. Even if you’re just using them for sex, try not to make the “pump and dump” obvious. Rejection isn’t something hot girls are used to, and it can turn the sweetest girl into a vengeful, nasty bitch and a pleasant night into a (fake) rape charge or at least an accusation just to damage you “because they can”. Source: experience.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:04 AM
23

What’s wrong with that? Your career is an achievement just like a muscular body - you needed ambition, discipline, grit, etc. to achieve it, so if you have it, it’s a big plus. Most don’t. So I can see why a girl would be attracted. Don’t over analyze and don’t draw artificial lines between “the real you” and your career. Just enjoy the benefits/the advantages it gives you, you’ve probably earned them. (And do feel free to keep your dollars to yourself.)
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:38 AM
17

”I don’t get laid. I blame the fabric of our society being ripped apart by social media.” 😂 Bro. Time to take responsibility of the sad state of your affairs. Stop blaming the world for your setbacks. It is what it is, turn it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:14 AM
3

Most people who think they are brutally honest or “straight talkers” are either just inconsiderate assholes or socially challenged. Usually the latter. Nobody wants honesty anyway, let alone brutal honesty. Nobody likes negativity, even if it’s true. Just leave it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:13 PM
2

Motivation is for losers. If you rely on motivation, it boosts you only for a very short period of time and you never actually get anywhere. Discipline and systems are what you’re looking for. Google is your friend.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:50 PM
8

It doesn’t matter at all whether she ‘confesses’ or not. Even telling her was a bad move.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:42 PM
4

Yes, start a side hustle immediately. (The Wall Street Playboys have good material on that. Also on investing. Google is your friend!) I’d also look at bigger cities with private schools that have the opportunity to offer better pay - you may need to “brand yourself” a bit as the forward-looking-technology-prophet-teacher who is taking the schools and students to a new century. The rich parents are never present but they’re willing to pay a lot for someone else to educate their kids. Maybe you c…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:17 PM
2

In Italian there’s a word called “sprezzatura”, which is practically studied effortlessness. So you hide the effort and approach the end result nonchalantly. At least appear to be willing to walk away, and act as if she’s just a side project in your life. (She should be.)
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:01 PM
7

I think Uncle Vasiliy, for example, has always been an advocate for long-term relationships. Just several of them, simultaneously. 😎
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:10 PM
63

I’ve never been a fan of the monk mode - self-improvement is fine, but most people seem to use it as an excuse to avoid approaching, putting themselves into play and getting results. It’s an easy trap to fall into (for me, too) - “the future me is going to be so awesome that there’s no point in doing x or y now, better wait for the finished product.” But life is constant improvement and you will never be ‘ready’, so don’t wait. However... Right now we are in a forced monk mode and there’s no oth…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 01:07 PM
2

No. But his parents pay the bills so he’s at their mercy for a reason.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:44 PM
2

just saying that he’s older than 18, meaning that his parents don’t have to put up with him, unless they want to - so he’ll have to bend to their will in some areas and that’s probably only fair.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:44 PM
40

Yeah. In life and politics it’s sometimes important to learn to play a role. One day, your boss may display similar symptoms. Tell them what they want to hear. Smile, nod, agree... and do whatever you planned to do anyway. (Plus, you’re 22 and still living with your parents. They sort of have the right to lay some of their bullshit on you.)
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:37 AM
2

In short, yes. When you start, there's no baseline. (So you can reset your numbers by deleting your profile.) If all nines swipe left on you, it assumes you're at best an 8. If you get no love from eights either, you must be a 7 or below. Etc. Since this surfaced in the media, they've made the process of matching more complex. If you're jacked and look attractive, you still shouldn't get too many fatties.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:45 PM
5

Hate to bring this out to you... Tinder matches you with girls it thinks you have a chance with. (And girls with guys it expects to be roughly on the same level with them.) That’s how their matching algorithm works - it establishes a baseline and then offers you “realistic” matches. This is the sad truth, google it if you must. Hotter women were not interested so you were downgraded to a low tier. Get jacked, take better pictures.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:32 AM
1

Have your blood work done. When I work out really hard and/or don’t sleep enough, I seem to have a lower sex drive. A daily dose of Vitamin D and Brazil nuts* may help boost your testosterone somewhat. *) this according to Tim Ferriss, who isn’t a doctor but “a human guinea pig”. Don’t eat too many, the selenium can be harmful in high doses. You can also overdose on Vitamin D so do google around a bit.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:17 AM
144

I was recently at a party where I overheard several girls discussing the men vs. women in sports -phenomenon. Many in the group held the opinion that, for example in tennis, women aren’t allowed to compete against men for the fear that they might win. And that it should be allowed ASAP. Anyway, I minded by own business and let them keep their delusions.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 01:26 PM
3

Women are awesome. Go out to meet many more.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 07:56 AM
2

If you need to talk to someone, talking to a therapist is a good idea. All in all, showing some weakness and vulnerability isn’t always a bad idea. If you got your shit together in general, it’s ok to open up a little sometimes. We aren’t machines. I’ve never experienced depression or suicidal thoughts, though, so I can’t help on that front. Personally I think the world is a wonderful place full of interesting opportunities and fascinating people, and that observation isn’t ruined by the fact th…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 07:52 AM
13

”I don’t blame you. I think about myself a lot too.”
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:21 PM
1

I don’t think you can save your dad’s finances, no matter what. Ignore the money side of things and focus on spending time with him, helping him with errands, etc.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:29 PM
2

If I remember correctly, Chateau Heartiste has a good piece on escaping the Friend Zone. Google it! The odds aren’t stacked in your favor however. (Someone below writes that you should just be friends with her - that’s not a bad idea, if she’s fun and/or if she’s hot enough to be used as a pawn.)
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:27 PM
44

Great lessons here. The crucial lesson, for me, was the importance of CONSISTENCY. Your buddy got super excited and then quit once the initial enthusiasm ran out. You, on the other hand, enjoy the routine and the process. It takes quite a while to achieve results... and once you finally do, there’s always another mountain to climb. By the way, I wouldn’t belittle bench pressing your own weight. I know many gym-goers can do it, but for the average Joe it’s a remarkable feat of strength. It’s not …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 10:39 AM
1

I’ve used Snap a lot with girls. The only problem is that experienced Snap users can usually quickly spot an inexperienced user (the Snapscore, the emojis indicating your activity level and best friends, etc.)... which in turn often underlines the age cap between a young-ish girl and an older guy. A million guys here will come to tell you that you should have gotten her digits instead. But it’s 2020, just adapt to that. It’s not a sign of disinterest if she prefers to avoid communication through…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:08 PM
0

Do bother. But since the odds are against you, go creative.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:06 AM
2

Use the Voice Recorder app on your phone. If you ever use a laptop at work, take advantage of the webcam to record video (you may want to tape over the indicator light). Very probably you will have to change jobs.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:47 AM
2

Don’t respond at all. She’ll be intrigued. However, do plan carefully what you respond when she initiates conversation again.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:01 PM
8

I remember reading in a study that the underlings prefer a boss who makes bold decisions and goes all in for his chosen direction. He doesn’t even have to be always right, but he does have to believe in his own decisions. Even if he realizes he’s wrong and changes his mind later... that’s ok - hesitation isn’t.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 11:40 AM
1

Don’t have one-itis for that special one job or position you write about in the comments. The world is filled with opportunities. If there’s only one that you’re truly interested in, and badly want, that shows and you won’t get it. You just experienced that. Move to a bigger city with a lot of opportunities quickly and start applying for jobs systematically. You need many things going on simultaneously. Stay on someone’s couch or in a car if you must for a short period of time. You need to be a …
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:52 AM
2

Do you find it easy to do on your own? For whatever reason I find it incredibly hard to buzz the backside of my head, so I always have to ask a woman to help. Preferably not my mother, but that also happens. 😅
/r/askTRP23/02/20 04:02 PM
1

You mention that you’re trying to get him to read Red Pill Literature etc. You might be making things worse with your improvement campaigns. It seems that he feels like a failure to the world and now, failure to you too, despite having raised you well etc. Tell him you love him and that he’s important to you. My dad wasn’t perfect but now that he’s gone, I’d give anything to spend time with him.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 12:44 PM
7

OP: “My wimpy dad is a beta” Also OP: “Since I discovered the red pill two weeks ago...” Jesus. Show some respect.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:44 AM
2

Most people here say she isn’t really hurt and is jumping on new dicks already. Probably. However... Cute girls aren’t used to hearing the word “no”. Or getting dumped. They are used to getting pampered and having all the attention in the world. So when a guy shows up that isn’t taking their shit... I’m sure it hurts. Anyway, now stop talking to her and move on.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:44 AM
15

Seriously? Aren’t the Gulf countries battling with one of the worst overweight epidemics in the world? Hot weather, physical activity isn’t fashionable and everybody drives everywhere (except women I guess, haha) + seemingly loves junk food...
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:22 AM
2

Either you want the change or you don’t. But when you do, start with the small shit - your daily routines are the key to success. You won’t become successful overnight but with small steps that accumulate. Read “Atomic Habits” by James Clear and “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. Start with a growth mindset: become obsessed with improving yourself every day. There are some low hanging fruits, too. Replace drinking with something productive like reading books and sleeping…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:04 AM
14

Why are you obsessed with LTR’s? You’re only 18. Don’t fall for the oneitis trap! Wished I knew at your age what I know now. Good luck!
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:59 PM
24

Congratulations. You just dodged a bullet. Divorce would have been incredibly expensive.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:34 PM
1

Everyone here either gained 25 lbs of muscle or lost 50 lbs of fat... so another perspective. I’m normal weight. Recently started hitting the gym again. Pretty quickly I lost something like 5 lbs. Probably didn’t gain any new muscle, but my posture improved somewhat and I lost the small beer belly I used to have. Guess my jawline also started looking a bit better. But really, it was small improvements over a few months. Even that changed things. Girls at work started touching me for no reason mi…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:11 PM
11

Maybe not, but they do shit test men to know if they are men they want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 08:59 AM
1

Update: Aaaaand they got back together. Fuck.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 07:21 AM
47

Your self-depreciating attempts at humour to “deflect” her tests did you no favors. The first two examples were pretty bad. You did much better on the last one. Apparently you didn’t get laid and probably for a reason. You were in her frame, still.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 07:14 AM
3

Don’t approach men like you’d approach girls. Do it much more casually. There’s nothing weird about that, you don’t even feel like “approaching”, it’s just basic stuff you could talk about with any stranger. If it feels weird to either party, you’re doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:06 PM
14

So your thirsty friends turned into white knights? Surprise! But how do they all know you had a thing together?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:40 AM
1

Block! No use to even see the messages.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:59 PM
1

Just curious - what were the others?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 09:48 AM
17

This. Congratulations, OP. You could have gone through an expensive-yet-useless ceremony in front of all your friends and family and the public humiliation of divorce thereafter. Additionally, you would have had to say goodbye to a big chuck of your material possessions. Never make the same mistake again! P.S. in the years to come, you are likely to run into your ex sometime, somewhere. Sad, bitter and desperate. Only then will you truly realize the bullet you’ve dodged.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 08:40 AM
24

Younger, still attractive women are very aware of the wall and they swear to never “end up like that.” But when they do hit the wall, denial kicks in and they start telling everyone (and themselves) how they are now happier and more confident than ever in their skin and how they’d never want to go back. Then they walk to a wellness center and spend $1000 on anti-aging skincare products and glossy magazines telling them aging is ok.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:53 AM
58

This is some introvert fantasy. The quiet guy in the back no one notices, unless he can stand up and command the attention of the people present.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:36 AM
10

I voluntarily took a longer sabbatical without pay from my current employer. I wanted to travel a bit etc., and did, but it was tighter than expected with money and I also started to notice a strange lack of confidence in myself as things didn’t work out as planned. I eventually discovered that a big salary, high status and “career success” had been major building blocks of my self-esteem - something I hadn’t realized before. And when my self-worth went down, I wasn’t carrying myself that well e…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:14 PM
5

This is awesome. You’ll show up to every party with an entourage of girls. A lot more girls will come to visit them and befriend you. You need to play with your role right and be the cool guy, though. An opportunity! Of course the autistic losers here only see difficulties.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:49 PM
109

People focus on the poker metaphor, which maybe wasn’t that good. But the message is still real. Get out there, stop daydreaming.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 02:05 PM
3

What impresses me most about this story is that you went to talk to a complete stranger in a business seminar about Red Pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 07:06 AM
5

38 here. I've struggled with a lack of purpose and ambition for my job. This despite it being a well-paying, high status one. I can confirm that it's definitely an attraction-killer, so I often switch into a "career guy" mode when I'm around women. If you're making bank and are visibly successful, yet somehow try to avoid the playing the part, you just come off as a beta.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 12:12 PM
2

Financially a disaster and beta af, but in a good school, relatively popular, travelling and partying a lot. If I could, I'd tell the past me to read the sidebar & start lifting.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:52 AM
13

They're not all crazy, despite what the virgin losers posting here claim. AWALT applies, of course, women can't help that they are all women. But not all crazy.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:49 AM
2

I sleep enough, only get drunk occasionally, work out regularly, my diet is OK and I don't fap too often. But I often feel tired and disinterested in everything, including sex. An over-arching lack of passion. It might be a mild depression, too, but I thought the test might offer an easy answer. I've always thought I may have naturally low levels of testosterone anyway. (It's not that my life is awful, things are quite well.)
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:58 AM
4

AirBNB? It’s used a lot for hookups here.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:38 PM
2

Also check your testosterone levels. It could be just that. The need to chase girls is pretty well programmed into the DNA of men.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:35 PM
3

I think this might be a mental issue and since you have a few negative experiences already, you might start overthinking it. Get Viagra / Cialis through your doctor. Super easy, inexpensive and safe. It’s an everyday thing for them and probably fixes the issue immediately. If not, the doctor can help. Take a pill before having sex and that’s it. It also has the advantage that you last longer and can have crazy sex with a group of girls if needed. (Source: I’ve done it.) After a while, you’ll pro…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:16 AM
3

Adopting the habit of casually talking to everybody does wonders. I actually started doing this when I moved from my hometown to a new city. I wasn't the worst introvert, but it certainly wasn't natural – at first. I practically just imitated all the social, easy-going people I'd met earlier in my life. Most were Australian backpackers, I think, super out-going and laid-back guys who were friendly and confident. I'd just try to imagine how they'd behave and do the same. Anyway, it was an act, a …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:16 PM
143

Lots of women asking whether there are men who prefer older women to younger, or fatter women to slimmer ones. It seems that at least 25% of the response is always what they want to hear. I.e. the politically correct response. No wonder they keep up their delusions.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 09:58 AM
3

”The Short Happy Life of Francis Macomber” is a story of a Red Pill transformation, pretty much. Hemingway always works in this context.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 06:19 PM
9

Bartending is a great option - additionally, it’s a “high status job” so it comes with other benefits too. Alternatively I’d suggest a streetwear store, selling jeans, sneakers, etc. This does wonders to your style too.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:29 PM
34

This is good advice as long as he isn’t a millionaire. But if his business really takes off, and he knows he’s made it in life, why keep living like a peasant? Then it’s just a question of whether he wants to finance the lifestyle of the girlfriend. When a guy’s loaded, the girlfriend is usually hot - and living expenses probably aren’t split 50-50. By the way... negative people are never worth it. She’ll just (try to) pull you down with her.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:34 AM
4

I’m more worried about girls going berserk after we’ve had sex and it’s obvious that she shouldn’t expect much more. After such a “pump and dump” rejection girls are often left fuming / their ego damaged and I’m not sure there is an easy way to manage the situation. Apart from always making sure to try to leave on a high note, somehow. But if she expects to see more of you and gets ghosted, that anger starts building and you don’t know what’s coming in your direction. This is why married man gam…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 06:31 PM
1

You’ve already had sex with the friend of your interest - this is, surprisingly to some, a good thing. You’re a lot more exciting already. So asking the girl out on a date sounds a bit too... gentlemanly here. You’re doing great, don’t put yourself in the boring nice guy basket. Make it happen otherwise. Bonus points if the friend girl comes too, girls fighting over you increases your value. It’s a good idea to ‘show off’ the friend girl’s interest too. Pawn + Social proof. Plus, ahem, there’s a…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:57 PM
3

Senior engineers are often important enough to be allowed to be a little weird. Also, he wants attention. Completely ignore it and instead act in a businesslike, friendly manner. It will drive him crazy plus you will look better in the eyes of your superiors. “You’re a successful person who gets well along with everyone” is what you want to project.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:59 AM
11

A good looking watch isn’t a good status symbol either. Women don’t know shit about watches. Maybe if it says “Rolex”, they might think that you’re loaded. But even then you’d need a pretty extravagant watch to get them to look. Watches mostly signal status to other men - and even in that case, the 5% who understand watches.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:55 PM
4

I’ve been there, too. It’s just that if the girl is really hot, she has a lot of options. There’s always a guy with a (...n even) higher SMV. I plated a smoking hot 9 who was very eager to please in bed. At a point, though, I discovered she was also banging a rather well-known film director and hanging out with national-level football stars etc. They had the looks and the status, perhaps even some LTR-potential, something I wasn’t willing to venture into. So keep moving forward and upping your S…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:29 PM
2

There are sneaky ways to accomplish this. Gossip about it with noninvolved colleagues. “Accidentally” include some project-internal correspondence in the bottom of e-mails to your higher-ups. Exaggerate your hours in timesheets. Better still, convince someone else to bring it up. However... it’s important to realize that just grinding isn’t the important part. You don’t often want to be the workhorse but the guy benefiting from the work of the horse. If you do the dirty work, it may even seem li…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:18 PM
2

An attention whore isn’t necessarily a whore. For some girls, their looks are their entire identity and they need the attention. This of course isn’t a good thing either, but still better than cheating. If this is the first time she goes out like this, it sounds like trouble.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:58 AM
6

This. You need to man up, OP.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:22 AM
-5

I’ve never understood the love and admiration he enjoys in the RP community. The guy looks and writes like an academian. It’s hard to read him because it’s so goddamn boring and theoretical. Can’t imagine how that would get anyone laid.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:08 PM
6

Sarah is a slut and she sees you as a co-conspirator. A male slut, if you like.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 09:47 AM
1

I don’t know why some people obsess about marriage. You can have a fine long-term relationship, with kids and all, without sacrificing your finances. So when I’m 40, I might settle down, but not get married. The marriage part in the deal doesn’t strengthen the bond in any meaningful way. It’s the opposite - it actually incentivizes your woman to leave you by offering her (your) money.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:03 AM
1

But what if she doesn’t reply? That you had a great time proves nothing.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:55 PM
3

This has happened to me. Some women don’t handle rejection very well (I.e. when she’s interested in something more than a one-night stand but you have better options). They can decide that it was a rape years afterwards, when you’ve completely forgotten about her and perhaps achieved something in life. It’s a simple revenge. Even if she can’t prove anything, your reputation is tainted.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:52 PM
66

You don't want to die having sex with three girls? Man, that'd be a great way to go as an old man!
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 07:28 AM
3

Also a lesson in how important the momentum is. You did a lot of things "wrong" (hesitating at first, a lousy opener, etc.), yet because you kept confidently going everything ended nicely. Especially the opener part is an important lesson - it's nearly always better to improvize something right away instead of waiting to find the perfect line. A thing to remember for myself, too, there. Everything doesn't have to be perfect.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 10:09 AM
9

Same here. Interestingly, my chances with 9's in their twenties have improved dramatically compared to when I was in my twenties myself. So contrary to the popular belief I'm more successful now when I'm significantly older than them than when we were the same age. Of course it has nothing to do with age – I now understand the female psychology a bit better, dress better, act more confident, etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 10:04 AM
21

This (spectacularly ignore her and don't acknowledge you've been rejected) is a gold nugget of TRP advice. It has worked for me every-fucking-single time. She says no or somehow ignores your advances, you just act cool and start doing something else - like sleeping. All of a sudden she's on top of you again. Many people think this move's somehow unethical and represents the dark arts school of seduction. But I don't think it's that complicated – you are not pressuring her into sex or anything. I…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 10:01 AM
33

I'm not sure why you believe the casual sex personality is the 'real her'. That's the cynic's opinion. It's as real as her other personalities, and there are many sides to all of us. Women are complex creatures. Sometimes they want one thing (security/cuddling), sometimes they want the other (the feeling of danger/lust/sex). Sadly for beta guys, they often want different things from different men.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 07:56 AM
1

There are millions of successful people that grew up without a father or a mother. If you want to raise a conformist, then maybe.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 10:38 AM
2

Why would you need to “convince her”? Because you’d lose her otherwise? Hot tip: it doesn’t help at all in your struggle to retain her. Quite the opposite: when you get married, she now has a good reason to leave you (money).
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 10:36 AM
5

Additionally, ignoring them is likely to attract their attention, so it’s win-win even if you want to end up in a relationship. Focus on improving yourself and doing the things you like in life.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 06:19 AM
12

Don’t approach the girl, approach the group. Give her a lot less attention than the guys. Only after you’ve won the guys over are you even allowed to notice her.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:04 PM
3

But that’s a bigger offense as she will be notified that he took a screenshot - a faux pas on Snapchat.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 03:13 PM
14

I don’t have a harem of young girls but I do get lucky occasionally. I think u/vasiliyzaitzev has put it perfectly: a third of the girls think older guys are creepy and disgusting and whatever. A third are open to the idea in the right circumstances even though they might not admit it it (to themselves either). A third actually prefer older, more experienced guys - because of confidence, charisma, status, money, etc. Additionally, if you look young-ish they can reason to themselves that they tho…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:19 PM
-1

Why is everyone in the States obsessed with talking about their problems? (I assume you are in the US.) Based on my Reddit experiences, everyone seems to be hiring therapists, life coaches, etc. That doesn't sound like very Red Pill to me. Did people like Arnold Schwarzenegger get to the top by discussing their life with a shrink?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:22 AM
9

Monk Mode is an excuse to stay in your comfort zone and not approach / socialize / game. I’m happy if it helped you, but usually you could achieve the same gains without withdrawing socially. But I see the lure of the monk mode as well, so not blaming you. But for most girls, quiet and reserved isn’t “mysterious” but shy or just boring.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:31 PM
2

Underrated comment here. Why would anyone want to live in a place that's generally described as a "shithole"? I can imagine working there, but living? Alternatively, OP, find a way to spend your weekends in London. Right now you seem to be afraid of the "big city", which is just another weakness. "When a man is tired of London, man is tired of life" is an old saying, but probably accurate.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:58 PM
1

This has also happened to me a lot in the past. The key is abundance. If there are no other girls in your town, you need to move out as soon as you can anyway. If she's the only hot girl in the area, she's getting an unbelievable amount of attention from other men, too. So definitely don't get caught thinking about her all the time. Delay your replies to her, act indifferent, etc. Start playing the Tinder game with girls in other cities. Let her see "accidentally" see a notification, etc. And li…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:52 AM
3

Read Hesse’s Steppenwolf... it’s about how we’re all actually several different persons instead of a coherent one. There’s the wolf in all of us. And the nice, civilized gentleman too. Additionally, the ‘Steppenwolf’ in the book is a cool older guy who bangs younger broads :)
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:19 AM
8

It depends on what that thing is. I was in a similar situation, although it wasn’t a friend (nor a “friend”). I told her very publicly that she can’t spread lies about me - and that I’m taking the matter to my lawyer unless she apologizes. So practically threatened her with a libel. She backed off.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:41 AM
2

Labels women sluts for being on Tinder. Tries prostitutes “of all classes” himself. OK. The upside is that this is one of the funniest posts here in a while! That’s a legacy, too.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:09 PM
10

Can’t you just friend them on social media? No need to ask for anything, that’s what the search is for. As long as you have a common friend or know their names.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:51 AM
6

It’s not where you are but where you’re going. Make sure you have big plans and work towards your goals and she’ll respect you for that. Don’t bring up the difference at all. Especially don’t let it turn into a series of awkward self-depreciating jokes.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:28 PM
11

This. Especially on your first nights out alone, you should drink as little as possible. Why? When you eventually become the smooth, suave socializer you always wanted to become, you’ll attribute your success to alcohol.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:10 AM
33

I have some female friends who are either not hot enough or just somehow incompatible with my tastes despite being hot (difficult to explain - I just don’t feel attracted in a sexual way). So they’re just friends. It works wonders to have girl as a wingman. Why not
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:41 PM
1

If you don’t have much experience with women, go ahead and be her friend. Just don’t become an orbiter and never try to flip it into a love affair. Because if you act indifferent enough, she will test you by signaling some interest to see if you go crazy. A sexual relationship won’t happen. Stay firm and insist you’re a friend only. This will help you with other women.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:36 AM
1

I don't know, I'm usually against social media, but I do tolerate Snap. Instagram is about making your sad life look perfect. Facebook is a political circlejerk with your filtered bubble. Snap isn't about politics, and you can't filter it to look good, so it feels more real. Just don't overuse it.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:15 PM
1

Often, yes. But pretty girls often scare off guys. And the girls themselves can be shy too. Some don't want to leave their friends early. Etc. Plus there often aren't enough guys with game in a random club to pick up all the hot girls.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:05 AM
1

I'm not a mindreader, so I can't tell you what women think, only what I think they think. But in my experience enjoying the company of girls - or even better: the girls enjoying yours - nearly always helps. Pre-selection. Just to add to my list above: when it's getting late, the remaining girls on the dance floor will no longer be just a little tipsy, but drunk. Read: harder to bed without risking it with rape charges, etc. But at least for me personally, the late hours can sometimes also work q…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:03 AM
7

Towards the end of the night: You get tired You get sweaty (it’s hot in the clubs) You get drunk Etc. Additionally, the social validation may work against you - to the women still there, it looks that no other woman has chosen you and it’s getting late, so there must be something wrong with you, etc.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 08:30 PM
9

If you do apologize, do it in an I-went-completely-overboard sort of way. Send him roses and chocolate in a heart-shapes pink box and write him a poem. Maybe a pillow to rest his hurting ass on. You know, frame it your way.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:39 AM
5

It seems to be a “ballsy power move” for some. Since nobody normally ever calls. I’m sure it works if you can pull it off
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 07:03 AM
7

Very good points here and in your previous message. Thanks! Keep hitting that keyboard.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:27 AM
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