| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | CMV: Women who withhold sex for a LTR are the same as men who withhold commitment for sex | CMV | Dismal-Occasion350 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 11:28 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | CMV: Women who withhold sex for a LTR are the same as men who withhold commitment for sexMods why isn't this approved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Are you able to see a girl as a “sex toy” and value her as a person in a relationship context?Of course that's the difference between FWB and GF for guys that can't get sex they won't be able choose based upon personality they will take what they can get. Withholding sex for me and my friends is a way to filter you out as a LVW who isn't personable/interesting enough to get a LTR if I like the person enough having sex on the first date is a plus unless they are religious then I like to discuss that with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Who is being a prickly sourpuss? You do realize that the internet let's people say things they would never say or convey online right? Or do you live your entire life the same way as you do on the internet because it seems like you are just projecting your own bad behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Resisting is leaving a situation "half signals" is going up to someone's apartment sitting super close to them and talking about sexual topics. 95% of women dry up if you ask them for sex you have to lead and stop when she says no or leaves. Unless you think women are powerless and don't have the ability to say no or leave at any point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:52 PM |
| 61 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?It often is stupidly insulting especially when it comes from someone online who pulls out advice like "brush your teeth and get a haircut" or "stop being spiteful" because they are based upon assumptions that are not true in 99% of the cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?The point is being a gloomy drag has literally no impact on your dating success an attractive gloomy drag will do well and an unnattractive gloomy drag will do poorly based on attractiveness and not attitude. If you've had men approach and reach out to you then you cannot pretend to understand what these men feel like. Your sympathy and everything about your argument comes across as fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Can you get sex and the positive validation that comes with it without paying while having no diserability and attraction from anyone? Yes or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?You asked a leading question you clearly already had an answer for. Can you answer it? You initially said that attractivens and diserability are "minor things" you also said that sex is a "basic need" If a lack of the former leads to a lack of the later which it clearly does then you just proved yourself wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do you expect in a partner and why do you deserve it.Why do you deserve someone who matches your traits? Because you we're born with the right genetics and supportM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Your proving my point unintentionally. You don't think that it's even possible that hot people aren't mopey because people treat them better? You don't think it's possible that big fat unattractive people are pessimistic downers as a result of the way they are treated... 1+1 = 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Okay what percentage of people posting on this sub have problems reaching any of those needs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?You can do all of that and still get laid and a partner if you look good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?So domestic abuse has nothing to do with "Demeanor, motivations, emotions"? If it does then clearly those things are not repellers as you claimed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Everyone who is attractive has said it doesn't and everyone who isn't attractive has said it matters more than anything. What does that suggest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?But we have other drives which are bigger like the drive for sex. Wrong unless you mean drive to eat, drink, and sleep. Everything else is sexual drive masqueraded as something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?People with horrible personalities get in relationships and casual sex all the time. Why do you think domestic abuse is so high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?One guy rejecting you is "dating struggles"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?But I thought looks didn't matter much for women and that a great personality on a 5'3" guy would get him a girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?How do you know it's because of your height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Okay the amount of tall women who have struggled is so much than the amount of short men who have struggled that the former isn't even worth mentioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Yes no tall women had ever experienced dating struggles because she was tall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?So one guy over your entire lifetime who you stuck around with enough to have it happen twice is worth worrying night and day over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?Forbidding you from seeing your friends who said anything about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?How many times has safety legitimately been an issue and not just in your head in your lifetime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 6 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?I love how every women here is married or has a tall HVM boyfriend they love and yet they are also constantly getting rapped and sexually harassed makes you wonder 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 12 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?Women's own subjective experiences or a proven psychological bias what seems more credible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand datingNo it isn't. If I say "Hitler had an argument" is that a valid response to your comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:57 PM |
| 3 | People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand datingOkay sure the word practical can be used in places objectively bad. Doesn't mean you can say the advice is comparable because it used an ambiguous word. Your smarter than this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:42 PM |
| 6 | People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand datingWe both know that comparing killing the Jews to helping someone struggling in a marriage are not remotely comparable. If you disagree then you should probably go back to grade school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 8 | People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand datingTRP is comparable to hitler? That takes the cake as the new dumbest take on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 9 | There is no correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as "CREEPY"Are you attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:26 PM |
| 1 | If there’s any hesitation from your date, he’s/she’s just not that into you and you should eject immediatelyThen you we're used and are in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)If you withhold sex from a guy you are not likely to find a man who will only what you as his opinion unless you are very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)we want to be one and only for a man No every man gets it... But the men you want have to have the ability to have options. It's not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)And he had options and chose you. You won the competition congrats. Keep proving my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Then you want a desperate man got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 05:32 PM |
| – | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)So you want to date a man who your his only option so you can essentially control his behavior to match your will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:47 PM |
| – | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)You've got it backwards a true HVM has multiple options or girls who he can choose to be his girlfriend. Therefore he will pick the one that acts according to his own standards. The withholding sex will just filter for guys desperate enough to stay with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:30 PM |
| – | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)A true HVM will get a girlfriend on his own terms. None of the "my way or the highway" that FDS gratiously provides. No withholding anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?If she isn't then I doubt she would be on reddit... If she does then you agree with me then right? all women are attractive to get chosen by men who don’t want to treat them like a come dump? Women do the choosing not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 01:16 AM |
| 7 | How do men want women to behave?Then she should work harder on herself before complaining. The three kids is a big turn off to most guys. No one wants to deal with someone else's bad choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 11:21 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Having to put in minimal effort to not be lonely the horror | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?I prefer to speak to people who don't want me to get murdered :) Implying I want you to get murderered... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 4 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?"I lied to prove a point" got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:33 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Did you even read the link you posted or just comment the first link that supported your argument? It states that the vast majority of the comments labeled "mysognist" by combining two hateful words we're posted by 10% of the users... Misogyny can be defined as “an unreasonable fear or hatred of women that takes on some palpable form in any given society” and “sexual prejudice that is symbolically exchanged (shared) among men” (Gilmore 2001, 9). Misogyny is one of the most pervasive features of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:32 PM |
| 4 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Lmaoo You "I think you want x" Me "i don't think that's what I want that makes no sense" You "You are right I don't think that's what you want" Me "Then why did your say I wanted that"? You "Because you do want it" Keep going this is making you look great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 4 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Then why did you say it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:21 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?If you really think that's what I want then you just further proved my point :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:18 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Okay it was nice talking to you. I prefer to talk to people who think rationally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?And the other times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:54 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Should any group be judged by it's worst members? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 15 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?You can't complain that you are lonely for saying "the guys I want to want me" when you have dozens or hundreds of men who are compatible who you are rejecting for arbitrary reasons without giving them the chance. That is artificial lonleyness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:48 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?That's not an answer. There are tons of more hateful subs all across the site. Can you give a number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:42 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Bumble you start the conversation did you start it with anything that would lead to a nonsexual consersation (i.e. not hey cutie :)) Was your profile clear about your intention and gave relevant information? I highly highly doubt you did so and you didn't receive a single conversation with a man who didn't talk about sex after seeing many female friends experiences and conversations on different apps. It seems like a personal issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:40 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?What percentage of men on those subs do you think make comments like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:38 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?They have tinder for that I'd wager the majority or slightly less of guys on those apps are not looking for hookups. Don't project. On bumble and hinge you have information about the person so it's super easy to vet people by intention. Have you used them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:34 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Which the apps I mentioned provide over something like tinder... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:16 PM |
| – | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Why don't lonely women use any dating app like bumble or hinge while essentially guarantees them someone to talk to even though it may not be who they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Are social class and looks correlated? If yes are onlyfan girls exacerbating wealth inequalityI care about responding to the claim made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Are social class and looks correlated? If yes are onlyfan girls exacerbating wealth inequalityThe difference between 5'9" and 6'5" is 8 inches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Are social class and looks correlated? If yes are onlyfan girls exacerbating wealth inequalityStunted growth doesn't mean 8 inches. Can you show where it says anything anywhere near 8 inches in your source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Are social class and looks correlated? If yes are onlyfan girls exacerbating wealth inequalityThey are 8 inches shorter? Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Are social class and looks correlated? If yes are onlyfan girls exacerbating wealth inequalityThat's a big claim any evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadDo you think it's healthy to have a 5'1" child with down syndrome work all his entire life with the goal of making the nba or do you think he could best use his time in millions of other productive successful ways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThere is a difference between being optimistic and comparing "non catches" probably average men to someone who has a deformity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWell if he would have said yes then you we'rent a femcel your standards we're just high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNot catches are different than someone with a messed up facial or bone structure. Don't virtue signal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadLol if you asked the ugliest guy at your school in those days out you think he would have said no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadBecause of the way he looks clearly. Don't be obtuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Why do you think they think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 2 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.How is that at all evidence of men being upset that women wanting hot guys, while he wants a hot girl. Then, they also complain that nothing in a relationship is worth it when sex isnt involved. ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousI said that? I'm pissy and resentful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.What personal experience? Can you give 5 examples of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.How many do you think require an attractive women as opposed to any women at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.They typically complain about women wanting hot guys, while he wants a hot girl. Then, they also complain that nothing in a relationship is worth it when sex isnt involved. Who is this "they" you are referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.How do you know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Who feels oppressed? There is a difference between acknowledge truth and feeling oppressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Who's going around and yelling anything? To say that the two you listed are the only real privledges makes 0 sense. Genetic variation in every single possible category creates some from of privilege in everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 08:17 PM |
| 4 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Wow I pity your narrow worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousIf you have to ask you are prob promiscuous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 32 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousPromiscuous definition: having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships. There is no "appearing" you or whoever acts this way are promiscuous. You can't change the meaning of words because you don't like the way it makes you look. /endthread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 53 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuous"Just because you are promiscuous doesn't mean you are promiscuous" "only describe me using words that make me look good" This post in a nutshell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 06:48 PM |
| 4 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.You don't think women have any dating privledges? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.How are your desires any less selfish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 10 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Acknowledging the privledges they have and the bitter reality that most men born below a certain threshold experience rather than ignoring it and shaming men who experience it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menThen that will be clear and she won't be "playing hard to get" in the way described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menWrong those same women will give a quick fuck and no games to the guy they really want no questions asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 05:57 PM |
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