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Everyone knows his reputation at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:16 PM
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Pretty privilege is real. I made a post about it on my account. Attractive people get away with much more than someone who is average. I’ve known women who dated obviously abusive men for so long that it took a lot for them to snap out of it. Why? They were tall, good looking and etc. An average dude would not get away with that. A lot of people discount compatibility for characteristics that don’t last. Then wonder why they are so unhappy? A point I made in my other post is that as you get olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:07 PM
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I agree with you. If you read my other comment on this thread, I said that I don’t feel sorry for any of these women as everybody knows his reputation. Transactional relationships built on shallowness never last. You need emotional connection and compatibility for a fulfilling long lasting relationship. If you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:25 PM
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Huge age gaps pretty much never work for LTR. Most never even make it to the settle down phase because they are not practical. If you do marry one who is much older, what happens when they die? You end up alone and widowed or at best a live in caretaker. Most will divorce even before that as the younger partner grows to regret the older one. It has never made any sense to marry someone significant older to me as a women. Celebrities tend to be very shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:15 PM
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Elon Musk is the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:08 PM
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Your red pill so there’s no point in arguing with you but I’ll state my opinion. First, that’s not true. Most people marry +/- 5 years. Divorce rate SKYROCKETS as age gap increases and for good reason. Age gaps come with a lot of risks, challenges, and sacrifices that don’t occur with similar aged couples. You can’t grow or relate to each other. Hence, why age gap relationships are largely transactional. Basically, all about sex or one partner exerting power over another. Even the ones that do o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:20 PM
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There just transactional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:47 PM
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He seems emotionally stunted and child like. A woman would be a fool to date him now. I honestly think that the women he dates are all under contracts. Basically, sugar daddy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:43 PM
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All these women are getting traded in. Is that something to aspire for?? There are lots of men who will love you and grow with you. He seems emotionally stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:41 PM
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Seconding this.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 06:04 PM
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Great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:20 PM
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Lol yeah it doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:17 PM
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It’s about lifestyle factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:24 AM
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The pool is smaller at 30. That’s an important point. Most people who want to be married / settled will do it by 35 at the latest. This is consistent with stats. Age gaps really are not that common as Reddit makes it seem and for a good reason. It’s a lot of risk and challenges. I did it once and will never again but that’s a different story. Looking at people I know who are married. 85% is +/- 5 years. All the significant age gaps (+7/8 years to me ) I know failed. If you want a successful rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:19 AM
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Yep I’m a millennial but a big issue is that our generation and even Gen z puts the wrong things in importance for a relationship. The most successful relationships I have seen are from people who were friends first or there is an underlying friendship. Both genders are guilty of putting overemphasis on looks and not looking at emotional connection / compatibility. We also have grass is greener syndrome. People who don’t understand that relationships take work and always just move to the next on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:57 AM
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The biggest issue is that A LOT of people have a goal to be married by 30 if they can. The dating pool gets a lot smaller by 30 and options will be very limited by 35. Most people who want to be married will do it by 35. A lot of educated people marry in early 30s. If you take care of yourself, there’s no reason you should look old in your 30s. It depends on so many individual factors. If you smoke and do hard drugs then yeah you probably won’t look so great haha. I’ve seen women and men who loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:42 AM
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Great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:34 AM
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It’s crazy how women value height above all things. Saying this as one. He’s tall and nothing else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:32 AM
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Yep, I actually know a guy who left a younger women for a woman his own age. Why? No compatibility / emotional connection. Those things become very important as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:30 AM
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Wow really great post. As a women I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:28 AM
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Wow I love this. Very nicely said.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 09:09 PM
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Yeah nothing wrong with having the expectation talk so I agree with you. It’s the WAY it comes across. It came across as he was trying to talk me down. If it comes across respectfully to not waste each other’s time from the get go, it’s actually a good thing.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 04:25 PM
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It was a teaching moment for sure and I’m just glad I didn’t waste more than 3 months with him. Your right lol even if your post is a bit blunt haha. As I matured a bit, I realized what I actually needed and wanted in a relationship. I was just too young and naive at the time to understand what was going on. It really is a new beautiful day lol. I’m actually planning to get married to a great guy who sees me as his equal so it’s all in the past. I just wanted to share my story.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:52 PM
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Insane because I don’t want another young women to be in my situation? Ok then I’ll take it lol.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:02 PM
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He knows women in his age range can easily clock he has issues. An inexperienced women wouldn’t be able to tell right away.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 01:59 PM
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I’m actually not white so… you need a lot of help.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 01:54 PM
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Yeah I was young and naive at the time. Frankly, I didn’t know any better. In hindsight, there should have never been a second date. He kept pushing.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 11:14 AM
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There’s no way for people like this to see reason. There are good men out there, he is just not one of them. If you know what to look for, these guys are easily exposed.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:42 AM
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I’m doing really well actually. Found a really great guy 😊.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:37 AM
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Spoken like a true RP lmao. What happens when those women inevitably age out? Replaced by a younger model? It’s a system where women cannot win.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 10:52 PM
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It’s a system where women cannot win. The smartest thing would be to find someone who loves you for YOU. Narcissistic, shallow characteristics are readily apparent early on.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 01:56 PM
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Nobody talks like this in actual real life. Huge age gaps don’t work on a practical matter which is why they don’t last. If your looking for a successful long term relationship your better off with a similar aged person. Another thing is that the larger the age gaps are the more and more likely the relationship is just transactional.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 01:45 PM
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I don’t think the men who do this realize the psychological damage they leave. I think it’s the lack of closure that messes you up. As messed up as it is, I think some men want to “ruin” these women’s lives in a way. Like actually want her to suffer. It makes me wonder if these men had a poor women role model in their lives to end up so damaged. It’s psychopathic. It takes a really really strong person to overcome this. I actually knew a girl who killed herself over something like this because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:09 AM
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I really enjoyed reading this. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:36 PM
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I’m hoping to find a life partner so my priorities must change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:28 PM
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This was a very sweet story to read. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:21 PM
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I really like this comment. Interesting take about the money. You could very well be right about the money thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:14 PM
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Yep my priorities changed as I got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:13 PM
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Really? 80% seems abnormally high..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:11 PM
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Yes I’ve noticed that people are more picky with online dating than IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:11 PM
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I feel like this is true. Most people can be average with minimum effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:08 PM
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Thank you. This is wise advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:07 PM
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This is a great post. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:07 PM
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I agree and I too want a partner I have some level of attraction too but what I am saying is that other factors should also be taken seriously. A lot of people in my experience will ignore their values and what they actually need in a relationship because said person is “hot”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:01 AM
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Another red piller on here…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:59 AM
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Do you feel like it should be that way though? I feel like so many people lose sight of potentially amazing partners because they are not “hot”. Not saying unattractive but just average regular looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:55 AM
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But you hardly ever see the reverse. Proves my point.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 04:35 AM
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Black female as well with higher education. Having the same experience. Men love white chicks. Most of the black men are statically not doing well at all and the ones that are almost always date out of their race.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 04:34 AM
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Ana de armas? It’s these kind of sexist comments is why woman think we’re pigs haha. I’ve seen gorgeous woman in their 30s. 30s is not old but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:31 AM
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