Dismal-Willow4027 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you navigate relationships in 2026 as a middle aged man? (3x Divorced) Yes yes yes	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 02:48 AM
1	Divorce is finalized Agree 💯 percent you are kicking the divorce can down the road — for the sake of your kids? You might be surprised to learn what they feel under the surface, what kind of role model you are for them would you want your kids to endure an unhappy dysfunctional marriage when they’d been degraded? More to the point, if you believe that after 18 years you were ‘the love of her life’ and then everything changed suddenly in a week or so, I suspect you weren’t sensing what was missing- for her- on a deep…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/26 03:56 PM
3	Is she dead weight? Consult an attorney at once, whether you stay in the marriage or not. A consultation with an experienced divorce lawyer will likely yield insights into how best to protect yourself and your assets, what the risks are, what to expect if you move forward with separation/divorce. I went to two different attorneys and each provided sobering- no pun intended- consequences for me to consider.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/26 06:17 PM
1	New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here? So you lied! She did do something that shook you but instead of taking the opportunity to share your concerns and discuss, you took the passive-aggressive way out. How can anyone learn to manage relationships better if not informed of the behavior that put a boyfriend/ girlfriend or partner off?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/26 04:38 AM
4	New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here? Or ‘hey, how was your evening? What did you do for dinner?’ type thing in a friendly way!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/26 07:11 AM
1	New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here? 👍🏻👍🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/26 07:05 AM
2	New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here? Not! Coming from a woman.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/26 07:04 AM
3	New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here? Agree with upvoters here about not automatically assuming she’s having a relationship/sex with another guy. My first thought was that she’s having twice a week therapy sessions of some kind and may feel embarrassed — people do judge that negatively if not familiar with the ways therapy can be meaningful. Or maybe one of her kids is having issues or appointments and she wants to be there for them, or they have family therapy—not uncommon after divorce. Rather than straight up asking ‘what do you …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/26 07:03 AM