DismalSilver7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression Most of them are having sex but yes i agree that men share less their emotions. I dont know how it is between men friends but with my women friends we talk a lot about how we feel, our doubts, our insecurities, how we struggle...and being single or having no sex is not a shame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 10:05 PM
1	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression France. I dont know the stat there, i know that we have also "incels" but maybe because its usually people with low social circle, i dont interact with them. Online i see everywhere things about male loneliness, incels...but IRL mens seems to have a "normal" and happy life for most of them. People are having their first kiss in elementary school or middle school. 17 is the age of the average first sexual intercourse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 09:49 PM
1	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression I dont live in the US but most of the men i know ( friends, work...) are in a relationship. 66% seems a lot ! I think covid and dating app have change things a lot. When i was 18, people were having fun at night clubs, bar or at friends house. Alcohol helped but people were interacting with each others and having sex. It was a lot of " right place, right moment". Maybe some men were asocial but it was not the majority i think. Talking to a girl was not a big deal. I had male friends. I can under…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 09:28 PM
3	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression Im not offended but i dont think because some men dont have sex, it means they are looser or ugly. Men dont need to earn 6k or be a 6ft top model to have sex. Yes sex is important but it doesnt mean you have no value as an human if you dont have sex. Im not saying that i dont like sex, im just saying that men who are not semi god can have sex. Its not black and white. You dont have sex ? You are ugly and no value. You have sex ? You are handsome and value. No. None of my friends had sex with top…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 08:41 PM
1	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression I dont understand how sex gives values to men. Look around you, a lot of bad or ugly men have sex. On reddit it seems that only men with good looks or money ( the 6-6-6 ) have sex and so the others sexless men are loosers. Its not true. Having sex is not an accomplishment and prove nothing about your value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 01:17 PM
5	What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution? I dont see it like this. I am attracted or not, i dont have a hierarchy between attractive people. I want to sleep with a guy or not, it doesnt matter if i have other choice or not. If i have only the bottom 10 available like you said, and i dont find them attractive : i prefer to sleep with no one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 08:41 AM
9	What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution? You know that you cant choose what is gonna be sexually attractive for you ? You are attracted or not, it doesnt matter if you think about calibrating your physical standards. Do you say that women must ignore what they are attracted to, choose a guy they wont find attractive and never want to have sex with him ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:53 PM
1	Dating apps are hard for women Yes but you said that men got no ego boost from getting likes or being desired by the opposite sex. Reading reddit, as a female, you see that men are capable of having sex with anything : "women with a pulse" so how is it a compliment ? They want to have sex with everyone. They even have sex with women they find ugly and disgusting because " a pussy is better than no pussy'. So no i dont think im desired when a men want to sleep with me. I dont even know if he find me attractive at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 06:27 PM
1	Dating apps are hard for women As i said : matches have no values for us. It means nothing. Someone tried to do a female profile with no pictures : he got hundreds of like. So yeah nothing. Its maybe worst to be ghosted afterwards when men look at their matches and didnt choose you. I once asked some why they didnt talk to me and they said " we dont want the same thing " because they read my bio after and i didnt want hookups. So yeah depressing to see that spread our legs is the only thing that men wants from us. I know men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 06:23 PM
4	Dating apps are hard for women Men are swiping right on everyone, without looking so getting matches means nothing and we know it. Having likes doesnt mean that we are desired or wanted. In fact, when you read on reddit that men could fuck a tree, you dont feel desired at all since they just want to nut with anything, not you in particular. No ego boost as you said. Men put low efforts on dating app, 80% of the time, the photo sucks. Im always curious to know how a men posting a photo with a pen in his nose could think " oh g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:35 PM
4	the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awareness I see no point to be with a man i dont love/not attracted to. Why would you be unhappy ? Do you want to spend 40 years with a girl you dont like/find attractive ? Is it not better to be with a girl you love or to be single ? We dont need to be in a relationship to live now, its great, we can choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 10:20 PM
1	The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chances There is no "friendzone" or "nice guy" syndrome, we are just not into you. You could have show sexual interest from the start, it wont change anything ! We are attracted or not to you. The fact that you show interest wont change our level of attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 10:00 PM