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My boyfriend is a gamer and I used to get annoyed sometimes that he didn't want to hang out with me. Now as I've gotten older, he has other things that keep him busy and he just games sometimes; kind of like how I watch TV or a movie. It's just one of those things where you gotta accept it or move on! I try to find ways to get involved (because I actually like watching him game), but that's just me
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 03:49 PM
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this has to be a troll post
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 10:32 PM
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It's not the end of the world. Dating may be harder for you, but I know several woman (who are much older and got re-married) who managed to find a Mr.Right. You are not broken, you are not trapped, you are simply a young woman with a beautiful baby that will find the right man for you to support you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 01:56 PM
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For solo, I really liked playing "Yes, Your Grace" it's one of those games where you play a king and its choose your own adventure. It's one of the only games I've played all the way through!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 07:44 PM
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Shut it down. No marriage, no house together
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 04:46 AM
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I think they're degenerate lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 07:55 PM
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You said your parents have heard all sorts of things about him. What have they heard? Do you really think it's because he's Eastern European or is there something more?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 10:18 PM
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Honestly, I don't think this is something to compromise on. Be wary of genetic screenings because I have heard a lot of anecdotes of false positives only for the baby to turn out fine. I would hate to hear that a baby would have actually been fine only for it to have been aborted because of a medical error.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 08:33 PM
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You could wear long skirts with tights/leggings underneath!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 06:20 PM
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Holy cow that Brie sandwich sounds amazing. Here are two of my fav easy recipes: Slow Cooker Swedish Meatballs Instant Pot Posole Verde For the posole, I don't make my own verde, but I use two bottles of the La Victoria(?) salsa verde.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 05:21 AM
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First, I would pray on this since God is the one who will be able to help the most on this. But in terms of how you'll know, you won't EXACTLY know until it happens, and it may even be a little awkward at first! That is perfectly normal, especially if you are both inexperienced (and even if you aren't, it can take a little to get into that groove while you calibrate each other's preferences). The beautiful thing is that you have the comfort of knowing that you can experiment safely within your m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:33 AM
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I wish you both only the best!!! This is super bizarre, I thought this was RPW? This feels like a SJW feminist response.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 07:15 PM
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Why are people bashing your writing? I don't understand what that really has to do with anything. Yes you are young, but you are married and planned to have a child. Congratulations! I'm sorry that people are putting you down about this. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and that your husband fully supports you during your time of need. I think your friends and family are just worried about you being 19, but it's not like you had a child out of wedlock or something! Being a young mother will b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 06:45 PM
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The sidebar has some great stuff! I would also recommend "Men are from Mars and Women are From Venus." It sounds really cheesy, but the book is surprising RP and gave me a lot of insight into myself and the male psyche in a very digestible way. I think reading in general will also help broaden your horizons and not make you focus so much on yourself! The Happiness Hypothesis is also good one! The author considers ancient wisdom and modern wisdom and just sort of Frankensteins them together to ma…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 04:11 PM
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If he was a real man, he shouldn't need to look to you for financial advice: he would handle it himself. In my opinion, he is not a generous giver because he always expects something in return. Who gives a gift and then turns around and says that gift was expensive, make sure you do some special for me? You seem to do your fair share of giving and taking, and you're trying to let him take care of you when he sees fit. He does not seem like he knows his own finances well and is looking for a momm…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 04:06 PM
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I actually went through something similar myself, except my boyfriend just got me a really practical gift instead. What I did is gently tell him that I prefer romantic/personal gifts, and I didn't feel like he did that, and this I felt unappreciated/unloved even if that was not his intention. I offered to split the cost of one of the gifts he got (he declined) but he understood why I felt the way he did and is getting a different gift for me after our conversation. Communicate, communicate, comm…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/20 06:42 AM
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I like her! I think she can come off as a little condescending sometimes, but I just like to listen to her sometimes for the core of her messages. I think it's important to have different views on social media platforms when everything seems to be so overtly liberal now. It's nice to see someone fight for things that they believe in.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 05:41 PM
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lol my point is that you seem to think it's bad for people to have different views of modesty than you and to advocate for them. I really don't care tbh but I don't think it makes someone trash to have different view than the norm
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 03:47 PM
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Would you be as critical of Muslim culture and their ideas of modesty?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 03:35 PM
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I wouldn't say they're passé, she's Orthodox Jewish.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 03:33 PM
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I'm so sorry that you had to see your man for what he is. It's obviously your relationship, but the fact that he wasn't communicative with you and just pulled all this crap is unacceptable. He's older than you and should know better, but he doesn't. I think it's good to have an education to back up on. In this economy, it's usually expected to go back to work after some time. He did not make this clear with you until he embarrassed you in front of all of his friends. I think this is a wake up ca…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 07:12 AM
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If she's so "crazy" why would she be invited to his party at all? And more importantly, why would he prioritize his ex being at a party, and dissuade his fiancée from being with him at said party? Whole thing sounded very weird. It sounds like she went with her man anyway tho.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/20 03:23 AM
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Oh my god how horrible! I was shocked while reading this. His behavior was completely unacceptable. The first red flag to me was him saying you probably shouldn't come because of his "crazy" ex. If she's so crazy... why would she be there??? She sounded nice and was polite. He was out of control and undermined you in front of everyone because of his insecurity in front of an ex? I suggest you have a very frank conversation that focuses on how he made you feel: "I felt really confused and hurt by…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 06:02 PM
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Roasted spaghetti squash with marinara and meatballs
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 07:28 PM
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Have you thought about talking to him about you not feeling secure? Did you discuss what it meant to live together? I was in a similar position where I knew my boyfriend and I shared the same goals and knew we eventually wanted to marry eachother and even wanted to live together. What has made me feel very secure is that we have discussed a timeline of when we want to get married and have children. This is why we are moving in together, because we love each other and we are on the same exact pag…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 11:15 PM
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Oh Jesus, I am so sorry that you are going through this. I'm not exactly sure what you're looking for, but sure, I guess he's bi. What's more important is you getting out of this horrible situation, though!! It sounds like you're on the right track to working on getting away. Don't look back.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 04:33 AM
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I like reading
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 02:19 AM
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What? This isn't materialistic this is REALISTIC. How can he aspire to have a SAHM as a wife and not want to get a job?!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 01:36 PM
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J'écris en français pour vous car j'ai bien besoin de practiquer (désolé à ma grammaire). Vous avez bien vu comment il vous traite dans un couple: terrible! Il faut avoir de respect en-soi-même et trouver quelqu'un d'autre: quelqu'un qui partage vos valeurs. Il a déjà menti plusieurs fois. Je sais que c'est très difficile de lui quitter, mais il faut si tu veux être vraiment heureuse, et avec quelqu'un qui t'aime complètement. Prends du temps pour developer soi-même et pour trouver ce que vous c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 10:02 PM
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Bail! He's clearly not trying to woo you or respect you if he's mentioning other women. To me, the first red flag was you planning the entire date because "he was tired and had no energy"
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 04:09 PM
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I don't think all is lost then! However, you mentioned that you are not official, that you are not telling anyone, and you are not trying to have expectations be high. Can you explain this? Are you both exclusive? This is what I do not understand. I think most of all, are you hoping to be an official couple again? RPW wisdom typically dictates that you do not sleep with a man until you get that commitment, as a way to protect yourself in case things go awry (and to spare yourself extra heartache…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 11:27 PM
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Agreed with the other comments, you will probably need to break things off because of not being about to negotiate attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 07:42 PM
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What about the relationship is making you go back? What are you hoping to get out of your renewed relationship? Are you dating or sleeping together? Why did you break up in the first place? These are all important things to consider. I know it can be really hard to not go back to what is comfortable, but more often than not, it's usually not advisable to get back with an ex.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 07:40 PM
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Sad, but true. She still has lots of worthy content though! It's sad to see liberals tear her views up on YT since I guess she's being advertised, which draws attention to her channel.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 06:03 AM
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Classically Abby!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 05:00 AM
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